Embracing Vulnerability & Surrendering to Purpose ft. Ashley Speaks

In this empowering episode of Growing Pains, host Bria sits down with Ashley Speaks, an inspiring author, speaker, and entrepreneur, to discuss her personal journey of growth, healing, and aligning with purpose. From navigating identity crises to finding strength in vulnerability, Ashley opens up about her path to self-discovery and shares the impactful lessons she’s learned along the way. This episode dives deep into the importance of surrendering to God's will and walking in obedience, even when life doesn’t seem to make sense.

[00:00 - 05:00] Introduction & Journey to Purpose
Ashley reflects on her experiences as a speaker and author and how her personal journey led her to create impactful spaces for women. She discusses the importance of walking in purpose and understanding the deep impact that small, intentional actions can have on others.

[05:01 - 10:00] The Hidden Impact of Sharing Our Stories
Ashley shares a touching story about an older woman who was impacted by one of her books, highlighting the power of seemingly small moments of connection. She discusses how we often don’t know the true impact of our work and how lives are being changed through our obedience to God's call. This section encourages listeners to stay focused on their purpose even when the outcome is unseen.

[10:01 - 15:00] Aligning with God’s Purpose & Following Obedience
Ashley emphasizes the importance of aligning with God’s plan and how obedience unlocks the doors to our destiny. She discusses how faith is the currency of the Kingdom and how obedience to God's will is the key to unlocking blessings. Listeners are reminded that walking in purpose requires consistency and trust, even when we don’t see the full picture.

[15:01 - 20:00] The Power of Choosing Faith Over Fear
The conversation takes a turn toward the internal battles many of us face, including the temptation to give in to fear and negativity. Ashley speaks about her own struggle with suicidal thoughts during her teenage years, revealing how divine intervention saved her life. She shares how this pivotal moment shaped her purpose and dedication to helping others overcome their own struggles with identity and mental health.

[20:01 - 25:00] Creating Safe Spaces for Women: Girl Code Collective
Ashley discusses the founding of Girl Code Collective, a community she created to support women through vulnerability, authenticity, and growth. She shares how it all started with a powerful message she gave at a conference, which later turned into a safe space for women to connect, heal, and grow. The focus of Girl Code Collective is to inspire women to take off the mask and step into their full potential.

[25:01 - 30:00] Legacy & Giving Women Permission to Shine
Ashley reveals what legacy she wants to leave behind — a legacy that tells women they are enough, worthy, and capable of achieving everything God has called them to. She encourages listeners to step into their purpose, embrace their authentic selves, and not apologize for being great. She reminds us that we all have unique gifts that are meant to be shared with the world.

[30:01 - 35:00] The Importance of Gratitude & Living Authentically
The conversation concludes with a powerful reminder about the importance of gratitude. Ashley talks about the shift in her perspective after losing a close family member and how it has pushed her to make the most of every day. She urges listeners to embrace the small miracles of life and to never take for granted the things we so often overlook. Gratitude, she says, leads to abundance and a deeper connection with purpose.

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