Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff | Dating, Self-Sabotage, Red Flags, People Pleasing, Love Bombing

Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff | Dating, Self-Sabotage, Red Flags, People Pleasing, Love Bombing

***TOP 10% GLOBALLY RANKED PODCAST*** Are you a high-achieving baddie who hasn’t found success in your romantic relationships? Do you keep falling for the wrong type while missing obvious red-flags? Do you over-function in relationships, to the point that you neglect yourself? Or, are you a people pleaser who constantly feels taken advantage of? Have you stayed in relationships way longer than you should? Does the thought of trying to fix it all leave you feeling like giving up on relationships all together? If you’re ready to stop losing yourself in relationships and start doing the “self-work” that you’ve been putting off, then babes, you’re in the right place. This podcast will help you stop the self-sabotage, own your mistakes and nurture you through the changes you know you need to make in order to call in the love you desire and deserve. Hey Babes. I’m Dr. Tiff. A licensed psychotherapist and relationship coach, wife, momma of one and lover of God, hip hop and my nightly glass of wine. For the past 20+ years, I’ve been helping high-achieving women, just like you, find the love and the life that they desperately desire and deserve. Some married. Some single. All baddies in their respective businesses. Yet, nearly all had one thing in common: They all needed to confront patterns and habits that have kept them stuck and blocked them from finding “the one.” Their hearts were ready for love but self-sabotage, ignoring red flags, co-dependency and the avoidance of self-work was keeping them (and you) from attracting the love of their lives. What I know for sure is that your over-compensation for what your partner lacks, your self-neglect and your lack of boundaries won’t net you the partner you’ve been dreaming of. It’s not until you confront those old patterns of people-pleasing, staying in dead-end relationships & holding onto past hurt, that we become more open to new strategies that will actually help us fix what’s broken; within ourselves and our relationships. When I began leading my clients through this process, a major shift happened in their romantic lives. The moment they began to focus on their own growth and transformation, the love that they desired started showing up for them in ways they were finally ready to embrace. By working on the only person you can change (YOU), and resisting the urge to focus on what’s beyond your control, my clients are finding that chasing after, hoping for or trying to strong-arm someone into being “the one,” just isn’t worth it. Rather than looking for “the one,” I help them BECOME THE ONE. If you’re ready to get your love life together with a little help from a God-fearing, wine guzzling baddie, who’ll hold you accountable and make you laugh every step of the way - this podcast is for you! So go ahead, babes. It's time to kick off your Loubs, un-bra your boobs and clink glasses with your girl. Get ready to Fix Your Relationships. Join The Facebook Group We're growing & so are you. So, we might as well grow together, Babes!! We've just launched our Facebook Community and we'd love for you to join us. Visit www.FYRCommunity.com, answer a few simple questions (so we know you're not a bot 🤖), and you're in! Subscribe To The Newletter Interested in connecting on a deeper level? Join the Become The ONE community: a safe-space for like-mined women, all learning how to call-in the love and life they deserve while focusing on their own growth and transformation. If you KNOW you’ve got some work to do and are ready to face your relationship missteps, you’re ready to Become The ONE. Visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist and sign up today.

Episodes

August 20, 2025 16 mins

Do you push your romantic partners away, even when you really want them close? Are you guilty of holding back your feelings, but are resentful of your partner for not reading your mind? If so, you may be sabotaging your relationship.

In today's episode, we'll explore the 5 ways in which you may be sabotaging your relationship. Understanding the "why" is the necessary first step of improve present and future relationships.

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Are you in a relationship that's been over for some time, but you just can't bring yourself to leave? Have you ever wondered why you stay in romantic relationships when it's crystal clear they're not going anywhere? Well it's time you got some answers, sis.

In today's episode, we'll explore the 9 reasons we stay in dead-end relationships. By episode's end, my hope is that you'll have a better understanding of your patterns and how ...

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Understanding sexual desire is crucial for intimate relationships; especially, when our libido is low. In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, Dr. Tiff delves into the complexities of sexual desire, particularly focusing on the causes of low sexual desire among women. If after listening to this episode, you find that you, or someone you love, may be struggling with low sexual desire, you are encourage to seek the help of a medic...

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Many women struggle to find their person, their ideal partner, THE ONE. The good news is, you're not alone. The not so good news is, you may need to make some serious, dare I say drastic, changes in order to find the love of your life.

In this episode of Fix Your Relationship, Dr. Tiff discusses the importance of self-work in finding and maintaining healthy romantic relationships. She emphasizes what you may need to start and stop ...

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We all want our romantic relationships to work out. But what if there's something you're doing (or not doing) that's keeping you from having the relationship you desire and deserve? 

In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, we'll explore the many ways we could be sabotaging our relationships and undermining its success. This is not an attempt to point the finger but rather an opportunity for self awareness, enhanced intimacy and ...

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Ever wondered what it means to be in a "sexless" marriage? Want to make physical intimacy more of a priority in your relationship? The key to turning things around in your sex life, and your relationship, may be as easy as opening the calendar app on your phone.

In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, Dr. Tiff discusses the challenges busy high-achieving women face in their romantic relationships, particularly focusing on the is...

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Do you find it difficult to be vulnerable in relationships? Is it hard to build trust with someone new? Understanding your unique trust issues (and where they stem from) is critical if you want to overcome them. In this episode of the Fix Your Relationships podcast, Dr. Tiff explores the complexities of trust issues in relationships, particularly for high-achieving women. She outlines five essential steps to understand, identify, a...

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Many women struggle with Low Sexual Desire. Others may think that they have low sexual desire when in reality, something else is going on. In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, Dr. Tiff simplifies sexual desire and provides listeners with 3 critical questions to help them determine if their sexual desire is actually low.  

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So many of us see meditation as an insurmountable feat; something that they just can't do. But I'm here to tell you that you already have exactly what you need to be successful on your journey to worry less and gain greater focus and control over your emotions.

In today's conversation, Dr. Tiff empowers the naysayers by providing 5 simple hacks for making meditation an easy and essential part of your everyday life. With practice an...

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Are anxiety and worry getting the best of you? In today's episode, Dr. Tiff outlines the 5 Simple Anxiety Hacks that will change the way you conquer this challenging emotion. After listening to this episode, you'll gain understanding of your anxiety and how they impact your personal growth and relationships. 

Ready to kick anxiety to the curb? Download Releasing The Stronghold of Anxiety and experience the power of guided meditatio...

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If you've ever struggled with moving on or letting go, you'll want to pour yourself a glass of wine and get cozy with this episode. Understanding your role in what's holding you back is the first step to moving on and letting go. In this episode, Dr. Tiff provides the key to letting go (and it's not what you think. She also provides listeners with 3 key mantras to take your power back.

 

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It was time for a change and you're among the first to hear about it. Intimate Details with Dr. Tiff is officially . . . Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff. It's gonna take a little getting used to but in today's episode, I talk with you about why this change is so important and quite frankly, necessary. I'm so excited about this new path of learning and growing. My hope is offer you tactical strategy and expert advice in your qu...

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Have you found yourself overwhelmed with challenges from the past, unsure of how to tie them up and move forward? What if your greatest strength lay in embracing the imperfections that make you unique? Join Dr. Tiff, as she explores how 2024 became a transformative year of self-discovery, vulnerability and growth, in ways she could never have imagined. Together, we unpack the intricacies of balancing a hectic professional life, s...

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Ever wonder how to strike the perfect balance between your love life and a demanding career? Tana Gilmore, corporate powerhouse  turned love guru, joins us to share her incredible journey and the lessons she's learned along the way. In this episode, Tana reveals the secrets behind making powerful connections and guides us through the labyrinth of modern dating, offering invaluable advice for those who seem to have it all but are mi...

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When faced with an education system that values test scores over the art of teaching, Koereyelle Mallard made the audacious leap from educator to serial entrepreneur, and she joins us to share the exhilarating twists of her journey. Her story is a battle cry for the passionate and a blueprint for turning adversity into opportunity, as she recounts the systemic flaws that snatched her from the classroom and thrust her into the world...

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***PLEASE DRINK RESPONSIBLY*** Have you ever imagined turning your day job upside down in pursuit of what sets your heart ablaze? Ty Nicole Tucker did exactly that, leaving her insurance manager role to stir things up in the mixology scene with So Mixxy. Step into Ty's captivating world as we explore her transformative journey from Howard alum to creator of bespoke cocktail experiences. From her leap of faith during her MBA abroad ...

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When Douglas Whatley sits down at the piano, I wouldn't be surprised if his chickens are his most attentive audience. Lol. It's that delightfully unique blend of urban farm life, music, and heartfelt wisdom that makes our latest conversation with this renaissance man a stand-out episode. Doug, an author, musician, and yes, a chicken farmer, shares his journey in the book "Dope Life, No Hype," which isn't just any workbook; it's an ...

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Ever wondered how marriage can thrive using Fortune 500 strategies? Bonika Wilson, a dynamo in the world of diversity, equity, and inclusion, joins us to unravel her evolution into a marriage enhancement advocate and shares the wealth of knowledge in her book, "Marriage Business: From Proposals to Prosperity – Building Your Dynasties the Fortune 500 Way." Buckle up for a session brimming with wisdom on how to craft a robust marital...

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As the new year unfurls its blank pages, many of us pencil in resolutions that often miss an essential component: our spiritual well-being. Enter Tiffany Nunnally, a spiritual life coach whose expertise in nurturing spiritual growth is nothing short of enlightening. Our conversation traverses the overlooked spiritual elements in our goal-setting and the profound impact of establishing a direct connection with our higher power. Tiff...

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Imagine sitting down with your bestie, someone who knows the ins and outs of health and the human heart. That's the warmth Dr. Jennifer Ashton, ABC News' Chief Health and Medical Correspondent, brings to our in-depth conversation about life's transitions, women's health, and so much more. Our laughter is contagious as we reminisce about our first meetings, the strength in affirmations, the grace in aging, and the power in embracing...

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