Fetish porn, healing retreats, pegging joy, and spiritual connection—Shay Sights shares how she built a life of creativity, sensuality, and unconditional love while rebuilding a beach resort and exploring gangbangs.
📈 STATS | 51 bisexual single woman, she/her pronouns, holistic healer, porn star, property manager, Vancouver native, Los Angeles-based, into: twisted mommy talk, adventure, connection, pushing the envelope, fetish play, taboo play, ramping up energy with partners, originality, and coming up with creative content ideas to turn other people on, building things, gardening, animals, and remote places.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Meet Shay: holistic healer, porn star, and beach resort rebuilder
02:10 Pajama joy and the thrill of canceling a shoot
03:08 Buying land in Mexico based on intuition and kombucha
07:08 Construction as spiritual healing and creative expression
10:00 Why quiet energy and solitude are essential to her joy
12:54 Future retreats and transforming a falling-down property into magic
13:25 Self-care, saying no to toxicity, and letting people help
16:12 How sex work, healing, and hospitality all help people connect
21:28 Behind the scenes of porn health and safety practices
27:48 Personal sex life and upholding industry standards
28:18 Toilet fetishes, stepmom porn, and freedom from shame
31:51 Cringing at judgment, not at her own choices
33:20 What makes someone sexy? Amazing energy over appearance
35:48 Learning sex through sex work, and connection through spiritual growth
42:49 Onscreen vs. real-life sex: entertainment vs. intimacy
47:19 Porn as curated emotional performance
49:58 Bloopers, realism, and letting audiences see the effort
51:33 Shay’s slutty fun list: pegging, gang bangs, and mommy talk
56:09 Aries sun, Scorpio rising, and the archetypes of porn
57:40 Clit-sucking toys and sensation preferences
59:14 Favorite sex lesson to teach: communicate everything
1:01:31 Why every body—and every day—is different
1:03:09 Consent and connection protocols on porn sets
1:04:17 Favorite partners, flogging, and flog-worthy memories
1:04:55 Still on her list: a five-guy gangbang
1:07:53 Sex in Mexico: beach shoots and rooftop fantasies
1:09:34 What we need for a more loving world: unconditional love
1:10:39 Karma, the Golden Rule, and living as an example
1:11:53 Reflections on love, shame, and human connection
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🔗 SHAY LINKS | shaysights.com / OF / @shaysighstofficial / x / tiktok
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