Should I Put My D/s-M Relationship On Hold

Everyone who finds themselves at this crossroads in life will have different circumstances that lead them there.  And many, if not all, of these circumstances, will seem entirely reasonable for someone to ask THE question.

Because of this…. Or Due to that….

Should we take a break from our D/s-M relationship and pick it back up when life slows down or when life gets a little easier?

Keep listening to learn how I feel about taking breaks in your relationship.

Leading with integrated masculine energy!

Episode Transcript

Mr Fox (00:01):
It's hump day today.
You know, I think that maybeI find myself in Osaka, Japan
recording another podcasta member discussing the

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possibility of taking a breaknot, this seems to be a
relatively common consideration.

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reasonable for someone to askthis question. Because of this,

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breaks in your relationship

Intro (01:36):
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Unknown (01:54):
All right.

Mr Fox (02:07):
Welcome everyone. This is Mr. Fox, the host and founder
submission BDSM fun as well.

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In today's podcast episode,we're going to talk about taking
situation with plans to pick itback up? Climate is better

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in the positive review lastAlright, let's get right in to

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today's topic, on again, offhusband member that asked the
original question. I offered ataking a break from this style

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of relationship? Avoid it atlike this back and forth,

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people's responsibilities andmindset. You are either in this

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or you're not as masculinein such a way that every day
builds trust. Every day buildslet's take a break. Let's just

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shut it off today. Let's go backhas changed. Your relationship

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has changed. Most people afterexperience that. And I mean,

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what else would you go to? Whateven know what that means. You

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say the things that I used to doforward, all of those things.
We're just going to stop now,before your DSM, that

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relationship does not existreally need. Are you wondering

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feminine energy. The femininemasculinity when they need to.

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If no one else is taking up thehappening to them, right? Think
about your relationship is yourLet's look at the Yin Yang

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symbol, right, it looksYang is the male energy, it's
the white side of the symbol. Itlight. On the other side of the

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symbol is the yen, and the yenthere is a relationship between

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negative and positive, passivetake the let's take the
masculine the white side of thea small amount of femininity, or

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feminine energy, I should saychange in proportion to the

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symbol itself. But in reality,person will be primarily
masculine, but at the same timeto be a balanced, feminine

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leading person, you would havefeminine space, they are
balanced, they're holding theto take a break from. So as the

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masculine energy the leader, wewe say, you know, I've been
thinking this has been great,And it's easy for the guy. At

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least it's easier and really Thenurturing me, and I'm not on her
mind, and she's not taking carereally going to do, is going to

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create a disconnect for me.

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pull back, I will close off.
Without the intimacy between usloss, because that space where

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her energy blooms, where itBefore the DSM relationship, she
knew where her boundaries wereprotected, nurtured and loved.

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And then all of a sudden, Ithe sudden, she went from a
place a safe place where Iwhere the boundaries are

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anymore, or if there are anyspace? Or did I eliminate it? So
how much masculine energy doesright? As a feminine she only

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has so much capacity, look atdrop our responsibilities
without some sort ofto hold that safe space for her.

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Because we're only going to holdin, she'll have a little voice
telling her not to get toowarning. I mean, you've done it

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once before, right? So it couldthroughout our lives. It takes a
lifetime to build trust, right,dominant lead relationship, what

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would you have done when lifewhat would you have done? Would

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you have said, Hey, I thinkexists now? Right? I don't care
what you label this masculinecreate it, it helps us live it,

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it helps us grow in it. Becausewife, no matter what you want to

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call it, whatever label you putchanging the label that you put
on it, call it whatever youchange the label, or you call it

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something different. If you needgo back to another one. It does
not work like that. As lifeit, that space can change. But

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never again, allow that space torelationship, I hope that I've

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inspired you to see how preciouswant to say I'm not beating this
dominant up, right? I think thisthis is a message that needs to

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be heard. So here's my responseare areas that create a

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challenge in your currentthose changes. Stopping what you
are, and what you are doing toyour answer, sit down with your

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wife, and see how she feelscycle. And in this particular

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gentleman's case, he wrote backSo most importantly, what I want
to leave you with is the factthey have changed. Right? We as

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people are always evolving toright? We're evolving. There is

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no OFF or ON switch in the storyexcuse to give you a false

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narrative that you can rebuildfor me on social media and start
the dialogue there. All right,

Unknown (26:33):
And quality Base here.
The Eagle has landed.

Mr Fox (26:38):
So what have lkn I've been up to since last podcasts
show. We also met a few couplesout there that went with us. So

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we stayed there. If you're notfamiliar with the Stanley Hotel,
where he got his inspirationfrom while staying there. While

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course, we can't leave out thefoxes that we got to see. We
well. It was pretty interesting.
And that about covers what we