April 8, 2025 • 43 mins
Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis react to the recent trend of side chicks taking the spotlight over main chicks and why being a side chick never works out in the long run. Later, they Love & Hip Hop ATL star Bambi revealing a fresh new tattoo of her fiancé Rayface’s name and talk tattoo regrets.
01:38 - Intro
03:46 - Side Chicks Gone Wild
29:34 - Bambi Tattoos Her Fiancé
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Get in my way, never out of my name.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
It's been like you.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
One and the more one, so is gonna be Baby Squad.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hey, y'all, welcome back. It's the Humble Baddies Podcast. I
am your girl, Ashley Nicole.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
I'm Ale.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
And I'm Alexi's well side admire and we got the baddy.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
What's up y'all? Hey chilling. I was just, you know,
just glowing going on this beautiful Monday. You sure are growing.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
I saw you at Serenity, you and French files out
on the beach where y'all was at. Girl, We took
a little trip destination and know secret location. Oh that's
my baby. Yes, we had a little mommy daughter vacation.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Okay, okay, And I see Lexu glowing too.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
You know, my class work was just sitting on the
shelf just a little bit lonely, and I needed some
much like some real relaxation and recalibration time.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
So I dipped to Jamaica and was just.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
On the beach, yes, yes, getting to eating my my
planting and my peas and rice and like fried cabbage
and my whole snapper. So I've just been eating and
living and relaxing. So I'm happy.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I love that. For y'all, I wasn't nod. You've been
a chicken chicken mama.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I'm a chicken mama. And you know, they chicks grow
so fast, like they already big already, they're big already,
like they you got to hold them with two hands.
Now what a difference of week makes, Like that's incredible. Yeah,
So I'm getting them a little chicken coop bilt. Actually
it's a big chicken coop, like I was gonna say.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I'm sure it's gonna be. I can't wait.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I'm doing the most of my love we got. We
gotta come check the chicks out.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
But speaking of chicks, let's talk about the side chicks
are side chickens.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
It's the side chick all right, y'all.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Let's get into the realty in twenty twenty five, all right,
the side chicks ain't hiding.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
They letting it be known that they are side chicks.
They keeping it real.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
They're posting their lavish lifestyles, hosting jet picks, rolexes, they're
Chanel bags, they're men's bags.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
They just showing it, showing out. So do y'all think, But.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Are they really will in talks, But are they really winning?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Do y'all think side chicks are winning? Is it?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Is it like a they praise to be a side chick? Now,
I mean I think they winning.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
At something for sure. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
If you out here, I mean hopefully, if you're a
side chick, you wanted the side chicks that's getting flown
fluid out and you know, benefit SAgs and you you know,
I hope you're not the side chick that's just having
to lay on your back and that's it, you know
what I'm saying. So I would say, you know, if
that's what you choose to do and you're getting all that,
(03:23):
then I would say you're.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
A winning side chick. Now are you winning out what like.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Relationship wise or I don't know about that, but I
feel like if you a side chick and you getting
all them things, then yeah, I think you're doing good
at being a side chick.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Who does see you bitch and you're right stay on
that level.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
But the check is really winning because you know, like
no women eventually want what that want that wife status,
They want the main.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
But maybe they don't. I feel like a lot of
women these days don't see the value in being a Maine.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Because they're like, why would I be a main chick?
Why do I Why would I subject myself to being
with a man who maybe I think would cheat on me,
or why would I be with a man who I
don't know, doesn't treat me as well, doesn't buy anythings
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
You know that those type of women, like you know
what I mean, maybe they.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Feel like it's a better situation to be the side piece,
you know.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
I think.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Nowadays, you know, being in a relationship, people just don't
believe in it as much because of you know, their
past situations and you know, data in these days is hard,
so like you might as well just get you know,
fluid out and bags and stuff, and don't even has
to worry about having to keep this this man happy.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I look at it as temporary satisfaction.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
It is very much to say here's here's some money
or here's a bag, just to statist, Yeah, just to
satisfy your senses for the moment. But it's very much temporary.
And it goes to show you that when you you know,
understand that you're a side check, you also know that
you're not first, and you're not the main you know,
(05:15):
the and I do know there are women who accept less,
but we got to do better, you know what I mean.
It's just I wouldn't want the bare minimum. I don't
want I want the person that I'm doing. They're getting
the bare minimum. I think they're getting what they look
we're talking about materialistic stuff though, I mean the side
(05:36):
like they know their role, so I feel like they
don't feel like they're missing out on something. I mean,
there are people who know the role for sure, But
what are you getting out of it? Nothing except for
something monetary or temporary satisfaction, nothing of value of substance,
only monetary, and to me is whack behavior. And you
also really like you know, it's just really very much
(05:58):
putting yourself in the position of that you are not
the one, and to me, you getting that energy and
you're putting that into just the relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
You can't question this man, you can't, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
And then and then Loki, if you're seeing them out
or you see him, you know he's not with you.
If he's not with you, he's with the other, his
wife or potential just his main partner who he's giving
love to. But Loki, I pose the question thoughe like,
do the people like if you really are with somebody
in a like in a committed relationship, and then the
(06:32):
side check has like that hush mentality of not coming
out like do you all feel like it's almost like
almost degrading of that woman to just be like accept
the bare minimum. Like I mean, I know you said
ash a little bit, like you know, be good at
being a side chick.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
But I feel like I believe in karma.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I believe in all these different things that you know,
why are we accepting the bare minimum?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
So I just want to I'm just curios.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
So what you guys's thoughts are on that, you know,
of just really thinking that.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
You know, the guys can it's like think this is okay.
I don't know. I just I just feel some kind
of way about it. I don't believe in this. I
just want to put that out there.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
I'm just trying to for sure from the perspective of,
you know, women who don't mind being the second or
aside or whatever, I feel like they're outside of myself.
I feel like there's some women, like Ashley say, who
don't want to just be tied down in a relationship.
(07:36):
Because I know some women who are signy and they
are okay with being siled chicks. Do I agree with it?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
No, I do not.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
But for reasoning word, they don't have to deal with
the stress. They person take care of what they need
to take care. They come and go, They satisfy their
needs and move on. It's no nothing more. They don't
want nothing else to it. They would rather let the
main person deal with all the distress and drama.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
It's like, so they accept a portion of the of
a man, they really except what what they they want
and they continue on. So I don't know, I could
not be no side chick. I'm just saying, right, it's
not my portion. It's no you go out, you know
(08:25):
there's some person either. It's just nothing again, nothing again.
Those who choose to live that lifestyle, who want that lifestyle,
there's nothing wrong with it because in some some situations
it's people who been married and they feel like it's cheaper.
The keeper and their relationships are just just there just
because and they have a whole nother thing going on.
(08:49):
And I feel like men are not going to leave
their wives though for the side check, Like statistically, I
feel like you know. I guess if you know that's
what your portion is going to be, then like low key,
you're just gonna always stay second. I mean, I feel
like over time there could be feelings attached. Obviously there
the hope of maybe I'm gonna be with this person
(09:09):
later on.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
It's just beyond disrespectful to me. So I don't know,
it's just and I could never be number two. And
I think, dude, maybe it's a thing of like not
you're not a side chick, but you might be with
a man who has just like a lot of women,
you know what I mean, that counts as a side
chick too, right, because you're not a main I think
(09:33):
I think if you are, if you know, like if
y'all have this like a little conversation and you're like, hey,
you know, obviously you know he's in a situation he's like, yo,
I am committed to this woman, you know, or whatever,
she's my main, or we live together, we got kids
to get whatever he's gonna come up with. I guess
maybe he's given that the side chick, the option to
(09:54):
be number two, and knowing that, you know, if my
wife calls, you need a hush up if we're out
or do family things or whatever the case may be.
I just feel like they know what they're doing and
they know their position. Yeah, I think.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
A lot of I think there are like a lot of.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Situations situationships where people are out here, you know, with men,
and they know, you know that they do things for
other women, but they would say like, that's not my man,
that's not my boyfriend, and he's he doesn't have a woman,
but he's doing like those things for maybe her and
(10:32):
somebody else.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
So I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
I feel like it's just interesting because you know, I
feel like a lot of women these days don't care about,
you know, if they're not looking for a man, Like
if they're not, then they would prefer a situationship where
they get flood out, they get the bags, they get this,
this and that. You know what I'm saying, te they're
(11:00):
okay with that. You got some sid like Okay, well
I don't got a man, but I do got this
one pacifizer.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Then you got some quat chicks that turn into the
so called main chick. And then now it's a new
side cheek.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
So it's like what chip this is lose and how
you get them. That's so true, But I believe it.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I believe in karmic energy, you know what I mean.
Like obviously the main chick, she probably don't even know
what's going on. She don't know funds are leaving her, households,
the emotional attachments, the physical, the all these things, you know.
And I feel like most men in these situations, when
they have a side chick, they pick the weaker women
that are okay with this and just they know that
(11:47):
they can throw some money off.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
I mean to them if.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
In the world who marry a certain type of lady
because they know they can have.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Sights, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Like, I feel like rich men know how to pick
a wife and sometimes the wife, you know. I think
men think that like women are dumb and like, you know,
we don't see like their way, like Nieve or something
to that. And I think some women play into it
because they like, fuck it, I don't care if he
(12:22):
has a side piece of whatever, as long as like,
my lifestyle is the life, you know, my lifestyle.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
You know what I'm saying. So do y'all think that intentionally?
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Will you know, be with a man who has a
lot of money, knowing that he's probably going to have
side chicks. I think the woman is more acceptable if
the man has a lot of money, like they'll deal
with more of it then and know that, Okay, this
(12:54):
is what's going on. I've seen it several times.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
This is a lot of community.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Yeah, religious, would you have the money the funds that
ain't tricking if you got it.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I guess I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. But
if you was in that, if if you within those
shoes and he.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Got all these women ship the one, we can have
her at piece suit.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I'm sure it's not going down. I'm sure if.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
You have.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
What Sam Brady and just saying, y'all think Tom handing
him some soft pieces? What I feel like that? I mean,
I know, I don't know. I don't know about that.
I didn't hear it.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
I didn't.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
No, I don't think someone was cheating on his ball.
That's his side piece.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
We do not know.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
I just can be a side check. I feel some
kind of way about side checks, and just because I
feel like you're doing more harm than good and it's
very selfish, But then I don't fault them as much
as I fought whoever's in the relationship, especially if you're
hiding behind backs, you're doing the dirty stuff, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
It's just like now you're starting to put health and jeopardy.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Now you're starting to put financial strain and all these things,
and just that putting that energy of you know, we're.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Sneaking around behind the main situation.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
But we have seen where people are very much anything
happened like you don't happen, like more kids can come about,
of course than what like anything can happen. So yep,
you're playing with fire. So that's side chick mistress type
of thing. And I don't feel like they're being elevated.
So like I know, we have fans that are of
(14:52):
all ages. I don't think they're being elevated. I think
it's just very show what I got on the gram,
you know, but you can't even show him on like
a picture or whatever. You can show the stack, or
you can show the new bag that came out, but
there's more to that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
It's just like, but that bag is not gonna warm
me up at night.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
It's not gonna answer that phone call if you have
an emergency either, you know what I mean, You're just
not the priority, so.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
That's your value.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
So have we normalized being the side shit because relationships
are failing.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
Oh No, it's not normalizing it. I don't think it's
But like I said, it might be easier.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
You know, if you come coming from a relationship where
you got hurt or cheated on or whatever, or it
didn't work out for whatever reason, it might be easier
to just decide like, oh, well, I'm gonna mess with
this man like I can get what I want from
him or whatever.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
You know.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I feel like it's a pieces it's to some woman
in some situations, you know what I mean. I don't know,
but I don't think it's normalized. I don't think nobody
deep down inside wants to be a side chick.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Yeah, I definitely.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
I just came out of a relationship and I definitely
ain't about to jump into nothing being no damn side chick.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
It's not word.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
No, I'm not even hollering at you. You got a
person like I don't even want that energy. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I don't need nobody you know, hitting me up on
the side, like yo, you're dealing with my man? Yeah,
I don't know. I don't want those smoke with that. Sure,
it's not for me. So if a man is panbills
flying you out and keeping it honest, is that toxic
or transactional? It said it again?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I said, if a man is panbills flying you out
and keeping it honest, he got a woman, is that
toxic or transactional?
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Both?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Yep, both, It's very much toxic because I'm just you know,
paying for you to the hush and really stay on
the side, not be elevated very much, stay stagnant, and
very toxic because that energy.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Again, you know, let me be financially you know, manipulating
you low key.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
You know, we're not toxic since he's keeping it real.
What if he's keeping it on this than he's like,
you know what, I'm married, but I'm not happy. You know,
my wife does not give me sick and I just
you know, I respect her and everything, but I just
want to fulfill my needs.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
And this is what I'll do for you in exchange
for this. Yes, both, it's both.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Yeah. My creation between my let me tell you something
for me to get some kind of disease or some
kind of whatever is not worth my health he's not
sleeping with no one else.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
He chose, he's you know, his wife thinking, man, that's
sex saying he talked.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
He was like, Okay, I'm still married, my apartner, a
sexual partner, still married, still attached.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
I mean, I just feel like the whole transactional thing,
it appeals to a lot of women these days, Like
I feel like they would rather that situation over having
nothing and over having a chance that this man is.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
They think they're gonna get hurt again, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
I feel like it's not that it's normalized, it's just
it appeals to a lot of women these days because dating,
the get dating game is, it's crazy out there'd be
very transactional on very top. I might as well, I
might as well get a bag, I might as well
get flowed out. I hope you're getting flowed down and
(18:51):
you're getting everything, your bills paid, all of that.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Please don't be out here doing all that. Please look
please nothing not a thing, not for nothing.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I hate it better, But it's just like, girl, if
you're gonna be out here doing all that.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
I don't want to go.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
I want to and getting the light deal paid. Something
like hey, car, no light deal, n flute out for
me the world, see the world.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
I ain't having it.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
No, no, no, no, I'm not risking making sure my
kids go to school every morning, my health, my mental
none of that.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
Nope, not for me. And being married, I wasn't playing that.
You know, that's not fun. Who wants to be dealing
with that?
Speaker 2 (19:46):
You know? And now being like dating and when you
talk to people and you want to lock it in,
I'm still not dealing with that.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
We can have very much open conversation, what are you dating?
They want to date other people? Then we can break
up and not be together. We can all we can
all go date other people. You're just saying you believe
in dating multiple people. I mean, I know now were
locked in.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
That's different.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Okay, if we again, and I said this too, if
we had the conversation of hey, we're being exclusive, this
is what it is, but I'm down for that. But
if you're like, you know, let's be exclusive, but you
know I still might dibble and dabble here and there,
then you're not exclusive with me.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
That's what we got to clear up too, because a
lot of people they was on our heads last week
lecks about dating multiple guys, but it's not dating and
having sex.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
It's like, correct on your options. Okay, I'm going to
date with this guy. I just met this guy. I'm
gonna date. I'm not I'm not intimate with them, but
I have options that I can weigh out.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
Yeah, just keeping an open mind because I'm trying to
figure myself out to like who I want to lock
it down with, because it's like really low key made
the best man win, you know, like because I know
whoever I'm gona end up with them elevating their life.
So it's gonna take some time I get to I
need to know what's going on. I need to know
who your people are. I need to know how you,
(21:13):
you know, treat others. So to me, I want to
know who you are because we.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Can only compatible.
Speaker 2 (21:18):
Yeah, because you get a representative at the first, you know,
first few months, the first everything's fun and all this.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
Thank you, like what the hell I got myself?
Speaker 2 (21:35):
And yeah, so that's dating. And and if somebody asked
me like, hey, are you dating other people? I would
be very honest with them. I wouldn't keep it from them.
But that doesn't mean I'm being intimate with everyone. I'm
really just I'm going to have a coffee, I'm going
to go to dinner like it's good to have conversations,
and I'm not with anyone to be like thinking I'm
(21:56):
being sneaky or think you know, any of that kind
of stuff. I'm very much grown and can very much
communicate and verbalize what's going on.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
So if I want to ask, I will see.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
That's the thing, and that's why where I feel like
relationships fail, and because we feel like we only can
go out on date. We go out on date with
one person, and we feel like we have to just
lock in. That's what miss especially these men, they misunderstood
what it's like. I want to weigh out my options. No,
I'm not having sex with all these guys. No, I'm
(22:28):
not intimately involved with all these guys. Right, weigh out
my options to see if we're compatible, and if we're not,
we're not, we can move on. It's nothing serious. It's
okay to go go on a date, correct to know
each other. If we're vibing, we're vibing. If not, move on,
I'm we go on another date with this person.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
See how it is.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
That's right, there's nothing wrong with that, especially when you're
at an age where you know what you're looking for
and you know what you want.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Correct, you're not settling, you know better, you do better.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
You know. That's the whole point of dating. It's just
like dating, like you want to date. No, men just
can't handle it. They just can't handle, you know, women
doing what men do anyway, so.
Speaker 1 (23:14):
What they doing.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
But but but the thing is, if y'all wanted to,
y'all could, like y'all have grown, if y'all wanted to
go out here and have sex with whoeveryone has sex,
but you could. It's just like the double standard of
dating and the double standard with men and.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Women, like, you know, men just can't handle a woman
doing what they do.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
You know what I'm saying, Like, it's just it is
what really verbalizing it just saying, hey, I'm dating other
people and it's not just you. Yeah, they can't. They
on top of your gang always double standards. I mean,
if y'all wanted to know how people are, like okay
mm hm, that's why you ain't gonna never be married.
(23:55):
That's why you're the book. Absolutely couldn't do that. So
y'all even just having to like correct that. It's just
like y'all don't have to do all that because y'all
are growing this up. Y'all can do what y'all want
to do. Y'all can have sexy. You want to have sex,
so you get day whoever you.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
On the day.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
It's just they're mad because men in their egos just
cannot handle it. That's the point by period all it is.
And we were just being on holling so well they
we're about to start dating, like trying to start getting
going out, and we're gonna do the speed dating. Remember
(24:33):
y'all gonna do speed dating. I think we should do
it on like I g live, you know, like have
people hop on their lives like a quick like.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
Yes, like interacting every done. Huh, how are we gonna
how are we gonna like vet these people? How a
y'all gonna bet these people? But what we're gonna do,
I mean, this is just you know, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
We're experimenting here. Okay, we're experimenting. We'll figure it out out.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Don't worry. You just show up. You just be there
and your fine self and be ready. That's it. I
can do that. I could do that. I rotate, rotating.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
We're gonna click hang up next, Oh, click, hang up
like who's next, Who's next?
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Who's next? Shot? Your shot? I got, we got a
better we'll talk about it offline. What we don't what
we're gonna take you to find your Oh love people,
let me know that. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
We're gonna go stuff. Okay, it's going to London. We're
going to London to final You know, I heard you
or I heard some good prospects over there in London.
Speaker 1 (25:59):
We gotta all the way. It ain't not over here.
You don't want nothing over here.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
I am.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
That's long.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
I said.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
We need to go get some fish and chips over there.
Go to the London Bridge. I'm trying to go.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Holler at go holler at the Prince, the so Royalty
over there. Yes, we gotta go where the money.
Speaker 1 (26:25):
I'm joking. The chat gonna go crazy again.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
Now we go diggers because we're going over there where
the money reside. Oh yellow man, is it love oid temporary?
Oh that's a good for y'all's baby tattoos sports adoring debate.
So the baby from Loving Hip Hop revealed a fresh
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new tat to her fiance's ray Basis name.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
Boldly ink on her body. Talk about taking things to
the next level.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Do y'all think she took things to the next level
by tattooing her fiance's name on her but then they
hit and there yeah fiance right, yeah, okay, I mean
I it tapped my name, so I know it's real.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
I don't know. I mean I like a two for
one too, Like if you get me, then you know
I might get like a time stamp. I believe in time. Said,
Oh what's that today? Can't I don't even know what
it's saying.
Speaker 2 (27:31):
It's about to be removed. I was about to say,
you know, that's one thing about you can get a
ready you got one of them up?
Speaker 1 (27:45):
You got somebody names? You got somebody name on you? No,
but I got it. There's a few. There's my name
is on a few. How about that? Period? Now I'm
about to remove a lot of my tattoos. Though I'm
about to.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
I want nobody loved me. I ain't got nobody got
their name, fe like got his name.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
But I have my kids.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
I mean, I'm I'm not no tattoos Astley, I like
that shirt girl, Let me stick the shirt.
Speaker 1 (28:13):
That's great, Okay, refant for the squad bread. You know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
We all are family, see you right, We got that
they humble baddies for sure.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Dom good.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
But yeah, I'm reminded past I'm into that and that's
gonna be her whole husband. I think that's a good
like expression of love and like how to show your
love for somebody, you know, I think.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
As long as you do it and he's smart about it, because.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
I feel like back in the day, like in high school,
a lot of my friends got their little boyfriends on them,
you know, like that wasn't smart trap stamp exactly. Oh
I never got the traps now, but I got the
thigh tattoos. I don't like like ill. That's why I
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tell my daughter's damn now.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
Wait until you become older and mature before you start
getting tattooed, because I regret getting tattoos.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
All of them all love them, damn now, don't I
have four? I have about fourteen tattoos, y'all. But the
way I tell my kids is be very strategic about
it because I'm like, if you're in my personal space
or like, you know, more on an intimate level, then
you can see them.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
They're all over you know what I mean. So I
don't have them.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
I could wear a gown and it's like, won't be
like this, you know. So they're like hidden in different
ways and they mean different things. But I'm all for
time steps, you know, I don't mind, like, but it
could be. It can be like a little anchor. Did
y'all like to go, you know, fishing or something.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
I mean, there's other things to do, but this is
her whole fiance, So I think it's cute. Whatever she's
into text. I mean, she probably got her other ex
husband on there too, you know, or maybe crossed off
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
I mean, who knows. That might be her thing. But
you know, Ashley, would your tat deal name on you? Yeah?
I think I would. I think I would.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
I think I think it's like not yet, not yet,
hold on, hold on.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
I was like, yeah, I would, but I'm not.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
Testoos ain't really my thing yet, and I want to
be like moved to do it like, you know, I
want to feel like yeah, because I'm a very like
impulsive person.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
I'm a very like so I want to feel it
like I don't like Bell Harper, and she was like,
come on, let's go get a tattoo. I'm like, bitch,
yeah yeah, let's.
Speaker 2 (31:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
Now I'm here, I'm here. We don't get a piercing
over that? Oh yeah yeah yeah. If I wasn't in
the army, I would have had all kind of piercings
going on. They was mad.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
I had my nose pierced twice. Then they kept trying
to make me take it out. I was wearing it
when I went post to and you know, oh you
can't wear it. I have all these piercings. They kept
making me take it out. But anyways, I would I'm
thinking maybe for like a special anniversary or something like
you know some of them that's cute. I was. I
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have a girlfriend who had her husband's like he signs
like a letter just right behind her ear, just like
right there, tiny.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
I has no other tattoos.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
Ah and cute, but like Phil doesn't have tattoos either,
Like so I don't even know if he would look
at it and be like, you know, with still don't
have not one tattoo.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
No, he don't have not one.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Wow. So I would be very upset if I got
it and then you can look at him and then
he back out like.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
I don't like it, you know, like why you do that?
Speaker 2 (32:08):
You know, well, I mean I understand what you're saying,
because I'm thinking, like, think about the ladies who are
getting the faces tattooed on their on their face.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Like a whole portrait. Yeah, you know, that's a bit much.
I don't think that's smart. That's just done, period. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
Tog Krashan, the eternity bitch. What's her names about? She
has a lot of them too, of her gods, the
whole beautiful face and put a whole man who not
feel in the chat time out, get my name tatted
so he know it's very.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
First of all, you go first, y'all go together. He's scarol.
It's scary.
Speaker 2 (32:57):
Soon as they pull out that needle, hears he ain't
gonna do it. I'm telling you, it doesn't hurt. Get
some nomin creams and she's ready to get my next one.
He scared the needles be.
Speaker 1 (33:09):
A punk and it's not gonna happen that you're gonna
ask him talk to you like that. Now you got
a point to go.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
Get that down.
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Put it right here. M that's funny. But anyways, if
you want to go get you get a piercing anytime.
If if you started dating the guy he had his
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ex tattooed on him, what are you doing? Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (33:48):
I mean if it's get serious, and especially he has
like a lot of other tasks. I was like, it's
time to go get that covered up. Like why why
wouldn't you want to go get it covered up?
Speaker 1 (34:01):
I don't think. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (34:04):
Again, I feel like it's a timestamp. So if that
was somebody that you were rocking with, then like, I
don't think it'll bother me. It depends on maybe where
it is. I don't want to see it if we
especially if we get married and this is the only
body I'm fantasy for the rest of my life. Oh yeah,
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only get if we get married. I don't need to
see that every time. I don't want to see. No,
you're about to you about to start doing some four
play you run it you bump into the lane.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Yeah, no, I wonder where.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
And that depends on where it is, Like if it's
right above, like you know certain areans and it's like
the name is says talking about hers or something you
know this is.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
My I could eat and do whatever too for the
rest of my life. Mm hmmm, cover it up, cover
it up now, burn it off something, cut it off.
You make a good point.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
A lot of arguments have started because of previous tattoos,
like getting into new relation.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
Really yeah, A lot of people can't.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Accept that having old, old names, you know, excess names
on them, A lot of people can't.
Speaker 1 (35:26):
I mean I understand.
Speaker 2 (35:27):
I mean I feel like, you know, if it's like
a previous marriage or long like, I don't know, but
once you're I just feel like, once you're in a deep, deep,
long committed relationship, at some point you should, I think,
probably cover it up.
Speaker 1 (35:43):
Like that's a another respect. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2 (35:50):
I don't think go into a relationship you should be
like automatically all right, cover that bitch name up.
Speaker 1 (35:55):
You know that might be a bit too much. Yeah,
Why I have a tattoo on my ring finger and
I wouldn't cover it up. What does that tag? When
I get wrong? What did it symbolize? Like when I
got married? What is it a date? It's a Roman
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numeral twelve. Well, yeah, well.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
I'm matching, you know, that's your like marriage and like
that's the part of your life. Like I get that,
you know what I mean, But how would you like
getting it up name like Keisha che shush, you know, Like.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
I think that's a bit nice. I don't know. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
I mean, I think it's the name. If it's if
I have to see it, I feel I think I
feel some kind of way. But like if he has
a like even a face, I don't know if I
want to see a face, that would be weird. But
like the numeral, I would. It's just a part of
a time, you know, and then that's it. But I mean,
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it's red red ink. I have a lot a few
red tattoos. But it can get it can get covered up.
You know, it's just asked. Well, do I think it's
like a red flag if somebody asked you to get
their name tatted on you. No, I don't think it's
a red flag if it's bothering them that much. But
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that's if we locked in.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
And if we about we we we together together, not
just anybody I'm dealing with.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
No one said ask me to get their name tattooed
on me, like if I want to, Yeah, Like I
don't want nobody that. Don't ask me to get your
like you want like a name tag like yeah, like
only like you only like Yeah, I don't know. That's
a little I don't like that. Don't don't ask me
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to do it. I want to put it should definitely
be mutually, you know, consensual for sure.
Speaker 1 (38:03):
Yeah, but now I feel like.
Speaker 2 (38:04):
You'll go together with it, not want to get it
because why are you asking me to No, let me
do it, because I want to do it exactly, I think, yeah,
me too, I like once.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
Yeah, well I think you know Bambi wanted to get
her test of her fiance. So here we are.
Speaker 2 (38:25):
Well, well, we're gonna form of express it lasts, does Bambi?
You don't want to be looking like a good old him. No,
I wish right there you can really see I know
you can see it. But what you're gonna do with
yours Charel?
Speaker 1 (38:44):
You're keeping it. I was just about to.
Speaker 2 (38:47):
Ask ash, I don't know. I haven't side yet. It's
not my to do list, Okay, okay, So if you
at least is an option, because nowadays you can get
them removed in everything too, So.
Speaker 1 (39:08):
Yours is.
Speaker 2 (39:11):
Now I think I if I do, if I did
do sothing between popering up or removing, I probably would remove. Yeah,
because you said you don't like any of your tattoos
at this point, I don't.
Speaker 3 (39:23):
That's true, zero, not even one. I'm past that stage, y'all.
What are your tattoos of?
Speaker 1 (39:34):
But the rest of them. I have a lotus flower
on my thigh. I have a coverall.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
I snuck and got a tattoo when I was when
I was sixteen. The first tattoo was a little plate,
a little playboy bunny because I want to hide it
because I snucking got it. Then when I I was like,
what the hell on my door? Would have played boy
like I didn't even know the true meaning of a
place boy bunny. So then you get covered up with
another flower.
Speaker 1 (40:04):
Okay, you like flowers like that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (40:07):
Well, because I mean you're getting it that Honestly, That's
why I have never gotten a tattoo, because I'm like,
I don't even like nothing enough like that to take
you and get it.
Speaker 1 (40:16):
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, like flowers.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
I have my kids name on my back, I have
my clodiac sign on the taper of my neck, and
I have a big tattoo for my stomach up put flowers.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
So you like flowers. She likes flowers, but I don't.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
Okay, that's the thing, like reminder all over, I got
the kids. I got a little heart, that's my first,
my latest one.
Speaker 1 (40:47):
I'm like, you name, they're all over the birth Like
I want something that means something, but that's like you
got to ask me to know what it is. Like
I don't want it to be like like the flower.
I need them to be like what is that? What
do that mean? Like it's a sport, But I ain't
got that. I don't have anything like.
Speaker 2 (41:07):
But see, all my stuff was young, So it's like
I did it because I was in the mind. You
know everybody everybody had tattoos. Here was that you know,
it was you had tattoos, Like it was just go
get them. It was a tattoos shop on every everywhere. Yeah,
I definitely want to with my friends to get their tattoos.
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And I don't know, I just couldn't take up my mind.
Speaker 1 (41:34):
But see that's good. I don't know. I have a list.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
I have an ongoing list of potential time that you want.
What do you want especial next tattoos? I want to
I want to get an outlet of the world, and
then I want to I think I'm gonna end up
doing some like tallies of all the countries I've been
to and gonna grow that. I'm gonna do a phoenix.
I got all kinds of stuff, but I'm gonna have
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them to wear. Like if you see see me standing
up straight, you won't really see them because I mean,
they're mine, are all over the place. See. I feel
like that I would be a girl who would want
to whole sleeve, you know what I'm saying, Like I
just don't know, huh, and and finding the right.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
Artists, right, I will all that stuff I would. I
could still see me with a sleep you know what
I'm saying. I can see you would have sleep though,
lokate but don't get it. Yeahs a tattoo girl. That
would be me.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
I just you know, Yeah, I feel like I could
see you want to sleep too. I would do that
ship Yeah, Minor Sporatic. It's like hide and seek over here.
It's just like whatever, okay, how sep? Yeah that's right.
Speaker 1 (42:46):
Did y'all see many? I didn't see it. Let me
see if I can find it. I don't know, was
it just like a name. Was it a signature or symbol?
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Okay, well, you know you just hope somebody's locked in
all the way to where you keep it going, and
you got it. Now, did he get hurts or no?
Did we travel to say did did he get hurts?
I don't know, but probably so. But you know, Ben,
I don't know who herd her fiance is, but we
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wish them the best.
Get in my way, never out of my name.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
It's been like you.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
One and the more one, so is gonna be Baby Squad.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hey, y'all, welcome back. It's the Humble Baddies Podcast. I
am your girl, Ashley Nicole.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
I'm Ale.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
And I'm Alexi's well side admire and we got the baddy.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
What's up y'all? Hey chilling. I was just, you know,
just glowing going on this beautiful Monday. You sure are growing.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
I saw you at Serenity, you and French files out
on the beach where y'all was at. Girl, We took
a little trip destination and know secret location. Oh that's
my baby. Yes, we had a little mommy daughter vacation.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Okay, okay, And I see Lexu glowing too.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
You know, my class work was just sitting on the
shelf just a little bit lonely, and I needed some
much like some real relaxation and recalibration time.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
So I dipped to Jamaica and was just.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
On the beach, yes, yes, getting to eating my my
planting and my peas and rice and like fried cabbage
and my whole snapper. So I've just been eating and
living and relaxing. So I'm happy.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I love that. For y'all, I wasn't nod. You've been
a chicken chicken mama.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I'm a chicken mama. And you know, they chicks grow
so fast, like they already big already, they're big already,
like they you got to hold them with two hands.
Now what a difference of week makes, Like that's incredible. Yeah,
So I'm getting them a little chicken coop bilt. Actually
it's a big chicken coop, like I was gonna say.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I'm sure it's gonna be. I can't wait.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I'm doing the most of my love we got. We
gotta come check the chicks out.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
But speaking of chicks, let's talk about the side chicks
are side chickens.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
It's the side chick all right, y'all.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Let's get into the realty in twenty twenty five, all right,
the side chicks ain't hiding.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
They letting it be known that they are side chicks.
They keeping it real.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
They're posting their lavish lifestyles, hosting jet picks, rolexes, they're
Chanel bags, they're men's bags.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
They just showing it, showing out. So do y'all think, But.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Are they really will in talks, But are they really winning?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Do y'all think side chicks are winning? Is it?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Is it like a they praise to be a side chick? Now,
I mean I think they winning.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
At something for sure. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
If you out here, I mean hopefully, if you're a
side chick, you wanted the side chicks that's getting flown
fluid out and you know, benefit SAgs and you you know,
I hope you're not the side chick that's just having
to lay on your back and that's it, you know
what I'm saying. So I would say, you know, if
that's what you choose to do and you're getting all that,
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then I would say you're.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
A winning side chick. Now are you winning out what like.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Relationship wise or I don't know about that, but I
feel like if you a side chick and you getting
all them things, then yeah, I think you're doing good
at being a side chick.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Who does see you bitch and you're right stay on
that level.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
But the check is really winning because you know, like
no women eventually want what that want that wife status,
They want the main.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
But maybe they don't. I feel like a lot of
women these days don't see the value in being a Maine.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Because they're like, why would I be a main chick?
Why do I Why would I subject myself to being
with a man who maybe I think would cheat on me,
or why would I be with a man who I
don't know, doesn't treat me as well, doesn't buy anythings
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
You know that those type of women, like you know
what I mean, maybe they.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Feel like it's a better situation to be the side piece,
you know.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
I think.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Nowadays, you know, being in a relationship, people just don't
believe in it as much because of you know, their
past situations and you know, data in these days is hard,
so like you might as well just get you know,
fluid out and bags and stuff, and don't even has
to worry about having to keep this this man happy.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I look at it as temporary satisfaction.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
It is very much to say here's here's some money
or here's a bag, just to statist, Yeah, just to
satisfy your senses for the moment. But it's very much temporary.
And it goes to show you that when you you know,
understand that you're a side check, you also know that
you're not first, and you're not the main you know,
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the and I do know there are women who accept less,
but we got to do better, you know what I mean.
It's just I wouldn't want the bare minimum. I don't
want I want the person that I'm doing. They're getting
the bare minimum. I think they're getting what they look
we're talking about materialistic stuff though, I mean the side
(05:36):
like they know their role, so I feel like they
don't feel like they're missing out on something. I mean,
there are people who know the role for sure, But
what are you getting out of it? Nothing except for
something monetary or temporary satisfaction, nothing of value of substance,
only monetary, and to me is whack behavior. And you
also really like you know, it's just really very much
(05:58):
putting yourself in the position of that you are not
the one, and to me, you getting that energy and
you're putting that into just the relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
You can't question this man, you can't, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
And then and then Loki, if you're seeing them out
or you see him, you know he's not with you.
If he's not with you, he's with the other, his
wife or potential just his main partner who he's giving
love to. But Loki, I pose the question thoughe like,
do the people like if you really are with somebody
in a like in a committed relationship, and then the
(06:32):
side check has like that hush mentality of not coming
out like do you all feel like it's almost like
almost degrading of that woman to just be like accept
the bare minimum. Like I mean, I know you said
ash a little bit, like you know, be good at
being a side chick.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
But I feel like I believe in karma.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I believe in all these different things that you know,
why are we accepting the bare minimum?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
So I just want to I'm just curios.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
So what you guys's thoughts are on that, you know,
of just really thinking that.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
You know, the guys can it's like think this is okay.
I don't know. I just I just feel some kind
of way about it. I don't believe in this. I
just want to put that out there.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
I'm just trying to for sure from the perspective of,
you know, women who don't mind being the second or
aside or whatever, I feel like they're outside of myself.
I feel like there's some women, like Ashley say, who
don't want to just be tied down in a relationship.
(07:36):
Because I know some women who are signy and they
are okay with being siled chicks. Do I agree with it?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
No, I do not.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
But for reasoning word, they don't have to deal with
the stress. They person take care of what they need
to take care. They come and go, They satisfy their
needs and move on. It's no nothing more. They don't
want nothing else to it. They would rather let the
main person deal with all the distress and drama.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
It's like, so they accept a portion of the of
a man, they really except what what they they want
and they continue on. So I don't know, I could
not be no side chick. I'm just saying, right, it's
not my portion. It's no you go out, you know
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there's some person either. It's just nothing again, nothing again.
Those who choose to live that lifestyle, who want that lifestyle,
there's nothing wrong with it because in some some situations
it's people who been married and they feel like it's cheaper.
The keeper and their relationships are just just there just
because and they have a whole nother thing going on.
(08:49):
And I feel like men are not going to leave
their wives though for the side check, Like statistically, I
feel like you know. I guess if you know that's
what your portion is going to be, then like low key,
you're just gonna always stay second. I mean, I feel
like over time there could be feelings attached. Obviously there
the hope of maybe I'm gonna be with this person
(09:09):
later on.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
It's just beyond disrespectful to me. So I don't know,
it's just and I could never be number two. And
I think, dude, maybe it's a thing of like not
you're not a side chick, but you might be with
a man who has just like a lot of women,
you know what I mean, that counts as a side
chick too, right, because you're not a main I think
(09:33):
I think if you are, if you know, like if
y'all have this like a little conversation and you're like, hey,
you know, obviously you know he's in a situation he's like, yo,
I am committed to this woman, you know, or whatever,
she's my main, or we live together, we got kids
to get whatever he's gonna come up with. I guess
maybe he's given that the side chick, the option to
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be number two, and knowing that, you know, if my
wife calls, you need a hush up if we're out
or do family things or whatever the case may be.
I just feel like they know what they're doing and
they know their position. Yeah, I think.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
A lot of I think there are like a lot of.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Situations situationships where people are out here, you know, with men,
and they know, you know that they do things for
other women, but they would say like, that's not my man,
that's not my boyfriend, and he's he doesn't have a woman,
but he's doing like those things for maybe her and
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somebody else.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
So I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
I feel like it's just interesting because you know, I
feel like a lot of women these days don't care about,
you know, if they're not looking for a man, Like
if they're not, then they would prefer a situationship where
they get flood out, they get the bags, they get this,
this and that. You know what I'm saying, te they're
(11:00):
okay with that. You got some sid like Okay, well
I don't got a man, but I do got this
one pacifizer.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Then you got some quat chicks that turn into the
so called main chick. And then now it's a new
side cheek.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
So it's like what chip this is lose and how
you get them. That's so true, But I believe it.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I believe in karmic energy, you know what I mean.
Like obviously the main chick, she probably don't even know
what's going on. She don't know funds are leaving her, households,
the emotional attachments, the physical, the all these things, you know.
And I feel like most men in these situations, when
they have a side chick, they pick the weaker women
that are okay with this and just they know that
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they can throw some money off.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
I mean to them if.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
In the world who marry a certain type of lady
because they know they can have.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Sights, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Like, I feel like rich men know how to pick
a wife and sometimes the wife, you know. I think
men think that like women are dumb and like, you know,
we don't see like their way, like Nieve or something
to that. And I think some women play into it
because they like, fuck it, I don't care if he
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has a side piece of whatever, as long as like,
my lifestyle is the life, you know, my lifestyle.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
You know what I'm saying. So do y'all think that intentionally?
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Will you know, be with a man who has a
lot of money, knowing that he's probably going to have
side chicks. I think the woman is more acceptable if
the man has a lot of money, like they'll deal
with more of it then and know that, Okay, this
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is what's going on. I've seen it several times.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
This is a lot of community.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Yeah, religious, would you have the money the funds that
ain't tricking if you got it.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I guess I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. But
if you was in that, if if you within those
shoes and he.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Got all these women ship the one, we can have
her at piece suit.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I'm sure it's not going down. I'm sure if.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
You have.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
What Sam Brady and just saying, y'all think Tom handing
him some soft pieces? What I feel like that? I mean,
I know, I don't know. I don't know about that.
I didn't hear it.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
I didn't.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
No, I don't think someone was cheating on his ball.
That's his side piece.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
We do not know.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
I just can be a side check. I feel some
kind of way about side checks, and just because I
feel like you're doing more harm than good and it's
very selfish, But then I don't fault them as much
as I fought whoever's in the relationship, especially if you're
hiding behind backs, you're doing the dirty stuff, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
It's just like now you're starting to put health and jeopardy.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Now you're starting to put financial strain and all these things,
and just that putting that energy of you know, we're.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Sneaking around behind the main situation.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
But we have seen where people are very much anything
happened like you don't happen, like more kids can come about,
of course than what like anything can happen. So yep,
you're playing with fire. So that's side chick mistress type
of thing. And I don't feel like they're being elevated.
So like I know, we have fans that are of
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all ages. I don't think they're being elevated. I think
it's just very show what I got on the gram,
you know, but you can't even show him on like
a picture or whatever. You can show the stack, or
you can show the new bag that came out, but
there's more to that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
It's just like, but that bag is not gonna warm
me up at night.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
It's not gonna answer that phone call if you have
an emergency either, you know what I mean, You're just
not the priority, so.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
That's your value.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
So have we normalized being the side shit because relationships
are failing.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
Oh No, it's not normalizing it. I don't think it's
But like I said, it might be easier.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
You know, if you come coming from a relationship where
you got hurt or cheated on or whatever, or it
didn't work out for whatever reason, it might be easier
to just decide like, oh, well, I'm gonna mess with
this man like I can get what I want from
him or whatever.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
You know.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I feel like it's a pieces it's to some woman
in some situations, you know what I mean. I don't know,
but I don't think it's normalized. I don't think nobody
deep down inside wants to be a side chick.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Yeah, I definitely.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
I just came out of a relationship and I definitely
ain't about to jump into nothing being no damn side chick.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
It's not word.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
No, I'm not even hollering at you. You got a
person like I don't even want that energy. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I don't need nobody you know, hitting me up on
the side, like yo, you're dealing with my man? Yeah,
I don't know. I don't want those smoke with that. Sure,
it's not for me. So if a man is panbills
flying you out and keeping it honest, is that toxic
or transactional? It said it again?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I said, if a man is panbills flying you out
and keeping it honest, he got a woman, is that
toxic or transactional?
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Both?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Yep, both, It's very much toxic because I'm just you know,
paying for you to the hush and really stay on
the side, not be elevated very much, stay stagnant, and
very toxic because that energy.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Again, you know, let me be financially you know, manipulating
you low key.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
You know, we're not toxic since he's keeping it real.
What if he's keeping it on this than he's like,
you know what, I'm married, but I'm not happy. You know,
my wife does not give me sick and I just
you know, I respect her and everything, but I just
want to fulfill my needs.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
And this is what I'll do for you in exchange
for this. Yes, both, it's both.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Yeah. My creation between my let me tell you something
for me to get some kind of disease or some
kind of whatever is not worth my health he's not
sleeping with no one else.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
He chose, he's you know, his wife thinking, man, that's
sex saying he talked.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
He was like, Okay, I'm still married, my apartner, a
sexual partner, still married, still attached.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
I mean, I just feel like the whole transactional thing,
it appeals to a lot of women these days, Like
I feel like they would rather that situation over having
nothing and over having a chance that this man is.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
They think they're gonna get hurt again, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
I feel like it's not that it's normalized, it's just
it appeals to a lot of women these days because dating,
the get dating game is, it's crazy out there'd be
very transactional on very top. I might as well, I
might as well get a bag, I might as well
get flowed out. I hope you're getting flowed down and
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you're getting everything, your bills paid, all of that.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Please don't be out here doing all that. Please look
please nothing not a thing, not for nothing.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I hate it better, But it's just like, girl, if
you're gonna be out here doing all that.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
I don't want to go.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
I want to and getting the light deal paid. Something
like hey, car, no light deal, n flute out for
me the world, see the world.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
I ain't having it.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
No, no, no, no, I'm not risking making sure my
kids go to school every morning, my health, my mental
none of that.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
Nope, not for me. And being married, I wasn't playing that.
You know, that's not fun. Who wants to be dealing
with that?
Speaker 2 (19:46):
You know? And now being like dating and when you
talk to people and you want to lock it in,
I'm still not dealing with that.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
We can have very much open conversation, what are you dating?
They want to date other people? Then we can break
up and not be together. We can all we can
all go date other people. You're just saying you believe
in dating multiple people. I mean, I know now were
locked in.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
That's different.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Okay, if we again, and I said this too, if
we had the conversation of hey, we're being exclusive, this
is what it is, but I'm down for that. But
if you're like, you know, let's be exclusive, but you
know I still might dibble and dabble here and there,
then you're not exclusive with me.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
That's what we got to clear up too, because a
lot of people they was on our heads last week
lecks about dating multiple guys, but it's not dating and
having sex.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
It's like, correct on your options. Okay, I'm going to
date with this guy. I just met this guy. I'm
gonna date. I'm not I'm not intimate with them, but
I have options that I can weigh out.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
Yeah, just keeping an open mind because I'm trying to
figure myself out to like who I want to lock
it down with, because it's like really low key made
the best man win, you know, like because I know
whoever I'm gona end up with them elevating their life.
So it's gonna take some time I get to I
need to know what's going on. I need to know
who your people are. I need to know how you,
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you know, treat others. So to me, I want to
know who you are because we.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Can only compatible.
Speaker 2 (21:18):
Yeah, because you get a representative at the first, you know,
first few months, the first everything's fun and all this.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
Thank you, like what the hell I got myself?
Speaker 2 (21:35):
And yeah, so that's dating. And and if somebody asked
me like, hey, are you dating other people? I would
be very honest with them. I wouldn't keep it from them.
But that doesn't mean I'm being intimate with everyone. I'm
really just I'm going to have a coffee, I'm going
to go to dinner like it's good to have conversations,
and I'm not with anyone to be like thinking I'm
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being sneaky or think you know, any of that kind
of stuff. I'm very much grown and can very much
communicate and verbalize what's going on.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
So if I want to ask, I will see.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
That's the thing, and that's why where I feel like
relationships fail, and because we feel like we only can
go out on date. We go out on date with
one person, and we feel like we have to just
lock in. That's what miss especially these men, they misunderstood
what it's like. I want to weigh out my options. No,
I'm not having sex with all these guys. No, I'm
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not intimately involved with all these guys. Right, weigh out
my options to see if we're compatible, and if we're not,
we're not, we can move on. It's nothing serious. It's
okay to go go on a date, correct to know
each other. If we're vibing, we're vibing. If not, move on,
I'm we go on another date with this person.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
See how it is.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
That's right, there's nothing wrong with that, especially when you're
at an age where you know what you're looking for
and you know what you want.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Correct, you're not settling, you know better, you do better.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
You know. That's the whole point of dating. It's just
like dating, like you want to date. No, men just
can't handle it. They just can't handle, you know, women
doing what men do anyway, so.
Speaker 1 (23:14):
What they doing.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
But but but the thing is, if y'all wanted to,
y'all could, like y'all have grown, if y'all wanted to
go out here and have sex with whoeveryone has sex,
but you could. It's just like the double standard of
dating and the double standard with men and.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Women, like, you know, men just can't handle a woman
doing what they do.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
You know what I'm saying, Like, it's just it is
what really verbalizing it just saying, hey, I'm dating other
people and it's not just you. Yeah, they can't. They
on top of your gang always double standards. I mean,
if y'all wanted to know how people are, like okay
mm hm, that's why you ain't gonna never be married.
(23:55):
That's why you're the book. Absolutely couldn't do that. So
y'all even just having to like correct that. It's just
like y'all don't have to do all that because y'all
are growing this up. Y'all can do what y'all want
to do. Y'all can have sexy. You want to have sex,
so you get day whoever you.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
On the day.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
It's just they're mad because men in their egos just
cannot handle it. That's the point by period all it is.
And we were just being on holling so well they
we're about to start dating, like trying to start getting
going out, and we're gonna do the speed dating. Remember
(24:33):
y'all gonna do speed dating. I think we should do
it on like I g live, you know, like have
people hop on their lives like a quick like.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
Yes, like interacting every done. Huh, how are we gonna
how are we gonna like vet these people? How a
y'all gonna bet these people? But what we're gonna do,
I mean, this is just you know, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
We're experimenting here. Okay, we're experimenting. We'll figure it out out.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Don't worry. You just show up. You just be there
and your fine self and be ready. That's it. I
can do that. I could do that. I rotate, rotating.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
We're gonna click hang up next, Oh, click, hang up
like who's next, Who's next?
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Who's next? Shot? Your shot? I got, we got a
better we'll talk about it offline. What we don't what
we're gonna take you to find your Oh love people,
let me know that. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
We're gonna go stuff. Okay, it's going to London. We're
going to London to final You know, I heard you
or I heard some good prospects over there in London.
Speaker 1 (25:59):
We gotta all the way. It ain't not over here.
You don't want nothing over here.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
I am.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
That's long.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
I said.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
We need to go get some fish and chips over there.
Go to the London Bridge. I'm trying to go.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Holler at go holler at the Prince, the so Royalty
over there. Yes, we gotta go where the money.
Speaker 1 (26:25):
I'm joking. The chat gonna go crazy again.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
Now we go diggers because we're going over there where
the money reside. Oh yellow man, is it love oid temporary?
Oh that's a good for y'all's baby tattoos sports adoring debate.
So the baby from Loving Hip Hop revealed a fresh
(26:52):
new tat to her fiance's ray Basis name.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
Boldly ink on her body. Talk about taking things to
the next level.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Do y'all think she took things to the next level
by tattooing her fiance's name on her but then they
hit and there yeah fiance right, yeah, okay, I mean
I it tapped my name, so I know it's real.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
I don't know. I mean I like a two for
one too, Like if you get me, then you know
I might get like a time stamp. I believe in time. Said,
Oh what's that today? Can't I don't even know what
it's saying.
Speaker 2 (27:31):
It's about to be removed. I was about to say,
you know, that's one thing about you can get a
ready you got one of them up?
Speaker 1 (27:45):
You got somebody names? You got somebody name on you? No,
but I got it. There's a few. There's my name
is on a few. How about that? Period? Now I'm
about to remove a lot of my tattoos. Though I'm
about to.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
I want nobody loved me. I ain't got nobody got
their name, fe like got his name.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
But I have my kids.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
I mean, I'm I'm not no tattoos Astley, I like
that shirt girl, Let me stick the shirt.
Speaker 1 (28:13):
That's great, Okay, refant for the squad bread. You know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
We all are family, see you right, We got that
they humble baddies for sure.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Dom good.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
But yeah, I'm reminded past I'm into that and that's
gonna be her whole husband. I think that's a good
like expression of love and like how to show your
love for somebody, you know, I think.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
As long as you do it and he's smart about it, because.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
I feel like back in the day, like in high school,
a lot of my friends got their little boyfriends on them,
you know, like that wasn't smart trap stamp exactly. Oh
I never got the traps now, but I got the
thigh tattoos. I don't like like ill. That's why I
(29:19):
tell my daughter's damn now.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
Wait until you become older and mature before you start
getting tattooed, because I regret getting tattoos.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
All of them all love them, damn now, don't I
have four? I have about fourteen tattoos, y'all. But the
way I tell my kids is be very strategic about
it because I'm like, if you're in my personal space
or like, you know, more on an intimate level, then
you can see them.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
They're all over you know what I mean. So I
don't have them.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
I could wear a gown and it's like, won't be
like this, you know. So they're like hidden in different
ways and they mean different things. But I'm all for
time steps, you know, I don't mind, like, but it
could be. It can be like a little anchor. Did
y'all like to go, you know, fishing or something.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
I mean, there's other things to do, but this is
her whole fiance, So I think it's cute. Whatever she's
into text. I mean, she probably got her other ex
husband on there too, you know, or maybe crossed off
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
I mean, who knows. That might be her thing. But
you know, Ashley, would your tat deal name on you? Yeah?
I think I would. I think I would.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
I think I think it's like not yet, not yet,
hold on, hold on.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
I was like, yeah, I would, but I'm not.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
Testoos ain't really my thing yet, and I want to
be like moved to do it like, you know, I
want to feel like yeah, because I'm a very like
impulsive person.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
I'm a very like so I want to feel it
like I don't like Bell Harper, and she was like,
come on, let's go get a tattoo. I'm like, bitch,
yeah yeah, let's.
Speaker 2 (31:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
Now I'm here, I'm here. We don't get a piercing
over that? Oh yeah yeah yeah. If I wasn't in
the army, I would have had all kind of piercings
going on. They was mad.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
I had my nose pierced twice. Then they kept trying
to make me take it out. I was wearing it
when I went post to and you know, oh you
can't wear it. I have all these piercings. They kept
making me take it out. But anyways, I would I'm
thinking maybe for like a special anniversary or something like
you know some of them that's cute. I was. I
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have a girlfriend who had her husband's like he signs
like a letter just right behind her ear, just like
right there, tiny.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
I has no other tattoos.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
Ah and cute, but like Phil doesn't have tattoos either,
Like so I don't even know if he would look
at it and be like, you know, with still don't
have not one tattoo.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
No, he don't have not one.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Wow. So I would be very upset if I got
it and then you can look at him and then
he back out like.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
I don't like it, you know, like why you do that?
Speaker 2 (32:08):
You know, well, I mean I understand what you're saying,
because I'm thinking, like, think about the ladies who are
getting the faces tattooed on their on their face.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Like a whole portrait. Yeah, you know, that's a bit much.
I don't think that's smart. That's just done, period. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
Tog Krashan, the eternity bitch. What's her names about? She
has a lot of them too, of her gods, the
whole beautiful face and put a whole man who not
feel in the chat time out, get my name tatted
so he know it's very.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
First of all, you go first, y'all go together. He's scarol.
It's scary.
Speaker 2 (32:57):
Soon as they pull out that needle, hears he ain't
gonna do it. I'm telling you, it doesn't hurt. Get
some nomin creams and she's ready to get my next one.
He scared the needles be.
Speaker 1 (33:09):
A punk and it's not gonna happen that you're gonna
ask him talk to you like that. Now you got
a point to go.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
Get that down.
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Put it right here. M that's funny. But anyways, if
you want to go get you get a piercing anytime.
If if you started dating the guy he had his
(33:44):
ex tattooed on him, what are you doing? Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (33:48):
I mean if it's get serious, and especially he has
like a lot of other tasks. I was like, it's
time to go get that covered up. Like why why
wouldn't you want to go get it covered up?
Speaker 1 (34:01):
I don't think. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (34:04):
Again, I feel like it's a timestamp. So if that
was somebody that you were rocking with, then like, I
don't think it'll bother me. It depends on maybe where
it is. I don't want to see it if we
especially if we get married and this is the only
body I'm fantasy for the rest of my life. Oh yeah,
(34:25):
only get if we get married. I don't need to
see that every time. I don't want to see. No,
you're about to you about to start doing some four
play you run it you bump into the lane.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Yeah, no, I wonder where.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
And that depends on where it is, Like if it's
right above, like you know certain areans and it's like
the name is says talking about hers or something you
know this is.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
My I could eat and do whatever too for the
rest of my life. Mm hmmm, cover it up, cover
it up now, burn it off something, cut it off.
You make a good point.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
A lot of arguments have started because of previous tattoos,
like getting into new relation.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
Really yeah, A lot of people can't.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Accept that having old, old names, you know, excess names
on them, A lot of people can't.
Speaker 1 (35:26):
I mean I understand.
Speaker 2 (35:27):
I mean I feel like, you know, if it's like
a previous marriage or long like, I don't know, but
once you're I just feel like, once you're in a deep, deep,
long committed relationship, at some point you should, I think,
probably cover it up.
Speaker 1 (35:43):
Like that's a another respect. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2 (35:50):
I don't think go into a relationship you should be
like automatically all right, cover that bitch name up.
Speaker 1 (35:55):
You know that might be a bit too much. Yeah,
Why I have a tattoo on my ring finger and
I wouldn't cover it up. What does that tag? When
I get wrong? What did it symbolize? Like when I
got married? What is it a date? It's a Roman
(36:17):
numeral twelve. Well, yeah, well.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
I'm matching, you know, that's your like marriage and like
that's the part of your life. Like I get that,
you know what I mean, But how would you like
getting it up name like Keisha che shush, you know, Like.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
I think that's a bit nice. I don't know. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
I mean, I think it's the name. If it's if
I have to see it, I feel I think I
feel some kind of way. But like if he has
a like even a face, I don't know if I
want to see a face, that would be weird. But
like the numeral, I would. It's just a part of
a time, you know, and then that's it. But I mean,
(37:07):
it's red red ink. I have a lot a few
red tattoos. But it can get it can get covered up.
You know, it's just asked. Well, do I think it's
like a red flag if somebody asked you to get
their name tatted on you. No, I don't think it's
a red flag if it's bothering them that much. But
(37:28):
that's if we locked in.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
And if we about we we we together together, not
just anybody I'm dealing with.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
No one said ask me to get their name tattooed
on me, like if I want to, Yeah, Like I
don't want nobody that. Don't ask me to get your
like you want like a name tag like yeah, like
only like you only like Yeah, I don't know. That's
a little I don't like that. Don't don't ask me
(37:56):
to do it. I want to put it should definitely
be mutually, you know, consensual for sure.
Speaker 1 (38:03):
Yeah, but now I feel like.
Speaker 2 (38:04):
You'll go together with it, not want to get it
because why are you asking me to No, let me
do it, because I want to do it exactly, I think, yeah,
me too, I like once.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
Yeah, well I think you know Bambi wanted to get
her test of her fiance. So here we are.
Speaker 2 (38:25):
Well, well, we're gonna form of express it lasts, does Bambi?
You don't want to be looking like a good old him. No,
I wish right there you can really see I know
you can see it. But what you're gonna do with
yours Charel?
Speaker 1 (38:44):
You're keeping it. I was just about to.
Speaker 2 (38:47):
Ask ash, I don't know. I haven't side yet. It's
not my to do list, Okay, okay, So if you
at least is an option, because nowadays you can get
them removed in everything too, So.
Speaker 1 (39:08):
Yours is.
Speaker 2 (39:11):
Now I think I if I do, if I did
do sothing between popering up or removing, I probably would remove. Yeah,
because you said you don't like any of your tattoos
at this point, I don't.
Speaker 3 (39:23):
That's true, zero, not even one. I'm past that stage, y'all.
What are your tattoos of?
Speaker 1 (39:34):
But the rest of them. I have a lotus flower
on my thigh. I have a coverall.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
I snuck and got a tattoo when I was when
I was sixteen. The first tattoo was a little plate,
a little playboy bunny because I want to hide it
because I snucking got it. Then when I I was like,
what the hell on my door? Would have played boy
like I didn't even know the true meaning of a
place boy bunny. So then you get covered up with
another flower.
Speaker 1 (40:04):
Okay, you like flowers like that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (40:07):
Well, because I mean you're getting it that Honestly, That's
why I have never gotten a tattoo, because I'm like,
I don't even like nothing enough like that to take
you and get it.
Speaker 1 (40:16):
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, like flowers.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
I have my kids name on my back, I have
my clodiac sign on the taper of my neck, and
I have a big tattoo for my stomach up put flowers.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
So you like flowers. She likes flowers, but I don't.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
Okay, that's the thing, like reminder all over, I got
the kids. I got a little heart, that's my first,
my latest one.
Speaker 1 (40:47):
I'm like, you name, they're all over the birth Like
I want something that means something, but that's like you
got to ask me to know what it is. Like
I don't want it to be like like the flower.
I need them to be like what is that? What
do that mean? Like it's a sport, But I ain't
got that. I don't have anything like.
Speaker 2 (41:07):
But see, all my stuff was young, So it's like
I did it because I was in the mind. You
know everybody everybody had tattoos. Here was that you know,
it was you had tattoos, Like it was just go
get them. It was a tattoos shop on every everywhere. Yeah,
I definitely want to with my friends to get their tattoos.
(41:30):
And I don't know, I just couldn't take up my mind.
Speaker 1 (41:34):
But see that's good. I don't know. I have a list.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
I have an ongoing list of potential time that you want.
What do you want especial next tattoos? I want to
I want to get an outlet of the world, and
then I want to I think I'm gonna end up
doing some like tallies of all the countries I've been
to and gonna grow that. I'm gonna do a phoenix.
I got all kinds of stuff, but I'm gonna have
(41:59):
them to wear. Like if you see see me standing
up straight, you won't really see them because I mean,
they're mine, are all over the place. See. I feel
like that I would be a girl who would want
to whole sleeve, you know what I'm saying, Like I
just don't know, huh, and and finding the right.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
Artists, right, I will all that stuff I would. I
could still see me with a sleep you know what
I'm saying. I can see you would have sleep though,
lokate but don't get it. Yeahs a tattoo girl. That
would be me.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
I just you know, Yeah, I feel like I could
see you want to sleep too. I would do that
ship Yeah, Minor Sporatic. It's like hide and seek over here.
It's just like whatever, okay, how sep? Yeah that's right.
Speaker 1 (42:46):
Did y'all see many? I didn't see it. Let me
see if I can find it. I don't know, was
it just like a name. Was it a signature or symbol?
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Okay, well, you know you just hope somebody's locked in
all the way to where you keep it going, and
you got it. Now, did he get hurts or no?
Did we travel to say did did he get hurts?
I don't know, but probably so. But you know, Ben,
I don't know who herd her fiance is, but we
(43:18):
wish them the best.
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