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May 13, 2022 66 mins

In the first of this two-parter, I invite you into a conversation about becoming or rediscovering hope and eagerness about dating. Join me for this deep dive into how becoming “pro dating” and a pro at dating means could radically shift your perspective on dating and creating long term relationships. 

Tune in to hear…

  1. What it means to be Pro-Relationship rather than Pro-Self
  2. How to approach dating like you would in a relationship
  3. The 5 characteristics of “Secure Functioning Dating”
  4. Developing a Pre and Pro-Dating Mindset
  5. Ideas for meeting dating partners IRL rather than relying solely on apps


Resources

Check out Wired for Dating by Dr. Stan Tatkin for more detail on secure functioning dating. 


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Buck


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