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December 10, 2024 14 mins

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Welcome to the third episode of my Holiday Grief Series! In this episode, I explore the often-overlooked challenges of the holiday season. While this time of year is traditionally filled with joy and celebration, it can also bring about stress and anxiety that lurk beneath the surface.

Key Takeaways:

Understanding Holiday Stressors: I explore various sources of holiday stress, including family dynamics, social pressures, environmental factors, and financial concerns. Whether you're feeling isolated from loved ones or overwhelmed by family gatherings, you're not alone in your feelings.

Dysfunctional Thinking Patterns: Discover how specific thought patterns, such as "Shoulds," catastrophizing, and all-or-nothing thinking, can contribute to holiday stress. I'll unpack these patterns and provide insight into how to challenge and change them.

Coping Strategies: I share practical tips for managing holiday stress and anxiety. From setting realistic expectations and prioritizing self-care to the importance of sleep and exercise, we discuss how to find balance and peace amidst the chaos.

Creating New Traditions: The holidays are a time for reflection and growth. I encourage you to consider starting new traditions that resonate with your current feelings and allow for personal grace and authenticity.

Embracing Your Feelings: It’s okay to acknowledge that the holidays may not be as joyful as they once were. I talk about the importance of being honest with yourself and others about your emotions and allowing space for grief and healing.

Join me and discover ways to embrace this season with compassion and understanding. Remember, you have the power to shape your holiday experience, and it's perfectly okay to prioritize your well-being.

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