Spanking, exhibitionism, threesomes, and dungeons—Dr. Tiffany Chan shares how she embraced submission, built a 24/7 power exchange, and turned her passion for sex into a thriving career.
📈 STATS | 37 pansexual female, she/her pronouns, monogamish, kink affirming sex educator, board-certified sexologist, model, content creator, designer of wearable art, published author and writer of smut, from Los Angeles, into: MF three-ways, play parties, BDSM, sex toys, kink, and connection.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 From shame to shameless: early crushes, queer awakenings, and supportive-but-surprising parents
06:00 Discovering pleasure through Cinemax and Real Sex
11:00 Defining sexy as confidence, comfort, and self-love
13:00 Losing herself as a parent, reclaiming pleasure, and choosing supportive relationships
16:00 Cosmo magazine discoveries, early blowjobs, and formative sexual explorations
19:00 Bartending, Magic Wand revelations, and the road to becoming a sexologist
23:00 Balancing pleasure, work, parenting, and creative ventures
38:00 Wedding night flogging, public intimacy, and dungeon rituals
42:00 From Anne Rice fantasies to FetLife contracts and 24/7 dynamics
47:00 Check-ins, accountability, and building a 24/7 partnership
52:00 Hands, sensation play, and the allure of strong touch
56:00 Friends-with-benefits threesomes and navigating boundaries
1:02:00 Parallel play, dungeon nights, and intimate energy exchange
1:05:00 Health and safety practices for comfort and consent
1:17:00 Rope scenes, corsets, and finding serenity in restraint
1:23:00 Switching roles, online platforms, and erotic creativity
1:31:00 Goals: more joy, more freedom, and spreading love through pleasure
🤩 TOPICS | Anal curiosity, anxiety in relationships, audio porn, body image struggles, collars and honorifics, content creation, creative writing, cum swallowing boundaries, daddy dom dynamics, divorce transitions, dungeon furniture, edging orgasms, erotic audio, exhibitionist desires, fantasy balls, female empowerment, fisting curiosity, fluid bonding, floggers, friends with benefits, group sex etiquette, HIV awareness, humiliation triggers, kink education, learning management systems, lingerie fetishes, masturbation practices, mental health and ADHD, nude beaches, online censorship, orgasmic meditation, parallel play, pegging interests, poly upbringing, public sex stories, rope bondage, self-acceptance, sex education in homeschooling, shame resilience, shibari, slut reclaiming, spanking fantasies, squirting, swinger parties, threesomes, toxic relationships, university teaching, watersports content, wearable art design, writing erotica.
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