Sensual touch, blowjobs, and authentic connection—Allissa shares how being a reiki practitioner and Highly Sensitive Person help her deeply connect with lovers both in her personal life and as a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch.
00:00 Her journaling practice and managing self care time
03:04 What she needs in connections and the importance of paying attention to details
06:15 Loving without judgement + experiencing a wide array of people and cultures
08:39 How working at a legal brothel helped reduce her shame and unleash her hidden sex kitten
11:57 Erotic talk, teasing, and tickles
14:09 “Mom what’s a blowjob?” + snooping around her older brother’s dirty magazines
17:27 Frozen hot dog blowjob lessons and sneaking out to fool around
20:30 Discovering legal sex work, up-leveling oral pleasure, and the exciting applications of honey
22:19 Her first ever threesome + what she loves about nuru massage and exploring the S&M room
25:23 What IS a Girlfriend Experience (GFE)?
28:21 Dungeons, bachelor parties, and overnight orgies
30:54 Sex swings + tantra chair face-sitting
34:18 The life changing magic of spending a hot week with someone she just met
36:44 Slip and slide bubble baths and little spoon snuggling
37:59 Energetic connections with lovers and her reiki practice
41:41 “Hot and cold french” blowjobs, slow sensual kissing, and ear play
44:57 Foot worshippers, sensitive erogenous zones, and tickling as turn-on (sometimes)
47:06 Anticipating lovers’ needs, guiding new lovers during sex, and the soft arousal of nipple play
49:48 Personal life pegging, prostate massage, and playing with balls + Luna’s “bitejob” experience
53:48 Nose play and embracing spontaneous experiences
57:56 Getting along sexually with other ladies, helping shy clients get comfortable, and her favorite part of working at the legal brothel
1:00:43 Excited for travel, water sex, and MORE ORGIES!!!
1:02:46 Spreading love with an open mind, open heart, and congratulating each other
📈 STATS | 37 queer-friendly femme sex worker, she/her pronouns, single, bartender, Las Vegas-based legal courtesan, into: dating, massage, sensuality, blow jobs, pegging, energy exchange, giving and receiving attention, girlfriend experiences, orgies, and delicious worship
🔗 ALLISSA LINKS | sheri’s ranch profile / OF / @allissa4you / x
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