January 29, 2025 • 48 mins
In this 'Hot Couple Chronicles' episode, Russ and Ashley provide an in-depth look at Trapeze Atlanta, their favorite lifestyle club. They share personal experiences, discuss the club's amenities, and debunk myths. Emphasizing a safe, respectful environment, they invite new visitors to explore and enjoy the community.
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Welcome to Hot Couple Chronicles, a podcast exploring the singing lifestyle.
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Our discussions may contain explicit content and adult themes intended for mature audiences.
While we strive to offer valuable insights and entertainment, please be aware that the
views expressed are based on personal experiences and opinions. We encourage listeners to approach
the content with an open mind and to prioritize communication, consent, and respect in their
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relationships. Remember everyone's journey is unique, so take what resonates with you and leave
what doesn't. Thank you for joining us on our adventure.
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I'm Russ and I'm Ashley and this is Hot Couple Chronicles. Welcome back. Happy Wednesday.
Happy Wednesday. It's been a good week. Yes. We got back from your birthday. We're going to have
a whole episode about it. We don't want to spoil any of that stuff. It's going to be a little bit
late because I'm going to be in Florida during this and we're going to film it when I get back,
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but we're going to give you all the deets, all the deets coming up. We'll be sure to tell you
about that, but this episode. So I went viral recently. You were recently viral after how many
videos have we done identical to this? Yeah, I've done this video a million times just to,
Hey, we're going to trapeze tonight. We're going to, you know, be there. Come say hi. That's it.
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Five seconds. Like real quick. Like can't wait to see everybody. The end. Yeah. And I went a little
viral in that video. Yeah. Was it 1.5 million? No, that one was like half a million. Oh, and that
was like crazy because it's been a long time since I've gotten any traction. Yeah. I've gotten in
trouble with that account a long time and I just stopped posting important stuff on it. So I just
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threw it up as like a little update and that went a little crazy. I posted a video or two after that,
didn't do much or whatever. And then I posted like a day after trapeze. The sound was so perfect. And
it was just like, we're coming back to life. You know, this is how, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And that one's like almost 2 million. And so we have so many new followers, so many new people
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listening to the podcast and so many people with questions about trapeze and what it is. And
everyone's so scared of trapeze. So I wanted to have a podcast to kind of refer people to.
Let's debunk some of the myths and legends of trapeze Atlanta. Yeah. And kind of break down
how it all works. And so you know what to expect. I know a lot of so many comments that people,
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I've always wanted to try it. I'm so scared to try it. I don't understand what it is or
how to go about trying it. Like I need all the details. So I wanted to have a whole podcast,
you know, our talking about what it is. It's not that serious. Yeah. It's really not that
serious. Don't make it weird. It's how we started this lifestyle. It, I credit trapeze to us finding
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the lifestyle and who we are and everything. And so I was more than happy. I'm more than happy to
make a whole episode dedicated to our favorite place in the whole world. And that is trapeze
Atlanta. And I'm very, very, we're very, very blessed to have that as our home club and so close
to home and because it is the premiere. Yeah. Yeah. It's the premiere club of the country.
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We've been to so many clubs all around the country and there are some other really good clubs,
but this is definitely our favorite and we're lucky enough to only be a couple hours away.
Now we're two hours south of it. So we get there as much as we possibly can, but we've been there
pretty much every other weekend for the last few months. So we, we really, we're really like,
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refresh the olden days. It's like the olden days. It's like back in the old times, we used to be
there every weekend. We were always going to trapeze. Every moment we could, we were there
and we love it there and we love, we love trapeze. It is, it is the reason why we are the people that
we are and why we're here while we're on social media, while all of it is we owe that to trapeze.
So yeah, that's the least we could do. It's kind of hold your hand and yeah, I don't even know where
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to start. I guess. Well, it's not that scary. No, it's not what you're thinking it is. It's not.
I think everybody should start is the website, their website and seeing what the theme is for
that night and if they're comfortable going with that theme and it has all of the information
you're going to need. It's going to have their hours. It's going to have the menu. It's going
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to have the theme. It's going to have all of the dress code, the dress code, everything question
that you have go on their website. It's really updated it recently. It's really, it looks nice.
It looks beautiful. It wasn't like that when we looked at it. That was very vague and very
secret, but now they break it all down. They have stuff about consent and the rules and all the
expectations and what to expect and all of it. It's a really good looking site that they have.
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It's very informational now. That's all your questions, but you're never going to know until
you go. Definitely recommend if you're curious, go check it out. It's not that serious. It really
isn't. You don't have to ever do anything no matter what club or event or resort you're at.
You never have to do anything. There's no expectation. That's the number one thing.
You're never expected to get naked or, you know, have sex or do anything. You can just go there
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for a regular date night and it's the cost of, you know, a good dinner, a nice dinner. Go have
dinner. Go have some drinks. You don't have to do anything. Go watch. Go look around. 60 day
memberships, what, like $60 a couple? Yeah. To get in the door. Yeah. And then you have the night
cover charge per couple, which varies. If you're looking for single men, you want to go every day
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but Saturday is yes. Single men are allowed every day, but Saturday, Saturday is couples and single
females only. And it's only one day a week, but other than that, single males are allowed.
Definitely recommend going and upgrading to diamond. We love diamond club. We were unaware of
diamond. We had the first. Us and many people. Yeah. We're not the only ones because it is
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secrety kind of hidden. Secret. Yeah. Cause I remember like before we knew it was there,
I remember seeing that the door and being a keypad, I thought it was a staff only like
you would never know it's there unless you know it's in the back of the locker room
and the general area. It's just a little door with a little keypad on it and you wouldn't have no clue.
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And then we kept hearing people whispering about diamond club, but we didn't know what it was. And
we finally were like, what is it? And you have to do it. You've got to go. Yeah. It was almost like
a secret thing. It was, it's still kind of, it's like the secret. If you know, you know, like we
kind of ruined the secret. I think we have ruined that because it's definitely worth it. Um, you do
have to pay more. You have to upgrade when you get there. Yeah. You can do a membership like a,
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be a diamond club member. There's usually waiting lists though. And yeah, it's a one, it's an annual
fee. So it's expensive. That's like two grand ish. It keeps going up. It keeps going on. Like when we
paid for it, it was 2,500 for the year for that, but included in that you get the maximum discount
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for the night. You don't have to pay for the membership all but once a year. So whenever you
go, it's like 60 bucks to get in. Yeah. On a Saturday night. Yeah. And it's, they have chef
prepared menu, all you can eat. So you can order as much as you want on the menu that you want
anything they have. And then they do breakfast back there. They do desserts back there. And you
can have as much food as you want. And it's such good food. Like they have steak and it's cooked
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to order from a chef and they bring it to your table. It's just like a restaurant, like a nice,
nice dinner night. And then the vibe is just completely different back there. It's quieter.
Yeah. It's the front, the general area is very much like a, it's every night club, any other night
club you've ever been to, except it has a buffet on that one side. Yeah. You can't like, you can't
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see the plate. Even the buffet food's really good. It's also good fresh. They have such a pretty set
up too of all the cheese and meats and all of the snacky stuff. They have such a pretty, they would
have pineapple set up all pretty. They always have like fruit and veggies and shrimp cocktail and stuff
like that. And then they do like prime rib. They have like, they cut right there. Yeah. And then
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they have like usually like four different meal things or side like entrees. Yeah. Usually they're
on like a skillet and they serve it to you and you just tell them what you want and how much you
want and they'll give you, you can keep coming back as much as you want. It's equal to like a nice
buffet. Like yeah, yeah. Cookies, they got desserts, they got lemonade and iced tea and there's fancy
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coffee maker machines and stuff like that. You can, yeah, whatever. And it's definitely, definitely
it's good. All the food's good. You can't go back. You can't go wrong with any of the food, but in
the back, it's, we have private playrooms. So you have doors you can shut with locks with locks and
then they have public playrooms with silk sheets. All of them is like, yeah, with the big silk sheets.
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And it's the equivalent of like three queen size mattresses, like the size that's huge. And then
they have like seating area around it and stuff and you can keep the, as a curtain so you can keep
it open or you can shut it. If you want to be private. Um, if you go there and the curtain or
the door is closed, do not open them. Yeah. If they are open, do not just go in and participate
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either. No. Where you're more than, you know, welcome to watch. Usually if the door, you wait
till you're invited. Yeah. Only if you're invited to come in. So you can, like, if it's open, they
like to be like, they like to be watched. They want to be watched. I don't touch, but no touching.
Unless we ask. No involving yourself. Let them do their thing and enjoy the show. Consent, consent,
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consent. So huge. But then if you keep going back, there is nicer bathrooms. The bathrooms are real
nice. The sinks there, they got an off wash and everything. The bathrooms are, are private. Yeah.
They're single. Just yeah. Restrooms where it's not like you don't have like stalls and all that
stuff. It's just a single bathroom with the sink, you know, like you would see in any other bathroom,
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but it's more private and then keep going back. And there's another public play room with another
giant bed there and some more rooms, more private little, they're like hotel rooms. If you walk in,
it looks like a hotel room. It's got a bed. It's like two nightstands, some lamps and a fan, a fan.
Like it's, yeah, there's a chair in the corner. Yeah. There's a cook chair and there's quite a
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few of them and you can leave the door open or you can shut it, lock it, whatever. And then you keep
going back and there's a locker. There's another locker room back there. They just put that in.
Yeah. There's the new locker room and then they have like towels and stuff in there.
And then if you keep going back, they have a brand new cigar lounge that they just put in,
which is so pretty. And it's really tucked back there. Yeah. It's kind of hidden. That's where say
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a few people do go back there and smoke like cigars and stuff, but we go back there to hang out
because it's quiet and it's like our photo studio because it's, we get a whole bunch of people back
there that want to take pictures. And usually when we first get there, it's away from everybody,
everybody that does it wants to stay out of it. And so you don't worry about a lot of the pictures
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you see from Chappie's are from that room. Yeah. And it's just a good spot. It's, and we just hang
out back there too. Sometimes it's nice and quiet. You can just sit and there's like comfortable
chairs. You can sit around and talk and it's more of a private little space that you can go to. And
the vibe is cool. Like the decorations, it's gold and black and dark and it's a good little spot to,
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you know, just talk and hang out and whatever else you want to do. And then, yeah, that's pretty much
diamond. It's got some tables out front where you can eat dinner. That's usually when we first get
there, we go right back to diamond and order our food immediately before people get there and gets
crowded. Yeah. Cause we always go early so we can get settled. If you're going to diamond, they only
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give a certain number of, oh wait, a night it's like 10. It's very low. Yeah. Upgrades of upgrades.
So you want to make sure you get there if you're upgrading as soon as the doors open. So like 745
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It's your first time there. You want to go there again when the door's open, even if you're not
going to diamond, like I highly recommend getting there like 745, 750 before the doors open, get in
line. Yeah. Be ready to go. And you can, if it's the first time that you can ask for a tour of the
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club. Oh yeah. Yeah. You go in and they're going to fill it. They have computers right there. So
you're going to get a membership when you go and you're going to fill out all your stuff and you're
going to apply, get your membership, pay for it and all that. And you're going to bring your own
alcohol. You want to bring all of your IOP. They have all the mixers there, the normal mixers that
you would want to make drinks and stuff. Just bring your alcohol and you'll get a number. You'll get
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a membership number when you get the membership and then they're going to put it on your alcohol
and then they'll take it back to the bar. So it'll be back there. And when you go get a drink,
all you got to do is say whatever number it is that you have and they'll know which bottle is yours
and they'll make your drink for you. So you want to get there early. So especially if it's your
first time, cause you want to be able to fill out your membership, get everything paid for,
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do all of that. Once we do all that, we pay, go inside and yeah, if you want to tour, tell them
when you're paying for everything that you would like a tour and that's your first time.
Do not be afraid to tell people that it's your first time. You've never been, no, because everyone
has is more than happy to show you around and to introduce you to people and to show you how
everything kind of be like, I understand it can be overwhelming, but try and not to be the people
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sitting in the corner. Don't do that because you're closing yourself off and you're not going to
experience what you're going to experience. Yeah. And people aren't going to come up to you and
approach you as, yeah, you're not approachable if your arms are crossed in the corner, just
sitting alone and yeah, you know, go meet people, stand up, go dance, go, especially the dance,
the dance floor is where I've met most of my friends at Trappies, like go out to the dance
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floor. Just even if you're not dancing, that's where like everyone's there having a good time.
Just go hang out and watch. I meet most people at the bar or that too. Like while I'm getting a
drink, we start talking, I start talking to on the dance floor because some people do like,
if there's no tables open, they'll just order food at the bar and eat. And so while I'm standing
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there getting my drink, I'll, we'll strike up conversations or what, what not, but yeah,
go out and go meet people. That's our biggest tip is to go say hi, go introduce yourself. Don't be
afraid to say, Hey, I've never been here before. This is my first time. Don't be scared. It's not
that scary. Everyone's super welcoming and nice and happy and ready to have a good night. And
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they're so friendly. Yeah. This lifestyle is full of friendly, amazing, happy people. And they want
to show you the ropes promise. But yeah, and then there's a, you walk in and there's a general area.
We had talked about the buffet, the buffets over on the right with some tables and then a bar,
a big bar, giant, big L shape bar there. And if you're going to stay in that area,
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that's where you're going to have your drinks. So then you're going to go back there and that's
where you're going to get all your drinks and the buffets, their tables, it's like a regular club
restaurant. They've got some, you know, it's a step up and they have some tables up there, some
chairs, booths and stuff. And you can sit up there and just watch. And then, you know, on the regular
down on the dance floor, there's seats all around it. So it's got a bunch of chairs and spaces. You
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can stand and sit and so there is no, just because I thought when we first started going Thursdays
next to the dance floor, there's like this little booth that looks like a VIP area with a couch and
love seat. It's not reserved for, you don't have to pay for it. If there's no one there, you can
go sit down and have a seat and chill and relax next to the dance floor to see who's coming in
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the door and kind of walk people, but it is not reserved unless there's somebody already there.
Obviously, but I thought for the longest time that you had to have it looks like it is because it
does. And then right next to that, there's another little bar to yeah, there's a tiny bar there,
all their bar there and you can get your drinks there too. And then there's the general area
playroom. We've only been in there one time. Yeah. What's just as an art vibe. There's nothing wrong
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with it. Just as an art vibe, there's a pool table back there. Yeah. And then you have to be in
lingerie or naked or towel. Yes. So if you're a female, you can wear lingerie or towel or be naked.
And if you're a man, you have to have a towel on or be nude. Yes. So there's that. That's the part
that kind of put me off to it. It was, yeah, I'm not comfortable being naked or I don't like being
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told what to do. And yeah, I have to do something personally. I changed the laundry when I feel like
changing in the laundry. So it was like that expectation. And then yeah, the vibe is just
different back there. And it's so you walk to the back to the general playroom and
there's a pool table and then there is a big like group playroom on the one side and you keep going
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back and there are tiny little like little booths with like bench seats in them that you can play in.
But they're not very big. They're very small. And then you keep going back into a big group play area
with beds all along the walls, a big bag in the middle. It's huge. We need to go next time just to
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go back there again, because it's been so long. Yeah. I've been back there. I really do think now
that we're like because it scared the crap out of me. We're very new. I wasn't even the lifestyle
yet when we went back there. So it was a lot for me and there was a lot of it was a single male night
too. So there was an influx of lots of men just alone. And it was a lot for me as an early. Yeah,
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really shy. I was very shy. I was very like just mosey on back there and check it out again.
Yeah, we should just go back in there now. Yeah. That perspective, that's a general layout, but
there's a bunch of chairs and seats everywhere. You can look pretty much there's seats in the
tables and stuff. You can just say the biggest thing that just put off us off to it is was the
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fact that we had to be a certain way to walk back there where in Diamond Club you don't you don't.
You can wear whatever you want whenever you want. There's no requirement to be in a towel or nude
or anything at any point. And then when you go towards the playroom, if you make a right,
there's lockers back there. Yeah, there's a whole locker room. You have a locker like attendant guy
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at a desk that sits there and he'll come and unlock and lock your locker for you. And it's
got a shower back there too. There's a shower and then there's two locker rooms. There's one in the
back and then one right in the front. And then if you would know, you would think that was the end
of the club. But if you're in Diamond, you just keep on walking past that and then turn the corner
and there's a door. Yeah, glass door with a keypad. Yeah, and you'll get a key. You know, you can key
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in your... Yeah, so when you upgrade to Diamond Club, they're going to give you the door code
that changes for everybody. Everybody has their own. You don't share it because it's again, it's a
private area, but you put in your code and the door opens and there's another attendant there
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for the Diamond Club lockers, which are a little bit bigger. They're wood. They're like a mahogany
color. Members have like their names on them. And then, yeah, actual Diamond Club members have their
own locker with their name on it. And their swinger names, most of them are their
swinger names, whatever it is they are. And they have their own. You get your own specific locker
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that's yours and you can bring your own lock and key and everything if you want to. But she'll lock
it and unlock for you as you need it. And there's a little more space to get changed. And there's
curtains on each of the locker rooms and stuff. So if you need more privacy and it's just a whole,
a whole different club. It's pretty much an entirely different club because there's, they
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have their own bar, their own different menu. The whole thing is a different club. It's like two
separate clubs in one. It really is. Which we love because sometimes, some nights I want to dance and
sometimes I want to do the club nightclub party vibe. And then other nights we just want to sit
around, have dinner and talk and, you know, do more private stuff. And that's good for Diamond. So
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you know, doing all that. And then when it gets closer to like playtime and nighttime and lingerie
time, then we usually navigate ourselves back to Diamond. And, you know, that's when we have fun,
more private fun back there. And we just like the playrooms back there because like, it's just a
whole, whole different set up. You can have, you know, more of a private thing. Say if we play with
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somebody, we go with the comfortability of the people we're playing with. So if they want to be
in a private room, then we go to the one of the rooms, close the door, lock it, and we do our
thing. Our favorite thing is that we like group play. We like group play. So we and a lot of our
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friends navigate to one of the big group playrooms. For our trapeze, usually after midnight, you can
find us there. Like that's usually what we find. And I know we like, we used to go because there's
two of them. There's one back behind, like straight back, like up on stage. And then there's the other
one kind of past the bathrooms around the corner. That's where we end. I kind of like that one better
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because there's that bench right there. And every, every time we're in there and we, our group is
playing, I kind of look out and there's always just an audience, an audience just sitting on those
benches, just watching. And then there's benches like in both of the playrooms around the room.
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Yeah, along the walls. So you can, everybody can, the ones who are brave enough, they'll come into
the room and go sit on the outside. Or if you need a break or you need a minute or you need to get a
drink or whatever, you kind of get off the bed and kind of have a place to sit down for a second.
I've done that before. Oh yeah. Like I just sit down on the water. I just drink my water.
Or if you're done and you just want to like take a minute, it's a good, good place. And then
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the biggest like thing is that nobody cleans it, that it's dirty. All of this stuff. And I laugh
so hard because there are little cleaning ninjas. I know we've called them ninjas since the beginning
because you, you don't see them. The only time I ever actually see them is when they're in there
like around that one corner past the bathrooms and they have their, their room and where they're like
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folding like towels or what, doing their thing. And that's the only time we really see them. They scurry
out when they're done playing, changing sheets, do all the things, clean all this stuff. I don't know
how they keep track of who, like every room, but they do. Like they go in there. And if you ever need
extra towels or sheets or any pillows, anything, they got you. Like they'll find them there. They'll
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be more than happy to make the bed up for you. I've seen them come in between playing and they
will change the whole entire thing for us. And we're like, we need another sheet. We need this or that.
And they're, that's their only job is to make sure that everything is clean and tidy. And they're so,
it's so good. It's not, people say they are never clean, never change. They're unsung heroes or trapeze.
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I met her, I met one of them last time. I finally got to have a minute and talk to her and stuff.
She was the sweetest lady. I know they are. Like I always like, I always run into them and like,
yeah, try and get out of their way. Cause I know they're working. I know I get to sit down and talk
to them. I actually got to actually talk to one when I was there by myself and like actually be
like, thank you. You know, you guys are the reason it keeps this place together. We appreciate you.
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I would really like, I want to talk to one to see like what they think. That's the thing. They don't,
at least they don't show that they don't judge us. They just know, like they know, like they know what
it is and they've been there for so long. It's the same people all the time and they understand. I
would love to see, like hear their perspective. Oh yeah. Yeah. I would like to actually sit down,
sit down and talk to them more than just like, thank you. You're amazing. You saved the whole night.
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They are the unsung heroes of trapeze because they make sure everything's clean and sanitary.
That's why we call them ninjas. Cause they go in and out of the rooms real fast. Like they're,
yeah, they're like, you'll catch them every once in a while when you're trying to go into a playroom
and they'll like be changing the sheets and cleaning and stuff. It's like, oh, and they'll be like,
give me five minutes and then I'll be ready. Like, okay. They're ready to go in there as soon as
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we're done. Like they're in and out so fast. They know, like they make their rounds. They take note
of which ones are closed and then they, every, you know, so many minutes, every 10, 15 minutes,
they do their little rounds and they see, okay, this one's open. I'm over here. Fix this one.
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And yeah, so it's awesome. They have it down pat. The whole place is super clean. You can, it's,
yeah, it's not what you're thinking. It's not disgusting and gross and nasty. I've had so many
comments are like, they never changed the sheets. No one ever cleans anything. Like that place is
so clean and it should be a mess. It should be disgusting. Yeah. I am surprised it's not, but
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on that note as well, I would love to bring up the fact of we, there's a lot of people that I've seen
that just need to be a little bit more respectful of the space. There's trash cans everywhere.
Everywhere there's, you know, wipes and everything available everywhere. And we just need as a whole,
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make sure that we're picking up our own mess. No one wants to pick up used condoms off the floor.
I don't care if it's their job or not. Like you don't make, I don't know how many times I have,
there are a group of just ran off and I've been wandering around like picking up people's stuff
and people's people's wipes and people's lube. That's just like common courtesy. Like, I mean,
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we're adults. I know us. We even like pick up like our hotel room and like collect all the trash
in the trash can and like we pick up our hotel rooms before we check out. That's like, yeah,
we don't make the bed and stuff like that, but like we make sure all like the dirty towels in
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this place and like we make sure it's something spilled. Like we're cleaning it up. Yeah. Just be
considerate. Be a grown up. But when you first get there, Val is sitting there waiting to take
your keys. They, you pull right up to the door and hand them your keys. And then you're like,
I'm going to pull the door and hand them your keys and they will go park your car for you,
which is another service that is unheard of and amazing. Yeah. You don't have to worry about that.
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They will take your car for you. All you gotta do is just tip them at the end of the night and
they'll bring your car back to you. Yeah. And they are quick. They are so fast. You always,
if you sit out front, you'll see them just running all night back and forth. Yeah. They're working
their ass off. They work really. They are. And there's so many people with cars and they're like,
only like they're directing traffic. Oh yeah. They're parking your cars. They're like two or
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three of them. Like there's not very many of them. They're so just a little tiny crew of home and
they make sure everybody and the doors open and they opening doors, they're making sure the outside
safe and they're watching us and they keep the outside flowing. Yeah. I just want to, so we don't
talk about it a lot, but you pay for everything upfront at Trapeze. I just, if you're going to go
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take care of the people that take care of you, taking care of you. Yeah. Like we have, I've seen
people, cause everything's just included. I mean, you have bartenders that are serving you your
drinks. You have waitresses that are making sure you're good at the tables. You have the cleaning
attendance and making sure everything's clean and sanitized. You have the girls up front, making
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sure everybody gets checked in and everybody's taken care of. Then you have the VIP attendant
who's making sure everybody's got their locker and everything's safe. And we just have to
make sure that we're taking care of those people too. Cause yeah, we paid the club, but we need,
these people are live off of tips. It's a service industry. So let's take care of them too. Yeah.
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Make sure you have cash when you go to the club where you bring cash. Cause you want to make sure
everybody's taken care of. It's such a small, it's a small little crew of people that are there.
You'll see the same faces all the time, which I love. And they stick around for a while. They do.
They stay around for years and they're good at what they do. So good. There's a reason Trapeze is
a more pricier club and it's more, you know, on the higher scale. You're paying for the experience.
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You do really pay for in this lifestyle. And you'll notice that with certain clubs,
like you're getting what you pay for it. And this club is worth every single penny for a reason.
And it's this crew of people that are there every single week, making it all happen.
Well, and also I truly believe in it. I truly believe that it's again, it's pricier,
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but also because people are paying that premium, you're less likely for all the
the shenanigans of BS. Yeah. Like it keeps all that away. You pay for that as well.
Yeah. You're safe there. Everyone is always talking about what the area is and it's not
area. It's not most clubs aren't, but it's like a bubble, but it has a bubble of it. There's
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security and the Valley take care of it. Not only is there security if, and then if you actually
pay attention, they have a police officer. Yeah. They're actual police that keep it parked in the
separate parking lot. Oh yeah. And just watching. It's a whole just making sure everybody's and
that's what he stays all night. Just make sure everybody's being safe. I've seen people pretty
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much naked outside on those benches. I've seen people around naked. I've seen people on just
people, you know, you see things that some people drink too much. Some people get into, you know,
stuff happens. And I've seen people in lingerie. I've seen, I feel a hundred percent safe to go
out there and lingerie, which is unheard of, especially in that area, especially in the
yeah, I don't know how they never, I don't know how they do it, but they keep this little safe
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bubble and they make sure that everything stays away. And they also keep it safe in the club.
If you ever have an issue, a problem, you, anything you find not anybody there. Yes. And the staff
they're going to take care of it for you. We used to, especially when we first started going
there, there are very strict phone rules and picture rules. I have seen them smashing phones,
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no questions asked. They don't mess around with it. Yeah. If they catch anybody like
taking pictures or videos like of an orgy and stuff like that, that are clearly don't have
consent to take those pictures. I've seen them straight up. Just take it, kick them out, like
take their phone, delete the pictures, kick them out and then smash their phone. Yeah. They don't
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care. They don't mess around with that. They don't mess around with people. There's violating
people's privacy. Yeah. It's very important to them. And that's why, again, why we love trapeze
because they don't play around with any of that and they make sure that you're safe and you feel
like you're safe to be yourself there. And anybody can go to that club. We've seen people that have
all walks of life. Oh, yeah. A lot of people go there to get away from the regular everyday life.
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That's what we're there for. And there's a lot of people who have really crazy, insane jobs and are
really high figures and they do really important jobs. We've met some really powerful people.
And there's a safe place for them to go and express themselves and be themselves. And it's a safe
place for that reason. They make sure to take care of you. I was talking to one of those people and
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the love. It's hidden. Like, if you don't know where Trapeze is, you drive right past it. You
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would never know. Yeah. It's one of those if you know, you know. Yeah. They don't even have a sign
out front anymore. You notice that? They have one on the side of the building. Oh, on the, yeah. But
it used to be one out by the road. And that's gone. Yeah. You would drive by pass it and never even
realized that it was there at all. I mean, that's what we love. It's a place for us also to just go
and be ourselves. That's the one place in the lifestyle where we don't have to be on display
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or be, you know, be this like, you know, hosts. Yeah, exactly. We don't have to host. We can be
ourselves and we can have a relaxing night and chill and be with our people and find new people
and explore and do all that. And that's why we love it there. We love, love it so much. But yeah,
Liz is the manager. She is amazing and wonderful. We love Liz. She will take care of you. She knows
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everything about that club inside and out. She's a boss bitch. She really is. I love her so much.
She's always running around. Oh yeah. She's taking, she's taking care of everything. She is
amazing. Yeah. She doesn't stop, especially when it's crazy. Last time I was there, it was insane.
And she was on top of it. And they did have a bit of an issue because of the fact that everyone that
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showed up didn't have a membership. And so it just took longer because you had to go to the computers
and you had to put all your information. It just held it up a lot. And it was like a two hour wait,
but man, they were hustling and they were doing their best and they were trying so hard.
And I know a lot of people were turned off by the club because of that, but that's not the norm.
That's not what you're normally going to experience. Only, I mean, that's a, that was a huge event for
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them. That was it was. And that's where, like, cause we are such advocates of trapeze and we love it so
much. They actually ask like our opinions and like, how can we make this better? Yeah. Yeah.
And like us, Pineapples after dark, like all like the kind of regular influencers that, you know,
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our regular customers are trapeze. They ask our opinions, how they can make things better.
And they want to improve. And they, they're always improving. They just renovated the whole club.
Yeah. That's another thing. Everybody was like, I can't believe I thought that was shut down.
It needed renovated. Then they were talking about the hot tubs. They used to have a hot tub and
I hear about the old hot all the time. And I'm like, no, like they are thriving. They have never
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been better than they are right now. And they just completely renovated the back area. And every time
we go, there's a new space being renovated and they have a new chef there that's now started in
the buffet area and stuff like that. And she is bad ass as well. And she, her food is amazing.
They're doing a really good job with her. And so like, they're always looking for the best in the
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newest. And they're always improving at all times. And it is not running down. It's not being run
down. It's not the exact opposite. It's there and it's thriving. And I was like, people just keep
telling me like it's last time I was there. I'm like, how many years has it been since you've been
in this last three years? I, we always say we just were talking about that last night, like trapeze
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is a completely different club than we went to when we first showed up. Absolutely. It is a
completely different 100% say when we started going to trapeze, the median age was, I would say 55.
Yeah, at least. And there was like 10 people and they were all like, like in diamond. Yeah. Yeah.
They've been like members for 25 years. It was the same thing every night all the time. You know,
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what to expect every night. That being said, we kept going because they were really fun people.
Yeah. And also we weren't necessarily attracted to them, but they became really good friends.
We were honestly like fresh meat. Oh yeah. And they were young. Yeah. We're hot. We're like the
thinnest we ever were. We were like the best of the nines. Like they were like, oh, new meat.
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Yeah, that's also true. That's how we got our name. If nobody knows why we were that hot couple in
GA, it's not because we're conceited and we think we're hot. It's because people, that's what they
named us. That was our name going to trapeze. That hot couple in GA. Like that was our name. And so,
yeah, but it was, they were very welcoming and we want to be those people for everybody else.
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Exactly. Always, always championed for trapeze. And we've always advocated for them because we
want to be those people for, we had amazing, wonderful people that were like, come on, let
me show you everything and took our hand and walked us through it. And the way that this club
has changed in the last, you know, four or five years is just, it's nuts. It's, I love, it's
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thriving. It's never been better. And there's always new people and the crowds are getting
better and better. And I'm excited to see. Where it's going. I don't know how they're going to make
it. It needs to be bigger. And I don't know how they're going to do that. They have to, yeah,
yeah. They're going to have to expand at some point because the more and more people are going.
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I have 1.5 million people and all of them, there was not all of them, but there was a huge chunk
of people that were like, you convinced me. I'm going to go check it out. I want to go. And they're
super ready to like, actually now that they've seen me go look at me, you know what I mean?
They're like, if this girl can go and it's not that scary, like I want to go check it out for sure.
And so I'm excited to see where it's going. My favorite comments, like, cause I was reading the
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comments always cracked me up. And the one, the comments, 90% of them were positive. Yeah. Like
there were actually some really good feedback. A lot of them were talking about like, I would have
like, cause you looks, it was about your innocence. She's like, those are the ones you gotta watch out
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for. So innocent, freaky, freaky. Don't, don't let this fool you. We're out there. I promise.
But I'm very excited to see what happens with trapeze and where, where the next five years
takes them because they're not going anywhere. No. Sure. If anything, they're going to need a
bigger building, but, and you know, just keep on improving, but they're not going anywhere.
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Trapeze is here to say they've been there with 25 years or something like that. They've been there
a long time. They're an old established club full of full of people that have stuck with it
that whole time. We have met so many people that are just like members since the first day they
opened and there's a reason why. And many of us have traveled all over the place and continue to
call that our home and keep coming back for a reason. And that's another one of the biggest
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complaints is it's so expensive. You know, again, you know, but you get what you pay for it, what
you pay for it. And there are cheaper options in the lifestyle, but if you're looking for a good,
you know, nice night and date night and oh yeah. Speaking of that, I did want to talk about the
dress code a little bit. You want to dress like you're going out to like a nice dinner.
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Yeah. You want to treat it like going out on like a date. So they're not as strict on women. Yeah.
Yeah. Right. And they're not strict for like themes too. If you're in like costumes or like
something for a theme nine or whatever, and you do not ever have to dress up for the theme. We have
friends that went through the first time, first experience ever. We talked about it on another
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episode, but they thought they had to, and it was anything but clothes party and they were no clothes.
And it was, yeah, they were like underwear and like aprons or something like that. And they were
the only ones and never feel, never feel. Most of the time people are in theme. You're going to have
a theme, but most of the time, you know, that's, but some nights only if you're comfortable,
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like only wear what you are comfortable. Make sure you're wearing whatever makes you feel the
best because that'll be the best night that you have. You're going to have the greatest time. If
you feel comfortable inside and out, the biggest takeaways for the dress code is no jerseys,
no sneakers, no sneakers, no hats, no holes. I have to know holes in your pants, a collared
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shirt. So that doesn't have to be a full button down, but this has to be at least a polo.
And those are the big, just like a date night, like, yeah, just dress business like you're going
out a nice dinner night. Like, yeah, sure. A black dress. You can never go wrong with a little
black dress. If you don't know what to wear or you don't want to wear a costume or whatever,
black dress always works for everything. And like some khakis and button up, like, you know,
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it doesn't have to be fancy fancy. If you don't want to appreciate it, we like being fancy.
Yeah, we like say it's better overdressed than under. That's our motto. We've always been the
people that are like, we just dress to impress. We don't get out very often. So when we do,
we like to dress up. Yeah. Yeah. So, and we just enjoy wearing nice clothes. We do. Yeah. I mean,
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I wear blazers and shit to Walmart. So that we like, we don't get out very much. So when we do,
we do it all the way and that's how we prefer. But if you're more comfortable in something else,
or if you want to wear, you know, whatever theme it is, go ahead. And most of the time it is just
like a color. So that makes it easy. Like most nights it's like purple or pink or whatever. And
you can just wear a dress that has that color or a shirt that's what they have. But themes like
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school girl teacher, anything, but clothes, leather lace, that type of like different vibe. And if you
want to, you can have fun with it. Just make sure you know, you, if you're not following the dress
code a hundred percent, make sure you're in theme. And if you're not, if something violates it,
they'll let you know at the front door, be allowed in the door and they'll security will stop you.
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It will stop you. You will be stopped. And that's why we always try to preface like what to expect
dress code wise, because they are not afraid to turn people around and you will be sent home.
So we've seen it a million times. They will send you away until you come back and like,
they'll tell you exactly what's wrong until you leave and don't have that. Yeah. Then they're
going to send you away. They don't, they don't, there's no leeway there at all. They're very
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strict with that, which we love as well. It's for a good reason. They want to, you know,
that's a certain vibe they're trying to stay with and keep up with. Yeah. We appreciate it.
I remember they, they turned away somebody that's a shoes, a guy, and they were Gucci,
like they were designer shoes, but they didn't, but they were sneaker. But yeah,
there was something like that. I forget exactly what kind of shoes they were, but I've seen it
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many times with their beauty, the problem, the problem a lot, and they still turn around.
It's like no flip really either. I've seen women be turned away because they're wearing flip flops.
Yeah. Sandals. They don't like flip ups and sandals either. So make sure you're wearing like
something nice. Just yeah, something you were to a date night. Exactly. Yeah. That's that kind of
wrap. Really? Is trapeze. That is a little bit more in depth. I wanted to kind of do a whole
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episode about that. We have so many questions. Yeah. Thousands and thousands and I can't possibly
begin to answer them. So I keep, it was nice to have a place there for everybody. Go listen to
the podcast. Yeah. There was actually talk about some of the comments cracked me up. That was a
lot. It was a lot. Yeah. We got into Atlanta, Atlanta. You are trapeze somehow every video.
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And I had a few cents then everybody's like, I'm so glad to be a part of trapeze talk. I finally
found trapeze talk. And yeah, that was a lot of the comments. I know the whole algorithm brought
me here, but I like it. I'm like, I can't believe I finally found trapeze talk. And people are like,
I haven't heard about that place for so long. And so we would, we love again, we love like
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advertising and pushing our friends and our favorite places. We love sharing it with everybody.
We don't want to gatekeep. We're not gatekeepers. And so we make sure if you want to check it out
a club, we highly, highly recommend trapeze Atlanta and keep an eye out for when we're going.
We'll be more than happy to show you around. Oh yeah. We have, we're tour masters. We will
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tour you all around there and we'll even double check with Liz. Like is it okay if we show them
around? Like, yeah, I don't even ask her. I would just do it. Like it's my, I own this place now. So
this club's mine. Yeah. I, uh, I don't mind if you need any help, any of her need to reach out and
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you want to go and we're going come on a night that we're going. I am always advertising whenever
we're going follow us on Instagram. All of my stories. I'll keep you updated on what nights we
decide to go or last minute or if we're going next month or whatever. Yeah. Cause every once
while we'll just get a wild hair and be like, you want to go to night? Yeah. Yeah. Let's go. But even
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then we're like on the way to trapeze come out to choppy. And then yeah, we, it's a quick, if you're
a guy, if you're not, don't have plans, we're going to be here. Come join us. Yeah. We are more than
happy. Come if you want to try it out and you wouldn't want to try it out, come out on a night
that we're going to be there and we will show you around and show you that it's not that scary.
And you don't have to make it weird. It's not that serious. Don't make it weird.
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Trapeze is that place. Yeah. Yeah. That's that's all I got to say about that. Really? Yeah. Any
have any questions, feel free to ask away. We will answer all the questions. I think we
pretty much covered everything from the, yeah, I'm sure there's more specific questions
that people will have, but you go ask in the comments. Yeah. Email us, email us. Yeah. Like
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we'll try and answer all the questions about trapeze. I've tried even in the comments of
that video. If you go through there, I made a couple of years, I made a reply video to kind
of cover most of the questions. And then I did, you know, where to follow us, where to keep up
with all of us and us going to trapeze and stuff. There's videos in the reply that I tried to reply
to. But, you know, we really do try to talk about trapeze a lot. I feel like we talk about it all
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the time, but we love it there. We owe trapeze so much. I just, uh, on Instagram, we're always
talking about trapeze back and forth. And the other day she was like, we love you guys. And I was like,
or no, it was a video about like the reason why we started the lifestyle and stuff. And she's like,
I was like, thank you guys. You guys are the reason we are who we are. And we owe that to trapeze.
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And we love them. Big love, big love until we have our own club. Yeah. It'll do. It'll do.
But yeah, well, that's all we got to say about that. We will talk to you guys next week as always.
It's not that serious. Don't make it weird. Bye.
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I'm Russ and I'm Ashley and this is Hot Couple Chronicles. Welcome back. Happy Wednesday.
Happy Wednesday. It's been a good week. Yes. We got back from your birthday. We're going to have
a whole episode about it. We don't want to spoil any of that stuff. It's going to be a little bit
late because I'm going to be in Florida during this and we're going to film it when I get back,
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but we're going to give you all the deets, all the deets coming up. We'll be sure to tell you
about that, but this episode. So I went viral recently. You were recently viral after how many
videos have we done identical to this? Yeah, I've done this video a million times just to,
Hey, we're going to trapeze tonight. We're going to, you know, be there. Come say hi. That's it.
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Five seconds. Like real quick. Like can't wait to see everybody. The end. Yeah. And I went a little
viral in that video. Yeah. Was it 1.5 million? No, that one was like half a million. Oh, and that
was like crazy because it's been a long time since I've gotten any traction. Yeah. I've gotten in
trouble with that account a long time and I just stopped posting important stuff on it. So I just
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threw it up as like a little update and that went a little crazy. I posted a video or two after that,
didn't do much or whatever. And then I posted like a day after trapeze. The sound was so perfect. And
it was just like, we're coming back to life. You know, this is how, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And that one's like almost 2 million. And so we have so many new followers, so many new people
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listening to the podcast and so many people with questions about trapeze and what it is. And
everyone's so scared of trapeze. So I wanted to have a podcast to kind of refer people to.
Let's debunk some of the myths and legends of trapeze Atlanta. Yeah. And kind of break down
how it all works. And so you know what to expect. I know a lot of so many comments that people,
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I've always wanted to try it. I'm so scared to try it. I don't understand what it is or
how to go about trying it. Like I need all the details. So I wanted to have a whole podcast,
you know, our talking about what it is. It's not that serious. Yeah. It's really not that
serious. Don't make it weird. It's how we started this lifestyle. It, I credit trapeze to us finding
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the lifestyle and who we are and everything. And so I was more than happy. I'm more than happy to
make a whole episode dedicated to our favorite place in the whole world. And that is trapeze
Atlanta. And I'm very, very, we're very, very blessed to have that as our home club and so close
to home and because it is the premiere. Yeah. Yeah. It's the premiere club of the country.
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We've been to so many clubs all around the country and there are some other really good clubs,
but this is definitely our favorite and we're lucky enough to only be a couple hours away.
Now we're two hours south of it. So we get there as much as we possibly can, but we've been there
pretty much every other weekend for the last few months. So we, we really, we're really like,
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refresh the olden days. It's like the olden days. It's like back in the old times, we used to be
there every weekend. We were always going to trapeze. Every moment we could, we were there
and we love it there and we love, we love trapeze. It is, it is the reason why we are the people that
we are and why we're here while we're on social media, while all of it is we owe that to trapeze.
So yeah, that's the least we could do. It's kind of hold your hand and yeah, I don't even know where
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to start. I guess. Well, it's not that scary. No, it's not what you're thinking it is. It's not.
I think everybody should start is the website, their website and seeing what the theme is for
that night and if they're comfortable going with that theme and it has all of the information
you're going to need. It's going to have their hours. It's going to have the menu. It's going
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to have the theme. It's going to have all of the dress code, the dress code, everything question
that you have go on their website. It's really updated it recently. It's really, it looks nice.
It looks beautiful. It wasn't like that when we looked at it. That was very vague and very
secret, but now they break it all down. They have stuff about consent and the rules and all the
expectations and what to expect and all of it. It's a really good looking site that they have.
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It's very informational now. That's all your questions, but you're never going to know until
you go. Definitely recommend if you're curious, go check it out. It's not that serious. It really
isn't. You don't have to ever do anything no matter what club or event or resort you're at.
You never have to do anything. There's no expectation. That's the number one thing.
You're never expected to get naked or, you know, have sex or do anything. You can just go there
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for a regular date night and it's the cost of, you know, a good dinner, a nice dinner. Go have
dinner. Go have some drinks. You don't have to do anything. Go watch. Go look around. 60 day
memberships, what, like $60 a couple? Yeah. To get in the door. Yeah. And then you have the night
cover charge per couple, which varies. If you're looking for single men, you want to go every day
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but Saturday is yes. Single men are allowed every day, but Saturday, Saturday is couples and single
females only. And it's only one day a week, but other than that, single males are allowed.
Definitely recommend going and upgrading to diamond. We love diamond club. We were unaware of
diamond. We had the first. Us and many people. Yeah. We're not the only ones because it is
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secrety kind of hidden. Secret. Yeah. Cause I remember like before we knew it was there,
I remember seeing that the door and being a keypad, I thought it was a staff only like
you would never know it's there unless you know it's in the back of the locker room
and the general area. It's just a little door with a little keypad on it and you wouldn't have no clue.
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And then we kept hearing people whispering about diamond club, but we didn't know what it was. And
we finally were like, what is it? And you have to do it. You've got to go. Yeah. It was almost like
a secret thing. It was, it's still kind of, it's like the secret. If you know, you know, like we
kind of ruined the secret. I think we have ruined that because it's definitely worth it. Um, you do
have to pay more. You have to upgrade when you get there. Yeah. You can do a membership like a,
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be a diamond club member. There's usually waiting lists though. And yeah, it's a one, it's an annual
fee. So it's expensive. That's like two grand ish. It keeps going up. It keeps going on. Like when we
paid for it, it was 2,500 for the year for that, but included in that you get the maximum discount
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for the night. You don't have to pay for the membership all but once a year. So whenever you
go, it's like 60 bucks to get in. Yeah. On a Saturday night. Yeah. And it's, they have chef
prepared menu, all you can eat. So you can order as much as you want on the menu that you want
anything they have. And then they do breakfast back there. They do desserts back there. And you
can have as much food as you want. And it's such good food. Like they have steak and it's cooked
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to order from a chef and they bring it to your table. It's just like a restaurant, like a nice,
nice dinner night. And then the vibe is just completely different back there. It's quieter.
Yeah. It's the front, the general area is very much like a, it's every night club, any other night
club you've ever been to, except it has a buffet on that one side. Yeah. You can't like, you can't
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see the plate. Even the buffet food's really good. It's also good fresh. They have such a pretty set
up too of all the cheese and meats and all of the snacky stuff. They have such a pretty, they would
have pineapple set up all pretty. They always have like fruit and veggies and shrimp cocktail and stuff
like that. And then they do like prime rib. They have like, they cut right there. Yeah. And then
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they have like usually like four different meal things or side like entrees. Yeah. Usually they're
on like a skillet and they serve it to you and you just tell them what you want and how much you
want and they'll give you, you can keep coming back as much as you want. It's equal to like a nice
buffet. Like yeah, yeah. Cookies, they got desserts, they got lemonade and iced tea and there's fancy
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coffee maker machines and stuff like that. You can, yeah, whatever. And it's definitely, definitely
it's good. All the food's good. You can't go back. You can't go wrong with any of the food, but in
the back, it's, we have private playrooms. So you have doors you can shut with locks with locks and
then they have public playrooms with silk sheets. All of them is like, yeah, with the big silk sheets.
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And it's the equivalent of like three queen size mattresses, like the size that's huge. And then
they have like seating area around it and stuff and you can keep the, as a curtain so you can keep
it open or you can shut it. If you want to be private. Um, if you go there and the curtain or
the door is closed, do not open them. Yeah. If they are open, do not just go in and participate
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either. No. Where you're more than, you know, welcome to watch. Usually if the door, you wait
till you're invited. Yeah. Only if you're invited to come in. So you can, like, if it's open, they
like to be like, they like to be watched. They want to be watched. I don't touch, but no touching.
Unless we ask. No involving yourself. Let them do their thing and enjoy the show. Consent, consent,
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consent. So huge. But then if you keep going back, there is nicer bathrooms. The bathrooms are real
nice. The sinks there, they got an off wash and everything. The bathrooms are, are private. Yeah.
They're single. Just yeah. Restrooms where it's not like you don't have like stalls and all that
stuff. It's just a single bathroom with the sink, you know, like you would see in any other bathroom,
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but it's more private and then keep going back. And there's another public play room with another
giant bed there and some more rooms, more private little, they're like hotel rooms. If you walk in,
it looks like a hotel room. It's got a bed. It's like two nightstands, some lamps and a fan, a fan.
Like it's, yeah, there's a chair in the corner. Yeah. There's a cook chair and there's quite a
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few of them and you can leave the door open or you can shut it, lock it, whatever. And then you keep
going back and there's a locker. There's another locker room back there. They just put that in.
Yeah. There's the new locker room and then they have like towels and stuff in there.
And then if you keep going back, they have a brand new cigar lounge that they just put in,
which is so pretty. And it's really tucked back there. Yeah. It's kind of hidden. That's where say
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a few people do go back there and smoke like cigars and stuff, but we go back there to hang out
because it's quiet and it's like our photo studio because it's, we get a whole bunch of people back
there that want to take pictures. And usually when we first get there, it's away from everybody,
everybody that does it wants to stay out of it. And so you don't worry about a lot of the pictures
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you see from Chappie's are from that room. Yeah. And it's just a good spot. It's, and we just hang
out back there too. Sometimes it's nice and quiet. You can just sit and there's like comfortable
chairs. You can sit around and talk and it's more of a private little space that you can go to. And
the vibe is cool. Like the decorations, it's gold and black and dark and it's a good little spot to,
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you know, just talk and hang out and whatever else you want to do. And then, yeah, that's pretty much
diamond. It's got some tables out front where you can eat dinner. That's usually when we first get
there, we go right back to diamond and order our food immediately before people get there and gets
crowded. Yeah. Cause we always go early so we can get settled. If you're going to diamond, they only
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give a certain number of, oh wait, a night it's like 10. It's very low. Yeah. Upgrades of upgrades.
So you want to make sure you get there if you're upgrading as soon as the doors open. So like 745
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It's your first time there. You want to go there again when the door's open, even if you're not
going to diamond, like I highly recommend getting there like 745, 750 before the doors open, get in
line. Yeah. Be ready to go. And you can, if it's the first time that you can ask for a tour of the
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club. Oh yeah. Yeah. You go in and they're going to fill it. They have computers right there. So
you're going to get a membership when you go and you're going to fill out all your stuff and you're
going to apply, get your membership, pay for it and all that. And you're going to bring your own
alcohol. You want to bring all of your IOP. They have all the mixers there, the normal mixers that
you would want to make drinks and stuff. Just bring your alcohol and you'll get a number. You'll get
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a membership number when you get the membership and then they're going to put it on your alcohol
and then they'll take it back to the bar. So it'll be back there. And when you go get a drink,
all you got to do is say whatever number it is that you have and they'll know which bottle is yours
and they'll make your drink for you. So you want to get there early. So especially if it's your
first time, cause you want to be able to fill out your membership, get everything paid for,
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do all of that. Once we do all that, we pay, go inside and yeah, if you want to tour, tell them
when you're paying for everything that you would like a tour and that's your first time.
Do not be afraid to tell people that it's your first time. You've never been, no, because everyone
has is more than happy to show you around and to introduce you to people and to show you how
everything kind of be like, I understand it can be overwhelming, but try and not to be the people
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sitting in the corner. Don't do that because you're closing yourself off and you're not going to
experience what you're going to experience. Yeah. And people aren't going to come up to you and
approach you as, yeah, you're not approachable if your arms are crossed in the corner, just
sitting alone and yeah, you know, go meet people, stand up, go dance, go, especially the dance,
the dance floor is where I've met most of my friends at Trappies, like go out to the dance
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floor. Just even if you're not dancing, that's where like everyone's there having a good time.
Just go hang out and watch. I meet most people at the bar or that too. Like while I'm getting a
drink, we start talking, I start talking to on the dance floor because some people do like,
if there's no tables open, they'll just order food at the bar and eat. And so while I'm standing
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there getting my drink, I'll, we'll strike up conversations or what, what not, but yeah,
go out and go meet people. That's our biggest tip is to go say hi, go introduce yourself. Don't be
afraid to say, Hey, I've never been here before. This is my first time. Don't be scared. It's not
that scary. Everyone's super welcoming and nice and happy and ready to have a good night. And
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they're so friendly. Yeah. This lifestyle is full of friendly, amazing, happy people. And they want
to show you the ropes promise. But yeah, and then there's a, you walk in and there's a general area.
We had talked about the buffet, the buffets over on the right with some tables and then a bar,
a big bar, giant, big L shape bar there. And if you're going to stay in that area,
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that's where you're going to have your drinks. So then you're going to go back there and that's
where you're going to get all your drinks and the buffets, their tables, it's like a regular club
restaurant. They've got some, you know, it's a step up and they have some tables up there, some
chairs, booths and stuff. And you can sit up there and just watch. And then, you know, on the regular
down on the dance floor, there's seats all around it. So it's got a bunch of chairs and spaces. You
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can stand and sit and so there is no, just because I thought when we first started going Thursdays
next to the dance floor, there's like this little booth that looks like a VIP area with a couch and
love seat. It's not reserved for, you don't have to pay for it. If there's no one there, you can
go sit down and have a seat and chill and relax next to the dance floor to see who's coming in
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the door and kind of walk people, but it is not reserved unless there's somebody already there.
Obviously, but I thought for the longest time that you had to have it looks like it is because it
does. And then right next to that, there's another little bar to yeah, there's a tiny bar there,
all their bar there and you can get your drinks there too. And then there's the general area
playroom. We've only been in there one time. Yeah. What's just as an art vibe. There's nothing wrong
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with it. Just as an art vibe, there's a pool table back there. Yeah. And then you have to be in
lingerie or naked or towel. Yes. So if you're a female, you can wear lingerie or towel or be naked.
And if you're a man, you have to have a towel on or be nude. Yes. So there's that. That's the part
that kind of put me off to it. It was, yeah, I'm not comfortable being naked or I don't like being
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told what to do. And yeah, I have to do something personally. I changed the laundry when I feel like
changing in the laundry. So it was like that expectation. And then yeah, the vibe is just
different back there. And it's so you walk to the back to the general playroom and
there's a pool table and then there is a big like group playroom on the one side and you keep going
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back and there are tiny little like little booths with like bench seats in them that you can play in.
But they're not very big. They're very small. And then you keep going back into a big group play area
with beds all along the walls, a big bag in the middle. It's huge. We need to go next time just to
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go back there again, because it's been so long. Yeah. I've been back there. I really do think now
that we're like because it scared the crap out of me. We're very new. I wasn't even the lifestyle
yet when we went back there. So it was a lot for me and there was a lot of it was a single male night
too. So there was an influx of lots of men just alone. And it was a lot for me as an early. Yeah,
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really shy. I was very shy. I was very like just mosey on back there and check it out again.
Yeah, we should just go back in there now. Yeah. That perspective, that's a general layout, but
there's a bunch of chairs and seats everywhere. You can look pretty much there's seats in the
tables and stuff. You can just say the biggest thing that just put off us off to it is was the
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fact that we had to be a certain way to walk back there where in Diamond Club you don't you don't.
You can wear whatever you want whenever you want. There's no requirement to be in a towel or nude
or anything at any point. And then when you go towards the playroom, if you make a right,
there's lockers back there. Yeah, there's a whole locker room. You have a locker like attendant guy
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at a desk that sits there and he'll come and unlock and lock your locker for you. And it's
got a shower back there too. There's a shower and then there's two locker rooms. There's one in the
back and then one right in the front. And then if you would know, you would think that was the end
of the club. But if you're in Diamond, you just keep on walking past that and then turn the corner
and there's a door. Yeah, glass door with a keypad. Yeah, and you'll get a key. You know, you can key
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in your... Yeah, so when you upgrade to Diamond Club, they're going to give you the door code
that changes for everybody. Everybody has their own. You don't share it because it's again, it's a
private area, but you put in your code and the door opens and there's another attendant there
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for the Diamond Club lockers, which are a little bit bigger. They're wood. They're like a mahogany
color. Members have like their names on them. And then, yeah, actual Diamond Club members have their
own locker with their name on it. And their swinger names, most of them are their
swinger names, whatever it is they are. And they have their own. You get your own specific locker
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that's yours and you can bring your own lock and key and everything if you want to. But she'll lock
it and unlock for you as you need it. And there's a little more space to get changed. And there's
curtains on each of the locker rooms and stuff. So if you need more privacy and it's just a whole,
a whole different club. It's pretty much an entirely different club because there's, they
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have their own bar, their own different menu. The whole thing is a different club. It's like two
separate clubs in one. It really is. Which we love because sometimes, some nights I want to dance and
sometimes I want to do the club nightclub party vibe. And then other nights we just want to sit
around, have dinner and talk and, you know, do more private stuff. And that's good for Diamond. So
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Playground today. We'll go out for most of the night and be in the general area and dancing and,
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you know, doing all that. And then when it gets closer to like playtime and nighttime and lingerie
time, then we usually navigate ourselves back to Diamond. And, you know, that's when we have fun,
more private fun back there. And we just like the playrooms back there because like, it's just a
whole, whole different set up. You can have, you know, more of a private thing. Say if we play with
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somebody, we go with the comfortability of the people we're playing with. So if they want to be
in a private room, then we go to the one of the rooms, close the door, lock it, and we do our
thing. Our favorite thing is that we like group play. We like group play. So we and a lot of our
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friends navigate to one of the big group playrooms. For our trapeze, usually after midnight, you can
find us there. Like that's usually what we find. And I know we like, we used to go because there's
two of them. There's one back behind, like straight back, like up on stage. And then there's the other
one kind of past the bathrooms around the corner. That's where we end. I kind of like that one better
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because there's that bench right there. And every, every time we're in there and we, our group is
playing, I kind of look out and there's always just an audience, an audience just sitting on those
benches, just watching. And then there's benches like in both of the playrooms around the room.
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Yeah, along the walls. So you can, everybody can, the ones who are brave enough, they'll come into
the room and go sit on the outside. Or if you need a break or you need a minute or you need to get a
drink or whatever, you kind of get off the bed and kind of have a place to sit down for a second.
I've done that before. Oh yeah. Like I just sit down on the water. I just drink my water.
Or if you're done and you just want to like take a minute, it's a good, good place. And then
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the biggest like thing is that nobody cleans it, that it's dirty. All of this stuff. And I laugh
so hard because there are little cleaning ninjas. I know we've called them ninjas since the beginning
because you, you don't see them. The only time I ever actually see them is when they're in there
like around that one corner past the bathrooms and they have their, their room and where they're like
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folding like towels or what, doing their thing. And that's the only time we really see them. They scurry
out when they're done playing, changing sheets, do all the things, clean all this stuff. I don't know
how they keep track of who, like every room, but they do. Like they go in there. And if you ever need
extra towels or sheets or any pillows, anything, they got you. Like they'll find them there. They'll
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be more than happy to make the bed up for you. I've seen them come in between playing and they
will change the whole entire thing for us. And we're like, we need another sheet. We need this or that.
And they're, that's their only job is to make sure that everything is clean and tidy. And they're so,
it's so good. It's not, people say they are never clean, never change. They're unsung heroes or trapeze.
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I met her, I met one of them last time. I finally got to have a minute and talk to her and stuff.
She was the sweetest lady. I know they are. Like I always like, I always run into them and like,
yeah, try and get out of their way. Cause I know they're working. I know I get to sit down and talk
to them. I actually got to actually talk to one when I was there by myself and like actually be
like, thank you. You know, you guys are the reason it keeps this place together. We appreciate you.
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I would really like, I want to talk to one to see like what they think. That's the thing. They don't,
at least they don't show that they don't judge us. They just know, like they know, like they know what
it is and they've been there for so long. It's the same people all the time and they understand. I
would love to see, like hear their perspective. Oh yeah. Yeah. I would like to actually sit down,
sit down and talk to them more than just like, thank you. You're amazing. You saved the whole night.
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They are the unsung heroes of trapeze because they make sure everything's clean and sanitary.
That's why we call them ninjas. Cause they go in and out of the rooms real fast. Like they're,
yeah, they're like, you'll catch them every once in a while when you're trying to go into a playroom
and they'll like be changing the sheets and cleaning and stuff. It's like, oh, and they'll be like,
give me five minutes and then I'll be ready. Like, okay. They're ready to go in there as soon as
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we're done. Like they're in and out so fast. They know, like they make their rounds. They take note
of which ones are closed and then they, every, you know, so many minutes, every 10, 15 minutes,
they do their little rounds and they see, okay, this one's open. I'm over here. Fix this one.
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And yeah, so it's awesome. They have it down pat. The whole place is super clean. You can, it's,
yeah, it's not what you're thinking. It's not disgusting and gross and nasty. I've had so many
comments are like, they never changed the sheets. No one ever cleans anything. Like that place is
so clean and it should be a mess. It should be disgusting. Yeah. I am surprised it's not, but
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on that note as well, I would love to bring up the fact of we, there's a lot of people that I've seen
that just need to be a little bit more respectful of the space. There's trash cans everywhere.
Everywhere there's, you know, wipes and everything available everywhere. And we just need as a whole,
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make sure that we're picking up our own mess. No one wants to pick up used condoms off the floor.
I don't care if it's their job or not. Like you don't make, I don't know how many times I have,
there are a group of just ran off and I've been wandering around like picking up people's stuff
and people's people's wipes and people's lube. That's just like common courtesy. Like, I mean,
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we're adults. I know us. We even like pick up like our hotel room and like collect all the trash
in the trash can and like we pick up our hotel rooms before we check out. That's like, yeah,
we don't make the bed and stuff like that, but like we make sure all like the dirty towels in
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this place and like we make sure it's something spilled. Like we're cleaning it up. Yeah. Just be
considerate. Be a grown up. But when you first get there, Val is sitting there waiting to take
your keys. They, you pull right up to the door and hand them your keys. And then you're like,
I'm going to pull the door and hand them your keys and they will go park your car for you,
which is another service that is unheard of and amazing. Yeah. You don't have to worry about that.
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They will take your car for you. All you gotta do is just tip them at the end of the night and
they'll bring your car back to you. Yeah. And they are quick. They are so fast. You always,
if you sit out front, you'll see them just running all night back and forth. Yeah. They're working
their ass off. They work really. They are. And there's so many people with cars and they're like,
only like they're directing traffic. Oh yeah. They're parking your cars. They're like two or
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three of them. Like there's not very many of them. They're so just a little tiny crew of home and
they make sure everybody and the doors open and they opening doors, they're making sure the outside
safe and they're watching us and they keep the outside flowing. Yeah. I just want to, so we don't
talk about it a lot, but you pay for everything upfront at Trapeze. I just, if you're going to go
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take care of the people that take care of you, taking care of you. Yeah. Like we have, I've seen
people, cause everything's just included. I mean, you have bartenders that are serving you your
drinks. You have waitresses that are making sure you're good at the tables. You have the cleaning
attendance and making sure everything's clean and sanitized. You have the girls up front, making
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sure everybody gets checked in and everybody's taken care of. Then you have the VIP attendant
who's making sure everybody's got their locker and everything's safe. And we just have to
make sure that we're taking care of those people too. Cause yeah, we paid the club, but we need,
these people are live off of tips. It's a service industry. So let's take care of them too. Yeah.
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Make sure you have cash when you go to the club where you bring cash. Cause you want to make sure
everybody's taken care of. It's such a small, it's a small little crew of people that are there.
You'll see the same faces all the time, which I love. And they stick around for a while. They do.
They stay around for years and they're good at what they do. So good. There's a reason Trapeze is
a more pricier club and it's more, you know, on the higher scale. You're paying for the experience.
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You do really pay for in this lifestyle. And you'll notice that with certain clubs,
like you're getting what you pay for it. And this club is worth every single penny for a reason.
And it's this crew of people that are there every single week, making it all happen.
Well, and also I truly believe in it. I truly believe that it's again, it's pricier,
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but also because people are paying that premium, you're less likely for all the
the shenanigans of BS. Yeah. Like it keeps all that away. You pay for that as well.
Yeah. You're safe there. Everyone is always talking about what the area is and it's not
area. It's not most clubs aren't, but it's like a bubble, but it has a bubble of it. There's
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security and the Valley take care of it. Not only is there security if, and then if you actually
pay attention, they have a police officer. Yeah. They're actual police that keep it parked in the
separate parking lot. Oh yeah. And just watching. It's a whole just making sure everybody's and
that's what he stays all night. Just make sure everybody's being safe. I've seen people pretty
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much naked outside on those benches. I've seen people around naked. I've seen people on just
people, you know, you see things that some people drink too much. Some people get into, you know,
stuff happens. And I've seen people in lingerie. I've seen, I feel a hundred percent safe to go
out there and lingerie, which is unheard of, especially in that area, especially in the
yeah, I don't know how they never, I don't know how they do it, but they keep this little safe
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bubble and they make sure that everything stays away. And they also keep it safe in the club.
If you ever have an issue, a problem, you, anything you find not anybody there. Yes. And the staff
they're going to take care of it for you. We used to, especially when we first started going
there, there are very strict phone rules and picture rules. I have seen them smashing phones,
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no questions asked. They don't mess around with it. Yeah. If they catch anybody like
taking pictures or videos like of an orgy and stuff like that, that are clearly don't have
consent to take those pictures. I've seen them straight up. Just take it, kick them out, like
take their phone, delete the pictures, kick them out and then smash their phone. Yeah. They don't
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care. They don't mess around with that. They don't mess around with people. There's violating
people's privacy. Yeah. It's very important to them. And that's why, again, why we love trapeze
because they don't play around with any of that and they make sure that you're safe and you feel
like you're safe to be yourself there. And anybody can go to that club. We've seen people that have
all walks of life. Oh, yeah. A lot of people go there to get away from the regular everyday life.
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That's what we're there for. And there's a lot of people who have really crazy, insane jobs and are
really high figures and they do really important jobs. We've met some really powerful people.
And there's a safe place for them to go and express themselves and be themselves. And it's a safe
place for that reason. They make sure to take care of you. I was talking to one of those people and
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the love. It's hidden. Like, if you don't know where Trapeze is, you drive right past it. You
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would never know. Yeah. It's one of those if you know, you know. Yeah. They don't even have a sign
out front anymore. You notice that? They have one on the side of the building. Oh, on the, yeah. But
it used to be one out by the road. And that's gone. Yeah. You would drive by pass it and never even
realized that it was there at all. I mean, that's what we love. It's a place for us also to just go
and be ourselves. That's the one place in the lifestyle where we don't have to be on display
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or be, you know, be this like, you know, hosts. Yeah, exactly. We don't have to host. We can be
ourselves and we can have a relaxing night and chill and be with our people and find new people
and explore and do all that. And that's why we love it there. We love, love it so much. But yeah,
Liz is the manager. She is amazing and wonderful. We love Liz. She will take care of you. She knows
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everything about that club inside and out. She's a boss bitch. She really is. I love her so much.
She's always running around. Oh yeah. She's taking, she's taking care of everything. She is
amazing. Yeah. She doesn't stop, especially when it's crazy. Last time I was there, it was insane.
And she was on top of it. And they did have a bit of an issue because of the fact that everyone that
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showed up didn't have a membership. And so it just took longer because you had to go to the computers
and you had to put all your information. It just held it up a lot. And it was like a two hour wait,
but man, they were hustling and they were doing their best and they were trying so hard.
And I know a lot of people were turned off by the club because of that, but that's not the norm.
That's not what you're normally going to experience. Only, I mean, that's a, that was a huge event for
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them. That was it was. And that's where, like, cause we are such advocates of trapeze and we love it so
much. They actually ask like our opinions and like, how can we make this better? Yeah. Yeah.
And like us, Pineapples after dark, like all like the kind of regular influencers that, you know,
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our regular customers are trapeze. They ask our opinions, how they can make things better.
And they want to improve. And they, they're always improving. They just renovated the whole club.
Yeah. That's another thing. Everybody was like, I can't believe I thought that was shut down.
It needed renovated. Then they were talking about the hot tubs. They used to have a hot tub and
I hear about the old hot all the time. And I'm like, no, like they are thriving. They have never
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been better than they are right now. And they just completely renovated the back area. And every time
we go, there's a new space being renovated and they have a new chef there that's now started in
the buffet area and stuff like that. And she is bad ass as well. And she, her food is amazing.
They're doing a really good job with her. And so like, they're always looking for the best in the
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newest. And they're always improving at all times. And it is not running down. It's not being run
down. It's not the exact opposite. It's there and it's thriving. And I was like, people just keep
telling me like it's last time I was there. I'm like, how many years has it been since you've been
in this last three years? I, we always say we just were talking about that last night, like trapeze
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is a completely different club than we went to when we first showed up. Absolutely. It is a
completely different 100% say when we started going to trapeze, the median age was, I would say 55.
Yeah, at least. And there was like 10 people and they were all like, like in diamond. Yeah. Yeah.
They've been like members for 25 years. It was the same thing every night all the time. You know,
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what to expect every night. That being said, we kept going because they were really fun people.
Yeah. And also we weren't necessarily attracted to them, but they became really good friends.
We were honestly like fresh meat. Oh yeah. And they were young. Yeah. We're hot. We're like the
thinnest we ever were. We were like the best of the nines. Like they were like, oh, new meat.
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Yeah, that's also true. That's how we got our name. If nobody knows why we were that hot couple in
GA, it's not because we're conceited and we think we're hot. It's because people, that's what they
named us. That was our name going to trapeze. That hot couple in GA. Like that was our name. And so,
yeah, but it was, they were very welcoming and we want to be those people for everybody else.
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Exactly. Always, always championed for trapeze. And we've always advocated for them because we
want to be those people for, we had amazing, wonderful people that were like, come on, let
me show you everything and took our hand and walked us through it. And the way that this club
has changed in the last, you know, four or five years is just, it's nuts. It's, I love, it's
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thriving. It's never been better. And there's always new people and the crowds are getting
better and better. And I'm excited to see. Where it's going. I don't know how they're going to make
it. It needs to be bigger. And I don't know how they're going to do that. They have to, yeah,
yeah. They're going to have to expand at some point because the more and more people are going.
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I have 1.5 million people and all of them, there was not all of them, but there was a huge chunk
of people that were like, you convinced me. I'm going to go check it out. I want to go. And they're
super ready to like, actually now that they've seen me go look at me, you know what I mean?
They're like, if this girl can go and it's not that scary, like I want to go check it out for sure.
And so I'm excited to see where it's going. My favorite comments, like, cause I was reading the
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comments always cracked me up. And the one, the comments, 90% of them were positive. Yeah. Like
there were actually some really good feedback. A lot of them were talking about like, I would have
like, cause you looks, it was about your innocence. She's like, those are the ones you gotta watch out
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for. So innocent, freaky, freaky. Don't, don't let this fool you. We're out there. I promise.
But I'm very excited to see what happens with trapeze and where, where the next five years
takes them because they're not going anywhere. No. Sure. If anything, they're going to need a
bigger building, but, and you know, just keep on improving, but they're not going anywhere.
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Trapeze is here to say they've been there with 25 years or something like that. They've been there
a long time. They're an old established club full of full of people that have stuck with it
that whole time. We have met so many people that are just like members since the first day they
opened and there's a reason why. And many of us have traveled all over the place and continue to
call that our home and keep coming back for a reason. And that's another one of the biggest
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complaints is it's so expensive. You know, again, you know, but you get what you pay for it, what
you pay for it. And there are cheaper options in the lifestyle, but if you're looking for a good,
you know, nice night and date night and oh yeah. Speaking of that, I did want to talk about the
dress code a little bit. You want to dress like you're going out to like a nice dinner.
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Yeah. You want to treat it like going out on like a date. So they're not as strict on women. Yeah.
Yeah. Right. And they're not strict for like themes too. If you're in like costumes or like
something for a theme nine or whatever, and you do not ever have to dress up for the theme. We have
friends that went through the first time, first experience ever. We talked about it on another
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episode, but they thought they had to, and it was anything but clothes party and they were no clothes.
And it was, yeah, they were like underwear and like aprons or something like that. And they were
the only ones and never feel, never feel. Most of the time people are in theme. You're going to have
a theme, but most of the time, you know, that's, but some nights only if you're comfortable,
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like only wear what you are comfortable. Make sure you're wearing whatever makes you feel the
best because that'll be the best night that you have. You're going to have the greatest time. If
you feel comfortable inside and out, the biggest takeaways for the dress code is no jerseys,
no sneakers, no sneakers, no hats, no holes. I have to know holes in your pants, a collared
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shirt. So that doesn't have to be a full button down, but this has to be at least a polo.
And those are the big, just like a date night, like, yeah, just dress business like you're going
out a nice dinner night. Like, yeah, sure. A black dress. You can never go wrong with a little
black dress. If you don't know what to wear or you don't want to wear a costume or whatever,
black dress always works for everything. And like some khakis and button up, like, you know,
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it doesn't have to be fancy fancy. If you don't want to appreciate it, we like being fancy.
Yeah, we like say it's better overdressed than under. That's our motto. We've always been the
people that are like, we just dress to impress. We don't get out very often. So when we do,
we like to dress up. Yeah. Yeah. So, and we just enjoy wearing nice clothes. We do. Yeah. I mean,
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I wear blazers and shit to Walmart. So that we like, we don't get out very much. So when we do,
we do it all the way and that's how we prefer. But if you're more comfortable in something else,
or if you want to wear, you know, whatever theme it is, go ahead. And most of the time it is just
like a color. So that makes it easy. Like most nights it's like purple or pink or whatever. And
you can just wear a dress that has that color or a shirt that's what they have. But themes like
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school girl teacher, anything, but clothes, leather lace, that type of like different vibe. And if you
want to, you can have fun with it. Just make sure you know, you, if you're not following the dress
code a hundred percent, make sure you're in theme. And if you're not, if something violates it,
they'll let you know at the front door, be allowed in the door and they'll security will stop you.
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It will stop you. You will be stopped. And that's why we always try to preface like what to expect
dress code wise, because they are not afraid to turn people around and you will be sent home.
So we've seen it a million times. They will send you away until you come back and like,
they'll tell you exactly what's wrong until you leave and don't have that. Yeah. Then they're
going to send you away. They don't, they don't, there's no leeway there at all. They're very
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strict with that, which we love as well. It's for a good reason. They want to, you know,
that's a certain vibe they're trying to stay with and keep up with. Yeah. We appreciate it.
I remember they, they turned away somebody that's a shoes, a guy, and they were Gucci,
like they were designer shoes, but they didn't, but they were sneaker. But yeah,
there was something like that. I forget exactly what kind of shoes they were, but I've seen it
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many times with their beauty, the problem, the problem a lot, and they still turn around.
It's like no flip really either. I've seen women be turned away because they're wearing flip flops.
Yeah. Sandals. They don't like flip ups and sandals either. So make sure you're wearing like
something nice. Just yeah, something you were to a date night. Exactly. Yeah. That's that kind of
wrap. Really? Is trapeze. That is a little bit more in depth. I wanted to kind of do a whole
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episode about that. We have so many questions. Yeah. Thousands and thousands and I can't possibly
begin to answer them. So I keep, it was nice to have a place there for everybody. Go listen to
the podcast. Yeah. There was actually talk about some of the comments cracked me up. That was a
lot. It was a lot. Yeah. We got into Atlanta, Atlanta. You are trapeze somehow every video.
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And I had a few cents then everybody's like, I'm so glad to be a part of trapeze talk. I finally
found trapeze talk. And yeah, that was a lot of the comments. I know the whole algorithm brought
me here, but I like it. I'm like, I can't believe I finally found trapeze talk. And people are like,
I haven't heard about that place for so long. And so we would, we love again, we love like
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advertising and pushing our friends and our favorite places. We love sharing it with everybody.
We don't want to gatekeep. We're not gatekeepers. And so we make sure if you want to check it out
a club, we highly, highly recommend trapeze Atlanta and keep an eye out for when we're going.
We'll be more than happy to show you around. Oh yeah. We have, we're tour masters. We will
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tour you all around there and we'll even double check with Liz. Like is it okay if we show them
around? Like, yeah, I don't even ask her. I would just do it. Like it's my, I own this place now. So
this club's mine. Yeah. I, uh, I don't mind if you need any help, any of her need to reach out and
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you want to go and we're going come on a night that we're going. I am always advertising whenever
we're going follow us on Instagram. All of my stories. I'll keep you updated on what nights we
decide to go or last minute or if we're going next month or whatever. Yeah. Cause every once
while we'll just get a wild hair and be like, you want to go to night? Yeah. Yeah. Let's go. But even
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then we're like on the way to trapeze come out to choppy. And then yeah, we, it's a quick, if you're
a guy, if you're not, don't have plans, we're going to be here. Come join us. Yeah. We are more than
happy. Come if you want to try it out and you wouldn't want to try it out, come out on a night
that we're going to be there and we will show you around and show you that it's not that scary.
And you don't have to make it weird. It's not that serious. Don't make it weird.
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Trapeze is that place. Yeah. Yeah. That's that's all I got to say about that. Really? Yeah. Any
have any questions, feel free to ask away. We will answer all the questions. I think we
pretty much covered everything from the, yeah, I'm sure there's more specific questions
that people will have, but you go ask in the comments. Yeah. Email us, email us. Yeah. Like
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we'll try and answer all the questions about trapeze. I've tried even in the comments of
that video. If you go through there, I made a couple of years, I made a reply video to kind
of cover most of the questions. And then I did, you know, where to follow us, where to keep up
with all of us and us going to trapeze and stuff. There's videos in the reply that I tried to reply
to. But, you know, we really do try to talk about trapeze a lot. I feel like we talk about it all
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the time, but we love it there. We owe trapeze so much. I just, uh, on Instagram, we're always
talking about trapeze back and forth. And the other day she was like, we love you guys. And I was like,
or no, it was a video about like the reason why we started the lifestyle and stuff. And she's like,
I was like, thank you guys. You guys are the reason we are who we are. And we owe that to trapeze.
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And we love them. Big love, big love until we have our own club. Yeah. It'll do. It'll do.
But yeah, well, that's all we got to say about that. We will talk to you guys next week as always.
It's not that serious. Don't make it weird. Bye.
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