How to Woo

Sapiosexual turn-ons, holding hands, and a praise kink—Olivia shares her favorite types of dirty talk and the connections that make touch tantalizing.

00:00 Opportunistic friend sex and wanting to be enthusiastically desired

07:05 The hotness of emotional intelligence and genuine kindness plus meeting people where they’re at

11:04 Needing mental, emotional, and physical stimulation for the energetic exchange of sex

16:32 Practicing di...

Next-level self-love, wanting to connect, and a desire for fulfilling relationships—Olivia shares how her everyday practice of giving and receiving has led to a wonderful life.

00:00 Seizing every opportunity to treat herself

03:51 Generosity of adults in her early life and her own receiving superpowers

08:05 Healthy romanticizing and an expanded understanding of self-love

11:38 The difference between romantic, platonic and self love

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The fun of telling your top NO, surprisingly sensitive nipples, and polyamorous dating while married—Avalon shares how erotica, art, and deep, loving connections have helped her create a life of exploration that keeps her excited.

00:00 Smutty book surprises and understanding compulsive heterosexuality

04:10 Learning about sex from insightful, playful podcasts

07:53 A desire for beautiful, sensual porn

11:42 Exploring her queerness an...

Sexual fluidity, defying the relationship escalator, and naturally exploring non-monogamy—Avalon shares her explorations and reflections in connection with herself, her partner, and others.

00:00 Learning about self-love through her first romantic relationship

06:14 Sensorial artistic delights and practicing self kindness

13:52 How an eight-year-long committed relationship helps her practice receiving

15:42 The magic of instant chemis...

BDSM, Catholic guilt, and a foot fetish—Spike comes on to share how living in a cage for a year helped them become a community-building Dominant with an insatiable thirst for more.

00:00 Feeling love through movement, intimacy, and creating community

02:19 Why Spike loves tall nerds, clumsy weirdos, and lovers who help him learn

05:40 Catholic altar boy guilt and reflecting on shame with partners

07:51 Taking control and inviting audi...

Part two of Luna's self-interview about love, connection, and mission to make the world a sexier place with the current set of podcast questions.

[01:30:12] What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others

[01:31:30] How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection

[01:33:37] The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations

[01:35:14] My obsession with "lining things...

Luna revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections.

Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps

Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships

Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work

Formative experiences, masturbation discovery

Understanding rejection and communication

First blowjob experiences, deep throa...

A mailbag episode of questions and celebrations, plus Kimberly joins Luna for reflections on six years of sex podcast learnings.

00:00 What we’ve learned about human connection

10:04 How we’ve noticed people relate to sex

17:08 What Kimberly has learned about herself

23:48 What Luna has learned about herself

31:18 What we’re most excited about for this podcast going forward

41:30 Q: How do you prepare for anal play?

53:11 Q: How can I in...

I tried to get AI to help me organize the 800ish things on my erotic bucket list…it tried. The work in progress continues

00:00 Bucket list overview and embracing the spirit of play

10:42 Intimacy, sluttiness, and kissing

18:48 The hotness of specificity and building tension

20:53 Thigh sex, grinding, and condom masturbation

27:04 Light scratching and discovering how partners pleasure themselves

32:06 Playing with anal, nipples, and flu...

BDSM, female Domination and non-monogamy—Miss Butter shares her evolution from Lifestyle Dominant lover to ProDomme while navigating family life.

00:00 Discovering the joys of sex and how she became a virgin again

06:46 Dissolving her own shame parenting a teenage daughter

10:54 Selective penetration and boundaries for different partners

15:03 New partner negotiations and playing safely with toys

22:22 How she loves making client’s dre...

Camming, pornography, and indulgent edging—Mia shares how she went from repressed Catholic schoolgirl to sexually liberated professional girlfriend.

00:00 Practicing safer sex and why she always carries a wide range of condom sizes

06:44 Hands-free masturbation and sex beyond genitals

09:00 What Mia loves about sex

10:55 Shooting porn and risk aware play

14:18 How Catholic private school made her a “repressed slut”

18:15 Discovering par...

Orgasms, exhibitionism, and understanding evolving desires—Miss Tori’s stories continue!

00:00 Poly communication wins

04:07 Navigating marriage, a new girlfriend, and shifting desires

08:29 Experiences with women and new levels of sex

12:02 Changing attractions, attachment struggles, and living for herself

19:33 Exploring kink and learning to squirt

23:14 Jealousy, the hotness of meeting needs, and how Bebe’s experiences mirror her mum...

Polyamory, stripping, and bisexuality—Miss Tori is a mum of eight who talks openly with her kids about her active sex life and is constantly making new discoveries.

She is joined by her daughter Bebe Bubbles (eps 280 & 282) for an in-depth look at her sexy evolution!

00:00 Accidentally forming a throuple and why she’s always been open about sex

04:55 Bisexuality, figuring out communication, and creating a safe gathering space

12:59 W...

Threesomes, non-monogamy, and a money kink—Nikole shares about maximizing pleasure for partners and the power in being fully yourself.

00:00 How she went from 100 to 0 on the shame-o-meter

05:12 Exploring her own body through OnlyFans and why she desires pleasure from partners

11:26 Blowing minds with transcendent sexual experiences and erotic sex ed live-streams

17:20 Empowered by OnlyFans and selling panties

21:41 Being the ultimate ...

Cervical orgasms, sex vacations, and submission—Sarah shares about stepping out of religious shame and embracing her own pleasure.

00:00 Learning how and when to talk about sex

04:06 Risk aware play and leaving space for adjustment

08:15 Checking in with her high libido demisexual self and asking for what she needs

14:50 Navigating purity culture and discovering the mechanics of sex growing up

23:21 Religious loopholes and feeling the ...

Gay porn, shower sex, and primal passion—Sydney’s stories continue!

00:00 Holy grail gangbang and craving caresses

02:49 Chasing the drug of genuine intimacy

10:03 Shower sex: getting ravished and vulnerable golden showers

17:14 Enforcing boundaries and reclaiming her home

21:25 Mutual choking and making out

24:41 Constantly evolving and finding what feels good

29:48 Exploring trans-friendly BDSM spaces, international sex, and kitchen ta...

Glory holes, deep throating, and phone sex Domination—Sydney shares how she’s letting go of perfection, embracing her full self, and satisfying her intimacy needs.

00:00 FaceTime dating wisdom

5:40 Shame squiggles and what she needs to feel safe

14:00 Adult bookstores and glory hole dick sucking

20:29 Discovering the joys of fucking everywhere at any time

27:45 Balancing her needs for comfort, safety, and connection

34:10 Why effort fee...

Bebe is back to talk all about love and being her own muse.

00:00 The many forms and feelings of love

05:00 Accepting bisexuality, queerness, and discovering non-monogamy

14:10 Getting turned on by applause and the importance of saying “I love you”

19:12 Connection revelations and the trickiness of reading people

23:32 Noticing and changing dating patterns

28:54 How recovering from gonorrhea led to deeper feelings for a partner

31:42 Way...

Bebe returns to continue her story: Ho Phase 2.0, exploring non-monogamy, orgasmic nipple play, CBT, and her new Best Sex Ever phase.

00:00 Reframing unhelpful tendencies and learning to respect her own boundaries

6:03 Plus-sized spanking perks and the importance of permission when leaving marks

10:11 Safety tips for breath play

12:20 Recognizing patterns and replacing period shame with pleasure

18:24 Gaining self-acceptance and new la...