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February 15, 2022 35 mins

In This Episode: 

  • We'll be discussing "church-hurt", sharing stories of disappointments, and talking about the future of the community. With a goal of healing from past pains, inspiring hope for the future, and building better leaders for generations to come.
  • The goal of this podcast is it's not to throw shade at leaders or pastors or anyone. We're not going to be mentioning names of churches or even personal names. 
  • We discuss the stats on people walking away from the church after COVID and how we are at a turning point where we need to decide if we are going to adapt or do nothing.
  • Drew highlights the similarity of our current situation to the story of Lazarus.
  • Drew shares a raw and emotional story from his past and how it made him feel. Later those same feelings came up again in a church staff meeting that caused him to lose trust in his leader that day.
  • Lessons learned from today's stories:
    • Vulnerability and authenticity cannot be forced.
    • Their pain overrides your position. 
    • Think through your next great idea with your team's emotions in mind.

Quotes from This Episode: 

  • "I'm finding that the majority of times people are moving away from the church, moving away from Christianity, moving away from the community, it comes back to a leader. Not getting something important right." ~ Drew Barker
  • "We have to address the overwhelming lack of accountability and support for leaders in Church. And we just have to we're at that point." ~ Drew Barker


Episode Sponsor: 

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