March 17, 2025 • 28 mins
Why do nice people consistently find themselves at a disadvantage in modern relationships? Our raw, unfiltered conversation tackles this age-old question with fresh perspectives on how kindness can become a liability when dealing with toxic partners.
We dive deep into the power dynamics of contemporary relationships, exploring how manipulation through intimacy has become a normalized control tactic. "The nicer I treat you, the nastier you're going to be," one host observes, highlighting the paradoxical punishment good people often face for their generosity and consideration.
The discussion takes an illuminating turn when examining what true partnership looks like beyond financial contributions. "The whole concept of 50-50 does not derive straight to money," we emphasize. "If I take 50% of your stress away and make 50% of your life easier, you can be 50% more happy and productive in life." This redefinition of relationship equity challenges listeners to evaluate their connections based on emotional support and quality of life enhancement rather than just monetary contribution.
Our special guest joins to provide additional perspective on how traditional relationship roles have evolved while the fundamental need for partnership remains unchanged. Together, we explore how increasing financial pressures in society make supportive relationships more crucial than ever, yet increasingly difficult to maintain. "When you get married, you have kids with somebody, what you're doing is saying 'no matter what happens, it's me and you versus the world.'"
Whether you're currently navigating relationship challenges, recovering from toxic patterns, or seeking to build healthier connections, this episode offers valuable insights on finding genuine partnership in a world that often rewards toxic behavior. Listen now to gain perspective on creating balanced, mutually supportive relationships instead of falling into the "nice person" trap.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 3 (00:16):
It ain't no pressure out there, my nigga, everybody
fuck with you.
Cause what you do, my nigga,what you say, what you speak on,
these motherfuckin' beats nigga.
Only thing that I canmotherfuckin' tell you on some
(00:48):
real what you do, my, what yousay, what you speak on these, we
back, we back, we back, hey, weback, like we never back.
You know who that motherfuckingis?
Without introductions, exactlyShit, shit, oh shit.
I introduced him.
Introduce him as motherfuckingSmiley.
Yes, sir, yes, indeed, I meanshit.
You know, we took a littlehiatus.
You know, sometimes you got toget folks to tell you to stay
focused because a lot of peoplelose focus on shit, lose focus
(01:08):
on the journey, and we, you know, we got to get swayed back in,
right right, that's why you gotto stay focused.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yep, that's one of the key things with not even
just this industry in life.
You got to stay focused, evenwhen because we seeing the
progress that's not what wesaying at all, but you know,
sometimes getting your own headabout certain stuff and, you
know, just got a lot back in.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
That's all I mean.
Like you said, like we weretalking about earlier, man,
before we even started rollingShit, this whole nice guys
finish last.
Or nice females start finishlast.
I say because a lot of peoplein this damn aging world think,
just because they got you lockedin with them, that you always
going to be there, no matterwhat.
(01:55):
Ain't got to do nothing extra,Ain't got to do nothing Right,
they ain't got to cook no meal.
They ain't got to look out foryou, they ain't got to send no.
Hey, I just want to check onyou text and no shit like that.
Or you know what shit.
Even go even further.
Be kind and cordial and showthe motherfucker that you fuck
with him the extra strong way.
I said because some folks I meanshit like hey, we were talking
(02:18):
about it earlier that toxic asspussy.
Yeah, yes, lord, hey, let me goahead and keep this shit going.
I don't give a fuck what thefuck they say.
You argue with me allmotherfucking day I mean all
motherfucking day you justthrowing little shots here and
here.
We ain't talking.
All motherfucking day, my bloodpressure get to boiling like
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the motherfucker.
My head get to hurting Boy.
I see red.
I don't think they understandthat shit.
Let me tell you something andthen at the end of the night I
lay down you gonna try to tootyour little booty up on me man,
I don't want that shit.
I don't want that shit.
Man, I might be the ignorantmotherfucker because I know I
ain't shit.
I might lay right beside youand beat my motherfucking knee
(03:02):
Just to show you I can stillcatch a nut.
I can still do it without you.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
What did I do, Lenny?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
I mean shit, hey, that's the same way.
Y'all got down.
Y'all get to get on scribblinglike a DJ over there.
Exactly, I mean paying with alittle motherfucking kitty in
the box.
I mean, with or without thatindividual, I can still get to
where I need to go.
Maybe it might be enjoyablewith you, but at this current
state and time I don't want it.
That shit goes both ways, true,I don't know what the fuck
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y'all be watching If my mindsetain't there.
I'll give you a couple bulletpoints.
If my bank account fucked up,mm-hmm, nigga.
If my life's about to get cutoff, mm-hmm.
I wouldn't have got cut off.
Mm-hmm.
If some shit going on at work Idone got rolled up at work,
that last thing on mymotherfucking mind is a
motherfucking pussy and somemotherfucking head.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
True, but I will be the person that's going to keep
it all the way.
Jack, keep it funky.
He know I'll be right with this.
We still go for it at the endof the day.
We still going to let you do itBecause, listen, the thing is
(04:24):
Nah, never mind, that's going toget too much game.
Kb said hey y'all know.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Hey, let me tell y'all something he give y'all
perfect nigga, I don't want it.
Hey, listen, I will take mypunk ass to the couch.
I go sleep in the car.
I go sleep when the kids float.
I go sleep somewhere else.
I go sleep in the bathtub.
Get me a pillow, get me ablanket.
I'm going to the motherfuckingbathtub.
I ain't going to sleep in thebathtub because this
motherfucker might be mad enoughat me to turn on the
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motherfucking goddamn shit.
And I ain't got time to drown.
My little ass been drowning intwo feet of water.
I ain't got time for that shit.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Because if I wake up, think I'm waterboard, I might
have a flashback than when I wasin the service.
We ain't triggering that ptsd,we ain't having them escapes,
but go ahead, smile see, that'swhat I said.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
We different when it comes down.
He don't damn near kill themotherfucker, he don't take all
that anger out he might chokeyour ass.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I'm gonna think about everything you just said.
I'm bringing up while I'm whileI'm doing it, while I'm doing
your head, while I'm doing yourgrease what you was saying.
That motherfucker's gonna behitting that back wall.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Hey but, like you said, you're gonna be hitting
that back wall, but the thing is, you also gonna be up there
talking about something.
Oh, you dirty bitch, you gonnatake this dick.
All that goddamn yapping, Iain't going to be Goddamn it,
I'm going to be good, I ain'tgoing to be normal.
That's what you'll be hearingback and I don't want no talk
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for us of that shit.
Because I'm sorry, because I'min a different state of mind,
because I ain't going to give afuck what you got to say.
I just block all this shit out.
I just want my peace, I justwant my silence, because my
philosophy is the nicer I treatyou, the nastier you're going to
be Right.
The nicer I treat you, the moreyou're going to fuck with me.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
That ain't everybody, though, you're right, but
that's the toxic shit, see.
And there you go, bruh, that'swhat I'm talking about today
Toxic, Toxic, and the toxic me,you feel me.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
And it's like you said, it's more than one toxic,
that's just one.
You trying to use the box andyou trying to use your shit to
manipulate a situation.
That's also toxic, motherfucker.
You right, I ain't know.
You right, that should be toxicas hell.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Hey look, look, I'm bad about this man.
I ain't gonna hold you.
My whole thing is oh, you gonnaact stupid Shit.
Alright, you on punishment.
Don't even ask for nothing.
Don't even try to put yourlittle boot up on me.
Don't try to cut down onsomething.
Don't you want to come lay downwith me?
No the answer is no motherfucker, but I mean shit.
(07:10):
Different folks for differentfolks.
Because a lot of people don'tfail to realize how things move
in the way of life, Because if Ilook out for you more, you're
going to look out for me more.
And to be honest about this wayand this world that we live in,
it's more than just a little.
It's more than just dickingpussy out of here.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
It's more than just a wet spot.
They don't make it try to.
They don't try to make it seemlike it is, though they try to
use that as the bargaining chip,as the end-all be-all.
If you as the end all be all,but I mean, if you don't get
this, you can't have this.
You don't do this for me, youcan't.
No, no more, nah.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I'll tell you what it is.
The boys down today Well, theyput a dollar sign on that.
Motherfucker had to.
Good morning that too.
Most definitely because they tryto oh, give me a thousand
dollars, you ain't even got athousand dollars come on, give
me a thousand dollars no, theywere saying, oh, buy me this,
buy me that, buy me this, buy methat.
(08:12):
And it's like I bust myself atwork.
I do this at work, I do that atwork.
And it derives from what?
Because the scales can't beuneven.
I can't do more for you thanyou do for me.
I can't look out for you morethan you look out for me,
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because, at the end of the day,you work the same way I do, and
I mean, I understand we mightnot make the same, I might make
less than you Exactly, but inthose trying times I might be
down to my last 20.
And I still gave it.
Shoot, I might give it, I mightbe trying to get on, you know,
scrounge some pennies up.
I might not even let you know,that's all I got.
(08:54):
I just figured out like, okay,I got this many days to payday,
or I got this over here about towork.
I got this person got nowalmost money.
Let me try to wag someone.
Well, I got this to do.
Well, let me go run this.
Those are the people that trulyfall with you.
Yeah, because sometimes youcan't get somebody always on the
front end.
You got to get them on the backend and a lot of times people
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don't understand that becausethey so self-minded and so
self-conscious to where theydon't know their head from their
asshole, but back to what youwere talking
Speaker 2 (09:28):
about the nice guys finish.
Last man.
I feel like in this society,with everything going on you see
everything.
I'm not even going to use thenews, because to me the news has
been obsolete for a minute.
They only show you what theywant you to see, what they want
you to know.
It's stuff like that anyway.
So I feel like you got to goout and search for your
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information, whatever and that'swhat I mean by the nice guy.
The nice guy might just oh,okay, that's what you tell me,
okay.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Yeah, bro, I just got a question for you.
Now we in a day and era whereeverybody's selling content,
right yeah, it's like you got topay to play.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Right.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
But these motherfuckers thinking that our
bank account is deep as fuck.
But don't understand, we'reworking nine to five, right, or
we grinding, or we trying to digour way out of holes, right, or
we trying to put ourselves in abetter position to make lives
easier for both of us.
But before we even got withthem, right, or we started
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pursuing them.
Yo, I ain't gonna lie, shit wemight have, you know, took the
other route and, you know,bought a little content, spent a
little folding, I don't know.
I don't ask for shit.
You know, just see, somethingwe can't see on the regular
basis.
I feel you.
(10:55):
Why is it that they get sooffended when they find that out
?
But you still ask me for money.
But you think another femalecan't.
But there's a limit, because Iused to work with this guy Shit.
That motherfucker was spendinglike $1,300 a month on just
looking at pussy.
(11:16):
That's overboard.
That boy throw it off.
But then every time y'all getthe argument you say something
like that's why you're a nastynigga.
You up here buying content frombitches, but you on a trip when
I take you to the strip clubwith me and you throwing my
money on these motherfuckerswhat's?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
the difference.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
What's the difference between you me buying content
from somebody just to see themshake some ass, suck some dick
or fuck Right Somebody elseother than myself, then me
taking you to an establishmentwhere I'm throwing money, or I
just go by myself or with mypartners, but you don't make a
big deal about that.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
The only thing I can really say, the only thing
that's really.
You put it down like that, youlay it out like that.
The only thing that's coming tomy head is really three things,
to be honest Jealousy, envy andjust like borderline I won't
say crazy, but damn near Like.
(12:18):
It's like why would you think,just because we're not even
together, like I'm single, yeah,yeah, we're doing stuff, but
I'm single at the same time asyou're single.
I don't know what the fuckyou're doing on these days.
I'm pretty sure you're gettingmoney from other niggas.
So what is the issue for megiving her some money when she
asked for it?
Matter of fact, she didn't evenask for it.
(12:38):
I just did it out of thekindness of my heart, because
she don't ask.
You're the one who asks, so notwho looks like an asshole the
one who asks or the one whodon't ask.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
I mean, you're absolutely right because they be
in that goofy shit sometimes,because a lot of times them
motherfuckers be asking andasking and asking with their
hand out and you never know whatthey always got their hand out
for some shit.
I've heard plenty of femalessay this off the dribble Shit, I
got a nigga for this.
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I got a nigga for this.
I got a mechanic man.
I got a motherfucker to take meout to eat.
I got a motherfucker.
I fuck, I got a motherfuckerfor this.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
That's why I said what I just said.
You can't be trying to put ongoddamn the same shoe and then
look down and be mad when it'stwo different sizes.
You need to be goddamn duediligence at the beginning of
this motherfucker, because if wealready know that we both
single, why in the hell?
And you done already told methat, like Jack said, I got a
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nigga for this, I got a niggafor that, I got a nigga for you.
Think we forget you?
Speaker 3 (13:42):
think just because we can fuck you, you think we
forget all that shit.
So this is my question.
So there's two sides to thecoin.
Yeah, I know you out herefucking somebody before me.
Right, let's break this shitdown, because I see these
motherfuckers posting girl, I'msingle as ASL.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
They trying to get attention with that shit Like a
motherfucker.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
You know what ASL stands for.
As fuck, nah, hell, nah.
You thinking like a nigga terms.
What is ASL?
And fucking.
Damn, damn I ain't eventhinking about that shit.
Single and fucking Single AF,single AF damn, damn you can't.
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I don't give a fuck what nobodysay.
You got an itch you want toscratch.
You going to go reaching thatblack book.
That's a fact.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
That rose ain't going to go, you so far he hit one of
her nose with that one ain'tgoing to lie to you.
You got an itch you want toscratch.
You definitely going to go inthat little black book, you
going to go in that black book.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
You going to scroll, you going to dig to you we got
to hit you with a scratchy book.
Definitely going to go in thatlittle black book.
You going to go in that blackbook.
You going to scroll, you goingto dig in them cobwebs.
You going to see the nigga thatmade a goddamn message.
You 30 times on Facebook, 30times on Snapchat, 30 times on
Instagram and you going togoddamn bite.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
You going to bite one of them, damn.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Yeah, we feel like that Because, I'm sorry, I ain't
in your back pocket 24-7.
I ain't your probation officer.
I'm on your ankle 24-7.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
I can only believe what you tell me, but that comes
with trust.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
So should I not trust you from the get-go?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Trust is earned.
You got I just really thinkthat trust is earned.
You got to put people throughshit and I used to be I just
really think that the trust isearned.
And you gotta, you gotta putpeople through shit.
I look at and I used to be I'mlike when I heard people say
that shit, I'm like, what thefuck Like?
But now, growing up like Ireally feel like you do.
You gotta see what the fuck aperson's really going to be
capable of putting up with,cause you ain't going cause my
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thing, be this, my thing, bethis.
You don't know what the fucklife going to throw at you.
So if a motherfucker just goingto leave you for some fucking
pennies hitting the ground whenthey weren't supposed to, you
could have tested that three atthe beginning and seen that she
wasn't going to be a ride or diefor you.
You could have did somethinglike oh baby, I ain't got today
Shit.
You can pay for this goddamnlittle outer real quick.
And then just, I mean that'sjust a little small little shit.
(16:09):
Damn, baby, I ain't got no gabmoney Shit, so you mind driving
today.
Like I mean just a little shit,like it's just you know, bro, I
play this shit like Spade.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
bro, play this shit like Spade.
You don't know my hand, I don'tknow yours, right, but I got to
trust you to have my back inevery situation.
Mm nigga, you start fucking up.
You were needing missing bookswhen you supposed to get that
book.
Hey, what the fuck is that?
Okay, I let one thing slide.
What the fuck is that?
Speaker 2 (16:37):
two, things slide.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
Now she think, everything can slide right, but
now, shit, now, where we sit,where we stand, we all fucked up
, hey, smiley.
Hey, I want to let these folksknow we got a special guest
right now.
Yes, sir, we got amotherfucking.
Hey, we got my brother fromanother mother Motherfucking Big
Wood.
I mean Big Wood, why this?
(17:02):
Hey, he a retired gynecologist,y'all.
He is the infamous uterus.
But so we were talking aboutthis.
Now, oh, you ain't got to holdit like that dog, you can just
talk.
We were having thisconversation about how females
these day and age always gottheir hands out or judge you off
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of things that you do, or toxic, or venomous pussy.
It's a true statement.
Like they want to argue, thenthey want to throw it at you.
But don't you think?
Do you feel like, if they startarguing, arguing, arguing with
you, that you should give in toit, or you should be like I'm
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still going to get somethinglater on tonight, or you're like
man, shit, fuck that.
I don't want no part of that.
Let me put space between me andher.
I need to cool off.
You need to cool off.
Hey, I'll hit you up when Iwant to hit you up again.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Yeah, for me I mean it would depend on who the
person is first off.
But I mean I'm not just goingto sit here and argue with
nobody for no reason, right?
So if there's some sort ofargument we had and or you're
arguing for no reason, like,let's figure that out first.
But I'm not going to put anyeffort into furthering any
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developments, if that's what itis Right.
Sorry to argue.
I mean that's just, that'spointless and that's you know.
I'm a man of peace, all my ownpeace and quiet.
I don't want a woman adding tothat, taking away from that and
adding to the negativity andtoxicity is what I should say.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
I tell people all the time the whole concept of 50-50
does not derive straight tomoney.
It's a backfiller off.
If I take 50% of your stressaway and make 50% of your life
easier, you can be 50% morehappy, 50% happier and more
productive in life.
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And, like I was tellingsomebody the other day, a, a
situation, a relationship oranything doesn't need to be
toxic.
Um, because you got tounderstand in my house I'm at
got to understand in my houseI'm at peace.
Once I walk outside of thosedoors, I'm at war.
I'm at war with every encounterthat I come into contact with.
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So I rely on you to help methrough these battles, instead
of by myself.
Because, shit, yeah, we'regoing to have our trials and
tribulations, but how can youmake my shit more stressful to
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where I'm going to croak out?
I'm going to die.
I'm going to be more stressedout.
My dick ain't going to work, nomore, because I'm always
fucking stressed out.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
My dick will work.
I don't know.
It doesn't matter how much.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Everything else.
Okay, that didn't even work,but it's just like help me be at
peace because at the end of theday, I'm going to give you a
piece of this dick.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
I agree with that sentiment.
In my own personal opinion, Ithink the traditional roles of
the household, the family Idon't think that is around or
will be around ever again intoday's day and age which is
understandable because thetraditional roles of the wife
stays home, take care of thehouse, take care of the kids,
all that it's not needed anymore, it's not necessary.
(20:30):
But I will say the roles of hey, you are the wife, I am the
husband, the role being you lookout for me, I look out for you
50 50.
It's not about monetary, it'sabout I'm going to look after
what I have and you're going tolook after what you have, and
we're going to go through lifetogether and take everything to
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the chin together.
Because that's what you're doingwhen you sign up in a
relationship, when you getmarried, you have kids with
somebody.
What you're doing is you'resaying, hey, no matter what
happens, it's me and you versusthe world.
It's me and you taking care ofus, taking care of life, taking
care of our kids, taking care ofthis situation.
People turn everything into oh,you know, my partner, my
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partner, my partner, oh, theydid this, oh, they're doing this
, oh, and, like you know,sometimes that's all good and
dandy, but you still have torealize at the end of the day
it's you and that person againstthe world.
Speaker 3 (21:26):
Yeah, yeah, and I'm in full agreeance with you
Because when you look at ourgrandparents and our parents,
when they were coming up, shitwas cheaper, shit was easier,
shit was less expensive.
You could work at fuckingMcDonald's and afford somewhere
to stay.
Now, motherfuckers that areworking six-figure jobs can't
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even afford somewhere to stay.
Sometimes I was talking tosomebody the other day she's
going through on the ringerbecause they want four times the
income just to move in and it'slike do I want to stay where I
just saw somebody get shot andthe cops the tape outline is
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still out there or do I want tostay in somewhere nice?
Do I want to stay somewherecomfortable, or do I want to
stay where the fucking ceiling'sfalling out?
Or do I want to live with afucking roommate?
I don't want a fucking roommatebecause I don't know this
motherfucker.
I don't know this weirdmotherfucker.
Next thing, you know we beefing, or people get into a situation
or a relationship they can'teven afford to leave.
And that's sad because I'mstuck in this motherfucking
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situation I was happy with atone point in time, but now I'm
in this motherfucker by myself.
I'm trying to get myself outand now I'm stuck Even with,
like, we talk about how we'resupposed to have each other's
backs because I can come like Ican't tell you how many times I
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need somebody to deal with me.
Hey, motherfucker, get your assup.
We got bills to pay.
If it's just left on me, I'mlike.
I'm like I don't need to go towork today.
I'm going to call out.
I can afford to call outwithout my support system.
There it's hard.
It's me battling me.
If I'm battling myself, guesswho's going to win?
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Fuck this.
I'm laying in this bed.
I'm making my shit easy.
I'm taking less stress becausethat's the less stressful route.
If I had a partner, asupportive partner, not no toxic
motherfucker, not nomotherfucker that just caught
trying to hit my pocket.
Always payday Buy me something.
I ain't trying to have it.
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I'm trying to have a partner towhere we can build something
together, we can make somethingtogether, we can go through this
journey together and we can goup against these motherfuckers
Together.
Because eventually, where arewe at?
Together?
Speaker 1 (23:55):
Yeah, someone has to hold you accountable.
Absolutely In a correct andbeneficial Meaningful way.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Absolutely, because a lot of these individuals
Nowadays don't understand, likeI need somebody to tell me, john
, what Did you pay that bill?
Shit, my bad.
Let me get on that.
And that's holding meaccountable, because I tell you
like this straight up Came homethe other day, tried to get in
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the damn shower, goo, goo, goo,goo, goo.
Oh my, what off?
Oh shit, let me.
Let me make the payment Iforgot.
Because you got to understand,no person in this world, in this
life, is meant to be alone.
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Because if that was the case,shit, we could procreate by
ourselves.
We shoot babies out our dicks.
That'd be painful as fuck.
That's crazy, bro, what youjust had.
I'm in pain right now.
I got a call out of work why?
I just had an eight pound babyout the tip of my penis.
You'll be in that situation.
You get what I'm saying.
(25:06):
I get what you're saying.
If we could procreate byourselves, then we know.
Because if we could procreateby ourselves, there would no
what.
That sounds like a hot shit,ain't it?
But I'm sorry to say that, butbut it's challenging to the mind
to think that when I hearpeople say, oh, I don't need
(25:30):
nobody for shit, that's a lie.
You need somebody foreverything.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
I just feel like those people who say that
they've been broken, they'vebeen hurt, they've been
shattered.
I just feel like the person whothey did really want, the
person they did really need, letthem down and now they're just
like you know what?
Fuck everybody, I'm going todestroy this bitch.
If I can't have her, I don'tneed nobody.
That's how you come up with themotherfuckers in here, the
(25:57):
bitter motherfuckers who arejust bitter for no reason.
You have to see somebody likedamn, why is this so bad?
Speaker 3 (26:03):
For no reason.
What's going on, boss?
Speaker 1 (26:06):
I mean, that's the other end of the toxic spectrum.
There it's like oh, I've beenhurt, I've been broken, but I
don't want anything from anybodyaround me.
Oh, I can stand alone, oh, Ican do this by myself.
Oh, I don't need anybody.
I mean, it's from both sides,both male, female, it doesn't
matter, it's on both sides.
Oh, I don't need anybody, I'man independent Blah that you
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want to be able to take care ofyourself and you want to be
there for yourself.
That's all fine and dandy, butwhat a lot of.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
The point of life and even just friendships is
connection, right, but so I feellike social media and in olf
the hub, all these things haveruined things, because now, shit
, I ain't got to make thatconnection with you.
You know what I got to do.
Straight on line hey, I justgot to pay that $250.
(26:56):
I pay that $250.
I'm pulling up at your housebusting you down and I'm going
to go out the back of the door.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Hey, yeah, that too.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
Because I mean you don't pay a whole estate, you
pay a whole league.
I'm just saying Because I meanthat.
But it's sad that he's gottento that point to where I'd
rather pay and eliminate theheadache and the stress of
dealing with you and just get mymy pleasures off and be gone
(27:27):
then then build a connectionwith your relationship with I
agree.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
I mean, I have a simple statement for that.
I have a life motto no cash forass.
So I ain't doing that.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
You said no cash for ass.
Uh-oh, uh-oh, uh-oh, no.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
I know you're going to pay some type of way.
I'm just going to pay some typeof way.
That's what I'm saying, but Iain't straight up paying cash
for ass.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
It's always going to be some type of so type of way
you gonna pay for the hotel.
Speaker 1 (27:51):
You gonna pay for something to eat.
You gonna pay for something todrink hell, you even gonna pay
in time.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
I'm always paying in fucking time hey, you might not
even get it, sorry you might noteven get it, but welcome to the
world we live in now, but it iswhat it is.
Hey, we want to end the day offwith hey.
Y'all sit down and watch Stepby Step.
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Thank you, big Wood, forsitting down with me and smiling
.
Appreciate it.
Smallwood45.
Hey, we out Peace.
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Speaker 3 (00:16):
It ain't no pressure out there, my nigga, everybody
fuck with you.
Cause what you do, my nigga,what you say, what you speak on,
these motherfuckin' beats nigga.
Only thing that I canmotherfuckin' tell you on some
(00:48):
real what you do, my, what yousay, what you speak on these, we
back, we back, we back, hey, weback, like we never back.
You know who that motherfuckingis?
Without introductions, exactlyShit, shit, oh shit.
I introduced him.
Introduce him as motherfuckingSmiley.
Yes, sir, yes, indeed, I meanshit.
You know, we took a littlehiatus.
You know, sometimes you got toget folks to tell you to stay
focused because a lot of peoplelose focus on shit, lose focus
(01:08):
on the journey, and we, you know, we got to get swayed back in,
right right, that's why you gotto stay focused.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yep, that's one of the key things with not even
just this industry in life.
You got to stay focused, evenwhen because we seeing the
progress that's not what wesaying at all, but you know,
sometimes getting your own headabout certain stuff and, you
know, just got a lot back in.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
That's all I mean.
Like you said, like we weretalking about earlier, man,
before we even started rollingShit, this whole nice guys
finish last.
Or nice females start finishlast.
I say because a lot of peoplein this damn aging world think,
just because they got you lockedin with them, that you always
going to be there, no matterwhat.
(01:55):
Ain't got to do nothing extra,Ain't got to do nothing Right,
they ain't got to cook no meal.
They ain't got to look out foryou, they ain't got to send no.
Hey, I just want to check onyou text and no shit like that.
Or you know what shit.
Even go even further.
Be kind and cordial and showthe motherfucker that you fuck
with him the extra strong way.
I said because some folks I meanshit like hey, we were talking
(02:18):
about it earlier that toxic asspussy.
Yeah, yes, lord, hey, let me goahead and keep this shit going.
I don't give a fuck what thefuck they say.
You argue with me allmotherfucking day I mean all
motherfucking day you justthrowing little shots here and
here.
We ain't talking.
All motherfucking day, my bloodpressure get to boiling like
(02:41):
the motherfucker.
My head get to hurting Boy.
I see red.
I don't think they understandthat shit.
Let me tell you something andthen at the end of the night I
lay down you gonna try to tootyour little booty up on me man,
I don't want that shit.
I don't want that shit.
Man, I might be the ignorantmotherfucker because I know I
ain't shit.
I might lay right beside youand beat my motherfucking knee
(03:02):
Just to show you I can stillcatch a nut.
I can still do it without you.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
What did I do, Lenny?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
I mean shit, hey, that's the same way.
Y'all got down.
Y'all get to get on scribblinglike a DJ over there.
Exactly, I mean paying with alittle motherfucking kitty in
the box.
I mean, with or without thatindividual, I can still get to
where I need to go.
Maybe it might be enjoyablewith you, but at this current
state and time I don't want it.
That shit goes both ways, true,I don't know what the fuck
(03:39):
y'all be watching If my mindsetain't there.
I'll give you a couple bulletpoints.
If my bank account fucked up,mm-hmm, nigga.
If my life's about to get cutoff, mm-hmm.
I wouldn't have got cut off.
Mm-hmm.
If some shit going on at work Idone got rolled up at work,
that last thing on mymotherfucking mind is a
motherfucking pussy and somemotherfucking head.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
True, but I will be the person that's going to keep
it all the way.
Jack, keep it funky.
He know I'll be right with this.
We still go for it at the endof the day.
We still going to let you do itBecause, listen, the thing is
(04:24):
Nah, never mind, that's going toget too much game.
Kb said hey y'all know.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Hey, let me tell y'all something he give y'all
perfect nigga, I don't want it.
Hey, listen, I will take mypunk ass to the couch.
I go sleep in the car.
I go sleep when the kids float.
I go sleep somewhere else.
I go sleep in the bathtub.
Get me a pillow, get me ablanket.
I'm going to the motherfuckingbathtub.
I ain't going to sleep in thebathtub because this
motherfucker might be mad enoughat me to turn on the
(04:52):
motherfucking goddamn shit.
And I ain't got time to drown.
My little ass been drowning intwo feet of water.
I ain't got time for that shit.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Because if I wake up, think I'm waterboard, I might
have a flashback than when I wasin the service.
We ain't triggering that ptsd,we ain't having them escapes,
but go ahead, smile see, that'swhat I said.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
We different when it comes down.
He don't damn near kill themotherfucker, he don't take all
that anger out he might chokeyour ass.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I'm gonna think about everything you just said.
I'm bringing up while I'm whileI'm doing it, while I'm doing
your head, while I'm doing yourgrease what you was saying.
That motherfucker's gonna behitting that back wall.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Hey but, like you said, you're gonna be hitting
that back wall, but the thing is, you also gonna be up there
talking about something.
Oh, you dirty bitch, you gonnatake this dick.
All that goddamn yapping, Iain't going to be Goddamn it,
I'm going to be good, I ain'tgoing to be normal.
That's what you'll be hearingback and I don't want no talk
(05:56):
for us of that shit.
Because I'm sorry, because I'min a different state of mind,
because I ain't going to give afuck what you got to say.
I just block all this shit out.
I just want my peace, I justwant my silence, because my
philosophy is the nicer I treatyou, the nastier you're going to
be Right.
The nicer I treat you, the moreyou're going to fuck with me.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
That ain't everybody, though, you're right, but
that's the toxic shit, see.
And there you go, bruh, that'swhat I'm talking about today
Toxic, Toxic, and the toxic me,you feel me.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
And it's like you said, it's more than one toxic,
that's just one.
You trying to use the box andyou trying to use your shit to
manipulate a situation.
That's also toxic, motherfucker.
You right, I ain't know.
You right, that should be toxicas hell.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Hey look, look, I'm bad about this man.
I ain't gonna hold you.
My whole thing is oh, you gonnaact stupid Shit.
Alright, you on punishment.
Don't even ask for nothing.
Don't even try to put yourlittle boot up on me.
Don't try to cut down onsomething.
Don't you want to come lay downwith me?
No the answer is no motherfucker, but I mean shit.
(07:10):
Different folks for differentfolks.
Because a lot of people don'tfail to realize how things move
in the way of life, Because if Ilook out for you more, you're
going to look out for me more.
And to be honest about this wayand this world that we live in,
it's more than just a little.
It's more than just dickingpussy out of here.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
It's more than just a wet spot.
They don't make it try to.
They don't try to make it seemlike it is, though they try to
use that as the bargaining chip,as the end-all be-all.
If you as the end all be all,but I mean, if you don't get
this, you can't have this.
You don't do this for me, youcan't.
No, no more, nah.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I'll tell you what it is.
The boys down today Well, theyput a dollar sign on that.
Motherfucker had to.
Good morning that too.
Most definitely because they tryto oh, give me a thousand
dollars, you ain't even got athousand dollars come on, give
me a thousand dollars no, theywere saying, oh, buy me this,
buy me that, buy me this, buy methat.
(08:12):
And it's like I bust myself atwork.
I do this at work, I do that atwork.
And it derives from what?
Because the scales can't beuneven.
I can't do more for you thanyou do for me.
I can't look out for you morethan you look out for me,
(08:32):
because, at the end of the day,you work the same way I do, and
I mean, I understand we mightnot make the same, I might make
less than you Exactly, but inthose trying times I might be
down to my last 20.
And I still gave it.
Shoot, I might give it, I mightbe trying to get on, you know,
scrounge some pennies up.
I might not even let you know,that's all I got.
(08:54):
I just figured out like, okay,I got this many days to payday,
or I got this over here about towork.
I got this person got nowalmost money.
Let me try to wag someone.
Well, I got this to do.
Well, let me go run this.
Those are the people that trulyfall with you.
Yeah, because sometimes youcan't get somebody always on the
front end.
You got to get them on the backend and a lot of times people
(09:18):
don't understand that becausethey so self-minded and so
self-conscious to where theydon't know their head from their
asshole, but back to what youwere talking
Speaker 2 (09:28):
about the nice guys finish.
Last man.
I feel like in this society,with everything going on you see
everything.
I'm not even going to use thenews, because to me the news has
been obsolete for a minute.
They only show you what theywant you to see, what they want
you to know.
It's stuff like that anyway.
So I feel like you got to goout and search for your
(09:50):
information, whatever and that'swhat I mean by the nice guy.
The nice guy might just oh,okay, that's what you tell me,
okay.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Yeah, bro, I just got a question for you.
Now we in a day and era whereeverybody's selling content,
right yeah, it's like you got topay to play.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Right.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
But these motherfuckers thinking that our
bank account is deep as fuck.
But don't understand, we'reworking nine to five, right, or
we grinding, or we trying to digour way out of holes, right, or
we trying to put ourselves in abetter position to make lives
easier for both of us.
But before we even got withthem, right, or we started
(10:35):
pursuing them.
Yo, I ain't gonna lie, shit wemight have, you know, took the
other route and, you know,bought a little content, spent a
little folding, I don't know.
I don't ask for shit.
You know, just see, somethingwe can't see on the regular
basis.
I feel you.
(10:55):
Why is it that they get sooffended when they find that out
?
But you still ask me for money.
But you think another femalecan't.
But there's a limit, because Iused to work with this guy Shit.
That motherfucker was spendinglike $1,300 a month on just
looking at pussy.
(11:16):
That's overboard.
That boy throw it off.
But then every time y'all getthe argument you say something
like that's why you're a nastynigga.
You up here buying content frombitches, but you on a trip when
I take you to the strip clubwith me and you throwing my
money on these motherfuckerswhat's?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
the difference.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
What's the difference between you me buying content
from somebody just to see themshake some ass, suck some dick
or fuck Right Somebody elseother than myself, then me
taking you to an establishmentwhere I'm throwing money, or I
just go by myself or with mypartners, but you don't make a
big deal about that.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
The only thing I can really say, the only thing
that's really.
You put it down like that, youlay it out like that.
The only thing that's coming tomy head is really three things,
to be honest Jealousy, envy andjust like borderline I won't
say crazy, but damn near Like.
(12:18):
It's like why would you think,just because we're not even
together, like I'm single, yeah,yeah, we're doing stuff, but
I'm single at the same time asyou're single.
I don't know what the fuckyou're doing on these days.
I'm pretty sure you're gettingmoney from other niggas.
So what is the issue for megiving her some money when she
asked for it?
Matter of fact, she didn't evenask for it.
(12:38):
I just did it out of thekindness of my heart, because
she don't ask.
You're the one who asks, so notwho looks like an asshole the
one who asks or the one whodon't ask.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
I mean, you're absolutely right because they be
in that goofy shit sometimes,because a lot of times them
motherfuckers be asking andasking and asking with their
hand out and you never know whatthey always got their hand out
for some shit.
I've heard plenty of femalessay this off the dribble Shit, I
got a nigga for this.
(13:07):
I got a nigga for this.
I got a mechanic man.
I got a motherfucker to take meout to eat.
I got a motherfucker.
I fuck, I got a motherfuckerfor this.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
That's why I said what I just said.
You can't be trying to put ongoddamn the same shoe and then
look down and be mad when it'stwo different sizes.
You need to be goddamn duediligence at the beginning of
this motherfucker, because if wealready know that we both
single, why in the hell?
And you done already told methat, like Jack said, I got a
(13:38):
nigga for this, I got a niggafor that, I got a nigga for you.
Think we forget you?
Speaker 3 (13:42):
think just because we can fuck you, you think we
forget all that shit.
So this is my question.
So there's two sides to thecoin.
Yeah, I know you out herefucking somebody before me.
Right, let's break this shitdown, because I see these
motherfuckers posting girl, I'msingle as ASL.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
They trying to get attention with that shit Like a
motherfucker.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
You know what ASL stands for.
As fuck, nah, hell, nah.
You thinking like a nigga terms.
What is ASL?
And fucking.
Damn, damn I ain't eventhinking about that shit.
Single and fucking Single AF,single AF damn, damn you can't.
(14:32):
I don't give a fuck what nobodysay.
You got an itch you want toscratch.
You going to go reaching thatblack book.
That's a fact.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
That rose ain't going to go, you so far he hit one of
her nose with that one ain'tgoing to lie to you.
You got an itch you want toscratch.
You definitely going to go inthat little black book, you
going to go in that black book.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
You going to scroll, you going to dig to you we got
to hit you with a scratchy book.
Definitely going to go in thatlittle black book.
You going to go in that blackbook.
You going to scroll, you goingto dig in them cobwebs.
You going to see the nigga thatmade a goddamn message.
You 30 times on Facebook, 30times on Snapchat, 30 times on
Instagram and you going togoddamn bite.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
You going to bite one of them, damn.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Yeah, we feel like that Because, I'm sorry, I ain't
in your back pocket 24-7.
I ain't your probation officer.
I'm on your ankle 24-7.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
I can only believe what you tell me, but that comes
with trust.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
So should I not trust you from the get-go?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Trust is earned.
You got I just really thinkthat trust is earned.
You got to put people throughshit and I used to be I just
really think that the trust isearned.
And you gotta, you gotta putpeople through shit.
I look at and I used to be I'mlike when I heard people say
that shit, I'm like, what thefuck Like?
But now, growing up like Ireally feel like you do.
You gotta see what the fuck aperson's really going to be
capable of putting up with,cause you ain't going cause my
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thing, be this, my thing, bethis.
You don't know what the fucklife going to throw at you.
So if a motherfucker just goingto leave you for some fucking
pennies hitting the ground whenthey weren't supposed to, you
could have tested that three atthe beginning and seen that she
wasn't going to be a ride or diefor you.
You could have did somethinglike oh baby, I ain't got today
Shit.
You can pay for this goddamnlittle outer real quick.
And then just, I mean that'sjust a little small little shit.
(16:09):
Damn, baby, I ain't got no gabmoney Shit, so you mind driving
today.
Like I mean just a little shit,like it's just you know, bro, I
play this shit like Spade.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
bro, play this shit like Spade.
You don't know my hand, I don'tknow yours, right, but I got to
trust you to have my back inevery situation.
Mm nigga, you start fucking up.
You were needing missing bookswhen you supposed to get that
book.
Hey, what the fuck is that?
Okay, I let one thing slide.
What the fuck is that?
Speaker 2 (16:37):
two, things slide.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
Now she think, everything can slide right, but
now, shit, now, where we sit,where we stand, we all fucked up
, hey, smiley.
Hey, I want to let these folksknow we got a special guest
right now.
Yes, sir, we got amotherfucking.
Hey, we got my brother fromanother mother Motherfucking Big
Wood.
I mean Big Wood, why this?
(17:02):
Hey, he a retired gynecologist,y'all.
He is the infamous uterus.
But so we were talking aboutthis.
Now, oh, you ain't got to holdit like that dog, you can just
talk.
We were having thisconversation about how females
these day and age always gottheir hands out or judge you off
(17:27):
of things that you do, or toxic, or venomous pussy.
It's a true statement.
Like they want to argue, thenthey want to throw it at you.
But don't you think?
Do you feel like, if they startarguing, arguing, arguing with
you, that you should give in toit, or you should be like I'm
(17:47):
still going to get somethinglater on tonight, or you're like
man, shit, fuck that.
I don't want no part of that.
Let me put space between me andher.
I need to cool off.
You need to cool off.
Hey, I'll hit you up when Iwant to hit you up again.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Yeah, for me I mean it would depend on who the
person is first off.
But I mean I'm not just goingto sit here and argue with
nobody for no reason, right?
So if there's some sort ofargument we had and or you're
arguing for no reason, like,let's figure that out first.
But I'm not going to put anyeffort into furthering any
(18:22):
developments, if that's what itis Right.
Sorry to argue.
I mean that's just, that'spointless and that's you know.
I'm a man of peace, all my ownpeace and quiet.
I don't want a woman adding tothat, taking away from that and
adding to the negativity andtoxicity is what I should say.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
I tell people all the time the whole concept of 50-50
does not derive straight tomoney.
It's a backfiller off.
If I take 50% of your stressaway and make 50% of your life
easier, you can be 50% morehappy, 50% happier and more
productive in life.
(18:59):
And, like I was tellingsomebody the other day, a, a
situation, a relationship oranything doesn't need to be
toxic.
Um, because you got tounderstand in my house I'm at
got to understand in my houseI'm at peace.
Once I walk outside of thosedoors, I'm at war.
I'm at war with every encounterthat I come into contact with.
(19:19):
So I rely on you to help methrough these battles, instead
of by myself.
Because, shit, yeah, we'regoing to have our trials and
tribulations, but how can youmake my shit more stressful to
(19:39):
where I'm going to croak out?
I'm going to die.
I'm going to be more stressedout.
My dick ain't going to work, nomore, because I'm always
fucking stressed out.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
My dick will work.
I don't know.
It doesn't matter how much.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Everything else.
Okay, that didn't even work,but it's just like help me be at
peace because at the end of theday, I'm going to give you a
piece of this dick.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
I agree with that sentiment.
In my own personal opinion, Ithink the traditional roles of
the household, the family Idon't think that is around or
will be around ever again intoday's day and age which is
understandable because thetraditional roles of the wife
stays home, take care of thehouse, take care of the kids,
all that it's not needed anymore, it's not necessary.
(20:30):
But I will say the roles of hey, you are the wife, I am the
husband, the role being you lookout for me, I look out for you
50 50.
It's not about monetary, it'sabout I'm going to look after
what I have and you're going tolook after what you have, and
we're going to go through lifetogether and take everything to
(20:51):
the chin together.
Because that's what you're doingwhen you sign up in a
relationship, when you getmarried, you have kids with
somebody.
What you're doing is you'resaying, hey, no matter what
happens, it's me and you versusthe world.
It's me and you taking care ofus, taking care of life, taking
care of our kids, taking care ofthis situation.
People turn everything into oh,you know, my partner, my
(21:13):
partner, my partner, oh, theydid this, oh, they're doing this
, oh, and, like you know,sometimes that's all good and
dandy, but you still have torealize at the end of the day
it's you and that person againstthe world.
Speaker 3 (21:26):
Yeah, yeah, and I'm in full agreeance with you
Because when you look at ourgrandparents and our parents,
when they were coming up, shitwas cheaper, shit was easier,
shit was less expensive.
You could work at fuckingMcDonald's and afford somewhere
to stay.
Now, motherfuckers that areworking six-figure jobs can't
(21:50):
even afford somewhere to stay.
Sometimes I was talking tosomebody the other day she's
going through on the ringerbecause they want four times the
income just to move in and it'slike do I want to stay where I
just saw somebody get shot andthe cops the tape outline is
(22:10):
still out there or do I want tostay in somewhere nice?
Do I want to stay somewherecomfortable, or do I want to
stay where the fucking ceiling'sfalling out?
Or do I want to live with afucking roommate?
I don't want a fucking roommatebecause I don't know this
motherfucker.
I don't know this weirdmotherfucker.
Next thing, you know we beefing, or people get into a situation
or a relationship they can'teven afford to leave.
And that's sad because I'mstuck in this motherfucking
(22:34):
situation I was happy with atone point in time, but now I'm
in this motherfucker by myself.
I'm trying to get myself outand now I'm stuck Even with,
like, we talk about how we'resupposed to have each other's
backs because I can come like Ican't tell you how many times I
(22:56):
need somebody to deal with me.
Hey, motherfucker, get your assup.
We got bills to pay.
If it's just left on me, I'mlike.
I'm like I don't need to go towork today.
I'm going to call out.
I can afford to call outwithout my support system.
There it's hard.
It's me battling me.
If I'm battling myself, guesswho's going to win?
(23:20):
Fuck this.
I'm laying in this bed.
I'm making my shit easy.
I'm taking less stress becausethat's the less stressful route.
If I had a partner, asupportive partner, not no toxic
motherfucker, not nomotherfucker that just caught
trying to hit my pocket.
Always payday Buy me something.
I ain't trying to have it.
(23:40):
I'm trying to have a partner towhere we can build something
together, we can make somethingtogether, we can go through this
journey together and we can goup against these motherfuckers
Together.
Because eventually, where arewe at?
Together?
Speaker 1 (23:55):
Yeah, someone has to hold you accountable.
Absolutely In a correct andbeneficial Meaningful way.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Absolutely, because a lot of these individuals
Nowadays don't understand, likeI need somebody to tell me, john
, what Did you pay that bill?
Shit, my bad.
Let me get on that.
And that's holding meaccountable, because I tell you
like this straight up Came homethe other day, tried to get in
(24:24):
the damn shower, goo, goo, goo,goo, goo.
Oh my, what off?
Oh shit, let me.
Let me make the payment Iforgot.
Because you got to understand,no person in this world, in this
life, is meant to be alone.
(24:45):
Because if that was the case,shit, we could procreate by
ourselves.
We shoot babies out our dicks.
That'd be painful as fuck.
That's crazy, bro, what youjust had.
I'm in pain right now.
I got a call out of work why?
I just had an eight pound babyout the tip of my penis.
You'll be in that situation.
You get what I'm saying.
(25:06):
I get what you're saying.
If we could procreate byourselves, then we know.
Because if we could procreateby ourselves, there would no
what.
That sounds like a hot shit,ain't it?
But I'm sorry to say that, butbut it's challenging to the mind
to think that when I hearpeople say, oh, I don't need
(25:30):
nobody for shit, that's a lie.
You need somebody foreverything.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
I just feel like those people who say that
they've been broken, they'vebeen hurt, they've been
shattered.
I just feel like the person whothey did really want, the
person they did really need, letthem down and now they're just
like you know what?
Fuck everybody, I'm going todestroy this bitch.
If I can't have her, I don'tneed nobody.
That's how you come up with themotherfuckers in here, the
(25:57):
bitter motherfuckers who arejust bitter for no reason.
You have to see somebody likedamn, why is this so bad?
Speaker 3 (26:03):
For no reason.
What's going on, boss?
Speaker 1 (26:06):
I mean, that's the other end of the toxic spectrum.
There it's like oh, I've beenhurt, I've been broken, but I
don't want anything from anybodyaround me.
Oh, I can stand alone, oh, Ican do this by myself.
Oh, I don't need anybody.
I mean, it's from both sides,both male, female, it doesn't
matter, it's on both sides.
Oh, I don't need anybody, I'man independent Blah that you
(26:27):
want to be able to take care ofyourself and you want to be
there for yourself.
That's all fine and dandy, butwhat a lot of.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
The point of life and even just friendships is
connection, right, but so I feellike social media and in olf
the hub, all these things haveruined things, because now, shit
, I ain't got to make thatconnection with you.
You know what I got to do.
Straight on line hey, I justgot to pay that $250.
(26:56):
I pay that $250.
I'm pulling up at your housebusting you down and I'm going
to go out the back of the door.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Hey, yeah, that too.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
Because I mean you don't pay a whole estate, you
pay a whole league.
I'm just saying Because I meanthat.
But it's sad that he's gottento that point to where I'd
rather pay and eliminate theheadache and the stress of
dealing with you and just get mymy pleasures off and be gone
(27:27):
then then build a connectionwith your relationship with I
agree.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
I mean, I have a simple statement for that.
I have a life motto no cash forass.
So I ain't doing that.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
You said no cash for ass.
Uh-oh, uh-oh, uh-oh, no.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
I know you're going to pay some type of way.
I'm just going to pay some typeof way.
That's what I'm saying, but Iain't straight up paying cash
for ass.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
It's always going to be some type of so type of way
you gonna pay for the hotel.
Speaker 1 (27:51):
You gonna pay for something to eat.
You gonna pay for something todrink hell, you even gonna pay
in time.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
I'm always paying in fucking time hey, you might not
even get it, sorry you might noteven get it, but welcome to the
world we live in now, but it iswhat it is.
Hey, we want to end the day offwith hey.
Y'all sit down and watch Stepby Step.
(28:17):
Thank you, big Wood, forsitting down with me and smiling
.
Appreciate it.
Smallwood45.
Hey, we out Peace.
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