March 5, 2025 • 23 mins
Feeling overwhelmed by negativity and competition in today’s world? In this episode, we take a hard look at the impact of gossip, sneak disses, and inflated competition among peers. Our discussion reveals how these elements can hinder personal growth and create barriers in our relationships. We dive into the nature of adult competition, questioning why so many are preoccupied with comparing themselves to others instead of celebrating successes, both theirs and theirs.
Join us as we explore the relationship dynamics that come into play, addressing the often confusing line between friends and frenemies. Understanding who genuinely supports your journey is vital in building a healthy, uplifting environment. By recognizing feelings of insecurity and the urge to compete, we can realign our mental focus on what truly matters: mutual growth, support, and leaving behind the toxic cycles of negativity.
Tune in to discover practical strategies to distance yourself from harmful behaviors and cultivate a mindset focused on empowerment. Let’s challenge the norm and foster connections that uplift rather than undermine. If you’ve enjoyed our insights, share your thoughts, and subscribe for more empowering conversations!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ooh, kel-tex 2, 7-6-2,.
I can't wait till Buzz said you.
Ooh, kel-tex 2, 7-6-2,.
I can't wait till Buzz said you.
At you, at you.
Yeah, welcome to Four Steppers.
Only you here, with Jack.
(00:22):
Hey, it's afternoon.
We're doing a surprise drop fortoday.
Help us.
Only you here with Jack.
Hey, it's afternoon.
We're doing a surprise drop fortoday.
Because I'm so fucking sick andtired of folks talking about
this, talking about that, ortelling this to that person,
telling this to that person.
Then, when they come back toask you hey, man, fuck you, and
(00:42):
whatever information you bringit back to me, believe what that
motherfucker said over there,because I ain't got shit to
explain to you, nor that othermotherfucker over there.
Just so you can run back tothat motherfucker over there and
tell him whatever the fuck Isaid, so you can suck a sick
dick and that motherfucker cansick a sick dick.
Also because, hey, that'sthat's the type of mind frame we
are in today, in this time andera, because it's like man, shit
(01:04):
, I don't give a fuck what yougot to say about me.
I don't give a fuck what thatmotherfucker got to say about me
.
Hey, tell them.
Bring to my front though, say,tell them say in my vicinity,
because a lot of people arescared to say it in front of the
person, but they want to playgoddamn messenger, they want to
play secretary, they want to gothrough this person, that person
and a third person just to getsome shit back to you, knowing
(01:24):
that this motherfucker gonna runtheir dick sucker back to you.
So I'm just at this time andplace in my life to where it's
like you know what, believe whatthat motherfucker said over
there, because I know the truth,they know the truth and god
knows the so between me and you,fuck.
You fuck your opinion and this,that.
(01:47):
And the third, because I'm sotired of sneak disses, all these
sneak disses in the world, butain't got the testicles or the
stroke to say it in front of you, but they got all these ha-ha
kikis, what's up?
Man, da-da-da, man, man, takeyour goddamn sedidus fake ass on
somewhere else.
I mean shit.
(02:07):
That's why that the song at thevery beginning by saint lamar
hey, that song is called bust atyou.
Um, I'm gonna have the linkdown into the what you call it
on for y'all, but it that thatis.
That is a true statement of howI feel.
I feel about motherfuckersnowadays.
It's not like to figurativelysaying I'm about to shoot the
(02:29):
shit out you, but you're gonnafeel these bullets come at you
just by my, my, my, my aura, myenergy, my, my looks, my
demeanor, the vibe you get fromme.
Now, man, it's, it's, it's tothe point where it's like seven,
six, two.
I just want to say fuck you,fuck you, fuck you.
(02:54):
I'm just saying, man, becauseit's we are now too big in our
age and to worry about what thenext man has to say about
yourself, because we if I usedto hear this one thing on v103
I'm sorry I get this stutteringbecause, hey, if y'all didn't
know this, all this shit isfreestyle I might come up with
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the topic before the episode, ortwo days ago, three days ago or
, shit hell, even six weeks ago,but but at this point it's just
like.
I see the topic, I know what Iwant to talk about, but it's
just, people are like assholes.
They have opinions and they'regoing to say whatever the fuck
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they want to say, no matterwhether it's true or not.
Because I heard this goofy shitthe other night at work.
They told us hey, man, I heardy'all got a bet going on.
I said a bet, a bet about what,oh who can smash the most bitch
?
I said if y'all don't take thatelementary school shit on
somewhere else, because thatshit is unfeasible and childish
as fuck, why the fuck would I be?
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I mean, like, go ahead and keepshit funky.
If you go ahead and measuringyourself on how much pussy you
get In your life, nigga, you alame ass motherfucker.
I'm sorry to tell you this.
I mean shit.
If you worried about what thenext nigga Sticking his dick in,
or this, that and the third man, shit you, a lame ass nigga.
Shit, we on pocket watch, we ondick watch.
(04:17):
Cause if you dick watching andyou got Bitch tendencies To me
you are a ho, ho.
I mean straight up, because Idon't get.
I don't get the, I don't getthe constant competition.
The only thing I'm worriedabout is shit, hey, bro, shit,
hey.
You know the woot, woot justhit, goddamn woot, woot, oh boy,
I sure I heard that.
Nigga burning, bro.
(04:37):
Shit, there's a confirmed boy.
Shit, murder, death, kill,goddamn shit.
Shots fired, pop, pop thatnigga goddamn knocking folks off
with that.
Goddamn hurt that nigga.
Knock a goddamn over there,goddamn tightening folks over
that gonorrhea I'm talking about.
Clap on, clap off.
I'm talking about, I'm talkingtype shit.
But a lot of these motherfuckersare so worried about what the
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next man is doing, or or, orpillow talking to the next
motherfucker to even spread lies, spread rumors, spread this,
that.
And the third man.
I just can't fuck with nobodylike that, no more.
It's.
It's like everything goes backto that.
Saint lamar, I can't even fuckwith you, with you, with you, I
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can't even fuck with you.
But I mean shit.
But I know y'all over therelaughing your ass off.
They talking about this,singing nigga yo, that little
nigga can goddamn hold the tune,can't he?
But it's just to the pointwhere.
Where the fuck are we at insociety now?
To where we're so worried aboutwhat the next man is doing.
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I mean shit, it's eardropping.
I mean it's airdropping.
I mean it's breathtaking.
It's like y'all havetransitioned social media into
your actual lives, to where youthink you got to tell everything
, you think you got to commenton everything.
I mean one thing for certain,two things for sure Everything
don't need to be said,everything don't need to be
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explained, everything don't needto be saying, everything don't
need to be said, everythingdon't need to be explained.
So where the fuck are y'allgetting this?
This?
This mentality is thinking thatjust because you got a
mouthpiece means you got acomment.
I mean that shit sound dumb,stupid and retarded to me.
I mean honestly and truthfully.
I mean we live in a new era,man.
So people, so many people wantto be popular, so many people
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want to fit in, so many peoplewant to be Like in the mix.
To where they try so hard orthey try to dirty another
motherfucker's name, no matterwhether it's male or female.
Hell shit.
I heard niggas hate on bitches.
Where the fuck do we do that at?
Who raised y'all motherfuckers?
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To where y'all?
To where?
I'm sorry, I don't give a fuckwhat you got going on.
There's no reason to hate onthe next motherfucker like I
mean shit.
I mean I appreciate it.
It's like there are someentrepreneurs, there's some
workers.
You're gonna have the hatersand you're gonna have the
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motivators.
I mean, like they say on v103uh, if you ain't got no haters,
make them your motivators.
If you ain't got no haters,you're doing something wrong.
I mean shit straight up.
Because I mean shit.
Let them motherfuckers hatefrom the, from the bleachers,
because they're gonna be likethem.
They're gonna be like thatmotherfucker off belly when he's
sitting up there eating abanana.
They, they running the city.
(07:27):
Now they making all this moneydoing whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop
, whoop, whoop.
But now he's sitting therebecause they tapping into his
territory.
Man, he don't like this shit hetalking about.
He going to have to drop a dime.
That mean he going to have totell the folks, that mean they
going to try to take the feds.
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These are the same motherfuckersthat running back to your
supervisors and your directorsand your managersall managers
talking about some man, guesswhat I heard.
Guess what this motherfuckersaid here.
Guess what this motherfuckerdoing here.
Man, you a whole bitch and I'mtalking about if you're a male,
female, whatever, man, you abitch.
Because I mean shit.
Say that shit in front of me,because I feel like you ain't
got the goal and audacity to sayit in front of the whoever you
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talking shit about, because nowyou want to be a goddamn secret
spy agent type motherfucker.
I mean make that shit comecorrect, man.
Shit, yeah, man, I mean shit.
Hey, man, you need to go callsomebody and tell them go go to
therapy so you can erase, eraseyour whole tendencies, your
whole mentality, all that shit,because that shit don't add up,
(08:33):
because I like to see niggasdoing, but when it was with
progression, men withprogression, they doing better
than they what they didyesterday, I want to goddamn.
I mean, we don't do.
Yes, we do boast and brag, butit's to con, it's to put
ourselves on that top tier towhere we're like shit man, shit
man.
I had to go get it man.
I saw you with yours.
I had to go get me some boy.
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I saw you got down.
You know, crunk all thebusiness man.
I had to go got down.
See what I could do to got down.
You know, make myself better,put myself in a better situation
or put my family in a bettersituation, because that's what
all we really need to do in life, instead of being hating on the
next motherfucker Because why?
Why are you dick riding andwishing the downfall of this
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next motherfucker?
I mean you.
And oh, On that note, hey, wegot to do better as a people,
because I see so many people outhere that will tap Celebr, tap,
goddamn the chick with fat ass,tap the dude with the goddamn
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six-pack abs.
Oh shit, I ain't got nosix-pack, so don't worry about
that, I got a one-pack.
It's called a keg, but I'mworking on it.
I'm working on it.
Shit, no El Zempico, no zempicnot.
Hey, not to hate, but I'm justsaying every man, everybody,
ain't meant to be skinny.
But back to the story.
Why don't we congratulate ourfriends and our peers and share
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our peer shit versus somebodyelse's on the internet?
That's shit.
Weird, because I mean shit.
I'd rather see somebody I havecome in contact with and been in
contact with in real lifeversus something they got and
watched on the internet gottenon, show up a whole rack full of
money, because a lot of y'alldon't understand a lot of that's
(10:23):
a tax write-off and yeah, theysay I got this load, I got one
and pick up this much money.
I'm going to put this muchmoney.
A lot of that money is is undertheir llc and they're paid by
the company or used to carry bythe company, because the company
can use it as a tax write-offbecause they made a donation or
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they paid an employee which isthemselves, and y'all don't get
that because you got tounderstand as an individual.
Yes, you have a certain umamount of money that you can
withdraw, but once you go intothat business mindset, you go
into that business realm, youcan take it to the next level
where you can get more money andyou can put your hands on more
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money because your businessassets hold more weight than
personal assets.
Um, and a lot of people fail torealize that and I just want to
know what.
What is everybody doing to growthis year instead of just
splurge?
I understand where people aretaking vacations isn't this than
a third?
And going on trips, right thanthird.
(11:26):
Like I told my partner theother day, I said shit, we
already got these llcs.
Why don't we put these llcs onour business venture?
Because we're traveling to makemoney for our businesses and to
spread word about ourbusinesses, because sooner or
later, y'all going to see me indifferent cities and hear me in
different cities and shit Hell,even countries spreading the
word about this wonderfulpodcast called Four Steps Only.
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But it's just, it's just mindboggling how you don't see no
return on the money that you'respending, and it's it's.
It's a mind fuck, honestly andtruly.
It's a legitimate mind fuck,because why would I not want my
money to make money for me?
Sorry y'all, I had to take adrink.
My mouth started getting dry.
Sorry y'all.
(12:14):
I had to take a drink.
My mouth started getting dry,because when we look at certain
aspects in our lives, we need totry to elevate and do better
than we were the next day.
Don't worry about those hatersand those, those motherfuckers
that you said glares at them,karens them, earnesties them,
damn them, whatever you want tocall them, them, darrens,
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whatever you want to call them.
They going to continue to hateto the day they die.
That's like the old, miserableman that lives next door that
don't want you to step on hisgrass or hate the kids making
loud music, because he ain'tthere, no more.
He couldn't live up to hisdreams and his aspirations when
he was at that age.
He was at that caliber in hislife.
So he's going to hate.
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He's a member of the hateolympics.
Shout out to HPL.
But it's just.
Where do we want to be?
Do you want to be that hater ordo you want to be that
motherfucker that's gotmotherfuckers hating on him?
I mean yes, yes, we all don'tlike people talking shit about
us.
It makes us angry, it makes usloathe them, makes us want to,
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you know, wrap two hands aroundtheir throat and just choke them
for a little bit, not too longbit, just a little bit.
I'm talking about just wrappingaround their throat, shake it
one time and let go Just watchthem fall time, and let go just
watch them fall and it's.
It's getting outrageous becausea lot of people don't know how
to translate that intomotivation and um, like benefits
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of their lives, instead of justbeing fucking miserable, being
a miserable hater, being a bitchum, I'm sorry, not, let me go
ahead.
Let me go and clear this up.
When I use the the term bitch,it's an.
It describes a male or female.
It's not, it's, it's a word Iuse.
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I'm sorry, I and I'll startdoing better.
Y'all, I know y'all be like god, don't these motherfuckers just
up here talking about bitchesand hoes and this?
Then a third, but I mean, like,I use the term because it can
describe a male or female,because you got bitch ass niggas
, you got fuck ass niggas, yougot this.
Then a third, but anyway, um, Ijust think we should do better
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and start pushing each other tobe better.
Better because that's how wecome together as a whole.
Because I mean, if you look atcertain like OK, I'll give you a
perfect example President Trumphe's in office right now.
Elon Musk took 250 million outof his business account and
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placed it to Trump to push hiscampaign Right.
Elon Musk does not hold noplace of authority in US
government.
He has not been elected Right.
But since he looked out forTrump, now Trump got to look out
for him.
Now where do we at now?
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He he trying to got down.
Now he gave his little partnera little, a little, got on power
and a couple of platforms totalk on.
Now that motherfucker feel likehe.
That motherfucker.
Sometimes you got to put yourpartners in position to win.
We ain't saying just monetaryor saying you got to make
donations to their campaign.
We're just saying likesometimes you got to put your
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play, your partners, in positionto win because you want to see
them win versus whatever elseyou got going on.
Because a lot of people don'tunderstand that and understand
what what growth actually is.
Because with growth, you haveto have some people to encourage
you and to focus you on sometype of level, to make you know
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that you're doing a good job, nomatter whether it's your
analytics, no matter whetherit's your numbers or or whether
you see somebody, just someone'son.
Boy, I see you over there, boy,my boy, I'm fucking with your
campaign, my boy, my boy.
Just that type of vibe.
Because everybody is not privyto every situation that you're
exposed to, because, man, somepeople just want to see you fail
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.
That's why, like in the lastepisode for motivational mondays
, y'all need to go check thatout.
Understanding, you got friendsin your circle that are really
frenemies.
You get me, they are reallyfriends disguised as enemies.
You get what I'm saying Becausethey are only around you just
to witness your downfall and putyou in positions and fuck with
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your mind and make you and helpyou and assist you with making
bad choices.
So what do you do?
Do you sit there and be likeshit hell yeah that my home, but
he be making fuck dog choicesthere and be like shit?
Hell yeah that my homeboy buthe be making fuck dog choices.
He a bad influence, he like thelittle devil on my own.
But I can't.
What do we do?
I mean, we have to go from somepoint at some point in time to
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make shit better for us.
So what do we do?
Do we, do we take that shit andwe do we?
We, we grow that shit to adifferent element, or do we keep
fucking with that homeboy?
There's going to be a bad omenin our lives.
He's going to be toxic, becausea lot of people are placed in
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our lives just to be poisonous,because they don't understand
what growth is or how to be apositive being in our
environment, or they don't, and,honest and truly, they just
might want to see us fuckingfail and fuck up or make fucked
up decisions or lose a job orlose, lose your girl or whatever
.
Because I'm, I'm sorry.
I've heard some fucked upstories.
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Hell, I've had fucked up shithappen to me, shit.
I remember, god damn, once upona time I went overseas when I
was in the military and, within30 days, who I thought was my
homeboy?
He was sleeping with my ex Atthat time when I found out that
she became an ex.
But it's crazy because you gotto think about it.
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But karma has a way of clappingback.
I mean shit, certain shitpopped off, certain shit
happened.
I'm just saying karma's amotherfucker and I and I love
the way that karma came backbecause I like then I see that
that motherfucker, a coupleyears later he trying to say
what's up to me, and I'm sorry,I, I am, I am a leo to heart.
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Am I'm a Leo to heart?
I'm gonna go ahead and tell youlike that.
Because when he came up tryingto shake my hand, man, I looked
up and down this motherfucker,and said man.
And looked at my big brotherthat was sitting beside me.
I said man, hey, man, you knowthis weird ass nigga trying to
shake my hand.
I said I don't know this nigga.
But that was.
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That was to prove a statement atthat time that I ain't here to
fake kick it with you.
I don't.
I ain't here to suck no otherman's dick.
I ain't here to, goddamn,congratulate you on your wins,
because whether I fuck with youor fuck with what, if I don't
fuck with you, that's the rightway for me to say it, because if
I fuck with you, I want to seeyou win, nigga.
I want to see us all win.
I don't want to see me win overtop of you.
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I don't want to see me win atyour downfall.
I want to see us climb thisladder together, because at the
time at the top, we all gonna besipping goddamn matas on a
beach somewhere, thinking aboutthe bad times and think about
the struggles and trials andtribulations that it took to get
here.
So you guys got to think aboutit is is the people that are on
your journey with you right now,and are they in for the short
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haul, the long haul, or theyjust here to see the glitz and
glam, or they see, here they got, don't celebrate with you at
your wins, but don't want tohelp you with the milestones and
share your shit.
So you gotta understand certainpeople don't mean you the best
in life.
They want to see you fail.
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So, like I tell people all thetime, you'll see who really
fought with you.
Because if they, if theypoisoning your mental, making
you help hate somebody, man, arethey really?
Are they really that goodperson?
Or, let's flip it, the same waythey hating on somebody else
could be the same way theyhating on you when you not
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around.
So you got to watch out forthem.
Wolves and sheep, you feel me,because everybody ain't meant to
be a shark, everybody ain'tmeant to be a predator.
Some motherfuckers got on,scavenge off the bones and the
downfalls and your least likelytriumphance in life to where you
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?
You don't know what aheadyou're going and it's hard.
It's hard to do that, it's hardto say these things.
It's hard to goddamn deciphersome shit because sometimes you
be having folks in your corner.
They'll be telling you hey, man, don't fuck with him.
He might he ain't no goodperson to be around, but you so
jaded, you so blinded to whereyou continue fucking with this
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individual.
I'm just saying, because itthis, this, this shit gets toxic
, this shit gets gets like hardto breathe around certain people
.
Then once you figure out thismotherfucker done, fucked you
over.
This motherfucker done, fuckedyou over this motherfucker
talking shit about you, thismotherfucker talking shit about
you, then you got somebody yangyang, yang, yang yang, that you
constantly.
It's like you start looking ateverybody like they're a suspect
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, like got them, like they gotsomething in for you.
So what do we do?
Do we gauge our situations?
Do we do we try certain motives?
Do we gauge certain shit, or dowe just take that shit on our
chin and keep it pushing becauseI mean shit?
What are we here to do?
Are we here to?
What are we here to do?
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Are we here to win or are wehere to lose?
Because everybody's not here towin with you, because everybody
don't want to see you win,everybody don't want to see you.
Some people just want to seeyou fall, some people want to
see you crash.
But you have those genuine,those genuine people that truly
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fuck with you, that truly wantto see you win, that truly tell
you hey, cool, pop your shit,bro, man, I'm proud of you.
Congratulations.
And people fail to realize thatwhen they're in the, or they in
traffic, or they in motion, andthey get so blinded by the
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bright lights and stars andtheir come ups and a wins to
where they thinking everybodymeans good for everybody's not
good for you, everybody'sopinion is not good for you.
Just remember that when y'allget up here with these people
and y'all don't know how to takethem, because I mean shit,
everybody goddamn ain't for you.
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So thank y'all for joining uson four steppers.
Only I'm out.
Peace, you Peace.
Ooh, kel-tex 2, 7-6-2,.
I can't wait till Buzz said you.
Ooh, kel-tex 2, 7-6-2,.
I can't wait till Buzz said you.
At you, at you.
Yeah, welcome to Four Steppers.
Only you here, with Jack.
(00:22):
Hey, it's afternoon.
We're doing a surprise drop fortoday.
Help us.
Only you here with Jack.
Hey, it's afternoon.
We're doing a surprise drop fortoday.
Because I'm so fucking sick andtired of folks talking about
this, talking about that, ortelling this to that person,
telling this to that person.
Then, when they come back toask you hey, man, fuck you, and
(00:42):
whatever information you bringit back to me, believe what that
motherfucker said over there,because I ain't got shit to
explain to you, nor that othermotherfucker over there.
Just so you can run back tothat motherfucker over there and
tell him whatever the fuck Isaid, so you can suck a sick
dick and that motherfucker cansick a sick dick.
Also because, hey, that'sthat's the type of mind frame we
are in today, in this time andera, because it's like man, shit
(01:04):
, I don't give a fuck what yougot to say about me.
I don't give a fuck what thatmotherfucker got to say about me
.
Hey, tell them.
Bring to my front though, say,tell them say in my vicinity,
because a lot of people arescared to say it in front of the
person, but they want to playgoddamn messenger, they want to
play secretary, they want to gothrough this person, that person
and a third person just to getsome shit back to you, knowing
(01:24):
that this motherfucker gonna runtheir dick sucker back to you.
So I'm just at this time andplace in my life to where it's
like you know what, believe whatthat motherfucker said over
there, because I know the truth,they know the truth and god
knows the so between me and you,fuck.
You fuck your opinion and this,that.
(01:47):
And the third, because I'm sotired of sneak disses, all these
sneak disses in the world, butain't got the testicles or the
stroke to say it in front of you, but they got all these ha-ha
kikis, what's up?
Man, da-da-da, man, man, takeyour goddamn sedidus fake ass on
somewhere else.
I mean shit.
(02:07):
That's why that the song at thevery beginning by saint lamar
hey, that song is called bust atyou.
Um, I'm gonna have the linkdown into the what you call it
on for y'all, but it that thatis.
That is a true statement of howI feel.
I feel about motherfuckersnowadays.
It's not like to figurativelysaying I'm about to shoot the
(02:29):
shit out you, but you're gonnafeel these bullets come at you
just by my, my, my, my aura, myenergy, my, my looks, my
demeanor, the vibe you get fromme.
Now, man, it's, it's, it's tothe point where it's like seven,
six, two.
I just want to say fuck you,fuck you, fuck you.
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I'm just saying, man, becauseit's we are now too big in our
age and to worry about what thenext man has to say about
yourself, because we if I usedto hear this one thing on v103
I'm sorry I get this stutteringbecause, hey, if y'all didn't
know this, all this shit isfreestyle I might come up with
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the topic before the episode, ortwo days ago, three days ago or
, shit hell, even six weeks ago,but but at this point it's just
like.
I see the topic, I know what Iwant to talk about, but it's
just, people are like assholes.
They have opinions and they'regoing to say whatever the fuck
(03:36):
they want to say, no matterwhether it's true or not.
Because I heard this goofy shitthe other night at work.
They told us hey, man, I heardy'all got a bet going on.
I said a bet, a bet about what,oh who can smash the most bitch
?
I said if y'all don't take thatelementary school shit on
somewhere else, because thatshit is unfeasible and childish
as fuck, why the fuck would I be?
(03:57):
I mean, like, go ahead and keepshit funky.
If you go ahead and measuringyourself on how much pussy you
get In your life, nigga, you alame ass motherfucker.
I'm sorry to tell you this.
I mean shit.
If you worried about what thenext nigga Sticking his dick in,
or this, that and the third man, shit you, a lame ass nigga.
Shit, we on pocket watch, we ondick watch.
(04:17):
Cause if you dick watching andyou got Bitch tendencies To me
you are a ho, ho.
I mean straight up, because Idon't get.
I don't get the, I don't getthe constant competition.
The only thing I'm worriedabout is shit, hey, bro, shit,
hey.
You know the woot, woot justhit, goddamn woot, woot, oh boy,
I sure I heard that.
Nigga burning, bro.
(04:37):
Shit, there's a confirmed boy.
Shit, murder, death, kill,goddamn shit.
Shots fired, pop, pop thatnigga goddamn knocking folks off
with that.
Goddamn hurt that nigga.
Knock a goddamn over there,goddamn tightening folks over
that gonorrhea I'm talking about.
Clap on, clap off.
I'm talking about, I'm talkingtype shit.
But a lot of these motherfuckersare so worried about what the
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next man is doing, or or, orpillow talking to the next
motherfucker to even spread lies, spread rumors, spread this,
that.
And the third man.
I just can't fuck with nobodylike that, no more.
It's.
It's like everything goes backto that.
Saint lamar, I can't even fuckwith you, with you, with you, I
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can't even fuck with you.
But I mean shit.
But I know y'all over therelaughing your ass off.
They talking about this,singing nigga yo, that little
nigga can goddamn hold the tune,can't he?
But it's just to the pointwhere.
Where the fuck are we at insociety now?
To where we're so worried aboutwhat the next man is doing.
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I mean shit, it's eardropping.
I mean it's airdropping.
I mean it's breathtaking.
It's like y'all havetransitioned social media into
your actual lives, to where youthink you got to tell everything
, you think you got to commenton everything.
I mean one thing for certain,two things for sure Everything
don't need to be said,everything don't need to be
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explained, everything don't needto be saying, everything don't
need to be said, everythingdon't need to be explained.
So where the fuck are y'allgetting this?
This?
This mentality is thinking thatjust because you got a
mouthpiece means you got acomment.
I mean that shit sound dumb,stupid and retarded to me.
I mean honestly and truthfully.
I mean we live in a new era,man.
So people, so many people wantto be popular, so many people
(06:23):
want to fit in, so many peoplewant to be Like in the mix.
To where they try so hard orthey try to dirty another
motherfucker's name, no matterwhether it's male or female.
Hell shit.
I heard niggas hate on bitches.
Where the fuck do we do that at?
Who raised y'all motherfuckers?
(06:46):
To where y'all?
To where?
I'm sorry, I don't give a fuckwhat you got going on.
There's no reason to hate onthe next motherfucker like I
mean shit.
I mean I appreciate it.
It's like there are someentrepreneurs, there's some
workers.
You're gonna have the hatersand you're gonna have the
(07:06):
motivators.
I mean, like they say on v103uh, if you ain't got no haters,
make them your motivators.
If you ain't got no haters,you're doing something wrong.
I mean shit straight up.
Because I mean shit.
Let them motherfuckers hatefrom the, from the bleachers,
because they're gonna be likethem.
They're gonna be like thatmotherfucker off belly when he's
sitting up there eating abanana.
They, they running the city.
(07:27):
Now they making all this moneydoing whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop
, whoop, whoop.
But now he's sitting therebecause they tapping into his
territory.
Man, he don't like this shit hetalking about.
He going to have to drop a dime.
That mean he going to have totell the folks, that mean they
going to try to take the feds.
(07:48):
These are the same motherfuckersthat running back to your
supervisors and your directorsand your managersall managers
talking about some man, guesswhat I heard.
Guess what this motherfuckersaid here.
Guess what this motherfuckerdoing here.
Man, you a whole bitch and I'mtalking about if you're a male,
female, whatever, man, you abitch.
Because I mean shit.
Say that shit in front of me,because I feel like you ain't
got the goal and audacity to sayit in front of the whoever you
(08:09):
talking shit about, because nowyou want to be a goddamn secret
spy agent type motherfucker.
I mean make that shit comecorrect, man.
Shit, yeah, man, I mean shit.
Hey, man, you need to go callsomebody and tell them go go to
therapy so you can erase, eraseyour whole tendencies, your
whole mentality, all that shit,because that shit don't add up,
(08:33):
because I like to see niggasdoing, but when it was with
progression, men withprogression, they doing better
than they what they didyesterday, I want to goddamn.
I mean, we don't do.
Yes, we do boast and brag, butit's to con, it's to put
ourselves on that top tier towhere we're like shit man, shit
man.
I had to go get it man.
I saw you with yours.
I had to go get me some boy.
(08:53):
I saw you got down.
You know, crunk all thebusiness man.
I had to go got down.
See what I could do to got down.
You know, make myself better,put myself in a better situation
or put my family in a bettersituation, because that's what
all we really need to do in life, instead of being hating on the
next motherfucker Because why?
Why are you dick riding andwishing the downfall of this
(09:16):
next motherfucker?
I mean you.
And oh, On that note, hey, wegot to do better as a people,
because I see so many people outhere that will tap Celebr, tap,
goddamn the chick with fat ass,tap the dude with the goddamn
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six-pack abs.
Oh shit, I ain't got nosix-pack, so don't worry about
that, I got a one-pack.
It's called a keg, but I'mworking on it.
I'm working on it.
Shit, no El Zempico, no zempicnot.
Hey, not to hate, but I'm justsaying every man, everybody,
ain't meant to be skinny.
But back to the story.
Why don't we congratulate ourfriends and our peers and share
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our peer shit versus somebodyelse's on the internet?
That's shit.
Weird, because I mean shit.
I'd rather see somebody I havecome in contact with and been in
contact with in real lifeversus something they got and
watched on the internet gottenon, show up a whole rack full of
money, because a lot of y'alldon't understand a lot of that's
(10:23):
a tax write-off and yeah, theysay I got this load, I got one
and pick up this much money.
I'm going to put this muchmoney.
A lot of that money is is undertheir llc and they're paid by
the company or used to carry bythe company, because the company
can use it as a tax write-offbecause they made a donation or
(10:44):
they paid an employee which isthemselves, and y'all don't get
that because you got tounderstand as an individual.
Yes, you have a certain umamount of money that you can
withdraw, but once you go intothat business mindset, you go
into that business realm, youcan take it to the next level
where you can get more money andyou can put your hands on more
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money because your businessassets hold more weight than
personal assets.
Um, and a lot of people fail torealize that and I just want to
know what.
What is everybody doing to growthis year instead of just
splurge?
I understand where people aretaking vacations isn't this than
a third?
And going on trips, right thanthird.
(11:26):
Like I told my partner theother day, I said shit, we
already got these llcs.
Why don't we put these llcs onour business venture?
Because we're traveling to makemoney for our businesses and to
spread word about ourbusinesses, because sooner or
later, y'all going to see me indifferent cities and hear me in
different cities and shit Hell,even countries spreading the
word about this wonderfulpodcast called Four Steps Only.
(11:53):
But it's just, it's just mindboggling how you don't see no
return on the money that you'respending, and it's it's.
It's a mind fuck, honestly andtruly.
It's a legitimate mind fuck,because why would I not want my
money to make money for me?
Sorry y'all, I had to take adrink.
My mouth started getting dry.
Sorry y'all.
(12:14):
I had to take a drink.
My mouth started getting dry,because when we look at certain
aspects in our lives, we need totry to elevate and do better
than we were the next day.
Don't worry about those hatersand those, those motherfuckers
that you said glares at them,karens them, earnesties them,
damn them, whatever you want tocall them, them, darrens,
(12:36):
whatever you want to call them.
They going to continue to hateto the day they die.
That's like the old, miserableman that lives next door that
don't want you to step on hisgrass or hate the kids making
loud music, because he ain'tthere, no more.
He couldn't live up to hisdreams and his aspirations when
he was at that age.
He was at that caliber in hislife.
So he's going to hate.
(12:56):
He's a member of the hateolympics.
Shout out to HPL.
But it's just.
Where do we want to be?
Do you want to be that hater ordo you want to be that
motherfucker that's gotmotherfuckers hating on him?
I mean yes, yes, we all don'tlike people talking shit about
us.
It makes us angry, it makes usloathe them, makes us want to,
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you know, wrap two hands aroundtheir throat and just choke them
for a little bit, not too longbit, just a little bit.
I'm talking about just wrappingaround their throat, shake it
one time and let go Just watchthem fall time, and let go just
watch them fall and it's.
It's getting outrageous becausea lot of people don't know how
to translate that intomotivation and um, like benefits
(13:46):
of their lives, instead of justbeing fucking miserable, being
a miserable hater, being a bitchum, I'm sorry, not, let me go
ahead.
Let me go and clear this up.
When I use the the term bitch,it's an.
It describes a male or female.
It's not, it's, it's a word Iuse.
(14:09):
I'm sorry, I and I'll startdoing better.
Y'all, I know y'all be like god, don't these motherfuckers just
up here talking about bitchesand hoes and this?
Then a third, but I mean, like,I use the term because it can
describe a male or female,because you got bitch ass niggas
, you got fuck ass niggas, yougot this.
Then a third, but anyway, um, Ijust think we should do better
(14:31):
and start pushing each other tobe better.
Better because that's how wecome together as a whole.
Because I mean, if you look atcertain like OK, I'll give you a
perfect example President Trumphe's in office right now.
Elon Musk took 250 million outof his business account and
(14:53):
placed it to Trump to push hiscampaign Right.
Elon Musk does not hold noplace of authority in US
government.
He has not been elected Right.
But since he looked out forTrump, now Trump got to look out
for him.
Now where do we at now?
(15:14):
He he trying to got down.
Now he gave his little partnera little, a little, got on power
and a couple of platforms totalk on.
Now that motherfucker feel likehe.
That motherfucker.
Sometimes you got to put yourpartners in position to win.
We ain't saying just monetaryor saying you got to make
donations to their campaign.
We're just saying likesometimes you got to put your
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play, your partners, in positionto win because you want to see
them win versus whatever elseyou got going on.
Because a lot of people don'tunderstand that and understand
what what growth actually is.
Because with growth, you haveto have some people to encourage
you and to focus you on sometype of level, to make you know
(15:59):
that you're doing a good job, nomatter whether it's your
analytics, no matter whetherit's your numbers or or whether
you see somebody, just someone'son.
Boy, I see you over there, boy,my boy, I'm fucking with your
campaign, my boy, my boy.
Just that type of vibe.
Because everybody is not privyto every situation that you're
exposed to, because, man, somepeople just want to see you fail
(16:21):
.
That's why, like in the lastepisode for motivational mondays
, y'all need to go check thatout.
Understanding, you got friendsin your circle that are really
frenemies.
You get me, they are reallyfriends disguised as enemies.
You get what I'm saying Becausethey are only around you just
to witness your downfall and putyou in positions and fuck with
(16:44):
your mind and make you and helpyou and assist you with making
bad choices.
So what do you do?
Do you sit there and be likeshit hell yeah that my home, but
he be making fuck dog choicesthere and be like shit?
Hell yeah that my homeboy buthe be making fuck dog choices.
He a bad influence, he like thelittle devil on my own.
But I can't.
What do we do?
I mean, we have to go from somepoint at some point in time to
(17:07):
make shit better for us.
So what do we do?
Do we, do we take that shit andwe do we?
We, we grow that shit to adifferent element, or do we keep
fucking with that homeboy?
There's going to be a bad omenin our lives.
He's going to be toxic, becausea lot of people are placed in
(17:28):
our lives just to be poisonous,because they don't understand
what growth is or how to be apositive being in our
environment, or they don't, and,honest and truly, they just
might want to see us fuckingfail and fuck up or make fucked
up decisions or lose a job orlose, lose your girl or whatever
.
Because I'm, I'm sorry.
I've heard some fucked upstories.
(17:49):
Hell, I've had fucked up shithappen to me, shit.
I remember, god damn, once upona time I went overseas when I
was in the military and, within30 days, who I thought was my
homeboy?
He was sleeping with my ex Atthat time when I found out that
she became an ex.
But it's crazy because you gotto think about it.
(18:11):
But karma has a way of clappingback.
I mean shit, certain shitpopped off, certain shit
happened.
I'm just saying karma's amotherfucker and I and I love
the way that karma came backbecause I like then I see that
that motherfucker, a coupleyears later he trying to say
what's up to me, and I'm sorry,I, I am, I am a leo to heart.
(18:35):
Am I'm a Leo to heart?
I'm gonna go ahead and tell youlike that.
Because when he came up tryingto shake my hand, man, I looked
up and down this motherfucker,and said man.
And looked at my big brotherthat was sitting beside me.
I said man, hey, man, you knowthis weird ass nigga trying to
shake my hand.
I said I don't know this nigga.
But that was.
(19:00):
That was to prove a statement atthat time that I ain't here to
fake kick it with you.
I don't.
I ain't here to suck no otherman's dick.
I ain't here to, goddamn,congratulate you on your wins,
because whether I fuck with youor fuck with what, if I don't
fuck with you, that's the rightway for me to say it, because if
I fuck with you, I want to seeyou win, nigga.
I want to see us all win.
I don't want to see me win overtop of you.
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I don't want to see me win atyour downfall.
I want to see us climb thisladder together, because at the
time at the top, we all gonna besipping goddamn matas on a
beach somewhere, thinking aboutthe bad times and think about
the struggles and trials andtribulations that it took to get
here.
So you guys got to think aboutit is is the people that are on
your journey with you right now,and are they in for the short
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haul, the long haul, or theyjust here to see the glitz and
glam, or they see, here they got, don't celebrate with you at
your wins, but don't want tohelp you with the milestones and
share your shit.
So you gotta understand certainpeople don't mean you the best
in life.
They want to see you fail.
(20:04):
So, like I tell people all thetime, you'll see who really
fought with you.
Because if they, if theypoisoning your mental, making
you help hate somebody, man, arethey really?
Are they really that goodperson?
Or, let's flip it, the same waythey hating on somebody else
could be the same way theyhating on you when you not
(20:26):
around.
So you got to watch out forthem.
Wolves and sheep, you feel me,because everybody ain't meant to
be a shark, everybody ain'tmeant to be a predator.
Some motherfuckers got on,scavenge off the bones and the
downfalls and your least likelytriumphance in life to where you
(20:49):
?
You don't know what aheadyou're going and it's hard.
It's hard to do that, it's hardto say these things.
It's hard to goddamn deciphersome shit because sometimes you
be having folks in your corner.
They'll be telling you hey, man, don't fuck with him.
He might he ain't no goodperson to be around, but you so
jaded, you so blinded to whereyou continue fucking with this
(21:11):
individual.
I'm just saying, because itthis, this, this shit gets toxic
, this shit gets gets like hardto breathe around certain people
.
Then once you figure out thismotherfucker done, fucked you
over.
This motherfucker done, fuckedyou over this motherfucker
talking shit about you, thismotherfucker talking shit about
you, then you got somebody yangyang, yang, yang yang, that you
constantly.
It's like you start looking ateverybody like they're a suspect
(21:33):
, like got them, like they gotsomething in for you.
So what do we do?
Do we gauge our situations?
Do we do we try certain motives?
Do we gauge certain shit, or dowe just take that shit on our
chin and keep it pushing becauseI mean shit?
What are we here to do?
Are we here to?
What are we here to do?
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Are we here to win or are wehere to lose?
Because everybody's not here towin with you, because everybody
don't want to see you win,everybody don't want to see you.
Some people just want to seeyou fall, some people want to
see you crash.
But you have those genuine,those genuine people that truly
(22:20):
fuck with you, that truly wantto see you win, that truly tell
you hey, cool, pop your shit,bro, man, I'm proud of you.
Congratulations.
And people fail to realize thatwhen they're in the, or they in
traffic, or they in motion, andthey get so blinded by the
(22:42):
bright lights and stars andtheir come ups and a wins to
where they thinking everybodymeans good for everybody's not
good for you, everybody'sopinion is not good for you.
Just remember that when y'allget up here with these people
and y'all don't know how to takethem, because I mean shit,
everybody goddamn ain't for you.
(23:03):
So thank y'all for joining uson four steppers.
Only I'm out.
Peace, you Peace.
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