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January 30, 2025 44 mins

Nude car shows, sex toys, and swinging—BJ returns to share his recent explorations and his discovery of a new kink.


 

00:00 The importance of always having a towel at a nudist car show

05:37 Heightened sensuality in nudity and the different types of nudism

12:19 Expanding his sexual tool shed with FirmTech’s data-collecting TechRing and Performance Ring

17:44 Reclaiming his sexuality post-injury through prostate play and his new favorite cock ring

23:53 Reflections on perfectionism and pursuing excellent ongoing connections

28:45 Exploring a clothing compersion kink and appreciating mutual nurturance

34:01 Post-divorce swinging experiences and getting back into the swinger lifestyle

38:27 Cultivating open-mindedness to live a better, happier life

41:58 Excited for meditative knitting and serving the kink community through leather work


 

BJ’s episode from October 2024 | Sexagenarian Sexologist


 

📈 STATS | 60s non-monogamous cis male divorcé, retired protestant pastor, American Midwest, into: nudism, new sex toys, swinging lifestyle


 

🔗 BJ LINKS | vvrc / sexuality resources

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