GenX Adulting Podcast

In this episode we discuss the different phases we've gone through while raising our three kids and the importance of defining how you envision your "homefront" before marriage.  Brian explains in detail how he built his career in information technology and offers advice for younger generations.  We also cover Brian's 9/11 story, our big move to Florida, a surprise pregnancy, the importance of open communication...

In this episode we discuss all things music!  Our first concerts, favorite shows and newest discoveries.  We share how we introduced our kids to live music and how music has continued to strengthen the bond between them.  Nicole shares her admiration for the phenomenon that is Taylor Swift, as well as the mother/daughter years of music for her and Kaya during the One Direction, Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus, Jonas Brothers, Demi Lovat...

In this episode we take on the idea of Man vs Bear.  Brian shares why he chose the bear.  We discuss "how is man a threat to woman" and why are some men taking the Man vs Bear trend so personally.  Additionally, we cover such topics as it's not the men you don't know/it's the men you do know, victim blaming and how a man's perspective on personal safety differs significantly from a woman's perspec...

In this episode we discuss the phases of life.  As GenX hits mid life, a lot of us might be reflecting on the different parts of our life we've already experienced and the new chapter we're entering.  Our discussion revolves around the concept that the first and possibly second phases of life derive from a general "script", but mid life presents an exciting opportunity to go off script.  We compare men having ho...

In this episode Nicole shares her experience with giving up alcohol.  We discuss the reasons why she gave it up, the changes she noticed, the role alcohol has played in our lives and the use of it as a coping mechanism.  She touches on how going alcohol free affected her social life as well as how alcohol affected her marriage and family.  We discuss Mommy Wine Culture, vaping and how GenZ is changing the outlook on alcohol use.  N...

In this episode we discuss the various changes we’ve made as well as new additions on our health journey.  We reveal how incorporating daily walks has become the foundation for our overall success.  We share our challenge of getting adequate sleep each night and how it sidetracked our 5am walks.  Nicole  shares what supplements she’s added, how she stays hydrated and what other forms of exercise she’s incorporated into her routine....

In this episode Brian and Nicole discuss all things marriage. They consider the pros and cons of getting married young as well as their individual perspectives when it came to their own nuptials. They reflect on how the ups and downs of marriage bring a couple closer and Nicole shares her thoughts on the secret to being married for 30 years. The changing attitude of GenZ and younger Millennial women toward marriage and children is ...

In this episode, come along on an adventure with Zillennial Ben Greenfield as he gives us a window into his recent world travels. From the many reasons he loves Denver, Colorado to working and living Pura Vida in Costa Rica, to how getting fired gave him the opportunity to travel the world, Ben’s captivating storytelling paralleled with his fearless spirit is one not to be missed.  Ben surfed through most of his travels, even going...

In this episode, we explore various ways some American women are coping with the results of the 2024 presidential election.  We touch on the history of the 4B movement and how it’s been adopted by a group of women in the US.  The blue bracelet and blue heart tattoo trend is also covered, as well as a more insidious practice some women seem to be considering.  Brian reflects on the teachings of Carl Jung and how they have stood the ...

In the first episode of our GenZ Women Series, Nicole welcomes Kaya, Ashlin and Vanessa to the podcast where they share their perspectives on dating, social media and mental health.  They also touch on their experiences in the working world and their personal outlook on what a quality career looks like to them.  They reflect on how technology has made the “slow burn” out of reach and marvel at the way GenX used to communicate with ...

In this episode we host our first Boomer, Dana.  She shares some of her family history, which includes the Oregon Trail, Billy the Kid and the James Brothers.  She reflects on the day JFK was assassinated, and why she never went to college.  We learn about her time as a TWA flight attendant and meeting her first husband on a real blind date in 1968.  She graciously shares her experience of child loss as well as the birth of a child...

We kick off the first episode of our GenX speaks series with Nicole’s life story.  Nicole shares her experiences through a tumultuous childhood that included multiple divorces, remarriages, step siblings, half siblings, moves, new schools and other events that created a perilous foundation for her to stand on.  She reflects on the role of men in her life and how ultimately meeting Brian was the beginning of her healing journey.  Ni...

In this episode we welcome Abdel, who is a GenZ/Zillennial.  Abdel shares with us how he grew up in a bilingual home where his Dominican parents made sure he was fluent in both Spanish and English.  He reflects on his love of baseball in childhood and how at a young age he knew that he wanted to work behind the scenes with the players and an MLB team.  We get a glimpse into his college years at Florida State University that include...

In this episode we welcome Nate, a GenZ/Zillennial who also happens to be our older son.  Nate shares his memories of his early childhood years in New Jersey, followed by the experience of being the new kid starting a new school in a new state all during the middle school years.  He reflects on his motivation to veer off the Catholic school path to attend public high school, and his single focused decision to attend Florida State U...

In the second installment of our GenX Speaks series, we welcome Jasmin.  We open with Jasmin describing her experience as a “military brat” that included multiple moves throughout her childhood as well as spending the majority of her formative years overseas.  Her family eventually settled in Florida where she finished high school then headed for adventure in Miami followed by another move to North Carolina where she landed a job t...

In episode 17 we welcome Brooke, a GenZ woman who was gracious enough to share the twists and turns of her tumultuous childhood.  We start in Dearborn, MI where Brooke was born, then head to southwest Florida, which becomes the backdrop to the instability of her childhood.  She gives us glimpses into her mom, step-dad and biological dad’s alcoholism and substance abuse, then contrasts that with growing up in the Mormon Church.  Her...

In this episode of our GenX Speaks series, we welcome Kendall.  Kendall opens with painting a picture of her almost “Hallmark” type upbringing on a Christmas tree farm in Beavercreek, Oregon where she spent time with her large extended family.  She describes how she felt “taken” when her family moved to fulfill her dad’s dream of always living in Alaska, and shares with us what it was like to spend a good portion of her formative y...

In this episode we welcome Dr. Farzon Danesh from Labyrinth Audiology.  Farzon shares with us how his parents immigrated to America from Iran so his father could pursue his education in Idaho and Tennessee.  His family eventually settled in south Florida where Farzon flourished in a home life filled with love, family and his Persian culture against the backdrop of an all-American childhood.  After graduating high school, he headed ...

In the latest episode of our GenX Speaks series, we are thrilled to welcome Jenn.  We hear about Jenn’s idyllic childhood in her beloved hometown of Buffalo, New York.  After graduation, Jenn pursued not one, not two, but 3 degrees!  Her love of cheerleading, which began during middle school, led to her becoming a cheer coach and eventually a Buffalo Jill captain.  Jenn entertains us with stories of participating on the pageant cir...