Episode Description:
In this heartfelt Memorial Day episode, Michael O’Connell and podcast host, Pete Waggoner, reflect on what the holiday truly means.
They explore the difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day, the importance of honoring fallen service members, and the meaningful traditions that surround military funerals.
You’ll also hear about local efforts to recognize veterans, how communities can support flag retirements, and why passing down remembrance traditions to younger generations matters now more than ever.
Whether you’ve served, know someone who has, or simply want to understand how to show respect, this episode is a powerful reminder of the sacrifices made and the freedoms we enjoy because of them.
Takeaways:
Memorial Day honors those who died in wartime service
Veterans Day celebrates all who served—living or deceased
Military funeral honors must be requested in advance with discharge papers
You can volunteer or donate to support your local American Legion or VFW
In This Episode:
[1:30] Michael opens up about caregiver overwhelm
[3:30] The meaning of Memorial Day vs. Veterans Day
[6:15] Who places the flags at cemeteries?
[9:00] How younger generations can get involved
[12:00] Common misconceptions about veteran funeral benefits
[16:00] What’s required for military funeral honors
[20:00] Free veteran grave markers: what’s included
[23:00] Retiring flags with cremated veterans
Resources:
Flag Retirement Drop-Off Available at all Locations
Quote from Michael:
“We have freedom today because of those who sacrificed for us. Honoring them—on this day and every day—is the least we can do.” - Mike O'Connell
“Some veterans gave their lives. The rest gave their time, their health, their families. That deserves more than a passing thought.” - Mike O'Connell
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