July 31, 2025 • 33 mins
In this juicy and joy-filled Ask Me Anything episode, Goddess Brittney and Lisset open up the vault and answer your burning questions about love, partnership, freedom, and the power of magic (and masturbation). From navigating non-monogamy and defining “the one,” to manifesting money with your body and singing lost items back into existence—this episode is packed with wisdom, laughter, vulnerability, and real-life rituals that actually work.
You’ll hear intimate stories from their relationship—including the hardest moment in their marriage—and how they moved through it with honesty, tools, and heart. Whether you’re looking to deepen your connections, rekindle your joy, or get curious about the spiritual side of sexuality, this one’s for you.
What We Cover:
- How to balance freedom and connection in relationship
- How they knew they were each other’s person
- The hardest moment in their marriage (and what it healed)
- How to recover when you feel like giving up on your path
- Weird-but-true magical rituals that changed their lives
- Manifesting money through pleasure (yes, really)
Timestamps:
00:00 – Opening truth bomb: “You can get through anything… if both people are willing to show up”
02:00 – Ask Us Anything begins!
03:11 – Balancing freedom & connection in a conscious relationship
11:41 – “How did you know you were each other’s person?”
18:10 – The hardest moment in their marriage (and how it transformed them)
23:07 – Have you ever felt like giving up on your path?
28:03 – Weird & magical things that actually work (singing to lost things, manifesting through orgasms)
32:51 – Outro + how to submit your own question!
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Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.
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Goddess Brittney (00:00):
I believe you can get through anything if both
people are willing to show upfor that.
Lisset (00:07):
Yes, yes, thank you for that caveat.
Goddess Brittney (00:09):
If both people are willing to show up for that
.
We not only had love for eachother and for what we wanted to
create, we're bothgrowth-oriented people who were
willing to look at the thingsthat a lot of people would be
scared to look at.
Look at the things that a lotof people would be scared to
look at, like y'all shame,embarrassment, guilt, like
(00:35):
trauma, all this stuff coming upand it was like deep, you know.
And so I felt safe enough withmy partner to actually show her
the things that I thought wereunlovable, the things that I had
been unwilling to face myself,and like we held them together.
I am grateful every fucking daythat I chose into a partnership
where that's what the kind ofthings that we do for each other
.
Welcome to Honest Feedback, thepodcast where deep truth meets
(00:58):
bold transformation.
I'm goddess Brittany King, apleasure priestess and a
transformational retreatfacilitator who helps women
connect to their deepest truths,reclaim their pleasure and
awaken their inner power, andI'm Lissette.
Lisset (01:12):
King, an emotional ninja and transformational coach who
helps leaders release baggage,heal unresolved trauma and step
into their most alignedpurposeful lives.
Goddess Brittney (01:22):
We've created this podcast for spirit led
individuals just like you,seekers of truth personal growth
and meaningful connection.
Lisset (01:30):
Whether you're navigating life's big questions,
craving more joy andfulfillment, or simply looking
for honest, relatableconversations, you're in the
right place through personalstories, actionable advice and
transformative insights.
Goddess Brittney (01:44):
Our ultimate goal is to empower you to create
a life that's overflowing withpleasure, purpose and
authenticity.
Lisset (01:51):
We know you're capable of incredible things, so let's
make it happen together.
Hi, and welcome back to HonestFeedback.
We are here with a veryexciting episode.
It's an ask me anything.
Goddess Brittney (02:04):
It's an ask me anything.
Lisset (02:05):
It's an ask me anything, and y'all showed up, yeah.
Goddess Brittney (02:08):
I'm so excited , so we're going to have an
opportunity to kind of answerthese quickly.
Yeah, it's a quick fire.
Lisset (02:14):
Quick.
Yeah, we're going to shootthrough these, you know, because
each one of these can be anepisode, because we are talky
talky.
Goddess Brittney (02:20):
Yeah, but we're, we're.
Yeah, but who's here for a goodtime?
Yeah, uh-huh, not a long time.
Yeah, that's sleeping with men,no kidding.
Lisset (02:33):
Good time is debatable.
Good time is debatable, yeah.
Goddess Brittney (02:35):
Okay, all that said.
By the way did you guys knowI'm gay?
Yes, If they didn't know beforethey will know today, all right
.
Lisset (02:44):
Okay, if they didn't know before, they will know
today, all right.
But before we jump into thequestions, make sure you like,
subscribe, share this episodeand share this with your
community.
We love making this for you.
We love our diehard fans.
We know who you are.
You guys text us, you messageus and we adore you.
So the further this goes, thelonger this goes, yeah, yeah, so
(03:07):
let's jump in.
Let's jump in.
Brittany is our designatedreader.
Goddess Brittney (03:11):
Yes, let's open the gram, okay.
Okay, how do y'all balancefreedom and connection in
relationship?
Oh, also, there's so manyrelationship questions.
I'm into it.
Okay, how do we balance freedomand connection?
Freedom and connection, yeah.
Lisset (03:31):
Okay, so I don't know if you guys know this, but I'm a
Sag In tropical and somethingabout that is I really love my
freedom, I love my space, I lovemy time, I love my alone time.
That is I really love myfreedom.
I love my space, I love my time, I love my alone time and one
(03:51):
of the things I do is I setaside very specific time.
Once a week I have a me day andI think I've set a very I set a
precedence.
I like traveling, like I'mbouncing out of Portland for
three weeks.
She's not coming.
Yeah, because I go and I doretreats, I do seminars.
You know I went to Bali forwork.
She knows that this is part ofwho I am.
(04:13):
And that's what freedom means tome?
It's the ability to be able tocome and go as I please, and it
doesn't mean that I don't loveyou, and it doesn't mean
anything less than I just knowwho I am and that's what makes
me sore.
Goddess Brittney (04:28):
How do you feel like you balance that with
the connection part of ourrelationship?
Lisset (04:32):
Well, you know, I've I've come against some really,
um, you know, I went to Peru onour anniversary.
Yes, yes, I did.
Goddess Brittney (04:39):
Yes, she did, it was our five-year anniversary
.
Lisset (04:41):
I believe.
It was our five-yearanniversary, and it was our
five-year anniversary and for meit was how can I make, give her
a special time, like, make surethere's dedicated connection
time and to balance the me day,we have a standing date day once
a week and we have standingintimacy time.
And before we go to bed, weconnect with each other and say
(05:03):
our gratitudes, you know.
So there is, there are momentswhere we connect daily, weekly,
monthly.
Goddess Brittney (05:11):
We have a radar which?
Lisset (05:13):
we've shared about before Multiamory.
We got that from Multiamory wecan maybe put that in the show
notes and we take big tripstogether.
We you know, it's not justabout me and my trips we travel
a lot together.
We've been to cruises, we dovacations and that's how I feel
(05:34):
like we balance it.
Let's hear from your side, fromthe other perspective.
Goddess Brittney (05:37):
Well, I'm an Aquarius in tropical, and so I
do around my not a Cancer, aCapricorn, Capricorn.
Yeah.
So I haven't really looked atthat rock, but for those who
know about Aquarians, we're veryfree-spirited people.
Yes, we too very much likefreedom and like doing our own
thing, and you know, it's alittle don't tread on me kind of
(05:57):
thing, like can't hold thisbutt flat down, can't capture
this, you know.
So I too like my freedom, whichis, I feel, like something that
we very much have in common of,like I don't want anybody to
tell me what I can and cannot doever, unless sometimes no,
unless it's in a container,unless it's in a container.
So I too have a strong desirefor freedom, and so us having
(06:22):
the me days, which is somethingthat you taught me, and it was
something that was uncomfortableat first, when she first was
like, hey, I'm going to havethese days, like for myself, and
it's like you don't want tohang out with me, you don't like
me.
So are we breaking up now?
You know?
And it was just like no none ofthose things are happening, and
so it was a growth opportunityfor me to learn to emotionally
(06:44):
regulate myself and that someoneand away from me, it's them a
yes to them.
And I was just like and that'ssomething I'm a very big fan of
how do I say yes to myself?
And so it was like, oh, she'ssaying yes to herself.
I should be saying yes tomyself more, and I had fallen in
the trap previously of like, oh, I'm so enamored with this
(07:06):
person, I love the relationship.
We should just, you know, beSiamese twins.
Is that what they were?
You're connected, okay, youshould be a Siamese twin with
them.
And her creating that spaceearly on in our relationship and
us being poly, I felt like gaveme a lot of space to think
about.
One, what was I making herasking for space, quote unquote,
(07:28):
mean Um.
Two, how could I actually makeit a priority to give to myself?
Um?
And three, are there thingsthat I love to do where I would
like to do them without her?
Um, and honoring that?
So like I took solo campingtrips and that was stretchy for
me because I was just like, oh,we're in the woods.
(07:50):
I did bring leeloo as myemotional support dog and
protector, because she will barkat all of the things.
But yeah, I feel like we do agreat job at balancing together
things and alone time things andeverybody's different.
Everyone has different needsand bandwidth for like how much
(08:12):
alone time space that they needto recharge.
Some of us are, I mean, wouldyou say you're more not
extroverted than the other one.
Lisset (08:20):
You know I started as an extrovert.
I think I'm more ambivert and Ithink the older I get, the more
introverted I get.
Like the more I dive intoenergy work, the more I protect
my energy and fill up on my own.
One thing I want to say to howwe might see those things
differently is if you're in apartnership with someone,
(08:41):
discuss what freedom means toyou.
Because, we'll make assumptions.
It's kind of like oh, I knowwhat monogamy means.
Goddess Brittney (08:47):
Like Polly Amory taught us, nobody does,
nobody knows.
David.
Lisset (08:52):
So like nobody actually knows, so you may think you're
giving the person freedom and itdoesn't actually match what
freedom means to them.
So, discussing this is whatfreedom means to me.
Okay, this is what freedommeans to me.
And then all of a sudden you'relike oh, we had different ideas
of what that meant.
Goddess Brittney (09:09):
And as far as connection, what does connection
mean to you?
Whether that's love, languages,I mean something I feel we are
really great about is we have alot of ritual moments in our
relationship.
So it's like morning routinestuff we kind of do separate.
Sometimes we will work, a lotof times we will work out
together, but like ourmeditations and morning
practices kind of separate Ourend of the night like closing
(09:31):
activity, that is a verytogether thing.
And we have little, like shesaid, these different ritualized
touch points where we're likethis is connection, this is
connection, this is connection.
And one gift that Polly reallytaught me was you're just not
entitled to anybody's time.
Lisset (09:46):
Yes, yes.
Goddess Brittney (09:49):
Say it again for the people in the back
You're just not entitled toanyone's time.
The back, you're just notentitled to anyone's time.
And in partnership we can getourselves really worked up,
slash in a corner because wewill assume their time is our
time, it's we time.
And Polly taught me the onlytime that is we time is time
(10:09):
that is explicitly communicatedthat it is we time.
Everything else is their timeand they get to decide how they
spend it.
And that can be sobering.
You know, in TikTok I didn'teven hold your hand before I
said it.
But like that was a big thing oflike understanding that level
(10:31):
of autonomy, and I'm someone whoalso values autonomy.
So like when she decided I wantto go to Peru for this trip for
me, and I got to have myfeelings about, hey, it's our
anniversary, I wanted to spendthat time together and this is
(10:52):
what you have chosen to do foryourself and I also honor and
value like you doing things foryourself.
So I had my feelings about it.
We made another time tointentionally have our
connection time because at theend of the day, it's like what
is time?
Did it need to be on thatspecific day?
(11:13):
No, we made plans and we had aweek we went.
Oh yeah, we met up camping orsomething.
Lisset (11:18):
Yeah, it was beautiful.
Goddess Brittney (11:20):
We had a beautiful time.
We had a beautiful time, yeah.
Lisset (11:24):
We intentionally moved the connection time to a time
that felt good for both of us.
And there's just we're twodifferent people with different
labels or meanings for thoselabels.
And we can't assume what theother person means.
Yeah.
All right, let's dive into thatgoodie bag, let's go.
Goddess Brittney (11:41):
We're quick, we're quicken.
Oh, how did you know you wereeach other's person?
Lisset (11:49):
Okay, you go first.
Goddess Brittney (11:50):
Okay how did I know?
Well, I mean, it's very funnybecause for a long time I didn't
know.
We were in the same friendgroup.
Lissette had asked me out manytimes, I had said no many times
or was flaky, and I enjoyed heras a part of the friend group.
So like there were six monthsof us being in community
(12:14):
together where I just did notknow, you know, and then when I
had my opening and my wholeexperience of realizing I was
actually close to love, then didthe work to be open to love,
and then she asked me out, I waslike, oh great, that's love
Again.
I thought it was a romantic date, but I was also in the space of
non-attachment.
(12:34):
The date was so beautiful andit was so different than
anything else I had everexperienced.
It was a very take noticeexperience and I was just like
this is different and if I wantdifferent results, I'm going to
(12:55):
need to show up differently.
And I started doing that.
And yeah, it was on our thirddate, when I was.
It was a hot day and I wascranky.
Something had happened, I don'tremember whatever.
Life was lifing and I was likeI don't want to cancel because
I've already canceled on this.
Girl was like I don't want tocancel because I've already
(13:16):
canceled on this girl, but I'mnot feeling up for this date.
And I got in the car and I waslike, oh hi.
And she was like, can I just behonest, I don't like the heat,
I'm not feeling great.
And you're cranky.
You said you're cranky and I'mlike, oh my God, thank God, me
too and we were driving to gosee the stars and we spent the
like hour drive like processingand talking and sharing and I
was just like, oh shit, like Ican really be my full fucking
(13:41):
self.
And then, by the time we gotthere, all the energy of tension
was gone and we just laughedand had the most magical time.
And for me it was like thisportal experience where I was
just like there's fucking magichere, and that's when I knew she
was someone special.
Lisset (13:56):
Yeah, yeah, for me.
I love that.
Yeah, I love hearing our storythrough your, through your mouth
.
Yeah, so I.
There was a bit of a separationbetween my higher self and my
unconscious mind.
My higher self knew, the momentI met her, like I had a soul
recognition.
I had just made a magic list.
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(14:17):
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I had made a magic list and Ihad just set it free and when I
met Brittany I heard that oneand so my soul was like that one
and I was like okay, and Iasked her and she said no, and
then she said no again and thenshe said no again.
(14:38):
She canceled on me.
It was just a big mess, and soI just surrendered to the idea
that I just want to be in herlife.
I knew that I was like I know,I just want to be in this
person's life because every timeI'm around her I laugh so much,
we laugh so much Still happensevery single day.
And uh, and like I just feelgood.
(15:00):
So I had decided that that'sall I wanted, and so we started
dating unbeknownst to me, andthen we started actually dating.
I was just like, wow, this isso much easier.
You know, I had severalrelationships at the time I was
like wow, this is so much easier.
You know, I had severalrelationships at the time.
I was like this is so mucheasier yeah and so deep and fun.
(15:20):
You know she's hot and she'scool.
It's a paradox and you know itwas.
It was all the things I hadbeen searching my soul.
But my soul knew, and then my,my mind and my unconscious mind
was like well, you've got thisnesting partner, you've got
these other things going on, andcan this, can this plant fit in
your garden?
Goddess Brittney (15:40):
you know, and, but the soul was always
unshakable yeah, it's sobeautiful it's, I feel like it's
very interesting.
It's like, how did you knowsomeone was the one?
And we're poly, and it's likesome people believe in like a
one.
Yeah, some people believe inlike a many.
What I knew was that I could bemy full self and that I was
(16:03):
inspired to be my best self.
Lisset (16:04):
Yeah, when I was with you.
Goddess Brittney (16:05):
Yeah, and we were having so much fun and it
was so easy and I it.
It just became crystal clear tome how much I was trying to,
like, mash the jigsaw puzzlepieces together and other things
.
And like this, there was nomashing, it's like that fucking
slipper thing, it just fit, itjust slid right on, it just slid
(16:26):
right on.
And so yeah, yeah, yeah, stopmashing pieces together.
Lisset (16:32):
Stop forcing it.
Goddess Brittney (16:33):
Yeah, if you're in those places?
Yeah, oh, mashing piecestogether, stop forcing it.
Yeah, if you're in those places?
Lisset (16:36):
Yeah, oh, that's good.
That's a great question.
Let's take a pause to hear aword from our sponsor, oh me.
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Goddess Brittney (16:52):
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Lisset (17:43):
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Goddess Brittney (17:50):
Yay, okay, ooh , what's been the hardest moment
in your marriage and how didyou move through it?
Damn hardest moment.
Oh, I think I've got it funny I.
Lisset (18:10):
The blessing is we haven't had anything super
trying.
You know, we like we, we havesuch epic communication and we
had just gotten married and wehadn't lived together yet, yeah,
and so we decided we're goingto go on a cross country
honeymoon.
Yeah, and my my friend Jasonbless him.
He gave us one of his lakehouses and so we're staying at
(18:32):
his lake house and she goes, I'mgoing to go shopping.
I said, great, will you grabthese three things?
And then she came home withlike bag after bag after bag and
like she just kept bringingbags in.
And then she's like I got aScrabble and slippers and like
all this, like random stuff, andI was like we just really kind
(18:52):
of needed food, you know.
And then the food that I askedher to get, she got like three
of each thing and uh, and I waslike, oh my gosh, I we didn't
have this conversationbeforehand.
Do am I with someone who's likea shopping problem?
Goddess Brittney (19:05):
like I.
Lisset (19:06):
I was just like, oh, this is, we're about to have a
value backlash and we had ourradar yeah and it was uh, it was
a reckoning, we were shooting adocumentary and it was like, it
was like a four-hour video ofus just it's on film, it's on
film and they were crying andall these things and she
(19:27):
couldn't sleep that night no andI don't.
Do you want to say a little bitabout what you discovered
during that?
Goddess Brittney (19:32):
time I mean discovered trauma.
I just discovered.
I feel like I mean we didrelease work, so I'm like trying
to find it, but like it waslike really deep scarcity stuff.
I grew up where it was justlike there'd be food that was
rotting or things that were notfood and stuff like that.
So it was like, oh my God, Idon't know when we'll have food
(19:54):
again.
Or like we have money now so wehave to buy as much food as we
can now, because who knows whenwe'll have money again.
And so, and I didn't evenrealize until I got home that I
literally had bought two ofabsolutely everything.
And I was like, why did I buytwo of everything?
I was like, I'm, it was souncommon, it was so deep y'all.
And I, I'm, it was so uncommon,it was so deep y'all, um, and I
(20:18):
didn't know what was happening.
And I just remember is it okayif I share something that you
said?
vulnerably uh, sure, okay, itwas just because it like hit me
in the soul, but she was justlike.
She was just like we're in theradar and she was just like I.
I feel like I'm scared.
I don't know who I married andI was like, oh my God.
Oh yeah, I did say that I waslike, oh my God, yeah, what's
(20:39):
happening?
And we are so blessed that wehave a lot of fucking tools, a
lot of tools.
Lisset (20:47):
A lot of tools.
We threw every single one atthis.
Goddess Brittney (20:49):
We did.
We did release work, we createda compelling future, we found a
fucking mentor to help us aboutmoney and budgeting and, like
it literally was a gift, itcompletely transformed our
financial life and has led to ushaving a completely different
reality than the pennies we weresaving before, living from
penny to penny.
(21:09):
Um, and yeah, it ended up beinga gift, fucking wrapped in
sandpaper and it was dark.
Lisset (21:17):
It was dark yeah, we made it through.
Yes, we made it through.
Obviously, you're hearing thisright now.
It was a rough one.
There was definitely thatmoment of not knowing who I had
married.
It's just we hadn't livedtogether.
So there were so many things wehadn't seen yet.
Yeah, and honestly, that wasthe thing that we got to grow
(21:39):
through together and it got usso much closer moving forward it
really did it really did.
Yeah, that's good.
Goddess Brittney (21:45):
Honestly, I was like I feel like that was
the hardest thing made usstronger.
Lisset (21:52):
Though you can get through anything, I do believe,
I, I.
You can get through anything, Ido believe that.
Goddess Brittney (21:56):
I believe you can get through anything if both
people are willing to show upfor that.
Lisset (22:02):
Yes, yes, thank you for that caveat.
Goddess Brittney (22:05):
If both people are willing to show up for that
.
We not only had love for eachother and for what we wanted to
create, we're both growthoriented people who were willing
to look at the things that alot of people would be scared to
look at.
Like y'all shame, embarrassment, guilt, like trauma, all this
(22:25):
stuff coming up and it was likedeep, you know.
And so I felt safe enough, withmy partner to actually show her
the things that I thought wereunlovable, with my partner to
actually show her the thingsthat I thought were unlovable,
the things that I had beenunwilling to face myself, and
(22:46):
like we held them together.
I am grateful every fucking daythat I chose into a partnership
where that's what the kind ofthings that we do for each other
and that's the ways that weshow up for each other.
Lisset (22:53):
Yeah, If that is a missing piece, there's other
questions to ask.
Yeah, and that's the ways thatwe show up for each other.
Yeah, if that is a missingpiece.
Goddess Brittney (23:00):
There's other questions to ask.
Yeah, yeah, there's differentquestions.
Um, okay, have you ever felt?
Lisset (23:07):
like giving up on your path and what brought you back?
Gosh, yeah, yes, yes, I have.
And I think I've just had somany of those moments where I've
been going and I've beenwalking and I've been doing all
the quote, unquote right thingsor how society tells you you
should run a business, or howyou need to do this, and you
(23:29):
know, like SEO, and blah, blah,blah, and I'm just like, oh, I
just don't want to and I don'thave the bandwidth for it and
I'm just tired.
I'm tired and I don't want to doit, and I think that journey in
Peru was actually the end of medoing business the way I used
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to do it and it was a very likeI knew I felt lost in that
moment in time and I was justlike I something's not working.
And I had a.
I had a dream and in my dreamit was like a full-on death
dream, like my soul left my bodyand I was like oh, this is how
Lissette dies.
This is it, this is.
I didn't know that this wasgoing to happen.
(24:12):
I should call my.
I wish I would have called mymom more.
I wish I would have well youknow spent more time with my
puppies.
I wish I would have, like,loved my wife better and I was
dying, and then I was dead and Iwoke up with zero fucks to give
and I was just like I'm gonnado it my way, yeah I'm gonna
walk my path because I know I'msupposed to.
And ever since then it has beenwhat I like to call a charmed
(24:35):
life, like I'm on it and I'mjust like I'm obedient to spirit
, I'm obedient to showing up, tomy practice, I'm obedient to,
to chanting, to teaching,whatever my teacher tells me to
do, I'm like, yes, sir, you know, I'm just like, I am on my path
, I have a guide, I listen, youknow, and and that has been so
much simpler than trying to hearthe noise of how other people
(24:57):
run their business, you know,because everyone is selling you
their thing, yeah, and when I'vediscovered, my answers are
within, and you know, with mymentor just constantly, just
returning to you, if you are themost you, then you can't lose
your way on the path.
And yeah, yeah, so yes, howabout you?
Goddess Brittney (25:18):
Well, I feel like the most lost I was.
I wasn't even on the path yetbut I just felt I mean suicidal,
where it was just likeeverything is terrible and I
don't know where or what or howor anything, and it was just
(25:38):
darkness and it just really feltlike.
It felt like I was underwaterbut people were talking at me
above the water but I can't hearthem and I can't feel them and
I felt like that's how I wasliving my life and I truly
didn't know if I should be hereand I mean all the woos, the
spiritual thing like it was.
I felt like my own soul wasjust like just hold on, you know
(26:02):
, like just one more step.
My grandfather actually complexcharacters for those who know
the backstory of my grandfatherhe always said and taught us you
never give up, because yourvery next step might be success.
Your very next step might besuccess.
And so I always just had thisthing of like, oh, I want to
(26:23):
quit life, and it was just likeI can't quit yet, my very next
step might be success, I can'tquit yet.
And then I ended up finding mypath and once I was on my path,
I found how it is that I servedand life was throwing things at
me.
I didn't know anything aboutbusiness and I invested a big
(26:47):
multi-five figure thing with abusiness coach and when I
launched crickets, zero peoplebought and I was all upset and I
think she has a picture of it.
Lisset (26:59):
I do.
I do have a picture.
It's so great I was ugly cryingon this rock.
Goddess Brittney (27:02):
It's a crying rock.
Lisset (27:03):
There was a booger bubble.
Oh, it was huge and Iscreenshotted it.
Goddess Brittney (27:06):
It was great, it was huge, but I was so at my
perturbation edge.
It was just shake it, shake it,shake it and what I got what I,
what I invested five figureswas was to create a resilience
in me that I know this is whatI'm supposed to do, because, as
disappointed, like from an egoplace, from a human place, like
(27:28):
was I disappointed?
Fuck, yeah, I was.
But I also knew that this iswhat I'm supposed to do and I
goes cool, where was I listeningto her when I should have been
listening to myself?
Yes, completely restructuredwhat I did, and I'm grateful for
her, who was my first step onthe path to be like, yeah, those
things that you want to do, itis a business, so yeah.
Lisset (27:47):
Yeah, mm-hmm Good stuff.
Goddess Brittney (27:49):
Okay, ooh, okay.
I think this may be our lastone.
What's one weird or magicalthing that actually changed your
life.
Lisset (28:03):
Oh my gosh, yes, okay, so magic y'all.
Magic, I mean, everything I dois magic.
So I want to give weird, eventhough it's all weird.
A friend of mine told me youshould sing to things when you
lose them, and I forgotsomeone's looking for something
(28:23):
and he just yells out sing to it.
And I was like, well, does thatwork?
He's like, absolutely,Absolutely.
So I remember it landing forboth of us.
Okay, well, next time and I wasat we were at a weekend retreat
and with my friend Angela andshe had lost her chain for a
necklace, I don't know.
It was very like heirloom, Likeshe was upset that it was
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something that was veryimportant.
Goddess Brittney (28:45):
It was very precious to her.
Lisset (28:47):
And then someone found the charm from it.
But she's like, oh, but thenecklace.
And she was really upset.
It was the last moment she waspacking everything up and I was
like, did you find your necklace?
She goes no, and she's a littlesad.
And I was like, did you sing toit?
And she goes, what?
I go sing to it.
And so she starts.
She's like all right, and she'sa singer too.
So she starts putting togethera song.
I pick up a tambourine, we'redancing and singing and all of a
(29:10):
sudden I look down and there'sthis like sparkle and I was like
, what's this?
I grab the end of the sparklefrom a rug can't see anything
else and pull this necklace outin its full entirety and her jaw
is dropped and everyone else'sjaw is dropped and till this day
(29:30):
there's not a thing you can'tsing to.
I mean, I did sing to myvirginity once.
Goddess Brittney (29:34):
Alas, it is not.
It is not returned.
Lisset (29:40):
But yeah, if you've lost things, yeah, pretty good too.
Goddess Brittney (29:44):
Oh, it's great , it's great it does work every
time, just to add a littlesprinkle sauce.
Um, our friend, she was withher family at disneyland and she
left her wallet, like a fullwallet, cash, all the cards.
She was mom, she was she's themom and she had the wallet, like
(30:05):
that wallet, and she left it inthe bathroom and she lost it
and she called us in a panic.
She was you guys, what do I do?
And we're like you have to singto it and she's like what?
Lisset (30:15):
the fuck you need to sing your entire heart out like
sing.
Goddess Brittney (30:20):
And so she got the kids involved and they were
singing all day Because whenshe went in there it wasn't back
.
They're singing, they'resinging, they're singing.
They go to the lost and found.
She's like I'm going to try toenjoy the park and I'm going to
sing to this wallet all day.
And then they stop at the endto the lost and found.
The wallet was there, with allthe cash, all the cards.
It's a Disney miracle.
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Everything intact.
Yes, fucking miracle.
So singing to things is all thethings I love that Magical
things, weird or magical yeah,we'll throw this in there.
Pleasure priestess.
So you can manifest money bymasturbation?
(31:02):
Yeah, true story, you can callin money by touching yourself.
And one day I was like I didn'twant to go to work, like I had
like a freelancing job where itwas like Brittany, isn't that a
sin?
Lisset (31:16):
Just kidding, didn't want to go to work like I had,
like a freelancing job where itwas like britney, isn't that a
sin?
Goddess Brittney (31:20):
just kidding, let let everyone pray in between
my legs, um.
But uh, I was like I don't wantto go to work, but like I need
money.
It was, it was a struggle, besttime, and I was like but I need
money, but like I don't know,and I was just know what I'm
going to have myself a goodfucking time, put on a list, got
my toys, blah, blah, blah, andI had a beautiful, delicious
(31:40):
time.
And then I woke up to threedifferent texts of people
wanting to pay me for differentthings.
Someone, I have an outdoorstage pole.
Someone's like do you rent yourpole?
Someone else wanted to buysomething for me me but it was
like random money from the field, um, and so I mean, I teach a
whole deeper lesson on this, butin a nugget, um, you should
(32:04):
come, and then the universe willcome, and then people throw
money yeah, and it's just comes,it, just comes, it, just comes,
it, just coming is the key tocoming coming is the key to
coming and keep it coming andit's absolutely true.
Lisset (32:15):
I mean, since she taught , since she taught me, I never
missed a chance to manifest,manifest.
Goddess Brittney (32:22):
I got to come up with a cool hyphen name for
it.
But, like Masterfest, I don'tknow, we'll find something.
Lisset (32:28):
We'll come up with one.
Goddess Brittney (32:30):
Yeah, but those are two magical things
that will keep you living agreat life.
Yes, this was such a funepisode.
It was super fun.
I love this.
Did you guys like it?
If you liked it, put a commentbelow.
Let us know what you lovedabout it.
Maybe we'll do more of these.
This was super fun.
Lisset (32:51):
Absolutely, and if you have a question, a deeper
question, something you want usto dive deep into, we would love
to do that.
Just give us a call at971-895-4111 or send us a
message on Instagram athonestfeedbackpodcast.
And until we meet again, behonest with each other.
I believe you can get through anything if both
people are willing to show upfor that.
Lisset (00:07):
Yes, yes, thank you for that caveat.
Goddess Brittney (00:09):
If both people are willing to show up for that
.
We not only had love for eachother and for what we wanted to
create, we're bothgrowth-oriented people who were
willing to look at the thingsthat a lot of people would be
scared to look at.
Look at the things that a lotof people would be scared to
look at, like y'all shame,embarrassment, guilt, like
(00:35):
trauma, all this stuff coming upand it was like deep, you know.
And so I felt safe enough withmy partner to actually show her
the things that I thought wereunlovable, the things that I had
been unwilling to face myself,and like we held them together.
I am grateful every fucking daythat I chose into a partnership
where that's what the kind ofthings that we do for each other
.
Welcome to Honest Feedback, thepodcast where deep truth meets
(00:58):
bold transformation.
I'm goddess Brittany King, apleasure priestess and a
transformational retreatfacilitator who helps women
connect to their deepest truths,reclaim their pleasure and
awaken their inner power, andI'm Lissette.
Lisset (01:12):
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into their most alignedpurposeful lives.
Goddess Brittney (01:22):
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Goddess Brittney (01:44):
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Lisset (01:51):
We know you're capable of incredible things, so let's
make it happen together.
Hi, and welcome back to HonestFeedback.
We are here with a veryexciting episode.
It's an ask me anything.
Goddess Brittney (02:04):
It's an ask me anything.
Lisset (02:05):
It's an ask me anything, and y'all showed up, yeah.
Goddess Brittney (02:08):
I'm so excited , so we're going to have an
opportunity to kind of answerthese quickly.
Yeah, it's a quick fire.
Lisset (02:14):
Quick.
Yeah, we're going to shootthrough these, you know, because
each one of these can be anepisode, because we are talky
talky.
Goddess Brittney (02:20):
Yeah, but we're, we're.
Yeah, but who's here for a goodtime?
Yeah, uh-huh, not a long time.
Yeah, that's sleeping with men,no kidding.
Lisset (02:33):
Good time is debatable.
Good time is debatable, yeah.
Goddess Brittney (02:35):
Okay, all that said.
By the way did you guys knowI'm gay?
Yes, If they didn't know beforethey will know today, all right
.
Lisset (02:44):
Okay, if they didn't know before, they will know
today, all right.
But before we jump into thequestions, make sure you like,
subscribe, share this episodeand share this with your
community.
We love making this for you.
We love our diehard fans.
We know who you are.
You guys text us, you messageus and we adore you.
So the further this goes, thelonger this goes, yeah, yeah, so
(03:07):
let's jump in.
Let's jump in.
Brittany is our designatedreader.
Goddess Brittney (03:11):
Yes, let's open the gram, okay.
Okay, how do y'all balancefreedom and connection in
relationship?
Oh, also, there's so manyrelationship questions.
I'm into it.
Okay, how do we balance freedomand connection?
Freedom and connection, yeah.
Lisset (03:31):
Okay, so I don't know if you guys know this, but I'm a
Sag In tropical and somethingabout that is I really love my
freedom, I love my space, I lovemy time, I love my alone time.
That is I really love myfreedom.
I love my space, I love my time, I love my alone time and one
(03:51):
of the things I do is I setaside very specific time.
Once a week I have a me day andI think I've set a very I set a
precedence.
I like traveling, like I'mbouncing out of Portland for
three weeks.
She's not coming.
Yeah, because I go and I doretreats, I do seminars.
You know I went to Bali forwork.
She knows that this is part ofwho I am.
(04:13):
And that's what freedom means tome?
It's the ability to be able tocome and go as I please, and it
doesn't mean that I don't loveyou, and it doesn't mean
anything less than I just knowwho I am and that's what makes
me sore.
Goddess Brittney (04:28):
How do you feel like you balance that with
the connection part of ourrelationship?
Lisset (04:32):
Well, you know, I've I've come against some really,
um, you know, I went to Peru onour anniversary.
Yes, yes, I did.
Goddess Brittney (04:39):
Yes, she did, it was our five-year anniversary
.
Lisset (04:41):
I believe.
It was our five-yearanniversary, and it was our
five-year anniversary and for meit was how can I make, give her
a special time, like, make surethere's dedicated connection
time and to balance the me day,we have a standing date day once
a week and we have standingintimacy time.
And before we go to bed, weconnect with each other and say
(05:03):
our gratitudes, you know.
So there is, there are momentswhere we connect daily, weekly,
monthly.
Goddess Brittney (05:11):
We have a radar which?
Lisset (05:13):
we've shared about before Multiamory.
We got that from Multiamory wecan maybe put that in the show
notes and we take big tripstogether.
We you know, it's not justabout me and my trips we travel
a lot together.
We've been to cruises, we dovacations and that's how I feel
(05:34):
like we balance it.
Let's hear from your side, fromthe other perspective.
Goddess Brittney (05:37):
Well, I'm an Aquarius in tropical, and so I
do around my not a Cancer, aCapricorn, Capricorn.
Yeah.
So I haven't really looked atthat rock, but for those who
know about Aquarians, we're veryfree-spirited people.
Yes, we too very much likefreedom and like doing our own
thing, and you know, it's alittle don't tread on me kind of
(05:57):
thing, like can't hold thisbutt flat down, can't capture
this, you know.
So I too like my freedom, whichis, I feel, like something that
we very much have in common of,like I don't want anybody to
tell me what I can and cannot doever, unless sometimes no,
unless it's in a container,unless it's in a container.
So I too have a strong desirefor freedom, and so us having
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the me days, which is somethingthat you taught me, and it was
something that was uncomfortableat first, when she first was
like, hey, I'm going to havethese days, like for myself, and
it's like you don't want tohang out with me, you don't like
me.
So are we breaking up now?
You know?
And it was just like no none ofthose things are happening, and
so it was a growth opportunityfor me to learn to emotionally
(06:44):
regulate myself and that someoneand away from me, it's them a
yes to them.
And I was just like and that'ssomething I'm a very big fan of
how do I say yes to myself?
And so it was like, oh, she'ssaying yes to herself.
I should be saying yes tomyself more, and I had fallen in
the trap previously of like, oh, I'm so enamored with this
(07:06):
person, I love the relationship.
We should just, you know, beSiamese twins.
Is that what they were?
You're connected, okay, youshould be a Siamese twin with
them.
And her creating that spaceearly on in our relationship and
us being poly, I felt like gaveme a lot of space to think
about.
One, what was I making herasking for space, quote unquote,
(07:28):
mean Um.
Two, how could I actually makeit a priority to give to myself?
Um?
And three, are there thingsthat I love to do where I would
like to do them without her?
Um, and honoring that?
So like I took solo campingtrips and that was stretchy for
me because I was just like, oh,we're in the woods.
(07:50):
I did bring leeloo as myemotional support dog and
protector, because she will barkat all of the things.
But yeah, I feel like we do agreat job at balancing together
things and alone time things andeverybody's different.
Everyone has different needsand bandwidth for like how much
(08:12):
alone time space that they needto recharge.
Some of us are, I mean, wouldyou say you're more not
extroverted than the other one.
Lisset (08:20):
You know I started as an extrovert.
I think I'm more ambivert and Ithink the older I get, the more
introverted I get.
Like the more I dive intoenergy work, the more I protect
my energy and fill up on my own.
One thing I want to say to howwe might see those things
differently is if you're in apartnership with someone,
(08:41):
discuss what freedom means toyou.
Because, we'll make assumptions.
It's kind of like oh, I knowwhat monogamy means.
Goddess Brittney (08:47):
Like Polly Amory taught us, nobody does,
nobody knows.
David.
Lisset (08:52):
So like nobody actually knows, so you may think you're
giving the person freedom and itdoesn't actually match what
freedom means to them.
So, discussing this is whatfreedom means to me.
Okay, this is what freedommeans to me.
And then all of a sudden you'relike oh, we had different ideas
of what that meant.
Goddess Brittney (09:09):
And as far as connection, what does connection
mean to you?
Whether that's love, languages,I mean something I feel we are
really great about is we have alot of ritual moments in our
relationship.
So it's like morning routinestuff we kind of do separate.
Sometimes we will work, a lotof times we will work out
together, but like ourmeditations and morning
practices kind of separate Ourend of the night like closing
(09:31):
activity, that is a verytogether thing.
And we have little, like shesaid, these different ritualized
touch points where we're likethis is connection, this is
connection, this is connection.
And one gift that Polly reallytaught me was you're just not
entitled to anybody's time.
Lisset (09:46):
Yes, yes.
Goddess Brittney (09:49):
Say it again for the people in the back
You're just not entitled toanyone's time.
The back, you're just notentitled to anyone's time.
And in partnership we can getourselves really worked up,
slash in a corner because wewill assume their time is our
time, it's we time.
And Polly taught me the onlytime that is we time is time
(10:09):
that is explicitly communicatedthat it is we time.
Everything else is their timeand they get to decide how they
spend it.
And that can be sobering.
You know, in TikTok I didn'teven hold your hand before I
said it.
But like that was a big thing oflike understanding that level
(10:31):
of autonomy, and I'm someone whoalso values autonomy.
So like when she decided I wantto go to Peru for this trip for
me, and I got to have myfeelings about, hey, it's our
anniversary, I wanted to spendthat time together and this is
(10:52):
what you have chosen to do foryourself and I also honor and
value like you doing things foryourself.
So I had my feelings about it.
We made another time tointentionally have our
connection time because at theend of the day, it's like what
is time?
Did it need to be on thatspecific day?
(11:13):
No, we made plans and we had aweek we went.
Oh yeah, we met up camping orsomething.
Lisset (11:18):
Yeah, it was beautiful.
Goddess Brittney (11:20):
We had a beautiful time.
We had a beautiful time, yeah.
Lisset (11:24):
We intentionally moved the connection time to a time
that felt good for both of us.
And there's just we're twodifferent people with different
labels or meanings for thoselabels.
And we can't assume what theother person means.
Yeah.
All right, let's dive into thatgoodie bag, let's go.
Goddess Brittney (11:41):
We're quick, we're quicken.
Oh, how did you know you wereeach other's person?
Lisset (11:49):
Okay, you go first.
Goddess Brittney (11:50):
Okay how did I know?
Well, I mean, it's very funnybecause for a long time I didn't
know.
We were in the same friendgroup.
Lissette had asked me out manytimes, I had said no many times
or was flaky, and I enjoyed heras a part of the friend group.
So like there were six monthsof us being in community
(12:14):
together where I just did notknow, you know, and then when I
had my opening and my wholeexperience of realizing I was
actually close to love, then didthe work to be open to love,
and then she asked me out, I waslike, oh great, that's love
Again.
I thought it was a romantic date, but I was also in the space of
non-attachment.
(12:34):
The date was so beautiful andit was so different than
anything else I had everexperienced.
It was a very take noticeexperience and I was just like
this is different and if I wantdifferent results, I'm going to
(12:55):
need to show up differently.
And I started doing that.
And yeah, it was on our thirddate, when I was.
It was a hot day and I wascranky.
Something had happened, I don'tremember whatever.
Life was lifing and I was likeI don't want to cancel because
I've already canceled on this.
Girl was like I don't want tocancel because I've already
(13:16):
canceled on this girl, but I'mnot feeling up for this date.
And I got in the car and I waslike, oh hi.
And she was like, can I just behonest, I don't like the heat,
I'm not feeling great.
And you're cranky.
You said you're cranky and I'mlike, oh my God, thank God, me
too and we were driving to gosee the stars and we spent the
like hour drive like processingand talking and sharing and I
was just like, oh shit, like Ican really be my full fucking
(13:41):
self.
And then, by the time we gotthere, all the energy of tension
was gone and we just laughedand had the most magical time.
And for me it was like thisportal experience where I was
just like there's fucking magichere, and that's when I knew she
was someone special.
Lisset (13:56):
Yeah, yeah, for me.
I love that.
Yeah, I love hearing our storythrough your, through your mouth
.
Yeah, so I.
There was a bit of a separationbetween my higher self and my
unconscious mind.
My higher self knew, the momentI met her, like I had a soul
recognition.
I had just made a magic list.
Shameless plug, magic listclass.
(14:17):
Oh yeah, we'll put it below.
I had made a magic list and Ihad just set it free and when I
met Brittany I heard that oneand so my soul was like that one
and I was like okay, and Iasked her and she said no, and
then she said no again and thenshe said no again.
(14:38):
She canceled on me.
It was just a big mess, and soI just surrendered to the idea
that I just want to be in herlife.
I knew that I was like I know,I just want to be in this
person's life because every timeI'm around her I laugh so much,
we laugh so much Still happensevery single day.
And uh, and like I just feelgood.
(15:00):
So I had decided that that'sall I wanted, and so we started
dating unbeknownst to me, andthen we started actually dating.
I was just like, wow, this isso much easier.
You know, I had severalrelationships at the time I was
like wow, this is so much easier.
You know, I had severalrelationships at the time.
I was like this is so mucheasier yeah and so deep and fun.
(15:20):
You know she's hot and she'scool.
It's a paradox and you know itwas.
It was all the things I hadbeen searching my soul.
But my soul knew, and then my,my mind and my unconscious mind
was like well, you've got thisnesting partner, you've got
these other things going on, andcan this, can this plant fit in
your garden?
Goddess Brittney (15:40):
you know, and, but the soul was always
unshakable yeah, it's sobeautiful it's, I feel like it's
very interesting.
It's like, how did you knowsomeone was the one?
And we're poly, and it's likesome people believe in like a
one.
Yeah, some people believe inlike a many.
What I knew was that I could bemy full self and that I was
(16:03):
inspired to be my best self.
Lisset (16:04):
Yeah, when I was with you.
Goddess Brittney (16:05):
Yeah, and we were having so much fun and it
was so easy and I it.
It just became crystal clear tome how much I was trying to,
like, mash the jigsaw puzzlepieces together and other things
.
And like this, there was nomashing, it's like that fucking
slipper thing, it just fit, itjust slid right on, it just slid
(16:26):
right on.
And so yeah, yeah, yeah, stopmashing pieces together.
Lisset (16:32):
Stop forcing it.
Goddess Brittney (16:33):
Yeah, if you're in those places?
Yeah, oh, mashing piecestogether, stop forcing it.
Yeah, if you're in those places?
Lisset (16:36):
Yeah, oh, that's good.
That's a great question.
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Goddess Brittney (17:50):
Yay, okay, ooh , what's been the hardest moment
in your marriage and how didyou move through it?
Damn hardest moment.
Oh, I think I've got it funny I.
Lisset (18:10):
The blessing is we haven't had anything super
trying.
You know, we like we, we havesuch epic communication and we
had just gotten married and wehadn't lived together yet, yeah,
and so we decided we're goingto go on a cross country
honeymoon.
Yeah, and my my friend Jasonbless him.
He gave us one of his lakehouses and so we're staying at
(18:32):
his lake house and she goes, I'mgoing to go shopping.
I said, great, will you grabthese three things?
And then she came home withlike bag after bag after bag and
like she just kept bringingbags in.
And then she's like I got aScrabble and slippers and like
all this, like random stuff, andI was like we just really kind
(18:52):
of needed food, you know.
And then the food that I askedher to get, she got like three
of each thing and uh, and I waslike, oh my gosh, I we didn't
have this conversationbeforehand.
Do am I with someone who's likea shopping problem?
Goddess Brittney (19:05):
like I.
Lisset (19:06):
I was just like, oh, this is, we're about to have a
value backlash and we had ourradar yeah and it was uh, it was
a reckoning, we were shooting adocumentary and it was like, it
was like a four-hour video ofus just it's on film, it's on
film and they were crying andall these things and she
(19:27):
couldn't sleep that night no andI don't.
Do you want to say a little bitabout what you discovered
during that?
Goddess Brittney (19:32):
time I mean discovered trauma.
I just discovered.
I feel like I mean we didrelease work, so I'm like trying
to find it, but like it waslike really deep scarcity stuff.
I grew up where it was justlike there'd be food that was
rotting or things that were notfood and stuff like that.
So it was like, oh my God, Idon't know when we'll have food
(19:54):
again.
Or like we have money now so wehave to buy as much food as we
can now, because who knows whenwe'll have money again.
And so, and I didn't evenrealize until I got home that I
literally had bought two ofabsolutely everything.
And I was like, why did I buytwo of everything?
I was like, I'm, it was souncommon, it was so deep y'all.
And I, I'm, it was so uncommon,it was so deep y'all, um, and I
(20:18):
didn't know what was happening.
And I just remember is it okayif I share something that you
said?
vulnerably uh, sure, okay, itwas just because it like hit me
in the soul, but she was justlike.
She was just like we're in theradar and she was just like I.
I feel like I'm scared.
I don't know who I married andI was like, oh my God.
Oh yeah, I did say that I waslike, oh my God, yeah, what's
(20:39):
happening?
And we are so blessed that wehave a lot of fucking tools, a
lot of tools.
Lisset (20:47):
A lot of tools.
We threw every single one atthis.
Goddess Brittney (20:49):
We did.
We did release work, we createda compelling future, we found a
fucking mentor to help us aboutmoney and budgeting and, like
it literally was a gift, itcompletely transformed our
financial life and has led to ushaving a completely different
reality than the pennies we weresaving before, living from
penny to penny.
(21:09):
Um, and yeah, it ended up beinga gift, fucking wrapped in
sandpaper and it was dark.
Lisset (21:17):
It was dark yeah, we made it through.
Yes, we made it through.
Obviously, you're hearing thisright now.
It was a rough one.
There was definitely thatmoment of not knowing who I had
married.
It's just we hadn't livedtogether.
So there were so many things wehadn't seen yet.
Yeah, and honestly, that wasthe thing that we got to grow
(21:39):
through together and it got usso much closer moving forward it
really did it really did.
Yeah, that's good.
Goddess Brittney (21:45):
Honestly, I was like I feel like that was
the hardest thing made usstronger.
Lisset (21:52):
Though you can get through anything, I do believe,
I, I.
You can get through anything, Ido believe that.
Goddess Brittney (21:56):
I believe you can get through anything if both
people are willing to show upfor that.
Lisset (22:02):
Yes, yes, thank you for that caveat.
Goddess Brittney (22:05):
If both people are willing to show up for that
.
We not only had love for eachother and for what we wanted to
create, we're both growthoriented people who were willing
to look at the things that alot of people would be scared to
look at.
Like y'all shame, embarrassment, guilt, like trauma, all this
(22:25):
stuff coming up and it was likedeep, you know.
And so I felt safe enough, withmy partner to actually show her
the things that I thought wereunlovable, with my partner to
actually show her the thingsthat I thought were unlovable,
the things that I had beenunwilling to face myself, and
(22:46):
like we held them together.
I am grateful every fucking daythat I chose into a partnership
where that's what the kind ofthings that we do for each other
and that's the ways that weshow up for each other.
Lisset (22:53):
Yeah, If that is a missing piece, there's other
questions to ask.
Yeah, and that's the ways thatwe show up for each other.
Yeah, if that is a missingpiece.
Goddess Brittney (23:00):
There's other questions to ask.
Yeah, yeah, there's differentquestions.
Um, okay, have you ever felt?
Lisset (23:07):
like giving up on your path and what brought you back?
Gosh, yeah, yes, yes, I have.
And I think I've just had somany of those moments where I've
been going and I've beenwalking and I've been doing all
the quote, unquote right thingsor how society tells you you
should run a business, or howyou need to do this, and you
(23:29):
know, like SEO, and blah, blah,blah, and I'm just like, oh, I
just don't want to and I don'thave the bandwidth for it and
I'm just tired.
I'm tired and I don't want to doit, and I think that journey in
Peru was actually the end of medoing business the way I used
(23:50):
to do it and it was a very likeI knew I felt lost in that
moment in time and I was justlike I something's not working.
And I had a.
I had a dream and in my dreamit was like a full-on death
dream, like my soul left my bodyand I was like oh, this is how
Lissette dies.
This is it, this is.
I didn't know that this wasgoing to happen.
(24:12):
I should call my.
I wish I would have called mymom more.
I wish I would have well youknow spent more time with my
puppies.
I wish I would have, like,loved my wife better and I was
dying, and then I was dead and Iwoke up with zero fucks to give
and I was just like I'm gonnado it my way, yeah I'm gonna
walk my path because I know I'msupposed to.
And ever since then it has beenwhat I like to call a charmed
(24:35):
life, like I'm on it and I'mjust like I'm obedient to spirit
, I'm obedient to showing up, tomy practice, I'm obedient to,
to chanting, to teaching,whatever my teacher tells me to
do, I'm like, yes, sir, you know, I'm just like, I am on my path
, I have a guide, I listen, youknow, and and that has been so
much simpler than trying to hearthe noise of how other people
(24:57):
run their business, you know,because everyone is selling you
their thing, yeah, and when I'vediscovered, my answers are
within, and you know, with mymentor just constantly, just
returning to you, if you are themost you, then you can't lose
your way on the path.
And yeah, yeah, so yes, howabout you?
Goddess Brittney (25:18):
Well, I feel like the most lost I was.
I wasn't even on the path yetbut I just felt I mean suicidal,
where it was just likeeverything is terrible and I
don't know where or what or howor anything, and it was just
(25:38):
darkness and it just really feltlike.
It felt like I was underwaterbut people were talking at me
above the water but I can't hearthem and I can't feel them and
I felt like that's how I wasliving my life and I truly
didn't know if I should be hereand I mean all the woos, the
spiritual thing like it was.
I felt like my own soul wasjust like just hold on, you know
(26:02):
, like just one more step.
My grandfather actually complexcharacters for those who know
the backstory of my grandfatherhe always said and taught us you
never give up, because yourvery next step might be success.
Your very next step might besuccess.
And so I always just had thisthing of like, oh, I want to
(26:23):
quit life, and it was just likeI can't quit yet, my very next
step might be success, I can'tquit yet.
And then I ended up finding mypath and once I was on my path,
I found how it is that I servedand life was throwing things at
me.
I didn't know anything aboutbusiness and I invested a big
(26:47):
multi-five figure thing with abusiness coach and when I
launched crickets, zero peoplebought and I was all upset and I
think she has a picture of it.
Lisset (26:59):
I do.
I do have a picture.
It's so great I was ugly cryingon this rock.
Goddess Brittney (27:02):
It's a crying rock.
Lisset (27:03):
There was a booger bubble.
Oh, it was huge and Iscreenshotted it.
Goddess Brittney (27:06):
It was great, it was huge, but I was so at my
perturbation edge.
It was just shake it, shake it,shake it and what I got what I,
what I invested five figureswas was to create a resilience
in me that I know this is whatI'm supposed to do, because, as
disappointed, like from an egoplace, from a human place, like
(27:28):
was I disappointed?
Fuck, yeah, I was.
But I also knew that this iswhat I'm supposed to do and I
goes cool, where was I listeningto her when I should have been
listening to myself?
Yes, completely restructuredwhat I did, and I'm grateful for
her, who was my first step onthe path to be like, yeah, those
things that you want to do, itis a business, so yeah.
Lisset (27:47):
Yeah, mm-hmm Good stuff.
Goddess Brittney (27:49):
Okay, ooh, okay.
I think this may be our lastone.
What's one weird or magicalthing that actually changed your
life.
Lisset (28:03):
Oh my gosh, yes, okay, so magic y'all.
Magic, I mean, everything I dois magic.
So I want to give weird, eventhough it's all weird.
A friend of mine told me youshould sing to things when you
lose them, and I forgotsomeone's looking for something
(28:23):
and he just yells out sing to it.
And I was like, well, does thatwork?
He's like, absolutely,Absolutely.
So I remember it landing forboth of us.
Okay, well, next time and I wasat we were at a weekend retreat
and with my friend Angela andshe had lost her chain for a
necklace, I don't know.
It was very like heirloom, Likeshe was upset that it was
(28:44):
something that was veryimportant.
Goddess Brittney (28:45):
It was very precious to her.
Lisset (28:47):
And then someone found the charm from it.
But she's like, oh, but thenecklace.
And she was really upset.
It was the last moment she waspacking everything up and I was
like, did you find your necklace?
She goes no, and she's a littlesad.
And I was like, did you sing toit?
And she goes, what?
I go sing to it.
And so she starts.
She's like all right, and she'sa singer too.
So she starts putting togethera song.
I pick up a tambourine, we'redancing and singing and all of a
(29:10):
sudden I look down and there'sthis like sparkle and I was like
, what's this?
I grab the end of the sparklefrom a rug can't see anything
else and pull this necklace outin its full entirety and her jaw
is dropped and everyone else'sjaw is dropped and till this day
(29:30):
there's not a thing you can'tsing to.
I mean, I did sing to myvirginity once.
Goddess Brittney (29:34):
Alas, it is not.
It is not returned.
Lisset (29:40):
But yeah, if you've lost things, yeah, pretty good too.
Goddess Brittney (29:44):
Oh, it's great , it's great it does work every
time, just to add a littlesprinkle sauce.
Um, our friend, she was withher family at disneyland and she
left her wallet, like a fullwallet, cash, all the cards.
She was mom, she was she's themom and she had the wallet, like
(30:05):
that wallet, and she left it inthe bathroom and she lost it
and she called us in a panic.
She was you guys, what do I do?
And we're like you have to singto it and she's like what?
Lisset (30:15):
the fuck you need to sing your entire heart out like
sing.
Goddess Brittney (30:20):
And so she got the kids involved and they were
singing all day Because whenshe went in there it wasn't back
.
They're singing, they'resinging, they're singing.
They go to the lost and found.
She's like I'm going to try toenjoy the park and I'm going to
sing to this wallet all day.
And then they stop at the endto the lost and found.
The wallet was there, with allthe cash, all the cards.
It's a Disney miracle.
(30:41):
Everything intact.
Yes, fucking miracle.
So singing to things is all thethings I love that Magical
things, weird or magical yeah,we'll throw this in there.
Pleasure priestess.
So you can manifest money bymasturbation?
(31:02):
Yeah, true story, you can callin money by touching yourself.
And one day I was like I didn'twant to go to work, like I had
like a freelancing job where itwas like Brittany, isn't that a
sin?
Lisset (31:16):
Just kidding, didn't want to go to work like I had,
like a freelancing job where itwas like britney, isn't that a
sin?
Goddess Brittney (31:20):
just kidding, let let everyone pray in between
my legs, um.
But uh, I was like I don't wantto go to work, but like I need
money.
It was, it was a struggle, besttime, and I was like but I need
money, but like I don't know,and I was just know what I'm
going to have myself a goodfucking time, put on a list, got
my toys, blah, blah, blah, andI had a beautiful, delicious
(31:40):
time.
And then I woke up to threedifferent texts of people
wanting to pay me for differentthings.
Someone, I have an outdoorstage pole.
Someone's like do you rent yourpole?
Someone else wanted to buysomething for me me but it was
like random money from the field, um, and so I mean, I teach a
whole deeper lesson on this, butin a nugget, um, you should
(32:04):
come, and then the universe willcome, and then people throw
money yeah, and it's just comes,it, just comes, it, just comes,
it, just coming is the key tocoming coming is the key to
coming and keep it coming andit's absolutely true.
Lisset (32:15):
I mean, since she taught , since she taught me, I never
missed a chance to manifest,manifest.
Goddess Brittney (32:22):
I got to come up with a cool hyphen name for
it.
But, like Masterfest, I don'tknow, we'll find something.
Lisset (32:28):
We'll come up with one.
Goddess Brittney (32:30):
Yeah, but those are two magical things
that will keep you living agreat life.
Yes, this was such a funepisode.
It was super fun.
I love this.
Did you guys like it?
If you liked it, put a commentbelow.
Let us know what you lovedabout it.
Maybe we'll do more of these.
This was super fun.
Lisset (32:51):
Absolutely, and if you have a question, a deeper
question, something you want usto dive deep into, we would love
to do that.
Just give us a call at971-895-4111 or send us a
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