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November 15, 2022 44 mins

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In this episode, I talk with Wesley Toma.   
The topics we cover are:

  • Sexuality is not sex, and sex is not sexuality.
  • The most important part of any relationship is consent.
  • Negotiation in kink, why you need to be better at it?
  • What the vanilla world can learn from the Kink community.

Wesley Toma is a Master Certified relationship and intimacy coach with over 10 years of experience coaching and advocating for the LGBTQIA+ and Kink communities, including Polyamory, Ethical non-monogamy, Kink, BDSM, and other non-traditional relationships. His goal in life is to help you navigate the sometimes scary world of relationships to become better partners, negotiators, and communicators.
 
As an androsexual, kinky male, Wesley fully connects with you to develop a safe space to support and help you improve all aspects of your relationships.

https://wesleytoma.com/

Welcome to Hear me out: my story, podcast. A podcast about being gay and of a certain age. Each week, we deliver the best stories of gay life after 50. Now here’s your host, Dean Croll.

https://hearmeoutmystory.buzzsprout.com/



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