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June 14, 2024 35 mins

In this enlightening episode, The Matts delve into the research of Dr. Roger K. Allen, PhD, to explore four toxic relationship patterns commonly observed in gay male relationships. Dr. Allen, a renowned psychologist and relationship expert, has dedicated his career to understanding the dynamics that can both strengthen and undermine romantic partnerships.


We will discuss:

1. escalation

2. invalidation

3. pursuing/withdrawing

4. negative interpretations


...while unpacking the harmful effects of these unhealthy and destructive patterns. We’ll provide practical tips and actionable advice based on Dr. Allen's research and our own, helping listeners identify and address these toxic patterns in their own relationships.


By understanding and mitigating these dynamics, gay male couples can build stronger, more resilient partnerships.


Tune in to gain valuable insights and take the first step toward a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.


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