March 5, 2025 • 46 mins
In this episode of Hot Couple Chronicles, hosts Russ and Ashley discuss their experiences of being temporarily separated due to a family emergency. As they await the birth of their grandchild, they reflect on their long-distance relationship and the emotions it evokes. They share stories from recent lifestyle events, including club visits, their dynamic interactions with friends, and Ashley's solo adventures.
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Oh, but we're talking about it and every couple of years the universe is like, oh, you don't appreciate each other enough
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We're gonna separate you for a couple weeks
all the emotions
all the emotions
What happens when you start early you get to be early grand parents
I just put lingerie and then a white like button down with a you know, pixie skirt
I was like shy eyes. I looked just like a slutty library and it was you really
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Either way, you look really hot
She looks really hot
No one was complaining that I didn't like I love those heels. I love those heels
I love you when you wear those heels again with the play is like we'll just you know
Just we won't drink or anything. We're gonna go have fun. Hang out with our friends in this drive home
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And
You know how much
I'm pretty sure a half of our listeners are convinced that you left me left me for good. I know on Instagram
I've been getting all I motored you
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Thank you for joining us on our adventure
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I
Wrote and I'm Ashley and this is a couple Chronicles. It's
It's not quite the same
In different states. No, I miss you. I was being so much. It's a stupid
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created same time
Right, right
Well, this is a Wednesday I'd be home happy Wednesday. I miss your I miss your hopes
And now this is the worst thing
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But we're talking about it and every couple years the universe is like, oh you don't appreciate each other enough
We're gonna separate you for a couple weeks. And if you know we
Met online and we're 900 mile apart and ever since
15 years every two years or so were apart for a few weeks at least at a time and so
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We're from Wilson another another one of those times only, you know, that's since makes the heart grow ponder
They say the place morning. Yes, I don't know
We've been fighting since the day we met to be in the same location and not to be together but to be in the same
location together
So we're still different like that. And yeah, I am in Florida for girls with you that don't know I am
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Currently at my sister's house. I've been here for like a week and a half now
It's been like 17 months
A long long time. It's the ultimate eternity
We got a call a week and a half ago that our daughter was getting heavy contractions and she was cramping and everything
so I packed up my stuff and
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drove to Florida like
six seven o'clock at night got here like 11 and
They sent her home. They weren't doing anything and
It's been the same thing pretty much for the last week and a half
Then having them like every four minutes. We're gonna be grandparents. You didn't know and our
Oldest is expecting our grandson. She was due Sunday
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So we have been waiting patiently and patiently waiting
for them and he has
Russ has been holding down the Florida homes while I have been waiting for our new family member. I like been
waiting
Waiting
And then she just went in two days ago and they said they're about four minutes apart now and she is dilating
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Finally and she's sitting out. So there's thinking in the next few days. So we're we're waiting first. Keep waiting
We're here
Are excited but also we're anxious to hurry up
We're anxious to meet her. Hurry up. We're anxious already in a mirror. They want to come down and meet him. He'll be coming down when he's born
So we're ready to all be together. It's a family and yes, I'm very
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very lucky that I get to be here and I have an amazing husband that is
Holding down the roll in front so I can be here because I also have babies. I
Want to get back to I met so much and I also have little ones so it's this is a new
It's a new password on the new journey. We're doing I'm excited, but it's terrifying at the same time
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all the emotions
all the emotions
Wait, it's what happens when you start early you get to be early grandparents. That's true. That's true. Oh
Wow, very gonna be all worth it. It's gonna be just this much of time of time and a long run in the big in the big story
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so
All right, we could be apart. We just have we just suck at being apart. We're just not we do
We're not good at it. All right, I'm not gonna lie. I
Kind of just fall asleep on the couch when you're not here
Well, I'm like I've always
I probably slept in our bed for the last like two weeks when you haven't been here like probably like five times and
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Three of those times was cuz of work
Yeah, but what's the point what's the point then?
I don't know. It's it's it's our bed. Not my bed. Like it feels weird with you. I would tell you in it
Don't be worried. I'm gonna be fine. It's gonna be great, but
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I'm anxiety and we're
Just anxious ready. Oh, we're
We're inflating we're trying to enjoy this season and we're not trying not to rush it. But also we're ready
I don't know. You might share a birthday with
grandfather
At this point that's weird that's weird when you say it that way
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It's weird when you say it that way. I never thought that we would have nothing to your birthday
So we'll see what the universe wants us to do. I don't know. We'll see
Today we're gonna talk. We're just gonna talk about we just wanted to I mean we haven't gotten talked very much here lately
because we've been apart now we just kind of wanted to talk and and I update you on what we're doing what's going on and
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we still haven't talked about first Friday was that a trapeze or
second Saturday at trapeze
Yeah, I'll read them last minute trip
It's always surprised everyone
I'll even spoiled for the last like since the first we have been able to be with our friends like
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All the time and we've been lucky enough that
We were able to be there a lot lately
So this is like make it even harder to be apart for so long too because we've gotten spoiled this all our friend time lately
Yeah first Friday. I went by myself. I
Wasn't going to go because the I knew he had to work and then I was like
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I already know you said you're like, well, you could always just go I come back
Yeah, you know and I was like the more I sat there and thought about it and I was like, well, yeah nothing
I had nothing else going on. So I might as well sell
it was super hero theme and
We don't really have super here across another like one thing that we don't have and
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I had I kind of pulled an old one from we did
Superman and Lois Lane
secret the few years ago and
yeah, like I could just do that again, but most of that like that skirt didn't fit me so
Anymore and I didn't have all the accessories. Well, I thought I had all accessories. I was like, I'll just do it again
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I have the lanyard. I've got the
you know the whole
Tease that I had like a Superman t-shirt the whole thing ready to go is gonna do it your Superman t-shirt
So it made more sense because we were a couple it makes it's a little easy. Yeah
Hard when you're by yourself and your lowest lanes just to report her lady. So I'm like
glasses
here and
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Some kind of laundry so I did and then I went to go grab my lanyard and the t-shirt couldn't sign either of those
Yeah, we couldn't find that Superman t-shirt anywhere. I don't know where it is. I know about
I bet one of the boys have my Superman t-shirt. I bet you probably looks like a theme I
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Guarantee, that's a whole thing. Yeah
Yeah, and they never hear back to you or something. I feel like at this point. They probably gave it away
Trashed it but yeah, I couldn't find it
And so I was like so I just put lingerie and then a white like button down with a you know
Pixie skirt and I was like shy eyes. I was like good enough. I looked just like a slutty library and it was
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Either way, you looked really hot
She looks really hot
No one was complaining that I didn't like I actually got this
So usually when you go by yourself, I don't get to see your outfits in person
I just get to see pictures looking for a fresh way to connect in the lifestyle
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This time since you're going straight there from home you were dressed ready to go when you left the house
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So I actually got to see your outfit this time before I would wear there. I
Told him I sent him to the gas station. I was like, can you go get me a drink so I don't have to stop
Because I didn't want to have to stop looking like that by myself
I had a like a cute little like I have these platform just regular black heels
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But they have little bows on them and I don't know why but it makes them so much better
Just a little bow on it and yeah, I love those heels. I love those heels
I love you when you wear those heels. This was like jeans
You can't beat that and you can't be that was like
Psi-highs and the pixie skirt like that whole vibe with the glasses and everything. They were my real legit. That's what I wear
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Yeah, and the plan was to go there and drive there and
And then come home. I was like, I'm just gonna not drink anything and just when it curves this I'll just come home
I'll you know, it's only two hours hour and a half at nighttime when no way's on the road. I
Didn't end up just staying for first Friday ended up in first Saturday
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Yeah
You end up staying with the motherfucking leaves, right? Yes. They just might have thought and then they had roommates as well that were staying with them
so I didn't I wasn't gonna stay because I knew they had their weekend planned and I felt bad like crushing their plans and then they
Insisted and it was so late and I was like I can't even imagine driving home on just because I was so tired
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So I'm like, it's fine
I'll just get it
You know if you are asleep leave in the morning and go and then they were like you could come hang out all day tomorrow
Too. We're gonna come back to trap tomorrow night
this is
And you know how that goes. I had nothing else going on and I was already there
And so I did pack a bag because I had that feeling that I might
stay I was like, I don't know just in case and I'm glad I did because I had another outfit and
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Yeah, we ended up making a whole weekend of it. We went back the next night and
And we ended up well in the daytime we went out to dinner
I went out over to their house and got to see their house and their dog their puppy and her dog and
Sue their house and you know, we hung out and not to lunch
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Yeah, that's not like thing journey. It's just it's been
Learned to kind of talk a little bit more about it. It's been this was only the second time that I was really kind of like
a third for the you know
Yeah, with another couple I've never really had that
It's a new dynamic that I'm kind of you know, we're going through we
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Are a little bit different where I have been not liking lately
but it's not because of it being like a real tank of ours and
Not really being like something that like you really were looking for me to do or you're pushing for me to do or I
Wanted to do it was has been just really because you have to work a lot
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Yeah, it's not like you said like it's not like a big king
It's something that we talked about and I'm like we're good and we were just good with like we're comfortable with
But it's not really like we really don't get off on playing separately
Yeah, like anything that we really like set out to go do or anything. It's just kind of involved
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you know organically and
Because our friends it's kind of localish. It's been a trapeze or Atlanta whatever is going on and
I'm able to get there and
It's you know easier for me to get there and you unfortunately can't you know, just take off whenever and
and so it's still time for me to go see our friends and hang out and kind of you know network as well because we do have
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the podcast and you know socials and all that stuff content and so it's a way to you know
help our friends host parties and host things and be there to help and support but
It's been just me for us for a little bit here and there
You know, it's been a lot of me just like watching and hanging out and just being a part of
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you know
environment with our friends and everything and then we've slowly as you trust people and as you start getting connections with people
We've been lucky enough to meet people lately that we've really connected with and so I've been kind of exploring that and
You know videos and pictures and it is hot. You know, I know he doesn't mind while getting that
And so when we do, you know, we're just kind of navigating it figuring it out
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I went to secrets last summer with a couple and stayed with them in their room
That was really my first like weekend alone
kind of
Navigating, you know with another couple and
Yeah, talk about going off the deep end
First time you by yourself here as secrets
Yeah, luckily you like I
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Want to say like technically you're alone because I wasn't there
But like you weren't alone like I know exactly the people you were with that's how it is a trap to reply
It's not just go deal with anyone or just you know, them often meet new people and join new groups of people
Probably, you know alone, but it's people we already have like established chemistry and relationship
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And trust and it's people we really like would be around anyway
He was you know, I'm never alone. Like you said I could knock on any of those doors or go get everyone and they
Yeah, got me
Like
Save a mic or a little different too because they are on their own like
Hot wife hot husband type a journey. They do play separate
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So this whole time where you've been
Gone if they were I feel like if they were available during the week when I'm available, they would have been in our house
Oh, yeah. Yeah, and it's like either way it would have fun the same way
I was now had to stay home while he went on it would be the same people the same situation like same
Yeah, cross-level
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And then this was the second time that I really was with like, you know a couple with a couple
As a third kind of all weekend and so it's like
We've been navigating that and you know, you know sam is for the most part straight straight ish for the most part
And so it's like, you know, it's a different dynamic. It's different people different humans
So we've been kind of exploring that and figuring that out
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But you know, there's a lot of trust there. There's a lot of communication and we're all yeah on the same page and
I can't straight
We're all on the same page
And I can't straight. Oh, we do have some really good chemistry and we are like on the same level
Of them as them pretty much every day all the time. We've gotten really close with yeah
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Yeah, we're just exploring it's fun when you can you know
You can trust somebody and have that much connection to like start exploring things and we have a lot of stuff we're talking about
Hopefully knocking off of our bracket. Yeah, we all we're very happy about that
Like and we've really been talking about all this stuff in the past like two or three weeks
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so we haven't been together and we've been talking about this stuff and was like
I'm so turned on right now
And there's nothing I could do about it
I mean, it's been good getting to know them and
You know, we're starting to explore and get comfortable and stuff. So I mean this is
Honestly something that we've been looking to find for a long time. We just haven't so we're
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Excited and all that. Yeah. Yeah, we have for Saturday. That was fun. We got to kind of explore that a little bit and
You know, I had a few of some pretty hot
Pictures I got from that weekend
My face all of yeah. Yeah, they were hot. They were really
Like a huge come fetish and so do they
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And so
Yeah, I got a facial from another guy and it was really exciting because that doesn't happen in the lifestyle
Very often at least with no like I've gotten to you know, it's come play. It's hard in the lifestyle because most men
Aren't coming in the lifestyle, you know, unless they're with spouses. That's really common
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not
Um, so
Good good good. It's good. It's good
It's good, I guess or whatever
Yeah, we're with them for the party party so it's all like leading up to that we
So first Friday for March is coming up in a few days this Friday
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And we were really hoping to get to that
So we were planning on going to the first Friday this month like this upcoming Friday
and
just with the baby not being here and
Well, everything going on. There's there's no way we could risk going
All the way up to a little bit of a
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There's no way we could risk going all the way up to Atlanta than her actually going into labor
and having that six hour drive back down there and
Missing it so that was yeah, I mean sometimes we in the lifestyle you have to choose
You know, we always choose family first
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Yeah, so we
we uh
This is one of those times where it's like, uh, we're sad that we can't make it but we're excited for
You know, what's what's the problem?
Yeah, it makes that so much better when you finally get do get to be together because life is always constantly
They're just trying to
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But we're going to be say not this weekend, but next weekend we're going to be at the st. Patty's day party
And we got to the week after the first friday. We didn't talk about we ended up going
Oh, yeah, together and we actually yeah trapped the night together
Yeah, so again, I had a weekend off because there was stuff going on at the plant and we weren't
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I didn't have to be there. I'm not going to get in specifics, but I didn't have to be there that we can't
and so
We on a whim said you want to go?
I'm like, yeah, let's do it and we didn't tell anybody we were going
So we wanted to we knew a whole bunch of people that were going to be there
everybody was going including the lease and
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anything but vanilla robin lindsey and
Uh, we're in first
Yeah
but
So we knew a whole bunch of people that are going to be there, but we didn't tell them we were coming
So we were coming right from our health because we were like last second and had that jingling to go and we were like
Let's just do it. And then so we got ready at home and then just drove right to the club again
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again with the play is like we'll just
Just we won't drink or anything. We're just gonna go have fun hang out with our friends and just drive home
And you know how that didn't it didn't happen again
The time I sent a zoom in there like you're staying in our room
I think you're staying with us
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Yeah
It was much more divided immediately or the last time first friday. I was waiting until the last second. I'll
Let's go this time. It was like as soon as I got there. Everybody was like you're staying with us. So
We
Yeah
Had a good time always a good time always a good crew. I'm saying it's always a good
group to be a trap with period I mean
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And there was a little bit of playing at trap
But nothing like it was always just it was always foreplay and like flirty stuff going on at trap that night
It all
It sounds good lately it seems it's like we've been a lot of playing like
Some flogging I probably got flogged quite a few times at trap that night. I took a good beat
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Like I was sore for a couple days there
When you were getting changed in the lingerie me and mike were in there with you
That one got me good and we bent you over against the locker and each one of us had a cheat
I also there was another person with a flogging
And the main like dining area that yeah
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I've been over and took a good beat in there too. I told a few times where I got it
I flogged a couple people like he handed me the flogger and I flogged a couple people that yeah
In the main in the main dining it
The main dining area of trap east
You know, you know, just a normal Saturday
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What are we writing in the block right now?
Just a normal Saturday right in the block right?
Like I had to pause a lot a few times to let people walk by so
And it seems like the more every time we've been going more floggers have been coming out and more paddles and more whips and like
Straight up bull lips and stuff
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More people have been bringing more accessories lately like i'm here. Yeah, I have noticed an uptick in like toys and
I've been playing with my own floggers and stuff. It's been fun. It's been good. Yeah, I get it
But I feel like the whole night of trap, which was a blast
Really just built up to
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the after party in the hotel
Yeah, that was so much
There were people I never would have expected to be there
And yes, I was excited that they were there
So because they like i've never seen them, you know in that type of situation and like i've seen them at trap and stuff and they're
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Awesome people. They're so nice
But I never saw them in like
They came back to the hotel
Yeah, come back
Because it's not that first hotel after party with a large group
But it was the first time I saw them there
It was a good group of people there a lot of a lot of good and I was a new taste of yeah, it was fun
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It's fun. And I got a few
Few good videos and pictures there too kind of some good bucket list items. Heck no. I had a couple bucket list items
that
Yeah, I never had uh
A three-way blowjob before and that was one of my bucket ones. It's just that was
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That was I had you and two other women
Performing the doing their work the their best work
The lord's work
I mean you're on your knees. So it's like just like it's just like praying. Can't say that
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You're sorry, um, and then
I got to share your mouth with somebody else
Yeah, always one of my
Every time i'm with any quick folks, man
Very
I love yeah, it was a lot. Oh, I finally got to play with one of my crushes
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yeah
like i've had a
uh a crush on hers as we met her the met him like them the first time and then
finally
got to
spend some time with
Her a little bit
I had a lot of crushes better
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And we had we had our normal like group and then we had a couple
New experiences and it was
It was long
We I think we're in that I don't think we just even decided to go to bed till like four or five
We're staying in the room. So I never look at the clock when my situations but yeah, and then once everyone cleared out
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We were staying there were six of us in the room and the other couple that we were staying with ended up
fucking until
Probably night in the morning in the morning and we had it out of it
And it was not quiet and so we got
like every 30 minutes i'd wake up and just look over there and you know something
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So it was like a very not not sound sleep for a couple of hours and so we were struggling that next day
For sure. Yeah, yeah, I was exhausted the next day. We were struggling, but it was so worth it
and
poor
mike and sam because
We had a thunderstorm come through and it had tornado warnings up there
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And I didn't even know that was coming me either and
When everything started to calm down everybody was like got showers and like got cleaned up and it was kind of just
Getting ready to lay down and go to sleep except for
Our roommate that our one roommates just the two just kept going
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I mean, um, we heard uh, the thunder just rumble through the hotel or like holy crap
And we look outside and downpouring and we look at the radar and see like tornado warnings and stuff like that
and so
They worry about their kids at home because they have a couple teenagers
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and
So they uh, so we were like
so they uh, so my kid of driving all the way home
Just to make sure they're I felt bad for but
Yeah, it was like a 45 little time. So again, it just shows another family over everything. It's like
The only always make sure yeah, they had an 18 year old there, but they had a younger one like sibling
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Within one of those situations. So totally get it. Yeah, we'll get it. Oh 100%
100% the kids are always come first, but we ended up
Fine, it's fine. We end up going out going out the next day and we got to see him before we left then
Yeah, well well the next morning we helped we had we helped sam pack up all the lights and all that stuff and then
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We left and we went to lunch
Warm and I was that that was a new place that we went to that was kind of cool place like the speakeasy
And I looked yeah. Yeah. Oh we found a restaurant
And we walk in like give a reservation. We're like, no, it's just two of us. We're like
Okay, do you want the main dining hall the speakeasy like speakeasy?
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Oh, you know, she's like have you been here before I said no never it's her first time. She's like, let me take you back there
All right
And she takes us all the way through the restaurant into what looks like a big walk-in cooler door
And opens it and it's a long hallway that's decorated and you walk around and there's a private dining hall on one side
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Bottles of wine along the wall that we go into a speakeasy. It's really cool. Like
Oh 20s themed bar
with
It was it had really good food
It was a good food. Yeah, yeah, it was good
We took our time and then went home and
Was you know, we're always and then I had to get home and pack my bag because
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Or do my laundry because I knew you know, this baby. Yeah when it was like
You know, I wanted to always be ready. So I made sure we deep clean the house and
Make sure that everything was ready for when that's happening and then by
Tuesday
Tuesday
I was taking my bag left me
You left me. I'm pretty sure I'm pretty sure half of our listeners are convinced that you left me left me for good
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I know on instagram. I've been getting all I motored you
Everything's like problems. Well, there are people are like is everything okay? It's everything. All right, why are you not together?
We're fine. We want to be together
Yeah
like circumstances are
I'm very lucky that I get to be here. I remember that and it's just
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Tiny little moment in the rest of our lives. It was just a couple weeks. I'm yeah be worth it
Yeah, it's definitely worth it. It's just frustrating in the moment that waiting or just waiting. We're just yeah
That'll wait
When we had our kids
The waiting I thought the waiting was like at this point the waiting was the worst part
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But I feel like this is worse. Yeah
No
Like at least we were together when you were pregnant
That's true
He did come last week. I was like
Really?
Yeah, like he had all stuff going on every hit the podcast tuesday and he had work on wednesday
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So he was like thursday we're gonna meet and have lunch. So I planned on meeting halfway
It's only a two-hour drive. So it's not too bad and I can be back in two hours if something would happen
So and then he's like, I think i'm gonna drive the whole way and it ended up
I'm so glad he did because it was so beautiful outside and
visuals down a1a found a little
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Little restaurant one of those like been here 35 years fresh oysters. He's gonna be so
Most
That was good. We got to sit by the beach and drive, you know sundry town
drive it along the ocean and
And he ended up staying a little longer
Yeah, I stayed up staying the night
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and and
I'm scared
I could definitely tell you been a good girl and been drinking all of your water
Yes, I was so proud of my
It was
So good this step who could
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I was like I was like the whole drive home
I was thinking about it the whole drive home like i've been thinking on this
It's like uh, it was like I don't know if it was because we hadn't seen each other for a week
Or and I haven't seen you since
But it was uh, I don't know that's like I felt like that was top five
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We say that all the time I feel like it's just evolving
Just evolving
I'm I i'm getting uh turned on just thinking about a rush. Oh
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Thank you
It was this little episode is a lot of sexual
You can't tell we haven't been together
Uh
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We're just like corn dogs
Oh after this episode the camera's on we might as well
Oh, okay, oh oh I forgot
Uh, we got the every factor mentioned
Uh when I came down, I brought you a cookie
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Yeah, he did we were both on the same mind frame
We could have been having the conversations and talking about all this stuff because we're not together
But he came in he came in then he's like I brought you a goodie back and it was
Uh black bag like drawstring bag with it had like
It had a wand
had I had your pink wand
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I had a
glass dildo
I had your rose
And I had the chargers
with a
Plug like with a box usb box, you know, so you could charge them
He's like I charge them all for you know, but just in case
He's the best charger and the ring light and the ring light that brought the regal light
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and
Pro move just so anyway, I brought the toy cleaner
Oh, yeah, he did and he even thought of he thought of everything
Yeah, jules sing battle and all the lube all the lube and the lube
and the lube
like I thought
I thought of that how like
Uh, he had a whole diacritic for me to get I was like, oh, thank you so much. I felt so excited
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Because I had completely
I you know, I completely forgot to say something and I was like he read my mind. It's fine
We're gonna be like like
Like, you know your fingers your fingers can only get you so far sometimes
You like we like variety
Yeah, I like that option
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But yeah, so yeah that kind of just wraps up our last couple weeks
Yeah
We got tiny party coming up
On r14 that yeah, i'm so excited for that and it's my birthday weekend
So we'll have we have a link for that down below
And if you want to come it's like 20 that one's a ticket
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And like yeah person what do you lose? You know, yeah, hang out half a full time come dance hang out
Get some some to drink and then go home if you want to you know
Yeah, it's not that it's a win-win situation. Honestly, like I mean, it's a complete bar takeover. It's a
Like they bought out the entire bar
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they
are
So different let's look down and you know different area so you don't have to worry about vanillas coming in and crashing it
Because you have to have a ticket to get in
kind of be
Sorry
Was just at and t guy across the street and mo
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All right, I think we're good
Yeah, yeah, come meet the
We have such an amazing group of friends tiles after dark all that crew everyone that is coming
There's a lot of new faces coming a lot of new people coming. So come check it out. They are just an amazing
group of people just yeah, really
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I promise you'll find somebody in that group to talk to everyone is so welcoming and just
Loves, you know showing everybody the ropes and lots of lifestyle looks good stuff
We've seen a lot of a lot of groups of people with you know, we've seen them all we've
experienced a lot of pain and
Environment and this is a good look at one without a doubt. No, you know
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Yeah, the vibe like we always talk about how like it's a vibe thing
and I
This is their vibe. It's like is
like is spot on like they're so
Welcoming to everyone they're inclusives. They
Try and include everybody they're affordable
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They hey everything we've been asking for. Yeah. Yeah, it's
So nice that they came into the you know picture when they did
Wow, we're lucky to have found that and we're so lucky to live where we live and still, you know
It's you know pretty close to home and they all live close enough not close enough, but
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Not close enough, but also close enough at the same time that we can make it to a lot of their
stuff and so we're super excited to work with them and we've been working with them pretty closely and
You know to find a group of people that actually respects, you know, trust us enough to you know
You know help this community. We want we all want to help this community. And so it's a good one
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Good one. It's a good one
And then next week you're going to be talking with Jim
Vance. Yes, so kind of piggy if anybody that watched last week's episode, it was just me
and
We talked I talked about different
issues and uh
kind of things a way to get through some
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It was really focused on guys
and Jim
Jim Vance the conscious man on all the social media
on all the social platforms
uh is a men's coach that
uh specializes in self leadership
and
uh leading relationships and uh him and his wife both uh run their businesses
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They're both amazing people and I interviewed him and asked him some questions kind of pertaining to the lifestyle
and
Say I just had that conversation with them and it's
So good
I can't like I could have talked to this guy
uh
forever and
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Luckily I can because
Like we like we met them before social media and all that stuff just do friends and we've been
That we're lucky to have them in our lives and we're great friends with them and we you know
Can hang out and have dinner or whatever whenever we want so
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Okay, but that's why I made a joke, uh
About it's funny how we're having this
conversation over the internet when we literally live
20 minutes away
He's like and he's like I think it'd be weird if I sat in your bed like you're right
You're right, you're right
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You're right
We're very we're very secure comfortable guys, but we gotta draw a line somewhere
But yeah, so that's
They're really
Best humans some of the best humans we've ever met as well. I'm really excited to hear that conversation
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I like that the last two we the last one and the next one will be both episodes that I get to hear for the first
Time that's another thing. I'm not a part of it. So yeah
Oh last week. I was so nervous and so uncomfortable. It's just so weird just
like I feel like i'm just talking to myself like a crazy person and like
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I don't have anybody to like bounce ideas off of or like ask open-ended questions to keep conversations going
and it all was on me and
I know I was
I was
just
On edge the entire time
Oh, it's it's not a friend thing. I felt so awkward. You're doing one
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well
and like I I
recorded
like
It was over an hour
And if you watch episode, it's like 30 some missions because i'm like, nope
I sound I sound like I have no idea what i'm talking just because
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Again, I didn't have you
to kind of
rate
You know pull the leash on me a little bit because I ramble a lot
Then i'll get on a tangent and i'll just keep going and go and forget where I came from and that's what happened
a couple times
Um, yeah, exactly exactly I had a couple of those i'm like
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I'm like, you know a couple of like I had some really good points, but I forgot how I got there
Yeah
And then like listening back to like that has nothing to do with I was talking about
Yeah
I've got
Definitely harder even just doing social media just videos just answering questions and stuff I go off and I don't know what I was even
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doing
Why I'm doing there what was going on? It's hard. I get it. It's
It's not easy. Hopefully
after
Next week's episode we will both be together talking about the patty party
We that's what's gonna happen. So the next step we're the step
Next week we will be back together and we'll be talking about the patty party and all of a sudden margaret berkman and all of that
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steps so
Join us we're together again. We'll be all finally reunited the orgy that you will experience
My god, especially if I drive right from here to that party. Do you want to be there for 12 hours?
That's cheaper than all that
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All of us together for the first time in a minute, oh my god, yep going to be
It's a good time
Come watch it's good for it's a good shit. It'll be a good show
It's going to be
Oh my god
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All right, all right, yeah, so let's wrap it up. All right, guess we're getting
Ended what? Wow. Well, I always
I always not that serious. Don't make it weird. Bye
Oh, but we're talking about it and every couple of years the universe is like, oh, you don't appreciate each other enough
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We're gonna separate you for a couple weeks
all the emotions
all the emotions
What happens when you start early you get to be early grand parents
I just put lingerie and then a white like button down with a you know, pixie skirt
I was like shy eyes. I looked just like a slutty library and it was you really
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Either way, you look really hot
She looks really hot
No one was complaining that I didn't like I love those heels. I love those heels
I love you when you wear those heels again with the play is like we'll just you know
Just we won't drink or anything. We're gonna go have fun. Hang out with our friends in this drive home
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And
You know how much
I'm pretty sure a half of our listeners are convinced that you left me left me for good. I know on Instagram
I've been getting all I motored you
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I
Wrote and I'm Ashley and this is a couple Chronicles. It's
It's not quite the same
In different states. No, I miss you. I was being so much. It's a stupid
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created same time
Right, right
Well, this is a Wednesday I'd be home happy Wednesday. I miss your I miss your hopes
And now this is the worst thing
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But we're talking about it and every couple years the universe is like, oh you don't appreciate each other enough
We're gonna separate you for a couple weeks. And if you know we
Met online and we're 900 mile apart and ever since
15 years every two years or so were apart for a few weeks at least at a time and so
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We're from Wilson another another one of those times only, you know, that's since makes the heart grow ponder
They say the place morning. Yes, I don't know
We've been fighting since the day we met to be in the same location and not to be together but to be in the same
location together
So we're still different like that. And yeah, I am in Florida for girls with you that don't know I am
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Currently at my sister's house. I've been here for like a week and a half now
It's been like 17 months
A long long time. It's the ultimate eternity
We got a call a week and a half ago that our daughter was getting heavy contractions and she was cramping and everything
so I packed up my stuff and
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drove to Florida like
six seven o'clock at night got here like 11 and
They sent her home. They weren't doing anything and
It's been the same thing pretty much for the last week and a half
Then having them like every four minutes. We're gonna be grandparents. You didn't know and our
Oldest is expecting our grandson. She was due Sunday
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So we have been waiting patiently and patiently waiting
for them and he has
Russ has been holding down the Florida homes while I have been waiting for our new family member. I like been
waiting
Waiting
And then she just went in two days ago and they said they're about four minutes apart now and she is dilating
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Finally and she's sitting out. So there's thinking in the next few days. So we're we're waiting first. Keep waiting
We're here
Are excited but also we're anxious to hurry up
We're anxious to meet her. Hurry up. We're anxious already in a mirror. They want to come down and meet him. He'll be coming down when he's born
So we're ready to all be together. It's a family and yes, I'm very
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very lucky that I get to be here and I have an amazing husband that is
Holding down the roll in front so I can be here because I also have babies. I
Want to get back to I met so much and I also have little ones so it's this is a new
It's a new password on the new journey. We're doing I'm excited, but it's terrifying at the same time
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all the emotions
all the emotions
Wait, it's what happens when you start early you get to be early grandparents. That's true. That's true. Oh
Wow, very gonna be all worth it. It's gonna be just this much of time of time and a long run in the big in the big story
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so
All right, we could be apart. We just have we just suck at being apart. We're just not we do
We're not good at it. All right, I'm not gonna lie. I
Kind of just fall asleep on the couch when you're not here
Well, I'm like I've always
I probably slept in our bed for the last like two weeks when you haven't been here like probably like five times and
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Three of those times was cuz of work
Yeah, but what's the point what's the point then?
I don't know. It's it's it's our bed. Not my bed. Like it feels weird with you. I would tell you in it
Don't be worried. I'm gonna be fine. It's gonna be great, but
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I'm anxiety and we're
Just anxious ready. Oh, we're
We're inflating we're trying to enjoy this season and we're not trying not to rush it. But also we're ready
I don't know. You might share a birthday with
grandfather
At this point that's weird that's weird when you say it that way
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It's weird when you say it that way. I never thought that we would have nothing to your birthday
So we'll see what the universe wants us to do. I don't know. We'll see
Today we're gonna talk. We're just gonna talk about we just wanted to I mean we haven't gotten talked very much here lately
because we've been apart now we just kind of wanted to talk and and I update you on what we're doing what's going on and
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we still haven't talked about first Friday was that a trapeze or
second Saturday at trapeze
Yeah, I'll read them last minute trip
It's always surprised everyone
I'll even spoiled for the last like since the first we have been able to be with our friends like
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All the time and we've been lucky enough that
We were able to be there a lot lately
So this is like make it even harder to be apart for so long too because we've gotten spoiled this all our friend time lately
Yeah first Friday. I went by myself. I
Wasn't going to go because the I knew he had to work and then I was like
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I already know you said you're like, well, you could always just go I come back
Yeah, you know and I was like the more I sat there and thought about it and I was like, well, yeah nothing
I had nothing else going on. So I might as well sell
it was super hero theme and
We don't really have super here across another like one thing that we don't have and
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I had I kind of pulled an old one from we did
Superman and Lois Lane
secret the few years ago and
yeah, like I could just do that again, but most of that like that skirt didn't fit me so
Anymore and I didn't have all the accessories. Well, I thought I had all accessories. I was like, I'll just do it again
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I have the lanyard. I've got the
you know the whole
Tease that I had like a Superman t-shirt the whole thing ready to go is gonna do it your Superman t-shirt
So it made more sense because we were a couple it makes it's a little easy. Yeah
Hard when you're by yourself and your lowest lanes just to report her lady. So I'm like
glasses
here and
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Some kind of laundry so I did and then I went to go grab my lanyard and the t-shirt couldn't sign either of those
Yeah, we couldn't find that Superman t-shirt anywhere. I don't know where it is. I know about
I bet one of the boys have my Superman t-shirt. I bet you probably looks like a theme I
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Guarantee, that's a whole thing. Yeah
Yeah, and they never hear back to you or something. I feel like at this point. They probably gave it away
Trashed it but yeah, I couldn't find it
And so I was like so I just put lingerie and then a white like button down with a you know
Pixie skirt and I was like shy eyes. I was like good enough. I looked just like a slutty library and it was
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Either way, you looked really hot
She looks really hot
No one was complaining that I didn't like I actually got this
So usually when you go by yourself, I don't get to see your outfits in person
I just get to see pictures looking for a fresh way to connect in the lifestyle
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This time since you're going straight there from home you were dressed ready to go when you left the house
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So I actually got to see your outfit this time before I would wear there. I
Told him I sent him to the gas station. I was like, can you go get me a drink so I don't have to stop
Because I didn't want to have to stop looking like that by myself
I had a like a cute little like I have these platform just regular black heels
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But they have little bows on them and I don't know why but it makes them so much better
Just a little bow on it and yeah, I love those heels. I love those heels
I love you when you wear those heels. This was like jeans
You can't beat that and you can't be that was like
Psi-highs and the pixie skirt like that whole vibe with the glasses and everything. They were my real legit. That's what I wear
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Yeah, and the plan was to go there and drive there and
And then come home. I was like, I'm just gonna not drink anything and just when it curves this I'll just come home
I'll you know, it's only two hours hour and a half at nighttime when no way's on the road. I
Didn't end up just staying for first Friday ended up in first Saturday
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Yeah
You end up staying with the motherfucking leaves, right? Yes. They just might have thought and then they had roommates as well that were staying with them
so I didn't I wasn't gonna stay because I knew they had their weekend planned and I felt bad like crushing their plans and then they
Insisted and it was so late and I was like I can't even imagine driving home on just because I was so tired
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So I'm like, it's fine
I'll just get it
You know if you are asleep leave in the morning and go and then they were like you could come hang out all day tomorrow
Too. We're gonna come back to trap tomorrow night
this is
And you know how that goes. I had nothing else going on and I was already there
And so I did pack a bag because I had that feeling that I might
stay I was like, I don't know just in case and I'm glad I did because I had another outfit and
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Yeah, we ended up making a whole weekend of it. We went back the next night and
And we ended up well in the daytime we went out to dinner
I went out over to their house and got to see their house and their dog their puppy and her dog and
Sue their house and you know, we hung out and not to lunch
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Yeah, that's not like thing journey. It's just it's been
Learned to kind of talk a little bit more about it. It's been this was only the second time that I was really kind of like
a third for the you know
Yeah, with another couple I've never really had that
It's a new dynamic that I'm kind of you know, we're going through we
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Are a little bit different where I have been not liking lately
but it's not because of it being like a real tank of ours and
Not really being like something that like you really were looking for me to do or you're pushing for me to do or I
Wanted to do it was has been just really because you have to work a lot
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Yeah, it's not like you said like it's not like a big king
It's something that we talked about and I'm like we're good and we were just good with like we're comfortable with
But it's not really like we really don't get off on playing separately
Yeah, like anything that we really like set out to go do or anything. It's just kind of involved
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you know organically and
Because our friends it's kind of localish. It's been a trapeze or Atlanta whatever is going on and
I'm able to get there and
It's you know easier for me to get there and you unfortunately can't you know, just take off whenever and
and so it's still time for me to go see our friends and hang out and kind of you know network as well because we do have
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the podcast and you know socials and all that stuff content and so it's a way to you know
help our friends host parties and host things and be there to help and support but
It's been just me for us for a little bit here and there
You know, it's been a lot of me just like watching and hanging out and just being a part of
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you know
environment with our friends and everything and then we've slowly as you trust people and as you start getting connections with people
We've been lucky enough to meet people lately that we've really connected with and so I've been kind of exploring that and
You know videos and pictures and it is hot. You know, I know he doesn't mind while getting that
And so when we do, you know, we're just kind of navigating it figuring it out
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I went to secrets last summer with a couple and stayed with them in their room
That was really my first like weekend alone
kind of
Navigating, you know with another couple and
Yeah, talk about going off the deep end
First time you by yourself here as secrets
Yeah, luckily you like I
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Want to say like technically you're alone because I wasn't there
But like you weren't alone like I know exactly the people you were with that's how it is a trap to reply
It's not just go deal with anyone or just you know, them often meet new people and join new groups of people
Probably, you know alone, but it's people we already have like established chemistry and relationship
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And trust and it's people we really like would be around anyway
He was you know, I'm never alone. Like you said I could knock on any of those doors or go get everyone and they
Yeah, got me
Like
Save a mic or a little different too because they are on their own like
Hot wife hot husband type a journey. They do play separate
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So this whole time where you've been
Gone if they were I feel like if they were available during the week when I'm available, they would have been in our house
Oh, yeah. Yeah, and it's like either way it would have fun the same way
I was now had to stay home while he went on it would be the same people the same situation like same
Yeah, cross-level
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And then this was the second time that I really was with like, you know a couple with a couple
As a third kind of all weekend and so it's like
We've been navigating that and you know, you know sam is for the most part straight straight ish for the most part
And so it's like, you know, it's a different dynamic. It's different people different humans
So we've been kind of exploring that and figuring that out
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But you know, there's a lot of trust there. There's a lot of communication and we're all yeah on the same page and
I can't straight
We're all on the same page
And I can't straight. Oh, we do have some really good chemistry and we are like on the same level
Of them as them pretty much every day all the time. We've gotten really close with yeah
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Yeah, we're just exploring it's fun when you can you know
You can trust somebody and have that much connection to like start exploring things and we have a lot of stuff we're talking about
Hopefully knocking off of our bracket. Yeah, we all we're very happy about that
Like and we've really been talking about all this stuff in the past like two or three weeks
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so we haven't been together and we've been talking about this stuff and was like
I'm so turned on right now
And there's nothing I could do about it
I mean, it's been good getting to know them and
You know, we're starting to explore and get comfortable and stuff. So I mean this is
Honestly something that we've been looking to find for a long time. We just haven't so we're
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Excited and all that. Yeah. Yeah, we have for Saturday. That was fun. We got to kind of explore that a little bit and
You know, I had a few of some pretty hot
Pictures I got from that weekend
My face all of yeah. Yeah, they were hot. They were really
Like a huge come fetish and so do they
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And so
Yeah, I got a facial from another guy and it was really exciting because that doesn't happen in the lifestyle
Very often at least with no like I've gotten to you know, it's come play. It's hard in the lifestyle because most men
Aren't coming in the lifestyle, you know, unless they're with spouses. That's really common
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not
Um, so
Good good good. It's good. It's good
It's good, I guess or whatever
Yeah, we're with them for the party party so it's all like leading up to that we
So first Friday for March is coming up in a few days this Friday
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And we were really hoping to get to that
So we were planning on going to the first Friday this month like this upcoming Friday
and
just with the baby not being here and
Well, everything going on. There's there's no way we could risk going
All the way up to a little bit of a
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There's no way we could risk going all the way up to Atlanta than her actually going into labor
and having that six hour drive back down there and
Missing it so that was yeah, I mean sometimes we in the lifestyle you have to choose
You know, we always choose family first
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Yeah, so we
we uh
This is one of those times where it's like, uh, we're sad that we can't make it but we're excited for
You know, what's what's the problem?
Yeah, it makes that so much better when you finally get do get to be together because life is always constantly
They're just trying to
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Yeah, finally
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But we're going to be say not this weekend, but next weekend we're going to be at the st. Patty's day party
And we got to the week after the first friday. We didn't talk about we ended up going
Oh, yeah, together and we actually yeah trapped the night together
Yeah, so again, I had a weekend off because there was stuff going on at the plant and we weren't
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I didn't have to be there. I'm not going to get in specifics, but I didn't have to be there that we can't
and so
We on a whim said you want to go?
I'm like, yeah, let's do it and we didn't tell anybody we were going
So we wanted to we knew a whole bunch of people that were going to be there
everybody was going including the lease and
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anything but vanilla robin lindsey and
Uh, we're in first
Yeah
but
So we knew a whole bunch of people that are going to be there, but we didn't tell them we were coming
So we were coming right from our health because we were like last second and had that jingling to go and we were like
Let's just do it. And then so we got ready at home and then just drove right to the club again
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again with the play is like we'll just
Just we won't drink or anything. We're just gonna go have fun hang out with our friends and just drive home
And you know how that didn't it didn't happen again
The time I sent a zoom in there like you're staying in our room
I think you're staying with us
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Yeah
It was much more divided immediately or the last time first friday. I was waiting until the last second. I'll
Let's go this time. It was like as soon as I got there. Everybody was like you're staying with us. So
We
Yeah
Had a good time always a good time always a good crew. I'm saying it's always a good
group to be a trap with period I mean
(23:51):
And there was a little bit of playing at trap
But nothing like it was always just it was always foreplay and like flirty stuff going on at trap that night
It all
It sounds good lately it seems it's like we've been a lot of playing like
Some flogging I probably got flogged quite a few times at trap that night. I took a good beat
(24:12):
Like I was sore for a couple days there
When you were getting changed in the lingerie me and mike were in there with you
That one got me good and we bent you over against the locker and each one of us had a cheat
I also there was another person with a flogging
And the main like dining area that yeah
(24:32):
I've been over and took a good beat in there too. I told a few times where I got it
I flogged a couple people like he handed me the flogger and I flogged a couple people that yeah
In the main in the main dining it
The main dining area of trap east
You know, you know, just a normal Saturday
(24:53):
What are we writing in the block right now?
Just a normal Saturday right in the block right?
Like I had to pause a lot a few times to let people walk by so
And it seems like the more every time we've been going more floggers have been coming out and more paddles and more whips and like
Straight up bull lips and stuff
(25:15):
More people have been bringing more accessories lately like i'm here. Yeah, I have noticed an uptick in like toys and
I've been playing with my own floggers and stuff. It's been fun. It's been good. Yeah, I get it
But I feel like the whole night of trap, which was a blast
Really just built up to
(25:37):
the after party in the hotel
Yeah, that was so much
There were people I never would have expected to be there
And yes, I was excited that they were there
So because they like i've never seen them, you know in that type of situation and like i've seen them at trap and stuff and they're
(26:01):
Awesome people. They're so nice
But I never saw them in like
They came back to the hotel
Yeah, come back
Because it's not that first hotel after party with a large group
But it was the first time I saw them there
It was a good group of people there a lot of a lot of good and I was a new taste of yeah, it was fun
(26:23):
It's fun. And I got a few
Few good videos and pictures there too kind of some good bucket list items. Heck no. I had a couple bucket list items
that
Yeah, I never had uh
A three-way blowjob before and that was one of my bucket ones. It's just that was
(26:43):
That was I had you and two other women
Performing the doing their work the their best work
The lord's work
I mean you're on your knees. So it's like just like it's just like praying. Can't say that
(27:06):
You're sorry, um, and then
I got to share your mouth with somebody else
Yeah, always one of my
Every time i'm with any quick folks, man
Very
I love yeah, it was a lot. Oh, I finally got to play with one of my crushes
(27:31):
yeah
like i've had a
uh a crush on hers as we met her the met him like them the first time and then
finally
got to
spend some time with
Her a little bit
I had a lot of crushes better
(27:53):
And we had we had our normal like group and then we had a couple
New experiences and it was
It was long
We I think we're in that I don't think we just even decided to go to bed till like four or five
We're staying in the room. So I never look at the clock when my situations but yeah, and then once everyone cleared out
(28:17):
We were staying there were six of us in the room and the other couple that we were staying with ended up
fucking until
Probably night in the morning in the morning and we had it out of it
And it was not quiet and so we got
like every 30 minutes i'd wake up and just look over there and you know something
(28:39):
So it was like a very not not sound sleep for a couple of hours and so we were struggling that next day
For sure. Yeah, yeah, I was exhausted the next day. We were struggling, but it was so worth it
and
poor
mike and sam because
We had a thunderstorm come through and it had tornado warnings up there
(29:03):
And I didn't even know that was coming me either and
When everything started to calm down everybody was like got showers and like got cleaned up and it was kind of just
Getting ready to lay down and go to sleep except for
Our roommate that our one roommates just the two just kept going
(29:24):
I mean, um, we heard uh, the thunder just rumble through the hotel or like holy crap
And we look outside and downpouring and we look at the radar and see like tornado warnings and stuff like that
and so
They worry about their kids at home because they have a couple teenagers
(29:47):
and
So they uh, so we were like
so they uh, so my kid of driving all the way home
Just to make sure they're I felt bad for but
Yeah, it was like a 45 little time. So again, it just shows another family over everything. It's like
The only always make sure yeah, they had an 18 year old there, but they had a younger one like sibling
(30:12):
Within one of those situations. So totally get it. Yeah, we'll get it. Oh 100%
100% the kids are always come first, but we ended up
Fine, it's fine. We end up going out going out the next day and we got to see him before we left then
Yeah, well well the next morning we helped we had we helped sam pack up all the lights and all that stuff and then
(30:40):
We left and we went to lunch
Warm and I was that that was a new place that we went to that was kind of cool place like the speakeasy
And I looked yeah. Yeah. Oh we found a restaurant
And we walk in like give a reservation. We're like, no, it's just two of us. We're like
Okay, do you want the main dining hall the speakeasy like speakeasy?
(31:04):
Oh, you know, she's like have you been here before I said no never it's her first time. She's like, let me take you back there
All right
And she takes us all the way through the restaurant into what looks like a big walk-in cooler door
And opens it and it's a long hallway that's decorated and you walk around and there's a private dining hall on one side
(31:25):
Bottles of wine along the wall that we go into a speakeasy. It's really cool. Like
Oh 20s themed bar
with
It was it had really good food
It was a good food. Yeah, yeah, it was good
We took our time and then went home and
Was you know, we're always and then I had to get home and pack my bag because
(31:51):
Or do my laundry because I knew you know, this baby. Yeah when it was like
You know, I wanted to always be ready. So I made sure we deep clean the house and
Make sure that everything was ready for when that's happening and then by
Tuesday
Tuesday
I was taking my bag left me
You left me. I'm pretty sure I'm pretty sure half of our listeners are convinced that you left me left me for good
(32:17):
I know on instagram. I've been getting all I motored you
Everything's like problems. Well, there are people are like is everything okay? It's everything. All right, why are you not together?
We're fine. We want to be together
Yeah
like circumstances are
I'm very lucky that I get to be here. I remember that and it's just
(32:40):
Tiny little moment in the rest of our lives. It was just a couple weeks. I'm yeah be worth it
Yeah, it's definitely worth it. It's just frustrating in the moment that waiting or just waiting. We're just yeah
That'll wait
When we had our kids
The waiting I thought the waiting was like at this point the waiting was the worst part
(33:04):
But I feel like this is worse. Yeah
No
Like at least we were together when you were pregnant
That's true
He did come last week. I was like
Really?
Yeah, like he had all stuff going on every hit the podcast tuesday and he had work on wednesday
(33:26):
So he was like thursday we're gonna meet and have lunch. So I planned on meeting halfway
It's only a two-hour drive. So it's not too bad and I can be back in two hours if something would happen
So and then he's like, I think i'm gonna drive the whole way and it ended up
I'm so glad he did because it was so beautiful outside and
visuals down a1a found a little
(33:48):
Little restaurant one of those like been here 35 years fresh oysters. He's gonna be so
Most
That was good. We got to sit by the beach and drive, you know sundry town
drive it along the ocean and
And he ended up staying a little longer
Yeah, I stayed up staying the night
(34:08):
and and
I'm scared
I could definitely tell you been a good girl and been drinking all of your water
Yes, I was so proud of my
It was
So good this step who could
(34:30):
I was like I was like the whole drive home
I was thinking about it the whole drive home like i've been thinking on this
It's like uh, it was like I don't know if it was because we hadn't seen each other for a week
Or and I haven't seen you since
But it was uh, I don't know that's like I felt like that was top five
(35:00):
We say that all the time I feel like it's just evolving
Just evolving
I'm I i'm getting uh turned on just thinking about a rush. Oh
(35:20):
Thank you
It was this little episode is a lot of sexual
You can't tell we haven't been together
Uh
(35:44):
We're just like corn dogs
Oh after this episode the camera's on we might as well
Oh, okay, oh oh I forgot
Uh, we got the every factor mentioned
Uh when I came down, I brought you a cookie
(36:08):
Yeah, he did we were both on the same mind frame
We could have been having the conversations and talking about all this stuff because we're not together
But he came in he came in then he's like I brought you a goodie back and it was
Uh black bag like drawstring bag with it had like
It had a wand
had I had your pink wand
(36:29):
I had a
glass dildo
I had your rose
And I had the chargers
with a
Plug like with a box usb box, you know, so you could charge them
He's like I charge them all for you know, but just in case
He's the best charger and the ring light and the ring light that brought the regal light
(36:53):
and
Pro move just so anyway, I brought the toy cleaner
Oh, yeah, he did and he even thought of he thought of everything
Yeah, jules sing battle and all the lube all the lube and the lube
and the lube
like I thought
I thought of that how like
Uh, he had a whole diacritic for me to get I was like, oh, thank you so much. I felt so excited
(37:18):
Because I had completely
I you know, I completely forgot to say something and I was like he read my mind. It's fine
We're gonna be like like
Like, you know your fingers your fingers can only get you so far sometimes
You like we like variety
Yeah, I like that option
(37:42):
But yeah, so yeah that kind of just wraps up our last couple weeks
Yeah
We got tiny party coming up
On r14 that yeah, i'm so excited for that and it's my birthday weekend
So we'll have we have a link for that down below
And if you want to come it's like 20 that one's a ticket
(38:03):
And like yeah person what do you lose? You know, yeah, hang out half a full time come dance hang out
Get some some to drink and then go home if you want to you know
Yeah, it's not that it's a win-win situation. Honestly, like I mean, it's a complete bar takeover. It's a
Like they bought out the entire bar
(38:25):
they
are
So different let's look down and you know different area so you don't have to worry about vanillas coming in and crashing it
Because you have to have a ticket to get in
kind of be
Sorry
Was just at and t guy across the street and mo
(38:53):
All right, I think we're good
Yeah, yeah, come meet the
We have such an amazing group of friends tiles after dark all that crew everyone that is coming
There's a lot of new faces coming a lot of new people coming. So come check it out. They are just an amazing
group of people just yeah, really
(39:16):
I promise you'll find somebody in that group to talk to everyone is so welcoming and just
Loves, you know showing everybody the ropes and lots of lifestyle looks good stuff
We've seen a lot of a lot of groups of people with you know, we've seen them all we've
experienced a lot of pain and
Environment and this is a good look at one without a doubt. No, you know
(39:39):
Yeah, the vibe like we always talk about how like it's a vibe thing
and I
This is their vibe. It's like is
like is spot on like they're so
Welcoming to everyone they're inclusives. They
Try and include everybody they're affordable
(40:02):
They hey everything we've been asking for. Yeah. Yeah, it's
So nice that they came into the you know picture when they did
Wow, we're lucky to have found that and we're so lucky to live where we live and still, you know
It's you know pretty close to home and they all live close enough not close enough, but
(40:24):
Not close enough, but also close enough at the same time that we can make it to a lot of their
stuff and so we're super excited to work with them and we've been working with them pretty closely and
You know to find a group of people that actually respects, you know, trust us enough to you know
You know help this community. We want we all want to help this community. And so it's a good one
(40:46):
Good one. It's a good one
And then next week you're going to be talking with Jim
Vance. Yes, so kind of piggy if anybody that watched last week's episode, it was just me
and
We talked I talked about different
issues and uh
kind of things a way to get through some
(41:08):
It was really focused on guys
and Jim
Jim Vance the conscious man on all the social media
on all the social platforms
uh is a men's coach that
uh specializes in self leadership
and
uh leading relationships and uh him and his wife both uh run their businesses
(41:32):
They're both amazing people and I interviewed him and asked him some questions kind of pertaining to the lifestyle
and
Say I just had that conversation with them and it's
So good
I can't like I could have talked to this guy
uh
forever and
(41:54):
Luckily I can because
Like we like we met them before social media and all that stuff just do friends and we've been
That we're lucky to have them in our lives and we're great friends with them and we you know
Can hang out and have dinner or whatever whenever we want so
(42:14):
Okay, but that's why I made a joke, uh
About it's funny how we're having this
conversation over the internet when we literally live
20 minutes away
He's like and he's like I think it'd be weird if I sat in your bed like you're right
You're right, you're right
(42:36):
You're right
We're very we're very secure comfortable guys, but we gotta draw a line somewhere
But yeah, so that's
They're really
Best humans some of the best humans we've ever met as well. I'm really excited to hear that conversation
(42:57):
I like that the last two we the last one and the next one will be both episodes that I get to hear for the first
Time that's another thing. I'm not a part of it. So yeah
Oh last week. I was so nervous and so uncomfortable. It's just so weird just
like I feel like i'm just talking to myself like a crazy person and like
(43:20):
I don't have anybody to like bounce ideas off of or like ask open-ended questions to keep conversations going
and it all was on me and
I know I was
I was
just
On edge the entire time
Oh, it's it's not a friend thing. I felt so awkward. You're doing one
(43:43):
well
and like I I
recorded
like
It was over an hour
And if you watch episode, it's like 30 some missions because i'm like, nope
I sound I sound like I have no idea what i'm talking just because
(44:03):
Again, I didn't have you
to kind of
rate
You know pull the leash on me a little bit because I ramble a lot
Then i'll get on a tangent and i'll just keep going and go and forget where I came from and that's what happened
a couple times
Um, yeah, exactly exactly I had a couple of those i'm like
(44:27):
I'm like, you know a couple of like I had some really good points, but I forgot how I got there
Yeah
And then like listening back to like that has nothing to do with I was talking about
Yeah
I've got
Definitely harder even just doing social media just videos just answering questions and stuff I go off and I don't know what I was even
(44:49):
doing
Why I'm doing there what was going on? It's hard. I get it. It's
It's not easy. Hopefully
after
Next week's episode we will both be together talking about the patty party
We that's what's gonna happen. So the next step we're the step
Next week we will be back together and we'll be talking about the patty party and all of a sudden margaret berkman and all of that
(45:14):
steps so
Join us we're together again. We'll be all finally reunited the orgy that you will experience
My god, especially if I drive right from here to that party. Do you want to be there for 12 hours?
That's cheaper than all that
(45:39):
All of us together for the first time in a minute, oh my god, yep going to be
It's a good time
Come watch it's good for it's a good shit. It'll be a good show
It's going to be
Oh my god
(45:59):
All right, all right, yeah, so let's wrap it up. All right, guess we're getting
Ended what? Wow. Well, I always
I always not that serious. Don't make it weird. Bye
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