I AM

Let me ask you something. When you feel something — anger, sadness, peace, or joy — who’s really in control?

Most people believe emotions happen to them. That they’re trapped inside whatever they feel. But the truth is… you’re not your emotions. You’re their architect.

Imagine this, you have just been told you have 24 hours to live. No extensions. No negotiations. The clock is ticking. Suddenly, everything you thought you’d do ‘someday’ disappears. The self you were waiting to ‘change' into is gone and you only have right now.

"The future is an illusion until it arrives, and when the future arrives, you will still only be able to live it today, not tomorrow. You see, 'Change' wants you to wait for the future, 'Change' doesn't believe in now. But 'Choosing' gives you the power to live your future today."

Life is  not about what you want to change or where you hope to be, life is  about the decision sitting in front of you right now. And the reason this matters is because every time you avoid a choice, you’re wiring your brain to stay stuck. What Choice are you avoiding?

Here’s the truth you may not want to hear: The pain you bear often comes from the change you seek. Why? Because change always puts you in waiting. It says, “When I finally change, then I’ll be who I want to be.” But waiting keeps you stuck in the very pain you want to escape.

 

For generations, we’ve been told the same story: You must change your life in order to advance. Change your habits. Change your mindset. Change your circumstances.

But here’s the truth: change has always been a lie.

When you 'Choose' you are commanding a now. When you attempt to 'Change' you command a tomorrow.

We call things ‘habits’ like they’re harmless routines; brushing your teeth, scrolling your phone, always running late. But the truth is this: a habit is not just behavior. A habit is a command. A survival mechanism your identity uses to keep itself alive.

We’ve all heard it. Someone says, “This is going to change my life.”

And every time, I cringe.

Because I know what’s about to happen.

“Why Does This Keep Happening to Me?”

You’re not cursed. You’re not stuck. Life isn’t against you—it’s reflecting you. In this episode, I break down how your identity—your “I AM”—shapes your experiences. The patterns you keep running into aren’t punishment... they’re feedback. Once you stop trying to change your life and start choosing who you are, everything shifts. Let’s explore how to reclaim your power—no change required.

"The Importance Of Now!"

Think about this 

When are you living? Yesterday, Now or tomorrow?

Which one of these do you have control over?

Which one of these holds you back?

"Now" refers to the present moment—the point in time that is happening right at this instant. It’s the only moment you can truly experience and act upon because the past is already gone, and the future hasn’t arrived. You can control now.

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Just for a moment have you tried to change and been absolutely frustrated?

Just for a moment have you ever thought that personal change was a futile attempt?

Just for a moment have you ever thought that we are not meant to change..but meant to BE?

Today, we're diving deep into a topic that has shaped societies throughout history:

Government Leadership and the control of….'Choices.' 

Governments and leadership already know that the power is in not controlling the idea of 'Change' but in the power of controlling 'Choices.'

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We have all told someone this or have been told ourselves, "Why are you so lazy?"

But what is actually behind the word lazy?

We are transfixed on the term only as the unwillingness to get up and move, but there is more to this.

New Year's Resolutions start on January 1, but what happens to most of them on January 17 and why?

Does Motivation Work? We think it does; we hope it does because we all initially react the same way. It is that burst of an external stimulant that reacts to our internal identity. But now that it has been presented to us, what will we do with it?

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