In this episode of Giving Voice to Depression, Kevin Lepine shares his deeply personal journey of growing up misunderstood, bullied, and isolated — experiences that fueled his depression long before he had words to describe it. He opens up about the pain of being unseen, living with undiagnosed ADD, and the crushing loneliness that often comes with both bullying and depression.
Kevin also discusses the turning points that helped him: friends who refused to let him disappear, learning the language to describe his struggles, and finding mental health support that gave him tools to heal. He offers raw but practical advice about managing depression, breaking free from isolation, and building a supportive community.
This conversation sheds light on the destructive overlap of bullying and depression while reminding us that connection, compassion, and even small shifts — like going for a walk — can make a life-saving difference.
If you’ve ever struggled to explain depression to someone else, or if you’re supporting a loved one who feels stuck in darkness, Kevin’s story provides both validation and hope.
Primary Topics Covered:
- How bullying and undiagnosed ADD fueled Kevin’s depression
- The impact of isolation on mental health and empathy
- Finding hope through community, friendship, and support
- Practical tools for interrupting depression’s cycles
- Why disclosure and openness can reduce stigma and isolation
- The power of small shifts, like walks and connection, in healing
Timestamps:
00:01:15 – Introduction to Kevin’s story: bullying, isolation, and depression
00:02:58 – Childhood signals of depression and the role of bullying
00:04:55 – The dangers of ignoring bullying and its isolating effects
00:06:25 – Building true friendships that interrupted depression’s cycle
00:08:02 – How Kevin’s depression manifested and became paralyzing
00:09:38 – Strategies to “trick” depression: filling the calendar, asking for support
00:10:35 – Why disclosure lessens depression’s hold and reduces isolation
00:11:19 – Addiction, self-medication, and the search for relief
00:13:11 – Tools from 12-Step programs and the role of community
00:14:36 – Hypnosis, depression, and the “parasite” metaphor
00:14:49 – Two life-or-death turning points in Kevin’s journey
00:16:31 – Why “It can be different” is more powerful than “Be happy”
00:20:17 – The role of small, simple shifts like walking and connection
00:23:21 – How bullying echoes depression’s lies and reinforces hopelessness
00:25:36 – Absolutist thinking: both a symptom and contributor to depression
00:26:24 – Closing reflections: compassion, language, and concrete support
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