Episode 150 - Christine Matus - Choosing Happiness Through Adversity: Christine Matus on Mindset, Motherhood, and Protecting Families with Special Needs

This episode: Choosing Happiness Through Adversity: Christine Matus on Mindset, Motherhood, and Protecting Families with Special Needs.

 

Here’s what you’ll learn about:

Christine Matus' Introduction and Personal Background (0:04)

• Host Drew Deraney introduces Christine Matus, highlighting her as the 150th episode guest and expresses excitement about her presence.
• Drew discusses the concept of life being linear until external circumstances derail the path, introducing three types of women who face adversity differently.
• Christine Matus shares her journey from being unaware of adversity to recognizing it and taking action to become a stronger person.
• Christine recounts the birth of her daughter with Down syndrome and autism, describing the initial shock and the transformative dream she had.

Transformative Moments and Mindset Shifts (3:17)

• Christine explains how her father's perspective and her husband's happiness influenced her mindset, leading her to choose happiness as a conscious decision.
• She describes the effort required to change her mindset and the importance of surrounding herself with positive and uplifting people.
• Christine shares her experiences of attending support groups and learning from other families with similar challenges.
• She emphasizes the importance of mindset work and the ongoing effort to maintain a positive outlook.

Challenges and Adjustments During Pregnancy (6:33)

• Drew inquires about Christine's awareness during pregnancy, and Christine recounts the initial shock and the process of learning about her daughter's conditions.
• Christine discusses the decision to have an amniocentesis and her initial reluctance to face the reality of her daughter's conditions.
• She reflects on the emotional impact of the news and the support she received from her family and friends.
• Christine highlights the importance of being prepared and educated about special needs, especially for first-time parents.

Navigating Special Needs and Legal Advice (14:10)

• Christine shares her journey of learning about her daughter's autism and the impact it had on their family.
• She discusses the importance of legal advice and the role of special needs trusts in protecting and supporting her daughter.
• Christine explains the different types of trusts available and the benefits of having them in place.
• She emphasizes the need for proper legal guidance to ensure the best outcomes for families with special needs.

Professional Journey and...

Chapters

• (00:00:00) - Interview
• (00:01:28) - Meet Christine Mattis
• (00:02:27) - Christine Mattis on the 3 Types of Women
• (00:07:45) - How to Stop Thinking About the Dark Side of Cancer
• (00:10:47) - Suspects With Down Syndrome Get the Diagnosis
• (00:15:31) - Chris on His Autism Diagnosis
• (00:19:03) - Disabled parent on Overstimulation
• (00:23:25) - Dreams of Becoming a Lawyer
• (00:27:29) - One lawyer's passion for special needs law
• (00:29:38) - Chris Has a Special Needs Trust for His Daughter
• (00:33:23) - What Makes Your Law Firm Different?
• (00:35:39) - Choosing the Right Plan for Your Life
• (00:36:44) - What are the Types of Trusts?
• (00:41:43) - Will and testamentary: Special Needs Trust and Third Party
• (00:45:54) - Give Inspiring Advice To Your Daughter
• (00:48:08) - Living the Life You Want to Liv