Como Procesar Tus Emociones Sexualizadas (con Jonathan Hernández)

¿Por qué sexualizamos nuestras emociones y cómo podemos procesarlas sin sexualizarlas? Jonathan Hernández responde a estas preguntas en el primer episodio de Husband Material en Español. Aquí tienes la versión en inglés: https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/episodes/17963054-how-to-process-sexualized-emotions-with-jonathan-hernandez

Jonathan Hernández es nuevo coach de Husband Material. Cuenta con más de un año de experiencia como coach certificado de Connection Codes. Estudió tres años en la Escuela de Ministerio Sobrenatural de Bethel y tiene una gran pasión por ayudar a las parejas a vivir más conectadas y a los hombres a experimentar una sexualidad sana y plena.

Guía gratuita de la Rueda de emociones:
rueda.jonnythecoach.com/rueda-794076

Guía de las emociones/template diario:
rueda.jonnythecoach.com/guia-103093

Curso de los fundamentos:
rueda.jonnythecoach.com/curso

Aplicación para Sesión de Claridad:
rueda.jonnythecoach.com/formulario_sesion_claridad

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_00 (00:00):
Welcome to the Hustle Material podcast where we
have first command outgrow forwhy first interest in your heart
and state your relationship.
My name is Let's Go.

SPEAKER_01 (00:34):
Jonathan has much emotions, sexuality, and
spirituality.
Disfruta this episode.

SPEAKER_02 (00:43):
Hello, you are Jonathan Hernandez, a coach of
Hospital Material.
This podcast is in espanz, andthis is because my idioma
principal is the espanholic, andyou have this episode in English
and in espanz.
If you have escuted episodeanterior to this, I recommend

(01:05):
escuching, where I've got Glennand Phyllis, who are the funders
of Connection Codes.
It's very important to escuchthis episode so that you don't
know the things that I'm goingto say in this episode.
If you have to be a coach ofConnection Codes and the people

(01:25):
to connect profundamente and toemotions in time.
So let's empower.
If there's something for not, Irecommend that you have to do
it, because what we're going tosay is practical that you can do
all the days. ¿Por qué?

(02:12):
Porque el comportamiento sexuales maravilloso para regular tu
cuerpo.
Por eso nos hacemos adictos aeso.
En especial porque si tenemospornografía y masturbación
juntos y son algo que nos traemuchísimo placer y que trae
mucho placer a nuestro cuerpo,entonces eso actúa como si fuera

(02:33):
un freno de mano en nuestra vidaque nos saca de cualquier
sentimiento que estamossintiendo que sea incómodo en
nuestras vidas, como soledad,tristeza, dolor, o incluso
cuando estás aburrido y piensasque no sientes nada, y para
sacarte de ese estado, ¡pum!Utilizamos comportamiento
sexual.
Entonces, por eso sexualizamoslas emociones.

(02:57):
Pero quiero que te puedas ir deaquí hoy sabiendo cómo procesar
tus emociones de una forma nosexual.
Quiero que puedas imaginarte aun niño de 8 años in tu mente.
Es un niño de 8 años who sientemucha soledad and much enojo
because he can go to videojuegostic with his amigos, but

(03:19):
no, they need to learn a life.
And this to him no gust.
But no need or language for theemotions that he sent.
And this nigga empezed to seethat and descubs the
masturbation.
And when he describes, Wow, thisis very good, I sent much goal

(03:42):
in my life, and this is thesentiment of soled.
I don't know what he has doneabout the sex, and I'm a Google.

(04:08):
And I did the complete with whatI did in Google, because he saw
pornography for the moment,violent, literally sending
dopamina at niveles that in mylife had sent and replaced.
And I have my response, I havemy antídoto for my soled.

(04:41):
Aunque I think a little bit ofit, but I think the pure
sentiment, I saw the incomodity.
This name I, and that was when Iappreciated sexualizing my
emotions.

(05:02):
And this was what I'm saying andother and other days after I
converted in an addiction in mylife.
But when all this, I had alanguage for what I was
happening in me.
I don't know if I was havingsolid, I was doing enough, I
didn't know that, nothing that Isent, and that when I masturbate
and pornography, I sent me rich,and I sent me incomplete, and I

(05:26):
sent me.

(05:54):
Entonces quiero hablar primerosobre la soledad, porque esa
emoción is la que yo sentíamuchas beccientas ando sintiendo
a veces, de vez en cuando, whenI'm in a project solo or in my
computation and no one who puedin this moment, and I send this
soled, and siento las ganas demasturbing, and it's like my

(06:15):
life for three times that it's aresponse to my life.
But when I be consciente of whatI happen, and when I see what I
happen, because I don't know inthis.

(07:17):
Usually, no, you don't meansolo, or escuchers who say, No,
but I send you so much.
I mean in my life, and I mean mytime, or me gustable, it's
nothing that you send.
And when I think that in realitysoled is not in an area of your

(07:39):
life, that can science this, andprobably all the days when I
send in an area of my life, andit's like I send this, or I
think I have to avance, or Isend my process of recuperation
of the addiction.

(08:00):
And I send.

(11:15):
And this is good, because thismade me a little bit.
I don't want to take thisbecause I'm tembling, or that I
need to go to a good because I'mtembling, or because there's a
huge.

(14:02):
What do you think with respect?
Wow, much of this person, muchof this person, much of this
person who is incredibly andactive sexually because it's
her.
If you don't do this, you havethis sentiment, and then I'm
going to go with my life.

(14:22):
If I do this, and in this, I tryto evitate, and no, no, no, I
don't think nothing, I don'tthink nothing, more, and more
not in this, and more, whathappens?
I'm going to go and go, and thenI'm gonna make control of me.
But it's very important to say,however, not if it's necessary,
oh this person.

(14:50):
And this night is something thatI enjoy Christopher West of the
theology of the life, and whathe saw is how we are created for
having belle, and how we arecreated to be when we have
belleza, and that we have thisdesire eternal for belleza.

(15:12):
It's a desire that in this way.

(16:28):
And you know that this person orthis or this person or what you
say don't satisfy me, but yousee.

(18:39):
Ahí está un link de un PDF thatyou created where a template of
cómo puedes escribir tusemociones diariamente.
Cuesta nada más$7, it's like acafe, and the link.

(19:09):
This is a mini curse thattraduje all that Glenny Phyllis
in your curse in English, butnow it's in español and is he
foraster with others.

(19:30):
It's always connected, andpuedas tú create this with
alguien more, for puedas createthis culture of a lot segurous
and a lot segurous for youremotions with alguien más.
And this is something that ayudamuch in our campaign of
recuperation.
Because recuerda that theopposite of addiction is

(19:53):
sobried, it's not connected.
And what I'm doing is theherramias to connect profoundly
with the gentleman to me in thelife.
And this is somethingincredible, very valioso that no
longer in the life.
It's something that nobody hasenseñes and that is not your

(20:13):
emotion, di your necessity, andit's like, but why don't I do?
And in this course, I would sayto it with others and how using
the ROAD emotion at a niceprofound.
I'm going to make those twolinks.
It's the link of my PDF and thelink of my course.

(20:36):
And if you're not, then there'sa recurse gratis that is the
RUADEMOS that I'm going to use,the RUAT of the emotions.
And how useful with otherperson.
But I'm doing this forpublishing construct the
connection, for pure connectionwith gente segura at your life

(20:56):
and connect with else and dejarde sexualizing your emotions,
because now las empieces aprocesar.
Okay, entonces te quiero dejarcon esto.
Quiero que puedas hacer tu ruedade emociones todos los días.
Después de escuchar estepodcast, if you sabes cómo hacer
la rueda, ve a ese link que tedejé gratis where te voy a

(21:16):
explicar cómo usar la rueda.
If quieres ir más profundo, ve yagarra ese PDF para que puedas
hacer esto diario.
And si quieres ir todavía másprofundo y hacerlo con alguien
más, ve y agarra ese curso paraque puedas hacer esto con otra
persona anda culture.