311 | Sober Sex & Erotic Writing: Jane E on Woo

33 bisexual sapiosexual genderfluid woman, she/they pronouns, polyamorous, situationally monogamous, submissive brat, poet, pole dancer, in recovery from sexual assault-related PTSD, wrote their Master’s thesis on the poetry of rape trauma, Pākeha New Zealander, into: exhibitionism, soft touch, bullet vibrators, 69ing, powerful poetry, dirty talk, and sex by the sea.

 

Topics mentioned:

Aotearotica, affirmation, arousal, being adored, bisexual, bisexual exploration, body literacy, bullet vibrators, chronic PTSD, clitoral stimulation, cock, co-creation, communication in relationships, condom negotiation, consent, contraception, creative expression, cunt, dirty talk, dominant with women, emotional safety, erotic imagination, erotic literature, erotic writing, eroticism, exhibitionism, exhibitionist, family planning, felt safety, first time sex, frottage, garden sex, gender fluid, grinding, group sex, humping, IUD, journaling, love languages, matching lingerie, masturbation, masturbation as inspiration, masturbation memories, mental health, monogamy, motherhood and sexuality, mutual desire, narrative sex, New Zealand sex culture, non-penetrative pleasure, outdoor sex, oxytocin, parenthood, penetration, pillow humping, poetry, pole dancing, postpartum depression, praise kink, pregnancy sex, public sex, queer sexuality, romantic gestures, safe word, sapiosexual, school sex education, self-advocacy, self-exploration, self-love, sensuality, sex by the sea, sex positivity, sex with women, sexual assault recovery, sexual autonomy, sexual empowerment, sexual shame, sexual storytelling, shame, shame-o-meter, situationally monogamous, slut-shaming, small press erotica, soft touch, spoken word, STI safety, stop as a safe word, swing sex, threesomes, touch, trauma healing, vibrator, zines.

 

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