Friends With Pineapples

Friends With Pineapples

Welcome to "Friends with Pineapples," a podcast where we (Paul and Nikki) share our journey and insights from over a decade in the Ethical Non-Monogamous swinging lifestyle. As a couple in our mid-thirties, we've experienced the highs and lows, and we're here to talk about it all! From mental health and physical well-being to the tips and tricks that have made our lifestyle more enjoyable and fulfilling. Join us as we dive into candid discussions about maintaining strong mental health and navigating the unique dynamics of swinging. We share personal stories, expert advice, and practical tips that have helped us thrive in the lifestyle. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about what it's all about, "Friends with Pineapples" offers a supportive and informative space to explore this exciting and diverse community. Tune in for engaging conversations, valuable insights, and a bit of fun as we celebrate the swinging lifestyle and the friendships that come with it. https://instagram.com/friendswithpineapples?igshid=MjEwN2IyYWYwYw== https://twitter.com/friendswithpa Friends With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast! Friends with pineapples podcast | Media Contributor | SDC.co Friendswithpineapples@gmail.com Join us for national lifestyle weekend. See ticket link below!!!! https://nationallifestyleweekend.com/events/66412/orders/new?promoter_id=686843

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June 17, 2025 59 mins

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 In this sizzling episode, we take you behind the scenes of the very first party we ever hosted at That Pineapple Club—Neon Lingerie Glow Night! From the excitement of planning and setting the vibe, to the electric energy that lit up the dance floor (and more 😉), we share all the juicy details. Hear about the sexy surprises, what went smoothly, and what we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about host...

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In this episode of Friends With Pineapples, we’re diving into the many flavors of fun in the swinger lifestyle—from high-energy club nights to intimate house parties, sexy resort takeovers, and even clothing-optional campouts. 🍍

We break down the different settings you might encounter, the vibes you can expect from each, and how to find the one that best fits your comfort level and curiosity. But that’s not all—we als...

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In this insightful episode of Friends With Pineapples, we dive deep into the red flags that can pop up in the swinger lifestyle and why it’s important to recognize them early. Whether you're brand new to the scene or a seasoned swinger, knowing what behaviors, dynamics, or situations to avoid can protect your experiences and your relationships.

We cover key signs like boundary-pushing, coercion disguised as confid...

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 In this juicy episode of Friends With Pineapples, we’re giving you the inside scoop on what to expect when attending That Pineapple Club—West Texas’s newest lifestyle hotspot! 🍍 Plus, we’re sharing all the exciting details about our upcoming party on 31 May 2025, including the vibe, etiquette, and tips to make the most of your night. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or brand new to the scene, tune in to learn ...

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In this episode of Friends with Pineapples, we take a deep dive into what happens after the newness wears off. What does swinging look like after 5, 10, or even 15 years in the lifestyle? We’re talking about how dynamics shift, how communication deepens (or needs to!), and how priorities change with time and life seasons.

From managing evolving boundaries to keeping the spark alive—whether emotionally, sexually, or soc...

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Shhh... it’s our little secret! This week on Friends with Pineapples, we’re diving into one of the most important, yet often overlooked, parts of the swinger lifestyle, discretion! Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned pineapple pro, navigating privacy can be tricky. We’re talking about how to keep things fun, respectful, and low-key whether you're managing social media, attending local events, or tr...

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 In this episode of Friends with Pineapples, we're diving into one of the most important steps in joining the lifestyle, creating your swinger profile! Whether you're brand new or looking to revamp your current bio, we share our top tips for standing out while staying true to yourself. From choosing the right photos to writing an authentic description that attracts like-minded connections, we break down what...

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 Talking openly with your partner about the lifestyle is essential for a successful and fulfilling experience. In this episode, we dive into why communication is the foundation of ethical non-monogamy, how to navigate challenging conversations and tips for setting boundaries and expectations. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to strengthen your connection, this episode will help you build a stronger, more op...

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 There are plenty of misconceptions about the swinger lifestyle, and today, we’re setting the record straight! From the idea that swingers have no boundaries to the myth that it’s all about sex, we’re breaking down the biggest misunderstandings and giving you the real scoop on what the lifestyle is truly about. Tune in as we debunk the myths, share our personal experiences, and help clear up the confusion surrounding ...

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 What happens after the fun is just as important as the experience itself. In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of aftercare in both the swinging and BDSM lifestyles. Whether you're reconnecting with a partner after a night of play or helping a submissive transition out of a scene, aftercare ensures emotional security, trust, and well-being. We’ll explore different types of aftercare, common mistakes...

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 Meeting a couple for the first time in the swinging lifestyle can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. In this episode, we share our top tips for setting expectations, breaking the ice, and ensuring a smooth, respectful, and pressure-free first meeting. From choosing the right setting to reading social cues and handling the "what's next" conversation, we’ve got you covered. Whether you're new to t...

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 Not every lifestyle party or play session goes as planned, and that’s okay! In this episode, we dive into the realities of managing failed expectations at lifestyle events and the emotions that come with them. We also tackle the topic of play sessions that don’t end in completion, sharing tips on how to handle these moments with grace, humor, and open communication. Join us as we explore how to embrace imperfection a...

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 In this episode, join Friends with Pineapples as we explore the essential elements of creating and maintaining a strong foundation for ethical non-monogamy. From fostering open communication and establishing boundaries to navigating emotions and building trust, we share practical tips and real-life experiences. Whether you’re new to non-monogamy or looking to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers insights...

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 In this episode of Friends with Pineapples, we sit down with Dr. Cari Oneal, a renowned expert in human sexuality and psychedelic studies. We delve into the intersection of sexual experiences and psychedelic substances, discussing how these powerful tools can enhance intimacy, deepen connections, and facilitate personal growth. Dr. Oneal shares insights from her research, offers guidance on safe and intentional use, ...

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 In this episode, we dive into an email from a fan who wants advice on exploring the swinger lifestyle with her polyamorous partner. We discuss the unique dynamics of blending poly relationships with swinging, offering practical tips, insights, and strategies to navigate this exciting journey together. Whether you're curious or ready to take the plunge, this episode is packed with helpful guidance for creating me...

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 Feeling a little nervous about attending swinger events? You’re not alone! In this episode, Join Friends with Pineapples as we explore helpful strategies for overcoming shyness and building confidence in the lifestyle. From conversation starters to mindset shifts, we’ll share practical tips to help you step out of your comfort zone and connect with others effortlessly.

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 Navigating the swinger lifestyle comes with moments where you may need to say no—whether it’s to an invitation, a request, or an encounter. In this episode, Friend With Pineapples dive into the art of declining gracefully. Join us and learn how to set boundaries with kindness, communicate honestly, and maintain respect and connection in the community. Saying no doesn’t have to be uncomfortable—it can be empowering! <...

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 In this episode, join us as we dive into the art of juggling the swinging lifestyle with the demands of family life. From setting boundaries to managing time effectively, we share practical tips and personal experiences to help you maintain harmony at home while enjoying the lifestyle. It's all about priorities, privacy, and making it work for everyone involved. 

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 In this uplifting episode of Friends with Pineapples, we explore the power of affirmations and compliments within the swinger lifestyle. From building self-confidence to enhancing communication with partners, both affirmations and compliments can be a game-changer for personal growth and relationship strength. We discuss how positive self-talk can combat insecurities, foster deeper connections, and create a more fulf...

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