June 25, 2024 • 11 mins
Hey Heartbreakers! We have another special episode for you guys! Today Elsa is going to be sharing a bunch of untold stories about her life off camera! She is going to tell us about her most awkward date story, the time a man asked to kiss her feet in a nightclub, and a little bit from her scandalous time in Paris!
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(00:01):
Straw Hut Media. Hey, Heartbreakers, So today I'm going to be telling
(00:23):
you my most awkward date, myfavorite travel memory, how my transition from
the adult industry was to mainstream,and how some of my friends and family
have really shown up for me.Here's a couple of questions that people have
(00:44):
asked most awkward date. Okay,this is not a date, but I
was actually thinking about this the otherday that this happened to me. I
was at Catch, not that that'srelevant, but just so you guys can
picture in your head, Matt Ketch, I'm with a group of friends.
I see this really attractive guy.I can't tell if he's with family or
friends really, but I was justlike, whatever, I'm gonna ask him,
(01:04):
you know, for his number.So I'm talking to him, I
get his number, and then hetells me that he actually knows who I
am, which is fine. BeforeI used to be like I don't want
anybody to know who I am,but I'm past that now. And I'm
chatting to him like I know himwell, and his parents are actually at
the table and they're like, oh, how do you know my son?
(01:25):
And I'm like, oh, yeah, like you know, I just kind
of brush it off. But thenI started talking to the parents because I'm
like, I'm gonna get good inwith the parents, so they really like
me and tell me why we goto leave. And this is why I
will never ever tag where I amwhile I'm there. I've learned since this
day. Fans came with spread eaglenude photos of me for me to sign.
(01:49):
Yes, I know, I know, while his parents and I'm trying
to be like bye, you knowwhatever, they literally print them out for
me to sign, and they calledme over and I'm like, okay,
I can't go to the fans andbe like shoo them away because that's rude.
But when I tell you, I'venever felt so embarrassed in my life.
So I just signed them. Butthey were so close and the parents
(02:12):
go, oh, so that's howmy son knows you. I didn't text
him after that. He was like, don't worry about it, like my
parents are chill, and I wasjust like, nah, I wanted to.
I don't know why, maybe aboutAnd that's what I was actively shooting
in the industry, by the way, So yeah, I'll never tag where
I'm at. And that was probablymy most awkward, like interaction slash.
(02:34):
It's not a date, but gettingto know someone. My friend, Holly,
best friend was there. She waslike, yeah, she's my biggest
supporter. She's like, that's her, of course. I'm like, Holly,
it's a spread eagle nude. Okay. My most recent favorite memory,
you know what. The other night, I'm at Wally's and I meet this
(02:55):
like older guy and he kept tellingme how pretty my feet we're and I
had open toe shoes on. Tellme why he popped my foot out of
my shoe and like deep throated myfoot. This is not a lie,
Okay, ask my friends. Deepthroated my foot in front of everybody at
Wally's and like had slobber on it. And I was so drunk that I
(03:17):
was like, I don't know howto like get out of this situation.
And then I saw him again onFriday, and I was like, we
gotta get away from the foot guy. He's gonna deep throat my foot again.
Real story. Ask my friend Gigi. She was there. We did
hang out with him for the restof the night. I'm not gonna lie.
Fun guy, Oh my god,Yeah no, he's a fun guy.
But I blocked him. Should Istare a little bit more of the
(03:39):
story. We get in the carwith him. Okay, he does a
bump of cocaine and just takes offwith us in the car and I'm like,
pull over right now, this isnot safe. Yeah, don't over
drink out walies. Okay. Whatwas a transition away from the adult industry?
Like? You know, for me, it was actually kind of slow.
(04:02):
You guys all know why I leftthe industry. We don't need to
keep talking about it. But Ileft kind of like in a traumatic not
traumatic, but like in a veryhurt state. Not how I prepared myself
to leave the industry. I thought, I wish it's going to retire and
it would be like positive. Butit was like a blessing in disguise really
because I kind of just stayed lowkey for a year. I was just
(04:24):
like dating around and like enjoying mylife, not really sure where I wanted
to go. And then you know, I just was like, well,
I'm bored. I might as welljust try something different that's not adult.
That's when I did the Harper's Bizarrecover in the Glamour one, and I
never really expected it for me.I feel like, if you want to
(04:45):
transition out of adult you have tohave a good assistant and a great lawyer.
This is no shade, you knowwhat I mean to like agencies or
managers, but if you're already cominginto a situation with a fan base,
managers are great to build you whenyou have no fan base, but you
don't need someone guiding you with somethingthat you've already had yourself. I just
(05:06):
feel like you guys really need anassistant and a great lawyer, want to
keep you out of trouble too,to make sure that you're looking at contracts
in three year system, to reallyschedule things, and also almost kind of
be your manager in a way.They're going to have mainly all your conversations
for you. My transition from adultinto mainstream was I'm very thankful for it.
(05:28):
I mean, I'm still in mainstreamtoday, and I always kept my
brand almost in a way, veryclean and classy. And your social media
is very important even though you're inadult work. Social media companies and brands
really pay they do. That's whatthey pay attention to. Fully. They
don't want to have somebody on theirbrand that very public is also still uploading
(05:53):
some type of pornography or adult work. I feel like it needs to stay
on porn hub and stay away fromsocial media. And I'm very thankful that
I've done that because brands have noproblem actually working with me, and they
say that it's strictly because I've keptmy social media so like just my day
in the life and not so pornographic. If you really really want to leave
(06:16):
the industry, that's really what youhave to do. Agents are great in
a way. There's a difference betweenagents and managers. Agents bring you brands
and deals. Managers guide you andguide your brand. That's like the difference.
I feel like agents are great becauseyou don't know what companies you want
to go to, you don't knowthe connection to them, you don't know
how to reach out to them,and they bring it to you and it's
(06:39):
a yes or no whether you wantto do it or not. Find an
agent. Also, I'm sorry,but like it's expensive. Finding a great
PR person will really help you thisa lot of times they almost act as
agents because and managers in a waybecause they can bring you brand deals and
stuff like that. But finding agreat PR person that really backs you up,
that can get you on red carpets, that can get you at like
(07:01):
premieres of things that can kind ofturn your brand around publicly. Is very
important, very very important. They'rejust really expensive. They run like four
thousand dollars sometimes even higher a monthfor a really good one. It's an
investment, but it will probably belike your best decision ever. Let's see,
oh this is another good one.What is your favorite story about someone
(07:24):
who really showed up for you,family, friends, or partners. You
know, I have a great littlesister. She shows up for me in
every single way. When I wasfreezing my eggs, I had to go
into two emergency surgeries from a youknow, from complications, my sister stayed
with me the whole time for amonth. I mean, my sister would
(07:46):
come to my side at any point. She is my best friend, like,
I absolutely love her. Another timethat someone's really showed up for me
was I'm not gonna lie, guys. There was a point in my life
where I was so depressed. Idon't know how I got myself that depressed,
and I actually was so like underweightand malnourished. One of my friends
actually flew to me because she knowsthat I struggled to ask for help and
(08:09):
she literally for two weeks, likejust would not let me fall down again.
Like I really I loved my onefriend so much, like she's done
so much for me, and sheliterally stayed by my side for two weeks.
Anytime I was crying, anytime Iwas upset not eating, she sat
with me. She made me eat. She was like my number one supporter.
(08:30):
Like, you got to have yourfriends with you, and don't be
afraid to ask your friends for help. That's what they're there for. One
of these is what's your best travelmemory or story. Okay, guys,
don't judge me. This, thisis the past, this is old me.
But I was married to this guyand I tried to like break up
with him and he wasn't listening.And I met another guy and I flew
(08:52):
to Paris and I told him thatI was with my family and like because
we had broken up, I waslike, I just need to go see
my family. But what I reallydid was have him dropped me off at
the airport to go see another guy, and I just posted next to the
Eiffel Power like like this, andhe freaked out. But you know what,
the guy that I ended up withwas one of my most favorite partners
(09:16):
and it was a great experience.It was my first time in Paris.
It was super romantic. I couldhave totally handled it differently, but he
was cheating on me the whole time, so I just did what he did
to me. No shame. Itwas with the weekend that we were supposed
to get our wedding vows renewed.That's why I had that weekend off and
went then. But it is whatit is. I'm going to ask myself
(09:37):
for forgiveness for that. That's mybest travel memory. It really is one
of my top vacation. Second wouldbe when I my first travel by myself
completely alone. I went to Dubai. I really went on like a zen
type of you know, journey,and it did wonders for me. I
(10:00):
was scared to like fight my likedemons in me and like sit there and
think about what I'm doing wrong inlife, and I finally just like sat
there and processed it all and itreally helped me. It really helped me
actually pick who my friends were inmy life and really sit down and make
like pros and cons lists. Literally. So those are my two favorites.
(10:20):
Absolutely I would remarry again. Icannot wait for my fourth husband. I
know that sounds crazy, but Imean I love love and I love being
married. I don't want to dateto just date. I want a date
to be married. I tell themthat from like the first date ever,
Like, if we choose to bewith each other, it's to be married.
I don't know if that's just mylike religious background. I like that
(10:43):
feeling of like true commitment. Theonly thing is, it's just hard to
get divorced when the other person doesn'twant to, and the longer you stay
with them, the harder it is. So preing up, pre and up
prenup. All right, heartbreakers,thanks for listening, See you guys next
time. The so
Straw Hut Media. Hey, Heartbreakers, So today I'm going to be telling
(00:23):
you my most awkward date, myfavorite travel memory, how my transition from
the adult industry was to mainstream,and how some of my friends and family
have really shown up for me.Here's a couple of questions that people have
(00:44):
asked most awkward date. Okay,this is not a date, but I
was actually thinking about this the otherday that this happened to me. I
was at Catch, not that that'srelevant, but just so you guys can
picture in your head, Matt Ketch, I'm with a group of friends.
I see this really attractive guy.I can't tell if he's with family or
friends really, but I was justlike, whatever, I'm gonna ask him,
(01:04):
you know, for his number.So I'm talking to him, I
get his number, and then hetells me that he actually knows who I
am, which is fine. BeforeI used to be like I don't want
anybody to know who I am,but I'm past that now. And I'm
chatting to him like I know himwell, and his parents are actually at
the table and they're like, oh, how do you know my son?
(01:25):
And I'm like, oh, yeah, like you know, I just kind
of brush it off. But thenI started talking to the parents because I'm
like, I'm gonna get good inwith the parents, so they really like
me and tell me why we goto leave. And this is why I
will never ever tag where I amwhile I'm there. I've learned since this
day. Fans came with spread eaglenude photos of me for me to sign.
(01:49):
Yes, I know, I know, while his parents and I'm trying
to be like bye, you knowwhatever, they literally print them out for
me to sign, and they calledme over and I'm like, okay,
I can't go to the fans andbe like shoo them away because that's rude.
But when I tell you, I'venever felt so embarrassed in my life.
So I just signed them. Butthey were so close and the parents
(02:12):
go, oh, so that's howmy son knows you. I didn't text
him after that. He was like, don't worry about it, like my
parents are chill, and I wasjust like, nah, I wanted to.
I don't know why, maybe aboutAnd that's what I was actively shooting
in the industry, by the way, So yeah, I'll never tag where
I'm at. And that was probablymy most awkward, like interaction slash.
(02:34):
It's not a date, but gettingto know someone. My friend, Holly,
best friend was there. She waslike, yeah, she's my biggest
supporter. She's like, that's her, of course. I'm like, Holly,
it's a spread eagle nude. Okay. My most recent favorite memory,
you know what. The other night, I'm at Wally's and I meet this
(02:55):
like older guy and he kept tellingme how pretty my feet we're and I
had open toe shoes on. Tellme why he popped my foot out of
my shoe and like deep throated myfoot. This is not a lie,
Okay, ask my friends. Deepthroated my foot in front of everybody at
Wally's and like had slobber on it. And I was so drunk that I
(03:17):
was like, I don't know howto like get out of this situation.
And then I saw him again onFriday, and I was like, we
gotta get away from the foot guy. He's gonna deep throat my foot again.
Real story. Ask my friend Gigi. She was there. We did
hang out with him for the restof the night. I'm not gonna lie.
Fun guy, Oh my god,Yeah no, he's a fun guy.
But I blocked him. Should Istare a little bit more of the
(03:39):
story. We get in the carwith him. Okay, he does a
bump of cocaine and just takes offwith us in the car and I'm like,
pull over right now, this isnot safe. Yeah, don't over
drink out walies. Okay. Whatwas a transition away from the adult industry?
Like? You know, for me, it was actually kind of slow.
(04:02):
You guys all know why I leftthe industry. We don't need to
keep talking about it. But Ileft kind of like in a traumatic not
traumatic, but like in a veryhurt state. Not how I prepared myself
to leave the industry. I thought, I wish it's going to retire and
it would be like positive. Butit was like a blessing in disguise really
because I kind of just stayed lowkey for a year. I was just
(04:24):
like dating around and like enjoying mylife, not really sure where I wanted
to go. And then you know, I just was like, well,
I'm bored. I might as welljust try something different that's not adult.
That's when I did the Harper's Bizarrecover in the Glamour one, and I
never really expected it for me.I feel like, if you want to
(04:45):
transition out of adult you have tohave a good assistant and a great lawyer.
This is no shade, you knowwhat I mean to like agencies or
managers, but if you're already cominginto a situation with a fan base,
managers are great to build you whenyou have no fan base, but you
don't need someone guiding you with somethingthat you've already had yourself. I just
(05:06):
feel like you guys really need anassistant and a great lawyer, want to
keep you out of trouble too,to make sure that you're looking at contracts
in three year system, to reallyschedule things, and also almost kind of
be your manager in a way.They're going to have mainly all your conversations
for you. My transition from adultinto mainstream was I'm very thankful for it.
(05:28):
I mean, I'm still in mainstreamtoday, and I always kept my
brand almost in a way, veryclean and classy. And your social media
is very important even though you're inadult work. Social media companies and brands
really pay they do. That's whatthey pay attention to. Fully. They
don't want to have somebody on theirbrand that very public is also still uploading
(05:53):
some type of pornography or adult work. I feel like it needs to stay
on porn hub and stay away fromsocial media. And I'm very thankful that
I've done that because brands have noproblem actually working with me, and they
say that it's strictly because I've keptmy social media so like just my day
in the life and not so pornographic. If you really really want to leave
(06:16):
the industry, that's really what youhave to do. Agents are great in
a way. There's a difference betweenagents and managers. Agents bring you brands
and deals. Managers guide you andguide your brand. That's like the difference.
I feel like agents are great becauseyou don't know what companies you want
to go to, you don't knowthe connection to them, you don't know
how to reach out to them,and they bring it to you and it's
(06:39):
a yes or no whether you wantto do it or not. Find an
agent. Also, I'm sorry,but like it's expensive. Finding a great
PR person will really help you thisa lot of times they almost act as
agents because and managers in a waybecause they can bring you brand deals and
stuff like that. But finding agreat PR person that really backs you up,
that can get you on red carpets, that can get you at like
(07:01):
premieres of things that can kind ofturn your brand around publicly. Is very
important, very very important. They'rejust really expensive. They run like four
thousand dollars sometimes even higher a monthfor a really good one. It's an
investment, but it will probably belike your best decision ever. Let's see,
oh this is another good one.What is your favorite story about someone
(07:24):
who really showed up for you,family, friends, or partners. You
know, I have a great littlesister. She shows up for me in
every single way. When I wasfreezing my eggs, I had to go
into two emergency surgeries from a youknow, from complications, my sister stayed
with me the whole time for amonth. I mean, my sister would
(07:46):
come to my side at any point. She is my best friend, like,
I absolutely love her. Another timethat someone's really showed up for me
was I'm not gonna lie, guys. There was a point in my life
where I was so depressed. Idon't know how I got myself that depressed,
and I actually was so like underweightand malnourished. One of my friends
actually flew to me because she knowsthat I struggled to ask for help and
(08:09):
she literally for two weeks, likejust would not let me fall down again.
Like I really I loved my onefriend so much, like she's done
so much for me, and sheliterally stayed by my side for two weeks.
Anytime I was crying, anytime Iwas upset not eating, she sat
with me. She made me eat. She was like my number one supporter.
(08:30):
Like, you got to have yourfriends with you, and don't be
afraid to ask your friends for help. That's what they're there for. One
of these is what's your best travelmemory or story. Okay, guys,
don't judge me. This, thisis the past, this is old me.
But I was married to this guyand I tried to like break up
with him and he wasn't listening.And I met another guy and I flew
(08:52):
to Paris and I told him thatI was with my family and like because
we had broken up, I waslike, I just need to go see
my family. But what I reallydid was have him dropped me off at
the airport to go see another guy, and I just posted next to the
Eiffel Power like like this, andhe freaked out. But you know what,
the guy that I ended up withwas one of my most favorite partners
(09:16):
and it was a great experience.It was my first time in Paris.
It was super romantic. I couldhave totally handled it differently, but he
was cheating on me the whole time, so I just did what he did
to me. No shame. Itwas with the weekend that we were supposed
to get our wedding vows renewed.That's why I had that weekend off and
went then. But it is whatit is. I'm going to ask myself
(09:37):
for forgiveness for that. That's mybest travel memory. It really is one
of my top vacation. Second wouldbe when I my first travel by myself
completely alone. I went to Dubai. I really went on like a zen
type of you know, journey,and it did wonders for me. I
(10:00):
was scared to like fight my likedemons in me and like sit there and
think about what I'm doing wrong inlife, and I finally just like sat
there and processed it all and itreally helped me. It really helped me
actually pick who my friends were inmy life and really sit down and make
like pros and cons lists. Literally. So those are my two favorites.
(10:20):
Absolutely I would remarry again. Icannot wait for my fourth husband. I
know that sounds crazy, but Imean I love love and I love being
married. I don't want to dateto just date. I want a date
to be married. I tell themthat from like the first date ever,
Like, if we choose to bewith each other, it's to be married.
I don't know if that's just mylike religious background. I like that
(10:43):
feeling of like true commitment. Theonly thing is, it's just hard to
get divorced when the other person doesn'twant to, and the longer you stay
with them, the harder it is. So preing up, pre and up
prenup. All right, heartbreakers,thanks for listening, See you guys next
time. The so
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