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February 12, 2025 7 mins

When was the last time you found yourself saying “Yes” before you've even finished hearing the request... only to regret it later?

Many trauma survivors have mastered being the "Happy Helper" — always available, always agreeable — not realizing that their automatic Yes isn't just a habit, but a survival response.

In this episode, I introduce you to the Power Pause, your new secret weapon for making thoughtful choices instead of automatic responses.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • Why creating even a brief pause can help you step out of survival mode and make empowering choices
  • The three simple steps of the Power Pause technique that you can use in any situation
  • How to practice using this technique in a way that feels manageable and builds your confidence

If you're ready to stop drowning in commitments and start saying "Yes" on your own terms, this episode will give you a practical tool you can start using today.

When you finish listening, I'd love to hear your biggest takeaway from today’s episode. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, share it to your Instagram stories, and tag me, @dranniecampanile!

While you’re there, make sure you follow me on Instagram so you can see behind the scenes how I help trauma survivors heal and thrive and discover how you can, too.

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