March 30, 2022 • 33 mins
This week's guest is none other than rapper and Producer DJ Paul! Tune in to hear about life as a founding member of Three 6 Mafia and how his multiple businesses keep him occupied.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Straw media. Hey, everybody, welcome to another episode of genuinely GG.
Thank god I don't have anyone interrupting me right now
with an LG because Anita's bad.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
What the fuck are you doing? What the fuck are
you doing?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
At least bring an a Oh my god, let's make
it your say. Anina's last name is also with the G.
My sister's all because he's with a G, I'm with
a GEP. We're getting some ideas because Anita, while you
were gone, you did watch right. What did you think
about Leila? You left her to take your role and
(00:40):
your position? What did you think about Leila?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
I think I think she's great. I think she she's funny.
She brings out like like another side of you.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Oh which side? Does she bring it up?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Thank you guys? Like no, like, I just think it's
good that it was. It was like it was your
banter's cue. You guys are good And this shows the
difference between you guys. So it's bringing it like another perspective.
And sometimes I think she needs to like not attack
you in certain ways and take it, take it somewhere
else whatever. But that comes with being siblings.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
But that comes with being something I think you left
a perfect person in charge, because I think she sounds
so much like you in her message and her meaning
and her intention. But obviously she's much more aggressive and
delivering the message, and you are the grace and everything,
and she's a little bit more of the aggressor.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
I mean, again, it's my older sister.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I could say that she's a fack of bitch, but
it was it was a little tricky going back and
forth with her. She would bring out that like, well,
Mommy and Danny spoiled you type of a thing.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
But what sometimes yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
But you're right, it was a little bit of an
interesting thing. But I missed you so much.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
I miss you too, miss I really gotcha. I'm really happy.
I'm really happy that I'm back.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
And yeah, I think everyone's everyone's missed you. But everyone
would like to know, is where the fuck were you, bitch?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
So well, I think you guys heard a little bit
of what was going on when I when I was gone,
you know, from Leyla in Gulanessa, but I just called
you go. So essentially, I was experimenting to see where
this relationship could potentially go in with this guy that
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I met in November, So something kind of new. That's
long distance. He doesn't live here. He lives in New
York and in Dallas. So I was kind of busy
with that and kind of seeing.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Where it would you want to see where I would go?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I would see where it'd go. Yeah, So I did that,
and I work remotely, so I, you know, took a
little bit of time off for some of the events
and stuff to also explore this.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
So yeah, I was gone.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
I was gone.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Where to go? You said you want to see where
I would go? Where to go?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Oh? That was really quickly said, I didn't.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Sorry, where did it go?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
So that is a good question. That's a good question.
It is kind of like gone nowhere. Right now, we're
kind of at a standstill. Like number one, long distance
is hard. It's hard to see him, okay, and with
you know, with again, we're both really busy. There's a
lot going on. But I think the question is is that,
like there's so many great things about him and it's
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hard to walk away from that because I want him
in my life, but it's also like there's some things missing,
like he's super duper I sound so weird saying this.
He is from Wahi, and I feel like there's a
lot of similarities between us. So I feel like sometimes
he's too nice like me, which makes me want to
become mean because I'm like, well, he's too nice. I
shouldn't be like that because it's too much, you know
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what I mean. So it's like making me want to like,
that's what it is.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
So you're almost seeing yourself in him and you're not happy.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah, Allen, I'm going to bring doctor Rollenberger another time
to deal with you, maybe on your own time, because
I brought a surprise guest for you.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I did you bring?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
I brought your boyfriend. No, I.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Brought a good friend of mine. He's a friend of
the world because he's one of the amazing founders of
Kronk hip hop rap music, three six Mafia DJ Paul.
He's here and he's going to answer some of your
questions because obviously the whole world knows he's a bad boy,
or let me say this, he was a bad boy.
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He's got his past, just like a lot of us do.
He's a retired bad boy and he's just a businessman
right now, like a big teddy bear businessman. So hopefully
he can answer your questions about sometimes women needing to
look for that little bit bad boy character and a
guy if it's even worth it or not.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Yeah, let's bring in DJ Paul.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
You know her from Shaws of Sunset. You know she
doesn't hold back.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
But if he had made her a beautiful, romantic dinner,
grabbed her face, lifted her up by her ass, put
her up against a wall, she would be honked.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
This is genuinely.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I am so excited to have a person that's not
just known worldwide for being a creator, a legend, so
many things that we're going to get into what those
things are. But he's a good friend and an awesome guy.
His name is DJ pap Hey, Hi, welcome, Hi. This
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is my friend Anita, best friend. Anita's a little who
did you just throw in?
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Best friend?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Yeah, she made the mistake of giving me weed, so
I'm going to be a little goofy and.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
Weird and.
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Around her.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You guys, this is the infamous, infamous DJ pot He
is from three six Mafia.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Okay, this is not just any group.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
This is this is the founder, the founder, the god
of Kunk. If you know what kunk is, if you've
ever heard Kunk. Okay, this is where Krunk started. It
started with Paul. Paul, you are a DJ, a producer,
a rapper. You own real estate company. You have an
amazing collection of barbecue seasoning. You have a restaurant which
is amazing new and just opened. I mean the list
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goes on and on. I mean, hello, thank you for
being here.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
How did you make time?
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I always going to make time for you.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
I love you forever.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
I have I have a very big.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Question to ask you.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Nnita has absolutely no idea what the premise of this
episode is going to be about.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
I'm very nervous.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
She has been a little m I A from the
podcast has been filling into the place because Anita has
been kind of in an entanglement with a guy that
she just recently met.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
The guy's amazing.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
I mean, he checks off every fucking box on what
a perfect dude is supposed to be.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Like, right, that's perfect.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
What turns her off, though, pop, is that he's too nice.
He's not a bad boy, he's just a nice guy.
He's not She wants someone who's more assertive and a
little bit more alpha and all these things. So I
see so many times that women out there want the
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bad boy right until they don't want the bad boy anymore,
until they want to say, well, why don't you love me?
Why don't you know, pay attention to me? Why don't
you all those things? And I've seen Anita, she is
one of my best friends.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
She threw that best in there.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
She is one of my best friends. But I see
her ready to be in a relationship with a good dude.
But she wants a little bit of that bad boy.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
And you are a.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Bit of a retired bad boy because I know you,
and you are the biggest fucking teddy bear in the world.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
You're such a sweetheart. So what would you to say to.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Anita, to all the women out there, even men who
just constantly are chasing the bad boy, do you think
that there's anything related to breakups and animosity and tension
and fighting in relationships because women are constantly concerned about
the beginning phase of that tough dude persona.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
I would say, first of all, how long has she
known him? And how much does she know about his pants?
Because I mean, even Ted Bundy came off as.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
A good gap.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Anita, I just okay, so we've known each other, we
lived in Ohio and the same city, went to different
high schools, so he's were in the same hometown. We
never knew each other. And then so I just met
him like about it was no mid November of this year, blush.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
Yeah, so you haven't even known him, what four months?
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Not that long.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Yeah, So he came to my graduation party because I
had it with two other people, and then that went
to his high school and we all just did a
group party and then he was at my graduation party.
But then we don't meet until like years and years later,
and our you know, in our early forties. So it's interesting.
So I just met him through a mutual friend from Ohio.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Yes, but see, you don't you don't know. It sounds
like you don't know too much about his past because
even me, you know, these days, i'm a you know,
I'm a good guy, but in the past, I was
bad as fuck, you know. So I did a busch
grade ship and a lot of times, you know, and
I'm gonna be like that, and I've always liked it
to somebody pissing me off and then I go from
zero to one hundred to o me come back easy.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
So maybe he's like that maybe he's a bad guy.
He's a bad on the inside. You just don't even
know it, and you probably don't want to know it.
To be honest, I really don't if I want to
keep him nice.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
I said to her, Here's what I think.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Because I'm a very hands on, no filter, I take
care of myself. I make it happen in whatever I'm feeling.
I put it out there and make everyone know it.
So I tell her, Nanita is very.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Opposite of me.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
She's very shy, soft spoken, very subtle in her approach.
So I'm like, listen, if he's got all these other
things that you think are perfect, why not open the
lines of communication, like why don't you caress me like
this or whatever the situation is, or why don't you,
you know, get into because maybe he wants to and
he's also shy.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
Right, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
Well I think we missed. We missed that whole thing.
We haven't been like intimate. So I think that that's See,
that's the.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
Issue.
Speaker 4 (10:56):
You say you have a bit intimate. You mean you
ain't banged him or something.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
No, no, no, no, no, shombole alon, but live here.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
He doesn't live here. I forgot we forgot to mention it.
So he's in Dallas, in New York. So I've seen
him like.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
He's flown her out to Dallas where she stayed in
his place.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
But I still know nothing.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Okay, So now now you don't make this even worse.
Now you've got a long distance relationship. Long distance relationships
are hard on their own. You're not even being sexual
or something like that with it. This dude is probably
for sure banging somebody else.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
He's not.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
She is.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
I don't think he is. I think he's officially the
nicest human that's the world. Do you need?
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Good guys exist? Okay, Paul, let's ask that. Do good
guys exist?
Speaker 4 (11:49):
Yeah? They do to an extent?
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Okay, what's what's the extent of a good guy? How
good can a guy be? How clean of a not?
Speaker 2 (11:57):
You know?
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I don't know, he claims. Listen, if he's Anita's obviously
you see how hot.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
This woman is right here?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
Educated, beautiful, intelligent, She's the full package, right, So why
wouldn't he want to bang her if he's she flew
to stay in his house?
Speaker 4 (12:13):
Why who said it was? Who said it was on him?
It could have been on her?
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Who cares?
Speaker 1 (12:17):
If he's banging one hundred people, why why not bang
one hundred and one?
Speaker 3 (12:21):
I think he just hit the jet pop.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
What did he say?
Speaker 3 (12:24):
It might not be him, it might be her, so
I would standoffish. I think that I'm kind of you know,
there's some attraction stuff that I'm kind of.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
So you're not sending the signals.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
Yeah, And I think sometimes I like I say, I
view him as like a really good friend. Like I
don't know if I could get past.
Speaker 4 (12:41):
The just just saying I'll work, just sing I'll work,
just sing I'll work. And I don't know what it
is gonna work. Just don't even sound like it's gonna work.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
But I'm trying to gravitate. But but it's like I've
been I don't want a bad boy anymore. I know
I don't want that. So he I should give him
a chance because everything is great, But what what's the problem?
Speaker 5 (13:02):
Like I got a problem?
Speaker 4 (13:03):
Is gonna be her? She gonna still see him as
a friend, and it's kind of hard to break away
for next position right there.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
But if he had the first night that she got
to Dallas made her just a beautiful romantic dinner, had
her drinking champagne back to back, grabbed her face, lifted
her up by her ass, put her up against a wall.
She would be hooked. And then if the next day
was on social media with some other girl, she'd be
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even more hooked.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
I know this girl.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Yeah, way, everything you just name is considered rape these days.
So that's probably why he didn't even do that.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
We just got to catch him. We're going to take
a quick break.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
But when we come back, I think a lot of
times people will meet me or come across me and
they're like, damn, I bet she's a fucking breaker.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Yeah, Well we had a little bit of a moment, honey.
I mean I thought I was just gonna shoot you
a little smoke out of my mouth. But we we
we got a little fancy with it.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Really he's hot.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Well, I mean, it's an interesting conversation because I think
sometimes perception of people can be so misleading. People can
see someone and think, oh, he's this or she's that.
People see me and they think I'm such a freak
sexually in the back you get me in bed, I'm
a fucking starfish. I hate to disappoint the millions of people,
Probably two people the millions of people out there listening.
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I starfish the fuck out of it. Okay, but my
personality means I don't have to ask that. To hold out, Paul,
let me let me move with this microphone so you
could see my arms and legs.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
You can't see starfish.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
So she I think she just lays there and doesn't
do anything.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
I just my back like legs spread it just like
a starfish, like a start.
Speaker 4 (15:02):
You know, I don't.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
I put so much work into so many other aspects
of my life, but I just want to get to
the fucking bed and get worked on.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
If that's okay, that's total. You know, that's my that's
my thing.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
But you know, in life, I'm very rare and aggressive,
so I get I think a lot of times people
meet me or come across me and they're like, damn,
I bet she's a fucking.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Freak in the sheets.
Speaker 5 (15:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Well, I mean we had a little bit of a moment, honey.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I mean I thought I was just going to shoot
you a little smoke out of my mouth, but we
we we got a little fancy with it.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
Really he's hot, No, you're really hot. I have I
have two questions, okay, one one question will come later.
What made you become a not bad boy?
Speaker 5 (15:51):
Like?
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Was it?
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Was it just a click? You're like, you know what,
I'm ready to meet the next person, and I want
that girl because you did celebrity life swap? Or did
the girl come in your life and she changed you?
That's a good question.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
Good question.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
No, that's an easy question to answer. It was from
going to jail too much. I got sick of that ship.
Ain't no pussy in there.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Did you hear what he said? Got it?
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Okay? So it was a change you made because there's
no pussy and I say that, I say pussy.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
In jail.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
Yeah, you know, I got a couple of kids. I
got a couple of kids. I got older, I got
sick of going to jail.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
Like just like you, just you grow out of the
figure out of it, out of it.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
So if your kids start going through it, do you
think you'll be more accepting to it, like, Okay, I
know you're going to go through it and come out
of it. Or would you guide them through it so
they don't get themselves hurt or in trouble?
Speaker 2 (16:45):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (16:47):
Well, the good part about it is my only one
I had to deal with at this point with something
like that is possibly my daughter because she's young. But
I seriously don't think that she's gonna change because she
like she don't She ain't bad at all, Like she's
super good. She like hiking and playing with animals and
stuff like that. And my son is you know, he's
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older now, so I don't think it's.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
Too late for him. I grew him up good and
he never got in trouble.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Yeah, that's great.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
I just recently saw three six Mafia in a versus
battle with Bone Thugs and Harmony, and I would have
to say, in my in my adult life, literally the
at least the last fifteen years of my adult life,
I have not been that excited with music as I
was that night. So one of my friends is the
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owner of Triller, so I was when I saw that battle,
I said, I have to fucking be there, and then
I hit you up and I was like, I'm gonna
be there. I'm gonna be there. As I was backstage
coming up, I got knocked into like walls because this
whole like stuff was happening on stage between Bone Dogs
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and three six, And then I'm like, you know what,
I'm not even worried right now, because I don't think
Paul is about that, Like he wants peace for people,
and this is we're living in such a fucked up
world right now. There's so much unfortunate death and chaos
that through music entertainment, we're trying to show people happiness again,
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you know. And it was really beautiful thing to see
the night continue, to see these legends on stage just
loving on each other, loving the world and their people.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
And their fans. It was it was awesome, Paul, Thank you,
I said there.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
I wasn't there, but on her I saw it through
her instagrams, the whole whole thing. I was like, it
was like, Ohio Bone, you know the I g the
whole night do it's a he was a moment in history.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
Yeah, it was a huge moment.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
When I enjoy that. Thank you.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
I watched and hip Hop.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
I watched every reality show in the world, and there's
a scene right now with Bone Thogs in it and
they're preparing for the versus battle against three six months.
Speaker 4 (19:00):
Oh my gosh, I didn't know that.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
That's cool.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
Yeah, it was. In the last episode of Love and
Hip Hop, they were bounds were in there, but they
were preparing for the battle.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
It was just beautiful to see. I'm like I saw
it heaven question too, yeah, oh, she's got another questions.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
Like that, how do you How do you guys know
each other? Because I thought you guys grew I thought
you grew up here. Now you I've had Memphis, right.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
I met Paul through mutual friends Sylvan and JT right
at uh oh, Sylvan, and I know them. I met
you like ten years ago at least, like like like
do your catch up or something?
Speaker 3 (19:39):
As all those hot spots that's where JT.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
And speaking of hot spots, Paul, please tell everybody about
your new restaurants. Please just tell everybody what's going on
with Paul, because you have your hands in every fucking
cookie jar and you make everything platinum. So and I'm
not talking just music here, I'm talking about it in life,
So please tell us what's going on in your life
right now?
Speaker 5 (20:03):
Man.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
First of all, Man, just getting back into the groove
of making music for myself. I've been making music for
you know, producing so many artists for you know, years
and years now, because I hadn't brought out a project
for myself since like twenty eighteen, and then that same
year I did a project for I had produced some
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stuff for Drake and then you know, it just started
going from there with a bunch of other people shout
out to my artists tea while I did it with me,
and we just started producing for so many.
Speaker 5 (20:36):
Other people, got a little babypack behind me, you know.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
Three mean, we just hit four million on that, so
you know it's everybody was like, well, I see why
you don't make music for yourself no more, because you're
having so much fun getting at this free money from producing.
And I was like, yeah, well you're kind of right.
I said, no, you are right. So now just getting
back into doing some stuff for myself from our fans,
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because you know, they'd be like, Paul, we like what
you do for other folks, we still want to hear
you too.
Speaker 5 (21:06):
And I was like, shit, I figured your say that.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
So Dad, and uh, you know, just like the real
estate stuff. I have a lot of fun with Dad
because I love decorating and doing things like that. I'm
actually over here. I got painters in another room where
we repainting my place and remodeling and also and just
about another house that I'll tell you about. Our camera
rental out here in Cali. So yeah, I don't want.
Speaker 5 (21:32):
To let everybody know about that because it's just gonna
be funny. Certain, yeah, certain audience.
Speaker 4 (21:38):
And the restaurant, you know on Rodale Draft for twenty
one Rodale Drift that should be opening up in about
thirty days.
Speaker 5 (21:45):
I don't know when this w but about thirty days
from now.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
So man, it's gonna be h what type of what
type of restaurant is that?
Speaker 5 (21:53):
Latin restaurant? Latin?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
That's good.
Speaker 4 (21:56):
We have to go.
Speaker 5 (21:57):
We have to.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Yeah, yes, we'll be there. We're going to take a
quick break. But when we come back, I know how
to make the moves on you.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Now, you guys would be cute together. Oh yeah, are
you in to Paul Amory? I don't even know if
she is, even though I still am questioned.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
I'm seeing two guys right now.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
So the question is do I come with the guy
or not? Do I give up on him? Let's go
back into now.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
Another question.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Okay, so you're saying I should give it a chance
and go for the nice guy.
Speaker 4 (22:39):
I think the next time you see him, one of
y'all need to make a move. And now you see
this interview, he probably would do that.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
I'm not gonna let him see he cannot know this
is happening because I feel bad if he hears.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
I think he should just make a move or just
be communicated and be like, listen, I really like you.
I just I need a little bit more passion or something,
and maybe he can be like that. Okay, I know
it's a hard conversation to have, it is, I really
be honest, I listen, I'm into uh not open relationship.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
I'm into polyamory.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
So it's like, as soon as I meet a guy
that I'm into, I have to say it from jump.
It's not something I'm going to save around for when
we like each other, then I'm gonna go fuck the
whole relationship up with saying guess what I like polyamory. Yeah,
you know, I gotta say from the beginning, please go
have a girlfriend, Please go have a lot.
Speaker 2 (23:28):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
I have to say how I feel, what I want,
and then if those expectations are met, it's not the
right person for me.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
Okay, you also could do this, make it really and
next time you go see him and Dawns in New
York or whatever, you know, just it's out of the blue,
just you know, just pour a glass of champagne and
then just put on a poem. Yeah, randomly watching the poem.
I think he'll get the picture in just throw.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
I don't think. I don't think he's the porn. I
don't think he's into Like we've talked gay music have
during sex, like it doesn't make sense, Like I don't
like to have sex in the silence. So like when
we were laying like kiddy, there's no music.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Is there a chance he's gay? She's like, no, he's
been married before. I make it doesn't matter sometimes.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
But why why do what? Guy would not want to fuck? Sorry?
I think respect.
Speaker 3 (24:28):
I think it's respect.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
Respect.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
I think he's respect.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
I was not.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Hold on, hold on, I.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
Have to intervene. Respect is a different thing when you
get on a plane. After that, only knowing a guy
one time, you get on a plane to fly to
their house in Dallas, a different state, to stay in
their house. That's a different type of respect.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
Yeah, like I actually did that once to Yeah, I
actually did that once.
Speaker 4 (24:53):
A Yeah, a girl just got you know, she just
got up clean across the country same day, book to
flight came to see me, and uh, you know, me
and her wasn't talking like that.
Speaker 5 (25:03):
We wasn't you know, we weren't dating or nothing but us.
Speaker 4 (25:06):
She really liked me and we was you know, it
was cool. She jumped on the plane and came to
see me, and I didn't. I didn't touch her.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
At all, because you're respected, Hulse.
Speaker 5 (25:14):
I respect.
Speaker 4 (25:15):
I respected our friendship, and I knew that that. You know,
like things like that can make a major change, because
if it don't work, y'all will never be friends the same.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
Okay, So you were waiting for you to see if
it could go into a more sexual thing. You're waiting
or when she came, you didn't want to ruin the friendship.
You just never saw her in a sexual way.
Speaker 5 (25:36):
I saw the sexual way she finds. Motherfucker waiting.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
You're waiting to make sure.
Speaker 4 (25:41):
That I'm not no more. But I think at that time,
I was more like, I got to make sure this
will work before I go here with her, Okay.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
And I didn't. I didn't touch her at all. And
now we're still good friends.
Speaker 3 (25:53):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Now I know how to flirt with her, so you
never yeah to make the moves on you now.
Speaker 5 (26:03):
Together?
Speaker 3 (26:04):
Oh, yeah, are you went to Paul Amory? I don't
even know who she is. You know, I still am question.
I'm saying two guys right now I'm seeing too. I
know for a fact one of them is seeing a
couple other chicks. Oh, I know who you're seeing.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Yes, I know, duh.
Speaker 3 (26:21):
I forgot about the other one. I thought it was
just one. Okay, you could be number three.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
I'm just saying one time.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Yeah you Yeah, I'm I'm a little you know, I
get bored too easily, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
I like the starfish to float around a little bit.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
We are definitely going to check out your restaurant. We're
going to make a reservation.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Reservation.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
We're going to make a reservation with you because I
would like for you to be with us at the
dinner of course. Yeah, if anybody wants to find him,
look him up at d J P A U L
K O.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
I'm fine him.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
He's amazing, he's a sweetheart, he's so fucking talented. He's
the og of this rap game and all right, so
check him out.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
We love you, pain you for.
Speaker 1 (27:09):
Having me. We were having such a fun conversation. I
feel like the three of us have been friends. Oh
my god, that kind's like gone through right because I'm
so cool with your soul. It was just and then
and then I think, if I'm calling you one of
my best friends, he's gonna respect you.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
And you know me, so I some of my friend.
Speaker 5 (27:31):
You know that.
Speaker 2 (27:32):
It was just a great conversation. But what do you think?
What do you think?
Speaker 1 (27:36):
The ultimate thing was a guy's perspective that we just
got out. He's an infamous, retired bad boy. But you
see this guy, he's a teddy bear, he's a sweetheart,
he's an angel of a guy. He's a hard worker,
I mean a hard fucking worker. And it's easy to
say maybe image or persona or certain meaners we want
(28:01):
out of certain people, but then a couple months or
a couple of years into the relationship dynamic, we want
something else from our partner. It's never usually what we
wanted in the beginning, you know. So, what do you
think from what Paul said and how you feel?
Speaker 3 (28:23):
That was a really long question. I don't even it
was a very you lost me like twenty minutes after
you start so long, like yeah, I like, yeah, let's
go so pretty much like what I just want to
know your perspected.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Because I'm saying sometimes we want something, we are attracted
to something, but the later desire something, the things that
turn us on, the things that make us fun love them.
At the beginning of the I want it usually are
always different. After a couple of years, you see women
become more demanding of the man. A couple years emotionally,
(29:01):
you see men become more agitated with the women acting
like a caretaker, you know, but in the beginning they
love when I'll take care of you hunting. So we
keep seeing these dynamic shifts. Do you think that if
we gave you right now the benefit of the doubt,
(29:21):
that right now maybe what you want will be different
than what you want in years. So would it be
hard to focus on the future or is it really
hard to get past not be having that a child?
Speaker 3 (29:34):
Well, I think I think you're right because I feel like,
because yeah, youth is nice and we are getting older
and that all that goes away. So I'm going to start, like,
you know, from body aches and having mental mental issues,
but like emotional and physical and just getting old. And
then you know, then you become like you know, physically
(29:54):
more unattractive as you get older. Is botoxing.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
Okay, Now you're not shout out to only go after look,
so it's not that.
Speaker 3 (30:01):
But I'm just saying, like that's gonna go away at
some point. I want to be with someone that's going
to be okay with that. So I know that, like
so and so right now, maybe like there's certain things
missing this, you know, certain like attraction, sparks and the like,
passion and whatever. But I think it's the important thing
is that interfire. Is what I'm gonna want is someone
(30:22):
that's gonna love me for me, and I think, yeah,
it's important and that's going to change and he will
be that person that if I'm yeah, fat, skinny, whatever
I am, he's still gonna be there.
Speaker 2 (30:32):
That you guys just are accepting of each other and
always well I do.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
I don't know if you remember what doctor Burger said
when we were talking about submission breeds resentment that sort
of plays into that's just saying I'm going to accept, uh,
this person for whatever those things are that I kind
of are am bothered with, just for them to accept mine,
because eventually it's it's gonna.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
Get I think it's just to me communicating it. If
you have the courage or maybe.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
If you even feel like it's if it's comfortable enough
is to have that talk with him, maybe to say
a little bit more of what you want or what
you need and find the right wording so it doesn't
sound offensive. Because if you do say that and then
there's an effort effort place in there with that, that
shows character, That shows a lot of character. But if
(31:27):
there isn't any effort in it, he's like, well, this
is just how I am. Your answer is right there.
Speaker 3 (31:32):
Okay, your answer is right then.
Speaker 2 (31:34):
You don't have to feel guilty. Oh my god, would
it have worked out? Would it have been good?
Speaker 3 (31:38):
You already know what Yah'll be Okay.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
You know. I'm big on the communication thing. It's it's
it's easier for some people than others. That's not a
good or bad thing.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
I pray to have more of your grace sometimes, you.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
Know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (31:54):
I really do really really do you know what I mean?
So it's just it's beautiful to have grace. So do
the way he would do it.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
But I think, just do it communicate a little bit.
Because he seems like a perfect guy and having a
little bit of a bad boy. It could be tak
it could be taught girl.
Speaker 4 (32:10):
Like.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
He's like Paul said, get the plorn, get some whips, s.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
And m bitch. He's growing his hair out for me,
so that's you know, Oh my god, so I got
a little Yeah, we're.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
Having to make him a little bad and communication work.
We have our answer.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
Thank you for tuning in. I'm so glad we have
Anita back. But we do have a surprise when we
come back next time. We don't know what this place
is gonna look like because we did have a good
time with that and we always have a good time
with Anita.
Speaker 2 (32:37):
But we're gonna see how we're gonna do that. We'll
see bye bye.
Speaker 3 (32:44):
Thanks for listening to Genuinely Gig.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
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Thank god I don't have anyone interrupting me right now
with an LG because Anita's bad.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
What the fuck are you doing? What the fuck are
you doing?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
At least bring an a Oh my god, let's make
it your say. Anina's last name is also with the G.
My sister's all because he's with a G, I'm with
a GEP. We're getting some ideas because Anita, while you
were gone, you did watch right. What did you think
about Leila? You left her to take your role and
(00:40):
your position? What did you think about Leila?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
I think I think she's great. I think she she's funny.
She brings out like like another side of you.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Oh which side? Does she bring it up?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Thank you guys? Like no, like, I just think it's
good that it was. It was like it was your
banter's cue. You guys are good And this shows the
difference between you guys. So it's bringing it like another perspective.
And sometimes I think she needs to like not attack
you in certain ways and take it, take it somewhere
else whatever. But that comes with being siblings.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
But that comes with being something I think you left
a perfect person in charge, because I think she sounds
so much like you in her message and her meaning
and her intention. But obviously she's much more aggressive and
delivering the message, and you are the grace and everything,
and she's a little bit more of the aggressor.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
I mean, again, it's my older sister.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I could say that she's a fack of bitch, but
it was it was a little tricky going back and
forth with her. She would bring out that like, well,
Mommy and Danny spoiled you type of a thing.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
But what sometimes yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
But you're right, it was a little bit of an
interesting thing. But I missed you so much.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
I miss you too, miss I really gotcha. I'm really happy.
I'm really happy that I'm back.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
And yeah, I think everyone's everyone's missed you. But everyone
would like to know, is where the fuck were you, bitch?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
So well, I think you guys heard a little bit
of what was going on when I when I was gone,
you know, from Leyla in Gulanessa, but I just called
you go. So essentially, I was experimenting to see where
this relationship could potentially go in with this guy that
(02:27):
I met in November, So something kind of new. That's
long distance. He doesn't live here. He lives in New
York and in Dallas. So I was kind of busy
with that and kind of seeing.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Where it would you want to see where I would go?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I would see where it'd go. Yeah, So I did that,
and I work remotely, so I, you know, took a
little bit of time off for some of the events
and stuff to also explore this.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
So yeah, I was gone.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
I was gone.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Where to go? You said you want to see where
I would go? Where to go?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Oh? That was really quickly said, I didn't.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Sorry, where did it go?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
So that is a good question. That's a good question.
It is kind of like gone nowhere. Right now, we're
kind of at a standstill. Like number one, long distance
is hard. It's hard to see him, okay, and with
you know, with again, we're both really busy. There's a
lot going on. But I think the question is is that,
like there's so many great things about him and it's
(03:25):
hard to walk away from that because I want him
in my life, but it's also like there's some things missing,
like he's super duper I sound so weird saying this.
He is from Wahi, and I feel like there's a
lot of similarities between us. So I feel like sometimes
he's too nice like me, which makes me want to
become mean because I'm like, well, he's too nice. I
shouldn't be like that because it's too much, you know
(03:47):
what I mean. So it's like making me want to like,
that's what it is.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
So you're almost seeing yourself in him and you're not happy.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah, Allen, I'm going to bring doctor Rollenberger another time
to deal with you, maybe on your own time, because
I brought a surprise guest for you.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I did you bring?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
I brought your boyfriend. No, I.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Brought a good friend of mine. He's a friend of
the world because he's one of the amazing founders of
Kronk hip hop rap music, three six Mafia DJ Paul.
He's here and he's going to answer some of your
questions because obviously the whole world knows he's a bad boy,
or let me say this, he was a bad boy.
(04:39):
He's got his past, just like a lot of us do.
He's a retired bad boy and he's just a businessman
right now, like a big teddy bear businessman. So hopefully
he can answer your questions about sometimes women needing to
look for that little bit bad boy character and a
guy if it's even worth it or not.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Yeah, let's bring in DJ Paul.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
You know her from Shaws of Sunset. You know she
doesn't hold back.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
But if he had made her a beautiful, romantic dinner,
grabbed her face, lifted her up by her ass, put
her up against a wall, she would be honked.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
This is genuinely.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I am so excited to have a person that's not
just known worldwide for being a creator, a legend, so
many things that we're going to get into what those
things are. But he's a good friend and an awesome guy.
His name is DJ pap Hey, Hi, welcome, Hi. This
(05:43):
is my friend Anita, best friend. Anita's a little who
did you just throw in?
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Best friend?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Yeah, she made the mistake of giving me weed, so
I'm going to be a little goofy and.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
Weird and.
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Around her.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You guys, this is the infamous, infamous DJ pot He
is from three six Mafia.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Okay, this is not just any group.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
This is this is the founder, the founder, the god
of Kunk. If you know what kunk is, if you've
ever heard Kunk. Okay, this is where Krunk started. It
started with Paul. Paul, you are a DJ, a producer,
a rapper. You own real estate company. You have an
amazing collection of barbecue seasoning. You have a restaurant which
is amazing new and just opened. I mean the list
(06:30):
goes on and on. I mean, hello, thank you for
being here.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
How did you make time?
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I always going to make time for you.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
I love you forever.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
I have I have a very big.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Question to ask you.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Nnita has absolutely no idea what the premise of this
episode is going to be about.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
I'm very nervous.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
She has been a little m I A from the
podcast has been filling into the place because Anita has
been kind of in an entanglement with a guy that
she just recently met.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
The guy's amazing.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
I mean, he checks off every fucking box on what
a perfect dude is supposed to be.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Like, right, that's perfect.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
What turns her off, though, pop, is that he's too nice.
He's not a bad boy, he's just a nice guy.
He's not She wants someone who's more assertive and a
little bit more alpha and all these things. So I
see so many times that women out there want the
(07:43):
bad boy right until they don't want the bad boy anymore,
until they want to say, well, why don't you love me?
Why don't you know, pay attention to me? Why don't
you all those things? And I've seen Anita, she is
one of my best friends.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
She threw that best in there.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
She is one of my best friends. But I see
her ready to be in a relationship with a good dude.
But she wants a little bit of that bad boy.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
And you are a.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Bit of a retired bad boy because I know you,
and you are the biggest fucking teddy bear in the world.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
You're such a sweetheart. So what would you to say to.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Anita, to all the women out there, even men who
just constantly are chasing the bad boy, do you think
that there's anything related to breakups and animosity and tension
and fighting in relationships because women are constantly concerned about
the beginning phase of that tough dude persona.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
I would say, first of all, how long has she
known him? And how much does she know about his pants?
Because I mean, even Ted Bundy came off as.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
A good gap.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Anita, I just okay, so we've known each other, we
lived in Ohio and the same city, went to different
high schools, so he's were in the same hometown. We
never knew each other. And then so I just met
him like about it was no mid November of this year, blush.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
Yeah, so you haven't even known him, what four months?
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Not that long.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Yeah, So he came to my graduation party because I
had it with two other people, and then that went
to his high school and we all just did a
group party and then he was at my graduation party.
But then we don't meet until like years and years later,
and our you know, in our early forties. So it's interesting.
So I just met him through a mutual friend from Ohio.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Yes, but see, you don't you don't know. It sounds
like you don't know too much about his past because
even me, you know, these days, i'm a you know,
I'm a good guy, but in the past, I was
bad as fuck, you know. So I did a busch
grade ship and a lot of times, you know, and
I'm gonna be like that, and I've always liked it
to somebody pissing me off and then I go from
zero to one hundred to o me come back easy.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
So maybe he's like that maybe he's a bad guy.
He's a bad on the inside. You just don't even
know it, and you probably don't want to know it.
To be honest, I really don't if I want to
keep him nice.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
I said to her, Here's what I think.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Because I'm a very hands on, no filter, I take
care of myself. I make it happen in whatever I'm feeling.
I put it out there and make everyone know it.
So I tell her, Nanita is very.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Opposite of me.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
She's very shy, soft spoken, very subtle in her approach.
So I'm like, listen, if he's got all these other
things that you think are perfect, why not open the
lines of communication, like why don't you caress me like
this or whatever the situation is, or why don't you,
you know, get into because maybe he wants to and
he's also shy.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
Right, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
Well I think we missed. We missed that whole thing.
We haven't been like intimate. So I think that that's See,
that's the.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
Issue.
Speaker 4 (10:56):
You say you have a bit intimate. You mean you
ain't banged him or something.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
No, no, no, no, no, shombole alon, but live here.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
He doesn't live here. I forgot we forgot to mention it.
So he's in Dallas, in New York. So I've seen
him like.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
He's flown her out to Dallas where she stayed in
his place.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
But I still know nothing.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Okay, So now now you don't make this even worse.
Now you've got a long distance relationship. Long distance relationships
are hard on their own. You're not even being sexual
or something like that with it. This dude is probably
for sure banging somebody else.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
He's not.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
She is.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
I don't think he is. I think he's officially the
nicest human that's the world. Do you need?
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Good guys exist? Okay, Paul, let's ask that. Do good
guys exist?
Speaker 4 (11:49):
Yeah? They do to an extent?
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Okay, what's what's the extent of a good guy? How
good can a guy be? How clean of a not?
Speaker 2 (11:57):
You know?
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I don't know, he claims. Listen, if he's Anita's obviously
you see how hot.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
This woman is right here?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
Educated, beautiful, intelligent, She's the full package, right, So why
wouldn't he want to bang her if he's she flew
to stay in his house?
Speaker 4 (12:13):
Why who said it was? Who said it was on him?
It could have been on her?
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Who cares?
Speaker 1 (12:17):
If he's banging one hundred people, why why not bang
one hundred and one?
Speaker 3 (12:21):
I think he just hit the jet pop.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
What did he say?
Speaker 3 (12:24):
It might not be him, it might be her, so
I would standoffish. I think that I'm kind of you know,
there's some attraction stuff that I'm kind of.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
So you're not sending the signals.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
Yeah, And I think sometimes I like I say, I
view him as like a really good friend. Like I
don't know if I could get past.
Speaker 4 (12:41):
The just just saying I'll work, just sing I'll work,
just sing I'll work. And I don't know what it
is gonna work. Just don't even sound like it's gonna work.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
But I'm trying to gravitate. But but it's like I've
been I don't want a bad boy anymore. I know
I don't want that. So he I should give him
a chance because everything is great, But what what's the problem?
Speaker 5 (13:02):
Like I got a problem?
Speaker 4 (13:03):
Is gonna be her? She gonna still see him as
a friend, and it's kind of hard to break away
for next position right there.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
But if he had the first night that she got
to Dallas made her just a beautiful romantic dinner, had
her drinking champagne back to back, grabbed her face, lifted
her up by her ass, put her up against a wall.
She would be hooked. And then if the next day
was on social media with some other girl, she'd be
(13:31):
even more hooked.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
I know this girl.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Yeah, way, everything you just name is considered rape these days.
So that's probably why he didn't even do that.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
We just got to catch him. We're going to take
a quick break.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
But when we come back, I think a lot of
times people will meet me or come across me and
they're like, damn, I bet she's a fucking breaker.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Yeah, Well we had a little bit of a moment, honey.
I mean I thought I was just gonna shoot you
a little smoke out of my mouth. But we we
we got a little fancy with it.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Really he's hot.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Well, I mean, it's an interesting conversation because I think
sometimes perception of people can be so misleading. People can
see someone and think, oh, he's this or she's that.
People see me and they think I'm such a freak
sexually in the back you get me in bed, I'm
a fucking starfish. I hate to disappoint the millions of people,
Probably two people the millions of people out there listening.
(14:39):
I starfish the fuck out of it. Okay, but my
personality means I don't have to ask that. To hold out, Paul,
let me let me move with this microphone so you
could see my arms and legs.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
You can't see starfish.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
So she I think she just lays there and doesn't
do anything.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
I just my back like legs spread it just like
a starfish, like a start.
Speaker 4 (15:02):
You know, I don't.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
I put so much work into so many other aspects
of my life, but I just want to get to
the fucking bed and get worked on.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
If that's okay, that's total. You know, that's my that's
my thing.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
But you know, in life, I'm very rare and aggressive,
so I get I think a lot of times people
meet me or come across me and they're like, damn,
I bet she's a fucking.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Freak in the sheets.
Speaker 5 (15:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Well, I mean we had a little bit of a moment, honey.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I mean I thought I was just going to shoot
you a little smoke out of my mouth, but we
we we got a little fancy with it.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
Really he's hot, No, you're really hot. I have I
have two questions, okay, one one question will come later.
What made you become a not bad boy?
Speaker 5 (15:51):
Like?
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Was it?
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Was it just a click? You're like, you know what,
I'm ready to meet the next person, and I want
that girl because you did celebrity life swap? Or did
the girl come in your life and she changed you?
That's a good question.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
Good question.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
No, that's an easy question to answer. It was from
going to jail too much. I got sick of that ship.
Ain't no pussy in there.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Did you hear what he said? Got it?
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Okay? So it was a change you made because there's
no pussy and I say that, I say pussy.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
In jail.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
Yeah, you know, I got a couple of kids. I
got a couple of kids. I got older, I got
sick of going to jail.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
Like just like you, just you grow out of the
figure out of it, out of it.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
So if your kids start going through it, do you
think you'll be more accepting to it, like, Okay, I
know you're going to go through it and come out
of it. Or would you guide them through it so
they don't get themselves hurt or in trouble?
Speaker 2 (16:45):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (16:47):
Well, the good part about it is my only one
I had to deal with at this point with something
like that is possibly my daughter because she's young. But
I seriously don't think that she's gonna change because she
like she don't She ain't bad at all, Like she's
super good. She like hiking and playing with animals and
stuff like that. And my son is you know, he's
(17:09):
older now, so I don't think it's.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
Too late for him. I grew him up good and
he never got in trouble.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Yeah, that's great.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
I just recently saw three six Mafia in a versus
battle with Bone Thugs and Harmony, and I would have
to say, in my in my adult life, literally the
at least the last fifteen years of my adult life,
I have not been that excited with music as I
was that night. So one of my friends is the
(17:36):
owner of Triller, so I was when I saw that battle,
I said, I have to fucking be there, and then
I hit you up and I was like, I'm gonna
be there. I'm gonna be there. As I was backstage
coming up, I got knocked into like walls because this
whole like stuff was happening on stage between Bone Dogs
(17:56):
and three six, And then I'm like, you know what,
I'm not even worried right now, because I don't think
Paul is about that, Like he wants peace for people,
and this is we're living in such a fucked up
world right now. There's so much unfortunate death and chaos
that through music entertainment, we're trying to show people happiness again,
(18:18):
you know. And it was really beautiful thing to see
the night continue, to see these legends on stage just
loving on each other, loving the world and their people.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
And their fans. It was it was awesome, Paul, Thank you,
I said there.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
I wasn't there, but on her I saw it through
her instagrams, the whole whole thing. I was like, it
was like, Ohio Bone, you know the I g the
whole night do it's a he was a moment in history.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
Yeah, it was a huge moment.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
When I enjoy that. Thank you.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
I watched and hip Hop.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
I watched every reality show in the world, and there's
a scene right now with Bone Thogs in it and
they're preparing for the versus battle against three six months.
Speaker 4 (19:00):
Oh my gosh, I didn't know that.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
That's cool.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
Yeah, it was. In the last episode of Love and
Hip Hop, they were bounds were in there, but they
were preparing for the battle.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
It was just beautiful to see. I'm like I saw
it heaven question too, yeah, oh, she's got another questions.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
Like that, how do you How do you guys know
each other? Because I thought you guys grew I thought
you grew up here. Now you I've had Memphis, right.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
I met Paul through mutual friends Sylvan and JT right
at uh oh, Sylvan, and I know them. I met
you like ten years ago at least, like like like
do your catch up or something?
Speaker 3 (19:39):
As all those hot spots that's where JT.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
And speaking of hot spots, Paul, please tell everybody about
your new restaurants. Please just tell everybody what's going on
with Paul, because you have your hands in every fucking
cookie jar and you make everything platinum. So and I'm
not talking just music here, I'm talking about it in life,
So please tell us what's going on in your life
right now?
Speaker 5 (20:03):
Man.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
First of all, Man, just getting back into the groove
of making music for myself. I've been making music for
you know, producing so many artists for you know, years
and years now, because I hadn't brought out a project
for myself since like twenty eighteen, and then that same
year I did a project for I had produced some
(20:25):
stuff for Drake and then you know, it just started
going from there with a bunch of other people shout
out to my artists tea while I did it with me,
and we just started producing for so many.
Speaker 5 (20:36):
Other people, got a little babypack behind me, you know.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
Three mean, we just hit four million on that, so
you know it's everybody was like, well, I see why
you don't make music for yourself no more, because you're
having so much fun getting at this free money from producing.
And I was like, yeah, well you're kind of right.
I said, no, you are right. So now just getting
back into doing some stuff for myself from our fans,
(21:02):
because you know, they'd be like, Paul, we like what
you do for other folks, we still want to hear
you too.
Speaker 5 (21:06):
And I was like, shit, I figured your say that.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
So Dad, and uh, you know, just like the real
estate stuff. I have a lot of fun with Dad
because I love decorating and doing things like that. I'm
actually over here. I got painters in another room where
we repainting my place and remodeling and also and just
about another house that I'll tell you about. Our camera
rental out here in Cali. So yeah, I don't want.
Speaker 5 (21:32):
To let everybody know about that because it's just gonna
be funny. Certain, yeah, certain audience.
Speaker 4 (21:38):
And the restaurant, you know on Rodale Draft for twenty
one Rodale Drift that should be opening up in about
thirty days.
Speaker 5 (21:45):
I don't know when this w but about thirty days
from now.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
So man, it's gonna be h what type of what
type of restaurant is that?
Speaker 5 (21:53):
Latin restaurant? Latin?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
That's good.
Speaker 4 (21:56):
We have to go.
Speaker 5 (21:57):
We have to.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Yeah, yes, we'll be there. We're going to take a
quick break. But when we come back, I know how
to make the moves on you.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Now, you guys would be cute together. Oh yeah, are
you in to Paul Amory? I don't even know if
she is, even though I still am questioned.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
I'm seeing two guys right now.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
So the question is do I come with the guy
or not? Do I give up on him? Let's go
back into now.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
Another question.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Okay, so you're saying I should give it a chance
and go for the nice guy.
Speaker 4 (22:39):
I think the next time you see him, one of
y'all need to make a move. And now you see
this interview, he probably would do that.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
I'm not gonna let him see he cannot know this
is happening because I feel bad if he hears.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
I think he should just make a move or just
be communicated and be like, listen, I really like you.
I just I need a little bit more passion or something,
and maybe he can be like that. Okay, I know
it's a hard conversation to have, it is, I really
be honest, I listen, I'm into uh not open relationship.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
I'm into polyamory.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
So it's like, as soon as I meet a guy
that I'm into, I have to say it from jump.
It's not something I'm going to save around for when
we like each other, then I'm gonna go fuck the
whole relationship up with saying guess what I like polyamory. Yeah,
you know, I gotta say from the beginning, please go
have a girlfriend, Please go have a lot.
Speaker 2 (23:28):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
I have to say how I feel, what I want,
and then if those expectations are met, it's not the
right person for me.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
Okay, you also could do this, make it really and
next time you go see him and Dawns in New
York or whatever, you know, just it's out of the blue,
just you know, just pour a glass of champagne and
then just put on a poem. Yeah, randomly watching the poem.
I think he'll get the picture in just throw.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
I don't think. I don't think he's the porn. I
don't think he's into Like we've talked gay music have
during sex, like it doesn't make sense, Like I don't
like to have sex in the silence. So like when
we were laying like kiddy, there's no music.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Is there a chance he's gay? She's like, no, he's
been married before. I make it doesn't matter sometimes.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
But why why do what? Guy would not want to fuck? Sorry?
I think respect.
Speaker 3 (24:28):
I think it's respect.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
Respect.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
I think he's respect.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
I was not.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Hold on, hold on, I.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
Have to intervene. Respect is a different thing when you
get on a plane. After that, only knowing a guy
one time, you get on a plane to fly to
their house in Dallas, a different state, to stay in
their house. That's a different type of respect.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
Yeah, like I actually did that once to Yeah, I
actually did that once.
Speaker 4 (24:53):
A Yeah, a girl just got you know, she just
got up clean across the country same day, book to
flight came to see me, and uh, you know, me
and her wasn't talking like that.
Speaker 5 (25:03):
We wasn't you know, we weren't dating or nothing but us.
Speaker 4 (25:06):
She really liked me and we was you know, it
was cool. She jumped on the plane and came to
see me, and I didn't. I didn't touch her.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
At all, because you're respected, Hulse.
Speaker 5 (25:14):
I respect.
Speaker 4 (25:15):
I respected our friendship, and I knew that that. You know,
like things like that can make a major change, because
if it don't work, y'all will never be friends the same.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
Okay, So you were waiting for you to see if
it could go into a more sexual thing. You're waiting
or when she came, you didn't want to ruin the friendship.
You just never saw her in a sexual way.
Speaker 5 (25:36):
I saw the sexual way she finds. Motherfucker waiting.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
You're waiting to make sure.
Speaker 4 (25:41):
That I'm not no more. But I think at that time,
I was more like, I got to make sure this
will work before I go here with her, Okay.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
And I didn't. I didn't touch her at all. And
now we're still good friends.
Speaker 3 (25:53):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Now I know how to flirt with her, so you
never yeah to make the moves on you now.
Speaker 5 (26:03):
Together?
Speaker 3 (26:04):
Oh, yeah, are you went to Paul Amory? I don't
even know who she is. You know, I still am question.
I'm saying two guys right now I'm seeing too. I
know for a fact one of them is seeing a
couple other chicks. Oh, I know who you're seeing.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Yes, I know, duh.
Speaker 3 (26:21):
I forgot about the other one. I thought it was
just one. Okay, you could be number three.
Speaker 4 (26:27):
I'm just saying one time.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Yeah you Yeah, I'm I'm a little you know, I
get bored too easily, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
I like the starfish to float around a little bit.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
We are definitely going to check out your restaurant. We're
going to make a reservation.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Reservation.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
We're going to make a reservation with you because I
would like for you to be with us at the
dinner of course. Yeah, if anybody wants to find him,
look him up at d J P A U L
K O.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
I'm fine him.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
He's amazing, he's a sweetheart, he's so fucking talented. He's
the og of this rap game and all right, so
check him out.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
We love you, pain you for.
Speaker 1 (27:09):
Having me. We were having such a fun conversation. I
feel like the three of us have been friends. Oh
my god, that kind's like gone through right because I'm
so cool with your soul. It was just and then
and then I think, if I'm calling you one of
my best friends, he's gonna respect you.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
And you know me, so I some of my friend.
Speaker 5 (27:31):
You know that.
Speaker 2 (27:32):
It was just a great conversation. But what do you think?
What do you think?
Speaker 1 (27:36):
The ultimate thing was a guy's perspective that we just
got out. He's an infamous, retired bad boy. But you
see this guy, he's a teddy bear, he's a sweetheart,
he's an angel of a guy. He's a hard worker,
I mean a hard fucking worker. And it's easy to
say maybe image or persona or certain meaners we want
(28:01):
out of certain people, but then a couple months or
a couple of years into the relationship dynamic, we want
something else from our partner. It's never usually what we
wanted in the beginning, you know. So, what do you
think from what Paul said and how you feel?
Speaker 3 (28:23):
That was a really long question. I don't even it
was a very you lost me like twenty minutes after
you start so long, like yeah, I like, yeah, let's
go so pretty much like what I just want to
know your perspected.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Because I'm saying sometimes we want something, we are attracted
to something, but the later desire something, the things that
turn us on, the things that make us fun love them.
At the beginning of the I want it usually are
always different. After a couple of years, you see women
become more demanding of the man. A couple years emotionally,
(29:01):
you see men become more agitated with the women acting
like a caretaker, you know, but in the beginning they
love when I'll take care of you hunting. So we
keep seeing these dynamic shifts. Do you think that if
we gave you right now the benefit of the doubt,
(29:21):
that right now maybe what you want will be different
than what you want in years. So would it be
hard to focus on the future or is it really
hard to get past not be having that a child?
Speaker 3 (29:34):
Well, I think I think you're right because I feel like,
because yeah, youth is nice and we are getting older
and that all that goes away. So I'm going to start, like,
you know, from body aches and having mental mental issues,
but like emotional and physical and just getting old. And
then you know, then you become like you know, physically
(29:54):
more unattractive as you get older. Is botoxing.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
Okay, Now you're not shout out to only go after look,
so it's not that.
Speaker 3 (30:01):
But I'm just saying, like that's gonna go away at
some point. I want to be with someone that's going
to be okay with that. So I know that, like
so and so right now, maybe like there's certain things
missing this, you know, certain like attraction, sparks and the like,
passion and whatever. But I think it's the important thing
is that interfire. Is what I'm gonna want is someone
(30:22):
that's gonna love me for me, and I think, yeah,
it's important and that's going to change and he will
be that person that if I'm yeah, fat, skinny, whatever
I am, he's still gonna be there.
Speaker 2 (30:32):
That you guys just are accepting of each other and
always well I do.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
I don't know if you remember what doctor Burger said
when we were talking about submission breeds resentment that sort
of plays into that's just saying I'm going to accept, uh,
this person for whatever those things are that I kind
of are am bothered with, just for them to accept mine,
because eventually it's it's gonna.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
Get I think it's just to me communicating it. If
you have the courage or maybe.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
If you even feel like it's if it's comfortable enough
is to have that talk with him, maybe to say
a little bit more of what you want or what
you need and find the right wording so it doesn't
sound offensive. Because if you do say that and then
there's an effort effort place in there with that, that
shows character, That shows a lot of character. But if
(31:27):
there isn't any effort in it, he's like, well, this
is just how I am. Your answer is right there.
Speaker 3 (31:32):
Okay, your answer is right then.
Speaker 2 (31:34):
You don't have to feel guilty. Oh my god, would
it have worked out? Would it have been good?
Speaker 3 (31:38):
You already know what Yah'll be Okay.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
You know. I'm big on the communication thing. It's it's
it's easier for some people than others. That's not a
good or bad thing.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
I pray to have more of your grace sometimes, you.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
Know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (31:54):
I really do really really do you know what I mean?
So it's just it's beautiful to have grace. So do
the way he would do it.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
But I think, just do it communicate a little bit.
Because he seems like a perfect guy and having a
little bit of a bad boy. It could be tak
it could be taught girl.
Speaker 4 (32:10):
Like.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
He's like Paul said, get the plorn, get some whips, s.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
And m bitch. He's growing his hair out for me,
so that's you know, Oh my god, so I got
a little Yeah, we're.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
Having to make him a little bad and communication work.
We have our answer.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
Thank you for tuning in. I'm so glad we have
Anita back. But we do have a surprise when we
come back next time. We don't know what this place
is gonna look like because we did have a good
time with that and we always have a good time
with Anita.
Speaker 2 (32:37):
But we're gonna see how we're gonna do that. We'll
see bye bye.
Speaker 3 (32:44):
Thanks for listening to Genuinely Gig.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
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