April 24, 2025 • 61 mins
What if your body is actively rejecting the wealth you consciously want? Wealth expert Mary Lou Rodriguez takes us on a profound journey into our unconscious money blocks and reveals why affirmations alone won't change your financial reality.
Growing up working in strawberry fields, Mary Lou absorbed unconscious beliefs that "money wasn't meant for people like her." Despite these early imprints, she transformed her relationship with wealth to become a seven-figure entrepreneur and brain training expert who's helped thousands rewire their minds for abundance. Her story illuminates the path from scarcity to prosperity that's available to anyone willing to do the deeper work.
This conversation gets uncomfortable in the best way as we explore how our bodies hold traumatic money stories that consciously or unconsciously drive our financial decisions. We discover why many of us have "fight" energy around resources, equate money with stress or sadness, or feel unsafe receiving more than we're accustomed to having. Mary Lou guides us through powerful practices to create safety in our nervous systems so we can genuinely receive more without self-sabotage.
The most striking revelation? Your body might be programmed to reject wealth even when your mind desires it. We unpack why lottery winners go broke, why entrepreneurs plateau right before breakthroughs, and why "loving money" intellectually isn't enough to change your financial reality. Mary Lou shares tangible practices to help your body feel safe with abundance.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We learn based on what was modeled to us, what was
told to us, what we saw, and soif we learned early on that
money equals stress, that is therelationship that we have with
money today.
Welcome to.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Honest Feedback.
The podcast where deep truthmeets bold transformation.
I'm goddess Brittany King, apleasure priestess and a
transformational retreatfacilitator who helps women
connect to their deepest truths,reclaim their pleasure and
awaken their inner power.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
And I'm Lissette King , an emotional ninja and
transformational coach who helpsleaders release baggage, heal
unresolved trauma and step intotheir most aligned, purposeful
lives.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
We've created this podcast for spirit-led
individuals just like you,seekers of truth, personal
growth and meaningful connection.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Whether you're navigating life's big questions,
craving more joy andfulfillment, or simply looking
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Speaker 2 (00:57):
Through personal stories, actionable advice and
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Our ultimate goal is to empoweryou to create a life that's
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Speaker 3 (01:10):
We know you're capable of incredible things, so
let's make it happen together.
Welcome back to Honest Feedback.
We took a little break.
Yeah, we did.
You know, we were learning, wewere growing, we were cruising,
we were watching friends getmarried.
Yeah, I actually marriedsomeone yeah, yeah, you're
officially ordained I'm yeah,I'm an ordained minister now,
(01:35):
wow, life has happened, uh.
But it's actually really quiteappropriate, because we have
been balling out and thisepisode's about money, money.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeah Well, we're just going to flow with it.
Yeah, cardi B money.
Insert money song here.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Yeah, we'll just air dance to the money song that we
inserted here.
It's probably not there, to behonest with you, but cool yeah.
So how do you feel about money?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I mean love it Big fan, Big fan.
Love all the choices.
I'm here for more of it.
Yeah, and you know, sometimessome conflicting feelings come
up.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
How about?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
you, I absolutely love it.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I've had really, you know, my relationship with it
has grown, but I feel like Ihave a pretty good, you know,
the love is there.
The love is there.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
The love is there, you know we're building it up,
yeah, and I feel really, reallyexcited because we have a
fucking goddess queen.
Oh, she's a queen On today.
Yeah, Mary Lou, she's a realone.
We met her some time ago and,yeah, just hearts in the eyes,
you know, you feel the soulconnection and you're just like
(02:46):
you are in the vibe.
And so we have Mary Lou ontoday here I'll read her bio.
So Mary Lou Rodriguez.
She is a brain training expertin wealth and success and CEO of
a thriving growth company withinternational reach.
She's helped thousands rewiretheir brains, shift beliefs and
(03:07):
unlock unstoppable competence toachieve wealth and success.
As a keynote speaker and thehost of the podcast the
Unstoppable Mind, she teachesframeworks rooted in
neuroscience and spiritual lawsfor lasting transformation.
Her mission is to help 1million individuals overcome
(03:27):
mental blocks, eliminateself-doubt and manifest their
dreams through powerful programsand brain training tools.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Oh, I love that Right Gosh.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
That is what I mean, like her bio is upgrading me.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
And so to be able to have someone on to teach about
the frequency of wealth, I justfeel what an invitation to
expand, expand into yourgreatness, expand into your
power that's really just sopotent and gives us an
opportunity to talk about oursponsor, Brittany.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Talk about our sponsor.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yes, this week's episode of Honest Feedback is
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Speaker 2 (05:52):
Feedback.
We should give Mary Lou a call.
Are you ready to give?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
her a call.
Yeah, let's give her a ring,okay.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Hi Mary Lou, Hello, Hello you two.
Hi Mary Lou, Hello, Hello youtwo.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
We are so, so grateful to have you on the
podcast today.
I mean, gosh, we met at camp.
Yes, I feel like, yes,facilitating being camp
counselors, and people were herefor Mary Lou and her medicine
and her money codes and herprosperity and, yeah, we're just
(06:26):
so, so honored to have you onthe podcast today.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
You know, I just like I'm excited I've been, I've
been talking about hanging outwith you too, and I feel really
just blessed and super gratefulto be able to share with you and
with the people that listen toyour podcast.
Just help them to have someawareness, some understanding
and some love for themselves aswe talk about money, Because
(06:53):
money can bring up a lot ofcrazy feelings, and I really
want people to know howincredible they are, despite
what it is that they believeabout themselves or what they
believe about money.
So I'm super excited to be here.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Yes, yes, well, we gave your, your official bio,
but like in your own words, fromyour heart, like how are you
serving people, how are you, howare you being?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Yeah, so I work with people who are in all different
types of of careers.
I tend to work mostly withentrepreneurs, and I I feel like
I work with the most talented,the most gifted entrepreneurs
(07:38):
who aren't making the money thatthey know that they deserve,
and so I love to be able to likehelp people understand the.
You know all the money thatthey know that they deserve, and
so I love to be able to likehelp people understand the.
You know all the things thatare probably blocking them, and
I love being able to help peopleunderstand that inside of them,
I believe that there's amillionaire.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
And so because if I can become a millionaire,
anybody can become a millionaire, and that's the truth.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
And so Inside of me, I do.
I do, because if I can become amillionaire, anybody can become
a millionaire, and that's thetruth.
Like that is the truth.
And so we're going to have areal conversation today about
how you do that, and so yeah,Love it.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
I'm here for this conversation.
Unleash my inner millionaireyes.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Well, what led you to this path?
Like were you born into money.
But like, yeah, you get abillionaire, You're a
billionaire.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I know, I remember when I was first learning
identity and I was I rememberthinking like what would it have
been like had I been born intomoney, you know, just knowing
that money was like water orthat money was always available
to you.
I was like that was such aforeign concept for me at the
time because it was so oppositeof the way that I was raised.
(08:57):
So my parents are from Mexico,they were, they're immigrants,
but we were also migrant workersand so we worked in the fields
seasonally.
I mean, well, the kids did my.
You know, my stepfather workedyear round.
But my first memories are beingin the strawberry fields, and it
wasn't just myself, it was allmy siblings and we did, and I
must've been like four or five,and I'll talk about this in just
(09:21):
a moment.
But what came to mind here?
But I remember, like learningeverything about who I was in
those strawberry fields.
I remember learning that moneywasn't meant for me.
I remember learning that I wasMexican and I remember thinking
that Mexican people were poor,because that was my experience.
I didn't know anything elseother than we were broke.
(09:45):
We never had enough money,didn't grow on trees although my
mom didn't say that necessarilythat wasn't the saying that she
used, but it was just a really.
I mean, there was alcoholism,there was traumas, and so money
(10:07):
was.
The reason why I love to talkand teach about money is because
of my experience of living andI thought, oh my gosh.
I was like this is absolutelyincredible how I went from when
(10:32):
I first became a hypnotist, howI went from 16 cents to seven
figures Like it's absolutelywild.
And it wasn't a destiny thatwas meant for me, according to
what my mother and my fathertold me, not because they didn't
love me, but because theydidn't know any different.
But this is a destiny that Ihave chosen and I believe in and
(10:54):
I love and I want to helpothers see that they can have
this too.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Yes, yes, are you guys inspired?
Listening to this, I am lit up.
We've brought the big guns into help us today and thank you
so much for your vulnerabilityand sharing more of your story.
I feel like sometimes we canother people with money and it's
the stories, it's them overthere, and I mean this is what
(11:22):
our writer starts to talk aboutwhen we get into the question
and as someone who's been in myown experience of have not into
having and all the tumult thatcomes up I'm really, really
excited to jump into.
Yes, okay, so we have a texter.
(11:46):
I grew up in a home where moneywas always a source of stress.
My parents worked so hard, butwe never had quite enough.
I remember hearing things likerich people are selfish and
we're not like them, and overtime I internalized this idea
that having more meant takingfrom others.
I'm an adult and anentrepreneur, yet every time I
(12:10):
reach for more whether it'scharging more in my business,
dreaming of a bigger life orsimply wanting a luxurious life
it's like this inner alarm goesoff.
I feel guilty, greedy, like I'mbetraying where I came from.
And on top of that, I'venoticed I only feel deserving
when I've earned it throughstruggle.
(12:31):
If something comes too easily,I push it away or I downplay it.
There's a part of me thatbelieves I have to suffer to be
worthy.
How do I move through this?
Can I really have more, or am Ijust selfish, signed,
struggling with money?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
So I read this question last night and I didn't
go into it in my mind because Iwanted to just sit with this
and show up today and talk aboutwhat comes through me, through
my heart, because when I readthis question, I was like this
is me and this is so.
Many other entrepreneurs feltthe same way.
(13:12):
I was just like this was who Iused to be and I had no idea
about how to become Honestlylike.
Thank you, dr Joe Dispenza, andthank you to being a hypnotist,
because I understood that therewas a rewiring piece before
rewiring became a big deal, youknow.
So I understood that, um, andso I love this question so much
(13:37):
because I was like, oh my gosh,this question is going to help
so many people, because it's adeep, deep question, and I could
feel the pain of this person asthey were writing about their
money story and the type ofrelationship that they have with
money currently.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Yeah, this hit me at my core.
I was like did I write this?
I'm like answer this for usplease.
I like answer this for usplease.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
There's so many different factors at play with
this question, and one of thefirst things that I would love
to talk about is how money isalways a source of stress.
So I wrote that down as youwere speaking.
Because what we don'tunderstand when we're learning
about money, and that's becauseour brains you know, we're,
we're you know four, five, six,seven, eight years old and we're
you know our brains are somalleable and they're taking
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everything in like a sponge andwe learn based on what was
modeled to us, what was told tous, what we saw, and so if we
learned early on that moneyequals stress, that is the
relationship that we have withmoney today.
Yeah, okay, I'm gettinggoosebumps.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
We can throw down for a long time about this.
Because I did not know.
I kept saying, because I wantedto believe that I loved money,
but there, my body was not onboard with that.
I did not feel it, no matterhow many times I told myself
because that's what you hear,right, change your relationship
with money.
(15:14):
But the truth is unconsciouslyin my subconscious mind, the
truth of how I felt about money.
And this is the question Ialways ask people.
I always say how do you feelabout money?
And people will say I lovemoney and I don't want to be
rude in any way, so I'm not, butmy mind goes but does their
(15:41):
external reality reflect that.
Yeah, yeah, so you're followingright.
Yes, so crazy, but I get it.
I understand it Consciously.
They love money, but underneathI'll ask questions, like at my
trainings or workshops orwhatever it is, and I'll be like
I don't want you to answer thefirst thing that comes to mind
when I ask you how you feelabout money or why you would
love more money in your life.
We'll come back to that, butI'm like I want you just to sit
(16:04):
with it and ask your body how doyou really feel about money?
Then we'll start to get deep andthen start to be like well, the
truth is, this is how I grew upwith money and then, but it's
even deeper than that, becausethe truth, it's like it's even
(16:24):
deeper than that.
It's not even just stress, it'swhat money means to you.
So that's another question Iask people is what does money
act?
How do you feel about money?
And then, what does moneyactually mean to you?
And not current, you knowLisette, or you know Brittany.
It's not to current adult you,it's not to current adult you,
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to the little version of youthat became like the little
version of you that was firstexposed to money.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
You know, what even just came up for me was, like
the first thing I was like Ifelt this energy of like
fighting.
Yeah, I felt this energy offighting and it was.
It was so not present until youbrought it into the field.
And I feel like these questionsthat you're asking are so
potent because it's when yousaid how do you feel about money
.
A lot of times we can go to ourconscious mind of this is how I
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feel about money.
But if you start going intoyour body, literally, how do I
feel about money, I for myself,I'll just be vulnerable.
It's like, well, there's a partof me that, like my heart
starts to quicken, um, feeling alittle less safe.
You know, and this is justtalking about it, this is just
like you know, this is justtalking about it.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Yeah, what came up for you?
No, I will.
What happened was that, I re.
I had an instant memory of my.
It was always a cause of sorrow.
My, I would see my mom at thekitchen table doing math on the
bills and it was like the numberalways made her sad and I would
see her crying at the table andso I would cry with her because
(17:54):
I didn't like seeing my mom sad.
So I remember we would just becrying over money and I didn't
even know what it was yet, but Iwas already sad.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
So yeah, help already said Wow.
Speaker 1 (18:14):
So, yeah, help, wow, yeah, wow, oh my gosh.
So that's so what we?
So the thing that we don'tunderstand is if we don't have a
good relationship with moneyand we receive it and we didn't
receive it through struggle, andwe'll talk about that too
because I was in the strawberryfields, for because I was right.
You know, that's how I grew up.
That was the pattern of what Iknew I was.
I wasn't.
It wasn't until I was like 47that I realized I'm still in the
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strawberry fields, I'm still inthe paradigm of, like the F in
strawberry fields, like I, Idon't get to choose my life, I
just accept whatever's given tome and that cause.
That's how I felt as a child.
Oh, my gosh, I'm gettinggoosebumps again.
But back to but.
(18:59):
But back to how you feel aboutmoney.
That will dictate how much youhave and if you receive it.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
And money makes you sad, I can already tell you
people will push it away.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Yeah, who wants to be sad who?
Wants to feel unsafe or whowants to feel stressed.
You know what I mean.
Like think there's going to bea fight or think there's going
to be a fight Like these are theunconscious things that are
that are holding us back.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Oh my gosh, totally so sadness and fighting, and
mine, mine is pain.
Money equals pain, but I didn'tyou don't, you don't know that
it's like it's so unconscious.
But when I looked at my lifeand I looked at at at my, my, my
mom and my, my dad and my, youknow it's like it just money
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really meant pain, and, and sothat's the deeper layer that we,
like, that I help peopleunderstand, is the truth of how
they feel about money.
And it is not wrong, it's not I, for some reason, we just think
that we have to hide the truth.
It's beautiful, it's like it'sthe moment that you get to begin
(20:02):
to shift.
It's the moment that you get tobegin to shift, and you know, I
can totally relate to fightingfor money, because I, my mom,
taught us we had to fight foreverything.
We had to fight.
That's how, and so so, brittany, yeah, so one of the pieces to
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moving into the new identity,because otherwise we'll take the
fighting pattern with us.
We don't mean to, it's not,it's not conscious, but it's how
we were raised and so it'sthere, it gets activated inside
of us, and one of the things Irealized is that my new identity
.
I was so afraid and this relatesto the question I was so afraid
(20:45):
to let go of the fighting.
Like what would my life be likeif I didn't fight for
everything?
And my poor sweet boyfriend?
My poor sweet boyfriend is socalm, but he's a product of his
environment.
He had two loving parents.
That that validated him.
And I am a product of myenvironment and and and I'm a
(21:08):
badass, yeah.
So sometimes I do respond still, because I do get activated,
like that's the other thing.
I think.
Talk to me in 10 more years andI'll I'll tell you whether or
not the the my, whether or notmy wounds get activated, but I'm
the first to be like I'mfeeling activated right now.
I know that something is iskicking up a fuss in me and I'm
(21:32):
not exactly sure why, but I feelangry.
But anyways, okay.
So the fighting piece.
So what would you like?
What would you?
Let me see how I want to askyou this question.
How do you and I'm thinking andI'm feeling into this, and you
(21:56):
saw me how I coach- right, yeah.
We got started.
I'm tuning in.
If you gave up the fight, whatwould that mean?
Speaker 2 (22:12):
I mean, I just feel like this sigh of relief and
like this energy of emotioncoming up of like what does it
even mean to give that up?
You know, um, what would my lifebe like if I didn't have to
fight, you know, and what'srunning through my head is even
feeling all the ways that we meand my siblings would fight.
(22:33):
It was like it feels likethere's not enough food, so
we're fighting over food, we'refighting over attention, cause
it feels like that's a limitedresource, like I'm just like
it's.
I'm feeling I'm seeing it instereo now, in all the ways we
were reenacting this pattern ofwe have to fight for resources,
love, safety, belonging, food,like, uh, educate like that was
(22:55):
a constant fight in my houseeducation, like who gets this,
who gets who gets to go to thatschool, and so it was this
energy of fighting and I'm likegosh to let that go.
I'm like it feels like evenjust thinking about I'm like wow
, it seems like there'd be a lotof space and an opportunity of
like who can I, who could I be?
Speaker 1 (23:25):
who could I be if that's not driving?
Yeah, yes, yes, I had thehardest time saying the word
privileged, and because Ilearned I was not privileged and
I grew up believing that I wasnot privileged.
And so, as an adult and as Istarted to create more wealth in
my life, and then I go.
You know, I travel a lot, andso I'm going to all these
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different countries where I amso privileged and I'm even
privileged here, of course butit was hard for me to say the
word privilege I remember it waslike a dirty word.
So this goes back to also our,our, our listener.
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But when I was like, what do Ilose by calling myself
privileged?
And then I started to crybecause I understood that it
felt like I was, I was cuttingmy ties to my mom, to my
heritage, to my ancestors, to,to cause.
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I had taken a vow of poverty.
I mean, of course I don'tremember that and I was like
saying goodbye.
I thought I was interpreting itas I'm saying goodbye to who
I've been, and so I just criedand cried and cried so that I
(24:51):
could release it.
Because the truth is is thatthey are cheering me on.
My mom wants me to have peace,my mom doesn't want me to fight,
my mom wants me to enjoy lifeand everything it has to offer.
And it only means goodbye if Iinterpret or make it mean that
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it's goodbye, that it's goodbye.
But in my visualization, when Ifirst started to like, call,
like, be comfortable, callingmyself, you know, a, a seven
figure cause, imagine, yeah, andI remember, and I would
visualize all my, my ancestorsbehind me, holding me and
(25:36):
cheering me on holding me andcheering me on Gosh girl, what I
mean, like I, I like I'm justthe truth bumps, the everything
you, you just um, reallysupported me and like this is
deeply personal for everyonewho's listening.
Speaker 2 (25:56):
My mom passed, as many of you have known, on the
podcast and near the end of whenshe was about to pass, she
shared with my aunt because meand my sisters were in a period
of strife and she was just likeI just want them to stop
fighting and to hear this echoof how we were showing up at
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this fighting and like in thespace where she was closest to
the veil and all the thing.
It's like I want, I want thatpattern to stop.
You know I'm, I'm here andfeeling this like permission you
know it's on my necklace ispermission and it's like I can
put down this, this tool, thisbehavior, this pattern that I've
been running, because itdoesn't serve me and like it was
(26:39):
never intended to.
You know, and and I, I can letit go and it's not dishonoring
my family and I'm not notbelonging If I don't hold onto
the vault that was a poverty orkeep fighting for scraps or
whatever it is like.
Oh, I just feel like thisenergy of like I can fucking let
that go yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Yeah, oh my gosh.
Yeah, you can, you really can.
It's so good because fightingdoesn't serve us, it hurts us,
but because it's a survivalpattern and because it's what we
know, we're so comfortable in.
That, which is what I hear yousaying, with the fighting piece,
(27:20):
but also the listener when shewas talking about how, how, when
she wants to feel luxurious, orshe wants, you know, a more
luxurious life or probably justto even have a little bit more,
she said she feels the alarm.
Yes, yes.
Which is what we do.
It's all of a sudden we wantmore and our body does not feel
(27:43):
safe receiving more.
And I know you totally get that, brittany.
I know you do because you hadmentioned it a few times and
we've you know I've heard youtalking about this before.
Our body does not feel safe toreceive ease, isn't that crazy?
Speaker 3 (27:57):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Yeah, what we can receive and I had I had.
I was doing breath work and Ibawled my eyes out because I had
gone to a cold plunge with mysweet boyfriend, who who I, I
get into the cold plunge and thepain was nothing.
I was just like.
I was like I was in there sevenminutes.
My boyfriend jumps in and hejumps out and I was like I'm
(28:22):
like I could be here anotherseven minutes.
You know, it was like eightminutes.
I'm like I could be here 30minutes.
I could the.
The capacity for me to receivepain was so easy.
Goosebumps again, yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
Yo girl, they're truth buffs, we're speaking the
truth here, and like I mean howmany of us resonate and I feel
like this caller is saying thator the listener is saying that
as well, of like, I am so usedto the struggle, I'm so used to
the pain, I'm so used to goingwithout that, like anything
different.
Sounds the alarm?
Sounds the alarm?
(29:00):
Yep, it does, it does.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
And then she shames herself and she judges herself.
She calls herself greedy youknow which is what we do.
I can't have more than otherpeople.
Oh my gosh.
Yeah, and we learned that.
You know we all I wanted wasenough so that I could feel like
I'm, like somebody tell me I'menough, so that I could feel
(29:23):
like I belonged with everyoneelse and and just like never had
enough.
So you know, this is what ourcaller was saying is that she
never had enough, and I knowthat that is a pattern that
probably plays out in her lifein many, many ways.
There's never enough love,there's never enough safety and
(29:43):
there's never enough validation.
There's never enough money.
There's never enough, whateverit is.
We don't necessarily know that,because it's so a part of who
we are, but we can just look atour lives and be like, oh my
gosh, it's not just about mybank account, it's about how I
show up and feeling like there'snever enough.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
Yeah, yeah, there's.
It becomes a an addiction tothe stress response, not just in
money, but in relationship andyour physical body Like it just
you become like an addict forall of it.
Yeah, and that resonates witheven just the sadness.
I love being a sad girl, youknow.
(30:24):
There was a long time where Iwould just love finding myself
in the bottom of a bottlelistening to sad music.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
It all scans, so it goes across understanding how to
how to process the pain.
And so I drank the pain and Istruggled for 15 years with a
really, really serious alcoholaddiction where I had to go to
rehab.
It just like I could not stop.
I could not stop and it wasbecause I and now I can go.
(31:12):
Oh my gosh, I had no tools.
I had no way to process the painthat I, that I experienced as a
young girl, and so that's how.
So now I can look back at MaryLou, who drank for 15 years, and
be like she's such a badass,like that was the tool I knew
and so I used it.
But but the way that the youknow, it's like it's no surprise
(31:39):
.
You know, when we don't getvalidated, when we don't get
seen, when we don't get toldthat we're amazing just the way
we are, when we don't have ourneeds met, we look for it.
We do, whether we understand itor not.
We look for it outside of us,because we think that it's
outside of us, and that's why Iwant to bring it back to this
(31:59):
caller.
It's like most people want moneybecause they think it's going
to bring safety.
But if they don't have money,what they don't understand is
that is their normal, that istheir familiar, that is,
unconsciously what is safe tothem, even though they don't
like it.
Yeah, does that make sense?
(32:23):
It's like the thing that I talkabout I'm like money will not
bring you safety.
You're going to spend it,you're going to get rid of it.
It's unconscious.
People don't mean to, but theydon't feel safe with money.
They feel unsafe with moneybecause it's not their familiar,
it's not their comfort zone,it's not what they know and
that's why lottery winners allthe time end up like broke.
Because they don't understand.
You know, they just it's notabout how or how they spend
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their money or how they don'tspend their money.
They don't understand that theydon't actually feel safe with a
million dollars or whatever itis.
So they give it away, they spendit away, they whatever it is.
Does that make sense?
So people want safety for money, but I'm like safety comes from
teaching your body how to feelsafe, regardless of what's
happening outside of you.
Speaker 2 (33:07):
Yes, yes, I gosh, it's just so rich.
It always comes back to thebody and doing the internal work
.
It's like our external life isa reflection of what's happening
internal.
How do you support people increating that safety in their
body?
Like what would you say?
Is there anything?
That something someone can?
Speaker 1 (33:27):
do at home.
Yeah, I do want to give a tool,because I know that we're
talking about a lot of the painor the stress of not having
money and I also, and so I'mgoing to give a tool here in
just a moment.
But it's not like making,creating and attracting
(33:50):
abundance is definitely not thehardest thing I've ever done.
The hardest thing I've everdone Really, really, if we're
going to be like 100% honesthere, the hardest thing I've
ever done is love myself justbecause I exist.
(34:10):
I'm like how do I want to saythat, yeah, it's been the
hardest part?
Because I felt like there'sbeen a lot of faults, I've done
a lot of things wrong, and noneof that, like that's my past,
it's not my present.
Only if I make the past mypresent, and so, and so, loving
myself fully and completely,believing that I'm whole and
(34:32):
complete, no matter fucking what, like that has been the hardest
thing to do.
Creating abundance I mean I canlook at anybody's life and
externally and tell and I knowwhat's happening internally.
Like I just my my gift, like I,my gift is really being able to
see people's patterns andunderstanding how they're
blocking themselves, whetherthey understand it or not.
(34:55):
That is really, really my gift.
I was telling my Scott's mom,my boyfriend.
She asked me yesterday she'slike, she's like.
She asked me a question and Isaid her name's Marianne.
I said Marianne, it would bevery hard to stump me.
I'm like it is, I'm like Idon't.
You know, I have not.
I'm like it's.
It would be very hard for menot to figure out what's going
on, Because that's my gift, it'show I serve, and so what I want
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to share about money is that ifyou do the deeper work to open
yourself up to receive, you justdon't receive more money.
You receive ease, you peace, youreceive fun, you receive the
joy, you receive freedom, youreceive like, you get the gift
(35:47):
of really being able to trulyunderstand how amazing life is,
Because I think a lot of timeswe get stuck in what's not
working or what's not happening,and so when you open up
yourself to receive though Iknow people want to make money,
and that's what I love to talkabout.
So, in order to understand andchange your relationship with
money, you've got to know howyou, how you feel about it,
(36:09):
unconsciously, not yourconscious awareness,
unconsciously.
So that's a question to journal.
On Number two, what do you makemoney mean?
Like?
What does money mean to you?
Does it mean manipulation?
Does it mean pain?
Does it mean sadness?
Does it mean, like Lisette, andwhen you think about your mom
(36:31):
and you think about yourrelationship that you have with
money, like, what agreement didyou make when you sat there with
your mama crying because youdid not want her to be alone?
I'm getting goosebumps again.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
Yeah, there was an agreement to suffer in it.
Yes, much like our caller.
Yeah, and that would scan withhow I was throughout my life.
There was always like if itwasn't working three jobs and
not having a day off or it was,you know, stressing around debt
(37:07):
and just feeling this like deep,deep suffering around.
I guess I just don't get tohave it.
Yeah, that's definitely not apattern I grew up with.
It's been a lot of unconsciousunpacking in the unconscious to
even get to the level we'vegotten to.
But there's the way youdescribe the feeling around
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money, because I like to say,you know, when you ask how do
you feel about money, I was like, well, I love money.
It's more of an unrequited love.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
That's what it has felt like, you know, yeah, yeah.
And then learning to createsafety with receiving money.
Because we're talking aboutmoney, I mean I love to bring in
everything.
Because the truth is, if I hadbelieved that I was whole and
complete when I first startedthis journey of becoming the
woman that I am today, if I hadknown back then that I was whole
(38:06):
and complete, no matter fuckingwhat I think, things would have
been a whole hell of a loteasier.
But because I had to prove it,I had the proving energy.
I have to prove my value.
I have to prove I'm worth it.
I have to show up and be thebest I have to.
You know, it's like successmeans this.
Finally, you know, when Istarted creating success and
(38:28):
money, I was like, oh my gosh, Imatter, I finally matter.
I wasn't the little Mexicangirl anymore that had parents as
migrant workers and who was putinto ESL, even though I had
perfect English.
I belonged, yes, and so sogoing.
So.
(38:48):
So internal safety.
I know I keep gettingdistracted.
Speaker 2 (38:54):
No, this is so good, we're tracking, we're tracking,
yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Honestly, internal safety is really about taking
time to yourself to be able toput your hand on your heart and
do breathing and just breathe,and I love vagus nerve breathing
so I always teach people.
When you put your hand on yourheart and you take a big, deep
breath in, you push out yourstomach, and then we just hold
it at the top and exhale.
(39:25):
And Brittany.
What do you need to hear?
Speaker 2 (39:36):
I am safe to have what I desire.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
And Lissette.
Speaker 3 (39:48):
I deserve what I want .
Speaker 1 (39:50):
Yeah, yeah.
And so continuing to breathe,take a big deep breath in as you
push out your stomach, and thenjust holding it at the top, and
exhale, and then I just tellmyself in these moments that
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it's safe for me, that it's safefor me to have more, that it's
safe for me, that it's safe forme to have more, that it's safe
for me to receive, that it'ssafe for me to grow, to expand,
that it's safe for me even whenI feel afraid.
So these are the moments that Isit down and I tell myself what
I need to hear, which is verydifferent than what we want to
(40:41):
believe or an affirmation, whatwe need to hear.
We needed to hear it growing up,and so this is when the
rewiring piece begins to happen,because our body starts to feel
safe receiving more, whateverit is money, love, peace.
(41:04):
I mean, I'm working on ease,that's so crazy.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
Yes, let's work on ease.
Speaker 1 (41:29):
Not pain, on ease, not pain.
So so yeah, so that is onepractice, one way to begin to
feel safe.
I love to do breath work, like Ijust love breath work.
I love to do breath worksessions Like I feel like it's
just such a great way to do anervous system reset in your
body, especially when we'recarrying all kinds of emotions
and sadness and disappointmentand never having enough and
feeling like you're always aboutto be in the red or whatever it
(41:52):
is.
Breathwork is such a great wayto release all of that energetic
, like those trapped emotionsand I cry, like I will get down
and dirty because I know it's mytime to just like let it all go
.
And so breathwork is a reallygreat way to feel some ease and
(42:13):
some peace and some just spaceto be able to receive more.
Speaker 2 (42:21):
It's gosh.
Thank you so much for thatreally powerful tool.
And what I noticed for myself,it's when it's like what do you
need to hear?
It's like it's really for likethe youngest part of you, you
know, that needed that messageof like hey, you're okay, you're
doing great, like you're safeto have what you want, like it's
(42:42):
okay and allowing yourself toto for your body to feel into
that space of like I am safe tobe here, everything's going to
be okay.
This is not dangerous, becausea lot of times we fear the
unknown.
Yeah, I don't know.
And you know Dr Joe blessingsto him, like he has taught me so
much about it's like all ofcreation is in the unknown.
(43:04):
Yes, I know Everything you wantis in the unknown, because
everything you knew created whatyou have.
Everything you knew createdwhat you have.
So you, you, actually it's agift to go to the unknown,
because that's where all the newshit is.
Speaker 1 (43:22):
That's expansion, right there, like, honestly,
it's a gift to go into theunknown, like that tells me so
much about where you are in yourlife, because we are striving
to become a version of ourselvesthat we've never been before,
to become a version of ourselvesthat we've never been before.
So that is the unknown and thatis why our body, you know,
that's why the alarms go off,because we will, you know, it's
(43:45):
like naturally, biologically,our body and our brain want to
keep us in our normal, andwhatever our normal is with
money right now, whatever yourrelationship is, it doesn't
matter if it's good, it doesn'tmatter if it's bad.
Your brain and your, yournervous system will want to keep
you right there, which makes itso hard.
Because this woman I I'll justI wrote down alarm and I keep
(44:07):
looking down and I seen that, Isee that in her body just
freezes, it's like, or her heartstarts to palpitate when she
wants to, when she's givingherself permission to have more.
Yeah, and so, yeah, yeah, whatyou said.
I love this, we could, I justcould.
Speaker 3 (44:24):
We could talk all day about what I gathered from that
was the, the ability to slowdown in the moment and take the
power back in the moment,because that's something that,
when we get caught up Icertainly do I'm like, well, I
got to do the next thing, andthere's no small moments to
either celebrate or I don't feelgood right now, so let me
(44:47):
doomscroll.
Speaker 1 (44:49):
Let me avoid, so let me dooms girl uh you know, and
so it's just an invitation.
Speaker 3 (44:53):
I'm hearing and I really honor that of like
slowing down, taking a breath,reminding yourself you're safe,
so that you can expand and takean action into the next phase.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
So, yeah, it's, it's hitting, it's hitting home it is
, yeah, and we're it's, it'stitrating, so we're allowing our
body to slowly but surelyrecalibrate, to acclimate.
That's the word I was lookingfor to receive more because
otherwise and I love the, youknow it's like I love the brain
so much and I love mind work andthat's why I love like hypnosis
(45:25):
audios for the mind and a lotof my journeys now incorporate
the body like fully, like takingnot just, not just you know,
and allow yourself to like,slowly acclimate, to soften to
(45:54):
the idea.
So all my audios now containlike the body and how important
the body is, and doingparasympathetic exercises so
that you can feel good as youvisualize yourself rolling
around in the money or whereverthat you can have your body on
board.
This truly is the energy.
(46:14):
So then they you know it's likeyou listen to your audio and
it's invigorating, inspiring,it's rewiring the mind and the
body.
And then they, and then I'mlike, and then you've set about
your bidet in that energy,walking around in that energy,
not your default energy, thisenergy, the new energy, the, the
unknown energy that you weretalking about, because even the
(46:37):
energy is unknown.
Yes, it is, you know, it's likewe can get used to being in
stress, and that's our knownenergy Mm hmm, yeah, it's just,
it's so powerful.
Speaker 2 (46:51):
I, I so appreciate you taking us through tools and
like.
I feel like this is also whereour work crosses over about the
power of receiving, you know,and allowing yourself to receive
.
And, um, that is just so in thebody.
It's so primal and your bodywill react from a primal space
of like is it safe to open, youknow?
(47:13):
Is it safe to be internal?
Is it safe to accept this gift,is it, you know?
So, allowing yourself to be inyour body when you're
experiencing these things, it'slike getting your mind on board
and your body on board, knowing,hey, this all works together.
They're communicating with eachother because you're.
This is why one of our teachershe has an article called like
(47:36):
why affirmations suck.
And it's like, if you don'tbelieve it at your deepest level
, you just start lying toyourself, and so it's like what
you're speaking about?
Getting to the unconsciousthings that are going on,
getting your body on board.
So then it starts to open oflike.
Okay, if I know, if I start tofeel energetically in my body
(47:56):
that I'm safe, I'm more open tonew ideas.
If I'm in survival mode, Icannot, I cannot entertain a new
idea.
I can only focus on the nextthing.
Speaker 1 (48:06):
Yes, so true, I didn't know that when I was in
survival mode, I was, I was nothaving clarity.
You know, I was like I justdidn't know it because you don't
, because it was my default forso long.
You know, I had no awareness.
But now I'm like, oh my gosh,when I think about this version
of me versus, you know, theversion of me from five years
(48:28):
ago, I'm astounded that I was ather.
But, you know, just learning tonot be in survival, I mean,
that's, that's true safety,that's true safety in the body,
yeah, yeah, and you know,something that I want to like
offer this caller is they'vethey've already come so far into
the unknown.
Speaker 3 (48:49):
You know I can, I can absolutely relate to the five
years ago.
Like the, the five years agoversion of me would be astounded
, would be so it they'd be likeyou did.
What we're doing, we live, welive where we married who you
know.
Like it's such a, it's such abeautiful thing and it's getting
(49:10):
your body used to the fact thatyou've survived every unknown
thing that you didn't know.
Speaker 1 (49:16):
So true, it's so true .
I'm like, honestly, nothingcould ever be as bad as my
childhood.
I'm like nothing.
Speaker 2 (49:25):
I feel like that's how many of us feel it's like,
wow, they do this to children.
Earth school is intense.
They're like we're going toscrub your memory and just go on
out there, Go on out there.
Speaker 1 (49:40):
I remind myself of that when I get you know, when
I'm afraid and you know I hit anupper limit and I mean that's a
different conversation for usto have.
But I didn't even know I was inan upper limit because you
don't necessarily know it, but Idid feel like a lot of fear
around.
I was trying to grow, but in asafe way.
Speaker 2 (50:03):
Yes, yes, we are familiar yeah.
Speaker 1 (50:10):
Yeah, so yeah, I love that so much, Lisette, and I
think that with the caller youknow, I know that we didn't
necessarily bring her to thesolution on this call and I
wouldn't be doing her justice ifI said to her oh you know, just
listen to this and apply thesethings and then your life will
(50:32):
change.
No, no, it doesn't work thatway.
I really do believe in coaching.
I do believe in groupcontainers, because we cannot
see what we cannot see, and Idon't know how many books I read
about changing my relationshipwith money and it really didn't
do anything because it didn'tknow my patterns.
I'm not saying they're notvaluable, they are.
(50:55):
It's valuable information, butI really do believe that in
order to change your identitybecause that's what you're doing
with money it requires aninvestment of time, maybe an
investment of money, but reallyseeking out coaches like us who
(51:21):
can help people, who can helpher specifically, or people like
her be able to have a healthyrelationship with money but
ultimately with herself.
Speaker 3 (51:33):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (51:34):
Yeah, and, and the tools that we gave today will
absolutely help for sure.
But I just don't over there'sno, everybody's tired of
over-promising.
You know, I mean, if hearingthat right now I'm saying it,
but I'm hearing people overpromise and I'm just like stop
yeah.
Speaker 3 (51:52):
It's going to take work.
You know it gets to, it gets tobe I'm.
The most part of the work I'vedone myself, more than anything
is, is just like being able toinvest the time and energy of
learning a tool and thenapplying that tool and then
leaning into the unknown of whatdoes my life look like when I,
when I, sit with this tool?
And I just certainly agree withthe unconscious work is the
(52:15):
most important work we could do.
If your problem was conscious,you would have solved it by now.
Speaker 2 (52:21):
You know, yes, absolutely, information is cheap
and it's abundant and there's Imean, we're all of us, we're
all big in personal developmentspaces and the work because it
makes it's the difference thatmakes a difference.
Like I said, information iseverywhere and you can get a
book, and it's like I am notknocking books.
I have gotten a lot of valuefrom a lot of books and there's
(52:43):
something very unique aboutbeing held in a space, held in a
container, someone reflectingto you and someone who can see
from outside the box.
You know, someone who can seeyou're sharing with them your
patterns in real time andthey're able to respond to you
in real time.
Books can take close to 10years to write.
You know like it.
So it's, it's, it's, it's a wayand you know, for this kind of
(53:08):
deep, intensive work like you,it supports you to have a deep,
intensive tool which I feel likethis leads us into something
special that you have going on.
Will you share with everybody,cause I'm going to be there.
Speaker 1 (53:24):
Oh, yeah, it is.
So I am doing a four dayimmersion and each day we're
specifically going to talk abouta pattern that gets in the way
of you creating thetransformation and the change
that you actually desire to makewith money and or with money
(53:44):
and success.
I was going to say money orsuccess, but with money and
success.
Those are the two things that Istruggled with the most in my
life, and so those are the twothings that I love to teach
about.
And it really is.
It's an activation and for thepeople I know you, you two,
haven't been to any of myworkshops yet, but I am a
teacher that I don't.
(54:05):
I teach in a way that peoplecan understand and I also teach
in a way that honors them, and Iteach in a way where I serve
and I'm not leaving you withgaping holes everywhere where
you go.
Okay, I know what my problem is,I think, and so a lot of people
(54:26):
teach with pain over and overand over and over, and it's not.
It's not like everybody,different strokes for different
folks, but I know that when Iwas trying to change my
relationship with money, Ialready knew the pain.
You don't have to tell me, youdon't have to teach me more
about pain.
I get it, and so I love toshare and teach in a way that
(54:46):
makes sense to people.
And you will see, dr JoeDispenza has a big, he has
played a big part in my life.
He I mean, I listened to himfor two years straight, so he
was, he's totally in mysubconscious and I remember
going I don't know what's Dr Joeand what's Mary with, but it
(55:07):
really is about how do you showup in the energy, in the
millionaire energy that youdesire to be, and maybe, if
that's too far off, that's okaySix figure, multi six figure,
whatever it is.
How do you show up and stay inthat energy without your 3D
reality knocking you out of itall the time?
And so we look at your beliefs,which is is beliefs are super
(55:28):
important, but a lot of times wecan't even get to the beliefs
because we've got other shit inthe way, like what our familiar
is meaning, like how do we feelabout money?
That's our familiar, and and so, and so it's four days, it's
called unlock your six figuresand beyond accelerator, and we
(55:48):
kick off May 6th and it's at 1PM, and so I would love to
invite everybody to come hangout with me.
It's a lot of fun.
We do activations.
We are going to do anincredible money challenge.
I don't know if you have everdone a money challenge where
everybody gets $7,000 each dayand you can only spend it on
yourself.
You can't.
(56:09):
It's so fun because everythingcomes up for you, because you're
like what am I going to do with$14,000 if I can't give it away
?
Speaker 3 (56:19):
Yeah.
I have a list.
I'm excited to meet thethreshold I'm excited.
Speaker 2 (56:26):
This sounds so juicy and I believe it's a free
experience.
Yeah, oh yeah, it's free.
It's a free four day experienceyou guys to come hang out with
Mary Lou, be in this energy,receive this wisdom, receive
this set and like, miracleshappen.
I believe when one of us heals,all of us heal, and when we're
(56:48):
in a collective space wherewe're all doing this deep kind
of work, that is where thequantum just pops off.
It is going to be incredible.
So May 6th we're going to putthe link in the show notes sign
up, we will be there, yeah.
Speaker 3 (57:02):
We're going to get paid.
Speaker 2 (57:04):
Let's all get paid.
Let's all get paid.
Yes, the beyond.
Speaker 3 (57:10):
I'm here for the beyond.
Speaker 1 (57:12):
Yes, yes, yes.
So I you know this is for youtoo, but everybody who comes
every day, I'm like the goal isto be in that energy for the
four days that they come andhang out with me, and not just
when they're on the call butwhen they leave.
It's a practice.
We are practicing being in themillionaire, the whatever energy
(57:32):
it is for for everybody who'sgoing to be coming, but we're
practicing being in that energy.
It is so incredible, it is justsuch an experience.
I can't wait.
I love, I love doing.
I love doing these activationsand accelerator challenges.
Speaker 2 (57:48):
Yay, oh, this is so good.
Thank you so much for this giftand for your time and your
energy and your love.
If there was something that youjust want to leave our audience
with about money, aboutprosperity, about themselves
what would it be?
Speaker 1 (58:04):
Yeah, I would love to leave everybody with.
I want, you know, my biggestthing was that I didn't believe
it was actually possible forsomeone like me and I want
people to know that, no mattertheir upbringing, no matter
their story, no matter theirtrauma, no matter their
(58:25):
addictions like, no matter what,they can have the kind of
relationship that they trulydesire with money, and that's
what I want to leave everybodywith.
If I can do it, they can do it.
Speaker 3 (58:40):
Yes, oh gosh, god, that was so beautiful, Thank you
, thank you.
Thank you for being here.
Thank you for sharing yourwisdom.
I love seeing your transitionfrom a little Mexican girl in a
strawberry field to teachingpeople how to be millionaires.
What a gift you are in theworld.
Thank you for sharing with usand our audience.
Speaker 1 (58:58):
Thank you, thank you so much Wow.
Speaker 3 (59:03):
Wow, wow.
Speaker 2 (59:04):
Mary Lou is just like her soul, her desire, just the
character arc that woman has had, yeah, and like she is breaking
stereotypes and just, uh, love,I mean, have you guys
discovered the millionaireinside of you, like I am
discovering the millionaireinside of me and gosh, just to
(59:26):
be in that energy and in thatfrequency and with her teachings
, like I've gotten to go to oneof her mastermind classes and
hear the way she coaches, likejust from a place of deep, deep
love and I believe her.
It's like it is possible forany of us when we allow
ourselves, like you said, to dothat deep work.
It's like who is the one who istaking action, who is the one
(59:48):
who is looking into the cornersof their unconscious mind and
saying, like what's here, what'sstopping me?
Because my life does notreflect, maybe, the belief of I
love money, I know.
Speaker 3 (01:00:02):
That's how I started this episode.
What I love about Mary Lou is Ididn't know what I didn't know.
It's just like it's one thingto go.
Oh, this is what I think aboutmoney, because I've been trained
for years to use affirmations,but how do I feel about money?
Speaker 1 (01:00:17):
Yes, that was like yeah, yeah, I love her.
Speaker 3 (01:00:21):
I love her.
I'm a big fan.
Can't wait for the program tostart.
I know.
Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
Let's get in like the generosity Love it, love it,
love it.
I'm very excited to be there,so definitely make sure to tune
in.
The link to sign up is in theshow notes.
We will be there, you should bethere, and I feel like it's
like she was saying it's aboutreceiving and so there's always
more that can be received.
Speaker 3 (01:00:46):
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We learn based on what was modeled to us, what was
told to us, what we saw, and soif we learned early on that
money equals stress, that is therelationship that we have with
money today.
Welcome to.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Honest Feedback.
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Welcome back to Honest Feedback.
We took a little break.
Yeah, we did.
You know, we were learning, wewere growing, we were cruising,
we were watching friends getmarried.
Yeah, I actually marriedsomeone yeah, yeah, you're
officially ordained I'm yeah,I'm an ordained minister now,
(01:35):
wow, life has happened, uh.
But it's actually really quiteappropriate, because we have
been balling out and thisepisode's about money, money.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeah Well, we're just going to flow with it.
Yeah, cardi B money.
Insert money song here.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Yeah, we'll just air dance to the money song that we
inserted here.
It's probably not there, to behonest with you, but cool yeah.
So how do you feel about money?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I mean love it Big fan, Big fan.
Love all the choices.
I'm here for more of it.
Yeah, and you know, sometimessome conflicting feelings come
up.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
How about?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
you, I absolutely love it.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I've had really, you know, my relationship with it
has grown, but I feel like Ihave a pretty good, you know,
the love is there.
The love is there.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
The love is there, you know we're building it up,
yeah, and I feel really, reallyexcited because we have a
fucking goddess queen.
Oh, she's a queen On today.
Yeah, Mary Lou, she's a realone.
We met her some time ago and,yeah, just hearts in the eyes,
you know, you feel the soulconnection and you're just like
(02:46):
you are in the vibe.
And so we have Mary Lou ontoday here I'll read her bio.
So Mary Lou Rodriguez.
She is a brain training expertin wealth and success and CEO of
a thriving growth company withinternational reach.
She's helped thousands rewiretheir brains, shift beliefs and
(03:07):
unlock unstoppable competence toachieve wealth and success.
As a keynote speaker and thehost of the podcast the
Unstoppable Mind, she teachesframeworks rooted in
neuroscience and spiritual lawsfor lasting transformation.
Her mission is to help 1million individuals overcome
(03:27):
mental blocks, eliminateself-doubt and manifest their
dreams through powerful programsand brain training tools.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Oh, I love that Right Gosh.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
That is what I mean, like her bio is upgrading me.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
And so to be able to have someone on to teach about
the frequency of wealth, I justfeel what an invitation to
expand, expand into yourgreatness, expand into your
power that's really just sopotent and gives us an
opportunity to talk about oursponsor, Brittany.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Talk about our sponsor.
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Feedback.
We should give Mary Lou a call.
Are you ready to give?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
her a call.
Yeah, let's give her a ring,okay.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Hi Mary Lou, Hello, Hello you two.
Hi Mary Lou, Hello, Hello youtwo.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
We are so, so grateful to have you on the
podcast today.
I mean, gosh, we met at camp.
Yes, I feel like, yes,facilitating being camp
counselors, and people were herefor Mary Lou and her medicine
and her money codes and herprosperity and, yeah, we're just
(06:26):
so, so honored to have you onthe podcast today.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
You know, I just like I'm excited I've been, I've
been talking about hanging outwith you too, and I feel really
just blessed and super gratefulto be able to share with you and
with the people that listen toyour podcast.
Just help them to have someawareness, some understanding
and some love for themselves aswe talk about money, Because
(06:53):
money can bring up a lot ofcrazy feelings, and I really
want people to know howincredible they are, despite
what it is that they believeabout themselves or what they
believe about money.
So I'm super excited to be here.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Yes, yes, well, we gave your, your official bio,
but like in your own words, fromyour heart, like how are you
serving people, how are you, howare you being?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Yeah, so I work with people who are in all different
types of of careers.
I tend to work mostly withentrepreneurs, and I I feel like
I work with the most talented,the most gifted entrepreneurs
(07:38):
who aren't making the money thatthey know that they deserve,
and so I love to be able to likehelp people understand the.
You know all the money thatthey know that they deserve, and
so I love to be able to likehelp people understand the.
You know all the things thatare probably blocking them, and
I love being able to help peopleunderstand that inside of them,
I believe that there's amillionaire.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
And so because if I can become a millionaire,
anybody can become a millionaire, and that's the truth.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
And so Inside of me, I do.
I do, because if I can become amillionaire, anybody can become
a millionaire, and that's thetruth.
Like that is the truth.
And so we're going to have areal conversation today about
how you do that, and so yeah,Love it.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
I'm here for this conversation.
Unleash my inner millionaireyes.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Well, what led you to this path?
Like were you born into money.
But like, yeah, you get abillionaire, You're a
billionaire.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I know, I remember when I was first learning
identity and I was I rememberthinking like what would it have
been like had I been born intomoney, you know, just knowing
that money was like water orthat money was always available
to you.
I was like that was such aforeign concept for me at the
time because it was so oppositeof the way that I was raised.
(08:57):
So my parents are from Mexico,they were, they're immigrants,
but we were also migrant workersand so we worked in the fields
seasonally.
I mean, well, the kids did my.
You know, my stepfather workedyear round.
But my first memories are beingin the strawberry fields, and it
wasn't just myself, it was allmy siblings and we did, and I
must've been like four or five,and I'll talk about this in just
(09:21):
a moment.
But what came to mind here?
But I remember, like learningeverything about who I was in
those strawberry fields.
I remember learning that moneywasn't meant for me.
I remember learning that I wasMexican and I remember thinking
that Mexican people were poor,because that was my experience.
I didn't know anything elseother than we were broke.
(09:45):
We never had enough money,didn't grow on trees although my
mom didn't say that necessarilythat wasn't the saying that she
used, but it was just a really.
I mean, there was alcoholism,there was traumas, and so money
(10:07):
was.
The reason why I love to talkand teach about money is because
of my experience of living andI thought, oh my gosh.
I was like this is absolutelyincredible how I went from when
(10:32):
I first became a hypnotist, howI went from 16 cents to seven
figures Like it's absolutelywild.
And it wasn't a destiny thatwas meant for me, according to
what my mother and my fathertold me, not because they didn't
love me, but because theydidn't know any different.
But this is a destiny that Ihave chosen and I believe in and
(10:54):
I love and I want to helpothers see that they can have
this too.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Yes, yes, are you guys inspired?
Listening to this, I am lit up.
We've brought the big guns into help us today and thank you
so much for your vulnerabilityand sharing more of your story.
I feel like sometimes we canother people with money and it's
the stories, it's them overthere, and I mean this is what
(11:22):
our writer starts to talk aboutwhen we get into the question
and as someone who's been in myown experience of have not into
having and all the tumult thatcomes up I'm really, really
excited to jump into.
Yes, okay, so we have a texter.
(11:46):
I grew up in a home where moneywas always a source of stress.
My parents worked so hard, butwe never had quite enough.
I remember hearing things likerich people are selfish and
we're not like them, and overtime I internalized this idea
that having more meant takingfrom others.
I'm an adult and anentrepreneur, yet every time I
(12:10):
reach for more whether it'scharging more in my business,
dreaming of a bigger life orsimply wanting a luxurious life
it's like this inner alarm goesoff.
I feel guilty, greedy, like I'mbetraying where I came from.
And on top of that, I'venoticed I only feel deserving
when I've earned it throughstruggle.
(12:31):
If something comes too easily,I push it away or I downplay it.
There's a part of me thatbelieves I have to suffer to be
worthy.
How do I move through this?
Can I really have more, or am Ijust selfish, signed,
struggling with money?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
So I read this question last night and I didn't
go into it in my mind because Iwanted to just sit with this
and show up today and talk aboutwhat comes through me, through
my heart, because when I readthis question, I was like this
is me and this is so.
Many other entrepreneurs feltthe same way.
(13:12):
I was just like this was who Iused to be and I had no idea
about how to become Honestlylike.
Thank you, dr Joe Dispenza, andthank you to being a hypnotist,
because I understood that therewas a rewiring piece before
rewiring became a big deal, youknow.
So I understood that, um, andso I love this question so much
(13:37):
because I was like, oh my gosh,this question is going to help
so many people, because it's adeep, deep question, and I could
feel the pain of this person asthey were writing about their
money story and the type ofrelationship that they have with
money currently.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Yeah, this hit me at my core.
I was like did I write this?
I'm like answer this for usplease.
I like answer this for usplease.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
There's so many different factors at play with
this question, and one of thefirst things that I would love
to talk about is how money isalways a source of stress.
So I wrote that down as youwere speaking.
Because what we don'tunderstand when we're learning
about money, and that's becauseour brains you know, we're,
we're you know four, five, six,seven, eight years old and we're
you know our brains are somalleable and they're taking
(14:32):
everything in like a sponge andwe learn based on what was
modeled to us, what was told tous, what we saw, and so if we
learned early on that moneyequals stress, that is the
relationship that we have withmoney today.
Yeah, okay, I'm gettinggoosebumps.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
We can throw down for a long time about this.
Because I did not know.
I kept saying, because I wantedto believe that I loved money,
but there, my body was not onboard with that.
I did not feel it, no matterhow many times I told myself
because that's what you hear,right, change your relationship
with money.
(15:14):
But the truth is unconsciouslyin my subconscious mind, the
truth of how I felt about money.
And this is the question Ialways ask people.
I always say how do you feelabout money?
And people will say I lovemoney and I don't want to be
rude in any way, so I'm not, butmy mind goes but does their
(15:41):
external reality reflect that.
Yeah, yeah, so you're followingright.
Yes, so crazy, but I get it.
I understand it Consciously.
They love money, but underneathI'll ask questions, like at my
trainings or workshops orwhatever it is, and I'll be like
I don't want you to answer thefirst thing that comes to mind
when I ask you how you feelabout money or why you would
love more money in your life.
We'll come back to that, butI'm like I want you just to sit
(16:04):
with it and ask your body how doyou really feel about money?
Then we'll start to get deep andthen start to be like well, the
truth is, this is how I grew upwith money and then, but it's
even deeper than that, becausethe truth, it's like it's even
(16:24):
deeper than that.
It's not even just stress, it'swhat money means to you.
So that's another question Iask people is what does money
act?
How do you feel about money?
And then, what does moneyactually mean to you?
And not current, you knowLisette, or you know Brittany.
It's not to current adult you,it's not to current adult you,
(16:49):
to the little version of youthat became like the little
version of you that was firstexposed to money.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
You know, what even just came up for me was, like
the first thing I was like Ifelt this energy of like
fighting.
Yeah, I felt this energy offighting and it was.
It was so not present until youbrought it into the field.
And I feel like these questionsthat you're asking are so
potent because it's when yousaid how do you feel about money
.
A lot of times we can go to ourconscious mind of this is how I
(17:14):
feel about money.
But if you start going intoyour body, literally, how do I
feel about money, I for myself,I'll just be vulnerable.
It's like, well, there's a partof me that, like my heart
starts to quicken, um, feeling alittle less safe.
You know, and this is justtalking about it, this is just
like you know, this is justtalking about it.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Yeah, what came up for you?
No, I will.
What happened was that, I re.
I had an instant memory of my.
It was always a cause of sorrow.
My, I would see my mom at thekitchen table doing math on the
bills and it was like the numberalways made her sad and I would
see her crying at the table andso I would cry with her because
(17:54):
I didn't like seeing my mom sad.
So I remember we would just becrying over money and I didn't
even know what it was yet, but Iwas already sad.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
So yeah, help already said Wow.
Speaker 1 (18:14):
So, yeah, help, wow, yeah, wow, oh my gosh.
So that's so what we?
So the thing that we don'tunderstand is if we don't have a
good relationship with moneyand we receive it and we didn't
receive it through struggle, andwe'll talk about that too
because I was in the strawberryfields, for because I was right.
You know, that's how I grew up.
That was the pattern of what Iknew I was.
I wasn't.
It wasn't until I was like 47that I realized I'm still in the
(18:35):
strawberry fields, I'm still inthe paradigm of, like the F in
strawberry fields, like I, Idon't get to choose my life, I
just accept whatever's given tome and that cause.
That's how I felt as a child.
Oh, my gosh, I'm gettinggoosebumps again.
But back to but.
(18:59):
But back to how you feel aboutmoney.
That will dictate how much youhave and if you receive it.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
And money makes you sad, I can already tell you
people will push it away.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Yeah, who wants to be sad who?
Wants to feel unsafe or whowants to feel stressed.
You know what I mean.
Like think there's going to bea fight or think there's going
to be a fight Like these are theunconscious things that are
that are holding us back.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Oh my gosh, totally so sadness and fighting, and
mine, mine is pain.
Money equals pain, but I didn'tyou don't, you don't know that
it's like it's so unconscious.
But when I looked at my lifeand I looked at at at my, my, my
mom and my, my dad and my, youknow it's like it just money
(19:42):
really meant pain, and, and sothat's the deeper layer that we,
like, that I help peopleunderstand, is the truth of how
they feel about money.
And it is not wrong, it's not I, for some reason, we just think
that we have to hide the truth.
It's beautiful, it's like it'sthe moment that you get to begin
(20:02):
to shift.
It's the moment that you get tobegin to shift, and you know, I
can totally relate to fightingfor money, because I, my mom,
taught us we had to fight foreverything.
We had to fight.
That's how, and so so, brittany, yeah, so one of the pieces to
(20:23):
moving into the new identity,because otherwise we'll take the
fighting pattern with us.
We don't mean to, it's not,it's not conscious, but it's how
we were raised and so it'sthere, it gets activated inside
of us, and one of the things Irealized is that my new identity
.
I was so afraid and this relatesto the question I was so afraid
(20:45):
to let go of the fighting.
Like what would my life be likeif I didn't fight for
everything?
And my poor sweet boyfriend?
My poor sweet boyfriend is socalm, but he's a product of his
environment.
He had two loving parents.
That that validated him.
And I am a product of myenvironment and and and I'm a
(21:08):
badass, yeah.
So sometimes I do respond still, because I do get activated,
like that's the other thing.
I think.
Talk to me in 10 more years andI'll I'll tell you whether or
not the the my, whether or notmy wounds get activated, but I'm
the first to be like I'mfeeling activated right now.
I know that something is iskicking up a fuss in me and I'm
(21:32):
not exactly sure why, but I feelangry.
But anyways, okay.
So the fighting piece.
So what would you like?
What would you?
Let me see how I want to askyou this question.
How do you and I'm thinking andI'm feeling into this, and you
(21:56):
saw me how I coach- right, yeah.
We got started.
I'm tuning in.
If you gave up the fight, whatwould that mean?
Speaker 2 (22:12):
I mean, I just feel like this sigh of relief and
like this energy of emotioncoming up of like what does it
even mean to give that up?
You know, um, what would my lifebe like if I didn't have to
fight, you know, and what'srunning through my head is even
feeling all the ways that we meand my siblings would fight.
(22:33):
It was like it feels likethere's not enough food, so
we're fighting over food, we'refighting over attention, cause
it feels like that's a limitedresource, like I'm just like
it's.
I'm feeling I'm seeing it instereo now, in all the ways we
were reenacting this pattern ofwe have to fight for resources,
love, safety, belonging, food,like, uh, educate like that was
(22:55):
a constant fight in my houseeducation, like who gets this,
who gets who gets to go to thatschool, and so it was this
energy of fighting and I'm likegosh to let that go.
I'm like it feels like evenjust thinking about I'm like wow
, it seems like there'd be a lotof space and an opportunity of
like who can I, who could I be?
Speaker 1 (23:25):
who could I be if that's not driving?
Yeah, yes, yes, I had thehardest time saying the word
privileged, and because Ilearned I was not privileged and
I grew up believing that I wasnot privileged.
And so, as an adult and as Istarted to create more wealth in
my life, and then I go.
You know, I travel a lot, andso I'm going to all these
(23:46):
different countries where I amso privileged and I'm even
privileged here, of course butit was hard for me to say the
word privilege I remember it waslike a dirty word.
So this goes back to also our,our, our listener.
(24:06):
But when I was like, what do Ilose by calling myself
privileged?
And then I started to crybecause I understood that it
felt like I was, I was cuttingmy ties to my mom, to my
heritage, to my ancestors, to,to cause.
(24:30):
I had taken a vow of poverty.
I mean, of course I don'tremember that and I was like
saying goodbye.
I thought I was interpreting itas I'm saying goodbye to who
I've been, and so I just criedand cried and cried so that I
(24:51):
could release it.
Because the truth is is thatthey are cheering me on.
My mom wants me to have peace,my mom doesn't want me to fight,
my mom wants me to enjoy lifeand everything it has to offer.
And it only means goodbye if Iinterpret or make it mean that
(25:13):
it's goodbye, that it's goodbye.
But in my visualization, when Ifirst started to like, call,
like, be comfortable, callingmyself, you know, a, a seven
figure cause, imagine, yeah, andI remember, and I would
visualize all my, my ancestorsbehind me, holding me and
(25:36):
cheering me on holding me andcheering me on Gosh girl, what I
mean, like I, I like I'm justthe truth bumps, the everything
you, you just um, reallysupported me and like this is
deeply personal for everyonewho's listening.
Speaker 2 (25:56):
My mom passed, as many of you have known, on the
podcast and near the end of whenshe was about to pass, she
shared with my aunt because meand my sisters were in a period
of strife and she was just likeI just want them to stop
fighting and to hear this echoof how we were showing up at
(26:17):
this fighting and like in thespace where she was closest to
the veil and all the thing.
It's like I want, I want thatpattern to stop.
You know I'm, I'm here andfeeling this like permission you
know it's on my necklace ispermission and it's like I can
put down this, this tool, thisbehavior, this pattern that I've
been running, because itdoesn't serve me and like it was
(26:39):
never intended to.
You know, and and I, I can letit go and it's not dishonoring
my family and I'm not notbelonging If I don't hold onto
the vault that was a poverty orkeep fighting for scraps or
whatever it is like.
Oh, I just feel like thisenergy of like I can fucking let
that go yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Yeah, oh my gosh.
Yeah, you can, you really can.
It's so good because fightingdoesn't serve us, it hurts us,
but because it's a survivalpattern and because it's what we
know, we're so comfortable in.
That, which is what I hear yousaying, with the fighting piece,
(27:20):
but also the listener when shewas talking about how, how, when
she wants to feel luxurious, orshe wants, you know, a more
luxurious life or probably justto even have a little bit more,
she said she feels the alarm.
Yes, yes.
Which is what we do.
It's all of a sudden we wantmore and our body does not feel
(27:43):
safe receiving more.
And I know you totally get that, brittany.
I know you do because you hadmentioned it a few times and
we've you know I've heard youtalking about this before.
Our body does not feel safe toreceive ease, isn't that crazy?
Speaker 3 (27:57):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Yeah, what we can receive and I had I had.
I was doing breath work and Ibawled my eyes out because I had
gone to a cold plunge with mysweet boyfriend, who who I, I
get into the cold plunge and thepain was nothing.
I was just like.
I was like I was in there sevenminutes.
My boyfriend jumps in and hejumps out and I was like I'm
(28:22):
like I could be here anotherseven minutes.
You know, it was like eightminutes.
I'm like I could be here 30minutes.
I could the.
The capacity for me to receivepain was so easy.
Goosebumps again, yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
Yo girl, they're truth buffs, we're speaking the
truth here, and like I mean howmany of us resonate and I feel
like this caller is saying thator the listener is saying that
as well, of like, I am so usedto the struggle, I'm so used to
the pain, I'm so used to goingwithout that, like anything
different.
Sounds the alarm?
Sounds the alarm?
(29:00):
Yep, it does, it does.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
And then she shames herself and she judges herself.
She calls herself greedy youknow which is what we do.
I can't have more than otherpeople.
Oh my gosh.
Yeah, and we learned that.
You know we all I wanted wasenough so that I could feel like
I'm, like somebody tell me I'menough, so that I could feel
(29:23):
like I belonged with everyoneelse and and just like never had
enough.
So you know, this is what ourcaller was saying is that she
never had enough, and I knowthat that is a pattern that
probably plays out in her lifein many, many ways.
There's never enough love,there's never enough safety and
(29:43):
there's never enough validation.
There's never enough money.
There's never enough, whateverit is.
We don't necessarily know that,because it's so a part of who
we are, but we can just look atour lives and be like, oh my
gosh, it's not just about mybank account, it's about how I
show up and feeling like there'snever enough.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
Yeah, yeah, there's.
It becomes a an addiction tothe stress response, not just in
money, but in relationship andyour physical body Like it just
you become like an addict forall of it.
Yeah, and that resonates witheven just the sadness.
I love being a sad girl, youknow.
(30:24):
There was a long time where Iwould just love finding myself
in the bottom of a bottlelistening to sad music.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
It all scans, so it goes across understanding how to
how to process the pain.
And so I drank the pain and Istruggled for 15 years with a
really, really serious alcoholaddiction where I had to go to
rehab.
It just like I could not stop.
I could not stop and it wasbecause I and now I can go.
(31:12):
Oh my gosh, I had no tools.
I had no way to process the painthat I, that I experienced as a
young girl, and so that's how.
So now I can look back at MaryLou, who drank for 15 years, and
be like she's such a badass,like that was the tool I knew
and so I used it.
But but the way that the youknow, it's like it's no surprise
(31:39):
.
You know, when we don't getvalidated, when we don't get
seen, when we don't get toldthat we're amazing just the way
we are, when we don't have ourneeds met, we look for it.
We do, whether we understand itor not.
We look for it outside of us,because we think that it's
outside of us, and that's why Iwant to bring it back to this
(31:59):
caller.
It's like most people want moneybecause they think it's going
to bring safety.
But if they don't have money,what they don't understand is
that is their normal, that istheir familiar, that is,
unconsciously what is safe tothem, even though they don't
like it.
Yeah, does that make sense?
(32:23):
It's like the thing that I talkabout I'm like money will not
bring you safety.
You're going to spend it,you're going to get rid of it.
It's unconscious.
People don't mean to, but theydon't feel safe with money.
They feel unsafe with moneybecause it's not their familiar,
it's not their comfort zone,it's not what they know and
that's why lottery winners allthe time end up like broke.
Because they don't understand.
You know, they just it's notabout how or how they spend
(32:46):
their money or how they don'tspend their money.
They don't understand that theydon't actually feel safe with a
million dollars or whatever itis.
So they give it away, they spendit away, they whatever it is.
Does that make sense?
So people want safety for money, but I'm like safety comes from
teaching your body how to feelsafe, regardless of what's
happening outside of you.
Speaker 2 (33:07):
Yes, yes, I gosh, it's just so rich.
It always comes back to thebody and doing the internal work
.
It's like our external life isa reflection of what's happening
internal.
How do you support people increating that safety in their
body?
Like what would you say?
Is there anything?
That something someone can?
Speaker 1 (33:27):
do at home.
Yeah, I do want to give a tool,because I know that we're
talking about a lot of the painor the stress of not having
money and I also, and so I'mgoing to give a tool here in
just a moment.
But it's not like making,creating and attracting
(33:50):
abundance is definitely not thehardest thing I've ever done.
The hardest thing I've everdone Really, really, if we're
going to be like 100% honesthere, the hardest thing I've
ever done is love myself justbecause I exist.
(34:10):
I'm like how do I want to saythat, yeah, it's been the
hardest part?
Because I felt like there'sbeen a lot of faults, I've done
a lot of things wrong, and noneof that, like that's my past,
it's not my present.
Only if I make the past mypresent, and so, and so, loving
myself fully and completely,believing that I'm whole and
(34:32):
complete, no matter fucking what, like that has been the hardest
thing to do.
Creating abundance I mean I canlook at anybody's life and
externally and tell and I knowwhat's happening internally.
Like I just my my gift, like I,my gift is really being able to
see people's patterns andunderstanding how they're
blocking themselves, whetherthey understand it or not.
(34:55):
That is really, really my gift.
I was telling my Scott's mom,my boyfriend.
She asked me yesterday she'slike, she's like.
She asked me a question and Isaid her name's Marianne.
I said Marianne, it would bevery hard to stump me.
I'm like it is, I'm like Idon't.
You know, I have not.
I'm like it's.
It would be very hard for menot to figure out what's going
on, Because that's my gift, it'show I serve, and so what I want
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to share about money is that ifyou do the deeper work to open
yourself up to receive, you justdon't receive more money.
You receive ease, you peace, youreceive fun, you receive the
joy, you receive freedom, youreceive like, you get the gift
(35:47):
of really being able to trulyunderstand how amazing life is,
Because I think a lot of timeswe get stuck in what's not
working or what's not happening,and so when you open up
yourself to receive though Iknow people want to make money,
and that's what I love to talkabout.
So, in order to understand andchange your relationship with
money, you've got to know howyou, how you feel about it,
(36:09):
unconsciously, not yourconscious awareness,
unconsciously.
So that's a question to journal.
On Number two, what do you makemoney mean?
Like?
What does money mean to you?
Does it mean manipulation?
Does it mean pain?
Does it mean sadness?
Does it mean, like Lisette, andwhen you think about your mom
(36:31):
and you think about yourrelationship that you have with
money, like, what agreement didyou make when you sat there with
your mama crying because youdid not want her to be alone?
I'm getting goosebumps again.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
Yeah, there was an agreement to suffer in it.
Yes, much like our caller.
Yeah, and that would scan withhow I was throughout my life.
There was always like if itwasn't working three jobs and
not having a day off or it was,you know, stressing around debt
(37:07):
and just feeling this like deep,deep suffering around.
I guess I just don't get tohave it.
Yeah, that's definitely not apattern I grew up with.
It's been a lot of unconsciousunpacking in the unconscious to
even get to the level we'vegotten to.
But there's the way youdescribe the feeling around
(37:28):
money, because I like to say,you know, when you ask how do
you feel about money, I was like, well, I love money.
It's more of an unrequited love.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
That's what it has felt like, you know, yeah, yeah.
And then learning to createsafety with receiving money.
Because we're talking aboutmoney, I mean I love to bring in
everything.
Because the truth is, if I hadbelieved that I was whole and
complete when I first startedthis journey of becoming the
woman that I am today, if I hadknown back then that I was whole
(38:06):
and complete, no matter fuckingwhat I think, things would have
been a whole hell of a loteasier.
But because I had to prove it,I had the proving energy.
I have to prove my value.
I have to prove I'm worth it.
I have to show up and be thebest I have to.
You know, it's like successmeans this.
Finally, you know, when Istarted creating success and
(38:28):
money, I was like, oh my gosh, Imatter, I finally matter.
I wasn't the little Mexicangirl anymore that had parents as
migrant workers and who was putinto ESL, even though I had
perfect English.
I belonged, yes, and so sogoing.
So.
(38:48):
So internal safety.
I know I keep gettingdistracted.
Speaker 2 (38:54):
No, this is so good, we're tracking, we're tracking,
yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Honestly, internal safety is really about taking
time to yourself to be able toput your hand on your heart and
do breathing and just breathe,and I love vagus nerve breathing
so I always teach people.
When you put your hand on yourheart and you take a big, deep
breath in, you push out yourstomach, and then we just hold
it at the top and exhale.
(39:25):
And Brittany.
What do you need to hear?
Speaker 2 (39:36):
I am safe to have what I desire.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
And Lissette.
Speaker 3 (39:48):
I deserve what I want .
Speaker 1 (39:50):
Yeah, yeah.
And so continuing to breathe,take a big deep breath in as you
push out your stomach, and thenjust holding it at the top, and
exhale, and then I just tellmyself in these moments that
(40:16):
it's safe for me, that it's safefor me to have more, that it's
safe for me, that it's safe forme to have more, that it's safe
for me to receive, that it'ssafe for me to grow, to expand,
that it's safe for me even whenI feel afraid.
So these are the moments that Isit down and I tell myself what
I need to hear, which is verydifferent than what we want to
(40:41):
believe or an affirmation, whatwe need to hear.
We needed to hear it growing up,and so this is when the
rewiring piece begins to happen,because our body starts to feel
safe receiving more, whateverit is money, love, peace.
(41:04):
I mean, I'm working on ease,that's so crazy.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
Yes, let's work on ease.
Speaker 1 (41:29):
Not pain, on ease, not pain.
So so yeah, so that is onepractice, one way to begin to
feel safe.
I love to do breath work, like Ijust love breath work.
I love to do breath worksessions Like I feel like it's
just such a great way to do anervous system reset in your
body, especially when we'recarrying all kinds of emotions
and sadness and disappointmentand never having enough and
feeling like you're always aboutto be in the red or whatever it
(41:52):
is.
Breathwork is such a great wayto release all of that energetic
, like those trapped emotionsand I cry, like I will get down
and dirty because I know it's mytime to just like let it all go
.
And so breathwork is a reallygreat way to feel some ease and
(42:13):
some peace and some just spaceto be able to receive more.
Speaker 2 (42:21):
It's gosh.
Thank you so much for thatreally powerful tool.
And what I noticed for myself,it's when it's like what do you
need to hear?
It's like it's really for likethe youngest part of you, you
know, that needed that messageof like hey, you're okay, you're
doing great, like you're safeto have what you want, like it's
(42:42):
okay and allowing yourself toto for your body to feel into
that space of like I am safe tobe here, everything's going to
be okay.
This is not dangerous, becausea lot of times we fear the
unknown.
Yeah, I don't know.
And you know Dr Joe blessingsto him, like he has taught me so
much about it's like all ofcreation is in the unknown.
(43:04):
Yes, I know Everything you wantis in the unknown, because
everything you knew created whatyou have.
Everything you knew createdwhat you have.
So you, you, actually it's agift to go to the unknown,
because that's where all the newshit is.
Speaker 1 (43:22):
That's expansion, right there, like, honestly,
it's a gift to go into theunknown, like that tells me so
much about where you are in yourlife, because we are striving
to become a version of ourselvesthat we've never been before,
to become a version of ourselvesthat we've never been before.
So that is the unknown and thatis why our body, you know,
that's why the alarms go off,because we will, you know, it's
(43:45):
like naturally, biologically,our body and our brain want to
keep us in our normal, andwhatever our normal is with
money right now, whatever yourrelationship is, it doesn't
matter if it's good, it doesn'tmatter if it's bad.
Your brain and your, yournervous system will want to keep
you right there, which makes itso hard.
Because this woman I I'll justI wrote down alarm and I keep
(44:07):
looking down and I seen that, Isee that in her body just
freezes, it's like, or her heartstarts to palpitate when she
wants to, when she's givingherself permission to have more.
Yeah, and so, yeah, yeah, whatyou said.
I love this, we could, I justcould.
Speaker 3 (44:24):
We could talk all day about what I gathered from that
was the, the ability to slowdown in the moment and take the
power back in the moment,because that's something that,
when we get caught up Icertainly do I'm like, well, I
got to do the next thing, andthere's no small moments to
either celebrate or I don't feelgood right now, so let me
(44:47):
doomscroll.
Speaker 1 (44:49):
Let me avoid, so let me dooms girl uh you know, and
so it's just an invitation.
Speaker 3 (44:53):
I'm hearing and I really honor that of like
slowing down, taking a breath,reminding yourself you're safe,
so that you can expand and takean action into the next phase.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
So, yeah, it's, it's hitting, it's hitting home it is
, yeah, and we're it's, it'stitrating, so we're allowing our
body to slowly but surelyrecalibrate, to acclimate.
That's the word I was lookingfor to receive more because
otherwise and I love the, youknow it's like I love the brain
so much and I love mind work andthat's why I love like hypnosis
(45:25):
audios for the mind and a lotof my journeys now incorporate
the body like fully, like takingnot just, not just you know,
and allow yourself to like,slowly acclimate, to soften to
(45:54):
the idea.
So all my audios now containlike the body and how important
the body is, and doingparasympathetic exercises so
that you can feel good as youvisualize yourself rolling
around in the money or whereverthat you can have your body on
board.
This truly is the energy.
(46:14):
So then they you know it's likeyou listen to your audio and
it's invigorating, inspiring,it's rewiring the mind and the
body.
And then they, and then I'mlike, and then you've set about
your bidet in that energy,walking around in that energy,
not your default energy, thisenergy, the new energy, the, the
unknown energy that you weretalking about, because even the
(46:37):
energy is unknown.
Yes, it is, you know, it's likewe can get used to being in
stress, and that's our knownenergy Mm hmm, yeah, it's just,
it's so powerful.
Speaker 2 (46:51):
I, I so appreciate you taking us through tools and
like.
I feel like this is also whereour work crosses over about the
power of receiving, you know,and allowing yourself to receive
.
And, um, that is just so in thebody.
It's so primal and your bodywill react from a primal space
of like is it safe to open, youknow?
(47:13):
Is it safe to be internal?
Is it safe to accept this gift,is it, you know?
So, allowing yourself to be inyour body when you're
experiencing these things, it'slike getting your mind on board
and your body on board, knowing,hey, this all works together.
They're communicating with eachother because you're.
This is why one of our teachershe has an article called like
(47:36):
why affirmations suck.
And it's like, if you don'tbelieve it at your deepest level
, you just start lying toyourself, and so it's like what
you're speaking about?
Getting to the unconsciousthings that are going on,
getting your body on board.
So then it starts to open oflike.
Okay, if I know, if I start tofeel energetically in my body
(47:56):
that I'm safe, I'm more open tonew ideas.
If I'm in survival mode, Icannot, I cannot entertain a new
idea.
I can only focus on the nextthing.
Speaker 1 (48:06):
Yes, so true, I didn't know that when I was in
survival mode, I was, I was nothaving clarity.
You know, I was like I justdidn't know it because you don't
, because it was my default forso long.
You know, I had no awareness.
But now I'm like, oh my gosh,when I think about this version
of me versus, you know, theversion of me from five years
(48:28):
ago, I'm astounded that I was ather.
But, you know, just learning tonot be in survival, I mean,
that's, that's true safety,that's true safety in the body,
yeah, yeah, and you know,something that I want to like
offer this caller is they'vethey've already come so far into
the unknown.
Speaker 3 (48:49):
You know I can, I can absolutely relate to the five
years ago.
Like the, the five years agoversion of me would be astounded
, would be so it they'd be likeyou did.
What we're doing, we live, welive where we married who you
know.
Like it's such a, it's such abeautiful thing and it's getting
(49:10):
your body used to the fact thatyou've survived every unknown
thing that you didn't know.
Speaker 1 (49:16):
So true, it's so true .
I'm like, honestly, nothingcould ever be as bad as my
childhood.
I'm like nothing.
Speaker 2 (49:25):
I feel like that's how many of us feel it's like,
wow, they do this to children.
Earth school is intense.
They're like we're going toscrub your memory and just go on
out there, Go on out there.
Speaker 1 (49:40):
I remind myself of that when I get you know, when
I'm afraid and you know I hit anupper limit and I mean that's a
different conversation for usto have.
But I didn't even know I was inan upper limit because you
don't necessarily know it, but Idid feel like a lot of fear
around.
I was trying to grow, but in asafe way.
Speaker 2 (50:03):
Yes, yes, we are familiar yeah.
Speaker 1 (50:10):
Yeah, so yeah, I love that so much, Lisette, and I
think that with the caller youknow, I know that we didn't
necessarily bring her to thesolution on this call and I
wouldn't be doing her justice ifI said to her oh you know, just
listen to this and apply thesethings and then your life will
(50:32):
change.
No, no, it doesn't work thatway.
I really do believe in coaching.
I do believe in groupcontainers, because we cannot
see what we cannot see, and Idon't know how many books I read
about changing my relationshipwith money and it really didn't
do anything because it didn'tknow my patterns.
I'm not saying they're notvaluable, they are.
(50:55):
It's valuable information, butI really do believe that in
order to change your identitybecause that's what you're doing
with money it requires aninvestment of time, maybe an
investment of money, but reallyseeking out coaches like us who
(51:21):
can help people, who can helpher specifically, or people like
her be able to have a healthyrelationship with money but
ultimately with herself.
Speaker 3 (51:33):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (51:34):
Yeah, and, and the tools that we gave today will
absolutely help for sure.
But I just don't over there'sno, everybody's tired of
over-promising.
You know, I mean, if hearingthat right now I'm saying it,
but I'm hearing people overpromise and I'm just like stop
yeah.
Speaker 3 (51:52):
It's going to take work.
You know it gets to, it gets tobe I'm.
The most part of the work I'vedone myself, more than anything
is, is just like being able toinvest the time and energy of
learning a tool and thenapplying that tool and then
leaning into the unknown of whatdoes my life look like when I,
when I, sit with this tool?
And I just certainly agree withthe unconscious work is the
(52:15):
most important work we could do.
If your problem was conscious,you would have solved it by now.
Speaker 2 (52:21):
You know, yes, absolutely, information is cheap
and it's abundant and there's Imean, we're all of us, we're
all big in personal developmentspaces and the work because it
makes it's the difference thatmakes a difference.
Like I said, information iseverywhere and you can get a
book, and it's like I am notknocking books.
I have gotten a lot of valuefrom a lot of books and there's
(52:43):
something very unique aboutbeing held in a space, held in a
container, someone reflectingto you and someone who can see
from outside the box.
You know, someone who can seeyou're sharing with them your
patterns in real time andthey're able to respond to you
in real time.
Books can take close to 10years to write.
You know like it.
So it's, it's, it's, it's a wayand you know, for this kind of
(53:08):
deep, intensive work like you,it supports you to have a deep,
intensive tool which I feel likethis leads us into something
special that you have going on.
Will you share with everybody,cause I'm going to be there.
Speaker 1 (53:24):
Oh, yeah, it is.
So I am doing a four dayimmersion and each day we're
specifically going to talk abouta pattern that gets in the way
of you creating thetransformation and the change
that you actually desire to makewith money and or with money
(53:44):
and success.
I was going to say money orsuccess, but with money and
success.
Those are the two things that Istruggled with the most in my
life, and so those are the twothings that I love to teach
about.
And it really is.
It's an activation and for thepeople I know you, you two,
haven't been to any of myworkshops yet, but I am a
teacher that I don't.
(54:05):
I teach in a way that peoplecan understand and I also teach
in a way that honors them, and Iteach in a way where I serve
and I'm not leaving you withgaping holes everywhere where
you go.
Okay, I know what my problem is,I think, and so a lot of people
(54:26):
teach with pain over and overand over and over, and it's not.
It's not like everybody,different strokes for different
folks, but I know that when Iwas trying to change my
relationship with money, Ialready knew the pain.
You don't have to tell me, youdon't have to teach me more
about pain.
I get it, and so I love toshare and teach in a way that
(54:46):
makes sense to people.
And you will see, dr JoeDispenza has a big, he has
played a big part in my life.
He I mean, I listened to himfor two years straight, so he
was, he's totally in mysubconscious and I remember
going I don't know what's Dr Joeand what's Mary with, but it
(55:07):
really is about how do you showup in the energy, in the
millionaire energy that youdesire to be, and maybe, if
that's too far off, that's okaySix figure, multi six figure,
whatever it is.
How do you show up and stay inthat energy without your 3D
reality knocking you out of itall the time?
And so we look at your beliefs,which is is beliefs are super
(55:28):
important, but a lot of times wecan't even get to the beliefs
because we've got other shit inthe way, like what our familiar
is meaning, like how do we feelabout money?
That's our familiar, and and so, and so it's four days, it's
called unlock your six figuresand beyond accelerator, and we
(55:48):
kick off May 6th and it's at 1PM, and so I would love to
invite everybody to come hangout with me.
It's a lot of fun.
We do activations.
We are going to do anincredible money challenge.
I don't know if you have everdone a money challenge where
everybody gets $7,000 each dayand you can only spend it on
yourself.
You can't.
(56:09):
It's so fun because everythingcomes up for you, because you're
like what am I going to do with$14,000 if I can't give it away
?
Speaker 3 (56:19):
Yeah.
I have a list.
I'm excited to meet thethreshold I'm excited.
Speaker 2 (56:26):
This sounds so juicy and I believe it's a free
experience.
Yeah, oh yeah, it's free.
It's a free four day experienceyou guys to come hang out with
Mary Lou, be in this energy,receive this wisdom, receive
this set and like, miracleshappen.
I believe when one of us heals,all of us heal, and when we're
(56:48):
in a collective space wherewe're all doing this deep kind
of work, that is where thequantum just pops off.
It is going to be incredible.
So May 6th we're going to putthe link in the show notes sign
up, we will be there, yeah.
Speaker 3 (57:02):
We're going to get paid.
Speaker 2 (57:04):
Let's all get paid.
Let's all get paid.
Yes, the beyond.
Speaker 3 (57:10):
I'm here for the beyond.
Speaker 1 (57:12):
Yes, yes, yes.
So I you know this is for youtoo, but everybody who comes
every day, I'm like the goal isto be in that energy for the
four days that they come andhang out with me, and not just
when they're on the call butwhen they leave.
It's a practice.
We are practicing being in themillionaire, the whatever energy
(57:32):
it is for for everybody who'sgoing to be coming, but we're
practicing being in that energy.
It is so incredible, it is justsuch an experience.
I can't wait.
I love, I love doing.
I love doing these activationsand accelerator challenges.
Speaker 2 (57:48):
Yay, oh, this is so good.
Thank you so much for this giftand for your time and your
energy and your love.
If there was something that youjust want to leave our audience
with about money, aboutprosperity, about themselves
what would it be?
Speaker 1 (58:04):
Yeah, I would love to leave everybody with.
I want, you know, my biggestthing was that I didn't believe
it was actually possible forsomeone like me and I want
people to know that, no mattertheir upbringing, no matter
their story, no matter theirtrauma, no matter their
(58:25):
addictions like, no matter what,they can have the kind of
relationship that they trulydesire with money, and that's
what I want to leave everybodywith.
If I can do it, they can do it.
Speaker 3 (58:40):
Yes, oh gosh, god, that was so beautiful, Thank you
, thank you.
Thank you for being here.
Thank you for sharing yourwisdom.
I love seeing your transitionfrom a little Mexican girl in a
strawberry field to teachingpeople how to be millionaires.
What a gift you are in theworld.
Thank you for sharing with usand our audience.
Speaker 1 (58:58):
Thank you, thank you so much Wow.
Speaker 3 (59:03):
Wow, wow.
Speaker 2 (59:04):
Mary Lou is just like her soul, her desire, just the
character arc that woman has had, yeah, and like she is breaking
stereotypes and just, uh, love,I mean, have you guys
discovered the millionaireinside of you, like I am
discovering the millionaireinside of me and gosh, just to
(59:26):
be in that energy and in thatfrequency and with her teachings
, like I've gotten to go to oneof her mastermind classes and
hear the way she coaches, likejust from a place of deep, deep
love and I believe her.
It's like it is possible forany of us when we allow
ourselves, like you said, to dothat deep work.
It's like who is the one who istaking action, who is the one
(59:48):
who is looking into the cornersof their unconscious mind and
saying, like what's here, what'sstopping me?
Because my life does notreflect, maybe, the belief of I
love money, I know.
Speaker 3 (01:00:02):
That's how I started this episode.
What I love about Mary Lou is Ididn't know what I didn't know.
It's just like it's one thingto go.
Oh, this is what I think aboutmoney, because I've been trained
for years to use affirmations,but how do I feel about money?
Speaker 1 (01:00:17):
Yes, that was like yeah, yeah, I love her.
Speaker 3 (01:00:21):
I love her.
I'm a big fan.
Can't wait for the program tostart.
I know.
Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
Let's get in like the generosity Love it, love it,
love it.
I'm very excited to be there,so definitely make sure to tune
in.
The link to sign up is in theshow notes.
We will be there, you should bethere, and I feel like it's
like she was saying it's aboutreceiving and so there's always
more that can be received.
Speaker 3 (01:00:46):
Yeah, I know Expanding your capacity to
receive.
If you would like to receivesome wisdom from us, give us a
call at 971-895-4111 or send usa DM on at honestfeedbackpodcast
on Instagram.
Also, make sure you like, shareand subscribe.
Share this with a friend.
(01:01:06):
You know this was powerful.
Please pass it on to those thatyou love and, until we meet
again, be honest with each other.
Bye.
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