The Photos We Don't Take: How Memories Heal, Even When It Hurts

Episode Summary:

In this heartfelt episode, Kim Meyer shares a personal story about two photos — one from the start of her Air Force career, and one from her retirement ceremony — and the powerful reminder they bring: make the memories, even when it’s uncomfortable.

Through faith-filled reflection, Kim talks about why memories are essential to healing after loss, how they help us connect with God’s goodness in grief, and why presence matters more than perfection.

Whether you’ve lost a loved one or are simply walking through a hard season, this episode invites you to step out from behind the camera and into the moment — because someday, those memories will become your most treasured gifts.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• You matter in your family’s story. Get in the photo — you belong in the memories you’re creating. And tell the stories out loud. 
• Memories are sacred anchors of love. They help your heart heal and your faith hold steady. Make a memory ornament or start a memory box. 
• Presence > Perfection. The people who love you don’t need your polish — they need you.  Create new memories - it's okay to feel joy without guilt. 

📖 Scripture Inspiration:

• Joshua 4:6–7 — Stones of Remembrance
  “When your children ask… ‘What do these stones mean?’ tell them…”
• “Proverbs 10:7
  “The memory of the righteous is a blessing…”
• Isaiah 49:16
  “See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands.”

📌 Resources & Links:

•  Grab the replay of the Holiday Joy, Rewritten Workshop where we create our Holiday Peace Plan. Navigate the holiday season with more peace and calm and less anxiety and overwhelm even in the midst of grief. 
•  Work with Kimberly → kimberlymeyercoaching.com/home
•  Join our supportive community  → Grief Support and Healing After Loss

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You’re not broken. You’re grieving. And there’s space for that — even in this season. You’re not alone, and you don’t have to face the holidays without support.