Gleaning and Gathering

Gleaning and Gathering

I love meaningful conversations, and this is probably what it would sound like if we had a chance to have that chat in my home office. It is my effort to process what I'm thinking out loud (and sometimes with friends.) I am a Christian, husband, father, pastor, church planter, community developer, author, and social entrepreneur. I am a mortal on a journey through this beautiful, delightful world God has given us, and I live in wide-eyed, child-like wonder. The name? I'm always gleaning life lessons on the farm and beyond, and The Gathering is the congregation with whom I share life.

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May 24, 2025 13 mins

Sharing from my family's experiences and recent activities, I reflect on the need to adjust as we move forward.

Speaking of adjustment, we are "pressing pause" on Gleaning and Gathering for a season. We hope to be back in time, but for now, I am not able to give it the time and attention that it deserves.

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This is a message that I shared with The Gathering at Victory Acres, and I wanted to share it with you as well.

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Living prepared for the inevitable storms of life is the lesson that I am gleaning this week.

Sharing some stories from my own experience and some principles from Scripture.

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In this episode I share about our time as a family at Serenity Cabin in Galax, Virginia. We are deeply grateful!

I also share about the need for connection. In a world awash in content, many are lacking genuine connection.

What about you? Who is your Paul, your Barnabas, and your Timothy?

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Avoid the habit of doing too much by taking these four steps:

Evaluate, Eliminate, Delegate, and Automate

Do you have a habit of avoiding conflict?

Practice Matthew 18. Avoiding conflict will rarely make a bad situation better.


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Virtues are specific habits of excellence, and the four Cardinal Virtues are:

1 - Temperance

2 - Courage

3 - Justice, and

4 - Prudence

There are many "sub-disciplines" of these virtues that will make our lives better.


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Here are three essential leadership lessons that I gleaned this week:


Lesson 1 came from Jesse DeYoung

Organizational doubt is real, and if we are going to lead effectively, we have to address it.


Lesson 2: Your mess is your message. Great quote: "John doesn't have a drinking problem; he has a drinking SOLUTION." People are looking for "The Fix" in their lives, and they turn to all kinds of things to &q...

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Thanks to Sean Morgan and "Leaders in Living Rooms" for the wisdom gleaned this past week. In this episode entitled "Need a Sabbatical? You're doing it wrong," he shared some points that were super helpful to me.

I gleaned a lot from another podcast by Carey Nieuwhoff and Jenni Catron entitled, "How to Tell whether your culture is healthy" It was really helpful in thinking about organizational cultu...

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Coaching can challenge our thinking. "The problem with success is that you rise to a level that people stop challenging your thinking." - Charles Duhigg (author of How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection.)

In this episode, I talk coaching, conversations, and self-awareness as leaders. (Yes, it's just me rambling again.)

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For the 100th episode, Kaylynn is back! We review the top 10 episodes from the first 100 published. A good time was had by all.

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Here is a report on the time that Samuel and I spent recently in South Africa and Lesotho. It was an adventure, and we are grateful for the opportunity that we had to travel and to share.

Here are some highlights and lessons...

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While in South Africa, we had the opportunity to interview missionaries Matt Smith and Ben Peters. While my equipment malfunctioned on the interview with Ben and I only captured the first question, I wanted to share it with you.


These are great young leaders, and it was a honor to serve with them.

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December 30, 2024 21 mins

Sam and I share from South Africa about our trip and the lessons God is teaching us along the way.

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This is a message that I delivered to The Gathering at Victory Acres in 2022 and I'm sharing again today on this last Sunday of Advent 2024.

I hope that it will be a blessing to you.

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I wanted to share some things that help make my days more happy and productive. I know that for some this might be a TMI episode, but since this podcast is really just me talking about whatever I jolly-well please, here you go.

Here are links:

- Uni-ball Vision Elite Pen

- Energy Body Cream

- Motivate Essential Oil

- Chamomile Tea:

- Full Focus Planner

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"Curious people are rarely cynical, and cynical people are very rarely curious." - Carey Nieuwhof

While one are you? Are you actively inviting other trusted people to take the "red pen" to your life? Are you interested or interesting?

As a leader, humility and curiosity are essential. Are you a leader who is growing in relationship and building trust?

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Sharing from some of my experiences in third-world contexts and statistics from A Hole in Our Gospel by Richard Stearns, I make the case for seeking the Shalom of God for the world in which we live.

We cannot dismiss it, and to whom much is given, much is required. May God help us to seek the peace of the places where He has led us.

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November 30, 2024 42 mins

Here are some thoughts on the future of the church and what it will include. While these are trends that I am seeing, I hope that it will provide encouragement to that "Dollar General" pastor who is currently trying to evaluate next steps. Sure, you may be a car mechanic, but God may be calling you to lead a local group of believer as a pastor-shepherd. Don't dismiss that call, and don't quit your job either!


May God help us "to s...

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November 21, 2024 34 mins

This episode of Gleaning is a message that I shared with 500+ men in Seymour, IN in mid-September at Men Arise. Sharing on the edge of this lake in a huge amphitheater at dawn is an experience I hope I'll never forget.

If you'd like a copy of the handout that includes source material and references, please message us at: himelickfamilyea@gmail.com

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