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April 30, 2024 46 mins

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Christophe Ngo shares about his journey from struggling with his own sexuality to becoming a compassionate marriage and family therapist specializing in sex therapy, kink, and alternative lifestyles along with the neurodiverse population. Christophe's story is a beacon for anyone grappling with the complexities of identity and the transformative potential of facing our deepest discomforts. He draws on his personal battles to offer a unique perspective on the therapeutic process, emphasizing empathy and the power of self-discovery.

We don't just talk therapy; we uncover the deeply personal narratives that define us. Christophe and I unravel his past economic hardship which shapes his present, coloring his perceptions of success and self-worth. This episode is a candid look at overcoming imposter syndrome and the psychological journey from scarcity to abundance. It offers a compelling exploration of how previous encounters with poverty can linger, influencing our attitudes toward money, ambition, and the ever-elusive concept of self-care.

Finally, Christophe shares invaluable insights into the role of shame, labels, and sexual identity in personal development. Our discussion reveals how kink can be more than taboo—it can be a source of empowerment and a path to reclaiming pleasure from the shadows of shame. We close with a reflection on the importance of maintaining boundaries in personal relationships, especially against the backdrop of family and cultural expectations. Gratitude fills the air as we wrap up, inviting listeners to continue the conversation and connect with Christophe's transformative work online.

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Disclaimer: The views reflected by any of the guests may not reflect the views of the podcast host. Some topics may be difficult for some viewers, so proceed at your own risk. This podcast does not replace psychotherapy or advice and is for entertainment purposes only.

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