As our parents get older, many of us are faced with a new kind of grief- the quiet, ongoing loss that comes not from death, but from watching the people who once raised us begin to slow down and need us in ways they never did before.
In this deeply personal episode, we open up about the emotional complexity of witnessing our parents age. From role reversals and unresolved wounds, to meaningful moments and surprising lessons, we reflect on how our relationships with our parents evolve, and how it stirs up questions of our own mortality.
We explore:
- The quiet grief of losing parts of who they were
- The guilt, tenderness, and sometimes resentment of becoming the caretaker
- How aging parents trigger our own fears about time, mortality, and purpose
- Ways to heal, connect, and make meaningful memories before it’s too late
This is an episode for anyone navigating that in-between space—where love, loss, and legacy all live at once.
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Chapters
- (00:00:00) - Going Deeper: The Grief of Watching Your Parents Age
- (00:02:05) - As Your Parents Age, Do You Grieve?
- (00:04:06) - What Comes Up For You When You Think About Your Parents Aging?
- (00:08:28) - On How Close Is Your Parents With You?
- (00:09:43) - One Empath's Thoughts On Her Parents' Aging
- (00:13:23) - Who's To Be My Caregiver When My Parents Die?
- (00:16:10) - How Has Your Relationship With Your Parents Changed As They Get Older?
- (00:18:38) - Queens Talk About Being a Parent's Caregiver
- (00:22:32) - How's My Relationship With My Parents Changed As They've Get Older
- (00:24:51) - How To Develop a Better Relationship With Your Parents
- (00:26:18) - What Lessons Are You Learning From Watching Your Parents Age?
- (00:30:07) - What Lessons Are You Learning From Watching Your Parents Age?
- (00:33:47) - What's The Age Difference With Your Parents
- (00:34:40) - How To Make Meaningful Memories With Your Parents As They Age
- (00:39:10) - How Do You Want Your Parents To Remember You?
- (00:42:09) - The Importance of Celebrating Lives
- (00:44:41) - Gay Men's
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