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August 18, 2025 β€’ 18 mins

Drawing from Romans 7:18–8:1, Nicole tackles a deeply relatable struggle: the disappointment we feel when we fall short of our own standards. In this episode, she walks listeners through the Apostle Paul’s admission of this struggle—wanting to do right but failing to do so—and points to Jesus as the ultimate answer. Rather than gritting our teeth and trying harder, we are invited to fix our eyes on Christ, who offers forgiveness, removes condemnation, and gives us the Holy Spirit to guide us toward life and peace.

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Main Takeaways

  • You’re not alone in your struggle.
    Even Paul—the great church planter and author of much of the New Testament—wrestled with doing what he didn’t want to do.

  • The Christian life isn’t about “getting better” at religion.
    As we draw closer to God’s holiness, we become more aware of our sin—but also more dependent on His grace.

  • Shame hides us from God, grace draws us near.
    Sin’s power is not just in the act but in the shame that follows, which keeps us from God’s healing presence.

  • The Holy Spirit is a gentle force.
    He moves into every corner of our lives, shining light on what needs healing—not to condemn, but to restore.

  • Fix your eyes on your Savior, not your sin.
    Victory is already won in Christ; your identity is secure as a beloved child of God.


πŸ“œ Bible Verses Referenced


πŸ™Œ Calls to Action (CTAs)

  • Memorize Romans 8:1 – Remind yourself daily: “There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”

  • Join the Facebook Community – Share your own “Lord, hear my prayer when…” prompt in the How to Study the Bible Podcast Community.

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