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Speaker 3 (00:04):
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Hey everyone, welcome toepisode 3.
And in this episode, we'regoing to discuss all about
polarity and what does it meanthe dualistic side of
consciousness.
Is this a human concept or isthere something bigger to this
that our third dimensional mindand comprehension doesn't
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understand?
Well, we're going to get intoit and my colleague and friend,
stella, is going to get me intoa state of deep hypnosis called
somnambulism, and she's going toask a series of questions
regarding polarity and what thisidea or experience of polarity
is within this 3D earth realmthat we experience as humans.
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And this is information that'sdownloaded and coming through my
higher self, which is the partof us that is still in spirit,
all knowing, all loving.
The best part of ourselvesunderstands where we're from,
all the alternate lives we are apart of and the reason why
we're incarnated in this body,this lifetime, right now.
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And, yeah, have an open mind,try to connect to your higher
self and feel if thisinformation resonates with you.
If any information at any pointdoesn't resonate for you, just
hold on to what does and leavethe rest behind, because, at the
end of the day.
Everyone is their own guru.
This is why I love hypnotherapy, because it's our own
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subconscious mind taking us onthe journey, healing and
understanding and deep wisdom,and we can all tap into this.
So, without further ado, let'sget into it.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Thanks for listening
and let me just know by saying
here if I am speaking to yourhigher self, Shay.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
There.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
All right.
Hello, Shay's higher self, Ihave a few questions for you, if
that is okay and if you areready.
I would like to begin with them.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Yes, okay, would you
first share with me what is
polarity?
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Polarity means that
there's two, and in order to
have one, imagine one having aconsciousness and needing to
understand itself, and it can'tunderstand itself without
something to relate to it.
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Therefore, there needs to be anopposing force to understand
the one.
And so polarity exists in alldimensions and all places, all
times, and based on perception.
It's all based on perception ofhow you look at it, but it's
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just two opposing forces, whichis the same thing.
It's just relating toinformation to each other.
The north pole of your planetis an opposing force of the
south pole.
You need to have both magnetismforces relating to each other
so that your planet is doing itsjob of existing.
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So one, energy, is repulsive,segreg, right, and the other is
inviting and all aboutconnection.
And so yeah both are notinherently right or wrong that
that type of polarity is thehuman design thank you.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
that makes so much
sense.
It seems like it's imperativefor our perception, and you've
spoken a little bit on that.
Would you like to add some moreon?
How does polarity or dualityand contrast play a role in our
lives and experiences?
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Yeah.
So again, you need relationfrom one force to the other.
So if you have found yourselfin a relationship where you felt
like you couldn't be yourself,therefore, you are coming closer
to understanding what love is.
If you find yourself in arelationship that is very loving
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, then you find yourself cominginto a place of knowing what
love is, if that's what you'refocusing on.
So if you're just focusing on aproblem and you got hurt from a
toxic relationship one personwho had this experience yeah,
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that could be the worst thingthat has ever happened to them
in their life and they willnever go dating again and
they're just going to beself-destructive and you can
have someone else decide thatthat's the best thing that's
ever happened to them.
They finally found their peace.
They dropped codependency.
They don't rely on anyone butthemselves.
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They trust themselves.
They know that they're incharge of their own happiness
and love yeah and that toxicrelationship was the best thing
that's ever happened to them.
So it's how you use yourperception, and so we, as humans
, need to have contrast, to knowin relation to what it is they
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want.
If you want a shitty life, thenthen that's, that's just fine,
there's no judgment.
And if you want a beautifullife, that that's just fine,
there's no judgment in that.
But that's your own bias andyou get to choose what meaning
you want out of situations andlife in general, and there's
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contrast to understand what itis you want.
So if you find out things inways that you don't want, you're
coming closer to knowing whatit is you do want okay yeah, and
so polarity is just.
You know, up until now, humansneeded this at the extreme sense
.
It's a very dense place, earth,and yes yeah, understanding
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hate, you know, makes youunderstand love.
Understanding all thesecontrasts of you know, masculine
and feminine, hot and cold yes,that makes total sense.
Just well, it's just the gameof life, but it's just an
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extreme sense of density thatyou experience on Earth.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Yes, and this leads
me to my second question, which
you just started talking about,and how can we use our
understanding of these conceptsto improve our lives and
relationships with others?
Speaker 1 (07:46):
yeah, just
understanding.
You exist for a reason, you'rehere on this earth plane for a
reason and ultimately, I thinkit's safe to say, most people,
it's their purpose as a soul tocome onto this planet to enjoy
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their life and to enjoy earth,to enjoy the people, the
connections they connect to andanimals and the beautiful places
upon your planet.
This is the purpose, right,because, on contrast, there's so
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much that is going to come inthe way of experiencing that and
it's based on your perceptionto get to that peaceful and
blissful place and that's yourjourney.
And so you're overcomingtraumas and childhood issues and
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all of this stuff past garbage,you know unnecessary
programming.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Yes programming.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Yes, societal norms
and stereotypes and all these
weights that are holding youback, that have allowed you to
believe negative beliefs, thatcreate your reality in a
negative way.
But it's beautiful because, asa soul, you're none that, but
you've came to this planet toexperience the extreme polarity,
to get to the place of bliss,and it's a choice.
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If you want to get there andawaken to the fact that you are
God, you are a part of creation.
You get to create your life.
You can transform theselimitations.
You get to create your life.
You can transform theselimitations.
You can perceive theselimitations.
As you know, you're buildingblocks to finding your truth and
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to shift your perception,seeing it as a positive, in any
way you can.
In every situation, you cangive it a positive perspective
and in return, you're going tohave results that are positive,
because physics doesn't lie.
You can't be a negative, nancyor a pessimistic and get
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positive results in your life,but you can if you are looking
at the positive things in everysituation, things in every
situation, even if it's sohorrible, and all you have to
say is Wow.
Thank you, universe, forshowing me who I am NOT and what
I don't want to associate with,so I know who I am.
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That is a positive outlook, butpeople get caught up as victims
of why me?
Why is this happening?
And then your negative outlookyou're going to go into the
downward spiral of darkness andyou're going to create more
negative results in your life.
More problems are going to showup at your door because that is
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your focus yes, that's wherepeople focus their energy to,
and then it it just follows.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
And what you just
mentioned I'm just wondering is
there, and you've just spokenabout it, and if you can maybe
just summarize, how can we usecontrast to deepen our
understanding of ourselves andthe world around us?
How can we use this contrast todeepen it?
Speaker 1 (11:29):
yeah, if you, if
you're aware that you are at the
right place at the right timein every given situation, then
it's meant to be that youexperience something.
So if your perception is, ohwhy, why me?
This is horrible, why is thishappening to me?
Just take a moment torecalibrate and allow yourself
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to be in a neutral state andcatch yourself and say wait a
moment.
I don't know that this isactually negative or not, let's
see, see what happens.
I think that something goodcould come out of this and have
an open mind and just take astep back energetically right
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where your attention goes,energy flows, and so just take a
moment, you can meditate on it,you can write in a journal, you
can analyze it, dissect itwhatever feels right for you,
and chances are there's going tobe some positive scenarios or
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solutions out of this situation.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Yes, okay, thank you,
yes, okay.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Thank you, and I'm
wondering what is actually the
relationship between polarity,duality and our beliefs and
perceptions of reality?
Have been given misinformationof who they are and it's been
lost over time and there's beentimes where humans reach a
pivotal point in theirdevelopment and then there's a
catastrophe and then they needto restart again and again.
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That's in your history ofAtlantis and time before the ice
age and all these things andbasically the relationship.
Clarity to humans is that's thewhole point of coming onto the
planet up until this new time.
Things are shifting right nowand, if you imagine, there's
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like a boiling point.
So what's happening is theenergy or vibration is raising
and what's happening is there'sa discharge of magnetism.
So that's what we see.
We see all these headlines onthe news of corruption and
negative stuff and people arechaotic, and you see all this
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corruption within governmentsand with political figures and
with celebrities and all of thisstuff.
And that's on the world as awhole, externally, and then
internally you see it in yourown individual life.
You become aware of thedarkness you are trying to hide
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from.
Maybe you don't have yourfinancial situation in order and
you've been hiding from it, andso things are going to escalate
until you figure it out andshine the light on the truth,
and to overcome it and realizethere's no one coming to save
you, to support you.
You are your own fucking savior, and so do the work, and that
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can happen in all areas of life.
And this is the pivotal momentof time in human history.
You're getting all this stuffthat has been hidden in darkness
for thousands of years.
You're purging it and you'reputting it all on the table so
that you can see it clearly andsay are we going to continue
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doing this to ourselves as acollective?
And we can all see that theanswer is no, and so, therefore,
things can change.
How can you change if you don'tknow what to change?
And so that's what you'reseeing.
More and more information andtruth is going to come out
horrific stuff, because you'rejust coming out of the dark ages
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.
But the beautiful thing aboutthis is that on the other side
of this polarity is bliss like.
Soon, humans will not know waranymore.
Soon humans will know worldpeace.
Soon humans will know thatthere's, there can be, an
economy system that is foreveryone's benefit.
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Soon humans will know that theycan be sovereign, that they can
govern themselves that theydon't need to give away their
power to leaders that arecorrupted.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Yeah, this is so
inspiring and such a hopeful
message, so, thank you so much.
Really, it's our job, as youmentioned shine a light on the
truth and I would like you toshare, if you may, how can we
actually cultivate more holisticand inclusive perspective that
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transcends duality and contrast,so that we can step into that
new world, or rather create it?
Speaker 1 (16:36):
yeah, it's being
honest with yourself from the
very beginning.
The voice you're listening tois from a body that is borrowed.
Shay's spirit is borrowing thisbody.
It's going to go back to theearth.
It's not his and that's forevery person.
So, knowing the truth, thatyour spirit experiencing a human
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experience in this moment oftime, and therefore right, you
can start to see past certainillusions.
Does this answer the question?
Speaker 3 (17:06):
It does.
Thank you, it's wonderful, very, very nice.
I'm so excited.
Okay, and since you weretalking about spirit and being,
we are recognizing that we arespirit and I'm wondering what
role does our higher self playin understanding an experience
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of polarity, duality andcontrast, and maybe even how can
we connect to that source?
Speaker 1 (17:39):
yeah, your higher
self is wanting to communicate
to the critical and consciousmind that's in the third
dimension, and they've.
You know, your higher selveshave set up certain points and
markers within your life, right,and then you're either moving
away from those markers orpivotal moments that you, as a
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soul, has set up for yourself toreach as goals.
You can either move away fromthat or awaken and know your
truth and go towards thosebeacons of truth and right,
because you have a free will aswell, and so you, you can.
And then you have the choice ofgetting to those certain
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milestones yeah, in, uh, in yourown way or in multiple ways,
right.
And so there's, and that'swhere free will comes into play
but your higher self is wantingto be channeled more and more,
so people are just arechanneling only a small
percentage of what your truespirit is.
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But that's just the experienceof the third dimension, and so
that's again when I go back totalking about the change that's
happening on the planet rightnow.
And getting all this, purgingall this stuff and putting it on
the table and getting rid of it, is the internal work of
reaching to the next dimension.
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In doing so, you're building astronger bridge and connection
to your higher self in the fifthdimension.
But humans are moving up anoctave to the fourth dimension.
This is the transition rightnow and for the next 100 years
or so will be the fourth, andthen transition to a
quasi-physical fifth dimension.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
Right, thank you for
that.
And any last words on how wecan use our experiences here on
this plane 3D plane that arefull of contrast right To find
balance and harmony in our lives.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
Yeah, just know that
you are eternal, meaning the
illusion of time is real and youcan just relax, right, because
you are eternal and you're inthis experience.
And it's like, oh, what do Ineed to learn out of this
experience?
Just having a curiosity, openmind, right?
Just imagine when you were achild you didn't have
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programming of taking things soseriously and, um, viewing
things in such a black and whiteway.
No, like there's so muchmystery and excitement and
curiosity and love forexperiences and life.
It's all about perception.
So, again, it's not thatthere's an actual black and
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white idea and that's 100% thetruth.
It's you get to decide yourtruth in your life.
You get to decide what life youwant to live and to give
situations meaning, to give lifemeaning, and that's up to your
perception.
That's how you can transformjust the, I guess, the societal
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norm of black and white thinkingand of polarity.
Speaker 3 (20:55):
Yeah, thank you for
that, and with that I'm just
going to.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
I would just like to
know if there are any other or
last pressing messages that youfeel like we should know no,
just trust the process and ifyou come out of your mind, your
analytical, their dimensionalmind, and just come place, come
from a place of love and yourheart and of like just deep
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breaths and sucking in thatoxygen, love in your life,
you're being breathed right now.
Your heart is beating you atyour core, your very nature,
presence, right, if you givelife meaning, just haven't start
off by having a neutralperspective.
Start to question everything.
Start to look at everythingwith curiosity it's like whoa,
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this is my reality right now andlook at all the things you can
be grateful for in your life.
Gratitude again, coming from aplace of gratitude, equals more
positive results, more thingsyou can be grateful for in your
life.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
Things like gratitude
things you can be grateful for
in your life yeah, thank you.
Things like you don't yeah, youdon't have to wait for one day
out of the year for thanksgivingto be thankful exactly, yeah,
makes sense.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
Gratitude really puts
the energy or focus to what we
want more of and acknowledgeswhat we have and just shifts our
perspective, as you said, and Ilove what you also mentioned
earlier about purpose.
Our purpose is to enjoy andalso trusting the process.
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Yeah, just feeling love and joyand being in our hearts, not so
much in our minds, and, yeah,sounds really beautiful and I
think also for me was just likehaving this perspective of
curiosity just coming out ofthat.
It's very valuable.
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So, thank you so much.
Thank you, of course.
All right, shay, now thatyou're back, how do you feel?
Speaker 1 (23:16):
tell me feel good,
uplifted, yeah, just at peace
and calm, sort of the worries ofthe day gone away right.
Speaker 3 (23:29):
That's such a
wonderful thing to hear and,
yeah, I can relate.
Just being in this process withyou.
I'm always so inspired by allthe wisdom that you channel or
that come through you.
It's so uplifting and it's justwhat I love that it really
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rings through to my heart, so itjust feels right.
So everything that you say, itjust feels good.
It kind of expands my optimism,love, hope or however you want
to call that and just takes awaythe fear.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Definitely.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Yeah, I feel the same
way.
Yeah, sometimes likeconsciously I wasn't aware of
what was going on, but like Ican feel, I feel it in my like
body or my emotional body,spiritual, physical, mental yes,
yeah, totally honestly.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
I don't want to
disrupt this beautiful space
that you're still in, but what Iwould invite everyone is
because your higher selfmentioned how our purpose is to
enjoy life.
So how about if we really focuson what makes us feel good or
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what makes our heart feel joy?
So maybe that could besomething that we can cultivate
till we meet again.
What do you say?
Speaker 1 (25:01):
Definitely.
I think we can all start to payattention more to our
excitement, the joy that we havefor certain things, and to
focus on that more and more yeahthat's our spirit, saying hey,
follow me yes do what you loveto do and you're you're gonna
end up in the right place, theright time, the right people
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doing the right things that youlove to do, because that's
synchronicity.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
So exactly so, are
you game, shay?
Are we doing that, focusing onour joy?
Okay, deal, and everyone elsejust follow if you feel cold.
So so, obviously, yes, okay.
So thank you so much for thiswonderful experience and, um,
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yeah, it really elevates my moodas well, so I have so much
gratitude, thank you.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
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