Customized Solutions: How to Tailor Your Approach to Getting Your Shit Together

Do you ever feel like you’re forcing yourself to follow a system that just doesn’t work for your brain? Have you ever blamed yourself for not being able to stick to some planner or productivity method that everyone else swore by? 

What if the problem isn’t you—but the system? 

On this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, host and coach Sarah Bowser shares why it’s so important to find what works for your brain when the system doesn’t fit. She covers why cookie-cutter routines often fail us, how to experiment without judgment, and what to do when everything feels like it’s falling apart. If you’re ready to stop forcing yourself to “fit the mold” and start organizing your life in a way that actually feels good for your wonderfully weird self, this episode is for you. 

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What you’ll learn in this episode: 

• Why some popular productivity systems just don’t work for certain brains 
• How to spot your personal patterns and triggers in moments where it feels like everything is blowing up 
• What it means to experiment with different techniques without pressure 
• When to shift focus from “doing it perfectly” to “doing what works for me” 
• How your physical environment influences your ability to get your shit together 
• Why embracing your weird, nerdy strengths is the key to sustainable organization 

Resources mentioned in this episode: 

Pomodoro timer technique 

Noteworthy quotes from this episode:  

“Sometimes our brains just don’t work the way those systems are designed to, and that’s okay. It’s not about us failing. It’s about the system not fitting.” 

“What are the top three things that define your personality or strengths? Take those traits and think about how you can use them to help you get your shit together.” 

“We've all had those moments where it feels like everything is blowing up. Those don't come out of nowhere. Patterns, triggers or situations set them off.” 

“Stay curious and flexible. This isn't about finding a perfect forever solution. It's about gathering data to figure out what feels good and what doesn't.” 

“There's no one-size-fits-all solution, and that's a good thing. It means you get to create something uniquely yours.”

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