August 6, 2024 • 17 mins
Hey Heartbreakers it’s Elsa today, but she has the hottest of topics and the craziest of stories for you lovely listeners. First things first, Elsa talks about possibly getting dumped, how Rolling Stone gave Love Island the title of “best reality TV show”, and how a girl can deal with her s*x goblin tendencies.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Straw Hot Media.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hey, Heartbreakers, So I'm here doing another solo episode. Of course.
Actually I love having guests, but I love doing the
solo episodes because I can just ramble and yeah, and
then you guys are just forced to listen. Yeah, I'm
really excited to go over the hot topics with you.
I'm really excited to go over of course, the fan
(00:40):
questions are always very interesting, So let's get into it.
Maybe I would just update you guys a little bit
on my life. I have been traveling a little bit.
You guys know that I love to travel, but unfortunately
I've been traveling back and forth to help my family
with a family member that's not doing very well. So
(01:00):
that's been taking up a lot of my time. And
then after that, I try to always you know, my
family's in Ohio, so I try to stop in to
New York after because it's only an hour flight. I'm
considering moving back. Not moving back, I'm considering getting just
like a small little studio, one bedroom and being by coastal. Finally,
I've been saying that for like ten years now, and
(01:21):
I'm finally gonna do it. I really think I am
Let me think any work stuff h No, no work stuff.
I've honestly just been cleaning up. It feels like the
last couple of months messes from people that I previously
multiple people that I had working for me, and I
feel like I'm just constantly cleaning up still what they
(01:43):
didn't do right, which is fine. Make sure you, like,
really vet people before you hire them. Oh my god.
On here Parker wants me to talk about new dates.
I got dumped. I think I got dumped, guys. That's
a real thing. Steph. Would you say that I was dumped?
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Oh, then I guess I wasn't dumped. I don't know
that makes it goes no, yeah, no, I feel like
I might have been dumped or this person was like
I can't handle you anymore. So that's my update on guys.
I wish me and him worked out. I love him
so much and I know he listens. So just know
you know who you are. I love you.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Love Bomby like the like the last episode, don't say
that's something does?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
What the fuck is this piece of ship?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
So there's a couple of hot topics. Love Island us
A because I know that there is variations. I think
there's like an English one. You know, personally, I have
not seen Love Island, but I know that it's like
it's the most trendious reality show next to like Love
is Blind. And I'm very curious on why people one
(03:11):
love dating shows so much, Like I mean, I'm guilty
of it. I will scroll on Netflix all the platforms
and try to find the next like dating one too
hot to handle Love is Blind? Like we said, what
are the other ones? Have you guys ever watched Married
at First Sight? That one's good. That one's actually my favorite.
(03:31):
They just need to come out with a new season.
But anyways, Love Island, USA has become the perfect storm
of love, sex, and reality TV. Rolling Stone magazine has
just called Love Island one of the best reality TV shows. Okay,
rolling Stone, you better chill. According to Nelson, Love Island
has been the most stream reality show across all platforms.
(03:53):
In an interview with the executive producer Simon Thompson, Simon
gave the breakdown of what the takeaway from the new
season is, saying, we want people to be sex positive,
we want them to have fun. The judgment is can
you do that without hurting someone? We're not asking will
they fall in love we're seeing will they hurt each
(04:15):
other once they've hooked up? And I think that has
been the test that they keep running into this year
in a way that I've never seen. I mean, will
someone care after you? Will they hurt you after you
hook up with them? You're trying to figure that out
on a reality show. You don't need a reality show
to tell you that the answer is yes. As soon
as you give it up to them, they're gonna be
(04:36):
a piece of shit. Like for real, I'm just projecting
right now. The producers one hundred percent are being me
because they know that these people are very like they
want to be loved so bad they when you do
these casting things, they pick the person that wants to
love the most, and they're like, hah, that person will
spill out their feelings on reality TV and just give
(04:59):
it there all. There's been several tiktoks of almost full
episodes and videos of boyfriends casually watching while standing in
the living room. You know what I don't get is
when boyfriends act like they don't like reality TV and
then they secretly watch, like oh babe, come on, you
put that on again, and they're glued to the TV.
(05:20):
It really is entertaining seeing people fight. I'm loving that
boyfriends are a little bit more on board with reality
TV because that like sports shit that they want to
watch twenty four to seven is not it. It's not it. Okay,
let's see what makes Love Island different from traditional dating
TV shows. Would you go on any of these shows?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
You know?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
I've been offered so many times I can't even count
beyond reality TV shows, and I can't do it. I
think I freeze up. And then at the same time,
like when I really like someone, I like it to
be private and also a very very picky and the
people that they pick to beyond these shows would never
be my type. Like I would never date another influencer.
(06:04):
I never date somebody that. Yeah, I would never date
anybody on these reality shows. They're typically like close to
the same age I like to do at least ten
years older, at least I try. I wouldn't do it,
but I do love the trend of the dating shows.
It's entertaining. People really want love right now, that's all
(06:25):
people want. It might be just the generation, but everybody
is obsessed with dating, but some reason not dating like properly.
We'll figure that out later. In the next couple of years.
What that's from once they do their research on it?
All right, So next topic is gen zs have been
taking a val of celibacy and going quote boy girl sober,
(06:49):
I like that, boy girl sober, I'm boy girl sober
right now, and even girl girls sober. Okay. Despite seeing
a spike in sex positive feminine recently, there has been
a huge spike in celibacy. There has been so much
popularity that the dating at Bumble recently tried and failed
(07:10):
to poke fun at the trend. Boy sobert is a
term coined by a twenty six year old TikToker named
Hope to describe her celibacy pledge that was sparked after
realizing a man she was obsessed with quite literally did
not care if she lived or died. Wow, that was
strong words their girlfriend. The rules are the following. No
(07:33):
dating apps, no situationships, no romantic or sexual intimacy. How
might this help people, guys? I have a confession. I
went like a long time being celibate, and I made
it seem like I was like having sex with people
because I wanted, like, I didn't want people's opinion on
me being celibate one coming from like the sex industry.
(07:54):
People they just can't believe that I would be celibate,
and I loved it, and I was thinking recently I
might go back one. I focused so hard on work
that it I had no distraction. And that's really like
what I want to go back to is like when
I'm dating someone or even in a situationship, when things
aren't going right, it consumes my brain functions so much,
(08:16):
like I'll think about it for weeks all day long,
Like even just like the slightest disagreement will bother me,
and I just want to fix it with the person
and I can't have that. It distracts from like my work,
it distracts from my family. Yeah, I mean I was
celibate from a long time. I gave it up to
somebody that I really liked and he just told me
(08:40):
he doesn't want to deal with me anymore, like three
days ago.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
You think mostly men women health do you think it
fit it's mostly men or mostly women or what do you.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
I think it's mostly women that are celibate. Like men
don't know how to be celibate. They don't even care,
They have no interest in being celibate, although I met
this guy a couple of days ago and he was like,
I've been celibate for a little bit, and I was like, what,
I think it was just listening to my podcast and
wanted to tell me that so I would have sex
with him, and you know, but maybe he was really
(09:11):
being celibate. I liked it. I really want to go
back to it. Like I said, while I was celibate,
I still was seeing guys. I still was on dating sites.
I guess, like the full blown celibacy I haven't really done.
But when it comes to like sexual intimacy, there was zero,
Like I don't even think I was kissing guys. But
(09:31):
I did have guys like taking me out on dates,
like if you don't give them sex, they'll go harder
for you. I'm telling you, Like the men that were
taking me out on dates and I'd be like, you know,
I'm not having sex with you, like and they'd be like,
no problem, no problem. It would go on for weeks
and months that these men would take me out like
every week, every two weeks, trying to win me over
(09:54):
for sex obviously, and I loved it. They fought so
hard for me, Like I said, I want to go
back to it, and I'm very picky now. But one
thing that celibacy did for me is like I'm not
interested in having multiple partners. Like it's hard for me
now coming out of it, Like I only want to
have sex with one person. I'm not interested in hooking
(10:15):
up with multiple people. It does not cross my mind
until that doesn't work out with that one person, whether
it's a situationship or even if I just hook up
with them one time, like I need to have a
conversation with them after, like are we gonna continue to
hook up? Because I need to, like stop this now.
I don't want to have multiple partners right now in
my life. I really really don't. I think everybody should
(10:38):
at least be in celibate for three months to six
months if you're single, and just tell guys Like I
was even sleeping next to guys naked and they would try,
but I'd just be like, no, you can't touch me,
and then they get really discouraged, and then they would
try even harder. One guy was even trying to like
(11:00):
give oral and I crushed him with his face with
my legs and I was like, didn't I tell you
to not do that. That's a real story.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
Okay, my former cheating ex husband had a child that
(11:32):
he didn't tell me about until now. What should I do? About?
Twelve years ago, I was married and had two children
with my ex husband. After giving birth to our second child,
I found out that he was cheating on me during
my whole pregnancy. After I found out, I left him
and moved far away. Recently, I was back in our
hometown visiting my family. When I was out in town,
(11:52):
I saw a boy there who looked exactly like my
ex husband and our son. We are still in contact
with our children, and I asked him about it. He
admitted that he had a child with his mistress, but
didn't have anything to do with them, as he didn't
want her to keep it. I don't know how to
process this information, and I feel so sick that he
had another child while I was pregnant. How do I
(12:14):
move on?
Speaker 3 (12:14):
Oh oooh, I told her I didn't want her to
keep it, but I had no problem just busting a
nut raw and thinking that nothing was going to come
from it while I'm married.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
That sounds like a narcissist. That's really sad, you know,
that's my biggest fear in life. It actually consumes a
lot of Like my relationship downfall is I am very
obsessed with a guy getting somebody else pregnant behind my back.
I'm trying to think, did it happen, Oh, yes, it
did happen to me in very early stages of like dating,
(12:48):
and it upset me so much. That's like you need therapy.
I mean, the only thing that really fixes that is
like therapy and just knowing that you didn't do anything wrong.
That's such a way to break someone's heart. Like, that's
just disgusting behavior. One, it's disrespectful to your children. It's
just disrespectful to everybody. It's disrespectful to the woman that
(13:08):
you got pregnant behind your wife's back, Like you're doing
nothing but maybe and you yourself look bad, Like nobody
likes you now. Nobody wants to deal with your kids.
Your love child doesn't want to deal with you, your
mistress doesn't want to deal with you, like goodbye. Everybody
hates you now. That's really how I feel. I mean,
I think it's disgusting behavior. I can't stand that. One
time I was scrolling up on Instagram and one of
(13:30):
my ex'es like best friends that he would go out
with all the time. He'd be like, no, babe, we're
not cheating. We're not cheating on our girls, like we
love you. Then I see on Instagram that the guy
got another girl pregnant behind his already pregnant wife's back
and paid her one hundred thousand dollars to go get
an abortion, and of course the girl plasters it all
(13:51):
over social media and it's just disgusting, like to think that, Nope,
you're not going to be outed. Of course, the mistress says,
always like want their time to shine a little bit,
and they'll they'll just embarrass the wife. They want that
position as the wife, and it's sad and a lot
of women will do that just to trap them in.
(14:13):
So you got to be careful, like they really want
They really think that having a kid with someone will
make them leave their wife when it's not going to happen.
They want to be with the wife, they really do.
You never heard that the guys will never leave their wife.
They will never leave them, and if they do, it's
because the wife actually left them, not him. It's sick.
I don't like it me either. Makes my stomach hurt.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
I need help with my boyfriend because when I ovulate,
I become a sex goblin and he's weeded out by it. Okay, I,
twenty three female, genuinely don't want to have sex, and
it's rare that I get turned on. My boyfriend twenty seven,
thankfully has rather low sex drive and generally isn't a
problem when I'm ovulating. I want to have sex all
(14:57):
day and night, and I think about it to the
point that I struggle at work. I've tried to sext
with my boyfriend while we're both at work, but he
was very weirded out by it and politely told me
to wait. It's getting to the point where he's confused
and weirded out by the hot and cold nature of
my sex drive, and I don't want to lose him.
But I also need a guy that is ready to
(15:18):
go for those three days.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yes, for those three days a month.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
What do I do?
Speaker 4 (15:25):
Well?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Obviously that's like normal to be like overly horny while
you're ovulating, But the hot and cold nature, I think
it scares men to be like up and down like that,
because one most men don't know how to keep track
of a calendar, you know, so they're like, oh, wait,
is she just playing with me now? Is she being serious?
(15:47):
Is this the time that she ovulates? I don't understand
what ovulation is. I don't understand when it happens. I
think that the hot and cold can turn them off.
Speaker 5 (15:57):
Got to get that app start us, that's what guess.
You had a guest here who told me about it, and.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
You didn't know what they There's so many apps. I
have flow Flow. I like flow better. But you know,
that's normal to be super horny when you're ovulating, because
obviously that's the time that you're supposed to be making
a baby. But I don't blame your boyfriend, no offense.
I'm going to be on his side, and you know,
I don't like being on the boyfriend's side, but maybe
(16:26):
just coming onto him in more of a sensual, a
romantic type of way, Like maybe you need to whine
and dine in your boyfriend. Sometimes you got to do
that for guys, Like maybe take him out and like
give him a massage and like do something nice for
him to like really get him worked up instead of
just being like, did what she say a goblin? Is
that what she said a sex goblin, like, instead of
(16:49):
being a sex goblin, maybe just slow, like slowly, like,
hey baby, I think treat him like a female and
see how it works. I think that I'd actually work
out really good for you if you did it like that.
All right, Heartbreakers. That was another one of my solo episodes.
Stay tuned. Let me know if you guys have any
(17:10):
more questions, any hot topics you want to talk about,
any personal issues you're going through. I'm here, I want
to know, I want to answer. Bye.
Straw Hot Media.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hey, Heartbreakers, So I'm here doing another solo episode. Of course.
Actually I love having guests, but I love doing the
solo episodes because I can just ramble and yeah, and
then you guys are just forced to listen. Yeah, I'm
really excited to go over the hot topics with you.
I'm really excited to go over of course, the fan
(00:40):
questions are always very interesting, So let's get into it.
Maybe I would just update you guys a little bit
on my life. I have been traveling a little bit.
You guys know that I love to travel, but unfortunately
I've been traveling back and forth to help my family
with a family member that's not doing very well. So
(01:00):
that's been taking up a lot of my time. And
then after that, I try to always you know, my
family's in Ohio, so I try to stop in to
New York after because it's only an hour flight. I'm
considering moving back. Not moving back, I'm considering getting just
like a small little studio, one bedroom and being by coastal. Finally,
I've been saying that for like ten years now, and
(01:21):
I'm finally gonna do it. I really think I am
Let me think any work stuff h No, no work stuff.
I've honestly just been cleaning up. It feels like the
last couple of months messes from people that I previously
multiple people that I had working for me, and I
feel like I'm just constantly cleaning up still what they
(01:43):
didn't do right, which is fine. Make sure you, like,
really vet people before you hire them. Oh my god.
On here Parker wants me to talk about new dates.
I got dumped. I think I got dumped, guys. That's
a real thing. Steph. Would you say that I was dumped?
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Oh, then I guess I wasn't dumped. I don't know
that makes it goes no, yeah, no, I feel like
I might have been dumped or this person was like
I can't handle you anymore. So that's my update on guys.
I wish me and him worked out. I love him
so much and I know he listens. So just know
you know who you are. I love you.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Love Bomby like the like the last episode, don't say
that's something does?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
What the fuck is this piece of ship?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
So there's a couple of hot topics. Love Island us
A because I know that there is variations. I think
there's like an English one. You know, personally, I have
not seen Love Island, but I know that it's like
it's the most trendious reality show next to like Love
is Blind. And I'm very curious on why people one
(03:11):
love dating shows so much, Like I mean, I'm guilty
of it. I will scroll on Netflix all the platforms
and try to find the next like dating one too
hot to handle Love is Blind? Like we said, what
are the other ones? Have you guys ever watched Married
at First Sight? That one's good. That one's actually my favorite.
(03:31):
They just need to come out with a new season.
But anyways, Love Island, USA has become the perfect storm
of love, sex, and reality TV. Rolling Stone magazine has
just called Love Island one of the best reality TV shows. Okay,
rolling Stone, you better chill. According to Nelson, Love Island
has been the most stream reality show across all platforms.
(03:53):
In an interview with the executive producer Simon Thompson, Simon
gave the breakdown of what the takeaway from the new
season is, saying, we want people to be sex positive,
we want them to have fun. The judgment is can
you do that without hurting someone? We're not asking will
they fall in love we're seeing will they hurt each
(04:15):
other once they've hooked up? And I think that has
been the test that they keep running into this year
in a way that I've never seen. I mean, will
someone care after you? Will they hurt you after you
hook up with them? You're trying to figure that out
on a reality show. You don't need a reality show
to tell you that the answer is yes. As soon
as you give it up to them, they're gonna be
(04:36):
a piece of shit. Like for real, I'm just projecting
right now. The producers one hundred percent are being me
because they know that these people are very like they
want to be loved so bad they when you do
these casting things, they pick the person that wants to
love the most, and they're like, hah, that person will
spill out their feelings on reality TV and just give
(04:59):
it there all. There's been several tiktoks of almost full
episodes and videos of boyfriends casually watching while standing in
the living room. You know what I don't get is
when boyfriends act like they don't like reality TV and
then they secretly watch, like oh babe, come on, you
put that on again, and they're glued to the TV.
(05:20):
It really is entertaining seeing people fight. I'm loving that
boyfriends are a little bit more on board with reality
TV because that like sports shit that they want to
watch twenty four to seven is not it. It's not it. Okay,
let's see what makes Love Island different from traditional dating
TV shows. Would you go on any of these shows?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
You know?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
I've been offered so many times I can't even count
beyond reality TV shows, and I can't do it. I
think I freeze up. And then at the same time,
like when I really like someone, I like it to
be private and also a very very picky and the
people that they pick to beyond these shows would never
be my type. Like I would never date another influencer.
(06:04):
I never date somebody that. Yeah, I would never date
anybody on these reality shows. They're typically like close to
the same age I like to do at least ten
years older, at least I try. I wouldn't do it,
but I do love the trend of the dating shows.
It's entertaining. People really want love right now, that's all
(06:25):
people want. It might be just the generation, but everybody
is obsessed with dating, but some reason not dating like properly.
We'll figure that out later. In the next couple of years.
What that's from once they do their research on it?
All right, So next topic is gen zs have been
taking a val of celibacy and going quote boy girl sober,
(06:49):
I like that, boy girl sober, I'm boy girl sober
right now, and even girl girls sober. Okay. Despite seeing
a spike in sex positive feminine recently, there has been
a huge spike in celibacy. There has been so much
popularity that the dating at Bumble recently tried and failed
(07:10):
to poke fun at the trend. Boy sobert is a
term coined by a twenty six year old TikToker named
Hope to describe her celibacy pledge that was sparked after
realizing a man she was obsessed with quite literally did
not care if she lived or died. Wow, that was
strong words their girlfriend. The rules are the following. No
(07:33):
dating apps, no situationships, no romantic or sexual intimacy. How
might this help people, guys? I have a confession. I
went like a long time being celibate, and I made
it seem like I was like having sex with people
because I wanted, like, I didn't want people's opinion on
me being celibate one coming from like the sex industry.
(07:54):
People they just can't believe that I would be celibate,
and I loved it, and I was thinking recently I
might go back one. I focused so hard on work
that it I had no distraction. And that's really like
what I want to go back to is like when
I'm dating someone or even in a situationship, when things
aren't going right, it consumes my brain functions so much,
(08:16):
like I'll think about it for weeks all day long,
Like even just like the slightest disagreement will bother me,
and I just want to fix it with the person
and I can't have that. It distracts from like my work,
it distracts from my family. Yeah, I mean I was
celibate from a long time. I gave it up to
somebody that I really liked and he just told me
(08:40):
he doesn't want to deal with me anymore, like three
days ago.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
You think mostly men women health do you think it
fit it's mostly men or mostly women or what do you.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
I think it's mostly women that are celibate. Like men
don't know how to be celibate. They don't even care,
They have no interest in being celibate, although I met
this guy a couple of days ago and he was like,
I've been celibate for a little bit, and I was like, what,
I think it was just listening to my podcast and
wanted to tell me that so I would have sex
with him, and you know, but maybe he was really
(09:11):
being celibate. I liked it. I really want to go
back to it. Like I said, while I was celibate,
I still was seeing guys. I still was on dating sites.
I guess, like the full blown celibacy I haven't really done.
But when it comes to like sexual intimacy, there was zero,
Like I don't even think I was kissing guys. But
(09:31):
I did have guys like taking me out on dates,
like if you don't give them sex, they'll go harder
for you. I'm telling you, Like the men that were
taking me out on dates and I'd be like, you know,
I'm not having sex with you, like and they'd be like,
no problem, no problem. It would go on for weeks
and months that these men would take me out like
every week, every two weeks, trying to win me over
(09:54):
for sex obviously, and I loved it. They fought so
hard for me, Like I said, I want to go
back to it, and I'm very picky now. But one
thing that celibacy did for me is like I'm not
interested in having multiple partners. Like it's hard for me
now coming out of it, Like I only want to
have sex with one person. I'm not interested in hooking
(10:15):
up with multiple people. It does not cross my mind
until that doesn't work out with that one person, whether
it's a situationship or even if I just hook up
with them one time, like I need to have a
conversation with them after, like are we gonna continue to
hook up? Because I need to, like stop this now.
I don't want to have multiple partners right now in
my life. I really really don't. I think everybody should
(10:38):
at least be in celibate for three months to six
months if you're single, and just tell guys Like I
was even sleeping next to guys naked and they would try,
but I'd just be like, no, you can't touch me,
and then they get really discouraged, and then they would
try even harder. One guy was even trying to like
(11:00):
give oral and I crushed him with his face with
my legs and I was like, didn't I tell you
to not do that. That's a real story.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
Okay, my former cheating ex husband had a child that
(11:32):
he didn't tell me about until now. What should I do? About?
Twelve years ago, I was married and had two children
with my ex husband. After giving birth to our second child,
I found out that he was cheating on me during
my whole pregnancy. After I found out, I left him
and moved far away. Recently, I was back in our
hometown visiting my family. When I was out in town,
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I saw a boy there who looked exactly like my
ex husband and our son. We are still in contact
with our children, and I asked him about it. He
admitted that he had a child with his mistress, but
didn't have anything to do with them, as he didn't
want her to keep it. I don't know how to
process this information, and I feel so sick that he
had another child while I was pregnant. How do I
(12:14):
move on?
Speaker 3 (12:14):
Oh oooh, I told her I didn't want her to
keep it, but I had no problem just busting a
nut raw and thinking that nothing was going to come
from it while I'm married.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
That sounds like a narcissist. That's really sad, you know,
that's my biggest fear in life. It actually consumes a
lot of Like my relationship downfall is I am very
obsessed with a guy getting somebody else pregnant behind my back.
I'm trying to think, did it happen, Oh, yes, it
did happen to me in very early stages of like dating,
(12:48):
and it upset me so much. That's like you need therapy.
I mean, the only thing that really fixes that is
like therapy and just knowing that you didn't do anything wrong.
That's such a way to break someone's heart. Like, that's
just disgusting behavior. One, it's disrespectful to your children. It's
just disrespectful to everybody. It's disrespectful to the woman that
(13:08):
you got pregnant behind your wife's back, Like you're doing
nothing but maybe and you yourself look bad, Like nobody
likes you now. Nobody wants to deal with your kids.
Your love child doesn't want to deal with you, your
mistress doesn't want to deal with you, like goodbye. Everybody
hates you now. That's really how I feel. I mean,
I think it's disgusting behavior. I can't stand that. One
time I was scrolling up on Instagram and one of
(13:30):
my ex'es like best friends that he would go out
with all the time. He'd be like, no, babe, we're
not cheating. We're not cheating on our girls, like we
love you. Then I see on Instagram that the guy
got another girl pregnant behind his already pregnant wife's back
and paid her one hundred thousand dollars to go get
an abortion, and of course the girl plasters it all
(13:51):
over social media and it's just disgusting, like to think that, Nope,
you're not going to be outed. Of course, the mistress says,
always like want their time to shine a little bit,
and they'll they'll just embarrass the wife. They want that
position as the wife, and it's sad and a lot
of women will do that just to trap them in.
(14:13):
So you got to be careful, like they really want
They really think that having a kid with someone will
make them leave their wife when it's not going to happen.
They want to be with the wife, they really do.
You never heard that the guys will never leave their wife.
They will never leave them, and if they do, it's
because the wife actually left them, not him. It's sick.
I don't like it me either. Makes my stomach hurt.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
I need help with my boyfriend because when I ovulate,
I become a sex goblin and he's weeded out by it. Okay, I,
twenty three female, genuinely don't want to have sex, and
it's rare that I get turned on. My boyfriend twenty seven,
thankfully has rather low sex drive and generally isn't a
problem when I'm ovulating. I want to have sex all
(14:57):
day and night, and I think about it to the
point that I struggle at work. I've tried to sext
with my boyfriend while we're both at work, but he
was very weirded out by it and politely told me
to wait. It's getting to the point where he's confused
and weirded out by the hot and cold nature of
my sex drive, and I don't want to lose him.
But I also need a guy that is ready to
(15:18):
go for those three days.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yes, for those three days a month.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
What do I do?
Speaker 4 (15:25):
Well?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Obviously that's like normal to be like overly horny while
you're ovulating, But the hot and cold nature, I think
it scares men to be like up and down like that,
because one most men don't know how to keep track
of a calendar, you know, so they're like, oh, wait,
is she just playing with me now? Is she being serious?
(15:47):
Is this the time that she ovulates? I don't understand
what ovulation is. I don't understand when it happens. I
think that the hot and cold can turn them off.
Speaker 5 (15:57):
Got to get that app start us, that's what guess.
You had a guest here who told me about it, and.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
You didn't know what they There's so many apps. I
have flow Flow. I like flow better. But you know,
that's normal to be super horny when you're ovulating, because
obviously that's the time that you're supposed to be making
a baby. But I don't blame your boyfriend, no offense.
I'm going to be on his side, and you know,
I don't like being on the boyfriend's side, but maybe
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just coming onto him in more of a sensual, a
romantic type of way, Like maybe you need to whine
and dine in your boyfriend. Sometimes you got to do
that for guys, Like maybe take him out and like
give him a massage and like do something nice for
him to like really get him worked up instead of
just being like, did what she say a goblin? Is
that what she said a sex goblin, like, instead of
(16:49):
being a sex goblin, maybe just slow, like slowly, like,
hey baby, I think treat him like a female and
see how it works. I think that I'd actually work
out really good for you if you did it like that.
All right, Heartbreakers. That was another one of my solo episodes.
Stay tuned. Let me know if you guys have any
(17:10):
more questions, any hot topics you want to talk about,
any personal issues you're going through. I'm here, I want
to know, I want to answer. Bye.
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