June 11, 2025 • 51 mins
Ashley and Alexis react to the biggest headlines from the 2025 BET Awards including Kevin Hart hosting, the tribute to 106 & Park, Clarissa Shields and Angel Reese beefing, and more! Later, they discuss the recent falling out between Elon Musk and President Donald Trump, Tisha Campbell revealing she had a mommy makeover, and much more!
01:41 - Intro
10:49 - BET Awards reaction
18:39 - Tisha Campbell on Mommy Makeover
28:41 - Elon Musk vs. Donald Trump
37:00 - Humble Baddies Mailbag
52:40 – Humble Pie
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Get in my way, never out of my name, and
like you one and the more.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
One is going to be what that?
Speaker 1 (00:09):
What's that? What's up? What's that?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Another episode of the Humble Backer.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I'm your girl, Ashley, your close.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
And I am Alexis Wahtoda Meyer and we are the
Humble Baddies. Happy Wednesday, ash Happy Wednesday. Mag day some
day just taking care of business. I had a mee
data solo date yesterday. Okay, I went to took care
(00:45):
of all kinds of stuff first and then went and
just went to the beach, got service.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
On the beach and just had wine and lunch and then.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Day yeah with the spot like a good ninety minute massage.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Oh, it was just wonderful.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
It was something I needed for myself and I feel
soul rejuvenated and better.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
And I do this from time to time, but my.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Body was saying, Lex, you need to take a time
out and relax. I feel like from sheffing it up
on the weekends and it's staying in those long hours,
it's turned into my you know, I'm starting to have
back issues and so like I'm learning how to stuffing
back issues for me. But it's from standings it's knife work.
(01:35):
It's just moving around. It's constant movement. So my body's
adjusting to the new change. And so I'm fine with this.
So now I know how to adjust myself, my posture,
and take care of my body, drinking water as well
as getting these massages.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
I need them. So so you want that internship.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
This is no joke, like you really in there charming up,
like cheffing it up, like.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Y'all gotta come see me this week. I'm come.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I'm gonna come. I'm out of town, out of town
last weekend. I'm out of town this weekend. I'm out
of town next weekend. But I'm coming. I'm coming. I
just got to figure out when I'm coming. But I
definitely want to come support you already. I've already had
your food sorrery. No, okastly.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Well. The good thing is this.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Is technically my food, but not really my food, you
know what I'm saying, because it's the restaurants.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
But I get it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but it's is
a good thing.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
I've come out and support you out here, and I
can't wait, like just to see you in your element,
see you doing your thing.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
I mean, I know I've been working so hard.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I will run into you at Soho house working on
your CONE homework and your tests, and I will call
you and I will see you, you know, in the
kitchen doing your assignment. So I know how hard you
worked on this and you're almost at the end. So
the thing, I can't wait, I can't wait to come
and sup. I'm excited. I'm excited. Thank yes much. And
(03:07):
we missed you on Monday.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Yeah, Broug.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
You know it's hard out here the summertime, you know,
can triculate the traveling. But this again wasn't about me.
It was all about my husband. They have a an
alumni program for the Raiders. He played for the Raiders,
actually only for one year out of his career. He
(03:32):
played for ten years, but he played for the Raiders
for one year. And what I love about the Raiders
organization is they really take care of their alumni. And
I can't say that for any other organization. And you know,
he played on four teams, so I know that's I
can't account for all the organizations, but I haven't heard
(03:55):
of any other team taking care of They're not just
their players, their current players, but they're alumni. The way,
that's the raids organization does. So they why the alumni
if you played for one game, child wust a writer,
all a writer? They fight you and your caregiver. So
(04:16):
that's your wife, if that's your mom, your bestie, your cousin,
them whoever. They they bring you out and they have
a whole wellness weekend and they check you from the
rudah to the tutor. If you need a mental health therapist,
they set you up with somebody. I had an ultrasound
(04:37):
on my heart.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh wow.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
They're doing mammograms, they're doing hearing tests.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
They're doing that.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
You need to make sure that you know you're being
checked out because you know, somebody got they don't want
to go to the doctor.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Even though they may.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Have all these benefits and stuff you know provided for them.
Men can be you know, subborn and not make the appointment.
So I just love that they bring all of that
to the facility and you know, they offer everything they
need right then and there to get it done. And
then it's just nice too for the alumni to feel wanted,
(05:16):
because you know, the NFL's like it stands for not
for long. So some time is done and them lights
is all those lights are off. So it's just a
beautiful thing to see how they look. Care for the
alumni and I mean when I say they are legends there.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
They are players who played in the seventies.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
You know, it's all age groups and just to leave
them support it and love going and educated because they
bring they have an expo, they bring people to teach
them about you know, not just their bodies, but what's.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
How to deal with things. You know.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
It's just it's just a beautiful weekend to come together
and to support them in that way. So to the Raiders'
organizing the Raiders for real, I like that that's actually dope.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Is this an annual thing they do. It's the annual
thing they do.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
And then they also have an a longer week and
so in August they bring everybody back out and it's
more of just like a fun weekend where they you know,
set up different events and the guys can just hang
out and you know, you can bring your loved one
with you. And I do want to say the ladies
have a presence there. They do have for the women
ladies play. Look, I know you met a Toyt girls
(06:31):
and there the off the field NFL lives was there.
So now our presence is there, we have a place there,
we're supported, we're there to give support. So it's just
all in all, a beautiful, beautiful thing that they have
going on, and I hope the other teams pick up
on it because all the players need it. That's amazing, youse,
(06:55):
you call it a caretaker that can was able to
reap the benefits too, because that is so nice, SCEs Sari.
Whatever your spouse or someone like mother, whoever needs this, this, this,
that weekend or you know those few days, that's crucial too.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
So I think that's great that.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
They're involving you know, whomever that person choos us to
be there with him and get some some treatment as well,
because it does take a village and you know, you
can forget about yeah, you think we can take care
of you know, right, your Raiders. So I think it's important. Man,
it's beautiful, you know what they have going on, Like
to really think about every little thing like that, it's amazing.
(07:34):
They really do a great job. Great job that.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
So that's where well I was doing this weekend.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
It was all about the Raiders and their alumni and
I love it, Like I had a great time. I
can't wait to go back in August where there we
go to a game and we just get to hang
out and have a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
But it's in Vegas.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
The Raiders are in Vegas now, well we were there
when we played for the Regga Raiders.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
We were in Oh that's big difference. Now you have Vegas,
you get Vegas, you get Vegas, so you know, a
little Vegas we can't ever know. I've been cool.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Yeah, I'm saying I had a little Vegas here and there,
But you know, Matt, it was just your tube. No kids, right,
no kids. Oh so y'all had a nice little weekend away.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Yes, I love that.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Hey a little We went to off the restaurant Wellness on.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
It was nice.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
And you know, I was born in Vegas, so it's
like I don't feel attached.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
To it in any way.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
You know, my dad was in the military, so I
was born there because he was stationed at Nola's Air
Force Base. But I just every time I've been like,
oh my, I can't believe I was born here, Like
it's just so weird, Like I don't feel any kind
of like connection. I'm very much in Atlanta girl, that's
where I claimed Little christ Reform while we were there
at our hotel.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
So that's cool that little pizza bent Leona Dare. Yeah.
So it's the great weekend girls, the great. I love that.
I love that.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Well. I'm glad you all were able to get away.
I'm glad that y'all got your health checked out and
your mind right and.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Here we are back again. So I love that for
y'all world.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
So, speaking of Luda, the b ET Awards was this
past was that last or the night before last night?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I believe that's crazy. I feel like my days are just.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
But yeah, I thought a hold of Christmas there and
he did the usher. They did a tribute and it
was I mean, I thought the worst this year were
very reminiscent. Is that the word no, Li said of Like,
that's not the word thing?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
What's your thinking?
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Was the word that you're saying where it reminds you
of Nustasa? Okay, That's what I'm happenant to say. So
it's just like reminding me of like a workshops back
in the day, because.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
They did like our tribute.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
You know, they had a little bowl performer yeah six
some part.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Yeah, Yeah, I like that. It was nostalgic, that is
the word.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
And it was very reminiscent of going back in time
period when we were there and we were the videos.
Because now our children are looking at videos, you know, on.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Not it's not the same anymore.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
They're watching streamers, they're watching video games, they're watching other
people play video games. It's just, you know, what they
do different now. I don't remember when, Yes, I couldn't
wait to turn the TV on, watching on US sixty
Park and watching down the numbers ain't changed, it's so long.
It didn't matter because I needed to watch it all
the way down to number one. And that's how we
(10:58):
learned how to dance too low key, you know, we
wanted to know what who was wearing the best sneakers,
what the best jewelry was they were into, remember the jerseys,
the oversized clothes and the fashion and you know, the
newest trends like those. That's how we got our trends
was literally tuning in to that. And so I like
to shout out to the BT a warzone because it
(11:19):
does bring back like that essence of who we are
and we're so much you know, we are R and B.
We're soul, we're rock, We're hip hop, we are gospel,
you know, all these all in country, all of these
territories pop, you know, rock, everything you can imagine and
jazz and and all of that. So we I just
(11:40):
love to see it because it is nostalgic how it
does take us back, because I love that they brought
out like Kurt Franklin, you know, I feel like I
was watching it with a side of the parts that
I did get to see, and she's like, who's this.
I'm like, oh, this is an education level, you know,
because now our kids are going back and singing these
songs that have been remixed and like, yeah, I know
(12:04):
my parents so like we've heard that before, like you know,
maybe somebody remixed the Marvin Gabe vibe or something. But
like it like when our generation sample songs, we knew
the original too, Like we heard our parents, you know,
parents though too, like parted these kids these things. They
(12:25):
think they know everything and that this is not that
that just came out Like maybe no, this stun been remixed.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Two or three times.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Yeah, it's like so, but it's like at the at
the other end of it, it's giving artists streaming, you know, again,
there's songs that were older too, Like I was looking
at my daughter's TikTok the other day and she was
she had reposted like this song right now it's gen
z and akon Soul Survivor and now it's like trending
(12:58):
on TikTok, so like taking out, She's like, mom, this
is a dope song. I'm like, what, We've been there
and done that already, but it's back, so here we are.
You know, it's new to them and they're the ones streaming,
so it's like low key. It's just like it's help
It's helpful on so many levels. Hey, it's the new way. Yeah,
but the BT wars were dope. The person I did
(13:19):
see they did a tribute to Jamie Fox, who is
well deserved after the year he's had, and just I
forgot like about his hits.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
He's a comedian, he.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Had his his songs as well as you know he acts,
so I mean, he's just a I was just like Dany,
you know, he is so talented and has oscars, so like,
this guy's is top after mentioned he just came back
from that whole health scare. So absolutely glad that they
able to you know, receive his flowers while he's still here.
And that's what I feel they do because we definitely
(13:54):
get overlooked, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Yeah, but yeah, that's pick.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
Sometimes with the tribute, I feel like they're a little
like overdo or like they pick the super You know what.
That was a good a good pick for for this tribute,
for this award. You know what about the the fashion.
The fashions are always a hot topic at the BET Awards.
There were a lot of risky outfits. Some looked like
(14:23):
fashion Nova, some look like white you know, I don't know.
They didn't take enough time, they they didn't pay their styles.
They coined this year, some of the people had a
lot to say.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Somebody said that what's her name? Young Miami? They said
she was given Oh no.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
The comment was, I guess she don't got them Diddy
coins no more because her dress wasn't you know, Yeah,
I just see Young Nake's dress, but that was rude
in that, but it wasn't given.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Her dressed was not. I didn't see it. Yeah, I
know who.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
I can tell you who did look good though. I
thought Kiky Palmer looked phenomenal. Okay, from hair to toe
I also thought LaToya luck it looked really good.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Those are the.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
I love that dress on her and her hair, just everything,
so I liked I look at the full thing from
I look at the full image from hair all the.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Way down to the toes. You know what I mean.
You gotta see the full look.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Yeah, I thought they were pretty dope. Tisha Campbell the look.
They didn't like her look either. They said she looked
like that fish from that one kid's movie. But they
were also talking about how she recently got a Mimmi makeover,
(15:54):
and they were saying that she kind of maybe threw
her friends under the bus because she was like, yeah,
I tell my friends to go get a Mommy makeover
and they didn't, and she named them because it's the
I can't remember who she's bad. But people are just like,
why would you tell other people's business like that, Like, Okay,
you got a Mimmy makeover.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
You don't need to tell everybody else's business.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
And although they were on her, they were like, you
didn't just have baby, so is it a mommy makeover
or did you just go get a BBL Which one
is it? She was good, you know, I feel like everyone,
especially in Hollywood has some niptuck maintenance something right. What
the beautiful blessing is about it is you. You do
what you want to do to your body on your
(16:34):
time at the end of the day. So whether it
is a bbl a snatch waists, some breasting, plants, some
you know, facial whatever you want to do for yourself,
do it.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
I mean, it is what it is.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
You're gonna have people who are gonna compliment you, and
you're gonna have people who are gonna hate on you.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
It just is what it is.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
But it's about you at the end of the day,
what your confidence, confidence exuding. And it's about them coins too,
you know what I mean. Like she she probably is
seeing herself on television. She is a public figure, and
I feel like, again, people are gonna be like, ooh,
she looking it rough.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
She need to go get nip and tuck. Okay, maybe
she wasn't ready for it at the time.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
And just because she was putting her friend's business out,
like oh, I got to like to go do the same.
And also they were just like, girl, that's not a
Mimi makeover.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Your kids are grown old, mom. But I guess mom,
And yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
No, it's just she't got your body there and you
gotta be yell or like, oh just say that it's okay,
r create it.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Like now, I'm just like, look like low key.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
Recently, like for example, Kylie Jenner has been more open
about her plastic surgery exactly she had, and I'm like,
does that really a different se y'all? Like, are y'all
really gonna run out and say, oh, we're the four
hundred and forty CC just like Kindie Jenner? Right?
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Yeah, they will. That's crazy to me. They will, and.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
Their their doctor's gonna be like, she has a different body,
she has a different everything, and so you can't have it.
Speaker 1 (18:14):
We're gonna give you what we can give you. That's
so interesting.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
The amount of weight that, you know, anything that these
celebrities say have on their fans. You know, it's scary
because what if she was like, you know what, I'm
going prack now like I do crack on the weekends.
So you're all gonna go be crackeads now you know
what I'm saying. It's just like whatever they say goes,
(18:40):
And if you're not teaching, you know, that's why you
got to monitor these these you know, these handhelds.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
At times, because it's harder out here for anyone in general.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Now, like people are telling you, like you know, I
look up and people are getting news off of the
gram now social media and far from true.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
People have there' prop this.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Propaganda, like all that stuff going, propaganda going on. I'm
sorry everything, So politics is now being involved.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
And then this is how you're spending money.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
It's influencers, it's lifestyle, it's cooking techniques and and this
health scare and this way of accessing this and now
you can click and shop and it comes right to you.
So everything on this handheld device is becoming a source
of everything. It's a therapist, it's it's the moon tracker,
(19:35):
it's uh, it's a grocery counter. It's the everything you
can imagine. So it's making people spend money, and you're
spending the most money when you see advertisements. And at
the end of the day, social media is an advertisement. Yeah, pickole,
you want to.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Buy I just recently bought some Kylie Jenner loot.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
See what I'm saying, it could be it could be her,
Like that's why do you think she became a billionaire
was off of the influence of her followers and posts
and and also being in these places and then having
like her lip kit, you know, became very popular that
she had her lip kit, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
And then we're like, wait, well we've been we've seen
your lips.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Pre and now you know what I'm saying posts, so
we know that's not from these lip pits.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
But most people didn't know that, you know what I mean.
So it work.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
She had the loft and fell injury. Yeah, yeah, but yeah,
you know, shout out to Tisha though, like do whatever
makes you happy. She look good and I'm sure she
seems happy, and you know it's it's probably feel from
a lot of things too, because she's also recently divorced
from her husband of however many decades and life partners.
(20:51):
So like this is a rejuvenation time. This is when
you get your your snap back and your mind right
and really get your get your get yourself together because
she now back out there, So be your best self
back out there in the streets.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Yeah, I'll say, had them all part.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I think the men looked the best on the beet
red carpet this year. I think the men really they
came with it and there were a lot of African
designers as well.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
You know, I just wanted to put that out there.
I loved to see that. Yeah, I loved seeing kJ Smith.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
She accidentally gave out her the the gender of her baby.
You know kJ she plays on that show Sisters. Oh yes, yes,
I did see that. I just see that. Told everybody
she's having a baby girl, so looking brat her. I
mean even it's a whole bunch of like little things
that I just love to see. That meant the bet
and words seemed just a little bit more like in touch,
(21:55):
more personable, more.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
I don't know what we loved as you know, while.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
We tune into the ET, I feel like it's getting
bad groups, you.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Know, and everybody feel more human again, you know. I
like that. I like that a lot especially.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
It's just it's just the resurgence of how popular is
be coming And I love it for us, you know.
I love that I could sit with my daughter and
explain to her who Shanty is?
Speaker 1 (22:23):
You know what I mean, Like, I'm like, who is you.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Know?
Speaker 1 (22:27):
All these We're just like who was this? Mommy?
Speaker 2 (22:30):
But then there was a few obviously like your Drake's
and Kendrag's and party next door.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Right, you got her Hurts Bet Award at this show.
Is that's something and well very much overdue.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Yeah, So like here we are because you know, to me,
that's what really matters the most. Yeah. We talk about
the Oscars, we talk about Tony's, we talked about the Emmys,
we talk about bill Board Awards, all these other ones.
But to get it from your people on Black Entertainment Television,
you know, ran by for us, you know all of
these things. You know, at the end of the day,
(23:06):
we gonna take care of our people and we're gonna
always support us, you know, and it's time that we
we keep giving those accolades out and really putting us
in the forefront because we definitely get forget forgotten about
all the time.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
So we have our own platform. You know, they like
if you don't have it, build it.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
So here we are having our own platform where you
can excel and have awards and be recognized.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
I think it's awesome. I think it's beautiful. It was
a good good yo. Oh. Kevin Heart. Kevin Heart hosted.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
Yes, he's always hilarious, always pistally mine.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
I love having Heart.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
I think I've seen every single one of his stand
up when he's come.
Speaker 1 (23:52):
Into town, like, yeah, he's a good one. Funny to me, Yeah,
here's funny.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
I love that seat and bringing the bridging of the
generations too. They had Drew Ski and kysonat there, so
like a side of perked up when she saw that.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
She was like, okay, you know, I love a damn oh.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
I saw a flip where Kysana ran into Wale like
in the hallway or something, and he didn't know who
he was, and then Wiley went up to him and
looked like, Yo, the people are like shripping, like because
you didn't know who I was and k I was
just sitting there white and okay.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
But that's like there's one.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Like if somebody doesn't recognize me, I've played it off
like I'm gonna act like you know what I mean,
like I don't want to make it up more of
an issue to me. That's making it more than anything.
That's so awkward. And he was miked up so like
in kine streaming when he said this so you can
hear it's just that was just embarrassing to me. But
(24:58):
that's just another know situation of where the two generations
are crossing in.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
But like the older guys. We gotta stay younger than you.
Know what I'm saying. So if passing and I don't
know who you were, it's a problem.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
Okay, while by passing, I ain't he don't know many words,
man step up with cookies a little bit. So what
I'm saying, I would never address it though, I just
would not. I would have walked off like that didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
You know what I'm saying. I would have played it off.
Speaker 2 (25:31):
But yeah, I oh no, I thought it was a
a great, great show from the flip side, so I
didn't get to see the whole thing. Okay, So moving on,
let's talk about Elon must and Donald Trump and their
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little billionaire beef they've been having. So just got tech
bros were too rich to be methy, Elon Less and
Donald Trump decided to square up on social media. The
drama started with jabs about intelligence, turned into a full
on Twitter war, and ended with Elon tweeting like a
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man who finally read his screen time report. So what
started this beef and how did it spiral into a
billionaire of petting it?
Speaker 1 (26:24):
Well, we have two.
Speaker 2 (26:28):
Men that are in a power of position because of
not just popularity, but also wealth and access. And now
when you have two egos and these narcissistic behaviors now
joining forces, it's bound to be some conflicts at some
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point because now the diva comes out, the power of
authority comes out as well.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
As he figured, yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
And so with all of that being said, very predictable
that this was going to happen to the extent.
Speaker 1 (27:09):
That it's going. You know, it's like I thought it.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Was interesting how Elin became a part of the Oval office,
you know, meetings and just there anyway. So this is
not a surprise to me, just because everything in this presidency,
especially with this president and when he was before last,
he's always done things that have been going against our
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democracy and also laws and rules and regulations that have
been put in place for before time.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
So he's just inventing this a lot as he goes along.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
So with that being said, the disrespect that came with this,
it's like was done in the dark comes to the light.
So this was bound to happen because not only did
you know the president give power to this, you know,
entrepreneur and scientists, billionaire let alone gave him that confidence
of like you could sit next to me in the
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Oval office, and now I'm catching phone calls with the
head of Germany and ahead of this, you know, China
and this and this.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
And this, and you know it's business involved.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
You know, it's you know, an exchange of funds and
some some contracts going on.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
So with that being said, you know.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
The fact that he was throwing at them jabs Elon
was on X talking about you know, you know he's
in the files. I'd love to see it because you know,
President Trump was one hundred percent saying believe the Whitehase,
believe the Waterhouse whenever we put out these statements. Okay,
we're gonna believe this, all right, because you were the
one that vows for this man.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
You were the one that had him up there when
you were getting inaugurated.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
You were the one that is also put your name
and stamp on some contracts with this man, and you
put him out there in the forefront and introduced us
to him on this level. So you know what, we
gonna believe everything we see, all right. And not only that,
I'm just again, I'm not surprised. It's very predictable. This
is just how everything has been and I feel some
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kind of way, like the fact that I'm just like
I knew this was gonna just this, this is gonna happen,
you know. I just feel like, let me just set
this one out, you know what I mean, like and
just observe. I'm not observed. That's because you know, yeah,
be careful what you ask for.
Speaker 1 (29:30):
That's it. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:32):
I think they're both you know, they've always been who
they are, you know, so we can't be surprised that
now they're being and having little paid right. But it's
still so embarrassing. I feel like every day it's just
Trump does something like it's just so embarrassing that this
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is the president of the United States. It's been embarrassed
in the last one hundred and sixty days what you're
talking about, since that inauguration when he didn't put his
hand on the Bible.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
It's been embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
In the days of you know, people in power, we
didn't hear from them like that. It was their people,
their pr there whoever this is the president of the
United States of America went at with Twitter figures.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Like what are we surprised? He's been twitter Twitter fingers.
Speaker 2 (30:23):
He's been saying you're fired, and had these shows and
his name everywhere on buildings and here top culture President,
it's our president before he looks a weld, the TV
star and whatever. This is America and he have Twitter
figures like I can't take him serious?
Speaker 1 (30:44):
How do y'all take him serious? How or how didn't
we get here? You know Elon? Like, don't y'all have
something else to do? Like, ain't y'all business busy? You know,
with some business? Don't you out of the business?
Speaker 2 (30:59):
Is the most powerful country in the world, the friend
world of the United States of America, that is Elon
stock went down so bad. I know people who went
out and bought teslas because.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Why not, it's cheap. Now, you know what.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
I'm saying, Like I mean, I don't know. It's just
it's all a joke. It's all funny. I can't take
anything serious anymore with this president. I saw a meme
that said somebody had their passport and then a little
sticky on it on it as soon as like you
open it, it says, I apologize in advance, but I
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don't condone what's going on in our country.
Speaker 1 (31:45):
Let me in something like that. It was great.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
There's whole if they're protesting and other yo team and
protesting and being put to the side and spray aid
and rubber bullet. Yeah horrible, and y'all are y'all got
Twitter fingers? Y'all are really deefen right now? When okay
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that I just can't I can't fix the ball and deflecting. Yes,
but again, when you gotta believe people when they tell
you they're gonna do something for sure?
Speaker 1 (32:28):
All right, let's move on to Humble Baddies fan mail.
Speaker 2 (32:35):
Yeah, okay, the wedding was cute, but selve less. I.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
I'm gonna read it. Oh you can read it. Yeah,
I won't read it. Read Sorry, I know you thought
you're all right?
Speaker 2 (32:52):
The okay, humble Batty's mail about that time they're Humble baddies.
I showed to my cousin's wedding looking fine, b faced,
body on display, energy unmatched. Halfway through the reception, the
bride told me I was stealing attention. It said I
should have dressed more respectfully.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Girl.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
It's giving hater and hells now the aunties are calling
me petty.
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Was that wrong for looking too good? Or was she
just mad I was glowing harder than her? Highlight?
Speaker 2 (33:27):
Signed the cousin that whispered about but can't sit next to. Okay,
So was the bride and secure or the cislow key
across the line.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
What you date? Okay?
Speaker 2 (33:40):
So I don't think there is an etiquette for a wedding, Okay.
So I don't think you should out through the bride,
you know, I think you should not wear white. I
think you should, you know, follow whatever dress code that
they put in the invitations. So I do think there
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is you know, a dress clothe that you should abide
by and should make sure that the bride is the
attention you know, grapper of the event.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
Okay, period. But if it's tiny, fine.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
So it don't matter if I show up, you know
what I'm saying, I'd be cute wherever I'm at and
whatever I'm in, and however I show up, So.
Speaker 1 (34:27):
You know, if I followed all the rules and.
Speaker 2 (34:29):
The bride feel some kind of way, I think, and
if they say something, it might be an insecurity thing
because I know, if I'm getting married, my attention is
not on anybody else and what they got on and
whatever beyond me saying hello, how you doing?
Speaker 1 (34:43):
They for coming girl? That's all the energy I really
have for you.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
I'm not into like checking out and see if somebody
will else look better than me at my wedding. So
if it got to the point where they were addressing
other people, the family is addressing people for how they
showed up looking great at there.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Ready, then I think that might be more of an
internal problem.
Speaker 2 (35:05):
You know, I think y'all are putting too much energy
into the wrong things. You need to take a better
look at you know, the situation, what's going on, what's important?
Speaker 1 (35:16):
You know what I mean. Now.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
I did see the other day that's the video of
going viral. It was two girls riding in a car
and it was the girl driving. It was her birthday,
and she was crying and she was upset because her
friend in the passenger seat.
Speaker 1 (35:33):
She was like, girl, you look so much better. It's
my birthday. Why would you wear that? You know you've
got more body than me. You can't be wearing stuff
like that. And it's my birthday and I'm not gonna
have fun.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
And then like she was really upset and crying like
hysterically because her friend that showed up looking real good
on her birthday.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
And you know, my friend send it.
Speaker 2 (35:56):
To me and we just kind of had a conversation
about it, and I was just like, you know, of
our friend was wrong for posting that, you know, reporting
her and posting her frame in that very distraught, vulnerable moment.
But at the same time, for me, that would have
been the end of our friendship, you.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
Know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
So, you know, posting her being hystericial, it don't even
matter because at this point we're not gonna be friends
some more, because huh, like, how are you going to
be mad because I showed up in the body that
God gave me for our vot whatever? You know, Like,
I can't change my body. I'm gonna wear what I wear,
you know what I mean. And it's your birthday. You
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shouldn't be upset with me because of how I look.
I don't, I don't know. That's weird to me. And
her friend was like really upset like she did it
to her. So I feel like, you know, situations like this,
it's more there's some internal work that needs to be
done if you feel that pressed and insecure to stay.
Speaker 1 (37:00):
We all have our insecurities, Like you know, I'm a human.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
I've definitely been out of our homegirls and looked at
my outfit and then like, oh girl, you.
Speaker 1 (37:08):
This ain't it? You not keep tonight? You know what
I mean? Like we all have our insecurities.
Speaker 2 (37:13):
We all have our moments where you know, we want
to look better or whatever.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
We all have that.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
But when you start acting on it and speaking on
it and making it an issue. To me, that's where
it's a problem. And I think that that's something internally
that you have to work on. But like I said,
there are dress codes, there are etiquette, there are.
Speaker 1 (37:38):
Things that we as the world need to do, like
girl code. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
I agree with you as far as the ft point
of you know, as a bride, Well, my first wedding,
I there was a dress code, and I feel like
the whole point is to have a dress code and
to had to respect it. One that my dress code
was very much unconventional. It was we're black or white
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and or the recombination of both.
Speaker 1 (38:11):
It is what it is first, so normal dress though
like to tell people like okay, I'm out of the wedding.
Black usually okay depends the if that's the tire.
Speaker 2 (38:19):
But you don't usually see black, right, and then you
don't see white because the bride has been white, but
I already had I had four children already out, so
it just it was not.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
Giving white for me. But y'all be great, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (38:33):
So at the end of the day, like I had
a dress code, but at the same time, I was
so confident in myself and what my dress was.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
You know what I had going on and my my
changes and things like that, where I was focused on me.
Speaker 2 (38:48):
I know who I invited to this wedding, and the
whole point was I also know that I have some
dope friends, you know what I mean. I want you
all to show up and show out because it's giving part.
It's a festival, it's a party, it's a celebration. I
don't have time. I want to make sure everyone's having
good a good time. They're having good food, this great entertainment.
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I'm not worried about. The only thing I was worried
about is if you didn't come in the dress code,
meaning you know, black and white and were low key.
I'm gonna be real with shoe. I had some backups
in the back just in case. We had extra suit jackets,
and we also had dresses, like two dresses that were
either they were in black, so just in case if
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things were in different sizes, so just in the case
some things were popping off. Because respectfully, you gotta adhere
to the to the bride and groom's requests.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Now, I'm not stopping a wedding.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
I'm not confronting anybody at my wedding unless they did
something very foul to me or was not invited something right.
Speaker 1 (39:51):
But I'm gonna have people handle that, you know.
Speaker 2 (39:53):
Second of all, I'm not letting that interrupt and really
just kind of change my energy either about this person.
You know, your girls fly, you know your girl god body.
You know how she dressed like it is what it is,
you know what I mean, Like you gotta expect that.
You gotta expect her, you know, to be herself and
show up now, you know. So you know it's it's
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really is about the you know, the bride and the
groom in this moment. People do want to take away
from that, but you know, I'm not letting it. I'm
not letting it kind of change up my mental or
really my energy at all because she didn't deserve that.
Speaker 1 (40:30):
She doesn't deserve to have that moment.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
Now, you know, spotlighted even more on this young lady,
you know what I mean, the guest, you know, I
just think it was just kind of petty black because,
first of all, let you know, they be expensive. Sometimes
you gotta go, you've got to buy you out there,
you gotta show up an go out of town. I
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will take some forgainst any kind of way other than
like grateful that they're there, you know, as long as,
like you said, they respected like the dress code, you know,
and even if they didn't, I still I just feel
like it's tacky to, you know, meet a guest at
your own wedding with any kind of negative energy, because
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that's from your day, you know. I also want to,
you know, bring attention to something that really don't even
matter anyway.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
It's by planning about you and your new husband.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
And yeah, oh yeah. To the humble batting writer schuer out, No,
it's a no. You can't be doing that to your guests.
You know, I would say that anybody else who's worried
about something like this, you need to be confident in yourself.
Always dressed in a way that makes you feel confident.
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Don't try to dress like other people, because when you
do that it shows you're not as confident. You got
to find your own style. You gotta find something that
compliments yourself, that makes you feel good, that makes you
feel comfortable, and no matter what anybody else got on
or whoever else is in the room with you, you
just gotta worry about yourself, Okay, don't worry about nobody else.
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Sometimes somebody else is gonna be look better than you
and that's okay. That oh okay, And that's.
Speaker 1 (42:23):
When you're supposed to be like, damn, girl, you look good.
Speaker 2 (42:26):
And then she gonna be like girl here too, and
then that's it and then boom, that's it.
Speaker 1 (42:31):
That's the end of it. Well you ask you this, then,
have you been't have ash?
Speaker 2 (42:36):
Have you ever been an accidental main character at somebody
else's event?
Speaker 1 (42:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (42:44):
Yeah, Yeah, it's awkward.
Speaker 1 (42:48):
It's strange. But also you know, you can't help it.
If you're if you if that's the energy you get
when you walk in the door, you know what I mean,
you can't help that.
Speaker 2 (43:02):
And but also I think it's a way of going
about it where you realize, like, okay, it's a different
way to to be too, to handle that situation. I
feel like when you realize like, Okay, everybody is excited,
but this energy is here.
Speaker 1 (43:22):
You know.
Speaker 2 (43:22):
I feel like there's a certain way to handle it,
you know what I mean. You have to be humble
batting about the situation. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
And it shows if you're you have to just be
a warm, welcoming person. And I feel like then it
RAI radiates and it rubs off onto everybody else in
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the room, and then everybody else feels comfortable, everybody else
feels better. Every It's just really how you That's that's
really what main character energy is. It's when you can
walk in a room and make everybody else feel better,
you know.
Speaker 1 (43:57):
Yeah, I love Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
So, yeah that that could happen, But it's all in
how you receive that and how you reciprocated at the
end of the day. Reciprocate that made that main character energy,
that made that humble batting energy. Okay, reciprocated because it
can rub off onto the room like good energy, bad energy,
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all of that rubs off, so reciprocate it.
Speaker 1 (44:26):
Yeah yeah, I like that. Yeah, Okay, so is that
it did we answer the question?
Speaker 2 (44:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (44:33):
Yeah, question I mean, was the bride insecure or this
this low key cross the line.
Speaker 2 (44:40):
But yeah, yeah, they're a limit to how fine you
should look at somebody else's big day.
Speaker 1 (44:47):
You can't. You can't mute your your energy, your or
or your fineness. Please don't. Let's not. Let's not.
Speaker 2 (44:54):
And I feel some kind of way as anybody who's
a whole said, you know what, Lex, can you ton down?
Speaker 1 (45:01):
I'd be like, you know what, I'll total it off.
I'm not coming. That's weird. Oh my god, weird. We're
older too. I feel like we're older sis.
Speaker 2 (45:11):
And like only I only expect like ash, I only
expect you to come like ready, like I expect you
to be tea Like I'm like, that's my that's my girl.
Speaker 1 (45:22):
She's gonna be dressing dope.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
And you expect me to be on part too, Because
a matter of fact, if you're come in any other
kind of way, something's wrong.
Speaker 1 (45:29):
You know I'm gonna be like, are you okay? I
hold them to be like damn that group that's crue. Yeah,
who the single one? What's going on?
Speaker 2 (45:41):
I mean that's why you can tell those girls who
only hang out with like one girl is a ten
and the rest are like four and a half.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
We can we know, we can see that. We read
through that.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
That is the insecure girl right there, because there's no
way that you can be hair done, make up done.
Speaker 1 (46:04):
Outfit like bomb and your friends ain't put together. Because
so my friend, now I'm gonna be like, girl, take
that off word.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
This is like you know, I'm gonna give you my heels,
my clothes, whatever, so we can you know, match my energy.
You know what I'm saying, like cause I know if
we friends now times at a tend, you like what
I'm wearing.
Speaker 1 (46:25):
You know what I'm saying. Your style, we know who
you are. I'm gonna you know.
Speaker 2 (46:34):
So if you see a girl and she's hanging out
with her friends and she like the baddest one by
a long shot, like then to me, that streams like
you're a pick me you want to be seeing you're.
Speaker 1 (46:51):
Be a center all that.
Speaker 2 (46:52):
Yeah, we can see that, and we don't like that.
That's not being a humble baby like that, letting your
hair your girl go out her hair messed up or
something to make up and write a hlash is cricket
or something.
Speaker 1 (47:04):
Then you burn out of good frame. Period.
Speaker 2 (47:08):
So don't be that girl, and that stuff here. Okay,
people expect you to dim your likes so they can
feel bright.
Speaker 1 (47:18):
I say, it's it's the wrong people.
Speaker 2 (47:20):
It's never it's never the you know, it's never your
your your inter circle. If it's the circle, and they
want you to dem it, you know, going back to
what we said, then they not, that's not the proof
for you. I'd rather you tell me I'm slacking. Yeah, like,
you know, tell me I'm slacking, Like, are.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
You off today? Likes? Like what's you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (47:39):
Like, hey, like, pull me to the side. That's that's
more of the energy I need, I think. But we're
also older too, like you know what I mean, we
don't have time for that. We're just happy to see
each other and have a break or you know, ready
to you know, have a good time, to have a
good meal and whatever. No, that's crazy. You need to
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get a new friends if that's Yeah, that's a weird thing.
That's weird. Yeah, weird.
Speaker 1 (48:07):
All right.
Speaker 2 (48:08):
So to close up Humble Batties episode tonight, who needs
to be humble this week? Let's wrap this show in
a Humble Batty's way by handing out this week's humble
pie who showed their ass online this week, and who
needs a reality check? M let's say it's bittersweet to me,
(48:33):
it was it's Elon Okay, he should have humble pie.
But actually I'm okay that he exposing some things. Okay,
so that's the bittersweet humble pie. I'm here for it.
Speaker 1 (48:49):
Pie. Yeah. Oh that's my mum. Let me ask her. Hey, mom, thank.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
No, but I'm doing a podcast. I got a question
for you. I got a question. Who do you who
need some humble pie this week? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (49:12):
Who's been showing they ask this week? A need some
humble pie?
Speaker 2 (49:17):
It's a wait, I'm with my mom. The o G
Batty Yes, always said the same thing. He is asked,
Oh right, who else?
Speaker 1 (49:31):
Stephen? What's the man? I can't stand? Oh we do?
Ok about somebody? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (49:44):
Okay, so Donald Trump and Stephen A. Smith y'all need
some humble pie from Eli Musk and Elion lest.
Speaker 1 (49:55):
Yeah that's still because he had, So I can go home.
Jetty Katty shouted shouted, all right, thank okay.
Speaker 2 (50:10):
Bye, Well, thank you all for joining us and Mama
making appearance. I appreciate that, Mama. Doctor Roberts can humble
batties today. Yes, thank y'all so much for tuning in
as usual. Make sure y'all like and subscribe and comment
and follow. I'm asked three Nicole, when everything except for Snap,
(50:35):
I think I'm asked through Underscore Nicole. We can write
to us at contact that Humblebatties dot com and where
can they follow you? Let on Instagram at Alexis underscore
dot Ameyer.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Awesome. All right, y'all, we'll see you next time. Thank
you so much. Have a good night, everybody.
Get in my way, never out of my name, and
like you one and the more.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
One is going to be what that?
Speaker 1 (00:09):
What's that? What's up? What's that?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Another episode of the Humble Backer.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I'm your girl, Ashley, your close.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
And I am Alexis Wahtoda Meyer and we are the
Humble Baddies. Happy Wednesday, ash Happy Wednesday. Mag day some
day just taking care of business. I had a mee
data solo date yesterday. Okay, I went to took care
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of all kinds of stuff first and then went and
just went to the beach, got service.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
On the beach and just had wine and lunch and then.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Day yeah with the spot like a good ninety minute massage.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Oh, it was just wonderful.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
It was something I needed for myself and I feel
soul rejuvenated and better.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
And I do this from time to time, but my.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Body was saying, Lex, you need to take a time
out and relax. I feel like from sheffing it up
on the weekends and it's staying in those long hours,
it's turned into my you know, I'm starting to have
back issues and so like I'm learning how to stuffing
back issues for me. But it's from standings it's knife work.
(01:35):
It's just moving around. It's constant movement. So my body's
adjusting to the new change. And so I'm fine with this.
So now I know how to adjust myself, my posture,
and take care of my body, drinking water as well
as getting these massages.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
I need them. So so you want that internship.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
This is no joke, like you really in there charming up,
like cheffing it up, like.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Y'all gotta come see me this week. I'm come.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I'm gonna come. I'm out of town, out of town
last weekend. I'm out of town this weekend. I'm out
of town next weekend. But I'm coming. I'm coming. I
just got to figure out when I'm coming. But I
definitely want to come support you already. I've already had
your food sorrery. No, okastly.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Well. The good thing is this.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Is technically my food, but not really my food, you
know what I'm saying, because it's the restaurants.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
But I get it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but it's is
a good thing.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
I've come out and support you out here, and I
can't wait, like just to see you in your element,
see you doing your thing.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
I mean, I know I've been working so hard.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I will run into you at Soho house working on
your CONE homework and your tests, and I will call
you and I will see you, you know, in the
kitchen doing your assignment. So I know how hard you
worked on this and you're almost at the end. So
the thing, I can't wait, I can't wait to come
and sup. I'm excited. I'm excited. Thank yes much. And
(03:07):
we missed you on Monday.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Yeah, Broug.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
You know it's hard out here the summertime, you know,
can triculate the traveling. But this again wasn't about me.
It was all about my husband. They have a an
alumni program for the Raiders. He played for the Raiders,
actually only for one year out of his career. He
(03:32):
played for ten years, but he played for the Raiders
for one year. And what I love about the Raiders
organization is they really take care of their alumni. And
I can't say that for any other organization. And you know,
he played on four teams, so I know that's I
can't account for all the organizations, but I haven't heard
(03:55):
of any other team taking care of They're not just
their players, their current players, but they're alumni. The way,
that's the raids organization does. So they why the alumni
if you played for one game, child wust a writer,
all a writer? They fight you and your caregiver. So
(04:16):
that's your wife, if that's your mom, your bestie, your cousin,
them whoever. They they bring you out and they have
a whole wellness weekend and they check you from the
rudah to the tutor. If you need a mental health therapist,
they set you up with somebody. I had an ultrasound
(04:37):
on my heart.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh wow.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
They're doing mammograms, they're doing hearing tests.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
They're doing that.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
You need to make sure that you know you're being
checked out because you know, somebody got they don't want
to go to the doctor.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Even though they may.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Have all these benefits and stuff you know provided for them.
Men can be you know, subborn and not make the appointment.
So I just love that they bring all of that
to the facility and you know, they offer everything they
need right then and there to get it done. And
then it's just nice too for the alumni to feel wanted,
(05:16):
because you know, the NFL's like it stands for not
for long. So some time is done and them lights
is all those lights are off. So it's just a
beautiful thing to see how they look. Care for the
alumni and I mean when I say they are legends there.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
They are players who played in the seventies.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
You know, it's all age groups and just to leave
them support it and love going and educated because they
bring they have an expo, they bring people to teach
them about you know, not just their bodies, but what's.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
How to deal with things. You know.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
It's just it's just a beautiful weekend to come together
and to support them in that way. So to the Raiders'
organizing the Raiders for real, I like that that's actually dope.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Is this an annual thing they do. It's the annual
thing they do.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
And then they also have an a longer week and
so in August they bring everybody back out and it's
more of just like a fun weekend where they you know,
set up different events and the guys can just hang
out and you know, you can bring your loved one
with you. And I do want to say the ladies
have a presence there. They do have for the women
ladies play. Look, I know you met a Toyt girls
(06:31):
and there the off the field NFL lives was there.
So now our presence is there, we have a place there,
we're supported, we're there to give support. So it's just
all in all, a beautiful, beautiful thing that they have
going on, and I hope the other teams pick up
on it because all the players need it. That's amazing, youse,
(06:55):
you call it a caretaker that can was able to
reap the benefits too, because that is so nice, SCEs Sari.
Whatever your spouse or someone like mother, whoever needs this, this, this,
that weekend or you know those few days, that's crucial too.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
So I think that's great that.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
They're involving you know, whomever that person choos us to
be there with him and get some some treatment as well,
because it does take a village and you know, you
can forget about yeah, you think we can take care
of you know, right, your Raiders. So I think it's important. Man,
it's beautiful, you know what they have going on, Like
to really think about every little thing like that, it's amazing.
(07:34):
They really do a great job. Great job that.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
So that's where well I was doing this weekend.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
It was all about the Raiders and their alumni and
I love it, Like I had a great time. I
can't wait to go back in August where there we
go to a game and we just get to hang
out and have a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
But it's in Vegas.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
The Raiders are in Vegas now, well we were there
when we played for the Regga Raiders.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
We were in Oh that's big difference. Now you have Vegas,
you get Vegas, you get Vegas, so you know, a
little Vegas we can't ever know. I've been cool.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Yeah, I'm saying I had a little Vegas here and there,
But you know, Matt, it was just your tube. No kids, right,
no kids. Oh so y'all had a nice little weekend away.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Yes, I love that.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Hey a little We went to off the restaurant Wellness on.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
It was nice.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
And you know, I was born in Vegas, so it's
like I don't feel attached.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
To it in any way.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
You know, my dad was in the military, so I
was born there because he was stationed at Nola's Air
Force Base. But I just every time I've been like,
oh my, I can't believe I was born here, Like
it's just so weird, Like I don't feel any kind
of like connection. I'm very much in Atlanta girl, that's
where I claimed Little christ Reform while we were there
at our hotel.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
So that's cool that little pizza bent Leona Dare. Yeah.
So it's the great weekend girls, the great. I love that.
I love that.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Well. I'm glad you all were able to get away.
I'm glad that y'all got your health checked out and
your mind right and.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Here we are back again. So I love that for
y'all world.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
So, speaking of Luda, the b ET Awards was this
past was that last or the night before last night?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I believe that's crazy. I feel like my days are just.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
But yeah, I thought a hold of Christmas there and
he did the usher. They did a tribute and it
was I mean, I thought the worst this year were
very reminiscent. Is that the word no, Li said of Like,
that's not the word thing?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
What's your thinking?
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Was the word that you're saying where it reminds you
of Nustasa? Okay, That's what I'm happenant to say. So
it's just like reminding me of like a workshops back
in the day, because.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
They did like our tribute.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
You know, they had a little bowl performer yeah six
some part.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Yeah, Yeah, I like that. It was nostalgic, that is
the word.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
And it was very reminiscent of going back in time
period when we were there and we were the videos.
Because now our children are looking at videos, you know, on.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Not it's not the same anymore.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
They're watching streamers, they're watching video games, they're watching other
people play video games. It's just, you know, what they
do different now. I don't remember when, Yes, I couldn't
wait to turn the TV on, watching on US sixty
Park and watching down the numbers ain't changed, it's so long.
It didn't matter because I needed to watch it all
the way down to number one. And that's how we
(10:58):
learned how to dance too low key, you know, we
wanted to know what who was wearing the best sneakers,
what the best jewelry was they were into, remember the jerseys,
the oversized clothes and the fashion and you know, the
newest trends like those. That's how we got our trends
was literally tuning in to that. And so I like
to shout out to the BT a warzone because it
(11:19):
does bring back like that essence of who we are
and we're so much you know, we are R and B.
We're soul, we're rock, We're hip hop, we are gospel,
you know, all these all in country, all of these
territories pop, you know, rock, everything you can imagine and
jazz and and all of that. So we I just
(11:40):
love to see it because it is nostalgic how it
does take us back, because I love that they brought
out like Kurt Franklin, you know, I feel like I
was watching it with a side of the parts that
I did get to see, and she's like, who's this.
I'm like, oh, this is an education level, you know,
because now our kids are going back and singing these
songs that have been remixed and like, yeah, I know
(12:04):
my parents so like we've heard that before, like you know,
maybe somebody remixed the Marvin Gabe vibe or something. But
like it like when our generation sample songs, we knew
the original too, Like we heard our parents, you know,
parents though too, like parted these kids these things. They
(12:25):
think they know everything and that this is not that
that just came out Like maybe no, this stun been remixed.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Two or three times.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Yeah, it's like so, but it's like at the at
the other end of it, it's giving artists streaming, you know, again,
there's songs that were older too, Like I was looking
at my daughter's TikTok the other day and she was
she had reposted like this song right now it's gen
z and akon Soul Survivor and now it's like trending
(12:58):
on TikTok, so like taking out, She's like, mom, this
is a dope song. I'm like, what, We've been there
and done that already, but it's back, so here we are.
You know, it's new to them and they're the ones streaming,
so it's like low key. It's just like it's help
It's helpful on so many levels. Hey, it's the new way. Yeah,
but the BT wars were dope. The person I did
(13:19):
see they did a tribute to Jamie Fox, who is
well deserved after the year he's had, and just I
forgot like about his hits.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
He's a comedian, he.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Had his his songs as well as you know he acts,
so I mean, he's just a I was just like Dany,
you know, he is so talented and has oscars, so like,
this guy's is top after mentioned he just came back
from that whole health scare. So absolutely glad that they
able to you know, receive his flowers while he's still here.
And that's what I feel they do because we definitely
(13:54):
get overlooked, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Yeah, but yeah, that's pick.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
Sometimes with the tribute, I feel like they're a little
like overdo or like they pick the super You know what.
That was a good a good pick for for this tribute,
for this award. You know what about the the fashion.
The fashions are always a hot topic at the BET Awards.
There were a lot of risky outfits. Some looked like
(14:23):
fashion Nova, some look like white you know, I don't know.
They didn't take enough time, they they didn't pay their styles.
They coined this year, some of the people had a
lot to say.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Somebody said that what's her name? Young Miami? They said
she was given Oh no.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
The comment was, I guess she don't got them Diddy
coins no more because her dress wasn't you know, Yeah,
I just see Young Nake's dress, but that was rude
in that, but it wasn't given.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Her dressed was not. I didn't see it. Yeah, I
know who.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
I can tell you who did look good though. I
thought Kiky Palmer looked phenomenal. Okay, from hair to toe
I also thought LaToya luck it looked really good.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Those are the.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
I love that dress on her and her hair, just everything,
so I liked I look at the full thing from
I look at the full image from hair all the.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Way down to the toes. You know what I mean.
You gotta see the full look.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Yeah, I thought they were pretty dope. Tisha Campbell the look.
They didn't like her look either. They said she looked
like that fish from that one kid's movie. But they
were also talking about how she recently got a Mimmi makeover,
(15:54):
and they were saying that she kind of maybe threw
her friends under the bus because she was like, yeah,
I tell my friends to go get a Mommy makeover
and they didn't, and she named them because it's the
I can't remember who she's bad. But people are just like,
why would you tell other people's business like that, Like, Okay,
you got a Mimmy makeover.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
You don't need to tell everybody else's business.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
And although they were on her, they were like, you
didn't just have baby, so is it a mommy makeover
or did you just go get a BBL Which one
is it? She was good, you know, I feel like everyone,
especially in Hollywood has some niptuck maintenance something right. What
the beautiful blessing is about it is you. You do
what you want to do to your body on your
(16:34):
time at the end of the day. So whether it
is a bbl a snatch waists, some breasting, plants, some
you know, facial whatever you want to do for yourself,
do it.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
I mean, it is what it is.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
You're gonna have people who are gonna compliment you, and
you're gonna have people who are gonna hate on you.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
It just is what it is.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
But it's about you at the end of the day,
what your confidence, confidence exuding. And it's about them coins too,
you know what I mean. Like she she probably is
seeing herself on television. She is a public figure, and
I feel like, again, people are gonna be like, ooh,
she looking it rough.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
She need to go get nip and tuck. Okay, maybe
she wasn't ready for it at the time.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
And just because she was putting her friend's business out,
like oh, I got to like to go do the same.
And also they were just like, girl, that's not a
Mimi makeover.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Your kids are grown old, mom. But I guess mom,
And yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
No, it's just she't got your body there and you
gotta be yell or like, oh just say that it's okay,
r create it.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Like now, I'm just like, look like low key.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
Recently, like for example, Kylie Jenner has been more open
about her plastic surgery exactly she had, and I'm like,
does that really a different se y'all? Like, are y'all
really gonna run out and say, oh, we're the four
hundred and forty CC just like Kindie Jenner? Right?
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Yeah, they will. That's crazy to me. They will, and.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
Their their doctor's gonna be like, she has a different body,
she has a different everything, and so you can't have it.
Speaker 1 (18:14):
We're gonna give you what we can give you. That's
so interesting.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
The amount of weight that, you know, anything that these
celebrities say have on their fans. You know, it's scary
because what if she was like, you know what, I'm
going prack now like I do crack on the weekends.
So you're all gonna go be crackeads now you know
what I'm saying. It's just like whatever they say goes,
(18:40):
And if you're not teaching, you know, that's why you
got to monitor these these you know, these handhelds.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
At times, because it's harder out here for anyone in general.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Now, like people are telling you, like you know, I
look up and people are getting news off of the
gram now social media and far from true.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
People have there' prop this.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Propaganda, like all that stuff going, propaganda going on. I'm
sorry everything, So politics is now being involved.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
And then this is how you're spending money.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
It's influencers, it's lifestyle, it's cooking techniques and and this
health scare and this way of accessing this and now
you can click and shop and it comes right to you.
So everything on this handheld device is becoming a source
of everything. It's a therapist, it's it's the moon tracker,
(19:35):
it's uh, it's a grocery counter. It's the everything you
can imagine. So it's making people spend money, and you're
spending the most money when you see advertisements. And at
the end of the day, social media is an advertisement. Yeah, pickole,
you want to.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Buy I just recently bought some Kylie Jenner loot.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
See what I'm saying, it could be it could be her,
Like that's why do you think she became a billionaire
was off of the influence of her followers and posts
and and also being in these places and then having
like her lip kit, you know, became very popular that
she had her lip kit, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
And then we're like, wait, well we've been we've seen
your lips.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Pre and now you know what I'm saying posts, so
we know that's not from these lip pits.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
But most people didn't know that, you know what I mean.
So it work.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
She had the loft and fell injury. Yeah, yeah, but yeah,
you know, shout out to Tisha though, like do whatever
makes you happy. She look good and I'm sure she
seems happy, and you know it's it's probably feel from
a lot of things too, because she's also recently divorced
from her husband of however many decades and life partners.
(20:51):
So like this is a rejuvenation time. This is when
you get your your snap back and your mind right
and really get your get your get yourself together because
she now back out there, So be your best self
back out there in the streets.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Yeah, I'll say, had them all part.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I think the men looked the best on the beet
red carpet this year. I think the men really they
came with it and there were a lot of African
designers as well.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
You know, I just wanted to put that out there.
I loved to see that. Yeah, I loved seeing kJ Smith.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
She accidentally gave out her the the gender of her baby.
You know kJ she plays on that show Sisters. Oh yes, yes,
I did see that. I just see that. Told everybody
she's having a baby girl, so looking brat her. I
mean even it's a whole bunch of like little things
that I just love to see. That meant the bet
and words seemed just a little bit more like in touch,
(21:55):
more personable, more.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
I don't know what we loved as you know, while.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
We tune into the ET, I feel like it's getting
bad groups, you.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Know, and everybody feel more human again, you know. I
like that. I like that a lot especially.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
It's just it's just the resurgence of how popular is
be coming And I love it for us, you know.
I love that I could sit with my daughter and
explain to her who Shanty is?
Speaker 1 (22:23):
You know what I mean, Like, I'm like, who is you.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Know?
Speaker 1 (22:27):
All these We're just like who was this? Mommy?
Speaker 2 (22:30):
But then there was a few obviously like your Drake's
and Kendrag's and party next door.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Right, you got her Hurts Bet Award at this show.
Is that's something and well very much overdue.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Yeah, So like here we are because you know, to me,
that's what really matters the most. Yeah. We talk about
the Oscars, we talk about Tony's, we talked about the Emmys,
we talk about bill Board Awards, all these other ones.
But to get it from your people on Black Entertainment Television,
you know, ran by for us, you know all of
these things. You know, at the end of the day,
(23:06):
we gonna take care of our people and we're gonna
always support us, you know, and it's time that we
we keep giving those accolades out and really putting us
in the forefront because we definitely get forget forgotten about
all the time.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
So we have our own platform. You know, they like
if you don't have it, build it.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
So here we are having our own platform where you
can excel and have awards and be recognized.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
I think it's awesome. I think it's beautiful. It was
a good good yo. Oh. Kevin Heart. Kevin Heart hosted.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
Yes, he's always hilarious, always pistally mine.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
I love having Heart.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
I think I've seen every single one of his stand
up when he's come.
Speaker 1 (23:52):
Into town, like, yeah, he's a good one. Funny to me, Yeah,
here's funny.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
I love that seat and bringing the bridging of the
generations too. They had Drew Ski and kysonat there, so
like a side of perked up when she saw that.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
She was like, okay, you know, I love a damn oh.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
I saw a flip where Kysana ran into Wale like
in the hallway or something, and he didn't know who
he was, and then Wiley went up to him and
looked like, Yo, the people are like shripping, like because
you didn't know who I was and k I was
just sitting there white and okay.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
But that's like there's one.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Like if somebody doesn't recognize me, I've played it off
like I'm gonna act like you know what I mean,
like I don't want to make it up more of
an issue to me. That's making it more than anything.
That's so awkward. And he was miked up so like
in kine streaming when he said this so you can
hear it's just that was just embarrassing to me. But
(24:58):
that's just another know situation of where the two generations
are crossing in.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
But like the older guys. We gotta stay younger than you.
Know what I'm saying. So if passing and I don't
know who you were, it's a problem.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
Okay, while by passing, I ain't he don't know many words,
man step up with cookies a little bit. So what
I'm saying, I would never address it though, I just
would not. I would have walked off like that didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
You know what I'm saying. I would have played it off.
Speaker 2 (25:31):
But yeah, I oh no, I thought it was a
a great, great show from the flip side, so I
didn't get to see the whole thing. Okay, So moving on,
let's talk about Elon must and Donald Trump and their
(25:52):
little billionaire beef they've been having. So just got tech
bros were too rich to be methy, Elon Less and
Donald Trump decided to square up on social media. The
drama started with jabs about intelligence, turned into a full
on Twitter war, and ended with Elon tweeting like a
(26:13):
man who finally read his screen time report. So what
started this beef and how did it spiral into a
billionaire of petting it?
Speaker 1 (26:24):
Well, we have two.
Speaker 2 (26:28):
Men that are in a power of position because of
not just popularity, but also wealth and access. And now
when you have two egos and these narcissistic behaviors now
joining forces, it's bound to be some conflicts at some
(26:52):
point because now the diva comes out, the power of
authority comes out as well.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
As he figured, yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
And so with all of that being said, very predictable
that this was going to happen to the extent.
Speaker 1 (27:09):
That it's going. You know, it's like I thought it.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Was interesting how Elin became a part of the Oval office,
you know, meetings and just there anyway. So this is
not a surprise to me, just because everything in this presidency,
especially with this president and when he was before last,
he's always done things that have been going against our
(27:36):
democracy and also laws and rules and regulations that have
been put in place for before time.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
So he's just inventing this a lot as he goes along.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
So with that being said, the disrespect that came with this,
it's like was done in the dark comes to the light.
So this was bound to happen because not only did
you know the president give power to this, you know,
entrepreneur and scientists, billionaire let alone gave him that confidence
of like you could sit next to me in the
(28:08):
Oval office, and now I'm catching phone calls with the
head of Germany and ahead of this, you know, China
and this and this.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
And this, and you know it's business involved.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
You know, it's you know, an exchange of funds and
some some contracts going on.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
So with that being said, you know.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
The fact that he was throwing at them jabs Elon
was on X talking about you know, you know he's
in the files. I'd love to see it because you know,
President Trump was one hundred percent saying believe the Whitehase,
believe the Waterhouse whenever we put out these statements. Okay,
we're gonna believe this, all right, because you were the
one that vows for this man.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
You were the one that had him up there when
you were getting inaugurated.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
You were the one that is also put your name
and stamp on some contracts with this man, and you
put him out there in the forefront and introduced us
to him on this level. So you know what, we
gonna believe everything we see, all right. And not only that,
I'm just again, I'm not surprised. It's very predictable. This
is just how everything has been and I feel some
(29:11):
kind of way, like the fact that I'm just like
I knew this was gonna just this, this is gonna happen,
you know. I just feel like, let me just set
this one out, you know what I mean, like and
just observe. I'm not observed. That's because you know, yeah,
be careful what you ask for.
Speaker 1 (29:30):
That's it. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:32):
I think they're both you know, they've always been who
they are, you know, so we can't be surprised that
now they're being and having little paid right. But it's
still so embarrassing. I feel like every day it's just
Trump does something like it's just so embarrassing that this
(29:53):
is the president of the United States. It's been embarrassed
in the last one hundred and sixty days what you're
talking about, since that inauguration when he didn't put his
hand on the Bible.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
It's been embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
In the days of you know, people in power, we
didn't hear from them like that. It was their people,
their pr there whoever this is the president of the
United States of America went at with Twitter figures.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Like what are we surprised? He's been twitter Twitter fingers.
Speaker 2 (30:23):
He's been saying you're fired, and had these shows and
his name everywhere on buildings and here top culture President,
it's our president before he looks a weld, the TV
star and whatever. This is America and he have Twitter
figures like I can't take him serious?
Speaker 1 (30:44):
How do y'all take him serious? How or how didn't
we get here? You know Elon? Like, don't y'all have
something else to do? Like, ain't y'all business busy? You know,
with some business? Don't you out of the business?
Speaker 2 (30:59):
Is the most powerful country in the world, the friend
world of the United States of America, that is Elon
stock went down so bad. I know people who went
out and bought teslas because.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Why not, it's cheap. Now, you know what.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
I'm saying, Like I mean, I don't know. It's just
it's all a joke. It's all funny. I can't take
anything serious anymore with this president. I saw a meme
that said somebody had their passport and then a little
sticky on it on it as soon as like you
open it, it says, I apologize in advance, but I
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don't condone what's going on in our country.
Speaker 1 (31:45):
Let me in something like that. It was great.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
There's whole if they're protesting and other yo team and
protesting and being put to the side and spray aid
and rubber bullet. Yeah horrible, and y'all are y'all got
Twitter fingers? Y'all are really deefen right now? When okay
(32:10):
that I just can't I can't fix the ball and deflecting. Yes,
but again, when you gotta believe people when they tell
you they're gonna do something for sure?
Speaker 1 (32:28):
All right, let's move on to Humble Baddies fan mail.
Speaker 2 (32:35):
Yeah, okay, the wedding was cute, but selve less. I.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
I'm gonna read it. Oh you can read it. Yeah,
I won't read it. Read Sorry, I know you thought
you're all right?
Speaker 2 (32:52):
The okay, humble Batty's mail about that time they're Humble baddies.
I showed to my cousin's wedding looking fine, b faced,
body on display, energy unmatched. Halfway through the reception, the
bride told me I was stealing attention. It said I
should have dressed more respectfully.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Girl.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
It's giving hater and hells now the aunties are calling
me petty.
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Was that wrong for looking too good? Or was she
just mad I was glowing harder than her? Highlight?
Speaker 2 (33:27):
Signed the cousin that whispered about but can't sit next to. Okay,
So was the bride and secure or the cislow key
across the line.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
What you date? Okay?
Speaker 2 (33:40):
So I don't think there is an etiquette for a wedding, Okay.
So I don't think you should out through the bride,
you know, I think you should not wear white. I
think you should, you know, follow whatever dress code that
they put in the invitations. So I do think there
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is you know, a dress clothe that you should abide
by and should make sure that the bride is the
attention you know, grapper of the event.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
Okay, period. But if it's tiny, fine.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
So it don't matter if I show up, you know
what I'm saying, I'd be cute wherever I'm at and
whatever I'm in, and however I show up, So.
Speaker 1 (34:27):
You know, if I followed all the rules and.
Speaker 2 (34:29):
The bride feel some kind of way, I think, and
if they say something, it might be an insecurity thing
because I know, if I'm getting married, my attention is
not on anybody else and what they got on and
whatever beyond me saying hello, how you doing?
Speaker 1 (34:43):
They for coming girl? That's all the energy I really
have for you.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
I'm not into like checking out and see if somebody
will else look better than me at my wedding. So
if it got to the point where they were addressing
other people, the family is addressing people for how they
showed up looking great at there.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Ready, then I think that might be more of an
internal problem.
Speaker 2 (35:05):
You know, I think y'all are putting too much energy
into the wrong things. You need to take a better
look at you know, the situation, what's going on, what's important?
Speaker 1 (35:16):
You know what I mean. Now.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
I did see the other day that's the video of
going viral. It was two girls riding in a car
and it was the girl driving. It was her birthday,
and she was crying and she was upset because her
friend in the passenger seat.
Speaker 1 (35:33):
She was like, girl, you look so much better. It's
my birthday. Why would you wear that? You know you've
got more body than me. You can't be wearing stuff
like that. And it's my birthday and I'm not gonna
have fun.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
And then like she was really upset and crying like
hysterically because her friend that showed up looking real good
on her birthday.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
And you know, my friend send it.
Speaker 2 (35:56):
To me and we just kind of had a conversation
about it, and I was just like, you know, of
our friend was wrong for posting that, you know, reporting
her and posting her frame in that very distraught, vulnerable moment.
But at the same time, for me, that would have
been the end of our friendship, you.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
Know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
So, you know, posting her being hystericial, it don't even
matter because at this point we're not gonna be friends
some more, because huh, like, how are you going to
be mad because I showed up in the body that
God gave me for our vot whatever? You know, Like,
I can't change my body. I'm gonna wear what I wear,
you know what I mean. And it's your birthday. You
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shouldn't be upset with me because of how I look.
I don't, I don't know. That's weird to me. And
her friend was like really upset like she did it
to her. So I feel like, you know, situations like this,
it's more there's some internal work that needs to be
done if you feel that pressed and insecure to stay.
Speaker 1 (37:00):
We all have our insecurities, Like you know, I'm a human.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
I've definitely been out of our homegirls and looked at
my outfit and then like, oh girl, you.
Speaker 1 (37:08):
This ain't it? You not keep tonight? You know what
I mean? Like we all have our insecurities.
Speaker 2 (37:13):
We all have our moments where you know, we want
to look better or whatever.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
We all have that.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
But when you start acting on it and speaking on
it and making it an issue. To me, that's where
it's a problem. And I think that that's something internally
that you have to work on. But like I said,
there are dress codes, there are etiquette, there are.
Speaker 1 (37:38):
Things that we as the world need to do, like
girl code. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
I agree with you as far as the ft point
of you know, as a bride, Well, my first wedding,
I there was a dress code, and I feel like
the whole point is to have a dress code and
to had to respect it. One that my dress code
was very much unconventional. It was we're black or white
(38:08):
and or the recombination of both.
Speaker 1 (38:11):
It is what it is first, so normal dress though
like to tell people like okay, I'm out of the wedding.
Black usually okay depends the if that's the tire.
Speaker 2 (38:19):
But you don't usually see black, right, and then you
don't see white because the bride has been white, but
I already had I had four children already out, so
it just it was not.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
Giving white for me. But y'all be great, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (38:33):
So at the end of the day, like I had
a dress code, but at the same time, I was
so confident in myself and what my dress was.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
You know what I had going on and my my
changes and things like that, where I was focused on me.
Speaker 2 (38:48):
I know who I invited to this wedding, and the
whole point was I also know that I have some
dope friends, you know what I mean. I want you
all to show up and show out because it's giving part.
It's a festival, it's a party, it's a celebration. I
don't have time. I want to make sure everyone's having
good a good time. They're having good food, this great entertainment.
(39:11):
I'm not worried about. The only thing I was worried
about is if you didn't come in the dress code,
meaning you know, black and white and were low key.
I'm gonna be real with shoe. I had some backups
in the back just in case. We had extra suit jackets,
and we also had dresses, like two dresses that were
either they were in black, so just in case if
(39:32):
things were in different sizes, so just in the case
some things were popping off. Because respectfully, you gotta adhere
to the to the bride and groom's requests.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Now, I'm not stopping a wedding.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
I'm not confronting anybody at my wedding unless they did
something very foul to me or was not invited something right.
Speaker 1 (39:51):
But I'm gonna have people handle that, you know.
Speaker 2 (39:53):
Second of all, I'm not letting that interrupt and really
just kind of change my energy either about this person.
You know, your girls fly, you know your girl god body.
You know how she dressed like it is what it is,
you know what I mean, Like you gotta expect that.
You gotta expect her, you know, to be herself and
show up now, you know. So you know it's it's
(40:16):
really is about the you know, the bride and the
groom in this moment. People do want to take away
from that, but you know, I'm not letting it. I'm
not letting it kind of change up my mental or
really my energy at all because she didn't deserve that.
Speaker 1 (40:30):
She doesn't deserve to have that moment.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
Now, you know, spotlighted even more on this young lady,
you know what I mean, the guest, you know, I
just think it was just kind of petty black because,
first of all, let you know, they be expensive. Sometimes
you gotta go, you've got to buy you out there,
you gotta show up an go out of town. I
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will take some forgainst any kind of way other than
like grateful that they're there, you know, as long as,
like you said, they respected like the dress code, you know,
and even if they didn't, I still I just feel
like it's tacky to, you know, meet a guest at
your own wedding with any kind of negative energy, because
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that's from your day, you know. I also want to,
you know, bring attention to something that really don't even
matter anyway.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
It's by planning about you and your new husband.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
And yeah, oh yeah. To the humble batting writer schuer out, No,
it's a no. You can't be doing that to your guests.
You know, I would say that anybody else who's worried
about something like this, you need to be confident in yourself.
Always dressed in a way that makes you feel confident.
(41:53):
Don't try to dress like other people, because when you
do that it shows you're not as confident. You got
to find your own style. You gotta find something that
compliments yourself, that makes you feel good, that makes you
feel comfortable, and no matter what anybody else got on
or whoever else is in the room with you, you
just gotta worry about yourself, Okay, don't worry about nobody else.
(42:15):
Sometimes somebody else is gonna be look better than you
and that's okay. That oh okay, And that's.
Speaker 1 (42:23):
When you're supposed to be like, damn, girl, you look good.
Speaker 2 (42:26):
And then she gonna be like girl here too, and
then that's it and then boom, that's it.
Speaker 1 (42:31):
That's the end of it. Well you ask you this, then,
have you been't have ash?
Speaker 2 (42:36):
Have you ever been an accidental main character at somebody
else's event?
Speaker 1 (42:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (42:44):
Yeah, Yeah, it's awkward.
Speaker 1 (42:48):
It's strange. But also you know, you can't help it.
If you're if you if that's the energy you get
when you walk in the door, you know what I mean,
you can't help that.
Speaker 2 (43:02):
And but also I think it's a way of going
about it where you realize, like, okay, it's a different
way to to be too, to handle that situation. I
feel like when you realize like, Okay, everybody is excited,
but this energy is here.
Speaker 1 (43:22):
You know.
Speaker 2 (43:22):
I feel like there's a certain way to handle it,
you know what I mean. You have to be humble
batting about the situation. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
And it shows if you're you have to just be
a warm, welcoming person. And I feel like then it
RAI radiates and it rubs off onto everybody else in
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the room, and then everybody else feels comfortable, everybody else
feels better. Every It's just really how you That's that's
really what main character energy is. It's when you can
walk in a room and make everybody else feel better,
you know.
Speaker 1 (43:57):
Yeah, I love Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
So, yeah that that could happen, But it's all in
how you receive that and how you reciprocated at the
end of the day. Reciprocate that made that main character energy,
that made that humble batting energy. Okay, reciprocated because it
can rub off onto the room like good energy, bad energy,
(44:21):
all of that rubs off, so reciprocate it.
Speaker 1 (44:26):
Yeah yeah, I like that. Yeah, Okay, so is that
it did we answer the question?
Speaker 2 (44:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (44:33):
Yeah, question I mean, was the bride insecure or this
this low key cross the line.
Speaker 2 (44:40):
But yeah, yeah, they're a limit to how fine you
should look at somebody else's big day.
Speaker 1 (44:47):
You can't. You can't mute your your energy, your or
or your fineness. Please don't. Let's not. Let's not.
Speaker 2 (44:54):
And I feel some kind of way as anybody who's
a whole said, you know what, Lex, can you ton down?
Speaker 1 (45:01):
I'd be like, you know what, I'll total it off.
I'm not coming. That's weird. Oh my god, weird. We're
older too. I feel like we're older sis.
Speaker 2 (45:11):
And like only I only expect like ash, I only
expect you to come like ready, like I expect you
to be tea Like I'm like, that's my that's my girl.
Speaker 1 (45:22):
She's gonna be dressing dope.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
And you expect me to be on part too, Because
a matter of fact, if you're come in any other
kind of way, something's wrong.
Speaker 1 (45:29):
You know I'm gonna be like, are you okay? I
hold them to be like damn that group that's crue. Yeah,
who the single one? What's going on?
Speaker 2 (45:41):
I mean that's why you can tell those girls who
only hang out with like one girl is a ten
and the rest are like four and a half.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
We can we know, we can see that. We read
through that.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
That is the insecure girl right there, because there's no
way that you can be hair done, make up done.
Speaker 1 (46:04):
Outfit like bomb and your friends ain't put together. Because
so my friend, now I'm gonna be like, girl, take
that off word.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
This is like you know, I'm gonna give you my heels,
my clothes, whatever, so we can you know, match my energy.
You know what I'm saying, like cause I know if
we friends now times at a tend, you like what
I'm wearing.
Speaker 1 (46:25):
You know what I'm saying. Your style, we know who
you are. I'm gonna you know.
Speaker 2 (46:34):
So if you see a girl and she's hanging out
with her friends and she like the baddest one by
a long shot, like then to me, that streams like
you're a pick me you want to be seeing you're.
Speaker 1 (46:51):
Be a center all that.
Speaker 2 (46:52):
Yeah, we can see that, and we don't like that.
That's not being a humble baby like that, letting your
hair your girl go out her hair messed up or
something to make up and write a hlash is cricket
or something.
Speaker 1 (47:04):
Then you burn out of good frame. Period.
Speaker 2 (47:08):
So don't be that girl, and that stuff here. Okay,
people expect you to dim your likes so they can
feel bright.
Speaker 1 (47:18):
I say, it's it's the wrong people.
Speaker 2 (47:20):
It's never it's never the you know, it's never your
your your inter circle. If it's the circle, and they
want you to dem it, you know, going back to
what we said, then they not, that's not the proof
for you. I'd rather you tell me I'm slacking. Yeah, like,
you know, tell me I'm slacking, Like, are.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
You off today? Likes? Like what's you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (47:39):
Like, hey, like, pull me to the side. That's that's
more of the energy I need, I think. But we're
also older too, like you know what I mean, we
don't have time for that. We're just happy to see
each other and have a break or you know, ready
to you know, have a good time, to have a
good meal and whatever. No, that's crazy. You need to
(48:02):
get a new friends if that's Yeah, that's a weird thing.
That's weird. Yeah, weird.
Speaker 1 (48:07):
All right.
Speaker 2 (48:08):
So to close up Humble Batties episode tonight, who needs
to be humble this week? Let's wrap this show in
a Humble Batty's way by handing out this week's humble
pie who showed their ass online this week, and who
needs a reality check? M let's say it's bittersweet to me,
(48:33):
it was it's Elon Okay, he should have humble pie.
But actually I'm okay that he exposing some things. Okay,
so that's the bittersweet humble pie. I'm here for it.
Speaker 1 (48:49):
Pie. Yeah. Oh that's my mum. Let me ask her. Hey, mom, thank.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
No, but I'm doing a podcast. I got a question
for you. I got a question. Who do you who
need some humble pie this week? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (49:12):
Who's been showing they ask this week? A need some
humble pie?
Speaker 2 (49:17):
It's a wait, I'm with my mom. The o G
Batty Yes, always said the same thing. He is asked,
Oh right, who else?
Speaker 1 (49:31):
Stephen? What's the man? I can't stand? Oh we do?
Ok about somebody? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (49:44):
Okay, so Donald Trump and Stephen A. Smith y'all need
some humble pie from Eli Musk and Elion lest.
Speaker 1 (49:55):
Yeah that's still because he had, So I can go home.
Jetty Katty shouted shouted, all right, thank okay.
Speaker 2 (50:10):
Bye, Well, thank you all for joining us and Mama
making appearance. I appreciate that, Mama. Doctor Roberts can humble
batties today. Yes, thank y'all so much for tuning in
as usual. Make sure y'all like and subscribe and comment
and follow. I'm asked three Nicole, when everything except for Snap,
(50:35):
I think I'm asked through Underscore Nicole. We can write
to us at contact that Humblebatties dot com and where
can they follow you? Let on Instagram at Alexis underscore
dot Ameyer.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Awesome. All right, y'all, we'll see you next time. Thank
you so much. Have a good night, everybody.
Hosts And Creators
Ashley Wheeler
Alexis Stoudemire
Sharelle Rosado
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