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Lisset (00:00):
At the end of the year,
sometimes I know for me it's
been a habit to, oh, I had set agoal for this and I didn't hit
it.
Or I wanted this, or oh, Ithought I'd be here.
I thought I'd be further alongin my life, or what what I
planned for this year was somuch more.
And if we don't look back atwhat we actually created, you
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know, you might allow yourselfto stay in those doldrums.
Goddess Brittney (00:23):
Welcome to
Honest Feedback, the podcast
where deep truth meets boldtransformation.
I'm Goddess Brittany King, apleasure priestess and a
transformational retreatfacilitator who helps women
connect to their deepest truths,reclaim their pleasure, and
awaken their inner power.
Lisset (00:40):
And I'm Lisette King, an
emotional ninja and
transformational coach who helpsleaders release baggage, heal
unresolved trauma, and step intotheir most aligned, purposeful
lives.
We've created this podcast forspirit-led individuals just like
you.
Seekers of truth, personalgrowth, and meaningful
connection.
Whether you're navigating life'sbig questions, craving more joy
(01:02):
and fulfillment, or simplylooking for honest, relatable
conversations, you're in theright place.
Goddess Brittney (01:08):
Welcome back
to another episode of Honest
Feedback, and this is our lastepisode of 2025.
It's um also the last episode ofour fourth season.
Yes, it is.
It is the last episode.
Are you guys ready for ourSpotify Rapped?
unknown (01:27):
Yes.
Goddess Brittney (01:29):
It's our
favorite time of year.
Um what I love about this timeof year is I think this
episode's coming out right asthe winter right before the
winter solstice.
Um shortest day of the year andthe official start to winter.
And what I have learned aboutwinter from poets, and now that
(01:49):
I moved to someplace withseasons, is that time actually
slows down and it's a time to gowithin.
Like the trees let go of theirleaves, they let go of the
external and they go in and downinto the roots.
And so it's like for me, it hasbeen a beautiful invitation of
it's time to go down into theroots.
It's time to reflect, and it'stime to really, yeah, like
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excavate what's fucking going oninside.
And so I felt really excited andvery passionate that we should
do a year-end review, like aSpotify wrapped uh year-end
review about posing some ofthese like larger questions for
ourselves for you to hear how webe living our lives and how what
kind of questions we askourselves to go into like deep
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contemplation for ourselves.
And I love this because as youget into the roots, you start to
discover more about yourself.
And this might be places whereit's like, oh, this is where I'm
seeking more support, moreexpansion, yeah, less of this.
Lisset (02:50):
Yeah.
And I love being able to lookback on the year and look at all
the gains.
You know, look at all the thingswe learned and all the things we
do.
At the end of the year,sometimes I know for me, it's
been a habit to, oh, I had set agoal for this and I didn't hit
it, or I wanted this, or oh, Ithought I'd be here.
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I thought I'd be further alongin my life, or what what I
planned for this year was somuch more.
And if we don't look back atwhat we actually created, you
know, you might allow yourselfto stay in those doldrums,
especially in the cold and thedark.
It's easy to slip into the darknight of the soul, you know,
rather than going, man, thisyear was so profound and loving,
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and I grew.
Yeah.
And more than anything, who didyou become throughout the year?
Goddess Brittney (03:37):
Yes, who did
you become throughout the year?
Yes.
What is it?
Um, we will overestimate what wecan accomplish in a year, but
underestimate what we canaccomplish in three years.
Yes.
Lisset (03:47):
Hey.
Is that Dan and Ben?
I don't know.
I literally read that today.
Really?
Yeah, no kidding.
I get out.
Um Black Friday got me, MindValley got me.
Yeah.
And I started doing some classwith V Shan.
And that was literally a quote Iread today.
So that's why my mind and my jawlooks like it fell on the
ground.
Good.
And it's like that what that'sliterally the quote.
Goddess Brittney (04:09):
Great.
Well, I'll be channeling you.
Lisset (04:13):
And I think it's Tony
Robbins, perhaps.
Goddess Brittney (04:15):
Maybe Tony
Robbins.
Um I feel like I got it from 10xis easier than 2x, um, or The
Gap in the Game, one of thosebooks.
Um, which by the way, they havea new book.
That's not what this podcast isabout, but they have a new book
about scaling.
So, and it's free.
And we will be reading itbecause we did this.
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Back to us.
Um, yeah, for me, really tuninginto our gains is what really
helps you to remember how faryou actually did get.
Lisset (04:49):
Yeah.
Goddess Brittney (04:50):
And um, yeah,
I'll just put this, yeah, I'll
put this in now.
But one of my business mentors,she does a whole process at the
end of the yearslash New Year'sDay kind of time.
I think that in-between weekwhere nothing's happening.
Um, and she maps out a wholecalendar and goes through her
like iPhone photos and hercalendar and literally marks
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down like all of her wins andputs them in on the months and
then puts it on a giant stickynote in color so she can see
them.
Oh maybe we can play with thatthis year.
Yeah.
But like seeing your, it's it'sthere's gold when you reflect.
Yeah.
And then it's not just, whoa,time is going by.
It's like, yeah, look, let'slook at the threads, let's look
at the patterns, let's look atthe things.
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So we have some incrediblequestions that we're gonna
answer for you here.
And you can we're gonna put themin the show notes so you can get
a group of friends and do thiswith them and tune in and follow
along.
Lisset (05:48):
Pause and answer it for
yourself.
Join in the conversation withus.
There's infinite ways you can dothis.
Yeah.
Goddess Brittney (05:54):
Come and play.
Okay, let's start with whatsurprised you most about
yourself this year.
Lisset (06:03):
What surprised me the
most about myself this year is
how much longer my goals took toactually come to fruition.
And yet the the it's a pride,it's a moment of pride where I
kept showing up even when thewhen the needle wasn't moving.
(06:26):
Even when the needle wasn'tmoving, even when it was like,
uh uh.
I've been playing um in playingthe credit game and like upping
my score significantly.
Yeah.
And when you if you watch itdaily, which I was, it was
moving like molasses.
And yet over the entire span ofa year, it's gone up like 80
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points.
And I was like, damn.
Yeah.
Go and brush your shoulders off.
I felt really good.
And you know, and uh eliminatingall of our credit card debt.
It was something I was like,we're gonna do this by Q1.
Okay, Q4, but still just showingup diligently.
I think it that was the thingthat surprised me.
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I've known you know somethingmetaphorically, yeah.
Things take time and you plantthe seeds and the fruit comes
later.
And yet I I had I got to havethat experience.
Really playing, um mastering anddeciding that mastery was my
word of the year.
Yeah.
And really bringing inexcellence in each area, and
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excellence took time.
Goddess Brittney (07:34):
Excellence
took time.
What surprised me most aboutthis year?
I mean, the first thing thatcame to mind was awaking your
fire.
Oh god.
It was just such an incredible,powerful event.
And I'm like, what about it?
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Was the thing that surprised mewas I think a just a different
frame of recognizing what yourecognized of the things that
you're building take time andgetting to be in a piece of
fruit that I have been wateringthe seeds of for years.
(08:17):
Like I have been wanting to takewomen to Sedona for over two
years.
Um, so all the things thatneeded to drop in for that to be
and for all the many reasonsthat it was at the time that it
was, it was profoundly perfect.
And it was it just truly, Isurprised myself with how much
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we have grown um with a businessthat just started three years
ago.
Yeah.
Like to show up to me um in myown version of excellence, doing
my best um in your version ofexcellence, having support
there.
Um it was really, it was it wasfucking incredible.
And I felt so surprised um anddelighted by how sweet the fruit
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was.
Lisset (09:07):
I was just like, ah I
love that.
I love that.
It's actually thank you forbringing that to mind.
You know, so much happened.
Yeah.
I forgot you forget whathappened.
Yeah.
And I was like, Yes, awaken yourfire was so powerful.
And like all the times that Itaught were so powerful, and
I've got become better as a Hunateacher.
(09:28):
Yeah.
And I'm just like, wow, youknow, you open up one, the
floodgates open.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Here, you pick another question.
I will go next.
What surprised you the mostabout yourselves this year?
That was the question we justasked.
Oh, great.
(09:52):
Okay.
What is a lesson this year triedto teach you over and over?
And did you learn it?
Goddess Brittney (10:01):
Okay, so same,
same but different.
Patient perseverance.
Oh, how do you say it from thealoha?
Ahonui.
No.
Ahonui.
Ahonui.
Ahonui is the Hawaiian way oftalking about this.
Patient perseverance is showingup even though it doesn't look
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like anything's changing yet.
Lisset (10:25):
Yes.
Goddess Brittney (10:26):
And being okay
with patience and being okay
with persevering.
And so for myself, you know, welive, I live in an Amazon
culture, and it's just like, oh,I want something on my porch
within an hour, you know.
Um, we want the results withinthis, you know.
Um, I remember I told my coachuh at the beginning of the year,
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I was like, you know, I want tomake a hundred thousand dollars
in Q1.
And she goes, okay.
And I was like, and she waslike, have you ever done that
before?
And I was like, no.
She was like, did you ever makea hundred thousand dollars in a
year?
I'm like, no.
But she's like, it's just likeokay then.
Okay then.
And she was like, I'm not gonnatake the width out of your
sails, but like patientperseverance, you know, there's
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something to you don't know whatyou don't know.
And when we're creatingsomething different new,
literally new.
There, like the I feel like thehardest getty up is creating
something new.
Like I think of what's coming tomy mind is like the Wright
brothers and getting to fly andhow he shared, he was like, I
just had a vision of the thingin the air, and I didn't know
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anything, but I just kept goinguntil the vision, it's like, how
many years do you just keepgoing until your vision is
realized?
And so for myself, being okay ofunderstanding, like, girl, it is
a marathon and not a sprint.
And so I have to rest and takecare of myself and knowing like
I'm building something great,and that is asking for me to
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have patience and perseverance.
Things are actually happening,and they are happening way
faster than they ever would hadI been on a different path.
Like I feel so grateful for thementorships that I have, the
partner that I have, all thesedifferent things that are
literally helping me acceleratethis a thousand times faster.
Yeah, and it is not tomorrow.
Lisset (12:22):
Oh, that's such a good
lesson.
How about for you?
What's been the lesson?
Copy paste on that one, youknow, the patient perseverance
that I feel like I talked aboutin the last one more, but I
think there's another law thathas been smacking me upside the
head, and that's the law of amama, which means a law of
sacrifice.
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And that to get to where you'regoing, something has to be
given.
And it's so funny.
My teacher says, you know,people try to be like, that's
limited thinking.
And it's just like, no, somelaws are are literal laws, like
and it's not like a it's notsomething that you can psych it
out or try to get out get aroundit.
(13:04):
And I think the the biggestsacrifice I made or have
continued to make is like Ican't want someone else's growth
more than they do.
unknown (13:13):
Copy-based.
Lisset (13:14):
Yeah, I can't want
someone else's growth more than
more than they do.
And I've been blessed with lotsof clients.
This year was blessings,abundance.
I'm so grateful.
Thank you for all the clientsthat came my way, then allowing
me to support you.
And there were some that werejust not ready.
Goddess Brittney (13:30):
Yeah.
Lisset (13:31):
And there were some that
I really wanted to change for
them.
Yeah.
And I cannot want it more thanthey want it.
Yeah.
And there was a there was asacrifice, like I'm going up
here.
And are you coming or not?
Yeah.
And that that happens withrelationships and friendships
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and and um just people not beingable to want to meet the
conversation anymore.
Yeah.
Or like have that, have thoseheavier, bigger conversations.
Like when I am fully expressedas myself, uh, sometimes that
can make people uncomfortable.
And that is the sacrifice wemake as we step into the next
phase of who we're becoming.
So in stepping into thebecoming, uh, some things had to
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fall away.
And it could be you could be sadby this law, or you could be an
acceptance of it.
Goddess Brittney (14:21):
That one was a
lesson that was also on my path
as well.
Lisset (14:27):
What?
Goddess Brittney (14:28):
There's only
one of us here.
There's only one of us here, andwith so much love, like the only
work that I can do is my own.
And so I I literally can't doanybody else's work for them.
And so, and it's honestly like adisservice and robbing them.
It reminds me of um when we werein Costa Rica, and that story
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that was tiled into the bathroomin the mosaics.
So there's a story about abutterfly um in the chrysalis,
and the chrysalis had fallen onthe ground, and so it was like
partially open, but not all theway open.
And the person walked by andwe're like, oh my God, I gotta
help it.
So they're like, Well, they'restruggling.
So they opened it, and then thebutterfly tried to get out and
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it couldn't fly.
Um, so it died.
And it's because that pressure,that constriction, them forcing
their way out is what actuallygives them the strength to be
able to fly.
And so the story was saying howit's a great, like, I don't know
if they use the word sin, butlike it's it's it's a huge
takeaway from someone else tonot let them create their own
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space because that is what isactually going to support them
in flying.
And so for us to be beingspaceholders, it's like we are
there to hold the space for themto remind them, like, yes, I'm
here helping you.
Lisset (15:47):
Yeah.
Goddess Brittney (15:47):
And like you
have to be the one to do the
break.
Yeah.
You have to do the one to be thebreak.
Yeah.
Lisset (15:54):
Respecting the struggle.
Yes.
And and your our own strugglesas we grow, harder conversations
need to need to be said.
Boundaries.
Um, the more mature I have, themore the better of my
boundaries.
Yep.
You know, and and realizing thatI don't need to have c
conversations I don't want tohave.
Or I can, you know, we we wespend our holidays in a very
particular way, you know, and welike to to to be in the depths
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of our love with each other andnourishing that and um not
always being in big groups ofpeople.
Yeah.
Because we we're nourishing whatwhat's growing between us.
Yeah.
So yeah, that was a big one.
Yeah.
Oh, well, those are good.
Goddess Brittney (16:33):
You want to
ask the next one?
Okay.
Um, what was the moment thisyear where you had to choose
between the old you and the nextlevel you?
Lisset (16:42):
Mmm.
Oh, this is a good one.
Yeah.
So I was at a training with ummy mentor Matt James, and it's
it's like the highest investmenttraining you can do.
And I remember uh a few monthsbefore I was sitting in panic
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because the investment was morethan I'd ever invested.
And I was like, like, oh mygosh, this is gonna cost this
much a month and all thesethings.
And and you lovingly hit me witha do you want to fucking do this
or not?
And I was like, I want to do it.
Then you're like, then we willfigure it out.
And that was like the first stepof like, okay, decision and
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figuring it out.
And I've learned that lesson,talk about repeating lessons
over and over and over again.
And I was at this, um, I was atthis seminar having like massive
breakthroughs, like goingthrough the depths of the work.
And there was a moment where Ifelt a decision.
And the decision was, are youare you done being poor?
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Like, do you like and and I waslike, like I heard the voice
inside and it was like, you haveto quit poverty like you quit
alcohol.
Like when I when spirit came inand said you have to quit
drinking, I was like, heard.
And then the I had it was amoment of decision of like, are
you done living in the fuckingscarcity?
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Are you done pretending that youcan't create anything?
Oh are you done pretending that,oh, I saw I don't have it to do
the things you want to do, orare you fucking committed to
being the absolute best, highestversion of yourself that's
fucking like, I know what costextra, you know?
Yeah.
And like I know that I'm gonnagrow in this thing, so I'm
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fucking all in on it.
Yeah.
So that the beginning of thatwas putting the chips in to go
to this thing.
But what my I think my thebiggest takeaway was quitting
pro poverty.
Yeah.
And from that moment forward,our lives just freaking
exploded.
Yeah.
And we were making numbers onlike any numbers we'd made
before.
And you know, I I say thishumbly with love and
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appreciation.
This is it was a really bigfucking deal to make that
decision.
Goddess Brittney (19:02):
Yeah.
Lisset (19:03):
Of course it was.
Yeah.
It was a decision.
It was a fucking decision.
I am done with that.
No, we're not doing that everagain.
Yeah.
It's just like I want to dothat, we'll figure we're
figuring it out.
I want that, we're figuring,like, we have it.
It's not even we're figuring itout, like we have it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
We have it.
We're running out isn't true.
How about you?
Goddess Brittney (19:23):
Yeah.
Gosh.
Um, a moment when I had tochoose between old me and new
me.
Hmm.
There was something that wastaught at Huna um in the upper
levels this past year about yourpath.
And our teacher just keptsaying, like, Huna could be your
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path, or Huna helps you on yourpath.
We don't care.
Either way is good.
And I just kept feeling thislike constriction and this thing
of like, well, is Huna my pathor is it part of my path?
Can I be a part of this path?
And my old like professional.
Shit is people pleaser is like,well, I want to be the best at
this path, even if I'm not evensure if it's my path.
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But I would like to be made ateacher of the path that I don't
even know is my path, becausethat means you're the best at
it, right?
And I want to be the best ateverything.
And so what I got clear aboutwas that is an old way of
operating.
And it's an old way of feelinglike, hey, my the way I can only
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receive love is based on myworth.
Uh my worth in a specific thing,like not inherent worth.
Yeah.
But I have to do a thing andthen I'll be I'll be I'll do a
thing and then I'll be worthy,and then I'll receive the love.
Um, that pattern.
So I had this moment of breakingthat.
And I was like, that is the oldway I've been operating, and I
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can't operate that way anymore.
And I really got clear of like,what is my path?
And my path is to help women.
And I was like, great, Huna isone of the tools that supports
me on my path.
Fantastic.
And all of a sudden, I just feltthis spaciousness and this
relaxation and all these things.
And it was like, can I be greatat it?
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Of course I can.
And like, and and it is one ofmany pools of resources and
wisdom and knowledge that isgoing to my bigger vision.
That's my purpose of empoweringwomen.
Empowering women is the thing.
And like that is my path.
Yeah.
And so to be able to say yes tomy path, it I just feel freedom.
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And it doesn't feel like I'mdoing it to get something from
somebody else.
That is the difference.
I'm not doing it to getsomething from anyone.
Lisset (21:42):
Got it.
Love it.
Yeah.
So what I heard you say was youfound your own inherent worth in
your path.
It's not about pleasing othersanymore.
Yes.
That's big.
That is really big.
Yeah.
What was your most honestfeedback moment with each other
as a couple?
Goddess Brittney (22:00):
Ew.
You know, I feel like it wasabout money.
And we were having really we dothis thing called radar.
We've talked about it in pastepisodes where it's like a
monthly relationship meeting,and money is one of the things
in the radar.
(22:20):
And, you know, she's beingmentored specifically about
wealth and money and prosperityand things like that.
I am having my own teachers.
And we were seeing thingsdifferently.
And I felt like we were holdingeach other accountable of like,
yo, so this is what I'm seeingthat you're doing.
(22:41):
And I feel like you reflected tome like young parts of not
having enough and scarcity.
And, you know, as someone whogrew up with a dad who had a
secret family, um, my mom andher side of the family was very
clear that you being a woman ina relationship, you always have
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to make your own money and youalways have to have your own
money because you never knowwhen a fucking lifetime movie
situation is gonna happen andyou need to fucking be able to
dip.
And a lot of people womenhistorically feel trapped in
certain relationships becausethey don't have access to their
own money.
SPEAKER_05 (23:18):
Yeah.
Goddess Brittney (23:18):
So you
reflecting that to me brought me
into an initiation of like, Iunderstand that they taught me
that.
And is that lesson still servingme now?
How can I lean into partnershipfully and lean into more
trusting of the we um as far asresources go um and have and
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experience a different realitythan what I was taught?
Lisset (23:44):
Yeah, that was a big
initiation.
Goddess Brittney (23:46):
Yeah.
Welcome to the King'srelationship.
Like we were like, what do youtalk about?
It's like, well, there was aspiritual initiation.
Lisset (23:55):
There was a spiritual
initiation.
Um there it was also aroundmoney and there's this, there's
a long game, and then there'sthere's what we're doing now.
Yeah.
And I I remember you wanted um,you wanted a brand new Lexus.
(24:17):
Yes.
Yes.
Still want it.
Yes.
That that's not changed.
Yeah.
Um Audi.
Yeah.
Q5.
Yeah.
And we were having thisconversation, and for me, what I
heard was, you want it and youwant it now.
And I had to, I got to go to mymentor and be like, um, we have
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a plan.
It's a long-term plan.
And she wants this thing now.
And I am feeling the essentiallyparts pulling me in two
directions of I want to be inabundance and be like, YOLO, we
fucking have it, and I canbelieve that we have it.
And we have this long-term plan.
(24:58):
And and he what what was broughtto the attention was both can be
true.
Both can absolutely be true.
And it's like, what if we'restill working the plan?
We're still working the plan ofum raising our credit scores,
buying increasing our buyingpower, increasing our savings,
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while also, yes, you can havethe car before we have a baby.
You know?
And that in of itself createdthis alignment of it doesn't
mean that I'm not being abundantbecause I can't have it now.
And it allowed us to just havethis, like it was, I remember
(25:39):
being very stressed about it.
And you just reflecting back tome, like, what's up with that?
Like, what's like what, youknow, not saying that I wasn't
being abundant, but it's justlike, but you're not, but you're
not, you know, and having toreconcile that that it was like,
(26:02):
how can we, how can both betrue?
Yeah.
How can now we are incrediblyabundant and we're moving,
building toward a future wherewe have everything.
And yeah, it's just been thisreally beautiful gift of like,
can we be, can we love andappreciate the moment, the
present moment while still beingokay with wanting and desiring
(26:23):
more?
And that was um, it was quitethe initiation.
Money has been a really biginitiation.
Great teacher, y'all.
Great teacher.
Great teacher.
How you interact with money iswe'll tell you lots.
We'll tell you so much.
Yeah.
Goddess Brittney (26:38):
How did we
grow together?
And where and how did we growseparately?
Lisset (26:44):
I felt kind of
piggybacks to the last one.
I felt us grow in a maturity inour relationship and our ability
to be honest with each other andum lean into our becoming as a
couple and as an individuals,and go, no, we're we're doubling
(27:06):
down on.
We are a team.
SPEAKER_03 (27:08):
Yeah.
Lisset (27:08):
And we're creating
together.
And what you create is buildingyour future.
And what's what I'm creating isbuilding my future.
And where I grew separately waswith my Kyle and Chloe.
You know, my my my team, mymastery morning team.
Like, I what I love about thatcommunity is, and I love that
you're there every week.
(27:29):
You know, what I love about thatcommunity is it's something that
Kyle, Chloe, and I have alwaysfelt connected to, and we wanted
to serve our community in acertain way.
And to be able to show up, we'veshown up every week all year
long.
Yeah.
For our community.
And so talk about like sowingthe seeds and creating, creating
something with consistory, consconsistency that has allowed for
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mastery, like mastery of givingtalks every few few weeks,
coaching every week, mm mmMCing, mentoring, being in a
business partnership withfriends that I love, you know.
It it was that was my separategrowing that I know contributed
to being even stronger andfaster with you in in what what
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we have, because we have abusiness as well.
Goddess Brittney (28:20):
Yeah.
Um I felt that we grew a lottogether on this parenting
journey.
Lisset (28:32):
Um I was gonna say that.
I wasn't sure if we were tellingeveryone that we were a parent.
Oh, okay.
Goddess Brittney (28:37):
Well, here you
go.
Lisset (28:39):
We're in the becoming
parents.
We're in the becoming ofparents.
Yes.
Goddess Brittney (28:42):
We're in the
becoming of becoming parents,
and I felt like we grew a lotabout that, specifically patient
perseverance, um, trusting theunseen.
And these initiation like, Imean, I just I see you all the
time, and like particularly thispast year, there's just been so
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many like really touchingmoments where I'm just like,
she's a great mom.
And I cannot wait to have thisexperience with you, you know,
like and I never felt that wayabout any else before that I
want to, you know, raise a humanwith, or yeah, like I just
really feel like we're a verybeautiful and solid team and
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support each other in theseincredible ways, and we are able
to give to others in our ownunique way.
And I was just like, I love theway you give and how nurturing
you are and how loving you are.
And like you guys, she takescare of the dogs and all the way
every night.
She likes tucks them in andtells them goodnight, like all
these little things, and I waveat them from the bed.
I'm like, she's so good, she'ssuch a good mom.
Lisset (29:52):
And when Layla was going
through her time, oh my gosh,
giving up four hours.
Goddess Brittney (29:56):
Yes, all the
things you're just so
beautifully nurturing.
So to me, that was one of thebig um expansions of growth that
we had as a couple, and I mean,also me as an individual um
really owning that I can doeverything that I want to do,
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and I can have everything that Iwant to have.
And previously there was um adichotomy in conflict, being
like, I know my path and mypurpose is to empower women.
Can I do that and be a motherand also be the kind of at the
level of presence in motherhoodthat I want to have?
(30:41):
And I had tons of initiationsand baggage blown out around
that this year.
And I felt like that was my owngrowth of like, girl, you can
have anything you want to.
You get to decide how you wantyour life to be.
You get to decide how you wantit to grow.
And like, you want to have abadass business, fantastic.
You want to be a badass mother?
Fantastic.
You can do both.
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And like we can create the waythat it looks where I am happy
with all of the ways that it I'min joy of all the ways that both
are going.
So like I was like, I get todecide my life works for me.
And that's what I'm choosing todecide.
Lisset (31:18):
Yeah.
Oh yeah, the the parenting thingis the next best seminar.
Goddess Brittney (31:24):
Yeah.
We're about to partake in.
I mean, hey, we've signed, Ifeel like we signed up for all
the AP classes.
It was like polyamory,entrepreneurship, parenthood.
Like it's just like they're likethey have a fully stocked
curriculum, guys.
Yeah, higher level wisdom.
Uh-huh.
Yeah.
So good.
Okay.
Lisset (31:44):
What's a behind the
scenes moment from the podcast
that still makes you laugh?
Goddess Brittney (31:50):
Still makes me
laugh.
Well, okay, there was this oneepisode, and you were kind of
like s in a slap happy place.
Oh, the cough syrup?
Yes, I think you're.
Lisset (32:15):
I kind of gave one train
of thought.
Goddess Brittney (32:17):
No, and then
Lila would just start drinking
every time I started talking.
Lisset (32:20):
Oh, or Luna would start
licking her pussy.
Yeah.
In a very loud way.
Yes.
Goddess Brittney (32:25):
Yeah.
So it was funny in editingbecause I was just like, this is
crazy.
Lisset (32:30):
Like, how do I make this
episode make sense?
And I thought it was, I justkept laughing.
Yeah, yeah.
And laughing, and she's likegetting annoyed with me, which
made me laugh harder.
Yeah.
Goddess Brittney (32:41):
So that was
that was funny in hindsight.
In the moment I was not amused.
Any other behind-the-scenesmoments of them?
Lisset (32:50):
You know.
I would say the the last episodethat we recorded uh with the
question from Kenny.
Oh, that was so great.
With the slap back.
Yes.
I was just like, we I loved howunhinged we allowed ourselves to
be.
Yes.
You know, it takes a lot of um,it takes a lot of self-control
(33:10):
to be this smart and witty.
unknown (33:12):
Yeah.
Lisset (33:14):
And not a miserate
people.
So yeah, it was just so fun tobe able to like let that let out
that steam.
Goddess Brittney (33:22):
Yeah.
I love it.
Yeah.
Okay, this question just poppedinto me in my head because I was
just like, oh, I want to shareabout this.
I was like, what has been justlike a magical moment of this
past year?
So I have mine.
Go ahead.
Tell me your most my magicalmoment is when you took me to
visit our friends, um, Tracy andChris in Montana and Kylie, and
we just had a fucking magicaltime.
(33:45):
Oh my gosh.
Dancing and playing and was itsnow?
It was snowing.
There was snow and like playingwith the dog.
And I just remember like dancingaround the living room, just
laughing so hard and feelingreally just like blissful,
connected, joyous, happy, andlike literally miracles.
(34:10):
I was just like, what a miracleto have met such incredible
friends, like such beautiful andincredible friends.
What a miracle that to be withmy love.
Yeah.
Like, what a miracle that I getto celebrate my birth and slash
our anniversary.
Like, how fun! Like everythingabout it just felt like miracle,
miracle, miracle, miracle instereo.
And I just remember just beingin so much joy.
(34:32):
And I was just like, This is thebest life ever.
Lisset (34:36):
Yeah.
That was such a great moment.
Yeah.
Magic.
Magic.
It was pure magic.
Oh well, there was there was amoment that was magical for me
when I was teaching at Huna.
And one of the things I wasteaching on how to see energy.
(34:56):
Yeah.
At on the big island.
And I think I was one of thegoals I had made was for
everyone to have an experienceof seeing or experiencing
energy.
And to not leave that room untileveryone did.
And to have everyone light up,like to see the faces pop off
and the joy and the like, oh myGod, I saw it.
(35:18):
I saw it.
I felt it.
And people were actually havinglike full-on experiences was
beyond like talk about magicalmoment.
And then afterwards, the the thejoy and appreciation in people's
faces.
Yeah, I just love impact.
Yeah, the ability to impact inthat way.
But there's been, you know,there's been very personal
(35:40):
magical moments where you and Ium banned that Alabama Shake
show.
Oh yeah.
Goddess Brittney (35:47):
That was like
church.
That was out of control.
Lisset (35:50):
British that show was
spectacular.
And like just getting to be inBend with you and playing in the
water.
Goddess Brittney (35:58):
And it was
just that was a magical time.
Oh, our camping anniversarytrip.
Camping anniversary.
That was a great time.
That was a great time.
So magical.
Yeah.
Lisset (36:07):
The pups laying in bed
with us.
Goddess Brittney (36:08):
It just
there's been sorry, I saw it was
like the the airstreamexperience after the Austin
retreat.
Lisset (36:14):
Oh, the Austin retreat.
The sexual fantasies retreat.
Yeah.
Yeah, that changed our lives ina really big way.
Yeah.
We have like things have notbeen the same in the best way
possible.
Yeah.
Since that retreat.
But yeah, the airstream.
Thank you, Lynn, Lucas.
Goddess Brittney (36:28):
Yeah.
Um, it was just, yeah, there'slots of beautiful and magical
moments.
But I love that because as soonas you start to say one, then
you feel like another one.
And then it's like, oh my god,there's another one.
There's another one.
And like, yeah, there's so muchmagic of the year.
So what if your year was to havea title?
What would the title of your ofthis of 2025 mean be for you?
Lisset (36:54):
The first word that came
up was upgrade.
Ooh.
Yeah.
Like everything in my life, inmy life feels upgraded.
Our relationship feels upgraded.
Like I, you know, I I trip outthat we've been together for
seven and a half years becauseit feels like a blink of an eye.
It feels like a blink of an eye.
It feels like it's it stillfeels so new.
(37:15):
You know, our desire for eachother, our want for each other,
the laughter, the play.
Like, you know, we we have westill have very much newlywed
vibes.
Yeah.
And I think that's just Fulva.
Forever.
So the uh and and watching usupgrade.
Every time we, you know, evenjust like the whole Lexus thing
was really spectacular from theplace of like, no, this is who
(37:38):
we are now.
You know, this is this is whowe're becoming.
Upstairs people.
We are upstairs people andwatching us up level and going,
no, we're going to do this.
And you launching a membership.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Like you launching yourmembership.
And just like, wow, she fuckingowns who she is and her message
and what it means to people, youknow.
And I have felt my own internalupgrade of who I'm becoming with
(38:01):
a grounded certainty in it.
unknown (38:03):
Yeah.
Lisset (38:03):
That feels really
spectacular.
Goddess Brittney (38:05):
Oh, I love
that.
Lisset (38:07):
I love it.
What's the title?
Goddess Brittney (38:11):
I feel like
it's this is what came like
choose your purpose.
And like um this, right?
Yeah.
I I felt like it was a year ofchoosing and choosing to be my
purpose, choosing to connect mypurpose, choosing to live my
purpose.
Um that and be.
Maybe it's B or B your purpose,but I felt like there was a
(38:33):
choice in there, and I keptchoosing.
Um and it just felt like areally, really big year in
understanding more about myselfand who I be and my gifts.
And I felt like I had anundeniable understanding of my
(38:57):
unique magic.
And I remember I was just like,in words that I understood, and
I tried and I shared it with afriend, and I was like, you
know, I think I'm really giftedat this thing.
They're like, Well, I could havetold you that.
And I was like, really?
And they're like, duh.
And I was like, well, why didn'tI mean it's funny because you
have to discover it foryourself.
(39:18):
People can literally tell youthe answer, but you have to
discover it for yourself.
You have to discover foryourself.
Um, and I had a a great, a granddiscovery um around that.
So that felt really fun.
Lisset (39:30):
Yeah.
Really, really fun.
I I crack up when you have asession, you're like, I really
helped her today.
And I'm like, duh.
But it's so cute.
Cause like that is theexcitement, that's the love,
that's the light that you putinto your work with such joy.
And and like you get so much joyfrom helping people.
I do.
Goddess Brittney (39:50):
So do you.
Lisset (39:51):
I do.
Yeah.
I do.
I nerd out all the time.
Goddess Brittney (39:53):
Yeah, stay
gonna serve a client waking up
at four.
Is it timing?
Lisset (39:57):
Are they here?
Yeah.
Do you think if I opened a zoom?
They'll just be there.
Yeah, no, I do.
I love it.
I love what I do.
And and I I kind of wanted tocircle back on upgrade because I
feel that way about our podcast.
Yeah.
I this this year has beenbangers.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Matt James on Homo Pono Pono.
(40:19):
Yeah.
The Narcissus Proof.
Lauren.
Um Jana and Angela.
About the somatic.
There's so many more.
Arkeny episode.
There's been uh there's justbeen really beautiful interviews
in there.
I know there's other ones,please forgive us.
Oh, um Mary Lou Rodriguez onmoney.
(40:40):
You know, we've just had peoplecome in and share their wisdom
that I'm so excited for nextyear.
Goddess Brittney (40:47):
Yeah, me too.
Yeah.
Well, if there are any thingsthat you're like, yo, I want you
guys to do an episode aboutthat.
Send us a text, send us anemail, be like, can ask us a
question or be like, can youguys riff on this?
Can you do an episode aboutthat?
Can you do like because we weare here like this is a podcast
(41:07):
that's of service.
We created it for our communitybecause we felt like there
weren't tons of spaces all thetime where people could get
access to differentconversations, different
perspectives, and differentteachers.
And we're like, we're reallyplugged in.
People are like, How do you knowall these people?
And we're like, well, all ofthese different ways, but like
we can bring them to you.
(41:28):
And we we love to share and welove to give and we love to give
to our community.
So get at us if there'ssomething that you're like, I
please help me see this in adifferent way.
Yes.
Let us know.
Our number is 971-895-4111.
And this is the fourth year ofour podcast.
So exciting.
Lisset (41:48):
Should we tell them
about the fifth year or thing?
Sure.
What are we saying?
Okay.
Something I want to say, it's umthis can go either way.
I can say this with a heavyheart, or I can say this with
excitement and joy.
And it's our commitment onmaking this podcast was always
we're gonna make it for fiveyears.
(42:09):
Yeah.
And a minimum of five years.
Right?
A minimum of five years.
Yeah.
Because so many podcasts fail orlike don't make it out of the
three episode work.
And so our commitment toourselves was let's do this
podcast for at least five years.
(42:30):
And with that said, um, ourfifth year's coming up, and
Brittany's been doing all theediting.
Britney's been carrying this.
I I guys, I don't do, I justthis you hear my voice.
This is the extent of what I do.
Brittany makes this thing happenwith every, with her whole
chest, with every ounce of herbeing, her blood, sweat, and
tears go into it.
And I just go, stamp! I justpose for the photos.
(42:55):
And you know, it's it's notsomething that is sustainable in
the long run, especially withall the businesses that she's
building.
It's this is our year to, hey,if please share this with
people, help it go far and wide.
If we get picked up by a stationor or, you know, we get the
funding and stuff to keep thisgoing, we will.
(43:16):
And or we might just let it befive beautiful years and wrap
it.
So we are at a precipice ofwe're gonna give that last year
our all.
We're gonna put our our our loveand joy into it and we're gonna
see what happens.
Yeah.
And also if if it just is whatit is and we we come bring that
(43:37):
to completion, it's been so muchfun making this for you.
Yeah.
We deeply love making this.
And yeah, just help us out.
Share it, truly share it, spreadit.
If you know someone who doesn'tlisten to it and you love it,
because we know we have diehardfan fans, yeah.
Like for me, I'm like, let'smake it forever.
And Brittany's like, that's easyfor you to say.
Goddess Brittney (43:58):
Well, I mean,
it's it's uh it's a beautiful
experience with energies.
It's like there's creation, thestarting energy, transforming
energy, and completion energy.
And so we're really feeling intofor myself, it's where am I
feeling called to serve themost?
And where do I feel like I'mhaving the biggest impact, or
(44:21):
where can I be the mostimpactful?
And I'm like, okay, this is partof the reason I started the
membership.
I was like, this my heart feelscalled there.
Yeah.
So we'll see.
It's a we'll see.
It might be completion energy,it might be transformation
energy, it might be getting ateam member who does the editing
and things like that.
Yeah.
Um, we'll see.
(44:42):
But we are gonna be, we're gonnabe share it wide.
We are gonna, this is the lastepisode of season four.
We're gonna take a few monthsoff.
Yes, and we will be back in thespring for the fifth season with
a new episode, new guests.
Um, so let us know what youwould love to hear.
We hope you have a beautiful endof this year.
(45:02):
Happy holidays if that arethings that you celebrate.
Allow yourself to go within anduse the winter portal to do some
inner work.
This is why I host retreats inthe winter.
One, it's a great time to gowithin, and two, it's a time to
go to the sun.
Lisset (45:17):
So absolutely.
And you know, we will always behere available for you.
You can always reach out to uson social media and our
websites.
Our websites, uh,lasetteking.com, goddess
BrittanyKing.com.
And you can find us there.
We're always here to help you,to serve you, to help you in up
leveling your life.
(45:38):
That's that's what we're here todo more than anything.
And until we see you nextseason, be honest with each
other.
Goddess Brittney (45:45):
Bye.