July 3, 2025 • 49 mins
Rebecca Parris had checked all the boxes of success—prestigious career, 27-year marriage, president of the garden club, tennis association, and multiple foundations. Her life looked perfect from the outside. Then something shifted. During a simple dog walk, a conversation with her daughter about coincidences cracked open her perception of reality, launching her on a profound spiritual journey.
With remarkable courage during the pandemic, Rebecca walked away from everything familiar. "To fully start new, you have to close all the doors so new ones can open," she explains with the calm assurance of someone who has faced the void and found something extraordinary on the other side. Now residing in the mountains near Asheville, she helps others navigate their own spiritual awakenings.
The conversation takes us deep into consciousness expansion—from the Gene Keys system that provides a blueprint of your unique purpose to the science of dormant DNA activation. Rebecca bridges spiritual concepts with scientific understanding, making esoteric knowledge accessible. She explains how our reality functions like radio frequencies, where we can tune into different stations ranging from fear and shame to love and enlightenment using Dr. David Hawkins' scale of consciousness.
What stands out most is Rebecca's holistic approach to spiritual growth. She emphasizes that true transformation requires balancing masculine and feminine energies, honoring both doing and being. Her daily practices—intention setting, meditation, journaling, and connecting with nature—offer practical tools for listeners seeking their own spiritual path. Rebecca's story reminds us that at any age, we can choose sovereignty over victimhood and consciously create a life aligned with our soul's purpose.
Ready to raise your vibration? This conversation might just be the catalyst you need to tune into a higher frequency and discover what's possible when you trust your inner guidance completely.
Rebecca's book recommendation: The Biology of Belief by Bruce Lipton
She has a full list of book recommendations on her Raising the Vibe website under resources.
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About Rebecca:
Rebecca is a former advertising and marketing executive as well as a portrait artist. After a spiritual awakening in 2017, she was guided to found Raisingthevibe.org, a resource hub for expanding consciousness. She currently offers one-on-one guidance and Gene Keys profile sessions. Her perspective on our "Matrix" of reality is illuminated in the free eBook, "The Matrix Resurrections Unraveled". She is also a co-creator of the online course, Awakening to the Real You.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I stopped caring what other people think.
I mean I'm sure I care at somelevel, but I mean my kids are
just astounded that I was ableto do what I did.
I walked out of the middle of abig social construct.
I was president of everythingthe garden club, the tennis
association, the children'shealthcare, of the foundation.
(00:23):
I mean I was in the middle ofthat and in COVID I walked out
of everything.
But I believe to fully start newyou actually have to make that
move and close all of the doorsso the new ones can open.
Because if you still haveenergy coming in from your past
life you know the former lifeyou had you can't really fully
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walk into the next door.
So I really had to go into thisvoid space and it was just all
trust and I was able just totrust in life, to know that it
was all gonna be okay and forsome reason I had that in me to
do it and I just knew I had todo it and I had the courage to
do it.
I'm so glad I did.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Welcome to the House of Germar podcast, where
wellness starts within.
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We are honored to have you joinus on our mission to empower 1
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I am your host, jean Collins,and I invite you to become
inspired by this week's guest.
Welcome to the House of Germarpodcast, where wellness starts
with it.
I'm your host, jean Collins,and today's guest is Rebecca
Paris.
So, guys, I am so excited forthis.
I just met Rebecca and we aregoing to talk about
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consciousness.
Oh, my goodness, there's somuch to talk about.
So she has a company calledrisingthevibeorg and I can't
wait to hear about her journey.
She does so many cool things.
She offers services aboutmeditation.
We're talking about gene keys,because that I'm really
fascinated about, and a wholehost of other things, and I
personally am fascinated to findout how she got into the field
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that she got into.
So, rebecca, welcome to theshow.
Great, thank you so much forhaving me.
Oh, it's my pleasure andsometimes I love when I have
guests on that.
I don't really know that Ihaven't interacted with before,
because I'm going to learn as myaudience is learning as well,
which is really exciting.
So let's first start off.
How did you get to where youare now?
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What was your career journeyand your career path?
Because it's never as linear aspeople might think.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
No, I feel like I've lived probably four lives in
this life.
It started out with a verytraditional path.
I went to the University ofVirginia, studied marketing and
management, getting intoadvertising, worked on Delta
Airlines, became vice presidentof United Way in Atlanta and
then kind of did all the thingsthat you know are outlined in
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what I call the 3D matrix thatyou do for success Got married,
had two kids.
So I was like doing it all,feeling like, okay, I've got
this life down, and then at somepoint, you know, you start
realizing that there's someemptiness and some things aren't
the way that you think they are.
And I just had an awakening,probably in 2000, I think it was
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2017, where I just got thesedownloads from my higher self
that you know life is not justchaos, but it's just a divine
unfolding of something that'scoming up, and that the world,
the five senses that you baseyour full reality on, are just
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the very basic ones, and it's sounlimited about what else is
going on in the world.
So that's the nutshell.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Where were you in your life stage that you were
able to recognize that theuniverse was talking to you in
this way?
Because for many people, theystruggle to understand or to tap
into when the universe isspeaking to them or know that
the universe is speaking to them.
So where were you in your lifeat that time, in your spiritual
journey, that you were able tosee that message?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
It was not too long ago I'm 59 right now and it was
probably, you know, seven yearsago and I lived a very surface,
just base reality life.
I, you know, became a portraitartist after raising my children
, so I really got into that flowof the art which I think was
important to me.
I guess the opening startedwhen, you know, I was living
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this idyllic life, but I had twochildren that really were, I
would say, multidimensional,very sensitive children, adhd,
had a hard time with school andjust that challenge opened me up
to just the pain of fitting inthe box of the school system and
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so forth.
So I was going through a lot ofpain in that regard of trying
to help my children navigatethis world.
That doesn't seem to make a lotof sense in my new view of life
.
And then I had this momentwhere I was out walking the dog,
I was talking to my daughter,who was in college, and she was
explaining something, thiscoincidence that I could tell
that couldn't be a coincidence,and it opened me up to be like
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oh, and it just opened a crackfor me to see that there's
something more.
And then I took that opening andI asked my.
I got back and I just like Ikept hearing and hadn't really
heard it in this way, before youhave a purpose.
You have a purpose Like, okay,this is like a new voice coming
in.
I'm like I have a purpose.
All right, I'm a portraitartist, I'm, you know, I'm a mom
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, what, what else?
I asked myself two questions.
One came out of like the higherversion of me, and the question
was how does energy between allthings interrelate?
And then the second question waswhat do all religions and
spirituality throughout time andculture have in common?
(06:01):
So these two questions came in.
I'm like, okay.
And so I am an avid book reader.
I was a you know, head of abook club for 20 years, you know
, before book clubs were even athing.
And I read, you know, I wasreading fiction, you know, once
a month.
And so I just turned all of myattention onto really
understanding the intersectionbetween science and spirituality
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.
Because to really understandingthe intersection between
science and spirituality,because I needed to have that
science, something logical,because I have a very logical
brain too, as well as the artistbrain, so I've got both.
But I need the science to helpme enter in the world of woo-woo
.
And that gets to my book, whichI might have to share early,
which is the Biology of Beliefby Dr Bruce Lipton, which really
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talks about how your cells arelistening to your consciousness
and how that your body ischanging based on your
consciousness.
So it opened me up to say, oh,I see how you know the world of
magic, which is really justscience.
We don't understand how thatworks.
And open to consciousness andwhat consciousness is.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
And then where did you decide?
Okay, yeah, I've learned allthis, I'm going to do this for a
living, this is going to becomemy business, I'm going to step
into being an entrepreneur andI'm going to talk about
consciousness, which many peoplehave absolutely no idea what
that is.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I know I just felt this.
Just I read probably for a year, just nonstop, and just this,
this passionate urge to knowthat I have to speak about it
because it's to me the mostimportant thing, because
conscious consciousness iseverything and you're living
this empty life otherwise anduntil you have some awareness of
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what's that we're really justspiritual beings in this human
body, that's it's the key toempowerment, it's the key to all
relationships in life.
And I just got the urge.
So I've got again.
The universe is speaking to youand it often comes through your
friends and other people.
And I got the message fromthree different people within
about two weeks is you shouldstart a book club around
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spirituality.
So it's.
Raising the Vibe started as aspiritual book club and I
started gathering the people inmy country club in Atlanta that
I knew, and I knew that some ofthem were, you know, open to
this, and then so I startedsaying I've had this awakening
experience.
They're like, oh really.
And then they told me aboutsome of the other people and we
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gathered as a group at my houseand came up with the name
Raising the Vibe and it startedas a book club for a year and we
, just we.
The first book we read wasPower Versus Force by Dr David
Hawkins, which is a great entree.
It's a little complex, but itreally talks about the scale of
consciousness which is so key tounderstand, and we can talk
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about that later if you're notfamiliar with that Right.
But anyway.
So the book club started.
A year later I went to theEckhart Tolle conference, and
he's the author of the Power ofNow, which is another incredible
book, huge book, yeah.
Yeah, about presence and thenunderstanding the ego is
separate from your divine self.
So I got the urge again.
(09:12):
I'm a very action orientedperson, so when I get an idea,
I'm just I go, I go with it.
I'm a manifester in my humandesigns.
I'm like all right, yeah, nowwe're going to transition this
into a nonprofit and we're goingto have speakers and we're
going to bring more people intoit.
So this is in Atlanta and wehad speakers about all sorts of
consciousness things in a veryin a world that wasn't used to
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it.
It was just a very kind ofelite world that wasn't really
interested.
It's not like the hippiecommunity.
It was, you know, the countryclub community, exactly Southern
country club.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Yeah, yeah, right, exactly.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Southern country club .
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Yeah, yeah, right, yeah.
And you're starting to talkabout spirituality and woo and
ego.
Well, wow, yes, kudos to you.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
That started raising the vibe and then it's
transitioned now to more just aresource for a website.
Covid hit.
I ended up consciouslyuncoupling from my husband that
I was married to for 27 yearsand had the soul urge that I've
just been following thebreadcrumbs and just following
my intuition because that's theonly thing to seem to make sense
(10:15):
at this point, and I got theurge that I need to move to the
Asheville area.
So I've been here for fiveyears.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Wow, okay, that's a big move, yeah, so talk to me
about how you then moved intothe components of offering the
services that you do aroundconsciousness.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Early on I was introduced to the gene keys and
I know you said you'reinterested in it, but you don't
know anything about it.
I do not, so we have to diginto what those are.
It's an amazing transmission,but some people are familiar
with human design or the itching.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I don't know if you're familiar with that Human
design.
I'm definitely familiar with,Okay.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
So Richard Rudd is the founder of the gene keys.
He studied, he's a mystic.
He studied human design andwrote books on human design in
that world for seven years,studied with Raul, the guy who
brought that in.
Then he had this three days ofa total download of a transition
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which really the Gene Keysstands on the shoulders of human
design and it really ties the IChing, the 64 archetypes that's
part of human design and the IChing and he adds in some
astrology as well as the DNA andhow your DNA actually codes to
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these 64 archetypes.
So, being a science geek aswell as loving the whole
intersection, I'm like, oh mygosh, this is incredible.
So you get your profile byputting in your birth date, your
birthplace, your birth time,and you get like a profile that
says here's your main key foryour life's work, here's your
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biggest challenge, here's yourradiance, like what keeps you
healthy, and here's your purpose, along with all these other
keys inside of it to help you topull your dharma and karma
together to actually create yourlife purpose and your dream.
So it gives you a blueprint ofwho you are, which I absolutely
love.
(12:24):
So that's how I got into thegene keys.
I studied it for seven years.
I became a guide four years agobecause I just really resonated
with the teachings because ofthe.
He's an expert at blending theright brain and the left brain,
which I think is so important.
That meditation piece with thelogic, because a lot of times
people are stuck in one or theother and they need both to work
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together.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Yes.
So how do you work with yourclients to get them to
understand how the gene keysrelate to them and their
behaviors and how they processlife too?
It's not just behaviors, it'salso, I feel like, how you, how
you move through life, how youprocess life.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Absolutely.
So we would start with becausethe hologenic profile is fairly
complex we would just start withthe four main keys your life's
work, your evolution, yourpurpose and your radiance and we
do a deep dive into them.
And so they'd send me theprofile and then I'd prepare.
But we really it's really aconversation and it's a
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transmission, so it's beyond areading of what I'm doing, it's
really getting them tocontemplate.
You know where in life theywere in their shadow.
So each key has there's, as youknow, there's many frequencies
in the world and Richard Ruddhas allocated him to like three
main frequencies.
One is the shadow.
That's the seed of you know,when you're kind of in the lower
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vibes, but it's really the seedof your awakening.
There's the gift frequency,when you start coming in out of
the shadow and really feelinglike you can do things in life.
And there's the sidic frequency, s-i-d-d-h-i, which is
basically you at your essence,with no interference at all.
It's like this divine, saintlytrait that you have.
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And each of these four genekeys are your genius, your
unique genius.
So we really talk about like Igo through it and I talk about
each.
You know, and there's also likea line in the I Ching about how
that relates, and we just starthaving a conversation and I'm
like, how does this?
There's either a repressive sideor a reactive side of the
shadow, and then we just startgoing into.
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I'd say what they are and I'dget them to reflect on were you
in repressive or do you still inyour shadow?
Were you in your shadow?
You know?
How have you gotten out of that?
Where do you see yourself now?
And you know, how have yougotten out of that?
Where do you see yourself now?
And all they'll just get theseepiphanies like oh, no wonder,
you know.
And it also makes people feelbetter that, to know that it's
not their fault, that they wereimprinted with this at birth,
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and so it's like this is myjourney, I'm walking and it's
you.
Don't feel so guilty abouthaving to go through some of
these negative things.
Like if you have addiction inyour gene keys, you're like, oh,
no wonder I had to go throughaddiction to get to where.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I am.
Did it help you when you wentthrough your divorce?
Because, after being married,what'd you say?
27 years, that's a long time.
It is a long time, and he's agood guy.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
I mean, I had a good life, you know, and it really
helped me because it helped metie into that.
I had a greater purpose and norelationship is more important
than the one you have with yoursoul.
And that's what got me through,because I knew he's a great guy
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, he's a great relationship.
But I could not.
Knowing what I know about lifeand the connection to spirit, I
could not continue on withoutdoing everything I could to
fully connect to my higherrealms, my soul, and I knew that
I had a purpose to help awakenpeople in consciousness.
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I just couldn't see people gothrough so much suffering and
not even realize thatconsciousness is a thing and
that they have actual control oftheir life.
They are not a victim of thisworld, they are a co-creator of
this world and they can besovereign.
With that knowledge, I had todo everything I can to bring
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that to the world.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
Did it feel selfish in some ways, or did people look
at you like you were beingselfish?
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Yeah, first you know I went through that.
But then I really got to apoint and it's hard to get to
but I stopped caring what otherpeople think and I'm like I love
it.
I mean I'm sure I care at somelevel, but I mean my kids are
(16:46):
just astounded that I was ableto do what I did.
I walked out of the middle of abig social construct.
I was president of everythingthe garden club, the tennis
association, the children'shealth care, of the foundation.
I mean I was in the middle ofthat.
And in COVID I walked out ofeverything, of all of it.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
All of it To start, new To start new.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
But I believe to fully start new you actually
have to make that move and closeall the doors so the new ones
can open.
Because if you still haveenergy coming in from your past
life you know the former lifeyou had you can't really fully
walk into the next door.
So I really had to go into thisvoid space and it was just all
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trust and I was able just totrust in life, to know that it
was all going to be okay and forsome reason I had that in me to
do it and I just knew I had todo it and I had the courage to
do it.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
I'm so glad I did, which is beautiful, because so
many people don't have thecourage to do it and they stay
stuck and they don't move andthey out of fear of closing the
doors.
But you are so right.
I've spoken to so many peopleand also, from my own personal
experience, realized sometimesyou have to close those doors in
order for the new ones to open,in order to get closer to your
highest self and closer to yourpurpose.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
And so I commend you for walking that journey and for
being willing to share that,because I think that does
inspire people, that maybe theytoo could keep doing that.
So let's talk about energy.
How do you help your clientsfigure out the role that energy
needs to play in their life?
Speaker 1 (18:31):
Well, I think it's first realizing that your outer
reality is really a mirror ofyour inner reality and I know
with you and interior design,you know that's it's important
and you just kind of see what'sshowing up each day.
Because if you stop and look atthe little things that are
showing up each day, your higherself is guiding you all the
time.
And it's about stopping and,first of all, just pausing first
.
So in the midst of like, let'ssay, you're yelling at somebody
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and all of a sudden the genekeys advises okay, pause instead
of reacting, take a minute, soyou not just in reaction mode
that you just like are able torespond.
And then you sit back and youinquire what is going on here,
why was I so triggered by that,when there was really no need
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for that?
And then you just allow thatright brain to open up.
So that's the left brain askingthe question.
The right brain goes oh, youjust sit in silence for a minute
to just really let whateverneeds to come in come in.
And then often, with patienceand gentleness and in divine
timing, you'll start getting theanswers, to start breaking
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through these patterns that arejust neurologically wired.
You know what wires togetherfires together.
Joe Dispenza, so you're just onthis pattern, but you have to
be able to pause to break yourpattern.
So that's what I advise peopleto do and to look at their
everyday life and see what'sshowing up right now and just
contemplating what's going onand you mentioned paying
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attention.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Very often we're just busy, you know, and let's be
honest, we, especially as womenwho are working and moms and
somewhere in there there's timefor self and spouse and
everything else we're just busyand not enough people do take
that pause Right To actuallylisten to what's going on.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
I see.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
Yeah, so let's talk about meditation.
I see, I sense that you are abig fan of meditation.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
I am.
I had a hard time with it,honestly, because I'm one of
those busy people that is justconstantly needed.
I was really polarized in mymasculine energies, which is the
doing, and so I really had thatwas the thing I had to work
towards.
So, like I was in this veryactive life and then I'm pretty
much sitting on top of amountain with very little
interaction with people, so it'sforced me to sit with myself.
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So I do love guided meditations.
That's a great way to getstarted.
The music really helps and thenyou know, just sitting and it
doesn't have to be oh, I've gotto fight off these thoughts that
keep coming in.
It's really about allowing in.
Oh, it's just trying to tell mewhat's there, and so I would
just encourage people.
I love Insight Timer.
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They've got great meditations.
So, start there if you're new toit and just give yourself some
patience to get going if youhave a hard time meditating.
So I love the guided ones, butand just making it a habit each
day, starting slow, startingwith just shorter ones.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
I agree.
Couldn't agree more.
So let's talk about somethingthat's very interesting, that
was written down, aboutsomething we could talk about,
and I have no idea what thiseven means.
So activating your dormant DNA.
Oh that sounds interesting.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Okay, cool I don't even know what that is.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
So I'm going to learn , along with all the listeners
what in the world is that?
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Yes, well, I believe that humanity is divine and we
got disconnected.
So scientists call this junkDNA.
Do we think it's really junk?
No, it's a DNA that's notcoding correctly.
You know, the A, c, g, t.
You know the letters that arecoding.
So we have all this in our thatthey've determined was junk DNA
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.
It's not junk DNA, it's just,yeah, the DNA that's not coding.
And the way to do that I meanthere's many ways, but it's
really that whole getting backto self and start getting out of
the matrix, because I read thisbook, the Matrix Resurrections
from that movie.
It's like really stepping out ofwhat I call more the engineered
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reality and stepping into thenatural world.
And when you step into thefrequency of the natural world,
you're automatically going tostart coding that DNA.
When you're starting to meditate, you're paying attention to the
frequencies that are going inyour body and the frequencies
are what you eat, the companyyou keep, the entertainment you
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imbibe with, the location you'rein.
So everything's energy,everything's a frequency and it
really helps to activate thesehigher parts of you, like
bringing.
Basically, activating the DNAis bringing the spirit body and
matching it with the physicalbody as like ascension.
So that's what the activatingthe DNA is and then it's just
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creating almost more pixels ofawareness.
When you have more activatedDNA, you can have a higher
perspective of what's going onin the world and being.
You know, as Jesus said, beingin the world, but not of it,
yeah, and really being able tosee things from a more godly
view, unconditional love, andit's just bringing that heart
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back online.
So there's many ways to do it,but it's realizing what your
environment is, what you'reallowing in every day to dictate
what your reality is.
You have the power to changeyour reality by what you
interface with and each singlechoice you make every day, every
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minute.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Of which there are thousands of those choices
Thousands, thousands, right.
So you mentioned the wordmatrix.
You also had down somethingabout organic matrix versus
inorganic.
I might not even be gettingthat correct, but I was like, oh
, I saw the word organic writtenand I was like, oh, that's also
interesting.
I've never even, I've nevereven heard of any of this.
(24:30):
So talk to me about organic.
I love it, but I'm so excited tolearn.
Talk to me about navigatingorganic versus inorganic matrix.
I want to say it's reality, butI might be getting that wrong.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
Yeah, and I think we are energetic beings and there's
many spiritual scientists thathave talked about.
We're in a hologram, whereenergy, you know, kind of
interacting with energy and ourown like VR glasses.
So the ego you've heard the egoand the higher self, like
Eckhart Tolle really talks aboutthe ego.
The ego is a part of the selfthat interacts with the
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inorganic matrix.
The programs they're almostlike you're a program and you've
identified with an identity.
Let's say your identity is ateacher or a vegan or a mother,
or, you know, you connected to aHollywood star.
So you're connecting yourenergy to a program and you're
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kind of at the mercy of all ofwhat that means, like if I'm a
vegan, I need to do this andthis and this.
If I'm a hippie, I need to actlike this and this and this.
But you're just buying into that, almost like a program and a
video game, and the idea isthat's not who you really are.
So you're trying to tap into anidentity to fit into this
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society we're in, but in realityyour spiritual self's trying to
whisper to you we're more thanthat.
We're more than that.
You don't have to be one ofthese things.
You can just be your authenticself and you really do have to
navigate more of the organicmatrix which is connecting into
the heart.
You know, bringing in thefrequencies of the healthy food.
(26:11):
You know, the betterenvironment, the media, that's
not going to bring you down,it's all about frequency.
And it's that David Hawkinstalks about the level of
consciousness, so are youfamiliar with that or do you
think you're readers?
Speaker 2 (26:24):
I am, but why don't you talk about what that is?
Because just because I know itdoesn't mean that anybody else
does no.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Yeah, so this was really instrumental for me to
understand consciousness.
So Dr David Hawkins is apsychiatrist who's passed on the
last few years but he's writtenmany books.
One Power Vers versus force,but he goes into the, you know,
through muscle testing.
And muscle testing really islike your body, through your
muscles, will either go strongor weak.
(26:50):
When a substance or a thoughtcomes to mind, like artificial
sweetener, everybody goes weak.
You know, healthy, organic food, people go strong.
So your muscles are actuallygiving you the answers to
whether this is good for you ornot.
So he, through muscle testing,came up with these levels of
(27:10):
consciousness and the lowestlevel is shame and it's at 20.
And there's a scale from 20 to1,000.
1,000 being Buddha, jesus,people who are the avatars here
who figured it out right, yeah,and so we're all resonating
somewhere on that scale.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Between 20 and a thousand.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
That's a big range it is a big range and anything
under 200 is anti-life.
So you are not progressingforward or any.
You know you're not moving in ahealthy way if your base
frequency is under 200.
And there you have guilt, shame, anger, fear, and most people
(27:49):
start out that way.
I started out that way and thenyou slowly, through building
your consciousness and makingyour choices and meditate, you
know you start realizing thatyou need to get into the heart
and it's really about love, andyou're getting yourself to
actually vibrate faster intothese higher frequencies.
So the lower frequencies areslow moving, dense waves, the
(28:11):
red spectrum, and you're thengetting up to ultra, you know
ultraviolet and I don't know ifthat makes any sense.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
Yeah, joe Dispenza talks about those, those waves,
whatever they're called.
I'm not a scientist, I can'tremember, but he talks about
those waves and being able toread your brain and see how your
brain is reacting at thosehigher waves, which happens when
you get into a deeper form ofmeditation.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
Yes, yes, yeah.
Which is fascinating and that'swhat I've realized so light to
me is not about accumulatingmaterial wealth or status, or
being president of this orbuilding relationships.
It's about raising yourvibration.
That's the name of my nonprofit.
Is Raising the Vibe.
I believe it's everything.
(28:52):
Raising your vibration is thekey to health, wealth and
happiness.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
Yeah, sure, and people don't understand that
that's even a.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
Thing.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Yeah, of course not.
Right, they have no idea.
No, and I'm a pretty spiritualperson and I read a lot, but
some of the stuff that was sentto me about you, I was like I
don't even know what this isLike.
Wow, this is so cool and youclearly are a student of this
subject.
How do you decide what to learn?
Speaker 1 (29:31):
Just whatever comes in.
I mean, it's just like,whatever I'm attracted, how do
you decide what to learn?
Like I felt at the base levelunworthy or whatever, and then
if I can have some sort ofconnection with them, and then
they needed the help.
So it was just this rescue orvictim thing, you know, and
(29:51):
getting out of the whole pyramidof the rescue or victim
perpetrator, you know, and it'sjust like get out of that whole
system because nobody's healthyand they were.
Then it took me like five yearsto kind of unwind their energy
from my field, Cause I realizedI need to.
They're adults now, you know, Ineed to do me now and I've got
to help them become moreindependent.
So starting there, but and thenyou just whatever's coming in
(30:14):
and let people recommend things.
So I just listened to what'scoming in in my field and and
just love the science part.
I guess I have that kind anantenna for that.
So I think DNA is almost likeyour antennas to the world, Like
what you have, the universalfield right, and your DNA is
kind of like what you're tuninginto.
So it's like radio stations tome, so you can tune into the
(30:37):
lower frequency and be in shameand guilt and you can start
blaming other people.
Or you can just start byraising your vibration, slowly
tuning in to these otherstations that are all here right
now.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Right, you don't have to create them, you just have
to tune into them.
It's a beautiful analogybecause it makes it really easy
for people to understand and tovisualize.
Oh, wow, it's more.
If you're just shifting yourvibration, shifting your focus,
I would say also right, shiftingwhat you are paying attention
to within your, even within yourday or within your hour, then
(31:13):
you can attract different thingsand have new things come in,
excellent.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Well, the biggest thing I did was turn off the
news six years ago.
Brilliant, smartest idea ever.
I don't watch any news.
Speaker 2 (31:26):
You don't need to.
Someone else will tell you.
Someone will tell you ifthere's something going on and
it's not true.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
anyway, you'll know.
Speaker 2 (31:34):
Someone will tell you if something earth shattering
or world shattering happens.
You will not be out of the know, Right?
Because?
Speaker 1 (31:41):
that news is inherently fear based and you,
if you are tuning into that, youare going to be tuning into
that fear base, which is likethe level of 100.
So you get to choose every daywhere you put your intention and
attention.
That is the key to life, yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
So what does a day look like for you then?
Speaker 1 (32:03):
Yeah, so I'm blessed to be on my own up on a mountain
, and not everybody has that atthis point in their life.
But I wake up and I'm all aboutintentions and I intend to let
my higher self lead the way.
You know, and I make sure thatthat is clear.
I have an altar and I do sometransformational work, but I'm
(32:24):
always doing that.
I've listened to a meditation.
I get on, you know, eat somebreakfast, and then I journal
for five to 10 minutes justwhatever's coming out, and then,
you know, we'll do either somespiritual, like courses that
I've, you know, subscribed to,or I'll do work on my business.
(32:45):
Or, you know, connect with myfamily, get outside I'm blessed
to be, you know, on a mountain,and I would get out and walk up
the hills.
Or do I loved yoga as well.
I'm getting back into doingyoga.
So I have a blessed life thatI'm able to focus.
I've gotten to a point, at thisage too, that I'm able to focus
on my physical health and myspiritual health, because and
(33:09):
then my business is there aswell that it's just really all
about balance.
Health is about balancing mind,body and spirit.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
Yeah, yeah, well, and I can feel your energy.
You feel incredibly calm.
It's like, oh, I want to go toyour mountain.
Jeez, you know, you have thisincredible calm about you.
What happens, I mean lifehappens right, and everyone
can't live in a state of highenergy calm, you know, unless
you're a monk and you don'tinteract, you just sit there.
(33:36):
So what happens when somethingtough comes up?
Because it just does?
That's just life.
We have difficult times.
How do you tap into yourknowledge and your skills and
what you do to help you get backto the energy that I feel today
?
Speaker 1 (33:52):
Yes, good question, because it definitely happens,
especially in relationship to mychildren, more than anything,
cause they go through it and I,you know, as an empathetic being
, like we all are, just feeltheir pain, right, and so
oftentimes I like I have to getoff the phone with my children
and I'm just going to have tosit there and I'm going to allow
myself to feel it wherever itis.
(34:13):
I say, okay, my heart is veryconstricted right now and I'm
going to breathe into that andthen I'm just going to allow
that to speak and ask if there'sanything it needs to say and
just be with that, be with thepain, be with the frustration,
be with the heartache, andusually it will pass within a
(34:35):
minute or two if you allow it.
But what the problem is?
People's repressing this, theydistract themselves, they don't
allow it to be and they don'tallow it to move out of their
light body.
Speaker 2 (34:45):
Sure, of course, they just move on to another task
without ever dealing oracknowledging or feeling that
emotion, because we become asociety that doesn't want to
feel.
We only want to feel the good,we don't want to feel the bad.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
The keys to feeling.
We have all thesepharmaceutical medications that
are getting you not to feelanything.
So you never get it out of yourbody.
It's just repress request andit shows up in your subconscious
and your subconscious runs yourworld.
So it's just really allowingyourself to feel it and I think
this is maybe this is inBuddha's statement, but this too
(35:17):
shall pass.
Like I just know that, hey, Ifeel like this right now, but
it's not always going to be likethis.
It will pass and then prettysoon.
You know, I can listen to musicalways helps me as well.
Or getting outside.
Getting outside in nature is akey to getting into that organic
matrix, because nature is theorganic, the inorganic is these
(35:38):
frequencies, the 5G.
You know the living in a city.
It's really hard because youhave a lot of static chaos,
energy from the city and all theelectronics and the EMS Right.
So that's kind of the kind of alittle bit with the organic and
inorganic.
But getting in nature canreally help just reset you as
well.
Speaker 2 (35:57):
Of course, I always find my best business ideas come
to me when I go out and go fora walk outside or something
about just removing myself fromthe environment and just
focusing on the nature around meand going for a walk, and it's
amazing how I solve so manybusiness challenges when I walk.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
It's unbelievable.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
It's cool.
And it's cool when it happensand you realize it, and then
you're like okay, wait, I needto go do that again.
Let's go do that again andlet's see what else comes up
about what I should be doing.
Like, all my brilliant ideascome when I'm walking.
Speaker 1 (36:29):
Yeah, I was on the walk when it hit me about oh,
this is not the reality, I knowis there's more to it and it was
on a walk with the dog and it'sjust popped in.
But the other thing I loveabout the law, you know, we're
creating our own realities,right?
It's so interesting that I gotconnected to you.
I'm spending a lot of my timeright now creating.
I'm building a house.
(36:49):
So I'm designing, you know,designed it.
It's the foundations being putin this week and I'm looking at
all of these.
You know vanities and kitchenideas, and it's just like
interior design has just been ajoy and a passion for me for
these last few months.
So of course, I'm going toattract you to do this podcast,
(37:10):
because my joy is going intobuilding my house and everything
on the outside is a reflectionof the inside, as you know.
So it's like almost like I'mgetting to build my own
spiritual house, my own place,my sanctuary to be me, where I'm
not overgiving and just doingfor everybody else and that was
my life's path is doing forevery thing else, and then
(37:31):
coming back to know I've got tohave good boundaries and
self-love is the biggest lessonI think I've learned and
martyrdom is not a form of love.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
No, oh, no, no.
And that's so beautiful because, honestly, it's so creative
designing your home and reallythinking and making conscious
decisions about the differentthings that will be in your home
, and the materials and thecolors and the textures, and
even the size and scope.
How high are the ceilings?
(38:01):
Does that make you feel open ordoes it make it feel like
you're floating and you don'tfeel grounded?
And everyone is different.
Everyone has a differentviewpoint.
Some people love a 12 footceiling and other people are
like, oh my goodness, I feellike this little minion peanut
running around the room becausethe ceilings are so high and
it's different for everyone, andI love to help people.
(38:21):
It's just like you'reexperiencing it.
Connect to what that energy isfor them because, it is unique
for everyone and the more intune people in general everyone
can become in terms of theirenvironment and their own energy
and what they're putting outand recognizing what's around
them Like, is that giving backwhat you want me to be putting
out and just?
(38:42):
having a conscious awareness ofthat instead of just going
through the motions.
I think is is so powerful.
Oh, so I love that.
So would you mind talking to me?
Who is your ideal client tocome and work with you for your
sessions?
And you do a lot of things.
You also have a course.
I want to talk about that too.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
I think the people that probably would be most
beneficial to work with me,who've had similar lives.
People who are in the middle ofmaking a big life change and
maybe too scared to do it.
People who are in a marriagethat doesn't seem to fit anymore
and talking about what thatlooks like to be independent.
People who are in a marriagethat doesn't seem to fit anymore
and the current you knowtalking about what that looks
like to be independent.
People who have neurodiversechildren.
(39:19):
I've done that and understandwhat it's like to navigate this
world with these very sensitive,god-like beings who don't
necessarily fit into the systemshere.
Speaker 2 (39:29):
Also, do anybody who's really also looking for
what is their higher purpose,and the Gene Keys are a
wonderful tool to reallyunderstand who they are and what
they're here to do in life Well, and I always say I work with a
business coach and he alwayssays your best position to serve
the person that you once werehelps guide us into, in our
(39:57):
entrepreneurial journeys, whoour ideal target audience is.
Because we have empathy andunderstanding for where someone
is in their journey Everybody'sjourney is unique and their
story is unique, but having adegree of empathy and
understanding for where they arein that journey, I think is
important and can really provideus the ability to really help
people.
Yes, couldn't agree more, sotalk to me about your course.
Speaker 1 (40:18):
Yes.
So this is for those people whoare serious about their
spiritual journeys.
I would say it's somebody whohas awakened to a certain level
to understand kind of the natureof reality a little bit.
They that that are open toletting go of everything they
think they know and opening upto maybe a whole new way of
(40:39):
looking at things.
We talk a lot about the scienceand spirituality part of this
world and realities.
It's the nature of our reality,the holographic universe.
We talk about the miraculoushuman body.
We get into more of that DNA,that non-coding DNA and how DNA
works.
And it's not just the way thescientists here talk about it.
(41:01):
Talk about the ego versus thedivine self and navigating the
organic versus inorganic.
And we use movies like it's allout there in our movies, really
Like the Truman Show, theMatrix movies, you know, and
Free Guy I don't know if you'veseen any of these, but you see
these characters that are kindof stuck in a reality and you
see how they navigate.
(41:22):
Like the Truman Show, he ends upgetting in the boat, dealing
with his biggest fears, crossingthe water and then ascending up
the ladder.
So that's just a beautifulexample of what we're trying to
do here.
So we use these kind ofanalogies in the course to help
people understand and make itreal.
And then ascension tools.
You know, some of the ascensiontools are really the physical
(41:43):
detox of the body that you knowI got to later.
It was really more into themental and the scientific and
then it took me a while toreally get down to.
Oh my gosh, I really got todeal with the physical body and
the body is the temple forascension.
So dealing with parasitecleanses, what you eat, you know
, all the supplements that youneed.
(42:04):
I mean, there's so many levelsto ascension.
So we kind of talk about thephysical, mental, spiritual ways
and it's about choice points.
It's in all the differentthings to help you actually move
from the inorganic ego to thedivine self, navigating your
beautiful organic reality.
That's here.
It's just a different stationand we help people tune into the
(42:25):
different station that's outthere, ready to be embodied.
Speaker 2 (42:30):
Yes, well, and I love you kind of touched a little
bit by talking about it, butit's a holistic experience.
It's mind, body, spirit.
You've mentioned that multipletimes when we've spoken, and so
it isn't just about focusing onyour spirituality.
It's also focusing on how areyou taking care of your body and
how are you taking care of yourmind.
Are you challenging your mind?
Are you reading, are yougrowing?
(42:50):
Are you having new experiences?
Are the people around youhelping you to grow your mind,
body and spirit?
And it's very holistic.
Everything, like everyspecialty, like you and what you
do.
It's not just one thing.
It's coming to the table with adesire to embrace all of you
and all facets of you, to reallyhelp yourself find your purpose
(43:14):
, your passion, your calling andyour best life.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
Perfectly said yes, thank you?
Speaker 2 (43:19):
Yeah, oh, I love it, okay.
So, before we go, two thingsfor you.
Is there anything I didn't askyou that you want to make sure
we communicate to the audience?
Speaker 1 (43:28):
I guess the one thing is one we have to know that we
are sovereign beings and that wedo co-create a reality and when
we're in victim mode we have nopower.
So it's really making sure thatyou're not being a victim to
what is going on in the outsideand that you own your place in
it and you can create your ownreality bubble in it.
(43:50):
The other thing is knowing thatbalance is really the key to
ascension and it's balancingyour right and left brain and
your masculine and feminineenergies.
It's really making sure thatthe doing is balanced by the
being, and some people are morenaturally into the being and
some people are more naturallyinto the doing.
But really try to pay attentionto the way you live your life
(44:15):
and coming into more balancebetween your masculine and
feminine energies, becauseeverybody has both and the key
is to balance them to createwholeness.
Speaker 2 (44:24):
Yeah, and that's such an important reminder.
I know for myself personallythere are times where I'm like,
oh my goodness, there's justthere's too much masculine
energy, there's just too much do, do, do and I, I need to spend
a little time and some calm.
And then other times I'm in thecalm and I'm like, okay, you
are not being productive enough,like I get to it, start doing
the stuff that you're avoidingdoing and get on with it here.
(44:47):
So it's such a beautifulreminder.
Thank you so much.
So you've mentioned a wholebunch of books which are so
fantastic and I'm going to putthem all in the show notes.
But are there any other?
Could be one, could be two,whatever books that you would
recommend our listeners read.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
The Journey of Souls.
I think some of your otherpeople might have said that.
Is he an?
Speaker 2 (45:09):
Eckhart, that's an Eckhart Tolle book right?
Speaker 1 (45:11):
No, I think it's Michael Singer.
Oh, yes, right.
Or totally book, right, no, Ithink it's Michael Singer.
Oh, yes, right, no, I'm not sureJourney of Souls might even be
somebody else.
And then Michael Singer is thesurrender experiment, and if the
people who are really into thedoing when he just surrendered
and let life come to him, thatwas powerful.
I have a whole curated list bytopic, like First Awakening
Science and Spirituality ChannelMessages.
(45:32):
I've got hundreds of books thatI actually personally read that
are on Raising the Vibe andthey're under resources, under
book recommendations.
I also have movierecommendations.
So Raisingthevibeorg.
And then I have my personalwebsite is RebeccaParriscom, and
that's where all of you knowyou can learn about my course,
my coaching, anything I do.
(45:54):
I have a bunch of blogs on bothsites.
So I have both sites.
Once, the Raising the Vibe isjust a nonprofit.
It's my gift to humanity.
It's just there to have allthese resources that I found for
people, wherever they are, tohelp them at the next step of
their journey.
And then my personal businessis RebeccaParriscom.
Speaker 2 (46:14):
Oh, which I love that Thank journey.
And then my personal businessis RebeccaParriscom.
Oh, which I love that, thankyou, and I'll put all of that in
the show notes and I thank youfor your time.
So my one comment to thelisteners right, so I met
Rebecca.
I didn't know anything abouther, really did not know much
about what she does, and I thinkit's really fascinating and I
thank you for coming on the show.
But being someone like youwhere I heard from the universe
that I was supposed to be doingsomething different, and I acted
(46:38):
on that, and so I would say toall of the listeners if you've
heard anything that Rebecca hasspoken about that piques your
interest, please listen to that.
That is the universe talking.
And whether that means you goand you hire Rebecca or you
reach out to her, you go to herwebsite, you sign up for her
course, you read a book that sherecommends, it just takes you
on a different journey.
So if any of this has piquedsome interest, I encourage you.
(47:02):
That is the universe talking toyou, so pay attention.
Thank you, rebecca.
It has truly been a pleasure tohave you on the show.
I'm excited to stay connectedwith you.
I'll put everything in the shownotes so everyone can find you.
And thank you again.
I hope you have a beautiful dayand congratulations on being so
brave to take the journey thatyou are now on, thank you.
Thank you so much for having me.
Okay, we'll talk soon.
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Thank you for joining our house.
I stopped caring what other people think.
I mean I'm sure I care at somelevel, but I mean my kids are
just astounded that I was ableto do what I did.
I walked out of the middle of abig social construct.
I was president of everythingthe garden club, the tennis
association, the children'shealthcare, of the foundation.
(00:23):
I mean I was in the middle ofthat and in COVID I walked out
of everything.
But I believe to fully start newyou actually have to make that
move and close all of the doorsso the new ones can open.
Because if you still haveenergy coming in from your past
life you know the former lifeyou had you can't really fully
(00:46):
walk into the next door.
So I really had to go into thisvoid space and it was just all
trust and I was able just totrust in life, to know that it
was all gonna be okay and forsome reason I had that in me to
do it and I just knew I had todo it and I had the courage to
do it.
I'm so glad I did.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Welcome to the House of Germar podcast, where
wellness starts within.
The House of Germar is alifestyle brand, empowering
women to live all in throughinterior design and personal
wellness.
We are a destination for womenready to reimagine what is
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We are honored to have you joinus on our mission to empower 1
(01:29):
million women to live all in.
I am your host, jean Collins,and I invite you to become
inspired by this week's guest.
Welcome to the House of Germarpodcast, where wellness starts
with it.
I'm your host, jean Collins,and today's guest is Rebecca
Paris.
So, guys, I am so excited forthis.
I just met Rebecca and we aregoing to talk about
(01:49):
consciousness.
Oh, my goodness, there's somuch to talk about.
So she has a company calledrisingthevibeorg and I can't
wait to hear about her journey.
She does so many cool things.
She offers services aboutmeditation.
We're talking about gene keys,because that I'm really
fascinated about, and a wholehost of other things, and I
personally am fascinated to findout how she got into the field
(02:12):
that she got into.
So, rebecca, welcome to theshow.
Great, thank you so much forhaving me.
Oh, it's my pleasure andsometimes I love when I have
guests on that.
I don't really know that Ihaven't interacted with before,
because I'm going to learn as myaudience is learning as well,
which is really exciting.
So let's first start off.
How did you get to where youare now?
(02:33):
What was your career journeyand your career path?
Because it's never as linear aspeople might think.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
No, I feel like I've lived probably four lives in
this life.
It started out with a verytraditional path.
I went to the University ofVirginia, studied marketing and
management, getting intoadvertising, worked on Delta
Airlines, became vice presidentof United Way in Atlanta and
then kind of did all the thingsthat you know are outlined in
(03:00):
what I call the 3D matrix thatyou do for success Got married,
had two kids.
So I was like doing it all,feeling like, okay, I've got
this life down, and then at somepoint, you know, you start
realizing that there's someemptiness and some things aren't
the way that you think they are.
And I just had an awakening,probably in 2000, I think it was
(03:23):
2017, where I just got thesedownloads from my higher self
that you know life is not justchaos, but it's just a divine
unfolding of something that'scoming up, and that the world,
the five senses that you baseyour full reality on, are just
(03:43):
the very basic ones, and it's sounlimited about what else is
going on in the world.
So that's the nutshell.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Where were you in your life stage that you were
able to recognize that theuniverse was talking to you in
this way?
Because for many people, theystruggle to understand or to tap
into when the universe isspeaking to them or know that
the universe is speaking to them.
So where were you in your lifeat that time, in your spiritual
journey, that you were able tosee that message?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
It was not too long ago I'm 59 right now and it was
probably, you know, seven yearsago and I lived a very surface,
just base reality life.
I, you know, became a portraitartist after raising my children
, so I really got into that flowof the art which I think was
important to me.
I guess the opening startedwhen, you know, I was living
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this idyllic life, but I had twochildren that really were, I
would say, multidimensional,very sensitive children, adhd,
had a hard time with school andjust that challenge opened me up
to just the pain of fitting inthe box of the school system and
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so forth.
So I was going through a lot ofpain in that regard of trying
to help my children navigatethis world.
That doesn't seem to make a lotof sense in my new view of life
.
And then I had this momentwhere I was out walking the dog,
I was talking to my daughter,who was in college, and she was
explaining something, thiscoincidence that I could tell
that couldn't be a coincidence,and it opened me up to be like
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oh, and it just opened a crackfor me to see that there's
something more.
And then I took that opening andI asked my.
I got back and I just like Ikept hearing and hadn't really
heard it in this way, before youhave a purpose.
You have a purpose Like, okay,this is like a new voice coming
in.
I'm like I have a purpose.
All right, I'm a portraitartist, I'm, you know, I'm a mom
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, what, what else?
I asked myself two questions.
One came out of like the higherversion of me, and the question
was how does energy between allthings interrelate?
And then the second question waswhat do all religions and
spirituality throughout time andculture have in common?
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So these two questions came in.
I'm like, okay.
And so I am an avid book reader.
I was a you know, head of abook club for 20 years, you know
, before book clubs were even athing.
And I read, you know, I wasreading fiction, you know, once
a month.
And so I just turned all of myattention onto really
understanding the intersectionbetween science and spirituality
(06:24):
.
Because to really understandingthe intersection between
science and spirituality,because I needed to have that
science, something logical,because I have a very logical
brain too, as well as the artistbrain, so I've got both.
But I need the science to helpme enter in the world of woo-woo
.
And that gets to my book, whichI might have to share early,
which is the Biology of Beliefby Dr Bruce Lipton, which really
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talks about how your cells arelistening to your consciousness
and how that your body ischanging based on your
consciousness.
So it opened me up to say, oh,I see how you know the world of
magic, which is really justscience.
We don't understand how thatworks.
And open to consciousness andwhat consciousness is.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
And then where did you decide?
Okay, yeah, I've learned allthis, I'm going to do this for a
living, this is going to becomemy business, I'm going to step
into being an entrepreneur andI'm going to talk about
consciousness, which many peoplehave absolutely no idea what
that is.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I know I just felt this.
Just I read probably for a year, just nonstop, and just this,
this passionate urge to knowthat I have to speak about it
because it's to me the mostimportant thing, because
conscious consciousness iseverything and you're living
this empty life otherwise anduntil you have some awareness of
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what's that we're really justspiritual beings in this human
body, that's it's the key toempowerment, it's the key to all
relationships in life.
And I just got the urge.
So I've got again.
The universe is speaking to youand it often comes through your
friends and other people.
And I got the message fromthree different people within
about two weeks is you shouldstart a book club around
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spirituality.
So it's.
Raising the Vibe started as aspiritual book club and I
started gathering the people inmy country club in Atlanta that
I knew, and I knew that some ofthem were, you know, open to
this, and then so I startedsaying I've had this awakening
experience.
They're like, oh really.
And then they told me aboutsome of the other people and we
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gathered as a group at my houseand came up with the name
Raising the Vibe and it startedas a book club for a year and we
, just we.
The first book we read wasPower Versus Force by Dr David
Hawkins, which is a great entree.
It's a little complex, but itreally talks about the scale of
consciousness which is so key tounderstand, and we can talk
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about that later if you're notfamiliar with that Right.
But anyway.
So the book club started.
A year later I went to theEckhart Tolle conference, and
he's the author of the Power ofNow, which is another incredible
book, huge book, yeah.
Yeah, about presence and thenunderstanding the ego is
separate from your divine self.
So I got the urge again.
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I'm a very action orientedperson, so when I get an idea,
I'm just I go, I go with it.
I'm a manifester in my humandesigns.
I'm like all right, yeah, nowwe're going to transition this
into a nonprofit and we're goingto have speakers and we're
going to bring more people intoit.
So this is in Atlanta and wehad speakers about all sorts of
consciousness things in a veryin a world that wasn't used to
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it.
It was just a very kind ofelite world that wasn't really
interested.
It's not like the hippiecommunity.
It was, you know, the countryclub community, exactly Southern
country club.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Yeah, yeah, right, exactly.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Southern country club .
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Yeah, yeah, right, yeah.
And you're starting to talkabout spirituality and woo and
ego.
Well, wow, yes, kudos to you.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
That started raising the vibe and then it's
transitioned now to more just aresource for a website.
Covid hit.
I ended up consciouslyuncoupling from my husband that
I was married to for 27 yearsand had the soul urge that I've
just been following thebreadcrumbs and just following
my intuition because that's theonly thing to seem to make sense
(10:15):
at this point, and I got theurge that I need to move to the
Asheville area.
So I've been here for fiveyears.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Wow, okay, that's a big move, yeah, so talk to me
about how you then moved intothe components of offering the
services that you do aroundconsciousness.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Early on I was introduced to the gene keys and
I know you said you'reinterested in it, but you don't
know anything about it.
I do not, so we have to diginto what those are.
It's an amazing transmission,but some people are familiar
with human design or the itching.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I don't know if you're familiar with that Human
design.
I'm definitely familiar with,Okay.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
So Richard Rudd is the founder of the gene keys.
He studied, he's a mystic.
He studied human design andwrote books on human design in
that world for seven years,studied with Raul, the guy who
brought that in.
Then he had this three days ofa total download of a transition
(11:19):
which really the Gene Keysstands on the shoulders of human
design and it really ties the IChing, the 64 archetypes that's
part of human design and the IChing and he adds in some
astrology as well as the DNA andhow your DNA actually codes to
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these 64 archetypes.
So, being a science geek aswell as loving the whole
intersection, I'm like, oh mygosh, this is incredible.
So you get your profile byputting in your birth date, your
birthplace, your birth time,and you get like a profile that
says here's your main key foryour life's work, here's your
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biggest challenge, here's yourradiance, like what keeps you
healthy, and here's your purpose, along with all these other
keys inside of it to help you topull your dharma and karma
together to actually create yourlife purpose and your dream.
So it gives you a blueprint ofwho you are, which I absolutely
love.
(12:24):
So that's how I got into thegene keys.
I studied it for seven years.
I became a guide four years agobecause I just really resonated
with the teachings because ofthe.
He's an expert at blending theright brain and the left brain,
which I think is so important.
That meditation piece with thelogic, because a lot of times
people are stuck in one or theother and they need both to work
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together.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Yes.
So how do you work with yourclients to get them to
understand how the gene keysrelate to them and their
behaviors and how they processlife too?
It's not just behaviors, it'salso, I feel like, how you, how
you move through life, how youprocess life.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Absolutely.
So we would start with becausethe hologenic profile is fairly
complex we would just start withthe four main keys your life's
work, your evolution, yourpurpose and your radiance and we
do a deep dive into them.
And so they'd send me theprofile and then I'd prepare.
But we really it's really aconversation and it's a
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transmission, so it's beyond areading of what I'm doing, it's
really getting them tocontemplate.
You know where in life theywere in their shadow.
So each key has there's, as youknow, there's many frequencies
in the world and Richard Ruddhas allocated him to like three
main frequencies.
One is the shadow.
That's the seed of you know,when you're kind of in the lower
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vibes, but it's really the seedof your awakening.
There's the gift frequency,when you start coming in out of
the shadow and really feelinglike you can do things in life.
And there's the sidic frequency, s-i-d-d-h-i, which is
basically you at your essence,with no interference at all.
It's like this divine, saintlytrait that you have.
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And each of these four genekeys are your genius, your
unique genius.
So we really talk about like Igo through it and I talk about
each.
You know, and there's also likea line in the I Ching about how
that relates, and we just starthaving a conversation and I'm
like, how does this?
There's either a repressive sideor a reactive side of the
shadow, and then we just startgoing into.
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I'd say what they are and I'dget them to reflect on were you
in repressive or do you still inyour shadow?
Were you in your shadow?
You know?
How have you gotten out of that?
Where do you see yourself now?
And you know, how have yougotten out of that?
Where do you see yourself now?
And all they'll just get theseepiphanies like oh, no wonder,
you know.
And it also makes people feelbetter that, to know that it's
not their fault, that they wereimprinted with this at birth,
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and so it's like this is myjourney, I'm walking and it's
you.
Don't feel so guilty abouthaving to go through some of
these negative things.
Like if you have addiction inyour gene keys, you're like, oh,
no wonder I had to go throughaddiction to get to where.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I am.
Did it help you when you wentthrough your divorce?
Because, after being married,what'd you say?
27 years, that's a long time.
It is a long time, and he's agood guy.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
I mean, I had a good life, you know, and it really
helped me because it helped metie into that.
I had a greater purpose and norelationship is more important
than the one you have with yoursoul.
And that's what got me through,because I knew he's a great guy
(15:37):
, he's a great relationship.
But I could not.
Knowing what I know about lifeand the connection to spirit, I
could not continue on withoutdoing everything I could to
fully connect to my higherrealms, my soul, and I knew that
I had a purpose to help awakenpeople in consciousness.
(15:58):
I just couldn't see people gothrough so much suffering and
not even realize thatconsciousness is a thing and
that they have actual control oftheir life.
They are not a victim of thisworld, they are a co-creator of
this world and they can besovereign.
With that knowledge, I had todo everything I can to bring
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that to the world.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
Did it feel selfish in some ways, or did people look
at you like you were beingselfish?
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Yeah, first you know I went through that.
But then I really got to apoint and it's hard to get to
but I stopped caring what otherpeople think and I'm like I love
it.
I mean I'm sure I care at somelevel, but I mean my kids are
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just astounded that I was ableto do what I did.
I walked out of the middle of abig social construct.
I was president of everythingthe garden club, the tennis
association, the children'shealth care, of the foundation.
I mean I was in the middle ofthat.
And in COVID I walked out ofeverything, of all of it.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
All of it To start, new To start new.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
But I believe to fully start new you actually
have to make that move and closeall the doors so the new ones
can open.
Because if you still haveenergy coming in from your past
life you know the former lifeyou had you can't really fully
walk into the next door.
So I really had to go into thisvoid space and it was just all
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trust and I was able just totrust in life, to know that it
was all going to be okay and forsome reason I had that in me to
do it and I just knew I had todo it and I had the courage to
do it.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
I'm so glad I did, which is beautiful, because so
many people don't have thecourage to do it and they stay
stuck and they don't move andthey out of fear of closing the
doors.
But you are so right.
I've spoken to so many peopleand also, from my own personal
experience, realized sometimesyou have to close those doors in
order for the new ones to open,in order to get closer to your
highest self and closer to yourpurpose.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
And so I commend you for walking that journey and for
being willing to share that,because I think that does
inspire people, that maybe theytoo could keep doing that.
So let's talk about energy.
How do you help your clientsfigure out the role that energy
needs to play in their life?
Speaker 1 (18:31):
Well, I think it's first realizing that your outer
reality is really a mirror ofyour inner reality and I know
with you and interior design,you know that's it's important
and you just kind of see what'sshowing up each day.
Because if you stop and look atthe little things that are
showing up each day, your higherself is guiding you all the
time.
And it's about stopping and,first of all, just pausing first
.
So in the midst of like, let'ssay, you're yelling at somebody
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and all of a sudden the genekeys advises okay, pause instead
of reacting, take a minute, soyou not just in reaction mode
that you just like are able torespond.
And then you sit back and youinquire what is going on here,
why was I so triggered by that,when there was really no need
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for that?
And then you just allow thatright brain to open up.
So that's the left brain askingthe question.
The right brain goes oh, youjust sit in silence for a minute
to just really let whateverneeds to come in come in.
And then often, with patienceand gentleness and in divine
timing, you'll start getting theanswers, to start breaking
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through these patterns that arejust neurologically wired.
You know what wires togetherfires together.
Joe Dispenza, so you're just onthis pattern, but you have to
be able to pause to break yourpattern.
So that's what I advise peopleto do and to look at their
everyday life and see what'sshowing up right now and just
contemplating what's going onand you mentioned paying
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attention.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Very often we're just busy, you know, and let's be
honest, we, especially as womenwho are working and moms and
somewhere in there there's timefor self and spouse and
everything else we're just busyand not enough people do take
that pause Right To actuallylisten to what's going on.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
I see.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
Yeah, so let's talk about meditation.
I see, I sense that you are abig fan of meditation.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
I am.
I had a hard time with it,honestly, because I'm one of
those busy people that is justconstantly needed.
I was really polarized in mymasculine energies, which is the
doing, and so I really had thatwas the thing I had to work
towards.
So, like I was in this veryactive life and then I'm pretty
much sitting on top of amountain with very little
interaction with people, so it'sforced me to sit with myself.
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So I do love guided meditations.
That's a great way to getstarted.
The music really helps and thenyou know, just sitting and it
doesn't have to be oh, I've gotto fight off these thoughts that
keep coming in.
It's really about allowing in.
Oh, it's just trying to tell mewhat's there, and so I would
just encourage people.
I love Insight Timer.
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They've got great meditations.
So, start there if you're new toit and just give yourself some
patience to get going if youhave a hard time meditating.
So I love the guided ones, butand just making it a habit each
day, starting slow, startingwith just shorter ones.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
I agree.
Couldn't agree more.
So let's talk about somethingthat's very interesting, that
was written down, aboutsomething we could talk about,
and I have no idea what thiseven means.
So activating your dormant DNA.
Oh that sounds interesting.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Okay, cool I don't even know what that is.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
So I'm going to learn , along with all the listeners
what in the world is that?
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Yes, well, I believe that humanity is divine and we
got disconnected.
So scientists call this junkDNA.
Do we think it's really junk?
No, it's a DNA that's notcoding correctly.
You know, the A, c, g, t.
You know the letters that arecoding.
So we have all this in our thatthey've determined was junk DNA
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.
It's not junk DNA, it's just,yeah, the DNA that's not coding.
And the way to do that I meanthere's many ways, but it's
really that whole getting backto self and start getting out of
the matrix, because I read thisbook, the Matrix Resurrections
from that movie.
It's like really stepping out ofwhat I call more the engineered
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reality and stepping into thenatural world.
And when you step into thefrequency of the natural world,
you're automatically going tostart coding that DNA.
When you're starting to meditate, you're paying attention to the
frequencies that are going inyour body and the frequencies
are what you eat, the companyyou keep, the entertainment you
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imbibe with, the location you'rein.
So everything's energy,everything's a frequency and it
really helps to activate thesehigher parts of you, like
bringing.
Basically, activating the DNAis bringing the spirit body and
matching it with the physicalbody as like ascension.
So that's what the activatingthe DNA is and then it's just
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creating almost more pixels ofawareness.
When you have more activatedDNA, you can have a higher
perspective of what's going onin the world and being.
You know, as Jesus said, beingin the world, but not of it,
yeah, and really being able tosee things from a more godly
view, unconditional love, andit's just bringing that heart
(23:47):
back online.
So there's many ways to do it,but it's realizing what your
environment is, what you'reallowing in every day to dictate
what your reality is.
You have the power to changeyour reality by what you
interface with and each singlechoice you make every day, every
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minute.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Of which there are thousands of those choices
Thousands, thousands, right.
So you mentioned the wordmatrix.
You also had down somethingabout organic matrix versus
inorganic.
I might not even be gettingthat correct, but I was like, oh
, I saw the word organic writtenand I was like, oh, that's also
interesting.
I've never even, I've nevereven heard of any of this.
(24:30):
So talk to me about organic.
I love it, but I'm so excited tolearn.
Talk to me about navigatingorganic versus inorganic matrix.
I want to say it's reality, butI might be getting that wrong.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
Yeah, and I think we are energetic beings and there's
many spiritual scientists thathave talked about.
We're in a hologram, whereenergy, you know, kind of
interacting with energy and ourown like VR glasses.
So the ego you've heard the egoand the higher self, like
Eckhart Tolle really talks aboutthe ego.
The ego is a part of the selfthat interacts with the
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inorganic matrix.
The programs they're almostlike you're a program and you've
identified with an identity.
Let's say your identity is ateacher or a vegan or a mother,
or, you know, you connected to aHollywood star.
So you're connecting yourenergy to a program and you're
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kind of at the mercy of all ofwhat that means, like if I'm a
vegan, I need to do this andthis and this.
If I'm a hippie, I need to actlike this and this and this.
But you're just buying into that, almost like a program and a
video game, and the idea isthat's not who you really are.
So you're trying to tap into anidentity to fit into this
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society we're in, but in realityyour spiritual self's trying to
whisper to you we're more thanthat.
We're more than that.
You don't have to be one ofthese things.
You can just be your authenticself and you really do have to
navigate more of the organicmatrix which is connecting into
the heart.
You know, bringing in thefrequencies of the healthy food.
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You know, the betterenvironment, the media, that's
not going to bring you down,it's all about frequency.
And it's that David Hawkinstalks about the level of
consciousness, so are youfamiliar with that or do you
think you're readers?
Speaker 2 (26:24):
I am, but why don't you talk about what that is?
Because just because I know itdoesn't mean that anybody else
does no.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Yeah, so this was really instrumental for me to
understand consciousness.
So Dr David Hawkins is apsychiatrist who's passed on the
last few years but he's writtenmany books.
One Power Vers versus force,but he goes into the, you know,
through muscle testing.
And muscle testing really islike your body, through your
muscles, will either go strongor weak.
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When a substance or a thoughtcomes to mind, like artificial
sweetener, everybody goes weak.
You know, healthy, organic food, people go strong.
So your muscles are actuallygiving you the answers to
whether this is good for you ornot.
So he, through muscle testing,came up with these levels of
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consciousness and the lowestlevel is shame and it's at 20.
And there's a scale from 20 to1,000.
1,000 being Buddha, jesus,people who are the avatars here
who figured it out right, yeah,and so we're all resonating
somewhere on that scale.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Between 20 and a thousand.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
That's a big range it is a big range and anything
under 200 is anti-life.
So you are not progressingforward or any.
You know you're not moving in ahealthy way if your base
frequency is under 200.
And there you have guilt, shame, anger, fear, and most people
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start out that way.
I started out that way and thenyou slowly, through building
your consciousness and makingyour choices and meditate, you
know you start realizing thatyou need to get into the heart
and it's really about love, andyou're getting yourself to
actually vibrate faster intothese higher frequencies.
So the lower frequencies areslow moving, dense waves, the
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red spectrum, and you're thengetting up to ultra, you know
ultraviolet and I don't know ifthat makes any sense.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
Yeah, joe Dispenza talks about those, those waves,
whatever they're called.
I'm not a scientist, I can'tremember, but he talks about
those waves and being able toread your brain and see how your
brain is reacting at thosehigher waves, which happens when
you get into a deeper form ofmeditation.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
Yes, yes, yeah.
Which is fascinating and that'swhat I've realized so light to
me is not about accumulatingmaterial wealth or status, or
being president of this orbuilding relationships.
It's about raising yourvibration.
That's the name of my nonprofit.
Is Raising the Vibe.
I believe it's everything.
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Raising your vibration is thekey to health, wealth and
happiness.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
Yeah, sure, and people don't understand that
that's even a.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
Thing.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Yeah, of course not.
Right, they have no idea.
No, and I'm a pretty spiritualperson and I read a lot, but
some of the stuff that was sentto me about you, I was like I
don't even know what this isLike.
Wow, this is so cool and youclearly are a student of this
subject.
How do you decide what to learn?
Speaker 1 (29:31):
Just whatever comes in.
I mean, it's just like,whatever I'm attracted, how do
you decide what to learn?
Like I felt at the base levelunworthy or whatever, and then
if I can have some sort ofconnection with them, and then
they needed the help.
So it was just this rescue orvictim thing, you know, and
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getting out of the whole pyramidof the rescue or victim
perpetrator, you know, and it'sjust like get out of that whole
system because nobody's healthyand they were.
Then it took me like five yearsto kind of unwind their energy
from my field, Cause I realizedI need to.
They're adults now, you know, Ineed to do me now and I've got
to help them become moreindependent.
So starting there, but and thenyou just whatever's coming in
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and let people recommend things.
So I just listened to what'scoming in in my field and and
just love the science part.
I guess I have that kind anantenna for that.
So I think DNA is almost likeyour antennas to the world, Like
what you have, the universalfield right, and your DNA is
kind of like what you're tuninginto.
So it's like radio stations tome, so you can tune into the
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lower frequency and be in shameand guilt and you can start
blaming other people.
Or you can just start byraising your vibration, slowly
tuning in to these otherstations that are all here right
now.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Right, you don't have to create them, you just have
to tune into them.
It's a beautiful analogybecause it makes it really easy
for people to understand and tovisualize.
Oh, wow, it's more.
If you're just shifting yourvibration, shifting your focus,
I would say also right, shiftingwhat you are paying attention
to within your, even within yourday or within your hour, then
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you can attract different thingsand have new things come in,
excellent.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Well, the biggest thing I did was turn off the
news six years ago.
Brilliant, smartest idea ever.
I don't watch any news.
Speaker 2 (31:26):
You don't need to.
Someone else will tell you.
Someone will tell you ifthere's something going on and
it's not true.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
anyway, you'll know.
Speaker 2 (31:34):
Someone will tell you if something earth shattering
or world shattering happens.
You will not be out of the know, Right?
Because?
Speaker 1 (31:41):
that news is inherently fear based and you,
if you are tuning into that, youare going to be tuning into
that fear base, which is likethe level of 100.
So you get to choose every daywhere you put your intention and
attention.
That is the key to life, yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
So what does a day look like for you then?
Speaker 1 (32:03):
Yeah, so I'm blessed to be on my own up on a mountain
, and not everybody has that atthis point in their life.
But I wake up and I'm all aboutintentions and I intend to let
my higher self lead the way.
You know, and I make sure thatthat is clear.
I have an altar and I do sometransformational work, but I'm
(32:24):
always doing that.
I've listened to a meditation.
I get on, you know, eat somebreakfast, and then I journal
for five to 10 minutes justwhatever's coming out, and then,
you know, we'll do either somespiritual, like courses that
I've, you know, subscribed to,or I'll do work on my business.
(32:45):
Or, you know, connect with myfamily, get outside I'm blessed
to be, you know, on a mountain,and I would get out and walk up
the hills.
Or do I loved yoga as well.
I'm getting back into doingyoga.
So I have a blessed life thatI'm able to focus.
I've gotten to a point, at thisage too, that I'm able to focus
on my physical health and myspiritual health, because and
(33:09):
then my business is there aswell that it's just really all
about balance.
Health is about balancing mind,body and spirit.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
Yeah, yeah, well, and I can feel your energy.
You feel incredibly calm.
It's like, oh, I want to go toyour mountain.
Jeez, you know, you have thisincredible calm about you.
What happens, I mean lifehappens right, and everyone
can't live in a state of highenergy calm, you know, unless
you're a monk and you don'tinteract, you just sit there.
(33:36):
So what happens when somethingtough comes up?
Because it just does?
That's just life.
We have difficult times.
How do you tap into yourknowledge and your skills and
what you do to help you get backto the energy that I feel today
?
Speaker 1 (33:52):
Yes, good question, because it definitely happens,
especially in relationship to mychildren, more than anything,
cause they go through it and I,you know, as an empathetic being
, like we all are, just feeltheir pain, right, and so
oftentimes I like I have to getoff the phone with my children
and I'm just going to have tosit there and I'm going to allow
myself to feel it wherever itis.
(34:13):
I say, okay, my heart is veryconstricted right now and I'm
going to breathe into that andthen I'm just going to allow
that to speak and ask if there'sanything it needs to say and
just be with that, be with thepain, be with the frustration,
be with the heartache, andusually it will pass within a
(34:35):
minute or two if you allow it.
But what the problem is?
People's repressing this, theydistract themselves, they don't
allow it to be and they don'tallow it to move out of their
light body.
Speaker 2 (34:45):
Sure, of course, they just move on to another task
without ever dealing oracknowledging or feeling that
emotion, because we become asociety that doesn't want to
feel.
We only want to feel the good,we don't want to feel the bad.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
The keys to feeling.
We have all thesepharmaceutical medications that
are getting you not to feelanything.
So you never get it out of yourbody.
It's just repress request andit shows up in your subconscious
and your subconscious runs yourworld.
So it's just really allowingyourself to feel it and I think
this is maybe this is inBuddha's statement, but this too
(35:17):
shall pass.
Like I just know that, hey, Ifeel like this right now, but
it's not always going to be likethis.
It will pass and then prettysoon.
You know, I can listen to musicalways helps me as well.
Or getting outside.
Getting outside in nature is akey to getting into that organic
matrix, because nature is theorganic, the inorganic is these
(35:38):
frequencies, the 5G.
You know the living in a city.
It's really hard because youhave a lot of static chaos,
energy from the city and all theelectronics and the EMS Right.
So that's kind of the kind of alittle bit with the organic and
inorganic.
But getting in nature canreally help just reset you as
well.
Speaker 2 (35:57):
Of course, I always find my best business ideas come
to me when I go out and go fora walk outside or something
about just removing myself fromthe environment and just
focusing on the nature around meand going for a walk, and it's
amazing how I solve so manybusiness challenges when I walk.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
It's unbelievable.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
It's cool.
And it's cool when it happensand you realize it, and then
you're like okay, wait, I needto go do that again.
Let's go do that again andlet's see what else comes up
about what I should be doing.
Like, all my brilliant ideascome when I'm walking.
Speaker 1 (36:29):
Yeah, I was on the walk when it hit me about oh,
this is not the reality, I knowis there's more to it and it was
on a walk with the dog and it'sjust popped in.
But the other thing I loveabout the law, you know, we're
creating our own realities,right?
It's so interesting that I gotconnected to you.
I'm spending a lot of my timeright now creating.
I'm building a house.
(36:49):
So I'm designing, you know,designed it.
It's the foundations being putin this week and I'm looking at
all of these.
You know vanities and kitchenideas, and it's just like
interior design has just been ajoy and a passion for me for
these last few months.
So of course, I'm going toattract you to do this podcast,
(37:10):
because my joy is going intobuilding my house and everything
on the outside is a reflectionof the inside, as you know.
So it's like almost like I'mgetting to build my own
spiritual house, my own place,my sanctuary to be me, where I'm
not overgiving and just doingfor everybody else and that was
my life's path is doing forevery thing else, and then
(37:31):
coming back to know I've got tohave good boundaries and
self-love is the biggest lessonI think I've learned and
martyrdom is not a form of love.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
No, oh, no, no.
And that's so beautiful because, honestly, it's so creative
designing your home and reallythinking and making conscious
decisions about the differentthings that will be in your home
, and the materials and thecolors and the textures, and
even the size and scope.
How high are the ceilings?
(38:01):
Does that make you feel open ordoes it make it feel like
you're floating and you don'tfeel grounded?
And everyone is different.
Everyone has a differentviewpoint.
Some people love a 12 footceiling and other people are
like, oh my goodness, I feellike this little minion peanut
running around the room becausethe ceilings are so high and
it's different for everyone, andI love to help people.
(38:21):
It's just like you'reexperiencing it.
Connect to what that energy isfor them because, it is unique
for everyone and the more intune people in general everyone
can become in terms of theirenvironment and their own energy
and what they're putting outand recognizing what's around
them Like, is that giving backwhat you want me to be putting
out and just?
(38:42):
having a conscious awareness ofthat instead of just going
through the motions.
I think is is so powerful.
Oh, so I love that.
So would you mind talking to me?
Who is your ideal client tocome and work with you for your
sessions?
And you do a lot of things.
You also have a course.
I want to talk about that too.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
I think the people that probably would be most
beneficial to work with me,who've had similar lives.
People who are in the middle ofmaking a big life change and
maybe too scared to do it.
People who are in a marriagethat doesn't seem to fit anymore
and talking about what thatlooks like to be independent.
People who are in a marriagethat doesn't seem to fit anymore
and the current you knowtalking about what that looks
like to be independent.
People who have neurodiversechildren.
(39:19):
I've done that and understandwhat it's like to navigate this
world with these very sensitive,god-like beings who don't
necessarily fit into the systemshere.
Speaker 2 (39:29):
Also, do anybody who's really also looking for
what is their higher purpose,and the Gene Keys are a
wonderful tool to reallyunderstand who they are and what
they're here to do in life Well, and I always say I work with a
business coach and he alwayssays your best position to serve
the person that you once werehelps guide us into, in our
(39:57):
entrepreneurial journeys, whoour ideal target audience is.
Because we have empathy andunderstanding for where someone
is in their journey Everybody'sjourney is unique and their
story is unique, but having adegree of empathy and
understanding for where they arein that journey, I think is
important and can really provideus the ability to really help
people.
Yes, couldn't agree more, sotalk to me about your course.
Speaker 1 (40:18):
Yes.
So this is for those people whoare serious about their
spiritual journeys.
I would say it's somebody whohas awakened to a certain level
to understand kind of the natureof reality a little bit.
They that that are open toletting go of everything they
think they know and opening upto maybe a whole new way of
(40:39):
looking at things.
We talk a lot about the scienceand spirituality part of this
world and realities.
It's the nature of our reality,the holographic universe.
We talk about the miraculoushuman body.
We get into more of that DNA,that non-coding DNA and how DNA
works.
And it's not just the way thescientists here talk about it.
(41:01):
Talk about the ego versus thedivine self and navigating the
organic versus inorganic.
And we use movies like it's allout there in our movies, really
Like the Truman Show, theMatrix movies, you know, and
Free Guy I don't know if you'veseen any of these, but you see
these characters that are kindof stuck in a reality and you
see how they navigate.
(41:22):
Like the Truman Show, he ends upgetting in the boat, dealing
with his biggest fears, crossingthe water and then ascending up
the ladder.
So that's just a beautifulexample of what we're trying to
do here.
So we use these kind ofanalogies in the course to help
people understand and make itreal.
And then ascension tools.
You know, some of the ascensiontools are really the physical
(41:43):
detox of the body that you knowI got to later.
It was really more into themental and the scientific and
then it took me a while toreally get down to.
Oh my gosh, I really got todeal with the physical body and
the body is the temple forascension.
So dealing with parasitecleanses, what you eat, you know
, all the supplements that youneed.
(42:04):
I mean, there's so many levelsto ascension.
So we kind of talk about thephysical, mental, spiritual ways
and it's about choice points.
It's in all the differentthings to help you actually move
from the inorganic ego to thedivine self, navigating your
beautiful organic reality.
That's here.
It's just a different stationand we help people tune into the
(42:25):
different station that's outthere, ready to be embodied.
Speaker 2 (42:30):
Yes, well, and I love you kind of touched a little
bit by talking about it, butit's a holistic experience.
It's mind, body, spirit.
You've mentioned that multipletimes when we've spoken, and so
it isn't just about focusing onyour spirituality.
It's also focusing on how areyou taking care of your body and
how are you taking care of yourmind.
Are you challenging your mind?
Are you reading, are yougrowing?
(42:50):
Are you having new experiences?
Are the people around youhelping you to grow your mind,
body and spirit?
And it's very holistic.
Everything, like everyspecialty, like you and what you
do.
It's not just one thing.
It's coming to the table with adesire to embrace all of you
and all facets of you, to reallyhelp yourself find your purpose
(43:14):
, your passion, your calling andyour best life.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
Perfectly said yes, thank you?
Speaker 2 (43:19):
Yeah, oh, I love it, okay.
So, before we go, two thingsfor you.
Is there anything I didn't askyou that you want to make sure
we communicate to the audience?
Speaker 1 (43:28):
I guess the one thing is one we have to know that we
are sovereign beings and that wedo co-create a reality and when
we're in victim mode we have nopower.
So it's really making sure thatyou're not being a victim to
what is going on in the outsideand that you own your place in
it and you can create your ownreality bubble in it.
(43:50):
The other thing is knowing thatbalance is really the key to
ascension and it's balancingyour right and left brain and
your masculine and feminineenergies.
It's really making sure thatthe doing is balanced by the
being, and some people are morenaturally into the being and
some people are more naturallyinto the doing.
But really try to pay attentionto the way you live your life
(44:15):
and coming into more balancebetween your masculine and
feminine energies, becauseeverybody has both and the key
is to balance them to createwholeness.
Speaker 2 (44:24):
Yeah, and that's such an important reminder.
I know for myself personallythere are times where I'm like,
oh my goodness, there's justthere's too much masculine
energy, there's just too much do, do, do and I, I need to spend
a little time and some calm.
And then other times I'm in thecalm and I'm like, okay, you
are not being productive enough,like I get to it, start doing
the stuff that you're avoidingdoing and get on with it here.
(44:47):
So it's such a beautifulreminder.
Thank you so much.
So you've mentioned a wholebunch of books which are so
fantastic and I'm going to putthem all in the show notes.
But are there any other?
Could be one, could be two,whatever books that you would
recommend our listeners read.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
The Journey of Souls.
I think some of your otherpeople might have said that.
Is he an?
Speaker 2 (45:09):
Eckhart, that's an Eckhart Tolle book right?
Speaker 1 (45:11):
No, I think it's Michael Singer.
Oh, yes, right.
Or totally book, right, no, Ithink it's Michael Singer.
Oh, yes, right, no, I'm not sureJourney of Souls might even be
somebody else.
And then Michael Singer is thesurrender experiment, and if the
people who are really into thedoing when he just surrendered
and let life come to him, thatwas powerful.
I have a whole curated list bytopic, like First Awakening
Science and Spirituality ChannelMessages.
(45:32):
I've got hundreds of books thatI actually personally read that
are on Raising the Vibe andthey're under resources, under
book recommendations.
I also have movierecommendations.
So Raisingthevibeorg.
And then I have my personalwebsite is RebeccaParriscom, and
that's where all of you knowyou can learn about my course,
my coaching, anything I do.
(45:54):
I have a bunch of blogs on bothsites.
So I have both sites.
Once, the Raising the Vibe isjust a nonprofit.
It's my gift to humanity.
It's just there to have allthese resources that I found for
people, wherever they are, tohelp them at the next step of
their journey.
And then my personal businessis RebeccaParriscom.
Speaker 2 (46:14):
Oh, which I love that Thank journey.
And then my personal businessis RebeccaParriscom.
Oh, which I love that, thankyou, and I'll put all of that in
the show notes and I thank youfor your time.
So my one comment to thelisteners right, so I met
Rebecca.
I didn't know anything abouther, really did not know much
about what she does, and I thinkit's really fascinating and I
thank you for coming on the show.
But being someone like youwhere I heard from the universe
that I was supposed to be doingsomething different, and I acted
(46:38):
on that, and so I would say toall of the listeners if you've
heard anything that Rebecca hasspoken about that piques your
interest, please listen to that.
That is the universe talking.
And whether that means you goand you hire Rebecca or you
reach out to her, you go to herwebsite, you sign up for her
course, you read a book that sherecommends, it just takes you
on a different journey.
So if any of this has piquedsome interest, I encourage you.
(47:02):
That is the universe talking toyou, so pay attention.
Thank you, rebecca.
It has truly been a pleasure tohave you on the show.
I'm excited to stay connectedwith you.
I'll put everything in the shownotes so everyone can find you.
And thank you again.
I hope you have a beautiful dayand congratulations on being so
brave to take the journey thatyou are now on, thank you.
Thank you so much for having me.
Okay, we'll talk soon.
(47:27):
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