May 19, 2025 • 24 mins
What's your breaking point? What amount of money would make you compromise your values? These aren't hypothetical questions – they're real dilemmas faced by celebrities, artists, and everyday people whose worst moments become public spectacle.
This raw, unflintered episode tackles the disturbing trend of public exposure and character assassination in our social media age. Drawing from recent celebrity scandals involving NDAs and compromising situations, we explore the moral complexities behind the headlines. When someone's private life becomes public fodder, we rarely consider the psychological devastation left in the wake of these exposures.
I share my personal experience signing up for military service at 19 years old, lured by a $20,000 signing bonus that ultimately cost me irreplaceable time with my newborn son. This illustrates how we often focus on immediate benefits while underestimating long-term consequences – a pattern repeated throughout the entertainment industry with predatory deals that trap artists in compromising situations.
The most troubling aspect of our exposure culture is the impulse to destroy others through revelations and public shaming. What do people gain from exposing others' secrets and vulnerabilities? Does temporary attention justify potentially destroying someone's career, mental health, or even pushing them toward suicide? As I remind listeners, "karma is a motherfucker" – the negativity you put into the world has a way of finding its way back to you, often multiplied.
Before you participate in someone else's destruction, ask yourself: would you want your worst moments exposed for public consumption? Would you want your family to witness your humiliation? The answer reveals everything about your character and humanity. Subscribe now for more unfiltered conversations that challenge conventional thinking and explore the moral dilemmas of modern life.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
And I just want to welcome y'all to 4 Steppers Only
, where we tell you to sit downand watch a motherfucking step a
step.
I'm Jack Shit, that littlemotherfucker that you know in
real life, but I just I'm sosick and tired of hearing about
this ditty shit Like real shit,because, the way I see it is,
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some of y'all get manipulatedfor a perk, some of y'all get
manipulated for blood, but y'allsaying this, oh, it's so wrong
for her to do this and do thatand oh, my god, he utilized her
this way and that way.
Man tell me, or not?
Shit.
The same way.
Folks run away from every otherproblem or every other
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situation they can.
They have the option to so,with her talking about something
she was fucking and sucking,got sores in her mouth and shit
from fucking and sucking randomdicks and being exposed to STDs
and this, that and that, whenare you going to say enough is
enough?
I'm just saying, because I meanshit.
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The average joe, small, yes,you can be exposed to certain
shit.
Some of y'all gets exposed tocertain shit for even cheaper.
Some of y'all keep going back,like playing russian roulette,
shit, oh shit.
She said she had her periodtime, but I ain't catch it.
I'm gonna go back for some hope, you dumb motherfucker.
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But I mean I do feel sorry for.
But I mean I'm pretty sure thismotherfucker had her son a NDA
that's a non-disclosure actwhich a lot of big individuals
do to you know, to tell y'all toshut the fuck up.
But I'm just, I'm just lookingat it from the outside in
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because, hey, she got paid offof her misery.
I commend you, hey, but she didsome fucked up shit too, as
y'all know.
Because I mean, who the fuckanswers the phone while they
fucking somebody else for theirhusband?
Bro, that's no disrespectfulshit.
That's the only shit I see onthe hub or the x video or some
shit like that on twitter.
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But that's some.
That's some old, disrespectfulshit for you to got.
No one sit up there and answerthe phone while this
motherfucker is deep penetratingyou.
Hey, no judgment to each hisown, whatever, whatever.
But I'm just saying from theoutside, looking in, it's just a
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fucked up situation foreverybody to be exposed to.
Because how long was she withthis motherfucker?
And I feel, I feel like this,this, this just me from my
personal experiencesmotherfuckers, don't, don't just
start asking for money orstarted trying to blackmail you
with text messages, videos andshit like that until some shit
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goes left and I feel like shegot what she deserved which 30?
I don't know if it was 30million or 20 million, but she
got what she deserved.
But then to just expose andexpose and expose every little
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detail, that's a bit much to me,because I'm just, I'm just from
the outside looking in BecauseI understand, even when some
shit goes left between me andsomebody, I'm just, I'm just
from the outside looking inbecause I understand, even when
some shit goes left between meand somebody I'm fooling around
with bro, I take shit to thegrave, bro, shit, it ain't
nobody else's business, it ain'tnobody else's concern.
What's happening between us ishappening between us, but
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everybody don't believe that wayand I'm sorry to say this.
That's what fucked up.
What social media has come intothe play?
Because so many people get the,get the notion or the
aggression in themselves to runstraight to social media and
expose every little detail aboutthis individual to make them
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still look bad, or to blasphemeor to belittle them, or let them
tell it, to expose anythingabout them and expose.
Expose, goddamn, boss, man D-Lo, goddamn, goddamn, but I don't
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know what it is Aboutmotherfuckers when they get a
little money, they get, theyslip up, get caught in some
bullshit.
Bro you jagged.
And I can understand certainshit, but I can't.
I would never put myself inthis situation, but I'm I'm just
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gonna speak on it.
Shit.
Today, boss man D'Lo gotexposed by a transgender man.
It's been plenty ofmotherfuckers out there that
have gotten exposed aboutmessing with trannies.
Let me not say this too close tomy phone.
And next thing I know I go ontwitter and I'm scrolling,
scrolling, scrolling.
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Oh shit, because I ain't gonnahold y'all one time.
Shit, my twitter, kind of crazy.
So.
So the other day I was just,you know, chilling checking out
my twitter late night type shit,because I got, you know, got
the black mode, the dark nodemode, on, so I'm just scrolling.
I'm like, oh shawty, getting toit.
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God damn, teddy's lookingpretty.
Whoa, wait a minute, she got adick.
So I try to hurry up and scrolloff that shit.
Right there, done, fucked up mywhole algorithm and all that
other bullshit.
Now I'm seeing shit more andmore and more and more and I'm
just like man.
You know what?
I'm just going to try to deletethe app.
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Maybe they had to reset thealgorithm.
I'm a little bit older so Idon't know how this shit work,
but I'm just like, oh my god,shit, I'm I done fucked up, and
that's why I'm at.
But this is, this is my thing.
This is what me and my partnerwere talking about earlier.
So what, when, when do when doy'all when?
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When they put this, this, thisis what we get.
So it's been exposed.
Where some of these men get alittle bit of money and they
start doing some weird shit,they start getting exposed to
the wild side of shit.
Um, and they get exposed tothese certain things, these
certain ordeals, because a lotof these artists get exposed to
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these situations, a lot of theseactors get to these situations.
Hey, if you do this for me, youwill get this, if you do this,
you will get this.
And that's man and woman and alot of y'all out there saying in
the world well, shit, that'llnever be me in that situation.
I wouldn't do that, and you'rea motherfucking lie.
Because the way that shit worksand the way that shit works in
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your mindset and in your head isyou start thinking about all
the bullshit you going on?
Is you start thinking about allthe bullshit you going on, all
the shit you want to accomplish,and it's just a small rope Shit
.
I'm not going to say small,we're going to say some
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treacherous territory that youbuy the crossover into that you
wouldn't, you normally wouldn'tdo, because somebody has placed
something on a silver platterthat you wouldn't regularly have
access to.
Place something on a silverplatter that you wouldn't
regularly have access to.
What do you do?
That's like they were talkingabout something.
Man.
I would never do it.
You got to put a hundredmillion dollars in front of me.
Man.
Half y'all niggas will do thatshit for a happy meal.
We're gonna go ahead and keepthat shit.
100.
But when, if your back's againstthe wall and you know the only
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way to climb this mountain or toget to the stature where you
want to get is to do thisbullshit that you would never in
your a million years think of,or even whatever, whatever,
whatever.
It's crazy because you got tothink about it, because
everybody ask them crazyquestions.
Bro, shit, how much money wouldyou suck a dick?
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For how much money would you dothis?
For how much money would youeat shit?
For?
I mean shit you.
They had a tv show about thisshit not too long ago.
Because I mean fear factor,fear factor got on, touched on
this shit a lot of times.
Like bro, who in the fucking,who in the fucking right mind
would lay down in a bed offucking spiders or eat some bull
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testicles?
Or you driving down the road,you going to flip your shit on
purpose, bro, well, you coulddie.
I mean that's fear.
But who thinks that?
They going to be sitting down ina room where ain't nobody there
, ain't nobody else there.
They got you your paperwork andmoney or cash or whatever is
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placed in front of you, morecash than you have ever had at
your fingertips before and theysaying like shit, here go the
NDA, here goes your, here's yourwater cash.
We'll just say some bullshit, abullshit number.
So you think about it.
We'll say ten thousand, man,shit, ten thousand, come and go.
Shit, that's that, that'sthat's piss money, that's that's
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, that's hard working money.
But we're gonna say someunreasonable amounts.
We're gonna say they said twohundred thousand dollars.
We'll shit, we'll up it up.
We'll say a half a million,five hundred thousand.
They said five hundred thousanddollars in cash in front of you
.
You ain't never seen this muchmoney in front of you before in
your life.
So they put five hundredthousand dollars in front of you
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and this is the decision thatyou have to make, sitting here
what?
What do you choose?
You thinking about all thethings that you can do and all
the reach that you can do howyou can grow your business, how
you can take care of your kids,how you can take care of your
family, how to, how you, howsomebody can get this surgery,
how your mama ain't got astruggle no more.
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How your sister ain't got astruggle no more.
You can go buy a house, allthis shit that you've never had
access to before, just walkingand working a nine to five,
right there on the spot.
How much?
How many people do you think gotexposed to that shit, type shit
?
How many times you think theyget pulled in them back rooms,
at them freak offs and they getproposition with this shit?
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Y'all can't, y'all can't saythat y'all wouldn't do this shit
until you get placed on thatfive, because I mean I know I
got morals, I got subjects andshit like that shit.
I mean I'm gonna go ahead andbe real with you.
I, I ain't, I ain't, I ain'tdoing no shit just because you
put that money in front of me.
That's like you're selling yoursoul to the devil, but you
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can't say what you willing youwon't do.
When your back against again thewall, when you got your dreams
and your goals in front of youand somebody got down, put the
proposition, this bullshit, infront of you, what do you do?
What choice do you make?
What trigger do you pull?
Because you got to think aboutit.
That's how.
That's how mercenaries getstarted.
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That's how drug runners getstarted.
That's how drug runners getstarted.
That's how trappers get started.
Because it's the fast cash nowI'm getting.
Now I'm getting access to shitthat I have never seen before.
What do we do?
What do we do?
I'm gonna go ahead and tell youright here from my own personal
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experience, bro, I ain't doingthat shit.
I ain't gonna do.
Miss me with that bullshit.
Hell, nah, I only like thetoilet, the toilet water
splashing back up and hitting mein my asshole.
I'm sorry.
That shit scares me.
Every time, that shit, like agoddamn gun going off, I'm
jumping out my skin, I'm turningpale.
I'm damn near about to run offthe toilet, my drawers around my
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ankles.
I know that ain't happening.
Then the shit when you go tothe doctor and you get they
stick that goddamn shward onyour throat.
Shit, hell, nah, shit, damn.
I damn near died.
I saw my life vanish before myeyes.
I can't do that shit.
I would never even imaginedoing that shit.
But we all have a price to docertain shit and to commit
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certain things.
Like I say it's, it's likeselling your soul to the devil
because I can't say what I'vedone in my past like okay.
I'll give you a perfect example.
When I first signed up for themilitary, they put 20 grand.
They said, hey, you come workfor us, you go get this training
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, blah, blah.
You go to the military, yougive away 8 years of your
fucking life.
You get paid yes, you get paidFor, you know, like a regular
job, but you also get this$20,000 incentive and $20,000.
And you're like shit.
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I was.
I was.
I think I was 19 at the time, 19, about to turn 20.
My first son was on the way.
All I could think about is thefuture I could provide for him
in that situation and how hecould be proud that his dad was
in the military, that I'm doingsomething productive in my life.
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I could go to school and allthese things.
I'm thinking of all theadvantages.
I'm never thinking about thedisadvantages.
I'm never thinking about whatI'm going to be exposed to.
I'm not thinking about all thebullshit that I'm going to go
through Fast forward.
I signed the paper blah, blahblah.
They didn't give me 20 grand.
They didn't.
The government taxed the fuck.
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Blah blah.
They didn't give me 20 grand,they didn't.
The government taxed the fuckout of it.
They taxed it at 33.3%.
I got back 15.6.
After being away from my son inhis first couple of months
being here.
And I got back 15.6.
Yeah, I got something back ontaxes.
I got back 15, six.
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Yeah, I got some back on taxes,but the time that I lost with
him did not equal the time thatI gave away.
But I didn't realize this untilI got older and I started
realizing what, what, what, whatthings they put him through
also and that's also with myother kids, the other ones that
I had while I was in the servicedeal.
When I was, I'd come home for30 days.
Come home for, and leave backout.
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For what nine months, leaveback out for six months, leave
back out for another 30 days.
I was doing that constantly,but that's what I had to sign up
for for that piece of that cash.
But how do you know what thesepeople signed up for when they
went and got these deals?
When they went and went theseplaces or they got pulled in
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them dark rooms.
You don't know what the fuckthey got questioned about.
You don't know what the fuckthey got offered.
Shit, man, man, I see your.
Hey.
You want to feature with xyz?
Well, you're gonna have to dothis.
You want to get on this label?
Shit, I gotta.
You got a 150 million dollarbudget.
I'm sorry, we ain't gonna gothat high.
You got a two million dollarbudget to put out an album.
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To do this.
Do that.
Do pay for the beats, do yourand's how many.
This is your recuperation.
You got to give us back this.
Your rights and your royaltystay with us.
A lot of them don't think aboutthe repercussions.
They just hear the dollaramount.
That's why a lot of times theyget folks trapped in these damn
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360 deals and you don't everknow what the fuck you got
exposed to.
That means they got your asssold the fuck all the way around
.
And what do you do?
But this is my question fory'all what do you gain out of
destroying an individual byexposing them?
What do you, what do you gain?
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You gain attention.
Do you gain some self-relief?
Because I mean, for my moralcompass is I ain't gaining shit
from it.
Why To see somebody's life getdestroyed, for somebody to lose
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their life, go in a state ofdepression Because shit, I done
been threatened?
Oh shit, I found you, shit,shit.
I'm gonna put this out on theinternet.
Oh shit, I got thesescreenshots.
I'm gonna put this out.
What the fuck man anyone knowsuch shit?
It was just me back in my 20s,me cheating, so shit.
What do I do, motherfucker?
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What do you?
What do you gain from?
Because I mean, like I'm, I'mbad about this.
Once you piss me off, I cut youthe fuck off.
I disassociate myself.
Hey, you cool from over there,I don't fuck with you, whatever,
hey, but you can breathe overthere, I don't.
I don't fuck with you, I don'twant no bitch, no bad horn to
you.
I just don't fuck with you, nomore.
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But some people aim to destroyindividuals and that's and
that's disheartening.
Because what?
What are you going to do?
Because we're going to take itto the extreme.
You destroy individuals,character, you end up and
destroy a person's mind and youexpose all this negative shit
about them, all this negativeshit about them.
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Where's your moral compassgonna sit?
Is your moral compass gonna belike shit?
You did a good job, whatever.
What about when?
If they go and commit suicide,where's your moral compass at
then?
You're gonna get, you're gonnakill, you're not gonna give a
fuck.
Because if you don't give afuck, shit, you never cared
about them in the first place.
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Because most people are out herethey don't want to build with
you, they want to destroy you.
They want to cause you misery,they want to cause you hurt,
they want to cause you pain.
So why, why are you here?
Why are you breathing?
If you want to cause anotherindividual pain?
Because I mean you wouldn'twant that done to you, why would
you want that done to somebodyelse?
Because to me that doesn't makeany sense.
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Because a lot of people justwant to destroy, destroy,
destroy, destroy individuals.
They never want to say hey, man, it's gonna be okay, okay, shit
.
Everybody go through somebullshit, everybody get exposed
from some shit.
Shit happens, shit gets saidabout people.
Man, they talked about jesus,bro, don't worry about that shit
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.
Where do you go?
How, how can you sit there andbe okay with what you did to
somebody and as much as slickshit as you say to somebody, or
tell the next butterfly, or justtell the next person or the
individual they just want tohave an open ear.
That's messy as fuck with you,because a lot of times, what I
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say is shit, bro, this is whatit is.
I just don't fuck with thatperson, no more.
Oh, I don't fuck with them nomore.
Man, that's between me and them.
Shit, because I don't.
Just because I don't fuck withthem, I don't fuck with them,
and people constantly't fuckwith them, and people constantly
challenge your character, andthat's why, like to this day, I
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don't fuck with a lot of people.
Because, bro, how can I trustyou?
How can I trust you?
Because if you come to me andyou talk to me about somebody,
how do I know you don't do thesame thing with me To others?
Because, shit, it ain't thateasy to cut on and cut off.
Because what are you doing?
How do you move?
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Because if this is what you'reshowing me, that your character
is, I'm cool with that.
I'm cool on that, bro, you stayover there.
Shit, you can keep that dramashit.
You can keep that bullshit.
You can keep all that negativeenergy shit over there.
Because that, keep that dramashit.
You can keep that bullshit.
You can keep all that negativeenergy shit over there.
Because that negative energycan be transferable to people.
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Because I mean, what are youlooking to do when you expose
them, people?
What are you looking to do?
Because karma is a motherfucker.
Karma is a motherfucker because, like they say, like shit, like
they say in certain movies andin witchcraft and this, that.
And the third, be careful whatyou do to people, because that
shit might come back tenfold toyou, because you don't, you
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don't know what you're puttingout there in the energy, that
all that negativity that'sfestering can be, can be put out
in the atmosphere to where itnow it affects you on the back
end.
So where do we go from there?
Where do we go?
Because it's like I'm sorry tosay this, it's a lot of such
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shit happening, but whatever,hey, whatever makes them happy,
let it make them happy.
It might not be for me, itmight not be for you, but if it
makes them happy, hey, let thembe down.
You ain't gotta fuck with it,you ain't gotta get your your
two cents on it, none of that.
Let them be happy.
And you ain't gotta involveyourself in it.
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You ain't gotta got.
Don't put your energy into it.
So why contribute to the fuckery?
Why contribute to the bullshit?
Why contribute?
Contribute to the chaos?
Because, I mean, that is themost diabolical shit that an
individual can do cause anotherindividual misery because, as
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we've seen, screenshots, textmessages, videos all this shit
can destroy a person's psyche.
Some people ain't recover fromit.
Some people lose their jobsover it.
Shit, are you gonna be okaywith that?
Let's put the shoe on the otherfoot.
Would you be okay if somebodydid that to you?
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Damn them.
Would you be okay if it didn'thappen to you?
Not them, but you, a lot ofy'all be like shit, hell, nah.
And a lot of y'all that listento me probably had some shit
said about y'all that wasn'ttrue.
Because I, I'm, I'm the mostperson that can say on this,
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speak on this right here.
I hate lies on me.
I hate a motherfucker to telllies on me.
Hey, tell the truth about me.
See, if you want some truthabout me, shit.
I'll tell you the truth aboutme.
I'll tell you all the bullshitI've done, but don't lie on me.
What do you get out of lying onsomebody, man?
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Shit.
If you want to lie on me, youcan go write a book on doing
that shit on somebody.
You ain't got to lie on me, butthat is what it is.
I mean shit, but I mean ifthat's your privy, that's your
privy.
If that's what makes you happyat the end of the night about
you lying on somebody and allthat kind of other bullshit, man
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, go ahead, do you.
But that shit ain't for me, man,because I mean that shit
fraudulent.
That shit is fraudulent as fuck.
Don't lie on me.
Don't lie on somebody.
Let them dig their own grave,because if somebody's fucked up,
they'll dig their own stuff andtheir own situations and their
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own bullshit.
You ain't gotta dig no hole forthem.
They'll fuck up themselves.
But they can stand up on theirown too, because, like I said
before, would you be okay?
Would you be a-okay if you'relike he fucked up?
What happened to do?
Buddy Roger got them off himselfjust for the hell of it.
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I don't know what the fuck hewas going through, but he did,
because you don't want somethinglike that to happen to your
family member, you don't wantsomething like that to happen to
your cousin.
So why would you want it tohappen to somebody that you used
to care about, you used to fuckwith, you used to care about,
you used to fuck with, used tobe on that, that type of time
with?
Because to me that shit ain'tright, that shit ain't cultural,
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that shit, like y'allmotherfuckers say that ain't the
mirror.
You know what I'm saying.
But but shit, hey, just justthink of people like people and
don't try to goddamn, destroypeople, no more, cause that shit
ain't cool.
And I just want to tell y'allthank y'all for listening to
fold Steppers.
Only I'm out, peace, we'll beright back.
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Outro Music.
And I just want to welcome y'all to 4 Steppers Only
, where we tell you to sit downand watch a motherfucking step a
step.
I'm Jack Shit, that littlemotherfucker that you know in
real life, but I just I'm sosick and tired of hearing about
this ditty shit Like real shit,because, the way I see it is,
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some of y'all get manipulatedfor a perk, some of y'all get
manipulated for blood, but y'allsaying this, oh, it's so wrong
for her to do this and do thatand oh, my god, he utilized her
this way and that way.
Man tell me, or not?
Shit.
The same way.
Folks run away from every otherproblem or every other
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situation they can.
They have the option to so,with her talking about something
she was fucking and sucking,got sores in her mouth and shit
from fucking and sucking randomdicks and being exposed to STDs
and this, that and that, whenare you going to say enough is
enough?
I'm just saying, because I meanshit.
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The average joe, small, yes,you can be exposed to certain
shit.
Some of y'all gets exposed tocertain shit for even cheaper.
Some of y'all keep going back,like playing russian roulette,
shit, oh shit.
She said she had her periodtime, but I ain't catch it.
I'm gonna go back for some hope, you dumb motherfucker.
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But I mean I do feel sorry for.
But I mean I'm pretty sure thismotherfucker had her son a NDA
that's a non-disclosure actwhich a lot of big individuals
do to you know, to tell y'all toshut the fuck up.
But I'm just, I'm just lookingat it from the outside in
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because, hey, she got paid offof her misery.
I commend you, hey, but she didsome fucked up shit too, as
y'all know.
Because I mean, who the fuckanswers the phone while they
fucking somebody else for theirhusband?
Bro, that's no disrespectfulshit.
That's the only shit I see onthe hub or the x video or some
shit like that on twitter.
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But that's some.
That's some old, disrespectfulshit for you to got.
No one sit up there and answerthe phone while this
motherfucker is deep penetratingyou.
Hey, no judgment to each hisown, whatever, whatever.
But I'm just saying from theoutside, looking in, it's just a
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fucked up situation foreverybody to be exposed to.
Because how long was she withthis motherfucker?
And I feel, I feel like this,this, this just me from my
personal experiencesmotherfuckers, don't, don't just
start asking for money orstarted trying to blackmail you
with text messages, videos andshit like that until some shit
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goes left and I feel like shegot what she deserved which 30?
I don't know if it was 30million or 20 million, but she
got what she deserved.
But then to just expose andexpose and expose every little
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detail, that's a bit much to me,because I'm just, I'm just from
the outside looking in BecauseI understand, even when some
shit goes left between me andsomebody, I'm just, I'm just
from the outside looking inbecause I understand, even when
some shit goes left between meand somebody I'm fooling around
with bro, I take shit to thegrave, bro, shit, it ain't
nobody else's business, it ain'tnobody else's concern.
What's happening between us ishappening between us, but
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everybody don't believe that wayand I'm sorry to say this.
That's what fucked up.
What social media has come intothe play?
Because so many people get the,get the notion or the
aggression in themselves to runstraight to social media and
expose every little detail aboutthis individual to make them
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still look bad, or to blasphemeor to belittle them, or let them
tell it, to expose anythingabout them and expose.
Expose, goddamn, boss, man D-Lo, goddamn, goddamn, but I don't
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know what it is Aboutmotherfuckers when they get a
little money, they get, theyslip up, get caught in some
bullshit.
Bro you jagged.
And I can understand certainshit, but I can't.
I would never put myself inthis situation, but I'm I'm just
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gonna speak on it.
Shit.
Today, boss man D'Lo gotexposed by a transgender man.
It's been plenty ofmotherfuckers out there that
have gotten exposed aboutmessing with trannies.
Let me not say this too close tomy phone.
And next thing I know I go ontwitter and I'm scrolling,
scrolling, scrolling.
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Oh shit, because I ain't gonnahold y'all one time.
Shit, my twitter, kind of crazy.
So.
So the other day I was just,you know, chilling checking out
my twitter late night type shit,because I got, you know, got
the black mode, the dark nodemode, on, so I'm just scrolling.
I'm like, oh shawty, getting toit.
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God damn, teddy's lookingpretty.
Whoa, wait a minute, she got adick.
So I try to hurry up and scrolloff that shit.
Right there, done, fucked up mywhole algorithm and all that
other bullshit.
Now I'm seeing shit more andmore and more and more and I'm
just like man.
You know what?
I'm just going to try to deletethe app.
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Maybe they had to reset thealgorithm.
I'm a little bit older so Idon't know how this shit work,
but I'm just like, oh my god,shit, I'm I done fucked up, and
that's why I'm at.
But this is, this is my thing.
This is what me and my partnerwere talking about earlier.
So what, when, when do when doy'all when?
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When they put this, this, thisis what we get.
So it's been exposed.
Where some of these men get alittle bit of money and they
start doing some weird shit,they start getting exposed to
the wild side of shit.
Um, and they get exposed tothese certain things, these
certain ordeals, because a lotof these artists get exposed to
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these situations, a lot of theseactors get to these situations.
Hey, if you do this for me, youwill get this, if you do this,
you will get this.
And that's man and woman and alot of y'all out there saying in
the world well, shit, that'llnever be me in that situation.
I wouldn't do that, and you'rea motherfucking lie.
Because the way that shit worksand the way that shit works in
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your mindset and in your head isyou start thinking about all
the bullshit you going on?
Is you start thinking about allthe bullshit you going on, all
the shit you want to accomplish,and it's just a small rope Shit
.
I'm not going to say small,we're going to say some
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treacherous territory that youbuy the crossover into that you
wouldn't, you normally wouldn'tdo, because somebody has placed
something on a silver platterthat you wouldn't regularly have
access to.
Place something on a silverplatter that you wouldn't
regularly have access to.
What do you do?
That's like they were talkingabout something.
Man.
I would never do it.
You got to put a hundredmillion dollars in front of me.
Man.
Half y'all niggas will do thatshit for a happy meal.
We're gonna go ahead and keepthat shit.
100.
But when, if your back's againstthe wall and you know the only
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way to climb this mountain or toget to the stature where you
want to get is to do thisbullshit that you would never in
your a million years think of,or even whatever, whatever,
whatever.
It's crazy because you got tothink about it, because
everybody ask them crazyquestions.
Bro, shit, how much money wouldyou suck a dick?
(08:02):
For how much money would you dothis?
For how much money would youeat shit?
For?
I mean shit you.
They had a tv show about thisshit not too long ago.
Because I mean fear factor,fear factor got on, touched on
this shit a lot of times.
Like bro, who in the fucking,who in the fucking right mind
would lay down in a bed offucking spiders or eat some bull
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testicles?
Or you driving down the road,you going to flip your shit on
purpose, bro, well, you coulddie.
I mean that's fear.
But who thinks that?
They going to be sitting down ina room where ain't nobody there
, ain't nobody else there.
They got you your paperwork andmoney or cash or whatever is
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placed in front of you, morecash than you have ever had at
your fingertips before and theysaying like shit, here go the
NDA, here goes your, here's yourwater cash.
We'll just say some bullshit, abullshit number.
So you think about it.
We'll say ten thousand, man,shit, ten thousand, come and go.
Shit, that's that, that'sthat's piss money, that's that's
(09:13):
, that's hard working money.
But we're gonna say someunreasonable amounts.
We're gonna say they said twohundred thousand dollars.
We'll shit, we'll up it up.
We'll say a half a million,five hundred thousand.
They said five hundred thousanddollars in cash in front of you
.
You ain't never seen this muchmoney in front of you before in
your life.
So they put five hundredthousand dollars in front of you
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and this is the decision thatyou have to make, sitting here
what?
What do you choose?
You thinking about all thethings that you can do and all
the reach that you can do howyou can grow your business, how
you can take care of your kids,how you can take care of your
family, how to, how you, howsomebody can get this surgery,
how your mama ain't got astruggle no more.
(09:54):
How your sister ain't got astruggle no more.
You can go buy a house, allthis shit that you've never had
access to before, just walkingand working a nine to five,
right there on the spot.
How much?
How many people do you think gotexposed to that shit, type shit
?
How many times you think theyget pulled in them back rooms,
at them freak offs and they getproposition with this shit?
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Y'all can't, y'all can't saythat y'all wouldn't do this shit
until you get placed on thatfive, because I mean I know I
got morals, I got subjects andshit like that shit.
I mean I'm gonna go ahead andbe real with you.
I, I ain't, I ain't, I ain'tdoing no shit just because you
put that money in front of me.
That's like you're selling yoursoul to the devil, but you
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can't say what you willing youwon't do.
When your back against again thewall, when you got your dreams
and your goals in front of youand somebody got down, put the
proposition, this bullshit, infront of you, what do you do?
What choice do you make?
What trigger do you pull?
Because you got to think aboutit.
That's how.
That's how mercenaries getstarted.
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That's how drug runners getstarted.
That's how drug runners getstarted.
That's how trappers get started.
Because it's the fast cash nowI'm getting.
Now I'm getting access to shitthat I have never seen before.
What do we do?
What do we do?
I'm gonna go ahead and tell youright here from my own personal
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experience, bro, I ain't doingthat shit.
I ain't gonna do.
Miss me with that bullshit.
Hell, nah, I only like thetoilet, the toilet water
splashing back up and hitting mein my asshole.
I'm sorry.
That shit scares me.
Every time, that shit, like agoddamn gun going off, I'm
jumping out my skin, I'm turningpale.
I'm damn near about to run offthe toilet, my drawers around my
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ankles.
I know that ain't happening.
Then the shit when you go tothe doctor and you get they
stick that goddamn shward onyour throat.
Shit, hell, nah, shit, damn.
I damn near died.
I saw my life vanish before myeyes.
I can't do that shit.
I would never even imaginedoing that shit.
But we all have a price to docertain shit and to commit
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certain things.
Like I say it's, it's likeselling your soul to the devil
because I can't say what I'vedone in my past like okay.
I'll give you a perfect example.
When I first signed up for themilitary, they put 20 grand.
They said, hey, you come workfor us, you go get this training
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, blah, blah.
You go to the military, yougive away 8 years of your
fucking life.
You get paid yes, you get paidFor, you know, like a regular
job, but you also get this$20,000 incentive and $20,000.
And you're like shit.
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I was.
I was.
I think I was 19 at the time, 19, about to turn 20.
My first son was on the way.
All I could think about is thefuture I could provide for him
in that situation and how hecould be proud that his dad was
in the military, that I'm doingsomething productive in my life.
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I could go to school and allthese things.
I'm thinking of all theadvantages.
I'm never thinking about thedisadvantages.
I'm never thinking about whatI'm going to be exposed to.
I'm not thinking about all thebullshit that I'm going to go
through Fast forward.
I signed the paper blah, blahblah.
They didn't give me 20 grand.
They didn't.
The government taxed the fuck.
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Blah blah.
They didn't give me 20 grand,they didn't.
The government taxed the fuckout of it.
They taxed it at 33.3%.
I got back 15.6.
After being away from my son inhis first couple of months
being here.
And I got back 15.6.
Yeah, I got something back ontaxes.
I got back 15, six.
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Yeah, I got some back on taxes,but the time that I lost with
him did not equal the time thatI gave away.
But I didn't realize this untilI got older and I started
realizing what, what, what, whatthings they put him through
also and that's also with myother kids, the other ones that
I had while I was in the servicedeal.
When I was, I'd come home for30 days.
Come home for, and leave backout.
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For what nine months, leaveback out for six months, leave
back out for another 30 days.
I was doing that constantly,but that's what I had to sign up
for for that piece of that cash.
But how do you know what thesepeople signed up for when they
went and got these deals?
When they went and went theseplaces or they got pulled in
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them dark rooms.
You don't know what the fuckthey got questioned about.
You don't know what the fuckthey got offered.
Shit, man, man, I see your.
Hey.
You want to feature with xyz?
Well, you're gonna have to dothis.
You want to get on this label?
Shit, I gotta.
You got a 150 million dollarbudget.
I'm sorry, we ain't gonna gothat high.
You got a two million dollarbudget to put out an album.
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To do this.
Do that.
Do pay for the beats, do yourand's how many.
This is your recuperation.
You got to give us back this.
Your rights and your royaltystay with us.
A lot of them don't think aboutthe repercussions.
They just hear the dollaramount.
That's why a lot of times theyget folks trapped in these damn
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360 deals and you don't everknow what the fuck you got
exposed to.
That means they got your asssold the fuck all the way around
.
And what do you do?
But this is my question fory'all what do you gain out of
destroying an individual byexposing them?
What do you, what do you gain?
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You gain attention.
Do you gain some self-relief?
Because I mean, for my moralcompass is I ain't gaining shit
from it.
Why To see somebody's life getdestroyed, for somebody to lose
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their life, go in a state ofdepression Because shit, I done
been threatened?
Oh shit, I found you, shit,shit.
I'm gonna put this out on theinternet.
Oh shit, I got thesescreenshots.
I'm gonna put this out.
What the fuck man anyone knowsuch shit?
It was just me back in my 20s,me cheating, so shit.
What do I do, motherfucker?
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What do you?
What do you gain from?
Because I mean, like I'm, I'mbad about this.
Once you piss me off, I cut youthe fuck off.
I disassociate myself.
Hey, you cool from over there,I don't fuck with you, whatever,
hey, but you can breathe overthere, I don't.
I don't fuck with you, I don'twant no bitch, no bad horn to
you.
I just don't fuck with you, nomore.
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But some people aim to destroyindividuals and that's and
that's disheartening.
Because what?
What are you going to do?
Because we're going to take itto the extreme.
You destroy individuals,character, you end up and
destroy a person's mind and youexpose all this negative shit
about them, all this negativeshit about them.
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Where's your moral compassgonna sit?
Is your moral compass gonna belike shit?
You did a good job, whatever.
What about when?
If they go and commit suicide,where's your moral compass at
then?
You're gonna get, you're gonnakill, you're not gonna give a
fuck.
Because if you don't give afuck, shit, you never cared
about them in the first place.
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Because most people are out herethey don't want to build with
you, they want to destroy you.
They want to cause you misery,they want to cause you hurt,
they want to cause you pain.
So why, why are you here?
Why are you breathing?
If you want to cause anotherindividual pain?
Because I mean you wouldn'twant that done to you, why would
you want that done to somebodyelse?
Because to me that doesn't makeany sense.
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Because a lot of people justwant to destroy, destroy,
destroy, destroy individuals.
They never want to say hey, man, it's gonna be okay, okay, shit
.
Everybody go through somebullshit, everybody get exposed
from some shit.
Shit happens, shit gets saidabout people.
Man, they talked about jesus,bro, don't worry about that shit
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.
Where do you go?
How, how can you sit there andbe okay with what you did to
somebody and as much as slickshit as you say to somebody, or
tell the next butterfly, or justtell the next person or the
individual they just want tohave an open ear.
That's messy as fuck with you,because a lot of times, what I
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say is shit, bro, this is whatit is.
I just don't fuck with thatperson, no more.
Oh, I don't fuck with them nomore.
Man, that's between me and them.
Shit, because I don't.
Just because I don't fuck withthem, I don't fuck with them,
and people constantly't fuckwith them, and people constantly
challenge your character, andthat's why, like to this day, I
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don't fuck with a lot of people.
Because, bro, how can I trustyou?
How can I trust you?
Because if you come to me andyou talk to me about somebody,
how do I know you don't do thesame thing with me To others?
Because, shit, it ain't thateasy to cut on and cut off.
Because what are you doing?
How do you move?
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Because if this is what you'reshowing me, that your character
is, I'm cool with that.
I'm cool on that, bro, you stayover there.
Shit, you can keep that dramashit.
You can keep that bullshit.
You can keep all that negativeenergy shit over there.
Because that, keep that dramashit.
You can keep that bullshit.
You can keep all that negativeenergy shit over there.
Because that negative energycan be transferable to people.
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Because I mean, what are youlooking to do when you expose
them, people?
What are you looking to do?
Because karma is a motherfucker.
Karma is a motherfucker because, like they say, like shit, like
they say in certain movies andin witchcraft and this, that.
And the third, be careful whatyou do to people, because that
shit might come back tenfold toyou, because you don't, you
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don't know what you're puttingout there in the energy, that
all that negativity that'sfestering can be, can be put out
in the atmosphere to where itnow it affects you on the back
end.
So where do we go from there?
Where do we go?
Because it's like I'm sorry tosay this, it's a lot of such
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shit happening, but whatever,hey, whatever makes them happy,
let it make them happy.
It might not be for me, itmight not be for you, but if it
makes them happy, hey, let thembe down.
You ain't gotta fuck with it,you ain't gotta get your your
two cents on it, none of that.
Let them be happy.
And you ain't gotta involveyourself in it.
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You ain't gotta got.
Don't put your energy into it.
So why contribute to the fuckery?
Why contribute to the bullshit?
Why contribute?
Contribute to the chaos?
Because, I mean, that is themost diabolical shit that an
individual can do cause anotherindividual misery because, as
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we've seen, screenshots, textmessages, videos all this shit
can destroy a person's psyche.
Some people ain't recover fromit.
Some people lose their jobsover it.
Shit, are you gonna be okaywith that?
Let's put the shoe on the otherfoot.
Would you be okay if somebodydid that to you?
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Damn them.
Would you be okay if it didn'thappen to you?
Not them, but you, a lot ofy'all be like shit, hell, nah.
And a lot of y'all that listento me probably had some shit
said about y'all that wasn'ttrue.
Because I, I'm, I'm the mostperson that can say on this,
(21:39):
speak on this right here.
I hate lies on me.
I hate a motherfucker to telllies on me.
Hey, tell the truth about me.
See, if you want some truthabout me, shit.
I'll tell you the truth aboutme.
I'll tell you all the bullshitI've done, but don't lie on me.
What do you get out of lying onsomebody, man?
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Shit.
If you want to lie on me, youcan go write a book on doing
that shit on somebody.
You ain't got to lie on me, butthat is what it is.
I mean shit, but I mean ifthat's your privy, that's your
privy.
If that's what makes you happyat the end of the night about
you lying on somebody and allthat kind of other bullshit, man
(22:22):
, go ahead, do you.
But that shit ain't for me, man,because I mean that shit
fraudulent.
That shit is fraudulent as fuck.
Don't lie on me.
Don't lie on somebody.
Let them dig their own grave,because if somebody's fucked up,
they'll dig their own stuff andtheir own situations and their
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own bullshit.
You ain't gotta dig no hole forthem.
They'll fuck up themselves.
But they can stand up on theirown too, because, like I said
before, would you be okay?
Would you be a-okay if you'relike he fucked up?
What happened to do?
Buddy Roger got them off himselfjust for the hell of it.
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I don't know what the fuck hewas going through, but he did,
because you don't want somethinglike that to happen to your
family member, you don't wantsomething like that to happen to
your cousin.
So why would you want it tohappen to somebody that you used
to care about, you used to fuckwith, you used to care about,
you used to fuck with, used tobe on that, that type of time
with?
Because to me that shit ain'tright, that shit ain't cultural,
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that shit, like y'allmotherfuckers say that ain't the
mirror.
You know what I'm saying.
But but shit, hey, just justthink of people like people and
don't try to goddamn, destroypeople, no more, cause that shit
ain't cool.
And I just want to tell y'allthank y'all for listening to
fold Steppers.
Only I'm out, peace, we'll beright back.
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