Glamorous and Polyamorous

Glamorous and Polyamorous

A podcast about exploring polyamory and other forms of non-monogamy after religion. glampolyam.substack.com

Episodes

March 18, 2024 25 mins

In today’s episode, we’re tackling your burning questions! Worried about metamours "cowboying" your partner away? Let's soothe those anxieties and build trust together. Plus, we're busting myths about unicorn hunting and sharing tips for navigating New Relationship Energy (NRE) with style. And don't miss our advice on overcoming guilt and shame, especially for those with a religious background.

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Welcome to the ultimate polyamory extravaganza! Join us as we dive into the wild world of love without limits, fueled by insights from "Polysecure," "The Ethical Slut," "Multiamory," and "All My Relations." Discover how to reignite your passions, communicate like a pro, and embrace the thrill of multiple romantic connections. From decoding emotions to building a rock-solid support network, we...

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Hey there! In today's chat, we're tackling the topic of Purity Culture. We're getting real about the stuff we had to let go of, like Kelly questioning the whole 'God as the moral compass' idea and Xavi breaking free from feeling inherently sinful. Plus, Kelly spills the tea on the whole modesty thing and why it's so messed up. We'll also dive into Xavi's journey of exploring their sexuality, ...

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February 26, 2024 24 mins

Join us as we dive into the world of polyamory, discussing the common mistakes made and the valuable lessons we've learned from them. From setting rules that no longer apply to navigating emotional unavailability, our candid conversation sheds light on the complexities of polyamorous relationships. Tune in for insightful reflections and practical advice on thriving in non-monogamous dynamics. Don't miss out on this engagi...

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February 12, 2024 27 mins

In this episode, Xavi and Kelly tell us about first dates during Covid, spill juicy details from their first swinger party, and share the highs and lows of their first serious relationships. It's a rollercoaster of emotions and laughter you won't want to miss!

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February 5, 2024 24 mins

In today's episode, we're spilling the tea on couples seeking a unicorn 🦄 for extra sparkle in their love lives. Join Xavi and Kelly for laughs, myths, and some tips in case you're looking for a triad in earnest. Is unicorn hunting spice-seeking or predatory? Find out and share your thoughts below! 🎉✨

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January 29, 2024 24 mins

In this episode, Kelly and Xavi debunk polyamory myths, tackling misconceptions like "Polyamory is just an excuse to cheat" and "Polyamory is all about threesomes." We'd love to hear from you too! What myths about polyamory have you come across?

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January 15, 2024 16 mins

We're back!! In the first episode back from our winter break, Kelly and Xavi talk about cheating, what it looks like in polyamory, and the conversations you need to have with partners about it.

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Thank you to our Kind Sluts:

  • Adelia Majano
  • Victoria Mendieta

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In this episode of Glamorous & Polyamorous, Kelly and Xavi talk about the difficulties of coming out to family that is deeply religious, the role family plays in your life, and their personal experiences that have helped them move forward.

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  • Adelia Maja...
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December 22, 2023 1 min

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Thank you to our Kind Sluts:

  • Adelia Majano
  • Victoria Mendieta

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December 18, 2023 24 mins

In this episode of Glamorous & Polyamorous, Xavi and Kelly dive into figuring out who you are after leaving religion, finding new values that are congruent with you, and the benefits of this challenging work.

Thank you to our Kind Sluts:
- Adelia Majano

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In this episode of Glamorous & Polyamorous, Kelly Smith and Xavi Benjamin dive into the complexities of navigating dating while unlearning purity culture, and our experiences and insights on meeting other polyamorous people to date.

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Thank you to our Kind Sluts:

  • Adelia Majano
  • Vict...
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In this episode of Glamorous & Polyamorous, Kelly Smith and Xavi Benjamin share their helpful tips and personal experiences while navigating jealousy in polyamory.

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Thank you to our Kind Sluts:

  • Adelia Majano
  • Victoria Mendieta

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November 28, 2023 46 secs
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💕 Join our community to get the latest episodes and exclusive behind-the-scenes content 👀 https://glampolyam.com/links

Thank you to our Kind Sluts:

  • Adelia Majano
  • Victoria Mendieta

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November 24, 2023 22 mins

In this episode of Glamorous & Polyamorous, Kelly Smith and Xavi Benjamin talk about more terms and vocabulary used in the polyamorous and non-monogamous circles.

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Relationship Anarchy Manifesto

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00:00 Intro
00:51 Anchor Partner / Nesting Partner
03:49 Kitchen Table Polyamory
04:38 Garden Party Polyamory
05:03 Parallel Polyamory
06:19 Solo Polyamory
07:00 Mono/Pol...

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November 17, 2023 18 mins

In this episode of Glamorous & Polyamorous, Kelly Smith and Xavi Benjamin take a deep dive into common terms used in the polyamory and non-monogamy circles. Were there terms we missed you'd like to see us cover in a part two?

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In this episode of Glamorous and Polyamorous, Kelly Smith and Xavi Benjamin open up about seeking support and connection after breaking free from high-control religious backgrounds. Departing from faith communities like Jehovah's Witnesses can be an isolating journey, often leading to the loss of cherished relationships, including family and friends.

How did you find friends and community after leaving?

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    In this debut episode, Xavi Benjamin and Kelly Smith invite listeners to join them on a deeply personal journey. It describes their experiences with polyamory and non-monogamy after leaving the Jehovah's Witnesses, shedding light on the challenges they faced, the questions that arose, and the transformation they underwent during their transition from a high-control religion. They share their paths to discovering polyamory, its...

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