In this bold and eye-opening episode of Her Truth Revealed, we sit down with Xanet Pailet, a sex and intimacy coach who empowers midlife women to reconnect with their bodies, their desire, and their relationships. Xanet shares her personal journey of navigating sexual trauma, emotional disconnection, and the challenges of maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships—showing that sexual fulfillment isn’t just about the act itself, but about emotional safety, self-awareness, and honest communication.
Xanet walks us through the complexities of sex in midlife, including hormonal shifts, responsive desire, and the emotional blocks that can arise from past experiences, societal conditioning, and cultural expectations. She reveals why many sexual issues are symptoms of deeper relationship or emotional challenges and why open conversations with yourself and your partner are the first step to transformation.
Listeners will learn practical strategies for improving intimacy, such as creating safe spaces for dialogue, exploring body awareness, and navigating changes in sexual desire with curiosity and compassion. Xanet also addresses tough topics like infidelity, sexless marriages, and aging, offering a judgment-free perspective that helps women reclaim pleasure, emotional connection, and confidence in their relationships.
By the end of this conversation, midlife women will feel empowered to honor their bodies, communicate their needs, and embrace intimacy as a natural, essential part of life—proving that it’s never too late to reconnect with yourself and your partner.
Today’s Guest:
Xanet Pailet
Connect with Xanet:
Facebook
Personal Account: https://www.facebook.com/xanet.pailet
Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/xanetpop
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/xanetpop/
Book:
Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure (Valentines day gift for him)
Email:
xanet@powerofpleasure.com
Website:
https://www.powerofpleasure.com/
Blog & Newsletters: via her website for weekly insights on intimacy, pleasure, and emotional connection
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