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September 29, 2021 49 mins

The 'token black girl' is a concept with which we’re depressingly all too familiar, and have been for too long now. We are often the representative woman of colour. With that has often come an underlying expectation to be 'the black one' – to live the sassy, loud, eye-rolling, punchline-delivering, surface level stereotypes afforded to the black women we see in the white TV and film world. We understand that the consequence of messing it up is messing it up for everyone who looks like us in the future and that is a heavy burden to carry.

Resources:

How to support BLM: https://www.timeout.com/things-to-do/how-to-support-black-lives-matter

Therapy Sources: Primary Care Physician, Employee assistance programs and therapyforblackgirls.com

Self defense: https://beyonddefense.net

OTHER LINKS:

https://www.mhanational.org/31-tips-boost-your-mental-health

https://blavity.com/black-women-cannot-be-all-things-to-all-people-at-all-times?category1=opinion&category2=news

Audible Book: B00LEUADLQ Confessions of a Token black girl

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https://www.thoughtworks.com/insights/blog/tokenism-double-sided-coin


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Production Notes:

Produced by Dolapo of the "Terminal 234" podcast

Edited by Host: Sandra [IG: coitraveler]

Co-Host #1: Annabelle [IG: msjudy_1028]


Guest #1 Details: Nesha Taylor

About: Owner of TACT Therapy, LLC

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SC: nesha_taylor

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