Good for Shidduchim (Jewish Dating Podcast)

Ever hear the claim that women give out their number just to let a guy down easy later? I thought that sounded ridiculous… so I decided to test it.

I surveyed 50 guys and 50 girls to see what people really prefer when it comes to dating and being asked out. The results? They might change the way you think about modern dating.

💬 Do you think women should give out their number just to let a guy down easy later? Or do men and women act...

Many Orthodox single women quietly struggle with feeling left out of community life—but it doesn’t have to stay that way. In this episode, we unpack the common reasons singles often feel excluded and share practical, empowering strategies to create real connections and a stronger sense of belonging.

If you’ve ever wondered how to move from the sidelines to the center of community life, this conversation will give you hope, encourage...

Join us in this insightful episode as we welcome Zahava Stilman, a seasoned shadchan and dating coach with strong and unapologetic opinions about the dating process in the Orthodox community. Zahava dives deep into the unique challenges and hard realities singles face, offering her expert advice, practical tips, and heartfelt guidance. Her candid perspective sheds light on what it really takes to find the right match while staying ...

In this exclusive interview, I sit down with Elliot Heller, an ambassador of Shagririm BaLev, to discuss the organization's mission, impact, and the personal journey that brought him to this role. We explore how Shagririm BaLev is fostering meaningful connections, building bridges between communities, and empowering youth through education and dialogue. Whether you're familiar with Shagririm BaLev or just discovering it for...

Shalom Patterson is a regular guy I met at an event. We discuss all things shidduchim, feminism, the current dating environment from a male's perspective, and so much more!"Make Shidduchim Great Again" Coffee Mug:https://good-for-shidduchim.printify.me/product/10580470/make-shidduchim-great-again-coffee-mug-11ozRemember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform.Instagram: @goodforshidduchimEmail: goodforshidduchim@gmail.co...

Tzippora Gugenheim is a top-tier Shadchan on Adopt A Shadchan. We cover all things shidduchim, feminism, the current dating environment, and so much more!✅ SUBSCRIBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4rcTOP5YNVTgYOMjwOk9tA?sub_confirmation=1Gugenheim Design:https://www.gugenheimdesign.com/"Make Shidduchim Great Again" Coffee Mug:https://good-for-shidduchim.printify.me/product/10580470/make-shidduchim-great-again-coffee-mug-11ozRem...

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Are you afraid of ghosts? Don’t worry, we all are. In this episode we talk about that scary moment we know all too well. Ghosting. That’s right- it’s happened to the best of us. But is there a time and place for it? Or is it all around a hurtful thing to do? We speak about the bad and the potential good about ghosting and as always give our honest opinion. Don’t mi...

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Lisa Elefant has entered the room! That’s right! We had the pleasure to interview and speak with the founder of Adopt A Shadchan! This incredible episode has some of the best Shadchan advice and dating advice led by Lisa Elefant herself! We cover topics of: age gaps, older singles, and Shadchanim who charge fees.**Dedicated Leilui Nishmas Chaim Ben Yaakov Shmue...

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Anxious about meeting new people? Singles events have you tripping over your words? Finding a group of girls intimidating? How exactly do you get a girl's digits? In this episode, we talk about dating events and the lovely anxiety it can trigger. We have all been and done that- maybe four times over. Listen to this episode to receive some tips and tricks fr...

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We know first dates can be uncomfortable, especially when an awkward silence settles in. So, what should one say when these silences happen? In this episode, we give advice on what to say and what not to say on the first date. And when those awkward silences sneak in, we have some advice on how to tackle it and have the date turn around and be successful!

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🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform.Warning - this episode speaks about eating disorders and anxiety Looks play a big part in dating. Theres no way going around it these days. The pressure of looking a certain way can lead some to feel lost, anxious and overwhelmed. Unfortunately, if these feelings aren’t dealt with properly- it can lead to underlying serious issues. To understand a little more about this, we sp...

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• Are the bride and groom responsible for their single friends meeting others at their wedding?

• How much effort should be put into setting up your single friends during a wedding?
• And what about those awful resume pictures are they necessary?

In this episode we tackle the controversial opinions on the rules of the bride and groom and if resume pictures are yay or nay.

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Online dating is never easy. When a good idea comes along guy or girls way, excitement and hope can be in the back of his/her mind. However, it’s possible the match may not be approved on the other end - and devastation takes over. Or even worse, the match is timed out or expired without any information. In this weeks episode we discuss whether or not a match should just be timed out ...

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• Should parents be involved in dating?

• Uselessness of a Resume.

This podcast cuts through the shidduch charade, smashing resume robots and awkward pauses. Unleash your true essence, rewrite your love story, and find your bashert on your terms. Ignite the revolution, swipe right on real connections.

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In this episode, we delve into the complexities of dating as a divorced single woman within the Orthodox Jewish community.

Join us as we speak with a brave single woman who shares her candid thoughts, experiences, and challenges in re-entering the dating scene post-divorce.

From societal stigmas to personal growth, our guest provides valuable insights and perspectives on navigating the unique landscape of Orthodox Jewish dating.

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In this episode we talk about if references on shidduch resumes are ineffective or effective. Which questions are constructive when looking into a potential date and which questions are plan crazy. Should questions be subjective or objective? Is being more straightforward good? Or can it cause harm? All these questions answered with our own spin on things in this episode!Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming pl...

At some points, dating can be fun, exciting and adventurous. However, it can also lead to burnout, being emotionally drained and tired. In this episode we talk about dating burnout and how people can become jaded. It’s happened to anyone who has been dating. In this episode we offer our perspectives on what leads to burnout and how to possibly manage those tiring dating days! Listen to the episode for more!

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