GYLTG 373: Finding the Root Cause

Do you ever feel something but you can’t put your finger on why? Do you ever react strongly to something seemingly small, only to realize it’s linked to an unresolved past experience? Generally, it’s an emotional response that needs to be traced back to it’s root. Today, we are taking a one-on-one deep dive into exploring how to uncover the root causes of your emotions. Understanding the origins of your emotional triggers can bring you clarity and healing. We’re breaking it all down, and I’ll guide you through a powerful journaling technique to help release the emotions that no longer serve you, creating space for personal growth and peace.

Let’s get right to it!

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

• Emotions are signals from our inner world, often pointing to unmet needs or unresolved conflicts.

• Emotional patterns are often rooted in past experiences, and understanding these can help break cycles of reactive behavior.

• Introspection and self-awareness are key in identifying and understanding your emotional responses.

• Journaling, specifically using the “Trigger and Release” method, can help uncover the root causes of emotions and allow you to let go of unhelpful patterns.

   

  Understanding the Role of Emotions

  • Emotions guide us through life, but when unprocessed, they can take control of our reactions and relationships.

    Emotional triggers often stem from past events and need to be explored for healing.

  The Power of Introspection

  • By tuning into our inner world and observing recurring emotional patterns, we can start identifying their root causes.

    Self-awareness starts with fundamental questions like: What do I want? What do I need? How do I want to feel?

  Emotional Triggers: What Are They?

  • Triggers are emotional reactions tied to past events, beliefs, or unresolved experiences.

    Recognizing your triggers allows you to better understand why you respond the way you do.

  The “Trigger and Release” Journaling Method

  • The “Trigger and Release” Journaling Method:

    1.   Step 1: Identify the Trigger
    Write down the situation that triggered a strong emotional reaction in you. Be as detailed as possible. Describe what happened, what you felt, who was involved, and where you were. The more details, the better.

    2.   Step 2: Explore the Emotion
    Dig deeper into the emotion you felt. Did you feel angry, sad, frustrated, anxious, or something else? Write about the intensity of the emotion and when you first noticed it. Did it feel familiar? Have you experienced this feeling before in similar situations?

    3.   Step 3: Trace It Back to the Past
    Try to connect the current emotional reaction to a past event or experience. Ask yourself: “When have I felt this way before?” Or, “What past experience is this reminding me of?” Often, you’ll uncover that the root cause of the emotion is tied to an event or belief from your past that you haven’t fully resolved.

    4.   Step 4: Challenge the Belief or Perception
    Once you’ve identified the root cause, challenge the belief or perception associated with the emotion. For example, if you feel unworthy after a critique at work, ask yourself: “Is this belief about myself truly accurate? Does this one instance define my worth?”