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SPECIAL GUEST: Sasha Summer Cousneau. How do you tackle a problem no one wants to talk about—let alone admit even exists? Once united by the fight for marriage equality and other civil liberties, the LGBTQ community now finds itself more fragmented than ever. In particular, the bond between gay men and lesbians has frayed, with each group retreating into its own social silo. In our August episode, we sit down with trailblazing lesb...

A large percentage of the gay male community has become enamored with hook-up apps—and most of us have at least one of those apps active on our smart phones. We have grown to rely on apps like Grindr, Scruff, Adam-4-Adam, Sniffies and so many others for an easy path to connecting with other gay and bisexual men. Finding a sexual encounter has become easier than ever before. But at what cost? Apps have replaced the concept of cruisi...

It’s Pride month and while we have much to celebrate, we must all be aware that we still have a lot of work to do before we're at the gates of true equality. In this episode, we celebrate single gay and bisexual men while exploring the challenges of being single---including issues coming from within the LGBTQ community. We also take a tongue-in-cheek look at the top 30 reasons gay men have given for being single. Some are vali...

We’re back after a bit of a hiatus! We are sorry we left you in the dark, so to speak, but we are so happy to be back in the swing of things with a brand new episode. This month, we ‘celebrate the bate’ with a commemoration of international masturbation month. But we’re also introducing a brand new gay camping festival set to take place in July, courtesy of Nate Turner, the guy who made Rendezvous such a great event. Nate joins us ...

Dave and Brian are back after a bit of an unexplained absence. But where did they go? Some said they were placed in the witness protection program. Others said it was an alien abduction. No one is REALLY sure---but now, all will be revealed. Also in this episode, everything you need to know about Rendezvous 2024----the big gay camping trip in August that brings together around 500 gay men (and a few women) for a weekend of comrader...

Is Polyamory right for you? As part of our exploration of the different types of relationships for gay men in today's culture, we begin by exploring the concept of polyamory, what it is, and how it works. Our featured guest is Nate Turner, an expert on polyamorous relationships. Nate is also the chair of the planning committee for Rendezvous, the annual big gay camping festival in Medicine Bow National Forest. So Nate gets us ...

For some of us, it's almost second nature. While for others---not so much. But almost everyone likes hearing it. What is it about dirty talk that we find so enticing?  In this episode, we explore the art and science of dirty talk. It's one of the most fun episodes we've ever done. We convene two small groups of gay and bi men to give us a more well-rounded perspective on the subject, and as is often the case, the con...

Those crazy kids! So hard to figure out, sometimes. Some are genuinely attracted to older guys, and some are obsessed with finding a sugar daddy. And then there are those young'ns who would sooner set their junk on fire than get it on with anyone more than ten years older than they are. On the other side of the tracks, there are older guys who are on the twink-hunt prowl while other older guys would never even consider hopping...

Whoever said your sex life would go downhill after the age of 50 was obviously someone in their 20s or 30s who had NO idea what they were talking about! Because the fact of the matter is that you can have the best sex of your life at 50, 60 and beyond. That's our topic for this episode of Gay Prime, as we talk about how we've managed to ensure our sex lives keep getting better and better, and what you can do to enjoy hot ...

Wait a minute...what the---say whaaat????  OK, so there's a bit more to it than that. But in this episode, we go deep with Andy Hill, film scholar and cinema aficionado, and we learn about his perspective on different movie genres and how they parallel being gay in America---in ways you never could have imagined. Truly one of the most unexpectedly enlightening conversations we've had in a very long time. You won't wa...

A lot of great content packed into this episode, including our special tribute to Matthew Shepard as we mark the 25th anniversary of his death with an in-depth conversation with Josh Ayer, well-known scholar and social activist with a vast amount of knowledge on the topic of Matthew's life and death. Plus, Dave and Brian take a look at how easy it is to discover whether or not you are worthy of labels like 'freak' an...

Our September episode was originally scheduled to be our hottest episode to date, featuring an interview with a well-known gay porn star. Yes, a very well-known gay porn star (unless you don't watch porn, in which case it would just have been a guy whose job it is to get naked and have sex on the set of a studio in southern California). But, unfortunately, a last-minute scheduling conflict followed by a family emergency  requi...

It's an hour-long recap of Rendezvous 2023! We take a look at all the things that made this year's Rendezvous Camping Festival a resounding success, from our headline entertainer and country music rising star, Kameron Ross, to the acrobatic aerial showmanship of Bottoms Up, to the incredible drag performances, the underwear party, the kink/fetish workshops and everything else that was such an integral parr of Rendezvous 2...

It's a GayPrime pot pourri episode, with a special emphasis on gay camping! As a sponsor for the upcoming Rendezvous 2023, the largest LGBTQ camping event in the Rocky Mountain Region, we figured we'd explore the world of gay camping. The truth is, gay men either love it or hate it. No gray area. We're gonna try and sway a few minds over to the loving side of camping. Plus, how do you find that special someone over t...

It's Pride month across the country, and we take a closer look at how Pride has evolved into the celebration we know today. But some in the LGBTQ community aren't happy with what it has become. Is Pride too sexualized? Has it lost its original meaning and purpose? So many different factions of the LGBTQ community now have their own Pride flag---50 so far. The original message behind Pride was to present a united front of ...

May is National Masturbation Month, and we're dedicating our entire episode to one of America's favorite pasttimes! We'll explore the new "bate" culture, and take a look at latest trends as well as ways to enhance and improve the bating experience. Featured guests include Jimbo Peck, owner and operator of Denver Jacks, Colorado's premier masturbation club for men. Also, we'll chat with two true-bl...

The relationships between gay men and their fathers are among the most powerful and complex relationships we will ever encounter. But how does your relationship with your father play into your life as an adult?  We hear from four gay men who share the stories of their relationships with their fathers, and we learn a bit more about just how powerful those relationships can be in the development of the men we are today. You might wan...

It's the second episode of GayPrime!  We're bold and brave enough to go from kinks & fetishes to our innate fear of loneliness in the same episode---and all within the course of 58 minutes. Who the hell does that??? We do.  First, are you ashamed of your kinks and fetishes, or do you embrace them? We take a closer look at some of the most popular and a few of the most obscure kinks among gay men in America. Next, we h...

It's the inaugural episode of The Gay Prime Show (GPS), an entertaining and informative podcast by, for, and about gay men in their prime (or as we like to say, 'Gay Men 40 and Better!'). In this episode, we talk with Ryan Kendall, whose story is absolutely remarkable. He is a civil rights attorney, an activist, and a national leader in the fight against gay conversion therapy. But it's how he got to that point ...