June 11, 2025 • 22 mins
When Friendship Breakups Hurt More Than Romantic Ones
In today's episode, the hosts dive into the complexities of friendship breakups and how they can sometimes feel more painful than romantic breakups. The discussion includes personal anecdotes, lessons learned from past friendships, and the impact of honesty within relationships. They also touch on the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries and the role social media plays in friendships. The conversation is filled with humor, candid confessions, and a look at how different friendships have shaped their lives.
00:00 Introduction: Friendship Breakups Hurt More
00:10 Personal Experiences with Friendship Breakups
01:43 Honesty in Friendships
04:35 Family Dynamics and Ghosting
07:16 Balancing Friendships and Family
09:22 Humor and Coping Mechanisms
10:53 Deep Friendships and Their Impact
11:51 The Worst Friend Ever
12:19 Tolerating Friendships
12:50 Honesty and Humor in Friendships
15:44 Blocking on Social Media
16:36 Respecting Boundaries
17:31 Petty Arguments and Reconciliation
20:17 Upcoming Live Event
21:29 Conclusion and Farewell
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
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Today's episode is FriendshipBreakups Hurt More Than Real
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Ones Sometimes, for sure.
It depends on who it is.
Yeah, in my opinion.
Yeah.
I mean, like if me and Scottbroke up, that would hurt way
worse than any of them bitches.
I don't talk to no more.
There's a couple of them.
Well, for sure, but I, I mean, Imust be perfect because fuck me.
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God, we could all walk in aperfect life of Cindy.
I, I, Mark says Cindy will tellyou when you're in pain.
When you're not in pain, she'lltell you.
I just feel like, um, you'reperfect.
Well, I wouldn't say I'mperfect, but I really haven't
lost any friendships.
I outgrown one and then cut offthe other, but.
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I know what happened with therest.
They tolerate your ass.
Yes.
They just don't want to tellyou.
Yes.
They smile and wave.
Smile and wave.
Right.
That's what I think.
Well, fuck'em.
Deal with me.
They gone.
Yeah, I True.
I think, I think, yeah.
I think I'm fine.
I have, I have no input on this.
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Can you see the camera'sshaking?
Sorry.
Okay.
That's'cause she found it sofunny.
Well, that's if you are watchingand if you're listening, you
could hear the pounding fromthis bitch.
Yeah.
Well, like I said, in otherepisodes, in our whole adult
life, you don't piss off a niceone.
I'm many people you fake likeyou're the nice one.
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That's true.
That is true.
Oh, I piss off a lot of people.
But do they not?
Do they just hold it in?
Or, or it don't really piss'emout.
I don't know.
I have a lot of, a lot when I,I'm gonna be honest with you, I
stayed up all night thinkingabout this shit, like, I mean,
not all night.
That's a little dramatic, but I,I mean, I was woke up in the
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middle of the night thinkingwhat friendships really have I
lost or relationships have Ilost because I was too honest?
I have lost a few.
Yeah, I know I've won.
I know I won for sure.
That bitch got your ass.
Listen, I'm gonna be honest andtruthful to all my friends and
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if the friend at that time isdoing shit that she shouldn't be
doing and lying, then I'm gonnabe honest and I'm gonna tell the
other friend that that's just'cause I don't like, I call
bullshit.
Bullshit.
Bullshit.
Bullshit.
Ahh bullshit.
You know what I mean?
So I'm glad you life.
You're glad I told that friendthat.
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Mm-hmm.
You know, that that happened toher, that she was lied to.
Yeah.
Right.
Well, yeah.
Yeah.
'cause that's how you should be.
Like if you, it's weird.
That's awkward to me.
Yeah.
Well what's more awkward is whenthey continue, the person who's
in the wrong continuously blamesyou for being honest about it.
Oh, probably to this day, justdon't know.
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'cause you ran them off.
I'm sure.
Ghosted.
I did Ghost somebody.
See, I really truly did.
You're so mean, bitch.
Yeah.
I don't care though.
I mean, this is the thing forme, I think that.
There's a certain degree, like Isaid in the last episode, when
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honesty is either maliciousmm-hmm.
Or a true intention to protectsomebody.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Like if I'm being honest withyou about a situation, and I'm
telling you this.
To help you to, to guard you orto, you know what I mean?
Yeah.
No, I'm not doing it to tell youto hurt you and watch you cry.
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No, you do it to me every day.
Your daughter pointed out thatyou're mean to me.
It's fine.
You wanna be honest?
You want me to be honest.
This is why we're here'cause ofthis bitch.
Well, that's always saying, doyou want me to be honest when I
ask a question?
'cause I'm petty as hell, right?
And I want, help me not, notfreak out, help you.
And you're like, well, you wannabe honest.
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Okay, but do you want me to behonest or do you want me just to
listen?
Yes, I do.
No, I do.
I really do.
Okay.
I can't listen, I'm, I mean,y'all probably figured out I
talk overtop of Cindy nonstop.
Hello.
I don't appreciate them eyes,but I am honest to a certain
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degree.
Have you ever had anybody likeghost you like Yeah.
Okay.
You did say your friend, yourfamily.
You've had a family member ghostyou?
Well, I mean ghost it, but didthey ghost it because answers
when they have to.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, I think that's just familyrelationships in general.
Okay.
But are they ghosting youbecause of your big mouth?
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Type thing.
Nope.
Friendships.
Some are hard, some aren't.
Just like relationships withyour husband, boyfriend,
girlfriend, whatever it is.
Yeah.
It's hard for you and I think tocompare, because we've been
together with our, our husband.
Mm-hmm.
Husbands.
'cause we're not the MormonsHousewives.
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We don't No, no.
This ain't mom Tok.
No.
Okay.
Yes.
Bitch, let me just tell yousomething.
This ain't no.
How do you say F truffle?
No fro ffel.
No flaw.
That's food, ain't it?
No, it's uh, th trufflethrouple.
Throuple throuple.
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This ain't no throuple.
Well, it would be a quadruple.
Quadruple because there's fourof'us.
Oh, yeah.
Like, no, no bitch.
No.
That's one thing I wouldn'ttolerate.
You ain't my friend and fuckingmy man eeks and let me find out.
No bitch.
No bitch.
You couldn't be friends.
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Can't be friends.
You can't be on this planet.
You better move.
Yeah.
to Mars.
Yeah.
I try to think that Mark hasn'tbeen with anybody but me.
I know.
I love that in you.
That's why for me, ourfriendship has survived because
you and I would never crossthose lines.
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You're a whore if you do, notyou, but whoever I'm, you are a
whore if you do but.
She called me a whore.
Bitch, you're dead if you do.
Pretty much.
Yeah.
No, I mean, it ain't ourfriendship.
It never was.
No, I agree.
I've also had a friend that Iknew was an ex of my husband's
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roll up and try to hook up withmy husband.
When he wasn't your husband, buty'all were together.
We were.
I mean, we were engaged.
Yeah.
yeeks you stupid bitch.
I don't know if y'all can tellby just listening, you getting
heated?
Yeah, you fucking with the wrongbitches, man.
So I could see that's whysomeone would end a friendship
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for sure.
I don't have any friendship thatI mourn right at all.
No.
Now, but again, I, you know,what about family members?
Yeah, I have like 32 niece andnephews, like I can't keep up
with all of them.
Yeah, don't that.
Thank you Jesus and all sistersand brothers, so much, um, that
are left here on earth.
I can't, it it's, it'd be an allday job.
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So to me, all my niece andnephews only got a few aunts and
uncles.
They reach out, reach andsometimes I reach out to them,
but I try to stay in contact.
That's why I like Facebook.
Yeah.
So I can see how they're doingand blah, blah, blah.
And I talk to'em or whatever,but.
It's a lot.
It's a lot.
Especially when I have adaughter that is, you know, is
constantly in need.
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I didn't say that of yourattention.
Okay.
I don't think she is no morethan your son is.
Who?
Who are you talking about?
I'm saving you, Brina.
No, she is high up therecompared to my son with the
need.
I mean, she's a girl.
What age?
She's gonna ghost you now.
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That's what, that's what's gonnahappen.
Well, it's funny, you can ghostme.
You live in my house.
Okay.
But she can shut the door.
She does all the time, and Iwalk right in.
But that's again, relationshipsthat you might have opened your
mouth a little too much.
Oh, I definitely have with her.
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I have with her for sure.
She just keeps putting up withthat shit from you.
No.
I, I, I'm better.
I'm way better now.
There was just a couple yearsthat, Well, I'm strong.
I have no problems, dude.
I am flying through the world.
I keep moving and moving.
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Ignoring, ignoring, ignore andignoring you.
Stop.
It's done.
Block it out.
Yep.
I think that's why sometimes Ican't.
Function.
Like my brain shuts down for aminute.
It's like, like a computer kindof goes in standby mode, but
you're always so busy orbuffering.
You like to be so busy.
I'm lazy, dude.
I have to, if my brain shutdown, I, I have to commit my
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ass.
Dude.
I, I don't even know what wouldhappen if I wasn't busy.
I, I don't get it.
I like to watch tv, watch myHousewives watch Ninety Day
Fiance I mean I do that?
I do that at like.
Throughout.
I'm multitask.
I'm a multitasker.
Yeah, but you know why?
Because you can listen to stuffand work.
Mm-hmm.
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See?
Not me.
I need full attention on myshows.
Mark walks in or somebody walksin, I pause it.
What?
What do you want?
Right?
He golly, you're so rude.
Well, he'll try to talk throughmy shows and I'll pause it.
He's like, why do you alwayspause it?
How am I supposed to payattention to what each of their
words are?
If you're talking like, I ain'tgot time for that.
I'm about to ghost his ass.
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You should.
I'm gonna ghost him.
You should Today.
Absolutely.
Today.
I'm gonna go some right afterdinner.
Oh yeah.
Yeah.
You gotta wait till he takes youout.
Yeah.
And then I'm gonna go in my roomand shut the door.
Have a couple drinks at dinnertonight and be like, I gotta go
lay down.
Yeah, I got, that's how I getoutta everything with Scott.
You gotta go lay down.
Well, I drink one and act likeI'm a lightweight and drunk.
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Yeah, I got a headache.
I don't feel good.
He is like, I'm learning stuffevery day.
Here we go.
I'd you say, leave me alone.
I'm tired.
I'm old.
See I'm tired.
It's over.
You're honest.
Yes.
When it comes to that.
Yes.
I try to protect my husband too.
'cause I told you you're abullshitter.
You bullshit.
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A bullshitter be right.
Bullshit.
You can bullshit a bullshit.
That drink is strong.
Scott gave me.
We're not drinking again.
I can't imagine the only.
I don't wanna say they onlybecause I have good friendships,
right?
I think for you and Ariane.
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Oh, we're naming names.
Oh, I don't know.
We're about to learn today.
Ariane saying you on the podcasttoday, two friendships, if you
better include Kim.
Well, because she's first ofall.
I'm gonna look away.
I hope she's, I hope this is onYouTube.
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I hope this is on.
This one is on YouTube and y'allcan see the reactions.
Don't get me laughing, dude.
Why I drank too much.
I'm just saying the deepness ofour friendships.
I know.
I was just joking.
Are, um, them would be the oneonly.
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That would be, that would hurt.
Devastating.
Yeah.
I mean, I, like I said, I haveother friendships that would be
hurt.
Yeah.
But yours and Ariane's would bethe, the worst.
You would be number one.
Worst.
She would be bad.
You're the worst.
You understand?
I, I understand.
I know it because I'm gonna tellyou this, if the reaction wasn't
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what I expected, I would makesure.
It was the worst.
Yeah.
Your Yours is the worst.
See, you're petty.
I am again.
I'm a bitch.
Yeah, we know.
But I tolerate your ass.
That's why.
Wow.
That's what we talked aboutbefore.
Why our friendship has stayed sostrong.
Because you tolerated me allthese years.
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Tolerate.
Isn't that what we said earlierin the other episode?
No, but you're now, you're beinghonest.
Keep drinking.
See what the fuck you get.
No, I'm just kidding.
I was just kidding.
That's not my honest opinion.
Back it up.
Um, no, you know why is becauseyou make me laugh so hard.
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I think because that's whatbonds, I think that's how I keep
friendships.
It should be because they'relike, she's a bitch.
But she funny I have otherfriendships that would be bad.
So.
I I I'm never losing you guys.
Where the fuck y'all going?
Nowhere.
That's what I'm saying.
I feel like we're your only twofriends.
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You know what it is though.
It's like, wow, bitch, I justgot that.
I know.
That was so good.
Um, and I, just so you know,your sister is one of my besties
too, so calm your little selfdown.
Okay.
But I'm gonna be honest withyou, if I pull out, she's
pulling out, wow.
That's how we ride in thisfamily, bro.
Kim, she ain't gonna leave melike that.
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She will you Paul Scott.
Me and Paul Scott would behanging out.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
You three, you'd be like,where'd April and Kim go?
I know.
Wow.
Did I get ghosted by both?
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
That's how we work.
Kim.
I'm sorry buddy.
Well, that just hurt myfeelings.
It doesn't hurt mine.
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We're done.
This is crazy.
Gabby, help me.
We're going Gabby, and she'ssaying she's, you deal with me,
bitch.
I deal with you.
No, I said I tolerated you.
Oh, I tolerated.
Yeah, yeah.
No, I miss spoke.
Lemme rephrase all of this.
Okay.
Because this bitch, she gone.
She gone.
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Okay.
No.
Okay, let's backtrack.
Okay.
Honestly, here we go.
Yeah, you wouldn't have Kim nomore.
Honest truth.
I was trying to be, you see howI was trying to be sincere?
Saying I was.
Oh, how devastating me.
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Yeah, but no, fuck up.
No, I drop you like a badfucking habit.
I'm just kidding.
I'm still pulling up in here andworking.
That's every day.
I know.
I'm like, uh, you on the clock?
Okay.
You can come in the dogs like menow.
Well,'cause I need you.
Wow.
That's, that's why you.
Wow.
Okay.
That sounds a little, shit'sgetting real in here.
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I thought you said earlier I wasthe nice one.
You're not the nice one.
I fake like I am.
You're, yes.
Okay.
So you see, I'm, I'm listen toyour own podcast.
I'm, I'm a, on the surface, likeI'm blunt and blah, blah, blah,
blah, blah.
You hold it in and then bam,bam.
Oh yeah.
Shots fired.
Shots fired.
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Yes.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I agree.
Let's skip friendships'causethis friendship's fucking over.
What was the topic of thisconversation?
Awkward moments, friendshipsthat hurt blocking that bitch.
Right now that's not funny.
I'd be checking my Facebook.
Mm-hmm.
I Have you ever blocked anybodyon Facebook?
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Yeah, one person.
You have?
One person.
But then I unblocked them later.
Really?
I warned them.
Yeah.
I'm gonna block you if you keepposting this stuff.
Right, right.
Because you're on social mediaand you're saying stuff.
I'm married.
Yeah.
Been with my husband years.
Nobody wants to talk about whoyou've been with and what it was
like and dah, dah, dah.
And my sister and her con keptcommenting on the same, um, the
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same post.
Right.
And they kept commenting on it,talking about something in the
past, and I kept saying, Hey,hey guys.
Hey guys.
Hey guys.
And then finally I sent them amessage, said, I'm gonna block
you if you keep doing that.
'cause I mean, their future,their wives was on there.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because your husband's not onthere.
Who, he's not gonna to see it,but Yeah.
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But I still don't wanna talkabout that stuff's respect.
Respect, yeah.
I'm not disrespecting myhusband.
Like even though I curse him outevery day, that's still that
there's things I'm not, I don'twanna talk about that.
Yeah.
And they keep throwing it outthere.
Throwing it out there.
So I warned her.
She thought it was funny, so Iblocked her, but I didn't block
my sister.
Well, I should.
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She's lucky.
I mean, you should, but shestopped talking'cause she knew
how serious it was.
Right.
And then eventually the wifesaid, sorry, we can't be friends
no more within a month.
So she saw it all.
Yeah.
Like I knew she would.
So I guess I did get.
Got you.
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So I guess I did.
See, it takes a minute for youto realize.
And it wasn't my fault though.
No.
Like nobody's talking aboutthat.
Stop talking about it.
Yeah.
Oh, remember when?
Cindy?
Remember, right.
Like, right.
Right.
Why are you doing that whenyou're on social media like
that?
That's why I say there's certainthings that can withstand.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Like you and I can banter aboutshit and we can talk, but we
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would never cut deep.
No, except for a few minutesago.
But it's fine.
I'm not, she's not harboring anyfeelings.
I'm petty.
Just remember the pettiness.
I'm gonna pay for this lady.
Sure is.
It's okay.
Gabby's watching.
She'll help me out.
I'm gonna have to hear from heragain.
Why are you so mean?
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Yep.
So anyway.
Yeah.
That, that did happen to me.
I just remembered that.
Yeah.
See, but it wasn't my, uh, myfault.
Hm.
It wasn't, I'm just kidding.
I kept saying, stop guys.
Stop guys.
Right.
Hey, what else can I do?
Yeah.
Shit.
I think you should have removedthe post.
Blocked them both.
It wasn't my post.
They tagged me in the post.
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It was the other.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And kept talking about it, so.
Right.
It wasn't my post.
I would, I even said, you know,his girlfriend or wife or
whatever's on.
Right.
All of our Facebooks, why areyou doing that?
Right.
And they thought it was funny.
Well, that's disrespectful dude.
I wish a bitch would talk shitabout Scott on Oh my God.
Say something stupid, dude.
I would be so mad.
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This is the difference though.
See, I'm not gonna get you onFacebook.
'cause that's petty to me.
That's, that's like baby backbitch games.
I don't play that game.
You gonna text him?
I'm gonna show up at your door.
What they ain't in your state.
I'm flying to upstate.
I'll go with you.
Here's the thing, the luxury ofbeing me, being from outta state
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is that ain't none of my exesaround this town.
Yeah, that's true.
But all his so sorry ladies, saysome stupid shit.
Got I show up on your doorstep.
I, I don't got a lot of exits,so I don't care.
I mean, Scott, uh, Scott's got alot, but.
They in the past, he ain't eventhinking about that bitch Mark.
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has none that.
He's never been with anyone,ever, ever immaculate
conception.
Yep.
He didn't have no kids beforeme.
That was God's dorm.
'cause God knew I could not dealwith that.
Mm-hmm.
Mm mm.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
That's another conversation.
It's for another episode.
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Yep.
But anyway, so, so friendships,this is over.
Um, stay tuned for the nextepisode.
I'll be at my own house.
We'll be zooming from differentlocations.
Yeah.
And probably have our ownpodcast.
I gotta be better friends withKim, is what I heard.
Well, yeah, yeah.
Pretty much.
You might wanna figure thatsituation out.
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I need to, you threw me underthe bus like 16 times again.
Sorry.
Um, yeah.
Well, I mean, it is what it is.,We're gonna try doing some
different little, games like wedid on, or questions, whatever,
a drinking game.
We are gonna do a live event.
Oh.
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I'm not good live, just talk.
She just found out.
We are, I'm, I'm planning a liveevent on TikTok.
Probably in, I would say acouple weeks, right around like,
uh, mid-June.
Okay.
Um, hopefully I'll be there ifI'm invited.
If we're still friends.
Yeah.
If I didn't block her I ass bythen I might ghost her.
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But anyway, so that's what whatI'm planning is a live event on
TikTok.
We'll have a couple differentpeople show up.
Some family members.
Mm.
Uhhuh we're gonna do some hottakes.
Um, what's a hot take?
I love you.
What is a hot take?
A hot take is like if I saysomething, your, your immediate
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response.
Ain't that what we doing now?
No, this is not.
Okay, hot takes are coming.
Like hot cake.
Hot taste.
She hungry.
Oh.
Anyway, so today's episode wasfun.
Yes.
Um, all you people that are outthere listening, that, uh, used
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to be my friend.
Sorry.
Used to be my friend.
I still got all my friends.
I don't, and it's okay.
And we know why.
Um, but I am looking for newfriends, as you can see
instantly.
At any point.
Feel free, you know, hit us upon TikTok.
Yes, Facebook, Instagram, followus.
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Um, we look forward to you guysand this relationship expanding.
Yes.
So it's been fun today.
Bye guys.
See you next time.
Today's episode is FriendshipBreakups Hurt More Than Real
(00:04):
Ones Sometimes, for sure.
It depends on who it is.
Yeah, in my opinion.
Yeah.
I mean, like if me and Scottbroke up, that would hurt way
worse than any of them bitches.
I don't talk to no more.
There's a couple of them.
Well, for sure, but I, I mean, Imust be perfect because fuck me.
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God, we could all walk in aperfect life of Cindy.
I, I, Mark says Cindy will tellyou when you're in pain.
When you're not in pain, she'lltell you.
I just feel like, um, you'reperfect.
Well, I wouldn't say I'mperfect, but I really haven't
lost any friendships.
I outgrown one and then cut offthe other, but.
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I know what happened with therest.
They tolerate your ass.
Yes.
They just don't want to tellyou.
Yes.
They smile and wave.
Smile and wave.
Right.
That's what I think.
Well, fuck'em.
Deal with me.
They gone.
Yeah, I True.
I think, I think, yeah.
I think I'm fine.
I have, I have no input on this.
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Can you see the camera'sshaking?
Sorry.
Okay.
That's'cause she found it sofunny.
Well, that's if you are watchingand if you're listening, you
could hear the pounding fromthis bitch.
Yeah.
Well, like I said, in otherepisodes, in our whole adult
life, you don't piss off a niceone.
I'm many people you fake likeyou're the nice one.
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That's true.
That is true.
Oh, I piss off a lot of people.
But do they not?
Do they just hold it in?
Or, or it don't really piss'emout.
I don't know.
I have a lot of, a lot when I,I'm gonna be honest with you, I
stayed up all night thinkingabout this shit, like, I mean,
not all night.
That's a little dramatic, but I,I mean, I was woke up in the
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middle of the night thinkingwhat friendships really have I
lost or relationships have Ilost because I was too honest?
I have lost a few.
Yeah, I know I've won.
I know I won for sure.
That bitch got your ass.
Listen, I'm gonna be honest andtruthful to all my friends and
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if the friend at that time isdoing shit that she shouldn't be
doing and lying, then I'm gonnabe honest and I'm gonna tell the
other friend that that's just'cause I don't like, I call
bullshit.
Bullshit.
Bullshit.
Bullshit.
Ahh bullshit.
You know what I mean?
So I'm glad you life.
You're glad I told that friendthat.
(02:44):
Mm-hmm.
You know, that that happened toher, that she was lied to.
Yeah.
Right.
Well, yeah.
Yeah.
'cause that's how you should be.
Like if you, it's weird.
That's awkward to me.
Yeah.
Well what's more awkward is whenthey continue, the person who's
in the wrong continuously blamesyou for being honest about it.
Oh, probably to this day, justdon't know.
(03:05):
'cause you ran them off.
I'm sure.
Ghosted.
I did Ghost somebody.
See, I really truly did.
You're so mean, bitch.
Yeah.
I don't care though.
I mean, this is the thing forme, I think that.
There's a certain degree, like Isaid in the last episode, when
(03:29):
honesty is either maliciousmm-hmm.
Or a true intention to protectsomebody.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Like if I'm being honest withyou about a situation, and I'm
telling you this.
To help you to, to guard you orto, you know what I mean?
Yeah.
No, I'm not doing it to tell youto hurt you and watch you cry.
(03:50):
No, you do it to me every day.
Your daughter pointed out thatyou're mean to me.
It's fine.
You wanna be honest?
You want me to be honest.
This is why we're here'cause ofthis bitch.
Well, that's always saying, doyou want me to be honest when I
ask a question?
'cause I'm petty as hell, right?
And I want, help me not, notfreak out, help you.
And you're like, well, you wannabe honest.
(04:12):
Okay, but do you want me to behonest or do you want me just to
listen?
Yes, I do.
No, I do.
I really do.
Okay.
I can't listen, I'm, I mean,y'all probably figured out I
talk overtop of Cindy nonstop.
Hello.
I don't appreciate them eyes,but I am honest to a certain
(04:34):
degree.
Have you ever had anybody likeghost you like Yeah.
Okay.
You did say your friend, yourfamily.
You've had a family member ghostyou?
Well, I mean ghost it, but didthey ghost it because answers
when they have to.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, I think that's just familyrelationships in general.
Okay.
But are they ghosting youbecause of your big mouth?
(04:58):
Type thing.
Nope.
Friendships.
Some are hard, some aren't.
Just like relationships withyour husband, boyfriend,
girlfriend, whatever it is.
Yeah.
It's hard for you and I think tocompare, because we've been
together with our, our husband.
Mm-hmm.
Husbands.
'cause we're not the MormonsHousewives.
(05:18):
We don't No, no.
This ain't mom Tok.
No.
Okay.
Yes.
Bitch, let me just tell yousomething.
This ain't no.
How do you say F truffle?
No fro ffel.
No flaw.
That's food, ain't it?
No, it's uh, th trufflethrouple.
Throuple throuple.
(05:39):
This ain't no throuple.
Well, it would be a quadruple.
Quadruple because there's fourof'us.
Oh, yeah.
Like, no, no bitch.
No.
That's one thing I wouldn'ttolerate.
You ain't my friend and fuckingmy man eeks and let me find out.
No bitch.
No bitch.
You couldn't be friends.
(05:59):
Can't be friends.
You can't be on this planet.
You better move.
Yeah.
to Mars.
Yeah.
I try to think that Mark hasn'tbeen with anybody but me.
I know.
I love that in you.
That's why for me, ourfriendship has survived because
you and I would never crossthose lines.
(06:20):
You're a whore if you do, notyou, but whoever I'm, you are a
whore if you do but.
She called me a whore.
Bitch, you're dead if you do.
Pretty much.
Yeah.
No, I mean, it ain't ourfriendship.
It never was.
No, I agree.
I've also had a friend that Iknew was an ex of my husband's
(06:44):
roll up and try to hook up withmy husband.
When he wasn't your husband, buty'all were together.
We were.
I mean, we were engaged.
Yeah.
yeeks you stupid bitch.
I don't know if y'all can tellby just listening, you getting
heated?
Yeah, you fucking with the wrongbitches, man.
So I could see that's whysomeone would end a friendship
(07:07):
for sure.
I don't have any friendship thatI mourn right at all.
No.
Now, but again, I, you know,what about family members?
Yeah, I have like 32 niece andnephews, like I can't keep up
with all of them.
Yeah, don't that.
Thank you Jesus and all sistersand brothers, so much, um, that
are left here on earth.
I can't, it it's, it'd be an allday job.
(07:28):
So to me, all my niece andnephews only got a few aunts and
uncles.
They reach out, reach andsometimes I reach out to them,
but I try to stay in contact.
That's why I like Facebook.
Yeah.
So I can see how they're doingand blah, blah, blah.
And I talk to'em or whatever,but.
It's a lot.
It's a lot.
Especially when I have adaughter that is, you know, is
constantly in need.
(07:51):
I didn't say that of yourattention.
Okay.
I don't think she is no morethan your son is.
Who?
Who are you talking about?
I'm saving you, Brina.
No, she is high up therecompared to my son with the
need.
I mean, she's a girl.
What age?
She's gonna ghost you now.
(08:11):
That's what, that's what's gonnahappen.
Well, it's funny, you can ghostme.
You live in my house.
Okay.
But she can shut the door.
She does all the time, and Iwalk right in.
But that's again, relationshipsthat you might have opened your
mouth a little too much.
Oh, I definitely have with her.
(08:31):
I have with her for sure.
She just keeps putting up withthat shit from you.
No.
I, I, I'm better.
I'm way better now.
There was just a couple yearsthat, Well, I'm strong.
I have no problems, dude.
I am flying through the world.
I keep moving and moving.
(08:51):
Ignoring, ignoring, ignore andignoring you.
Stop.
It's done.
Block it out.
Yep.
I think that's why sometimes Ican't.
Function.
Like my brain shuts down for aminute.
It's like, like a computer kindof goes in standby mode, but
you're always so busy orbuffering.
You like to be so busy.
I'm lazy, dude.
I have to, if my brain shutdown, I, I have to commit my
(09:14):
ass.
Dude.
I, I don't even know what wouldhappen if I wasn't busy.
I, I don't get it.
I like to watch tv, watch myHousewives watch Ninety Day
Fiance I mean I do that?
I do that at like.
Throughout.
I'm multitask.
I'm a multitasker.
Yeah, but you know why?
Because you can listen to stuffand work.
Mm-hmm.
(09:35):
See?
Not me.
I need full attention on myshows.
Mark walks in or somebody walksin, I pause it.
What?
What do you want?
Right?
He golly, you're so rude.
Well, he'll try to talk throughmy shows and I'll pause it.
He's like, why do you alwayspause it?
How am I supposed to payattention to what each of their
words are?
If you're talking like, I ain'tgot time for that.
I'm about to ghost his ass.
(09:57):
You should.
I'm gonna ghost him.
You should Today.
Absolutely.
Today.
I'm gonna go some right afterdinner.
Oh yeah.
Yeah.
You gotta wait till he takes youout.
Yeah.
And then I'm gonna go in my roomand shut the door.
Have a couple drinks at dinnertonight and be like, I gotta go
lay down.
Yeah, I got, that's how I getoutta everything with Scott.
You gotta go lay down.
Well, I drink one and act likeI'm a lightweight and drunk.
(10:21):
Yeah, I got a headache.
I don't feel good.
He is like, I'm learning stuffevery day.
Here we go.
I'd you say, leave me alone.
I'm tired.
I'm old.
See I'm tired.
It's over.
You're honest.
Yes.
When it comes to that.
Yes.
I try to protect my husband too.
'cause I told you you're abullshitter.
You bullshit.
(10:41):
A bullshitter be right.
Bullshit.
You can bullshit a bullshit.
That drink is strong.
Scott gave me.
We're not drinking again.
I can't imagine the only.
I don't wanna say they onlybecause I have good friendships,
right?
I think for you and Ariane.
(11:04):
Oh, we're naming names.
Oh, I don't know.
We're about to learn today.
Ariane saying you on the podcasttoday, two friendships, if you
better include Kim.
Well, because she's first ofall.
I'm gonna look away.
I hope she's, I hope this is onYouTube.
(11:24):
I hope this is on.
This one is on YouTube and y'allcan see the reactions.
Don't get me laughing, dude.
Why I drank too much.
I'm just saying the deepness ofour friendships.
I know.
I was just joking.
Are, um, them would be the oneonly.
(11:45):
That would be, that would hurt.
Devastating.
Yeah.
I mean, I, like I said, I haveother friendships that would be
hurt.
Yeah.
But yours and Ariane's would bethe, the worst.
You would be number one.
Worst.
She would be bad.
You're the worst.
You understand?
I, I understand.
I know it because I'm gonna tellyou this, if the reaction wasn't
(12:09):
what I expected, I would makesure.
It was the worst.
Yeah.
Your Yours is the worst.
See, you're petty.
I am again.
I'm a bitch.
Yeah, we know.
But I tolerate your ass.
That's why.
Wow.
That's what we talked aboutbefore.
Why our friendship has stayed sostrong.
Because you tolerated me allthese years.
(12:32):
Tolerate.
Isn't that what we said earlierin the other episode?
No, but you're now, you're beinghonest.
Keep drinking.
See what the fuck you get.
No, I'm just kidding.
I was just kidding.
That's not my honest opinion.
Back it up.
Um, no, you know why is becauseyou make me laugh so hard.
(12:54):
I think because that's whatbonds, I think that's how I keep
friendships.
It should be because they'relike, she's a bitch.
But she funny I have otherfriendships that would be bad.
So.
I I I'm never losing you guys.
Where the fuck y'all going?
Nowhere.
That's what I'm saying.
I feel like we're your only twofriends.
(13:14):
You know what it is though.
It's like, wow, bitch, I justgot that.
I know.
That was so good.
Um, and I, just so you know,your sister is one of my besties
too, so calm your little selfdown.
Okay.
But I'm gonna be honest withyou, if I pull out, she's
pulling out, wow.
That's how we ride in thisfamily, bro.
Kim, she ain't gonna leave melike that.
(13:34):
She will you Paul Scott.
Me and Paul Scott would behanging out.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
You three, you'd be like,where'd April and Kim go?
I know.
Wow.
Did I get ghosted by both?
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
That's how we work.
Kim.
I'm sorry buddy.
Well, that just hurt myfeelings.
It doesn't hurt mine.
(14:00):
We're done.
This is crazy.
Gabby, help me.
We're going Gabby, and she'ssaying she's, you deal with me,
bitch.
I deal with you.
No, I said I tolerated you.
Oh, I tolerated.
Yeah, yeah.
No, I miss spoke.
Lemme rephrase all of this.
Okay.
Because this bitch, she gone.
She gone.
(14:20):
Okay.
No.
Okay, let's backtrack.
Okay.
Honestly, here we go.
Yeah, you wouldn't have Kim nomore.
Honest truth.
I was trying to be, you see howI was trying to be sincere?
Saying I was.
Oh, how devastating me.
(14:40):
Yeah, but no, fuck up.
No, I drop you like a badfucking habit.
I'm just kidding.
I'm still pulling up in here andworking.
That's every day.
I know.
I'm like, uh, you on the clock?
Okay.
You can come in the dogs like menow.
Well,'cause I need you.
Wow.
That's, that's why you.
Wow.
Okay.
That sounds a little, shit'sgetting real in here.
(15:03):
I thought you said earlier I wasthe nice one.
You're not the nice one.
I fake like I am.
You're, yes.
Okay.
So you see, I'm, I'm listen toyour own podcast.
I'm, I'm a, on the surface, likeI'm blunt and blah, blah, blah,
blah, blah.
You hold it in and then bam,bam.
Oh yeah.
Shots fired.
Shots fired.
(15:24):
Yes.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I agree.
Let's skip friendships'causethis friendship's fucking over.
What was the topic of thisconversation?
Awkward moments, friendshipsthat hurt blocking that bitch.
Right now that's not funny.
I'd be checking my Facebook.
Mm-hmm.
I Have you ever blocked anybodyon Facebook?
(15:47):
Yeah, one person.
You have?
One person.
But then I unblocked them later.
Really?
I warned them.
Yeah.
I'm gonna block you if you keepposting this stuff.
Right, right.
Because you're on social mediaand you're saying stuff.
I'm married.
Yeah.
Been with my husband years.
Nobody wants to talk about whoyou've been with and what it was
like and dah, dah, dah.
And my sister and her con keptcommenting on the same, um, the
(16:15):
same post.
Right.
And they kept commenting on it,talking about something in the
past, and I kept saying, Hey,hey guys.
Hey guys.
Hey guys.
And then finally I sent them amessage, said, I'm gonna block
you if you keep doing that.
'cause I mean, their future,their wives was on there.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because your husband's not onthere.
Who, he's not gonna to see it,but Yeah.
(16:36):
But I still don't wanna talkabout that stuff's respect.
Respect, yeah.
I'm not disrespecting myhusband.
Like even though I curse him outevery day, that's still that
there's things I'm not, I don'twanna talk about that.
Yeah.
And they keep throwing it outthere.
Throwing it out there.
So I warned her.
She thought it was funny, so Iblocked her, but I didn't block
my sister.
Well, I should.
(16:57):
She's lucky.
I mean, you should, but shestopped talking'cause she knew
how serious it was.
Right.
And then eventually the wifesaid, sorry, we can't be friends
no more within a month.
So she saw it all.
Yeah.
Like I knew she would.
So I guess I did get.
Got you.
(17:17):
So I guess I did.
See, it takes a minute for youto realize.
And it wasn't my fault though.
No.
Like nobody's talking aboutthat.
Stop talking about it.
Yeah.
Oh, remember when?
Cindy?
Remember, right.
Like, right.
Right.
Why are you doing that whenyou're on social media like
that?
That's why I say there's certainthings that can withstand.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Like you and I can banter aboutshit and we can talk, but we
(17:41):
would never cut deep.
No, except for a few minutesago.
But it's fine.
I'm not, she's not harboring anyfeelings.
I'm petty.
Just remember the pettiness.
I'm gonna pay for this lady.
Sure is.
It's okay.
Gabby's watching.
She'll help me out.
I'm gonna have to hear from heragain.
Why are you so mean?
(18:01):
Yep.
So anyway.
Yeah.
That, that did happen to me.
I just remembered that.
Yeah.
See, but it wasn't my, uh, myfault.
Hm.
It wasn't, I'm just kidding.
I kept saying, stop guys.
Stop guys.
Right.
Hey, what else can I do?
Yeah.
Shit.
I think you should have removedthe post.
Blocked them both.
It wasn't my post.
They tagged me in the post.
(18:22):
It was the other.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And kept talking about it, so.
Right.
It wasn't my post.
I would, I even said, you know,his girlfriend or wife or
whatever's on.
Right.
All of our Facebooks, why areyou doing that?
Right.
And they thought it was funny.
Well, that's disrespectful dude.
I wish a bitch would talk shitabout Scott on Oh my God.
Say something stupid, dude.
I would be so mad.
(18:43):
This is the difference though.
See, I'm not gonna get you onFacebook.
'cause that's petty to me.
That's, that's like baby backbitch games.
I don't play that game.
You gonna text him?
I'm gonna show up at your door.
What they ain't in your state.
I'm flying to upstate.
I'll go with you.
Here's the thing, the luxury ofbeing me, being from outta state
(19:05):
is that ain't none of my exesaround this town.
Yeah, that's true.
But all his so sorry ladies, saysome stupid shit.
Got I show up on your doorstep.
I, I don't got a lot of exits,so I don't care.
I mean, Scott, uh, Scott's got alot, but.
They in the past, he ain't eventhinking about that bitch Mark.
(19:26):
has none that.
He's never been with anyone,ever, ever immaculate
conception.
Yep.
He didn't have no kids beforeme.
That was God's dorm.
'cause God knew I could not dealwith that.
Mm-hmm.
Mm mm.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
That's another conversation.
It's for another episode.
(19:47):
Yep.
But anyway, so, so friendships,this is over.
Um, stay tuned for the nextepisode.
I'll be at my own house.
We'll be zooming from differentlocations.
Yeah.
And probably have our ownpodcast.
I gotta be better friends withKim, is what I heard.
Well, yeah, yeah.
Pretty much.
You might wanna figure thatsituation out.
(20:09):
I need to, you threw me underthe bus like 16 times again.
Sorry.
Um, yeah.
Well, I mean, it is what it is.,We're gonna try doing some
different little, games like wedid on, or questions, whatever,
a drinking game.
We are gonna do a live event.
Oh.
(20:30):
I'm not good live, just talk.
She just found out.
We are, I'm, I'm planning a liveevent on TikTok.
Probably in, I would say acouple weeks, right around like,
uh, mid-June.
Okay.
Um, hopefully I'll be there ifI'm invited.
If we're still friends.
Yeah.
If I didn't block her I ass bythen I might ghost her.
(20:54):
But anyway, so that's what whatI'm planning is a live event on
TikTok.
We'll have a couple differentpeople show up.
Some family members.
Mm.
Uhhuh we're gonna do some hottakes.
Um, what's a hot take?
I love you.
What is a hot take?
A hot take is like if I saysomething, your, your immediate
(21:14):
response.
Ain't that what we doing now?
No, this is not.
Okay, hot takes are coming.
Like hot cake.
Hot taste.
She hungry.
Oh.
Anyway, so today's episode wasfun.
Yes.
Um, all you people that are outthere listening, that, uh, used
(21:37):
to be my friend.
Sorry.
Used to be my friend.
I still got all my friends.
I don't, and it's okay.
And we know why.
Um, but I am looking for newfriends, as you can see
instantly.
At any point.
Feel free, you know, hit us upon TikTok.
Yes, Facebook, Instagram, followus.
(21:58):
Um, we look forward to you guysand this relationship expanding.
Yes.
So it's been fun today.
Bye guys.
See you next time.
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